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I Think My Family Dislikes Me

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    Totally Disfunctional - "I know my family dislikes me"   When I was a child, small. I had three brothers. One-the youngest had a different dad. Our dad was an...
    Aloneforalltime Aloneforalltime 41-45 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    Family Dislikes Me - My family hates me since i spend so much time with my grandma than anyone even more than her 5 daughters. They thonk i am trying to replace their dead brother...
    Tygerboi Tygerboi 16-17 Apr 6, 2012

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    Stand Alone Complex - my mother and brother have always ganged up on me. my parents divorced when i was young and i have always been a daddy's girl. in the beginning he was not the...
    pariah pariah 26-30, F Oct 8, 2007

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    Disliked By My Family. - Ever since I can remember, my sisters have always been better then me in my father's eyes. And when I ask my mom why that is she says "Well, what do...
    keniakittykat keniakittykat 18-21, F Aug 22, 2009

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    Fam - I know most of my family dislikes me. I am the real black sheep around here. I have my brother, and sister for now. Those two are all I really care for in this family.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Oct 18, 2010

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    Total Outcast - Ok so i know my family dislike's me and think's im weird becouse i have real hooby's not smocking weed and having sex all the time.I put a smile on my face everyday...
    WhySoSadBoi WhySoSadBoi 13-15 Aug 26, 2012

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    Outcast - i have always been different from the rest of my family and i think that is why i get pushed around alot my sister tells me all tha time to leave and never come back my...
    lovestexas lovestexas 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    Everyone is against me, its all my fault. Some how an innocent little girl ruined a family. Give me a break!! Cant wait to get away once I'm old enough, or once someone takes me...
    Laceyss Laceyss 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I hate my family asking me any type of questions about my day or life. I hate the hassle that comes along with out. The few friends I once had stopped associating with me after I...
    kenrin kenrin 26-30, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I care to much about what people think about me. I'm constantly paranoid that everybody secretly dislikes me.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333 16-17, F Mar 27

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    I've often been told that I am "weird" and "unusual". I take this to mean I am interesting. I say weird things and I do have an interesting perspective on things. I take a new look...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    It's easy to point at my mother as the "bad guy" out of my parents. After all, she was the one who was constantly yelling, cussing at us, saying she hated us and wanted to leave us...
    mindofmaster mindofmaster 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    "Family means people who love you simply because you are" my granny always says. When I was younger, I couldn't wrap my head around it - family means you're related to someone...
    SamHardy92 SamHardy92 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I would say this has been the case for most of my life ..okay when I was a child between the ages of zero to eighteen then its mandatory you need you family that surround of family...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm 23 and I've been married 10 months to the man I've been dating since I was 15. We've been together for 7 years. What makes this situation so hard is that there is nothing...
    Gingerness7 Gingerness7 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am an only child and 47. My parents and grandparents have passed away. I have 2 elderly aunts that I have seen possibly 10 times in my life who live 800 miles away. I am married...
    SCRich SCRich 46-50, M Mar 27

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    I find it challenging to be honest with my family because I am different from them and I think differently than them. I know that my family judges atheists, and political liberals...
    Growlin Growlin 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Blood is one bond we can not break. It's essential for health reasons or to understand the history of how you got here. Blood relation can also lend a sense of belonging in the...
    warp9pnt9 warp9pnt9 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 30

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    My fake name is kobochibi. I'm female, 26 y.o from Indonesia.I'm from a broken home family. One month after my mother passed away (2006), I ran from home because my father re...
    kobochibi kobochibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    I have a step family from my step dad. They have a lil high nose. They are germans. My dad's mother is 94 still strong and the father is 88. Since i came here in Oz, they want me...
    Kaaaaaaaamm Kaaaaaaaamm 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I've recently read that a lot of people have difficulty understanding why people in an abusive family/relationship just don't leave the abuser. I understand why they think so...
    imprintedme imprintedme 22-25, F Mar 24

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    Rosa Cisneros Peña (My Grandmother) My Grandmother was an extremely religious woman. She loved to sit in the evening and read her Bible. Some said that she knew the Bible so...
    wvtxpen wvtxpen 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 30

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    It seems very hard for SOME people to differentiate between family and family. I have said numerous times that im sad because I want my own family and I feel alone and incomplete...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I recently joined this community in hopes to get many things off my chest, and hopefully get some positivity from anyone who’s willing to listen. My name is Zach and I’m 19...
    Zach001 Zach001 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I want to create a new religion. It will not be a religion in the classic way, rather it will not claim an existence of an omnipotent super-natural being. It will teach it's...
    krool1969 krool1969 41-45, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Friday. The dead have all the knowledge. That thought crossed my mind this morning as I was heading into work. Having recently lost a friend to cancer, I guess I've been thinking...
    samedeepwater samedeepwater 46-50, M 3 hrs ago

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    I know I'm only young but I have such a complex and weird personality that I don't think that anyone can match. I change my mind and I'm really unstable. My friends have given...
    stomparound stomparound 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    i see everyone im my community with.4wheelers and no of them have good grades they dont have to pay for their food nor clothes or gas but i do i have to worry about if im going to...
    crow2787 crow2787 13-15 Mar 19

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    Spiritual Self-AssessmentThe purpose of this activity is to help you in identifying a sense of your spirituality. There are no “right” or “wrong” answers...
    WilliamC WilliamC 61-65, M Apr 6

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    I don't mean this in a negative sense... I mean that my friends at school are like family to me. For some reason, I'm far more comfortable talking to them about anything than I am...
    EponymousAnonymous EponymousAnonymous 13-15 1 Response Apr 7

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    I don't want to sound overly sensitive, but this is something that has been eating away at me for a long time. Being in the Media Age where everyone is tuned into the lives of...
    SagittariusBlunt SagittariusBlunt 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I watched a rerun episode of an old-time favorite TV series yesterday. In it, a radical animal-loving vegan had gone to stay with a family who happily eats meat, because she couldn...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Death is actually a more unifying force within family than love and this is a mind-blowing concept. These are the words that i never forget from the film another happy day because...
    kar9 kar9 26-30, F Mar 29

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    My mother in law is mean. My sisters in laws are just as crazy as her. The rest of his family is weird, too. I am beginning to think my husband is no good for me either. Maybe...
    tiredofit44 tiredofit44 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    When does one's duty to our parents end? Sometimes, I just want to be done with my family totally. Is that it? Do I only call my mother out of a sense of duty? Because I can't say...
    CRGenes CRGenes 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Okay so to start off I am 17 years old. My mother passed away from an overdose when I was 10 and my father is still an avid cocaine addict. When my mom passed away my sister who...
    coolbeansdani coolbeansdani 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I cleaned out my parent's (mom and step dad) attic since neither are able to physically get into the space. I found some old videos of family vacation from my deceased father, mom...
    thislittlejourney thislittlejourney 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    Most of my family members are alcoholics and/or addicts. I haven't seen most of them for over 20 years and basically have no contact with them ever except an occasional...
    blessedmess blessedmess 41-45, F Mar 27

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    I read an article a while ago and I just am amazed at how smart crows are and how family-oriented they are. The comments people knowledgeable of crows and who have crows left very...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I grew up with my dad. Mum and 4 brothers. I have been looking after my three youngest there whole lives. My dad abused me some as a child an blamed me for things I didn't do...
    hayzkid hayzkid 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    they are great,but what i have found out recently that when you get in to other cultures and races ,ive just went through that recently and it can be very lonely at times and...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Ever since my younger siblings were born I knew there was a sudden shift in attention. I didn't mind, I knew it was because they were younger and thus needed more care. It didn't...
    Akiakane Akiakane 18-21 Apr 6

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    My family is basically all I have in this world. I have some friends but they are not very close, and the closest friend I do have only comes around when he's feelin bored being...
    DaftPnk DaftPnk 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    At this point, I don’t see how important it is to keep in touch with my mother. She always got hurtful things to say to me and she’s not there for me when times are rough or...
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    No one here in this family gets me, I'm tired of being the black sheep of my family. I'm so tired of being picked on, or the reason why all the bad things happen and most of all...
    imanonwriter imanonwriter 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I feel like a lot of women with sisters are able to be close with each other. Not the case with my sisters.. I'm not sure why I got to be so unlucky in this department, it's...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    People think it's weird and judge me and my brother just because we have never had a fight. It's just not possible his my Bestfriend ! I'm 18 his 21 and our whole life we have...
    Sammi1597 Sammi1597 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I do think i will always be alone because i tend to get overlookd for girls who are more outgoing and flirt
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Always saying and thinking that, but it's not true, sadly.
    AReallyNiceGuy AReallyNiceGuy 13-15, M 1 hr ago