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I Think My Family Dislikes Me

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    Stand Alone Complex

    my mother and brother have always ganged up on me. my parents divorced when i was young and i have always been a daddy's girl. in the beginning he was not the best father and he was into the fast life way to hard. drinking, drugging, women, gambling, all of that. he used to break...
    pariah pariah 26-30, F Oct 8, 2007

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    Total Outcast

    Ok so i know my family dislike's me and think's im weird becouse i have real hooby's not smocking weed and having sex all the time.I put a smile on my face everyday i wake up, yet by the time the family's up it's a perminant frown.They never have nothing ce to say to me and awaly...
    WhySoSadBoi WhySoSadBoi 13-15 Aug 26, 2012

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    Fam

    I know most of my family dislikes me. I am the real black sheep around here. I have my brother, and sister for now. Those two are all I really care for in this family.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Oct 18, 2010

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    Disliked By My Family.

    Ever since I can remember, my sisters have always been better then me in my father's eyes. And when I ask my mom why that is she says "Well, what do you expect me to do about it?" a few months back I ran into the dinner table because I heard my phone ring. i hurt my arm...
    keniakittykat keniakittykat 18-21, F Aug 22, 2009

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    Outcast

    i have always been different from the rest of my family and i think that is why i get pushed around alot my sister tells me all tha time to leave and never come back my mother tells me that she is fixing to give up hope of me what they dont know it that i try my hardest to be the...
    lovestexas lovestexas 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    Sad

    I know my famiy dislikes me. They always have something to say about what I do, and its always negative. I love and respect them and It hurts me when I know theyre talking about me, but I still love and look up to them. They judge me for decisions I made, but they dont realize I...
    sexyceecee sexyceecee 26-30, F 4 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Totally Disfunctional

    "I know my family dislikes me"   When I was a child, small. I had three brothers. One-the youngest had a different dad. Our dad was an acoholic and spent alot of time in the pen. My Mother and us lived with her parents. Our grandfather was a wonderful, gentle...
    Aloneforalltime Aloneforalltime 41-45 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    Family Dislikes Me

    My family hates me since i spend so much time with my grandma than anyone even more than her 5 daughters. They thonk i am trying to replace their dead brother michael . Some.aunts dont talk to me n dont like becuase my lighter skin color. Tgey gotten over the skin part but i...
    Tygerboi Tygerboi 16-17 Apr 6, 2012

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    I used to think family was very important when I thought I had a great family. I still think family is important, I think everyone needs a family. It gets so hard and lonely...
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    My family is not like the other families it torn apart and they never get along especially with me but in life all the support you need is yours.. Believe in yourself and nothing...
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    What if your so called family is one of the worst things in ur life , they fill you up with anger and misery and all you do is be quiet about it but what if you get to the point...
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    I don't even know where to start mainly because all my life I've been an outcast. When I was young my real father left me and so my mom worked a lot to keep food on the table and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    My experience is one that both came as a shock, and in some weird way, a confirmation of the fears I've always had regarding my parents and their conditional love of me. I've...
    Kaleesto Kaleesto 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ian always thinking. It's good and bad. I think thru almost all I do and I've come to terms that whatever happens it happens for a reason. In a relationship for almost four reasons...
    flipflop2o flipflop2o 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    When it gets dark and my world seems to stand still my mind races. I think of all the things I have tried not to think of during the day and there's no more distractions to get rid...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    timboslice42 timboslice42 13-15, M 9 hrs ago

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    CaptainXeno CaptainXeno 31-35, F Jun 25

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    starfr starfr 16-17, F Jun 29

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    ladybutterfly82 ladybutterfly82 31-35, F Jun 29

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    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jun 29

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    RainbowPastel RainbowPastel 16-17, F Jun 29

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    culturedancer culturedancer 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    davamps davamps 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I had a bad childhood and my relationship with my family has not improved enough to be of much comfort to me. My eldest brother died a couple of months ago, and the year of his...
    SlowLo SlowLo 51-55, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    cherryaleks cherryaleks 18-21 5 hrs ago

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