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I Think My Family Dislikes Me

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    I know my famiy dislikes me. They always have something to say about what I do, and its always negative. I love and respect them and It hurts me when I know theyre talking about me, but I still love and look up to them. They judge me for decisions I made, but they dont realize I...
    sexyceecee sexyceecee 26-30, F 4 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Total Outcast

    Ok so i know my family dislike's me and think's im weird becouse i have real hooby's not smocking weed and having sex all the time.I put a smile on my face everyday i wake up, yet by the time the family's up it's a perminant frown.They never have nothing ce to say to me and awaly...
    WhySoSadBoi WhySoSadBoi 13-15 Aug 26, 2012

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    Disliked By My Family.

    Ever since I can remember, my sisters have always been better then me in my father's eyes. And when I ask my mom why that is she says "Well, what do you expect me to do about it?" a few months back I ran into the dinner table because I heard my phone ring. i hurt my arm...
    keniakittykat keniakittykat 18-21, F Aug 22, 2009

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    Stand Alone Complex

    my mother and brother have always ganged up on me. my parents divorced when i was young and i have always been a daddy's girl. in the beginning he was not the best father and he was into the fast life way to hard. drinking, drugging, women, gambling, all of that. he used to break...
    pariah pariah 26-30, F Oct 8, 2007

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    Fam

    I know most of my family dislikes me. I am the real black sheep around here. I have my brother, and sister for now. Those two are all I really care for in this family.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Oct 18, 2010

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    Totally Disfunctional

    "I know my family dislikes me"   When I was a child, small. I had three brothers. One-the youngest had a different dad. Our dad was an acoholic and spent alot of time in the pen. My Mother and us lived with her parents. Our grandfather was a wonderful, gentle...
    Aloneforalltime Aloneforalltime 41-45 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    Family Dislikes Me

    My family hates me since i spend so much time with my grandma than anyone even more than her 5 daughters. They thonk i am trying to replace their dead brother michael . Some.aunts dont talk to me n dont like becuase my lighter skin color. Tgey gotten over the skin part but i...
    Tygerboi Tygerboi 16-17 Apr 6, 2012

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    Outcast

    i have always been different from the rest of my family and i think that is why i get pushed around alot my sister tells me all tha time to leave and never come back my mother tells me that she is fixing to give up hope of me what they dont know it that i try my hardest to be the...
    lovestexas lovestexas 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    I feel like I'm in the middle all the time. Its a terrible feeling. I've been in a relationship for years now and I still love him like the day I met him. Don't ask me why...
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    I don't even know where to start mainly because all my life I've been an outcast. When I was young my real father left me and so my mom worked a lot to keep food on the table and...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    My experience is one that both came as a shock, and in some weird way, a confirmation of the fears I've always had regarding my parents and their conditional love of me. I've...
    Kaleesto Kaleesto 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I am 19 years old and a sophomore in college majoring in nursing. I met the love of my life my first year at college and our relationship has blossomed into something beautiful...
    tphelps tphelps 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I am a teenager, and I don't think I have grown up too fast, rather going through appropriate milestones and learning what I should. But my family knows another family whose kids...
    ICanTotallySurvive ICanTotallySurvive 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I really hate my family but spend each day trying to make things better. So long story short but when I was two my mom passed away and my dad played the mom/dad role for many years...
    leek12345 leek12345 22-25, F Jul 9

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    Hi, I'm 33 with two children and have come from a very dysfunctional back ground.. I grew up in children's homes. Because my nan didn't want me and my two brothers we were all...
    anilem anilem 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I am really confused with my parents, and sad at the same time. i have 2 siblings, my older sister that just turned 20 and one little brother that is 12 years old. Okay, so my mom...
    davamps davamps 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I had a bad childhood and my relationship with my family has not improved enough to be of much comfort to me. My eldest brother died a couple of months ago, and the year of his...
    SlowLo SlowLo 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I had a tough childhood. Abuse from my mothers boyfriend, abuse from my father and his 2nd and 3rd wives, verbal abuse and fluctuating over protective and smothering from my mother...
    hurtinginma hurtinginma 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I'm adopted. But my Mother and my Sister always tend to gang up on me. Even when I'm sick, or I've been busy or something they complain or they blame for me for something I wasn't...
    rachelharperr rachelharperr 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    So last year my family bought a farm in the middle of no where, and I love it; It has almost sixty acres, a pond, and tons of forest. We raise sheep and goats in the fields and...
    Jase586 Jase586 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Why bring me if I'm not wanted? Why speak about me when you've never spoken to me? What's the problem? Is it me? Is it your double standard reticule? Or is it the fact that you...
    kikisalamo22 kikisalamo22 13-15, F Jul 23

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    I know this sinking feeling anywhere. It's happening again. I've been depressed most of my teenage years. I have plenty of ups, but there are always downs that follow close behind...
    LettersToTheSky LettersToTheSky 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Leiai Leiai 13-15 Jul 12

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    I am a teenager in high school, and my parents have been divorced for over two years (but it was a long and messy process, and they have only been living apart for about 6 months...
    trackster54313 trackster54313 16-17, F Jul 13

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    I would like to live a life estranged from my family. My father was abusive both physically and emotionally. The pain he has caused me throughout my 22 years is at times...
    Liz3125 Liz3125 22-25, F Jul 13

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    My mum is really into talking on the phone recently and I think she s talking to a guy. She s 50 this year, separated with my father 6-7 years ago. I didn't expect I would feel...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I love my family i really do, but at times i feel torn and angry. i have a twin sister, she's very funny and has a charismatic personality. but she also has extreme amounts...
    cobrabubbles cobrabubbles 18-21, F a week ago

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    Every time I help my mom cooking, I thought that it was indefinitely unfair that my father and brother are lazying in the couch watching tv and not bothering a single glance to see...
    aquavintage aquavintage 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    What makes a family? I think a family is someone who cared and loves you you know even without the same DNA well my "mother" I love her very much of course but i do not feel like...
    lesliexx3 lesliexx3 18-21, F Jul 4

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    Well it's mostly my dad. My dad sits there and expects me and my older brother (but not my younger sister) to "offer" to do stuff for him so he can feel good. But if I don't offer...
    Zalbaar Zalbaar 13-15, M Jul 6

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    zakiana15 zakiana15 13-15, F 7 Responses Jul 15

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    Hi there, I am going to tell my story, it will probably take some time, BUT would appreciate some people out there to take some time to perhaps follow and comment if they have any...
    lukeyp03 lukeyp03 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I've had a pretty.. Different life I would say. I've been separated from my family and reunited and things like that and done some really bad choices that have influenced my life...
    Answeringyou35 Answeringyou35 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Um i guess i just thought that this would be a good way to express how i feel and maybe if i posted on the internet i could convince myself that people might listen. Before i...
    JustMui JustMui 18-21, F Jul 22

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    Hey everyone Me and my family (mom & 2sisters) we really close till I was a teenager once we sisters started working we grew a part. I maintain my distance from them as they...
    SeeRainbow SeeRainbow 26-30, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I'd sit down, this is gonna be 10 years of quieted emotions.. Emotions, doesn't that word just terrify you a little? I know it terrifies me. I wanna post this not for sympathy, but...
    StayingSaneWithoutYou StayingSaneWithoutYou 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I know my first cousin. We grow up together, we played at mom and dad, and when we were like 7 we kissed. Since then, every time i went to his place we always kissed. At that time...
    letimari2230 letimari2230 16-17 Jul 1

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    I never did either, my so called family was nothing but a sick toxic disgusting heartache who some have died off and if anyone is alive I don't know and don't care where they are...
    JackNJ JackNJ 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    Where to start ... My parents are getting a divorce lately .. I'm living with my mom in a apartment ... The fact is in the past me & my family we didn't talk to each other At All...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    wajaylababo wajaylababo 16-17, F Jul 3

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    tankgirl12p tankgirl12p 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    lilly2136 lilly2136 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I absolutely hate my family and it is not because I am a spoiled brat or am ungrateful, it is because they have mistreated me so bad throughout my life that I can no longer put up...
    rosesrthebest rosesrthebest 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I used to have a really great relationship with him. We used to do so much stuff together. Then he started spending all his time with my little brother. It wouldn't bother me at...
    Trupp Trupp 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 12