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I Think My Husband Hates Me

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    I met my husband in 2004 sweetest man you

    could ever meet. Till you become apart of his life. Before we got married he was pretty good. Buy it's funny he was skeptical about getting married because he said woman always change. Well in my case he has changed. He gets so upset for no reason. An example. One time I forgot...
    orangepledge01 orangepledge01 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    My Husband Says I Have Miss Behave And I Deserve To Be Punish!!!!

    My husband doesn't like me we haven't been intimate for more than 6 months he acts like he doesn't care about me, he is always in a bad mood he says i need help, cause im crazy. when we meet 12 years ago I tough he was my soul mate, he has 3 boys he ex-wife is an alcoholic and...
    Marbella2 Marbella2 41-45 Mar 19, 2012

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    Where To Go From Here......

    I think I am finally starting to accept the fact that my 14 year marriage is doomed. I don't know what I did to make him hate me so much. We have 4 beautiful children we both adore. According to him I am too demanding because I would give anything to have him cuddle up next to me...
    hopeisfaith hopeisfaith 41-45, F 10 Responses Jan 30, 2013

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    He is a Marine and has been in corporals course

    for a week now, pretty much like boot camp for corporals who want to become sergeants. I know he has been stressed and tired, but that does not seem like a good reason to act the way he does. He is annoyed by everything I do/say. He says I lack common sense. We haven't had sex...
    BluePhoenix005 BluePhoenix005 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Where Did I Go Wrong?

    My husband and I were married young, and were were best friends for years before we were married. Within a year of marriage, we welcomed our beautiful little boy into the world. When he was six months old, I found out I was expecting yet again. I'm now currently 26 weeks...
    RiahJ RiahJ 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    Girls..What Do You Think?

    I have worked very hard (since I was 14, I am now 44). People see me as successful and that thing came easy. The people who understand me really like me, but I have just as many people that hate me,mostly women. Many people hurt my feelings by leaving me out or gossiping about me...
    sunshine88888 sunshine88888 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    5 years ago i was a stup*d 15 year old

    who fell in love with a guy. Got pregnant of him . 5 years i've trying to make it work i've trying to always make him happy . I love him very much , i want to leave his side but i cant . Anyways we have a daugther shes 3 years old , and she is my main reason why i want to make...
    milk10274 milk10274 18-21, F Feb 17

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    Today when my husband came home from work I

    thought I would pull out all the stops...wore something skimpy, nibbled his shoulders, and ran my hands up and down his chest. He pushed me away....AGAIN! He told me he had more important things to worry about than keeping spice in our marriage.... I feel so unwanted, ugly, and...
    Lmm14 Lmm14 31-35, F 12 Responses Feb 24

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    No Love

    So i come home to see a history of **** sites and him tryingto get back in contact with hs ex , i was found out he signed onto dating sites , i just cant take this heartache anymore why is it so hard to leave somepne that doesnt love u
    alone121906 alone121906 18-21 1 Response Dec 3, 2013

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    Denial Is A Bad Place To Go

    For years I put up with my husband keeping me down. By remarks, just by me never measuring up. He complained about not enough sex, not enough attention to him, how he hates this or hates that. He didn't like ANY of my friends or their husbands. I went through life just...
    ShreddedToPieces ShreddedToPieces 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    I have been married for 7 years this may my

    husband has always been an awesome man to me but lately I see he get irritated if I ask him to do something for me. In the past he always did and more now it seems to bring me a bottle of water is a big issue. He has told me that I think it's always all about me and what I...
    sangria45 sangria45 36-40, F Feb 22

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    All I've felt is that I've been doing something

    wrong. When I met my husband 4 1/2 years ago I came across some weird emails. Dating website emails. Didn't really think too much of it. I found out we were pregnant while we were both in Afghanistan and came back to the states and waited for him to come back. After living...
    wornsweater wornsweater 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I Know My Husbnd Hates Me! IM Sorry!

    I met my husband just as I turned 18 . I'm now 30. He is 43! We have 4 kids one is 26 (adopted) one is 16, one is 10 and our baby is 7.. There Isn't a stronger bond between two people. I was young, impressionable, my mother, an addict of all kinds! He showed me a life I wanted...
    dandybrandy12 dandybrandy12 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    I Think My Husband Hates Me

    Sometimes I think my husband hates me. He really hurts my feelings by the way he treats me. I feel belittled by him. Is this normal in a marriage?
    Bottledupinside Bottledupinside 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Husband has not spoken to me in four days

    after him getting upset with me over the weekend. I can only say sorry so many times and when I asked if he's gonna talk to me his response maybe eventually. What he is mad over just amazes me be side we have been in worse situations before and he's never ever not spoken to me...
    jordysings jordysings 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    I Know My Husband Hates Me

    he loved his co-workers instead of me. yes LOVED..he has since been fired and blames me and now hes even more meaner to me. Clams up for days won't speak to me. When I get my meds he is all happy as long as I share and pretends to like me. He will snuggle with me on the couch...
    cannotwin cannotwin 56-60, F 7 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    I think my husband hates me Iv'e been with my

    husband for 8 years, we have been married for almost 3. We got married on our 6 year anniversary. We are both recovering addicts. He with over 20 years and me with almost 9. He has always been so very loving and kind to me. He helped me through some of the hardest experiences...
    rawnerve rawnerve 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2013

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    Husband Hates Me

    My husband tells me I'm not a real wife He looked me in the eyes and said I'm the worst wife in the world. He curses me puts me down and gives me the silent treatment for days. He always puts me down I feel numb inside because I love him..I never yell back or ever say...
    realsis77 realsis77 36-40 2 Responses May 31, 2013

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    Hate Being Hated

    I have been w/ my husband for about 22 yrs, living together and eventually married. I met him, moved away, and started attending school. So, he was a positive enfluence on me and I on him in the beginning. Sure we fought at times, but he was loving and did little things all the...
    hatedathome hatedathome 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    My Husband Hates Me

    As all relationships start its always love at first sight , everything lovey dovey , i have been with my partner for 5years married for 2 , and the last 2 years have been heartache and pain for me. I am the only one working 40hrs a week for our little family , coming home to me...
    alone121906 alone121906 18-21 3 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    I Think My Husband Hates Me

    Wow. I read all your stories and actually got teary-eyed. I am going through the same thing. My husband and I have been married 16 years and have four children together. Although I have never been a priority in his life, I still love him and long for the day when he'll put me...
    cmclovelyday cmclovelyday 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    A Hated Wife ...

    I have finally come to the conclusion that my husband hates me.  I started blogging about it if anyone would like to follow. www.hatedwife.wordpress.com It's where I vent and go to blow off steam since I have no-one to talk to.  Everyone thinks we have an awesome...
    Ahatedwife Ahatedwife 36-40 Sep 21, 2010

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    Sad

    Okay, me and my husband have been together for 5 yrs., within 2 moonths after meeting him I got pregnant ( I had just turned 21 , and was partying alot) so we never really got to know eachother . We married , it has been rocky from the begining .. but when I say I am going to...
    MyBrainHurts MyBrainHurts 26-30 5 Responses Jun 2, 2009

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    I Think I Have Reached My Limit

    after asking my husband to help me with the dvd player he got really angry (no suprise there) it was my fault i couldn't use it. even though i have turned the damn thing on and off several times! as he stormed out of the room he went to kick our dog i immediately saw red and...
    shunkles shunkles 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    What Happened??

    We've been married for 12 years. We have 2 wonderful kids. I'm an introvert and like alone time, he's an extrovert who doesn't understand why I'm so weird sometimes. Recently I got laid off from my job but ended up getting another job two months later at a place I really wanted...
    MySky13 MySky13 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    What Am I Doing Wrong?

    My husband of 8 years tears me down every second ...belittles me, when we are alone infront of friends , even in front of the kids... it's my fault the truck won't start... or is the phone burning up yet? Or you broke this on the truck... you didn't do this right..ect ect...
    distant33 distant33 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Follow Your Gut!

    I got married when I was a naive and super sheltered 19 year old. I believed my Marine boyfriend when he started talking marriage and love so when he wanted to sleep with me I thought I was in a fairy tale and it would all end up happily.....not so much when afterwards he...
    mom10 mom10 41-45 1 Response Jan 13, 2013

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    Hardly Married - Is Our Marriage Doomed?

    I don't even know where to begin. My husband and I were married a little over a year ago after a short engagement. I had hoped for a longer engagement as we had both just graduated from college, we were getting our feet on the ground, we didnt even have the chance to discuss...
    workingGirl88 workingGirl88 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    I'm Lost

    My husband and I have been married for 5 years and have a son together. He has always been emotionally unavailable but I justified it because he had an abusive childhood. I've given up so much of what I consider a good marriage to be with him. I don't know if I even love him...
    Girlthirtysomething Girlthirtysomething 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    Feeling Alone

    Wednesday it will be four years I have been w/ my husband. We have only been married for a year. I got pregnant after a year of dating. He did not want to have a family and pressured me to have an abortion. I could not bring myself to do it. My pregnancy was very hard. he was not...
    Cherryann27 Cherryann27 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Love`S Not The Same

    My husband and i have been married for 13 years we went out all the time we shared a bed for four years now we dont there's no more date night he tell im a ***** all the time i need to lose some wight . He dont say im pretty anymore are sexy it seems like he hates me . And...
    cry123 cry123 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    I Have No More Hope Or Faith Left In My Husband Or My Marriage

    This may sound crazy but I dreamt of my husband the week before I met him. I dreamt that my best friend and I were going to meet our future husbands and that we both would have boys. I never seen them but only heard they're voices and seen the event in my dream. Well it happened...
    Shegavegoodsunflower Shegavegoodsunflower 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    We loved each other and I thought he was the

    prince of my dreams.and we married ..all I wanted was a family for ourselves. The first gap between us fell when I was pregnant with our first baby.i had to leave overseas for delivery and I stayed away for 6 months...when I came back, he was different! I guess mistake I on my...
    tearymom tearymom 26-30 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    He Is Full Of Hate For Everything

    He is hate filled He stomps around the house to demand respect He doesn't take responsibility for anything he does wrong He treats my son , who moved back in after graduating from college like a piece of ****. He doesn't want to be happy, no matter what HELP....
    Lgale Lgale 41-45, F Oct 22, 2013

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    I Do Everything Wrong

    I was reading a few of the entries here. Wow, its amazing that other wives feel and are being treated the same way. I do what ever I can for him and it never seems to be good enough!!! He is a mamas boy. He has to be at his mothers house every day ... she is not sick...
    mome23 mome23 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    I Just Dont Know What Im Doing Wrong"(

    When i met my hubby everything was great, it was nothing but laughs we got married and things couldnt get better... But when i got pregnant he changed, and once our son was born even worst.... We fight alot more now than before i had to get a job to help with the car payments i...
    alwaysthinkingofus alwaysthinkingofus 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    I Dont Know Whats Next

    im 27, graduating medical school to be a doc, no kids and married for 20months.  newlyweds right?   so my husband, graduating law school, and i have been separated on and off due to school across states, but we have been trying to make it work.  The last yr...
    hoping4hope hoping4hope 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Hostile Angry Husband

    I will try to make a long story short..... in 1998 my first husband, whom I had divorced for drinking and cheating, died in a car accident. We had 1 daughter, then in Dec of 1999 The man who I was married to at the time died in a car accident as well, He was not kind and loving...
    pheonix10 pheonix10 41-45, F 19 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    All I tried to do was be nice to him all day

    because I so desperately want it to work because I really love him he jus doesn't care nemore at all I tell him what I want and he says he jus wants to do the opposite he's to the point were he doesn't want it to work he says he loves me but I can tell it's over that's all he...
    ugotmeigotu ugotmeigotu 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Abused , Alone

    My husband began beating me when i was 4 months pregnant with my first , since than he beaten me constanstly over nothing and says its my fault . I ve gained since ive given birth and its been 2years and i havent lost my baby weight and im always getting called a fat ***** , and...
    alone121906 alone121906 18-21 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    He Is!

    I dont need to read everything about him, but as I see it, he really hates me. This thinking drains my energy out, and thinking I couldnt move an inch just to make my life better more than ever....But I love him dearly! v.v
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 4 Responses May 20, 2013

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    What Did I Do To You Today?

    Hubby is constantly complaining that we don't spend enough time together. Saturday I had to work an 11 hr shift, and then work 5-1 sunday. When I got home sunday, we had 2-3 hrs to ourselves, I thought great we have some time together. I came in from work, after recieving a text...
    tinkerbell2067 tinkerbell2067 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    Why Does He Hate Me?

    He rolls his eyes when I talk to him. He always tells me I complain about everything even if it's not complaining. He gets mad when I'm sick (I get sick often). He tells me to shut up when he's mad. He tells me that he doesn't want to come home from work because I'm at home. He...
    notsoglad notsoglad 31-35 51 Responses Sep 6, 2010

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    Hello... I just joined the group

    and feel so glad to find a group where I can feel safe being honest about my marriage. My husband hates me. We were happy at one point and I think I hate him too at times, though we have 2 kids and are good at faking it. He is successful, a Naval Officer (and full of himself...
    MissyCA MissyCA 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Abandoned For The Oilfields

    In January of 2012 my husband and I both decided it would be a great opportunity for him to accept a job in the oilfields of Williston, ND so we could get caught up on bills, pay off some debt and save a little money, too. Little did I know that the money would completely replace...
    Austin17 Austin17 26-30, F 3 Responses May 12, 2013

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    He Is Just Not Nice

    Our 6 yr anniversary is coming in September and we have a 4 yr old son. All he does now is play with RC cars. He still doesn't sleep with me. Sex is super impersonal when we have it once a month. All he wants to talk about his his damn RC cars. If I say anything to him about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 29, 2013

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    I can't even be near my husband

    because he becomes aggravated and uncomfortable. He insults me sarcastically and tries to make me feel less than him. He controls me but doesn't let me know anything that he does. Keeps his home office, car, cellphone, computer, room, and business lock from me. But, his friends...
    adela75 adela75 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    My Husband Hates Me...

    My husband tells me he hates me, he can't stand me. He tells me to go back home to my daddy's house and talks about my dad in the most horrible way. My daughter is mixed. He calls me a ****** lover. He told me once that she should be hung up in a tree like the ****** she is. He...
    angeleyes37130 angeleyes37130 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Its new years eve and im crying

    why ive just been beaten with a broom by my husband simply for asking to spend new years with me and the kids as he went drinking on xmay , he beats me and walks off , he does not care for me and I cant leave cos the kids but I cannot do this anymore every second day I am...
    alone121906 alone121906 18-21 22 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I'm Sad.

     My husband hates me and everything about me.  I don't understand why he doesn't just leave or let me leave.  We have a 14 month old daughter together, but even before that he hated me.  I thought the baby would bring us closer but it's done the opposite...
    PeaceOfChit PeaceOfChit 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    jgopin jgopin 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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