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I Think My Husband Hates Me

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    I Have No More Hope Or Faith Left In My Husband Or My Marriage

    This may sound crazy but I dreamt of my husband the week before I met him. I dreamt that my best friend and I were going to meet our future husbands and that we both would have boys. I never seen them but only heard they're voices and seen the event in my dream. Well it happened...
    Shegavegoodsunflower Shegavegoodsunflower 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 16, 2013

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    my husband is so angry with me.

    i'm afraid he can't get over it. he says he might leave. but now i'm in this hellish purgatory -- waiting for him to maybe leave or decide he wants to stay. and i'm LOSING IT WITH ANXIETY and sobbing and craziness while i wait for him to decide. it all kinda makes me hate...
    maestro1 maestro1 31-35 3 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I Do Everything Wrong

    I was reading a few of the entries here. Wow, its amazing that other wives feel and are being treated the same way. I do what ever I can for him and it never seems to be good enough!!! He is a mamas boy. He has to be at his mothers house every day ... she is not sick...
    mome23 mome23 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2012

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    I've been married for two almost two years.

    I have two children. I feel like I'm losing my mind. my husband is very controlling. And very critical. I thought that over time we would find our rhythm. But the longer we are together the harder things get. He works like 3 days a week and barely makes any money. I feel so...
    gracethisis gracethisis 22-25, F Dec 14, 2014

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    I'm Lost

    My husband and I have been married for 5 years and have a son together. He has always been emotionally unavailable but I justified it because he had an abusive childhood. I've given up so much of what I consider a good marriage to be with him. I don't know if I even love him...
    Girlthirtysomething Girlthirtysomething 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    I Just Dont Know What Im Doing Wrong"(

    When i met my hubby everything was great, it was nothing but laughs we got married and things couldnt get better... But when i got pregnant he changed, and once our son was born even worst.... We fight alot more now than before i had to get a job to help with the car payments i...
    alwaysthinkingofus alwaysthinkingofus 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    WE have been married going on 3 years.

    But we have been together since 2006/07. I lost my job back in June so now we have money problems. He works 2 jobs now and I know he is tired and stressing. He gets angry at the dumbest stuff and blows up! I ask him to talk about it, he shuts down and won't talk about it. When I...
    GorditaDiosa GorditaDiosa 26-30 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Hostile Angry Husband

    I will try to make a long story short..... in 1998 my first husband, whom I had divorced for drinking and cheating, died in a car accident. We had 1 daughter, then in Dec of 1999 The man who I was married to at the time died in a car accident as well, He was not kind and loving...
    pheonix10 pheonix10 41-45, F 20 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    My husband never does anything with me.

    He claims he can't afford it but every weekend sometimes week nights he hangs out with his friends until 5 am. He never tells me where he's going, has a huge social media addiction, is very controlling and has jealousy issues. I honestly believe he has lost interest in me. The...
    dumbass2014 dumbass2014 26-30 5 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Ladies if you are in your 20ties

    and you had no kids and your husband hit you for the first time would you divorce him knowing that that first belt lash and him telling me I had too strong of opinions, is only the beginning? I am accident prone and he said since I am accident prone no one will notice. I am...
    Ihavetosurvive Ihavetosurvive 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I really am starting to believe my husband

    hates me. We have been married for 12 years now and have 3 kids together. He was medically disabled about 3 years ago now. Until then he worked a lot and was gone for 30+ days at a time. Now I work because the disability pay isn't enough to support 3 kids and a house. I work at...
    AmandaJ83 AmandaJ83 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2014

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    MY HUSBAND IS LEAVING ME!

    I'M GOING CRAZY I CAN'T STOP CRYING MY LIFE IS GONE IT'S MY FAULT OMG MY POOR SON WILL HAVE TO LIVE 2 LIFES! I HATE THIS I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO I'M LOSING IT EVERY SECOND MORE I WANT TO TALK TO HIM BUT HE IS AT WORK AND WOULDN'T ANSWER ME IF HE WAS REALLY LEAVING ME. I WANT TO...
    gemini61289 gemini61289 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    How To Crush Someone Completely

    my husband and i have been married for 7 long years. the first time i realized the love was gone was when i was walking upstairs and my husband called me a "sorry *****" i was 6 months pregnant with his son at that time.. since then things have steadily got worse he has...
    sugarsbaby sugarsbaby 46-50 Aug 11, 2012

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    Girls..What Do You Think?

    I have worked very hard (since I was 14, I am now 44). People see me as successful and that thing came easy. The people who understand me really like me, but I have just as many people that hate me,mostly women. Many people hurt my feelings by leaving me out or gossiping about me...
    sunshine88888 sunshine88888 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    I've recently been diagnosed with breast cancer

    and I'm pregnant. My husband was supportive at first, but now he has turned into a very cruel and hurtful person. He's constantly yelling at our 2.5 year old boy for no reason calling him names I tell him to stop and then it gets turned on me. Tonight I noticed my little guy had...
    fightlikeagirl fightlikeagirl 26-30, F 3 Responses May 3

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    Overpowering Househusband

    I am writing about my experience as quickly as possible because I know as soon as my husband comes back he will lie next to me to simply see what I am doing. Anyway I have been married for 5 years I have two beautiful children and my husband is a stay at home father. As a father...
    nad12345 nad12345 36-40 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    So I met my husband 9 years ago

    and fell deeply in love immediately I had a son from a previous relationship and he accepted me and my son told me I'm the woman of his dreams that he loved me and couldn't imagine being with another woman so in a matter of a year we had a so. Together than 9 months after my...
    canadian4 canadian4 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2014

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    He Is Just Not Nice

    Our 6 yr anniversary is coming in September and we have a 4 yr old son. All he does now is play with RC cars. He still doesn't sleep with me. Sex is super impersonal when we have it once a month. All he wants to talk about his his damn RC cars. If I say anything to him about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 29, 2013

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    Feeling Alone

    Wednesday it will be four years I have been w/ my husband. We have only been married for a year. I got pregnant after a year of dating. He did not want to have a family and pressured me to have an abortion. I could not bring myself to do it. My pregnancy was very hard. he was not...
    Cherryann27 Cherryann27 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Husband Hates Me

    My husband tells me I'm not a real wife He looked me in the eyes and said I'm the worst wife in the world. He curses me puts me down and gives me the silent treatment for days. He always puts me down I feel numb inside because I love him..I never yell back or ever say...
    realsis77 realsis77 36-40 4 Responses May 31, 2013

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    prang777 prang777 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    I met my husband in 2004 sweetest man you

    could ever meet. Till you become apart of his life. Before we got married he was pretty good. Buy it's funny he was skeptical about getting married because he said woman always change. Well in my case he has changed. He gets so upset for no reason. An example. One time I forgot...
    orangepledge01 orangepledge01 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    Humans by nature trade in their wives every 10

    years much like the car they traded in. Nothing personal. Just genetic
    LoveRobbery LoveRobbery 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I really do sometimes ,

    he shows more anger and negativity than his living side. I feel uncomfortable around him
    caseybarbarino caseybarbarino 18-21, F 1 Response May 23

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    A Hated Wife ...

    I have finally come to the conclusion that my husband hates me.  I started blogging about it if anyone would like to follow. www.hatedwife.wordpress.com It's where I vent and go to blow off steam since I have no-one to talk to.  Everyone thinks we have an awesome...
    Ahatedwife Ahatedwife 36-40 1 Response Sep 21, 2010

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    What more is there to think.

    ..he picks at something all the time. My jokes, my clothes, the fact that I can't party like him and our friends, the things I say, the way the house looks, the fact that I am still in school. My husband complains about me at least 3 times a day. Never once do I get any notice...
    aceventura21 aceventura21 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    Well, I know he hates me!

    I can feel it just oozing from him! 21 years of marriage and he doesn't want to know a thing about me. He has ignored me for almost a year now. I only get dirty looks and grunts. He looks at me like he would love to smash my face in! I tiptoe around and serve and clean and do...
    Kaziana Kaziana 36-40 1 Response May 12

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    I'm 32 & been married 12 years

    and we have 2 boys together and 3 from our first marriage. I recently took up couponing. It's very time consuming and I have been accused of suspicious behavior. I'M NOT a cheater but we did seperate for a year in 2010. Yesterday I go to the store. Take 4hours and came home...
    rosiemobo rosiemobo 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2014

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    Husband used to text me all the time from work

    now he barely does and I ask him why an he says he's busy but I see him on Facebook commenting to people. And he keeps saying he doesn't want to fight so I tell him then I'm getting rid of this messenger you told me to get. He's probably bored of me he doesn't even say hello...
    LovelyT10 LovelyT10 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    No matter what I do, my husband yells at me.

    I just can't do anything right in his eyes. I feel like it's abusive. I often cry because of this yelling all of the time. Sometimes, I leave and drive around and cry some more. It's just not healthy. I'm trying to finish nursing school, but it's damn near impossible. He...
    cymoffett cymoffett 36-40 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Angry & Bitter

    Im 34, met my husband in my 20s and we've been together for 13 yrs, married 8. We dont have any children. Most days I see that as a blessing, not because I dont like children, but because I am sure our dysfunction would make us bad parents. We have had a strange relationship...
    Daydreamy Daydreamy 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    Janetcc11 Janetcc11 26-30, F Nov 5, 2014

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    So my husband has been lying to me about

    where money is going. He promised me he was saving it and it was in the bank. But what he didn't know was I could check the bank balance. I just checked and it's at $0.00. So that just adds fuel to the fire. He is also very mean and hateful towards me. He tells me I'm fat, lazy...
    Talice88 Talice88 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    My Husband Hates Me...

    My husband tells me he hates me, he can't stand me. He tells me to go back home to my daddy's house and talks about my dad in the most horrible way. My daughter is mixed. He calls me a ****** lover. He told me once that she should be hung up in a tree like the ****** she is. He...
    angeleyes37130 angeleyes37130 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    My husband and I have had a rocky relationship

    from the very beginning, but there was this brief period where we were actually pretty happy, then he did a tour in Afghanistan and came back so…cold. The first day he was home I was so excited to see him and he seemed happy to see me and our daughter, but literally the next...
    downbythebay94 downbythebay94 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    What Did I Do To You Today?

    Hubby is constantly complaining that we don't spend enough time together. Saturday I had to work an 11 hr shift, and then work 5-1 sunday. When I got home sunday, we had 2-3 hrs to ourselves, I thought great we have some time together. I came in from work, after recieving a text...
    tinkerbell2067 tinkerbell2067 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    I am a woman, my husband says he regrets the

    day he met me. He's wasted his life on me. I'm lazy,stupid and crazy. He wud rather kill himself than see me. All items he says to me plus many many more...I think he hates me.
    scott5656 scott5656 26-30 5 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I been with my husband

    for three years we have 2 children a boy age 1 and a girl age 2 for the past three months he's been saying he won't to break up and won'ts me and the kids to move out. He's 24 I'm 21. He says he can't move out due to his background, he's gone for the majoritie of the day at his...
    lostlovee21 lostlovee21 22-25, F Aug 27, 2014

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    I have a 2 yr old,a 1 yr old

    and im prego again. Husband is mad at me for being pregnant saying its my fault but I can live with no sex cause this is what it gets me. There is no such thing as condoms for him. He gets pissed when I don't wanna have sex. Then I have to or things go crazy. By things i mean...
    Stashlin Stashlin 26-30 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I am 45 years old and my husband is 33 years

    old. We've got married 10 years ago in India, where he come from with a strong male dominant background. I sponsored him to come to Australia to live as a happy family as we dream about. I work full time and do my duties as wife and he also works full time. It is hard to spend...
    ally1971 ally1971 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    My husband constantly argues with me

    and tells me I'm stupid and worthless. I work full time in a very demanding pharmacy I'm also a full time Mother. I'm loving, I make sure he has breakfast,lunch and dinner. I make sure the house is clean. When I notice he's trying to relax I take the kids to another room and let...
    Escobargirl240 Escobargirl240 26-30 4 Responses Jan 25

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    I am waiting and wanting a compliment from my

    husband. One could say I'm longing for one.
    prang777 prang777 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I'm Sad.

     My husband hates me and everything about me.  I don't understand why he doesn't just leave or let me leave.  We have a 14 month old daughter together, but even before that he hated me.  I thought the baby would bring us closer but it's done the opposite...
    PeaceOfChit PeaceOfChit 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    He hates me, he's mean

    and is now crazy over xbox game destiny, last night I found a fly in my coffee. My heart is broken, he used to love me, when he asks me what he's doibg wrong I have dates , times and proof . that makes him mad he then starts getting loud because ge knows I don't want...
    sadddgirlll sadddgirlll 51-55 Jun 21

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    Ivebeen married for 36 years.

    My husband turns on me when it comes to.his family and our children. Now..because he didnt like me asking our daughter questions (shes 26) he told her to "scream in my face" even in public. They both have stopped speaking to me. Its almost a month. I haven't tried either...
    allison575757 allison575757 56-60, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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