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I Think My Husband Is a Dumbass

for women whose husbands mid-life crisis is about to send them over the edge! 9 People

    My Husband Worked Hard Today And Needs To Go On And Take The Dumbassery Prize And Go Home

    My daughter who's practically 40 has always had a strained relationship with me. Admittedly over half was MY own fault. So to mend the fence I allowed her to come over to spend a couple of weeks with us. We live in separate cities. She has a boyfriend who didn't want her to...
    Ghinger Ghinger 56-60, F Nov 12, 2013

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    Wtf

    I have literally moved around for the past few hours awaiting a MAN to take me some damn where... HINT, dressed, HINT, makeup, Hint, smelling nice, HINT hair done~ every strand... his stupid *** sits on the ******* VIDEO GAME... where are real men?  SO pissed that...
    PissedDHelloff PissedDHelloff 36-40, F Jan 2, 2010

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    Special Kind Of Stupid

    I have asked my husband for years to not wash my laundry, the girls or anyone elses. He has in the past and today washed again his skanky tennis shoes with our underwear. I told him tonight if he did it anymore I would cut his shoes up like they did in the laundry to my clothes...
    mcmillanjohnson mcmillanjohnson 41-45 Aug 1, 2011

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    Dan412 Dan412 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 25

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
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    I think about u all day... I just hope all this time ur thinking of me too..
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    I think of u everyday I can't get u out of my head it's driving me crazy I want to move on and be happy with someone else but I'm not over u which I should be but this happened...
    butterflypink butterflypink 13-15, F 1 Response 40 mins ago

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    I would like to tell my story and see what you think of it. Been married for 7 years. My husband is an expat living in my country. My father gave us an apartment free to live in so...
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    My life as I know it has been turned upside down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    im not completely sure if i should be upset with my husband or not but i am, i have never been married before so i dont know how these things work. I think my husband's ex is very...
    izzyd izzyd 18-21, F Sep 3

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    My husband had a great paying, great benefits job in the Army & got out & took a job making less than half of what he was making. He works for his uncle & we moved into a house...
    Laurenannette Laurenannette 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I think my mom really hates me like one time I fell down she do not really care about me but when my older brother fell down she is very worried and sometime my mom breaks my heart...
    Hongyang1597 Hongyang1597 13-15 2 hrs ago

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    Hmm this may be the last or may not be the last. Depends on my conflicted mind. I just wanted to say thank you to those people who message and ask if I am okay occasionally. There...
    Stomparound Stomparound 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I stare up at my fan and imagine myself hanging there. It's disturbing to me. All I can think about is, will my mom finally feel guilty for what she did for me if I died? Would her...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I can't stop thinking of u ..
    Verano93 Verano93 36-40, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    Ok so I don't know what to think about this, I hope somebody that knows more about this stuff can help me. Since I was a kid weird stuff has happened, at 18 I got my first sleep...
    Skymoon8 Skymoon8 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I need help and advice! My husband of six years is not the man I thought he was. I fell in love with a man who I thought was more positive than negative, but for the last few years...
    miserablecoma miserablecoma 31-35, F Aug 31

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    I am very sad to be writing this.... because I never thought I was capable of feeling this way, but I have to face the truth of the matter. I love my husband, but not as my...
    oogabooga777 oogabooga777 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Blondie0912 Blondie0912 22-25, F Sep 7

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    Hi everyone, This is the first time I write about my feelings, but I found so many people in the same situation. I'm 28 years old, been married for less than a year and a half...
    soul1986 soul1986 26-30 2 Responses Sep 10

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    My husband of 25 yrs cheated on me , I just found out for sure May. 27 an I can't think of nothing else , the girl was his sons girlfriend and she is pregnant supposed to b by my...
    hizwife25 hizwife25 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    My husband and I have been married since July. He doesn't like my ex because whenever we broke up, I'd go back to my ex. And when we got married, I didn't tell my ex. Fast forward...
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was married for 8 years to my first husband and it was a rocky marriage from day 1 I feel looking back now. My ex husband was always a flirt especially with the younger women and...
    galaxy3 galaxy3 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In 2006, I conceived my first child with my then boyfriend. We were so young I was 16 and he was 15. I was so nervous about being a teen mom, but got used to the idea as my...
    breeze90 breeze90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    surfiehall surfiehall 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 21

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    est536 est536 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    erieclover erieclover 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    sallyalex sallyalex 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    My husband is always hiding his phone he never leaves it anywhere and is constantly txting someone. He is on it from the time we get home from work til we go to bed. I'm always the...
    Rayne72 Rayne72 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    tracylpiatt tracylpiatt 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    2 years into my marriage and just found out my husband is confused about whether he likes guys or not. He had a couple of experiments in the past. The thoughts are coming back...
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    I seriously f*cking hate sex addiction! It has ruined my life-and my families life! I just beat the crap out of my husband. I didn't even know I had it in me. I left bruises. I'm...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    NotSoPerfect777 NotSoPerfect777 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I have a date tomorrow with a man that my husband hates.
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 55 Responses Sep 2

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    I once heard a preacher say that if he was God he would get the perfect man and perfect woman and put them together and allow them to live happily ever after. However, he then said...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 1 Response Sep 4

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