I Think My Husband Is Cheating On Me

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    I have been married for 24 years.

    Lots of little things happened throughout our dating that told me my guy could one day cheat on me. I am really suspicious now that he is cheating on me. I found pictures of his erect penis in various stages of undress on his phone. He says he did not send them to anyone. My...
    Unsureofall Unsureofall
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2015

    I found a condom in my husbands car.

    He says it has to be from before we met but I don't believe him. From what I have read on the internet condoms have a five year shelf life. based on the expiration date on the condom that means he has to have bought it while we have been together. I have told him this but he...
    Skylalast Skylalast
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Jan 2, 2015

    I wish my husband would stop hurting me.

    Caught him cheating on me. He has never been there for me. I am going through physical problems now since I have noticed his behavior 3 yrs ago. He says he is going to change but I have not seen it. I am scared I might have breast cancer. I have to go in for a 2nd mammogram . I...
    itsahmeun itsahmeun
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

    I Think Hes Cheating

    i have been with my boyfriend for 13 years we have been living together for 10 so its like were married.... my husband has cheated on me before and i always found the way to for give him like a dumb azz... he had meet this girl through this chat line... and i caught him in his...
    559cali 559cali
    26-30, F
    21 Responses Dec 23, 2009

    I Know

    all i want to say is I know no false mind games, I know you seek, crave and want another. So just to know I know.
    tata81 tata81
    26-30
    Feb 15, 2010

    Devastated He's Cheating

    I'm so devastated right now. I' have done everything I can to be a good wife to my husband but it's never enough. He has been acting strange lately. He's always gone and we live under the same roof and he'll go days at a time without speaking to me. I thought maybe he is just...
    Jazzy86 Jazzy86
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Oct 9, 2011

    My husband is a female to male trans man

    meaning he has the body of a female but the mind of a male. Recently I have found sites that he has been on looking at male **** and he mumbled in his sleep that he can't wait for "Steven" to come over. What do I do...
    SerendipityKills SerendipityKills
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2014

    But surprisingly I don't care.

    ..I am at the point that I am not fighting for us anymore. I am just here for the kids....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 13, 2015

    If he is secretive all the time

    but I have no proof, do I worry? 23 years into this and his behavior is so odd now. Used to be an open book, but now? His father is a mysoginist, maybe he is turning into him. He is not upset at his sisters husband husband for cheating on his sister. Their situation is...
    bluegirl43 bluegirl43
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 13

    I believe I open the door

    so I could please my hubby but now I'm not enought I think he talks to girls and couple with out me
    Kaykay2life Kaykay2life
    31-35, F
    Feb 14, 2014
    ClearlyNotGarySpeed ClearlyNotGarySpeed
    22-25, M
    Apr 9, 2015

    i think my husband is cheating.

    and honestly, i think if he has the balls to cheat, then he should have the balls to ask for a divorce.
    rouianne rouianne
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 8, 2014

    I need help!! I think my husband of 7 years may

    be cheating on me with one if my so-called friends that is no longer talking to me. I don't have any proof and my husband is trying to stay mad about something I did before we met...everyone that knows him & I say this is just a phase and will pass, but any advice is helpful!!
    teazersgirl teazersgirl
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    I've been having really strong paranoid feelings

    that my husband is sneaking around etc and today I found a recent visit to free f**kbook and a link to "lick p***y to get laid"... He's cheated on me in the past and I'm now convinced he's doing it again. I can't confront him about it because he gets all defensive and tried to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 24, 2015
    raneeshrinu raneeshrinu
    18-21, M
    Mar 25, 2015

    I have already been through it.

    . And come out the other side... I'm ok . And I will be just fine. If any of you need help getting proof so you aren't told you are crazy.. Let me know.
    Jodyann1 Jodyann1
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    Should I Leave?

    My lovely husband was intoxicated last night. He woke up our son and was calling my names and useless to him. I let my son sleep over at my mother in laws for the night. One thing led to another and we ended up in a wrestling match. I'm pretty strong but I feared for my life; he...
    Lookingforsomethingnow22 Lookingforsomethingnow22
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2013

    He's Blaming "Me"

    I caught my husband cheating today.  He has been acting a little weird but he travels constantly with Nascar and so we just don't have much time together.  He came home last night and left today around 4:00pm.  During this time, he "acted" sweet enough...
    goinggreen goinggreen
    51-55
    6 Responses Aug 20, 2008

    Today I got this really strange phone call from

    a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with this woman, because she called back again and left another voice message on our answering machine saying need to talk email and that was it. My...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 10, 2014

    my husband lies to me constantly.

    he once told me he went to jail in a small town where he was fishing about an hour away from where we live. I was worried sick that I didn't hear from him and then very upset that he would have legal troubles that we can't afford to deal with. turns out, he didn't want to come...
    imnotaservant86 imnotaservant86
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 2

    My husbands in the Air Force

    and it's hard for me to believe that he would ever really cheat on me but he's been doing such sketchy things lately and I really don't Know what to do. We've been through so much and I'm not sure if I even wanna know
    venting01 venting01
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 14, 2014

    Pretty sure my husband is cheating on me.

    Not sure what to do about it. Do I confront him about it now or wait for more proof? I finally got a chance to check his phone. Stupid idiot didn't even delete the texts.
    OnlyMySideOfTheStory OnlyMySideOfTheStory
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    How I Got My Ex Back

    I and my boy friend as been separated for a long period, I cam across different spell caster and they were all unable to bring my lover back. I was so sad and almost gave up on him when i met a spell man Dr Atingo that helped me get my lover back. Ever since then i have been so...
    susan540 susan540
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

    I just really need to get this off of my chest.

    My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that little tiny device tracks EVERYTHING the car is doing. I'm a stay at home mom to our two babies in a small town where I know no one so I'm...
    mills1126 mills1126
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    My husband booked a room to take me on a sex

    filled romantic getaway. When we arrived at the lodge it was really nice and very quiet. No one around. After we checked in we headed towards the elevator. A girl came walking in behind us. I heard her say she needed to be directed to the pool where she was meeting friends for a...
    glittergirl19 glittergirl19
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    Am I Overthinking Things??

    My husband has always loved me, I know that for a fact. But here lately, like long ago, he has become distant. Spending time with me does not seem that important to him. He has always been the type that worked all the time, and love's to work..... but he can't pay attention to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    Sneaky Cheater Or What?

    There have been several instances throughout my years of marriage that have been questionable.  I find numbers on his phone, I have called his hotel room while out of town until wee hours of the morning with no response (he always has some story..I didn't hear it blah blah blah...
    RATZ05 RATZ05
    36-40
    3 Responses Dec 21, 2011

    In have no hard evidence my husband of 6 years

    and have 3 kids with is cheating on me. We never had the perfect marriage. We always had our tiffs. But we got over them and showed eachother that we really were sorry and move on. Well the last 6 months have gotten worse. He is a cop and works midnights, details and has court...
    pauliner pauliner
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Jun 1, 2014

    I have no hard evidence

    that my husband on 6 years is actually cheating. We have 3 kids together (7,3,19 months.)
    pauliner pauliner
    31-35, F
    Jun 1, 2014

    I have already filed

    for divorce and my husband was already served the papers. His possible affair was the final reason I didn't want to be in this dysfunctional marriage anymore. Anyways... He pleaded with me to give our marriage another try when I told him I filed for divorce. He has been trying...
    tritongirl tritongirl
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    Over the past few weeks I've noticed my husband

    trying to quickly hide/put away his phone when I walk into the room. He's always been kind of secretive with his laptop, but I always figured it was just because he watches ****, which I don't really care about. He's also not the kind of person who is super attached to their...
    tkl760 tkl760
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2014

    Call it womens intuition

    but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I dont know these girls at all and i even caught my husband lie to me to cover up the fact that he was with them. It has...
    mmmela mmmela
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2014

    I've been married for 3.

    5 years, no kids yet, and i always thought my marriage was great, but I have recently become aware that my husband has been browsing the craigslist personal ads for a few months now. At first, I gave him the benefit of doubt and just thought he was looking because some of those...
    Adub712 Adub712
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 8, 2014

    Confused Husband

    I have been married a little ova a yr ,iam a stay at home mom and my husband is the provider an he is in the military.since we said I do's he has been chating with local woman talking bout meeting up with random woman for sex,even giving one his num asking for pic's,the first...
    ceryl27 ceryl27
    36-40
    6 Responses May 29, 2013

    Was right! Although at the time of my desision

    to divorce him he was actually seeing 8 different women.
    spiderb spiderb
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 23

    My husband cheated on me almost a year ago.

    We've been working through it. It hasn't always been easy, but I believe everyone makes mistakes and deserves a second chance. We've had another rough patch in the last month or two of distance and arguments and lack of intimacy. Last week I was booking a hotel room from his...
    OnlyMySideOfTheStory OnlyMySideOfTheStory
    36-40, F
    Apr 8

    I Want Your Opinion

    first off my husband has been acting different for about 4 or 5 months now. hes been having mood swings, hiding money, etc. a couple of months ago someone told me my husband was talking to another woman(we'll call her cc). shes also his ex. a few days later cc got in an argument...
    iwannabehis iwannabehis
    18-21
    5 Responses Sep 14, 2009

    Is My Husband Cheating On Me??? Help Me

    Well.... what happend was.. My husband and I separate for 2 weeks because I went to visit my family when I came back he was mean with me he started to tell me mean thing like *You need to lose weight and making mean jokes... Well I let it passed but yesterday he said he will go...
    CynM CynM
    22-25
    4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

    Is Or Has He Strayed?

    I have been married for 19yrs now, my husband recently got a new job, been there for about 10 months. He recently told me he is interested in another woman at his work place. I asked if he was flirting with her and he told me he was, then asked if she was back at him and he...
    sockitome2 sockitome2
    46-50
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2011

    My husband says he uses Viagra

    for mastrubation. Is this common?
    freesprite freesprite
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2015

    My husband has been using Viagra without me.

    When I confronted him he said he takes it in the morning so he can feel like more of a man. Has anyone heard of this?
    freesprite freesprite
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Mar 29, 2015

    I Want Your Opinion

    first off my husband has been acting different for about 4 or 5 months now. hes been having mood swings, hiding money, etc. a couple of months ago someone told me my husband was talking to another woman(we'll call her cc). shes also his ex. a few days later cc got in an argument...
    iwannabehis iwannabehis
    18-21
    7 Responses Sep 14, 2009

    when I was married my husband ((now ex)) was

    always on his computer and he'd get very angry if I tried to get near to see what he's up too. he made me delete all my male friends phone numbers from my phone and any males on fb. I had to change a male name to a girl name just to keep in contact with my best friend . I was...
    foReverYOURS3211 foReverYOURS3211
    26-30, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    I Think He Is Cheating On Me

    My husband of 7 yrs was invited to michigan to a concert by a female friend i do not know.  I have heard of her the last 7 yrs, was not concerned.  I trusted my husband, he has integrity and would never cheat on me.  I told him to go.  he left on...
    mesmyth mesmyth
    41-45, F
    21 Responses Nov 21, 2009

    I Think My Husband Is Cheating With A Co-worker

    I think that my husband is cheating on me with a co-worker they talk all the time on facebook and i did find a couple of chats of theirs and in one it says that he misses her and in another it says that he is jelous (sorry cant spell) I asked him about them and he tells me its...
    jesse42609 jesse42609
    31-35
    6 Responses Jul 18, 2011
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