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I Think My Husband Is In Love With Someone Else

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 17 People

    And I Hope That I Am Wrong...

    Day after day, life has become a predictable routine: I wake up and glance at the clock - seeing that it is a little after 6 and my husband will get up shortly at 6:30.  I hear him hit the snooze button at 6:20.  After ten minutes, he decides to get up and goes to the...
    weepingwillow weepingwillow 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2007

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    Seperated And My Husband Had A Friend

    Well me and my husband were seperated for 5 months, we are back together now for 9 weeks. In the 5 months he begged me to come back.  We said that we will not see other people and that we will be there for the benefits, so we like had an affair, which was amazing, as we where so...
    esmerelda123 esmerelda123 31-35, F 1 Response May 17, 2011

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    I Don't Think... I Know

    Well this story isn't about my husband - he's my partner but he hasn't yet put a ring on my finger after a number of years together. But I consider him to be my lifetime partner and I thought he felt the same way. Earlier this year I discovered that I was pregnant after being...
    missbug missbug 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2011

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    My husband checked himself into the hospital

    with thoughts of suicide. I took his belongings home and found myself drawn to a text message... You mean the world to me. Upon further reading he is in love with her. She is s co-worker that he had been talking to since January. By April the affair had begun. Now it's October...
    troubled14 troubled14 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2014

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    My wife and I have not had intimacy in years and are living like roommates. We have told each other that we are no longer in love with the other even though we treat each other...
    VoloProVeritasVV VoloProVeritasVV 56-60, M Feb 13

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    I would say I'm in love with TWO men other than my husband. Doesn't THAT make life interesting!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been married for less than a year now. To be honest, I didn't want to get married at the time, I would have much preferred to wait a couple more years. However, I was...
    languishing languishing 26-30, M 5 Responses Feb 13

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    the pain of unrequited love..
    mareeyah08 mareeyah08 31-35, F 23 hrs ago

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    It wasn't supposed to happen...these things never should. It began as harmless banter and commiserating about marriages that were not fulfilling. It appeared we were kindred...
    pink50 pink50 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    I keep trying to fight these feelings but I just can't. Idk what to do anymore. This is the first time I have ever said this "out loud" I'm hoping it makes me feel better.
    confusedinlove83 confusedinlove83 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    I know exactly what I'm going to do, though I have to wait for the right moment and for her to be ready. It's a rough wait. A very rough wait. But she is so worth it.
    languishing languishing 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm totally in love with one of my friends. her name will stay anonymous. but anyways this girl is one of the most beautiful girls in the world. I love everything about her. I love...
    RAYPENA RAYPENA 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I've posted about this before, but it's still just the same. I am so in love with someone who stumbled into my life and quickly became one of my best friends in a matter of months...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I fell in love with someone. He was perfect. I loved him with everything that i had. But distance is why things could not work between us. I recently found out that he found...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 15

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    I would like to agree with this but I feel like it would be kinda hypocritical of me even though I do believe that if you fall in love with someone I wouldn't choose the super cute...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    I am in love with someone but I am shy to tell her that I love u...
    samxjoe samxjoe 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I am falling in love with someone I can't have! Even though he doesn't have a girl friend I can never meet him! That person is the one and only Niall Horan! Who wouldn't love him...
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs 16-17, F Feb 7

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    I truly fell in love with someone I met online. And it wasn't on this site. Haha. I was actually someone who answered a Craigslist ad I posted.
    luv2wetmyself2 luv2wetmyself2 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    He knows it and so do I. I never thought I'd say I could fall in love with someone over a computer. This person could also not be any farther away from me if he tried. : (
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 7 Responses Feb 16

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    I fell in love with someone over Facebook but she is married and lives over 2000 miles away.. She defriended me for about 3 months, then out of the blue messaged me wanting to be...
    jaxon38 jaxon38 36-40, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I fell in love with someone two years ago who believed in a religion I didn't believe in. He was also three years older than me. I reminisce on that time as the happiest I've ever...
    littljay littljay 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I didn't choose to fall for him; he tripped me. He somehow got to me fall in love with him... but I don't mind. One day, I was just minding my own business. I was watching some...
    PKFairytale PKFairytale 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    And he fell in love with me and we are leaving our marriages to be together! I love him I love everything about him and he is right when he says it'll be hard at first but worth...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 1 Response 37 mins ago

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    It was 15 months ago that we met on here and started talking. It was 14 months ago that I realized I was getting attached. It was 13 months ago in which I knew I was falling in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Feb 7

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    recently I have been thinking about someone but what I find strange about this is for the first time in four years I am having these visions. in the past I used to envision being...
    Boomer2133 Boomer2133 22-25, M Feb 23

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      This is my first post, so Im not sure how it works but I'm just going to tell you what happened anyway and i really hope there is someone else out there who has had the...
    WeAlwaysHaveTheSun WeAlwaysHaveTheSun 22-25, F 12 Responses Feb 20

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    It was late in the summer of 2012. I was 17. I had a summer job at a carnival and it was my last week, as I was starting school soon. I had to travel three hours from home just for...
    aashton aashton 18-21, F Feb 9

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    Every time my phone flashes and vibrates I think it's a message from him and every time I get a little sad because the message isn't from him at all. He's 6 years order than me I...
    BandsSavedMyLife BandsSavedMyLife 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I don't hate him and I won't. I'm not going to blame someone for not loving me back. I'm not going to be mad at someone for not wanting to be with me. And I'm not going to call him...
    glasschildd glasschildd 22-25, F Feb 16

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    Well meh.... *sigh*.... It is impossible for it all to work.... I dont even know whether she is looking at me or someone else... Well it doesnt matter.... Ik it wouldnt work...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 16-17, M Feb 9

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
    Wildheart919 Wildheart919 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    I wish you realised that I don't just have a small 'crush on you' as I get the impression you think that I wish you realised how much I think about you Or that the second I wake up...
    rosexoo rosexoo 13-15, F Feb 6

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F Feb 7

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    It is still so fresh and raw and to some degrees painful. It all started with an innocent tinder chat. I was tindering as any single busy girl with mobile would do. I'm a...
    dorothyinOZ dorothyinOZ 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    You're shy and I love it, we have so many things in common and your personality is so beautiful, I think I love you. Do you love me back?? (You know who you are)
    BeckyKitten BeckyKitten 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Okay so.. ****. I think I'm slowly starting to fall in love with my chiropracter. I've only been to our sessions twice but I can't stop thinking about him :/ he's got a wife and is...
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    My bestfriend is gay and I'm in love with him... We have this amazing relationship & sometimes I think "Mabey he's not gay... Mabey the fact that he was raped when he was small...
    rosiewindswept rosiewindswept 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I have always cherished the idea of love; of having someone that you love so much that they bring out the best traits in you and they make you want to become a better person. I...
    sammymater sammymater 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I fell in love with a married man a little over a year ago. We told ourselves that familiar lie, that we would “just be friends”. But we quickly became more to each other. We...
    2ndinline 2ndinline 31-35, F Feb 11

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    We chatted for seven months. After seven months, I told him I love him. But he said he can't say I love you to someone he hasn't met in person. He wants me to wait 9 more months...
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