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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    My Husbands Brothers Wife Hates Me And Now Its Affecting Our Children.

    We have four children she has been around for the last three when my husbands brother come to the hospital to see our baby she as always waits in the car. At family events she won't even talk to me even if I talk to her first. In Dec. She had their first baby and we still have...
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses May 28, 2011

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F Jun 7, 2012

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    my family hates me...honestly i always help my family like sister and everyone of them...but for some reason they always ask money all the time and everytime i help them i ***** at...
    love19872012 love19872012 26-30, F Apr 4

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    My mother in law is mean. My sisters in laws are just as crazy as her. The rest of his family is weird, too. I am beginning to think my husband is no good for me either. Maybe...
    tiredofit44 tiredofit44 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I'm away from my family for studying. I'm always talking with mom telling her what I'm doing or where I'm going. Today she sent me and talked to me with a different way. She kept...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Hello... I just joined the group and feel so glad to find a group where I can feel safe being honest about my marriage. My husband hates me. We were happy at one point and I think...
    MissyCA MissyCA 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    well where do I begin they put down me all the time say awful things about my family his mom ,his sister and her dreadfully ugly husband did and I will never ever like people who...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Apr 5

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    Each day I go through hell. My family worships my oldest sister instead of looking at the things I have done. My mom swears up and down that she love all her kids, but honestly she...
    AnimeFan90210 AnimeFan90210 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    My dad is ashamed of me. It's so obvious. I'm everything he'd hate to have a daughter as. I'm bisexual (he's homophobic), I self harm (he thinks people who self harm are crazy), im...
    ItsDawnHeree ItsDawnHeree 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I think my mom me I was with her six years and then went to my dad she didn't want to spend money for me to get clothes or food I was a playing on the street with cans with my...
    Lonelyvamp2 Lonelyvamp2 13-15, F Apr 4

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    They really do.. They love my younger siblings and even my older sibling. They love and support them in everything they do. For me it's never good enough.No mmatter how hard I try...
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I know they don't. My mother and father have never really been supportive of me or loving. Not like how they were for my siblings... Now it's worse. They barely pass their classes...
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F Mar 31

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    My mom blew up at me because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I'm a junior in high school and just recently I got into this HUGE fight with my mom because she kept bothering me to do chores while I was doing my homework. But, since I was...
    iBeTommy iBeTommy 16-17, F Mar 31

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    My mum know that I didn't do something wrong . She act like she's stupid or something , she know it's my sister fault , she love her that why she always blame on me every single...
    emkayonexx emkayonexx 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I'm 26 my sister is 17 she acts like she can't stand me and I don't understand why. We haven't really grown up together because of the age gap and also because I lived with my mum...
    marcel888 marcel888 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    He is a Marine and has been in corporals course for a week now, pretty much like boot camp for corporals who want to become sergeants. I know he has been stressed and tired, but...
    BluePhoenix005 BluePhoenix005 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    My mother has always hated me. I was conceived when she was just sixteen and I ruined her childhood. When I was younger, I lived with my grandmother. When I reached the age of...
    bewaremywords bewaremywords 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    i cry and she ignores me thanks "mom"
    fkfh fkfh 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    They do only worse for me they dont know me at all they are strangers for me
    Narixel Narixel 18-21, M Mar 24

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    Idk if this counts as a joke but I thought it was funny! I was having dinner with my hubby and my sister in-law and her hubby as well as our kids, we were talking about my husband...
    queediana82 queediana82 31-35, F Mar 25

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    My whole family are such judgmental ******. Even though I'm not gay, I support it. The rest of my family hates it and calls me stupid and stuff like that every time I try to defend...
    sarahjade123 sarahjade123 13-15, F Mar 29

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    I think he's hates me now, or feels like he's sick of me... I just wondering that i already doin something wrong?? When i say i miss you, he said he miss me, but now it feels like...
    Sk203 Sk203 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I hate my family and my family hates me.
    LucyGirlAkita2 LucyGirlAkita2 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I notice when I got into husbands Email he had a number of replies on I had an affair, he was writing about me but did not give the whole story. He did not say how he left on...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F Mar 23

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    I have a question for all of you out there and I really need an honest answer. How do you know if a guy loves you? Give me a list of examples of what guys need to do in order for...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    Rosa Cisneros Peña (My Grandmother) My Grandmother was an extremely religious woman. She loved to sit in the evening and read her Bible. Some said that she knew the Bible so...
    wvtxpen wvtxpen 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 30

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    iv always had it head when it comes to dreams. were other people get the whole fluffy cloud and rainbow crap i get to enjoy the nightly experience of living my fears over and over...
    allwaystheoptomist allwaystheoptomist 18-21, F Apr 9

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    God hates me so much, I have so many troubles I am always sad. I suffer from mental issues and I still live at home at 40. No one likes me the guys all think I am ugly.. I have a...
    sweetnessteb2009 sweetnessteb2009 36-40 Mar 28

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    My birthday was on March 26th. I didn't say anything to anyone about it . I just wanted to see if my husband or family said anything at all. No one did. I felt crushed and utterly...
    cltpt4p cltpt4p 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    I need to share my story and get some advice. My mother was a seventeen year old when she married my dad. As far as I know she didn't love him. According to her she wanted to call...
    Bellamae Bellamae 41-45, F 9 hrs ago

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    I have a narcissistic mother in law who hates me. My husband went no contact 18 months ago. She keeps guilt tripping & manipulating family members to persuade husband to reconcile...
    l2thedoublej l2thedoublej 26-30, F Mar 24

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    This is my experience with love and doubt (read on- it's not all rainbows and butterfly's, there's a twist). I welcome all of your feedback (and ridicule) and would love to know if...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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