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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses May 28, 2011

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F Jun 7, 2012

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    My Husbands Brothers Wife Hates Me And Now Its Affecting Our Children.

    We have four children she has been around for the last three when my husbands brother come to the hospital to see our baby she as always waits in the car. At family events she won't even talk to me even if I talk to her first. In Dec. She had their first baby and we still have...
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I always wanted to have a big household. A bunch of kids, a bunch of pets. Make it like a village. I feel like humans are pack animals. Human babies are so difficult to take care...
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    I thought i was happy but im not lifeistough is gone thenetfreak hates me and now kbrabbit blocked me my three friends that i actually care about so now im going to just give up...
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    My mom really hates me.She has done so many horrible things.She did meth in the house with my two year sister home.She had an affair with a man who beats her horribly(He broke her...
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    My 16 year old daughter is making my life hell right now because I am dating a wonderful new man. She has not met him, but she hates him already and she does everything in her...
    jilly1970 jilly1970 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Never understood why Bonnie hates Joe
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I often read about people who are in dysfunctional families, who have or are suffering from emotional, physical, mental abuse. I can tell you that you cannot continue to function...
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    i was told that i m the reason my family stopped talking to each other and now im thinking of just giving them what they want and ending my life myself :(
    misscutiepie123 misscutiepie123 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I feel like my stepmom hates me, her and my dad have been together since I was 16 months old and I'll be 20 in April, she's the one who caused my parents divorce, but I've never...
    harliedanielle417 harliedanielle417 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Last week I got into an argument with my husband over the same land stuff. I told him he had to to lay with our daughter while I stayed up an watched TV because I didn't want to be...
    Sarahi7 Sarahi7 26-30, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    My Mom is always talking about how I'm a failure and everybody else is going to become great and how I'll end up working as a clerk for some insignificant company. Every single...
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    Love is Stupid!! I keep Falling in Love with Him, even though He Hates me
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    I HATE my husband's ex...I finally said it! My husband dated this woman for a few months when he realized she was wrong for him and told her he didn't see this having a future bc...
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