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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses May 28, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    It isn't really a think thing, I know. My family has hated me ever since I was about eleven years old. Eleven is around the time I began to face some serious depression. It was...
    girlofthedead girlofthedead 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I'm a twin. And my twin brother gets all the justice. When it comes to him they say they have to be fair but when it comes to me they say it wouldn't be fair to him. They don't...
    Lifesucksx10 Lifesucksx10 13-15, F Feb 17

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    I love my dad, but I think he hates me. My dad and I have been close since the day I was born. We have been inseparable ever since. I think sometime over last summer in June...
    LadyL31786 LadyL31786 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    im 24 always had mom issues i think she thinks im stupid im married have two kids a step daughter i dont like to use the word step and my son my first real child i live with my...
    forgoten1990 forgoten1990 22-25, M Jan 31

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    My mom doesn't trust me with anything. I'm her only daughter so you would think she would like me best. But like is far from how she feels towards me. She hates me and I try so...
    lollipopluv127 lollipopluv127 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    For my entire life I knew that my mother, who passed away in September 2014, would rather have only had my brother, who is 3 years older than me. I have no memories of her ever...
    Leftoutofwill Leftoutofwill 51-55 2 Responses Feb 8

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    My parents are constantly critical. They'll call me spoilt/princess/sensitive/negative/etc. Whenever I try to express how they upset me they just tell me I have "no sense of humour...
    Lstoneheart Lstoneheart 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    i read my moms messages and she said how she hates me, im awful, she wants me to move out(im 16) and she wishes she never had me. so im basically a **** up to her hahaha all i did...
    ashleydavis0 ashleydavis0 18-21, F Feb 6

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    I love my husband with all my heart but I honestly think he resents me as we hardly have sex anymore. After the birth of my daughter (18 months ago) I was diagnosed with...
    sarahjess15 sarahjess15 26-30, F Feb 13

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    Don't have to think. ^-^ Her favorite thing to do was telling me she never wanted me and always threatened to give me away. She got better when I told her I was leaving the country...
    AngelaNix AngelaNix 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I have just recently moved in with my dad and she has been giving me the cold shoulder since I got here...I think she may have disowned me..what should I do?
    ChubbiixBunnii ChubbiixBunnii 13-15, F Feb 9

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    We've been married for 5 years. I have put up with him cheating on me with both women and men. He has stolen from me and my Mom. He has never had a job or paid a single bill. He...
    joniland joniland 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    But I hate that B**** back, so who cares!
    JamieMostra JamieMostra 26-30, T Feb 7

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    today, we got to pick our own partners, and my best friend picked me. then the teacher rolled her eyes. I dont get it, she said we could choose whoever we want. its not my fault...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    My moms just an ******* tbh
    Viviannnnn Viviannnnn 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I haven't seen my dad in like 5 months because we got in a really bad argument last time we talked and I haven't seen much of my other family members neither because I was...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I believe that wives should follow the teachings of the Bible. Ephesians 5: Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord...
    RuthT RuthT 16-17, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    **stupid rant incoming** Every day, I start to think more and more about how stupid and ignorant my grandfather is. He picks the most STUPID fights with me, and never believes...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am 25 years old and have recently moved back home to live with my parents for a few months. I always knew my family was extremely dysfunctional growing up, but I always thought...
    Thristic Thristic 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    it hurts that there are millions of emotions bottled up in your chest that you can't even express. all these emotions are eating you and digging into your skin and killing every...
    xmessofadreamerx xmessofadreamerx 18-21, F Feb 15

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    Birth. Breathe. Eat. Sleep. Study. Work. Love. Marriage. Family. Life. Death. Existence. The cycle continues every single day of my life until the day I draw my last...
    miladyy miladyy 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    to all teen girls and young women in general I just want you say that I really sincerely think that it's good that you start having sex while you're young and have lots of babies...
    HandsomeG69 HandsomeG69 18-21 7 hrs ago

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    My dad's a diabetic and he's taking insulin shots regularly. He visits his doctor every now and then. We rushed him to the hospital for about three times in the past year when his...
    thecasualdilettante thecasualdilettante 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    My mother is in the OR right now being operated on. she has bone cancer and broke her hip today. She broke both femurs last week.... I don't know how long this will last... She...
    Hunnylovie Hunnylovie 22-25, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    confident.. happy within myself.. nothing bothers me. I've let that be a complete lie towards everyone in my life I'm just really good a faking it.. not even my best friend or my...
    Rachxox Rachxox 22-25, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Okay , here goes ..... 1. Coffee 2. My son's silliness 3. My husbands kindness and love 4. hugs from people I love 5.dark chocolate 6. Baking 7. Those quiet moments right...
    chernobylplayground chernobylplayground 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 18