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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F Jun 7, 2012

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    My Husbands Brothers Wife Hates Me And Now Its Affecting Our Children.

    We have four children she has been around for the last three when my husbands brother come to the hospital to see our baby she as always waits in the car. At family events she won't even talk to me even if I talk to her first. In Dec. She had their first baby and we still have...
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses May 28, 2011

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    It was a lovely week off all in all. Four of those days he was off and spent with us. I had been wondering if my feelings for him would change with all the efforts he's been making...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Only a few weeks after my new Mother married my Father, she is starting to take control of my Father and our family. Her two boys & daughter are accustomed to it but myself, my...
    masteryoungboy masteryoungboy 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    Moved to Ca after 1 month my wife of 10 years had an affair and is now pregnant. We are no longer together but I'm so lost I've lost my family my wife my daughter there's so much...
    Suriyan13 Suriyan13 41-45, M 5 hrs ago

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    It's rediculous, life is hard for everyone and takes it's toll, for some more than others but i constantly think if i had been adopted by a loving family what i may have been. The...
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    The smallest number of children I've ever wanted was 3. I was nine then, and the number has just continued growing. As I got older, I could see myself with a bigger family, and...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Or do i. ???? Do i ???? Maybe me does. But. Me hates being called sir. Me aint superior. Me is a peer. So. What is the difference Between thinking me is...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My mom always points out something she doesn’t like about my appearance, and my sisters point out things about my personality as if i always can controll it.
    katie1400 katie1400 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    So my stepmom hates me because A I'm not athletic like her kids B I don't go to a private school like her kids C I really don't care about that artificial stuff (I'm pretty slim...
    baghen baghen 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    I hate my body because my mom never told me how to love it. I'm not fat at all and am perfectly healthy. I like junk food but never eat too much of it. It's like my mom wants me to...
    SommieMusso SommieMusso 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm a regular 15 year old teen, I think. I have good friends. I've had my heart broken. I go to a good school and get great grades. I'm still a virgin. I've have two younger...
    AzarathRaven AzarathRaven 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    A lot of my aunts do not like me because my body developed really fast at a really young age also , so basically there jealous because some of their daughters much older then me...
    liliovoxo liliovoxo 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This past weekend my husbands family had a big get together for his grandmothers 81st birthday. It was wonderful to see everyone on his dad's side since we barely ever get to...
    SomniumProeliator SomniumProeliator 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My mom has chose her ex husbands over her own kids. She's married and divorced four times. three of them were abusive to me, my brother and sisters and my mom. Those stepdads...
    Daemonia Daemonia 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I keep myself largely hidden from my family, both immediate and extended. I keep it general. It's been good for me. As far as I'm concerned, personal info is my info to give away...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    my dad hates me off and on his girlfriend hates me but he will message that he's sorry and to forget about everything that was said it always happens
    calvin0 calvin0 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I've never had what you would call a normal life,ya know what our world deems as normal.(Securing a Job/Car/Home/marriage/kids.I was given a curse in the form of a medical...
    Sahalia Sahalia 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've long thought/believed that People Come Into Your Life For A Reason... I've just not always been clear on what the reason Is, y'know? To learn & grow, of course. To share...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My mom wishes that I was never born and today she swore that she won't mention my name or will talk to me for the rest of her life :-)
    ahisayouknow ahisayouknow 16-17, F a week ago

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    So I'm not trying to write a sob story, I guess I'm just looking for some kind of motivation or support or even coping strategies that may have worked for some people. So this is...
    HippieRose HippieRose 22-25, F a week ago

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    Of course all women should submit to the leadership of men. It's obvious that men were made to be dominant over women, in bed, in the family, and in the world. It's only natural...
    roseoftralee roseoftralee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28