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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses May 28, 2011

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I know for sure. The woman that babysits my cousin's daughter who is partially related to our family through her husband, once asked me to marry her nephew, and that he hadn't a...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Apr 13

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    My younger sister is 38 and I'm 44. She hates me for as long as I can remember. I was hoping that when we get older we would mature and be very close. Things seems to get worst...
    sparklyivy5 sparklyivy5 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    A few minutes ago, my mom walked in the door. She had just got back from the store. I'm up in my room with the door open and I can hear everything. She openly invites my sister to...
    DreamCloud17 DreamCloud17 18-21, F Apr 12

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    One of my long time friends hates me now
    BueatifulRoses BueatifulRoses 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    my sister is 38 and I'm 44. She hates me. She tells people what a horrible person I am. I've done so much for her. But she only focus on something she couldn't have. She asked me...
    sparklyivy5 sparklyivy5 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I know my mom hates me. She told me so when I was 16. It's not that she's a completely hateful person. She loves my dad and adores my brothers. But when it comes to me, nothing is...
    Libby4 Libby4 26-30, F Apr 17

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    No matter what I do, my husband yells at me. I just can't do anything right in his eyes. I feel like it's abusive. I often cry because of this yelling all of the time...
    cymoffett cymoffett 36-40 2 days ago

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    There was one point where she pinned me against a wall and choked me over a bad grade that was already fixed. I contacted my principal about it, the police ended up coming to my...
    TheyCalMeKitty TheyCalMeKitty 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I grew up in a family that was quite different than an ordinary one they werent perfect they made mistakes, but the perks was how they raised differently. They are highly...
    RestlessFlame RestlessFlame 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    My mom is putting me through torture. I have to do things that I don't want to do I have to leave everything I love because my mom forcing me to
    nxmle nxmle 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Where do I begin? I just can't do a thing right in her eyes. I struggle everyday to make things right. To do the small things and the large. She's just interested in finding ways...
    Glasswalker Glasswalker 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Anyone else have that mom who tries to murder you in your sleep, curses your name, wishes you were never born, and refuses to feed you. . . I do ^_^
    TokioDoll TokioDoll 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Cause I am really beginning to hate him. He borrowed $10 from me without telling me and I had plans today. And he still gives me the same fucknig curfew since I was 12 years old...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M Apr 11

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    My cat likes to race after me and get under my feet when I am going up or down the stairs, hoping to one day, inevitably, trip me.
    ashb3r ashb3r 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My mum doesn't care about me.all she does is work and come home and sit on the Internet. Once I was so bored I turned off the internet so my mum can pay some attention on me and...
    zuzannapanda zuzannapanda 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    That will die with my mother. She shares nada. Would have been a perfect fit for The CIA. Secrets.... things that more than likely has a shame factor.
    complex7 complex7 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was thinking... What does one do, if one wants out?. It is nice and everything. Every year all cousins gather on both my mothers and my fathers side to do some activities...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Apr 13

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    If you think that your family loves you... Think again! If you think that they'll always be there for you... Think again! If you think that they'll accept you completely despite...
    Starvin9Artist1 Starvin9Artist1 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    rescueme99 rescueme99 41-45 1 Response Apr 15

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    "What did you think I would be proud of you? I don't even WANT to be proud of you, I hate you" I've always suspected that she resented me but today I think she had enough of...
    Irbidi Irbidi 18-21, M Apr 8

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    My cousin is having her first communion tonight, and I was told to wear something nice but not super fancy. So me being the introvert, who hates dressing up put on a nice pair of...
    Mcfly815183 Mcfly815183 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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