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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses May 28, 2011

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    o know they hate me specially my mom. she always says toe that I was a mistake that I wasn't support to be born. but comparing it to my other sibbling my sister which is two years...
    metoo112 metoo112 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I'm 15 i thought me and my mom were tight, got each others back. Now I think my mom doesn't give a darn about my back and me. I used to take piano lessons and taekwondo, I never...
    TheninjaCj TheninjaCj 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 11

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    Hello. This is gonna be long so I thank you in advance for taking the time to read it. Since a child I always had issues with one of my older sisters. From verbal confrontations to...
    Liveandlearn88 Liveandlearn88 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I'm constantly trying to figure out why my mother hates me. I feel like she wanted the perfect child... not... well... me. My mother and I have never had a good relationship. One...
    Why1996 Why1996 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    We get along great, moved to another state to be away from them, and after we are here 2 months, his mom wants to suddenly have our daughter spend the night after not spending any...
    louieshack louieshack 36-40, F Mar 5

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    I am in a biracial marriage. My MIL doesn't like me. She lives with us and almost every encounter with her is hell. I am beyond uncomfortable in my own house. Here's the kicker...
    Mexicangirl2003 Mexicangirl2003 31-35, F Mar 6

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    I am 45 years old and my husband is 33 years old. We've got married 10 years ago in India, where he come from with a strong male dominant background. I sponsored him to come to...
    ally1971 ally1971 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    No matter what I do, my mum always finds fault. If I get a low grade or forgot to clean my room, even if I burn her tea she will yell. I'm sick of it! I can't take anymore. I...
    Lauren1401 Lauren1401 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    WE have been married going on 3 years. But we have been together since 2006/07. I lost my job back in June so now we have money problems. He works 2 jobs now and I know he is tired...
    GorditaDiosa GorditaDiosa 26-30 1 Response Mar 13

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    My mom has this habit. She calls me stupid or dumb at least once a day. maybe more. she always feels the need to insult me.. she loves putting me down and when i cry she yells...
    carmaniteee carmaniteee 18-21, F Mar 5

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    I don't know what I ever did wrong I don't get why she yells at me and curses me out, I just want it to stop...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F Mar 11

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    Every time she sees me, she has to yell. I'm so tired of it. I'm tired of being the one she has to let go of her anger towards. It's not fair
    SilentScream0327 SilentScream0327 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I never cried so hard in my life when I realized God gave happiness to someone else. Just like the girl who chose someone over me. God chose someone over me. Somehow God thought it...
    ForeverALoser ForeverALoser 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 15

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    My parents divorced when I was seven.by now, they have both already met different people,but my dad seems to love his girlfriend and her kids more than me.I'm not saying my fathers...
    suicidalpeep suicidalpeep 13-15, F Mar 17

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    I have a 2 yr old,a 1 yr old and im prego again. Husband is mad at me for being pregnant saying its my fault but I can live with no sex cause this is what it gets me. There is no...
    Stashlin Stashlin 26-30 2 Responses Mar 18

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    last Friday I actendly left faheema my sis I never even wanna leave faheema but the bus forcedly told me to leave faheema and we left but I ****** have no ****** choice and...
    Jasminekress Jasminekress 16-17 6 days ago

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    My Secret Sister- As I said before,my mother didn't raise me. Instead I was raised in Hawaii by my Filipino paternal grandmother. Due to her immature party girl attitude my...
    BlackNPinoy BlackNPinoy 26-30, M Mar 11

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    Every three years there has been a family tradition of going on a family vacation trip in my husbands family, this was supposed to be the eleventh such trip since my husbands...
    isis55 isis55 51-55, F a week ago

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    I'm at a point in my life where I've reached crisis. I'm in my mid 30's and have begun to realise that for nearly all my life I've had very little love or support from my family...
    shegeek shegeek 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    I know I'm depressed I don't think I am. I feel like the whole world is coming down on me. my family hates me. I try talking to them but they don't listen. they've seen my scars...
    DontKnow2013 DontKnow2013 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well, I've spoken to my director today about changing my roommate. And she told me that if four people are willing to do it, that isnt a big problem. Then, my roommate was sent to...
    candicexd123 candicexd123 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Family Is Special One good and loving man I've known here has thought me one thing about making ones family important. I've been helping, and always being with them whenever...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 6 Responses a week ago