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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    My Husbands Brothers Wife Hates Me And Now Its Affecting Our Children.

    We have four children she has been around for the last three when my husbands brother come to the hospital to see our baby she as always waits in the car. At family events she won't even talk to me even if I talk to her first. In Dec. She had their first baby and we still have...
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    They talk bad about me infront of me

    and say really mean and nasty stuff to me but if I tell my husband that I dont like them he gets mad and starts breaking expensive things boy do I really hate him I wish he would stick up for me and tell them to stop or I want a divorce
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jul 23

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F Jun 7, 2012

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses May 28, 2011

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    It's not an old story but I never thought that he'll use the kids against me. I left because I had enough of his philandering while accusing me of having an affair aside from...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 29 my life came crashing down around me about 2mths ago I've been given a bad hand at live so much so that I wish like the rest of my family I was dead but death isn't comming...
    CathyKenney CathyKenney 26-30 2 Responses Jul 24

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    My stepmom works very hard for our family. I appreciate the things she does. I just don't think she appreciates the things I do. I understand I mess up a lot, but I'm 18 and I'm...
    kbell18 kbell18 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    When I Was Growing Up I Was The Only One Close To My Grandmother. She Has Five Daughters And 13 GrandKids, Out Of All The Grandkids I Was The Lucky One To Be Close To Her. My...
    DoneWithSecrets DoneWithSecrets 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Today my father wanted me to help him move a car. Since I am more comfortable with automatic rather than manual I told him I will try. I tried my best and managed to move the car...
    cherryaleks cherryaleks 18-21 Jul 23

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    Ok. Maybe not so much as hate me, but rather who i am if that makes sense. Perhaps i should elaborate... I am a gay male who is also mtf... So being gay and trans my family...
    VerdlaTal VerdlaTal 13-15, T 1 Response Aug 9

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    GOD hates religion. He loves worship. GOD is love. I've had many spiritual experiences, I've been through hardships and at first I used to blame GOD and say why are these things...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    Ever since I can remember, my dad has never seemed to like me. I know he loves me (I mean, he's my father..he HAS to love me right?) but I feel like he wishes he had different...
    mad1051 mad1051 16-17, F a week ago

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    I have a few problems with my mum so it was happened about 7 months ago when I was thinking about join AFS for exchange student. I had a talk with my mum about it, she accepted and...
    FebeBab3 FebeBab3 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    What more is there to think...he picks at something all the time. My jokes, my clothes, the fact that I can't party like him and our friends, the things I say, the way the house...
    aceventura21 aceventura21 26-30, F a week ago

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    My father and his oldest sister know nothing about their fathers. And my Dad said my grandma would get angry if he asked questions as a child. Well I think that's crazy that we don...
    KeeWee812 KeeWee812 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Why is it all about money? My family is a mess because of them! I know their problems stem from years of unhappiness and secrets but they just don't learn! Secret bank accounts...
    jest04 jest04 18-21, F Aug 5

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    My whole dad's side of the family just glares at me every time they see me so family events are awkward but my sister makes me go
    PeacandOtaku PeacandOtaku 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    It's a long story but it hurts so much that my moms side of the family treat me so bad
    unclaimedbabygirl unclaimedbabygirl 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    He screams at me used to hit me and beat me I used to hide it like nothing happened put on make up so no one could see the bruses and marks my teacher askes me all the time is...
    tamaraiwannaknow tamaraiwannaknow 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    My mum and I used to be close until I turned 13 and we moved to the country. We rented a house from a man named glen who had 3 kids and lived in the shed he owned next to the house...
    nicole1999 nicole1999 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I know my dad, at bear minimum, dislikes me. I'm a cocky, smart, strong guy. So my ever-so-lovely father and I get into it quite a bit.
    Goregon8790 Goregon8790 18-21, M Jul 26

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    I was born and raised in a nightmarish country and I have bad luck, autism and horrible grades. I hate my life. It makes no sense! Im the only autistic who has suffered all his...
    Miserablechildhood Miserablechildhood 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    Its okay I hate her more !!!!!!!!
    Mi5h Mi5h 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    straight up told me she wishes I'd die or kill myself because I am nothing but a disappointment to her .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    She just made me another promise. I cant trust her :( i bet she only made it cos there were people around and she wanted to sound like she was nice. Shes gonna break it im sure of...
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm stupid, stupid, stupid. I'm not going to get far in life... :(
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    My experience is one that both came as a shock, and in some weird way, a confirmation of the fears I've always had regarding my parents and their conditional love of me. I've...
    Kaleesto Kaleesto 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I lost everything because of them. Best friends, good times and great feelings. they boss me around all day and show no respect and they want respect from me?. I would run away but...
    ayers28 ayers28 13-15, M Jul 28

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