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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    They talk bad about me infront of me

    and say really mean and nasty stuff to me but if I tell my husband that I dont like them he gets mad and starts breaking expensive things boy do I really hate him I wish he would stick up for me and tell them to stop or I want a divorce
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jul 23

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F Jun 7, 2012

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    My Husbands Brothers Wife Hates Me And Now Its Affecting Our Children.

    We have four children she has been around for the last three when my husbands brother come to the hospital to see our baby she as always waits in the car. At family events she won't even talk to me even if I talk to her first. In Dec. She had their first baby and we still have...
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses May 28, 2011

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    She has been criticising me ever since I gained weight. I never heard any nice words from me, it's like she hates me for being fat and doing something about it. Now that I've been...
    Jelliii Jelliii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Well I wouldn't say hate but, I thought they were really weird alot different from what I am used to I remember walking into his house and noone that past by me ever said hello I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Sep 9

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    My stepmom works very hard for our family. I appreciate the things she does. I just don't think she appreciates the things I do. I understand I mess up a lot, but I'm 18 and I'm...
    kbell18 kbell18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I will pull myself together to go work at two jobs today as usual, but first I need to clear my head of what's going on with my family. Not much, nothing dramatic really. I talk to...
    tryingtobehappy2 tryingtobehappy2 56-60, F a week ago

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    Ivebeen married for 36 years. My husband turns on me when it comes to.his family and our children. Now..because he didnt like me asking our daughter questions (shes 26) he told...
    allison575757 allison575757 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    I Don't know why honestly I love her to death, when i was little she would always look out for me and i looked up to her and wanted to be like her. (Im 16 right now and shes 21...
    xxSashaxx xxSashaxx 22-25, F Sep 7

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    I been with my husband for three years we have 2 children a boy age 1 and a girl age 2 for the past three months he's been saying he won't to break up and won'ts me and the kids to...
    lostlovee21 lostlovee21 18-21, F Aug 27

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    My whole dad's side of the family just glares at me every time they see me so family events are awkward but my sister makes me go
    CosplayPotato CosplayPotato 13-15, F Aug 17

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    It's a long story but it hurts so much that my moms side of the family treat me so bad
    unclaimedbabygirl unclaimedbabygirl 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    My Family Is Goin Thew A Lot , &'do Its Like I'm The Cause But I Really Not
    ADukes15 ADukes15 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Everytime I do something wrong they try to rub it in my face and make me feel horrible. Yesterday I was driving an I made a mistake and they just kept calling me stupid an any...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    My parents call me names. Like really, really bad ones too. I've got bullied by those name and they know it. So I've got tired of it so i ran away from home for 4-8 hours and then...
    TheLoner4Life TheLoner4Life 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    She just made me another promise. I cant trust her :( i bet she only made it cos there were people around and she wanted to sound like she was nice. Shes gonna break it im sure of...
    LifeOnAThread LifeOnAThread 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I'm stupid, stupid, stupid. I'm not going to get far in life... :(
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    i am not sure but i have a step sister and my mother makes me bade her feed her sleep with her i basically do everything for her till she starts calling me ma and my mother by her...
    cubbycake cubbycake 18-21, F Aug 23

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    I guess ever since I could remember I've hated my mom, always day dreaming about a mom that cared and loved me. I am now 15, and I can't even remember the last time my mother said...
    Jaaye1 Jaaye1 70+ 1 Response Aug 31

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    My mom always yells at me for random things i didn't do like stealing my dads money when it was in is pocket the whole time or breaking her glasses when i didnt even know she had...
    leilabirdy leilabirdy 16-17, F Sep 6

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    i was about to post something delicate about myself and blam!!!! blue screen of death this only happens after avg decides to take extra long updating. i set it to update every...
    Storyboard0241 Storyboard0241 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    My mom never wanted me in the first place. She made me aware of this when I was young. She wanted a boy. I believe she started to hate me the most though when my father died. I was...
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel like my real dad has secret I don't know to much about him cuz he not in my life but I know he's hiding a secret
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    My family hates who I am. Hates my personality. It is so hard having your own personality rejected. Especially by my own family. I just want someone to hug me and say I Love You
    jigglykangeroo jigglykangeroo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I am the black sheep of my family I hate it so much I feel like my family hates me
    nadirah96 nadirah96 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    Me: -finished highschool (Abitur) and now studying Literature at an University in Germany. - learned how to play the violin, viola and piano - went to many camps in the US or other...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I feel like every time I think my family is just about to hit a golden era, it just gets worse. I feel like the glue that keeps them together but no one really sees the glue do...
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F Aug 20

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    I recently had a fight with a close friend and now she hates me and all the people I knew that knew here hate me now. I am often alone and now my friends who don't even know her...
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 16-17 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    We don't get to choose our families unfortunately. If we did it would be nice though. I come from a very unaccepting, judgmental, conditional love sort of family and recently it...
    crystalc1973 crystalc1973 36-40, F 3 hrs ago