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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses May 28, 2011

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F Jun 7, 2012

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    They talk bad about me infront of me

    and say really mean and nasty stuff to me but if I tell my husband that I dont like them he gets mad and starts breaking expensive things boy do I really hate him I wish he would stick up for me and tell them to stop or I want a divorce
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jul 23

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    My Husbands Brothers Wife Hates Me And Now Its Affecting Our Children.

    We have four children she has been around for the last three when my husbands brother come to the hospital to see our baby she as always waits in the car. At family events she won't even talk to me even if I talk to her first. In Dec. She had their first baby and we still have...
    4 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    i dont even know where to begin with this one. shes five years older then me. we have gone through points in our relationship where we get along and then we dont, at all. we took...
    LiveloveJ LiveloveJ 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I'm not going to lie. I'm scared. My mother abuses me and my father sees me as a loser. They both call me names and even though they're divorced, I can't help but feel they both...
    jaycampos5423 jaycampos5423 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    Two months ago I visited my mom with my son. Just got out of talk army and wanted my baby boy to see more of her. My sister gave my son (who is 2), my old stuffed animal that she...
    paytek paytek 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    They are so mean and horribe to me and its just repetitive. I am so tired of being treated so poorly that I have chosen to stay away from them because I just can not be around...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I am a woman, my husband says he regrets the day he met me. He's wasted his life on me. I'm lazy,stupid and crazy. He wud rather kill himself than see me. All items he says to me...
    scott5656 scott5656 26-30 4 Responses a week ago

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    They see as a nobody, a low life... When my sister was 16 she had a job, me i don't and still don't... Just today for tea, i had small amount of mash and a spoon full of sweet corn...
    littletease littletease 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Guess you can't choose your family ! I was the child they didn't won't
    Unknown1456 Unknown1456 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Well my mum she's ALWAYS putting me down saying how unhygienic I am and how dumb and that I'm rude selfish and she hates me. I'm not taking this anymore I'm running away, I'm not...
    evieisworthless evieisworthless 13-15, F Oct 5

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    A week ago i got a mean letter from my sister. She told me that im crazy and that her boyfriend and her friends think like that too. Then she wanted to find me a good shrink in her...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I refuse to hide my emotions anymore, I mean what have I got to loose? My life? Well right now that seems like more of a blessing than a curse.
    BulletproofLoneliness BulletproofLoneliness 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    They all put me down and make me feel like i will never grow up to be anything
    AustinmMurdock AustinmMurdock 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    My dad just told me to hang myself :( I was never so upset in my life
    He1111 He1111 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Last night I came home from work and instantly began getting bitched at. After refusing to tell me why she was yelling my mother told me she wanted to forget me and to leave. So I...
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    Ugh girls don't y'all hate when Mother Nature mess up stuff sometimes... **** sucks because I really wanna **** my dude
    Stonerchick23 Stonerchick23 18-21, F Sep 21

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    I am waiting and wanting a compliment from my husband. One could say I'm longing for one.
    prang777 prang777 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I can't do anything right by my mom... My Dad left us when I was only 4 and ever since then she's being on a downward spiral. She has been remarried then divorced and now...
    jessstar50 jessstar50 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I'm 32 & been married 12 years and we have 2 boys together and 3 from our first marriage. I recently took up couponing. It's very time consuming and I have been accused of...
    rosiemobo rosiemobo 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    He'd rather pet the dog then touch me.
    prang777 prang777 31-35, F Oct 1

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    I don't know why, but whenever I try to talk to her or opening a conversation with her, she always like ignoring me. AND I HATE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    RiniAlisaputri RiniAlisaputri 13-15, F Oct 3

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    My estranged wife is so pissed at me right now. It's always a ******* trap. Sets me up so that no matter what I say it's the wrong answer. So I shut down and she gets even more...
    cruxma cruxma 56-60, M Oct 11

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    my husband is so angry with me. i'm afraid he can't get over it. he says he might leave. but now i'm in this hellish purgatory -- waiting for him to maybe leave or decide he...
    maestro1 maestro1 31-35 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Can someone please give me the tips to dig deeper about my father's secrets for business and being boss of..? Thanks 😊
    FebeBab3 FebeBab3 16-17, F Oct 11

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    She is nothing but a groupie. She is a washed up old hag. I bet she idolized 'ex-wives of rock and roll' she probably thinks she's one of them. She needs to stop calling ,y...
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