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I Think My Husbands Family Hates Me

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    When I Married My Husband , I Never Thought I Was Marring His Freaking Crazy Family!!!

     Hi, I am new to the new group and I have been married for 9 years to a wonderful man. I was divorced first no no by his family. They never accepted me into his family, at all the family gatherings they made me fill like a fly on the wall it was really awful. I have 2...
    foreverjustme3 foreverjustme3 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Negative Personalities

    My parents-in-law are disgraceful human beings to me. Of course a part of me wants to be non-judgemental and benevolent and give them the benefit of the doubt with the thought that nobody is completely evil. But in this case, I have proof they are evil people. First of all, they...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2012

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    My Husband Mother Hates Me!

    i love my husband but his mother wish i was dead, iam  not his first  wife.....she hope i'll never got pregnantthe stress cause a miscarriage now 10yrs later we have beautiful twins, no woman should go threw this,this pain hurts my kids too!
    ourtwins ourtwins 41-45 1 Response Apr 23, 2012

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    The Feeling Is Now Mutual

    I met my husband three years ago online. We fell in love and we married after about two months of dating. I met his family and they seemed to really like me and accepted my daughter who was 6 months old at the time. We even moved into the same apartment complex so we...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    I'm At A Loss For Words

    So the holidays are coming up and my husbands EXTENDED family has a gift exchange $40 for every person.  There are over 40 people.  The last several years the majority of adults have been exchanging gift cards instead of gifts.  Since the beginning I've been asking...
    mechgirl mechgirl 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2009

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    Get The Sense That They Never Really Liked Me In The First Place...

    My husband and i have been together for over 5 years now, and i have strong reason to believe that his family doesn't really take a liking to me... Well, his mother i'm not sure about. His dad is a really nice guy, he liked me right away and welcomed me into the family with open...
    MidnightAmethyst MidnightAmethyst 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2013

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    How Am I Suppose To Face My Inlaws

    About 5 dys ago my husband found out I had been cheating he wamts wants me to stay and we work thru this. when he found out he needed someone to talk to so he called his youngest brother down to our house. and as soon as they were Don my hubby let me know my brother knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 24, 2012

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    I Think My Boyfriend's Family Hates Me .

    It's not that they've ever been rude to me . They've never said anything to me to put me out . Just ... little things, I guess . My boyfriend and his sister live together, (if that tells you anything, he and his entire family are VERY close) but she has never said anything to me...
    MyFriendsWang420 MyFriendsWang420 16-18, F 7 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    My Husband Family

    My hubby's brother and wife hates me for sure.  My mother-in-law liked me better from the start until my brother-in-law kind of pushed my mother-in-law to like his wife better, I guess I would call it "buy love".  - I don't care anymore. I know, I'm not the type getting on my...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jan 11, 2011

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    Hubby's Family

    My husband family may hate me for whatever reasons.  I don't hate none of them...I dislike what some did or acted.  There's one in particular I like better then the rest. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    Kill Them With Kindness!!!!!!

    So my husband and i met when i was 18, i feel instantly in love with him. He was such a great guy, he accepted my daughter like his own and was altogether considerate. So any way, we have been together for 9 years now and his family hates me , they make it apparent every chance...
    pheonix8923 pheonix8923 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2013

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    I Often Wish I'd Never Gotten Married...

    It’s overly dramatic, I know. I love my husband but his family HATES me. I’m not even sure what I did to make them feel this way toward me. I’ve tried so hard and put up with so much only to get stomped on over and over again. So here’s how it is if you want to read it...
    DantiaX DantiaX 22-25 3 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    I Know My Husbands Family Hates Me

    Ok long story short my husband & i got together when he was with some one els for five years. he left her. we got together. His family hates me. we got married a year later my mom didnt come because she didnt like the way his family treated me his family showed up and made...
    mrsbedolla mrsbedolla 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    In-laws Hating Me

    Talking with my husband, he said: You are a good and strong person.  My family treated you like crap and you endured all of it and still stayed.  If I (he) was married to another woman, that woman wouldn't have lasted in our marriage for long and would have left after one...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses May 28, 2011

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    My Husband's Family Really Hates Me

       My husband's family has hated me ever since I first met them. They think I'm stupid and not good enough and they're always making snide little comments about me. They've criticized me, where I'm from, and my job. His mother is the worst, she is always finding ways to exclude...
    MissVictorian MissVictorian 31-35, F Sep 17, 2013

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    I Am The Sole Caretaker Of My Very Ill Husband And His Family Treats Me Like Crap.

    I have always gone out of my way to be nice to my husband's grown children.  They never call or visit unless they want something.  My husband is now very ill and in need of a lung transplant.  He was a smoker for 40 plus years.  His son blamed me for his illness.  Apparently...
    LBurke5636 LBurke5636 46-50 Aug 25, 2011

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    Bad Time

    i went to my mother n laws funeral and thats when i met the family it was a bit to much for everyone and me . most of the family was ok but one of the sisters was rude on our way to the airport she gave my husband an ex girlfriend s phone number so he could call her i was in the...
    sdtc sdtc 31-35 Jul 13, 2012

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    Just Tell Me, Ok.

    My sister-in-law gave birth to her newest bundle of joy on friday. Everyone got to hold him and everyone got their pictures taken holding him. I got to hold him, just didn't get a picture. The pictures were then set up in a slide show, showing off the family holding the new baby...
    silvertears silvertears 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 29, 2007

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me.

    My husband "Jody" and I met in junior high, but we didn't start dating until sophmore year of high school. We decided to go to the same college. We both lived at home with our parents and commuted to school together daily. After two years of college he joined the army. So we...
    armywife68j armywife68j 22-25, F Mar 30, 2013

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    A Place to Vent Finally.

    I don't think my husband's family hates me. In fact, I know they do. It's typically the husband's mother who causes the strain in most marriages, but in our case, it's my husband's grandmother and cousin. My husband and I have been married for almost two years...
    spiffybunz spiffybunz 22-25 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    My Inlaws Hates Me

    i been with my husband for over 5 years now but we only married almost a yr now. we been through so much 2gerther. we have our ups & downs like any other married couple do. like every1 said, when you married things r not easy. 1st, my family doesnt like my husband, they cant...
    anelatai anelatai 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    My Husbands Family Hates Me

    My husband and I have been together for over 15 years and its a second marriage for both of us.  He was my boss and we had an affair. Unfortunately, at the same time his parents separated after 45 years together (because my husbands father had an affair).  It wasn't...
    loopylayla loopylayla 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Life becomes really upsetting when the people who are supposed to love you unconditionally turn on you because you have a different opinion. Like today my mom told me it was okay...
    ChubbiixBunnii ChubbiixBunnii 13-15, F Jan 8

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Not really my father, by my step father, but he is more like my father.. And not me, but us, our whole family, his two sons from my mother and my sister, and sometimes I feel as...
    iamnoor iamnoor 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    After reading everyone's situation it is hard to think my problem is really that much of a problem, but I need to just get it out. I am the eldest and growing up I will admit I was...
    etburki etburki 22-25, F Jan 19

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    every since almost 4 years ago my husband family has treated me like **** not even knowing me,harrased and threatened me and threw my herpes **** in my face from being raped and...
    mandyvargas18 mandyvargas18 18-21, F Jan 8

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    My husband constantly argues with me and tells me I'm stupid and worthless. I work full time in a very demanding pharmacy I'm also a full time Mother. I'm loving, I make sure he...
    Escobargirl240 Escobargirl240 26-30 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know I'm not supposed to say this. But WHY ME? Ever since I was born I had always felt like I'm a burden to my family. They never notices my achievements and my good qualities...
    SociallyIneptxD SociallyIneptxD 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    I am so sick and tired of being treated so badly from him and his family why the hell wont he leave me alone already I had enough of your bull alls they do is constantly bagger me...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Jan 18

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    >texted my mom that I would take out the trash when she came home >she comes home and yells at me >tells the whole house that she hates me and that she would kill me to prove a...
    Jovanite Jovanite 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have an older twin sisters that I love so much I really do I try to follow their steps because I think what they are doing is the best. They are 4 years older than me and they...
    rawdaA rawdaA 18-21, F Jan 5

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    Mom and I were running errands yesterday and had lunch with a couple of her friends. My sister was at school and when she came home she found my leftovers in the fridge. After...
    PearlRose PearlRose 18-21 2 Responses Jan 17

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    MY HUSBAND IS LEAVING ME! I'M GOING CRAZY I CAN'T STOP CRYING MY LIFE IS GONE IT'S MY FAULT OMG MY POOR SON WILL HAVE TO LIVE 2 LIFES! I HATE THIS I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO I'M...
    gemini61289 gemini61289 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    So my husband has been lying to me about where money is going. He promised me he was saving it and it was in the bank. But what he didn't know was I could check the bank balance. I...
    Talice88 Talice88 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    my mom is so ******* mean to me , she is so cold ,I cry and tell her I can't live like this anymore and she either tells me to shut up or yeah right like wtf what kind of mother...
    hayley101 hayley101 13-15, F Jan 19

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    I think i will never be loved, im depressed, self-harm and anorexia, my family hates me and only have three friends, i think im ugly everytime i look at the mirror and im starting...
    TheRealFenix TheRealFenix 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    i'm sick of hearing people say''family is everything.there's nothing more than family''and they meant family means blood. NO,that is not true. I had been phisically,sexually abused...
    JerryJerryA JerryJerryA 31-35, F 1 Response 30 mins ago

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    She manipulates me, makes me feel guilty when I am not guilty, she says everything I do is disgusting, she looks at me with disgust, she talks crap about me and twists stories to...
    hollyissad hollyissad 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 12 Responses Jan 19

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    I feel as if my mum hates me. She always attacks me for being just like my father and brings me down because of it. I am currently having relationship problems and I feel as if...
    SecretAbby SecretAbby 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate this b*ch. yeah and don't even tell me I need to respect my mom blah blah blah whatever useless sh*t like that. How can I respect someone that is always bringing me down...
    Nicolek123 Nicolek123 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    last year, i got help from a guidance councilor because i was constantly bullied everyday. Everyone was friends with the bully cause she was cool but rude to helpless people, like...
    LeslieBabyGirl17 LeslieBabyGirl17 16-17, F Jan 8

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    I hate - hate hate hate - I can't stress to you enough about how much I just hate his father. I have pure hatred for that person. I don't even say "man" - because he is not a man...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I think I can, I think I can, I know I can, because I've done it. <3 <3 <3
    Sinjintiger Sinjintiger 41-45, M 29 mins ago

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    I think it is right , but also men in general should take the lead, husbands , boyfriend or lovers, maybe I am old fashioned
    lindaishere lindaishere 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Have you found that everyone you find attractive is literally not attracted to you and everyone who is attracted to you you find unattractive ? Or is that just in my world.... Eh...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 5 Responses 25 mins ago

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    I would like to hear the opinion from women who either agree or disagree. Should husbands be obedient? I am curious do females want to be the dominant sex?
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 6 Responses Dec 31, 2014