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I Think My Marriage Is Over

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    A Message From My Dad -   I'm sitting here in my chair at 930 on the island. the music of choice -loud enough to drown out the baseball game - is I am a rock -Simon and...
    gdgtgrl gdgtgrl 41-45, F 12 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    How Long Do You Wait? - I have been married for five years. My husband has not worked at all for the last three. He worked only part time the second year we were married. He...
    AnnaLeonette AnnaLeonette 46-50 1 Response Feb 4, 2013

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    How Do I Leave My Husband? - So I have been living with my H again after our separation of a month (and I spent some time with the OM). Currently I am not in contact with the OM...
    Jossy1 Jossy1 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    My Life - My husband has a Gambling problem his out all night at the casino comes home n starts fight for more money
    Angelkumar Angelkumar 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2012

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    I Think My Marriage Is Over - We have been married for 10 years.About 8 months ago I noticed my wife was always keeping her phone close by and texting alot.She never did that...
    stangman1 stangman1 36-40, M 5 Responses Apr 29, 2012

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    And I Did It - i went out drinking with a work buddy last week and didn't get home til the sun was up the next day. while that is bad enough i made it worse by not calling to say i...
    doitagain doitagain 36-40, M 5 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    I Don't Care If We Make It Or Not. - My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we have 2 kids. Over the last 2 years I have had multiple emotional meltdowns...
    eitakyeltneb eitakyeltneb 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    It's Over... - As Roy Orbison once sang, "It's over, it's over, it's Ooover.....", so is my marriage.  Tonight is the night I talked to my kids about it.  They...
    Cheleanne Cheleanne 66-70, F 19 Responses May 11, 2008

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    Let's face it. Nearing the end of your marriage is difficult to recognize. I found it very useful to look at the grievance process of divorce. I hope the best for everybody. While...
    wildworld12 wildworld12 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I Think After 17 Years, the Last 5 of Which Have Been Basically Sexless I Have Stopped Caring Or Trying. - I don't think there is any one thing that happened to get me here. ...
    searching4answer searching4answer 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    I Woke Up - I woke up this morning and realized how very tired of the entire process of being married I am. You see last evening I almost died while my husband slept. He slept...
    ElleNoir ElleNoir 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    This Isn't A Marriage - We're 16 years in. We have 3 children 14 to 7. He has several children (28 to 20) from his first marriage who only speak to me since he was never a Dad to...
    momanon222 momanon222 36-40, F Sep 18, 2012

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    I Made A Mistake - I have been married for 18 years and we have had out problems and no matter how bad we came through. He cheated and I forgave, he let me down I forgave. I think...
    Spuddytat38 Spuddytat38 41-45 3 Responses Jun 17, 2012

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    Maybe It's Me Maybe It's Him...maybe It's Both Of Us. - I'm 30 yrs old and will be married for 12 yrs this September. I don't know if it's me or him or just us together. I just don...
    jessicabarela51 jessicabarela51 26-30 1 Response Aug 18, 2010

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    I Feel Like A Failure - Im young still, only 27, and this is my first marriage. I have never been one to fall in love quickly and this was the first time where I was the more...
    omzzigevoli omzzigevoli 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    She Does Not Care - Hello, I have been married for 6 yrs. I adore my wife. We used to share a deep connection. Both previously married we both thought we got each other. She took...
    cstagath cstagath 41-45 2 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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    Very Sad and Confused - After 20 years of marriage it looks as though it is over. Totally devastated. Would like to share similar experience and try to come to terms with what has...
    aloneagainornot aloneagainornot 56-60 1 Response Aug 15, 2008

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    Anything Left After 2 Yrs? - We cant be together for a day without fighting, bickering, having to escape to separate rooms. Its always over stupid things, usually him finding fault...
    flitter90 flitter90 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 11, 2011

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    I Dont Know How To Walk Away! - My husben and I have been together for more then 20 yr. we have not slept in the same bed in 3yrs. He love his computer and his privet time. I tried...
    tsol73 tsol73 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2012

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    Its been really bad for almost 3 years. Now that I told my husband I want a divorce he thinks I'm giving up too soon. We are christian and he keeps saying that he has woken up and...
    roomate7 roomate7 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    I Think It Is Time To Give-up - I and my wife are married for 4 years. In the first year, everything used to be fine by her, and I used to be enough, but after that time I fell...
    mrponciano mrponciano 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 28, 2012

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    Trying To Make Things Right. - Hello. I'm a young gentleman that's been married for almost 2 years now. I'm married to one of my high schools friends I met up after high school. I...
    subduedone subduedone 22-25 1 Response Sep 4, 2012

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    My Fairytale Has Turned Into A Nightmare! - My husband and I have been together for 12 years.  Our love has been a fairytale from the beginning.  Together we set and accomplished...
    MrsFaithful MrsFaithful 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    Is It Time To Walk Away - My husband and I have been married 5 years in the last 5 years he has only worked maybe a grand total of 2 years. Over the past few years the arguements...
    confusednindiana confusednindiana 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    Too Much - Let me start by saying that I absolutely adore my wife.  She is strong and funny.  Intelligent and motivated.  Wonderful to the kids.   My love for her is honest and...
    allwork4 allwork4 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    My husband and I decided to have a break for a month he now tells me he needs more time as a part of him wants me to move on yet the other doesn't want me to. He says he cares very...
    sfjf sfjf 36-40, F 45 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I'm Just Tired - My husband and I fight all the time. I'm just so tired of it. At least several times a week, we are fighting about something. I know it's not healthy for our...
    Court80 Court80 31-35 1 Response Apr 16, 2011

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    I Think It's Over!! - Its really sad when you finally realize that your marriage is over, or in my case it never really was there.. I wish I had followed my thought process in the...
    cooki66 cooki66 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Why Does Everything Get Twisted Around That Its All My Fault - Just don't know where to start, theres been so many arguments recently it's driving me crazy. nothing ever seems to...
    jeeno13 jeeno13 51-55, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    The Ambivalence Continues............(Should I Stay Or Should I Go-Go??) - So I think its about week three of the great return and still the ambivalence continues, should I be...
    Jossy1 Jossy1 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    The Castle.................................................... - The castle is now the dungeon.  Neither of us want to be here. The woman i knew and married, who was once my...
    AZBowlman AZBowlman 46-50, M Dec 23, 2009

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    I don't trust myself right now...but I know I'm not happy. I don't want to do the wrong thing. I just care enough for both of us to want us both to be happy. We are not happy. I...
    goodnightangel goodnightangel 36-40, F Jan 28

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    Chipping Away - Please, stop chipping away at me. I don't know why you insist on hurting me, because I refuse to live under your control. Refuse to simply back down and follow your...
    ElleNoir ElleNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2013

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    Questioning My 10 Year Marriage -   My husband and I have two weeks holidays with only three days left until we both return to 'our life' as I like to call it. Having so much...
    complicatedandconfused complicatedandconfused 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    I Know My Marriage Is Over - Greetings. I am at the stage where I do not mind if my "Husban" finds this mail. I have been married 6 years and the first 5.5 of them were not that...
    Clairify17 Clairify17 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    I Am Devastated But My Marriage Is Over After 6 Weeks - I really don't have anybody to talk to about this as I feel like such an idiot.  I knew we were not suited two years...
    blueeyes71 blueeyes71 36-40 6 Responses May 25, 2009

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    I Think My Marriage Is Over - We have been together for 17 years and married for 5 of these, we have 3 lovely children together, but the last few years i have been struggling with...
    cn02vbz cn02vbz 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    I Really Don't Where To Start - Seriously, I really don't where to start.. I found this forum by searching online "I think My Marriage is Over" and I wanted an outlet. Here's my...
    goinguns goinguns 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    I guess "troubled" is the best way to describe it. I used to think nothing could come between us. My husband's been in and out of part-time, dead-end jobs for ten years. Most...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm 23 and I've been married 10 months to the man I've been dating since I was 15. We've been together for 7 years. What makes this situation so hard is that there is nothing...
    Gingerness7 Gingerness7 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Normal.... There are many stories on here about after leaving marriages and having normal relationships. Well I haven't left my marriage yet. I have talked to a lawyer and...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 12 Responses 6 days ago

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    Those who do not have to deal with this situation must find it odd that those of us who do, express such deep sadness and longing. How often do the comments suggested the simple...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses 3 days ago

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    Wake up mode! I am I great pain and can't control it! I am trying to figure out how to get over it. I found a few things to think about, that may help me. I tried to force true...
    Cucly80 Cucly80 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 18

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    I am curious, if a person is not Christian then where do the guidelines for what to do in marriage come from? This isn't meant to be antagonistic at all, it is a question I have...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 16 Responses Mar 20

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses a week ago