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I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    She told other people things I told her in

    confidence. I can't trust her anymore.
    gr8love gr8love 31-35, F 4 Responses May 17

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    I guess ever since I could remember I've hated

    my mom, always day dreaming about a mom that cared and loved me. I am now 15, and I can't even remember the last time my mother said "I love you" to me. Everyday I can always over hear her saying that too my younger brothers. I always find my self being jealous of them, wishing...
    Jaaye1 Jaaye1 70+ 1 Response Aug 31

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    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    I Want To Adopt A Mom

    When I was growing up my mother was never around. She was a full time nursing student and late night bartender. She left me with people who did horrible, unspeakable things to me. She brought home strange men, and had sex with them in front of me (I was probably 5 or 6 yrs old...
    HadEnuff84 HadEnuff84 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    I think my mom really hates me like one time I

    fell down she do not really care about me but when my older brother fell down she is very worried and sometime my mom breaks my heart.
    Hongyang1597 Hongyang1597 13-15 2 Responses Sep 19

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    She has been criticising me ever

    since I gained weight. I never heard any nice words from me, it's like she hates me for being fat and doing something about it. Now that I've been working out, she always sees me and say negative things about me. Like why do I keep on eating when I even told her that it's part...
    Trishhh Trishhh 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands

    around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe because my father cheated on her. She has so much hatred for me it's unbelievable. She finds flaws in everything I do. I was the 1st in my family to...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    My mom never wanted me in the first place.

    She made me aware of this when I was young. She wanted a boy. I believe she started to hate me the most though when my father died. I was four years old. Ever since I could remember she was always yelling at me for the smallest of things, calling me names, everything. I have...
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 13

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    I don't know why, but

    whenever I try to talk to her or opening a conversation with her, she always like ignoring me. AND I HATE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    RiniAlisaputri RiniAlisaputri 13-15, F Oct 3

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    straight up told me she wishes I'd die

    or kill myself because I am nothing but a disappointment to her .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    My mom always yells at me

    for random things i didn't do like stealing my dads money when it was in is pocket the whole time or breaking her glasses when i didnt even know she had them it gets really annoying cause she never yells at my brother and always gives him money and treats and i feel really...
    leilabirdy leilabirdy 16-17, F Sep 6

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    Last night I came home from work

    and instantly began getting bitched at. After refusing to tell me why she was yelling my mother told me she wanted to forget me and to leave. So I did. Long story short she called the cops when I wouldn't come back bc she wanted my car ( it's under her name) back.
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    It's a really big deal

    for me to write all this down, because my Mum made me feel such guilt for years for ever daring to criticise her, that she made me believe I was the one in the wrong. Clever! For a long time I believed her behaviour was normal. I've tried to excuse it so much, because I wanted...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 3 Responses Jun 7

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    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I can't do anything right by my mom.

    .. My Dad left us when I was only 4 and ever since then she's being on a downward spiral. She has been remarried then divorced and now continues to date random guys who I don't approve of. Whenever I try to talk to her it's always comes out with a negative result. For example...
    jessstar50 jessstar50 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    Sometimes I wish to not feel anything.

    The pain, the sadness, the little anger. They made me feel this way. I thought I have persons in my life that I can rely on during the darkness times but I'm wrong. And that's more too painful that your own mother can't even help me but instead hurt me more and blame everything...
    msj02 msj02 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I have different experiences with my mom.

    But things have been really really rocky ever since my 4 month old baby sister was born. We've never really had a strong mother and daughter connection. One day my mom loves me the next she's telling me how worthless I am. She's sending so many mixed emotions at me. She doesn't...
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323 13-15, F 2 Responses May 22

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    She calls me disrespectful,

    and an *******, she makes me feel useless. she tells me I'm bothersome and do nothing to help my family even though j try my best to do what I can around the house and for my family. I work but don't make enough money, I go to school and get great grades but she could care less...
    kitkat1114 kitkat1114 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I honestly think my mom hates me.

    I'm the third of seven kids so we're always together. I'm the only extrovert in my family and where I'm out going and loud, everyone else is quiet and more reserved. My dad died when I was 15 and ever since he died, things with her have honestly escalated. I get along with my...
    XharrynConan XharrynConan 18-21, F Dec 9

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    It started when I was young I was always being

    blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I would wrap a cord around my neck or not wear a seat belt in the hopes of getting into a wreck and dying. This was all at a young age I'm 15 now...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    I am 45 years old. My Mom hates me.

    She doesn't say she hates me but she won't deny it when asked and she looks at me as though she loathes me. My husband has seen the way she looks at me and he thinks I am correct. He didn't want to admit it but I begged him to be honest with me and finally he broke down and told...
    StepMom2003 StepMom2003 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    Impossible To Please

    There's nothing a child wants more than to make their parent proud, right? That's all I've ever wanted, is for my mom to be proud, to love me with her whole heart, and to support me no matter what I do. We had the closest relationship a mother and daughter could possibly have. I...
    Sarah196 Sarah196 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    My parents told me when my mom got pregnant my

    dad wanted a girl my mom wanted a boy, once in a store there were screaming little girls and I said I didnt want to have daughters and my mom said "yea its horrible", my mom admits my brother is her favorite. Im the total outcast of my family
    DenSan DenSan 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    when I was 6 years old,

    my brother was born, where my nightmare began.. before he was born, my mother very love me because I am an only child. I can feel that my mother loved my brother more than me. I always thought that my mother did not give enough affection to me as she give to my little brother...
    rayhanahh rayhanahh 13-15, F Dec 4

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    What Do I Do?

    I'm 15 but I'm not just dealing with typical arguments with my mom. A lot of people at my school think my life is automatically great because I'm white, and they think white people are rich, but if that's true, why was I not fed as a kid, to the point my grandparents had to come...
    Batgirl626 Batgirl626 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    It's more about that my mom doesn't understand

    me, and how I feel. I live in a house that is completely trashed all the time except for my room which I keep spotless. My mom's room is so bad that it smells like cat pee, and you can barely walk in there. My brother's room is so bad you can't close the door or even get to...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    Mi5h Mi5h 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    i am not sure but i have a step sister

    and my mother makes me bade her feed her sleep with her i basically do everything for her till she starts calling me ma and my mother by her name. today she calling me i was very sick got a bad ear infection and spread my body. i feel asleep and she kept calling me i didnt hear...
    cubbycake cubbycake 18-21, F Aug 23

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    I don't know how should I start this story.

    Am I even able to say that my mom is the main reason of my un happiness and my sadness?   I never knew love , till I met my love Ahmad. He was my first love and my last. I've lived with him things I never dare to dream about it. I've lived my dreams in my real life. I loved...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    She calls me worthless all the time.

    She calls me a piece of....yeah. I just don't get why she would say that if it wasn't how she truly felt about me. I don't know what I can possibly do to make her happy. I never go to parties, drink, smoke, do drugs. I'm a virgin, I study all the time.... But then today I said...
    chuhulil chuhulil 16-17, F Sep 17

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    So today (Nov 8, 2014) I got in a huge fight

    with my parents. My mom always starts it and my dad always takes her side. She always calls me things and hits me and Im so sick of it. Why do parents think they're aloud to do this? My mom tells me I don't deserve respect because Im just a kid. I just want her to leave me alone...
    willmlocke willmlocke 13-15, M Nov 8

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    I love my mom so.much.

    but she does and say things that really hurt me she yells for every little thing shw doesn't know that when she slaps me and say all those harsh words I go to my room and cry and those words stick to me and hurt me forever I just wished we could be close again she always thinks I...
    chinapretty chinapretty 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 34 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    Ok so I was born 2002,

    my sister was born 1998 my mom use to love me and my sister btw I'm a boy. All my mom do is love my sister all my mom do is complain about how broke she is every time I ask her for something but when my sister ask she pulls out tons of money and after the movie they went to a...
    DahmirDennis DahmirDennis 13-15, M Nov 1

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    I am currently 18 years

    and I'm pregnant and I am completely sure that my mom absolutely hates me. I am 13 weeks pregnant I had and I had a blood test to make sure that everything was fine and also a Pap smear. I was honestly quite scared because my mom has diabetes and cholesterol and I was afraid...
    roxanaaaaa roxanaaaaa 18-21, F Dec 4

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    Two months ago I visited my mom with my son.

    Just got out of talk army and wanted my baby boy to see more of her. My sister gave my son (who is 2), my old stuffed animal that she had kept. Everythingwas pretty peaceful until my husband brought to my attention a social nnetwork post from my mom claiming that I had stolen...
    paytek paytek 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    She says it all the time

    so why not think it? AMM irighttttttt
    purplechilada purplechilada 13-15, F Nov 22

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    She's been treating me like I was born to do

    everything and anything SHE wants and never appreciates anything I do for her. Even though I show appreciation towards her, I'm still worthless and never do anything for her. Today she asked me to take her out because she doesn't know how to drive and im the oldest child(2nd...
    ElisaB1 ElisaB1 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25

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    I Don't Understand, Yes Or No?

    Well… im 12 and half of my life i had the unconditional love of a mother but, once i turned 7 my mom totally changed she started being very abusive verbally physically and emotionally. I remember one day i was gettin ready for skool i was 7(first grade) And out of no where she...
    AGirlunknown1028 AGirlunknown1028 13-15 4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    My name is Aariah and I really believe

    that my mom hates me. Like she is really mean to for no reason... I do above and beyond to try and help her and help take care of my sisters, make sure they have whatever they need and it's like nothing is ever good enough for her. She's so UNGRATEFUL. She doesn't appreciate...
    HellaaLoyaal17 HellaaLoyaal17 18-21 1 Response Sep 19

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    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    She always treats my older brother

    and younger sister better than I have told her that she docent understand being the middle child is hard you get forgotten they only care about the first and last child I lock myself in my room and cry I refused to eat Yesturday. She never hugs me or tells me she loves me until...
    jaay21 jaay21 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    My mom is constantly yelling at me

    and only ever getting mad at me. It's all for stupid stuff too. She gets onto me for not cleaning my room when hers isn't even clean or my brothers room is the same, if not worse, as mine. I just hate that all she does is tell at me. She'll wake me up in the morning pissed...
    classact45 classact45 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    My mom is always throwing bad words at me

    and calling me everything but my name. I think she favors my older sister better than me. I'm an honor student, I'm respectful, and I never really bother her unless I need something. She always called me a bastard, says I'm retarded, or calls me an *** and I'm so tired of it. I...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F Sep 18

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    Why?..

    Is there a reason why I feel so alone? So traumatized, I don't even trust my own family? Yes, my mother. Where should I start?.. Ever since I was born, my mother acted so differently towards me and my younger sister. Of course, I thought she prided me.But I was wrong, I just didn...
    Dottie12 Dottie12 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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