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I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I have just recently moved in with my dad

    and she has been giving me the cold shoulder since I got here...I think she may have disowned me..what should I do?
    ChubbiixBunnii ChubbiixBunnii 13-15, F Feb 9

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    last Friday I actendly left faheema my sis I

    never even wanna leave faheema but the bus forcedly told me to leave faheema and we left but I ****** have no ****** choice and faheema forgave me and I will never do tha to my sis n my mom kept remindin me bout wha happened but my mom should **** her self cuz I wanna get...
    Jasminekress Jasminekress 16-17 Mar 23

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    I love my mom so.much.

    but she does and say things that really hurt me she yells for every little thing shw doesn't know that when she slaps me and say all those harsh words I go to my room and cry and those words stick to me and hurt me forever I just wished we could be close again she always thinks I...
    chinapretty chinapretty 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    Today my mother once again called me the c word

    and said screw you as she left the room. I hate that I'm her least favorite child. Even my best friend who lives with us gets treated better than me even though she literally disappears for hours on end doing drugs. And if my older or younger sisters ask for anything every wish...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I guess ever since I could remember I've hated

    my mom, always day dreaming about a mom that cared and loved me. I am now 15, and I can't even remember the last time my mother said "I love you" to me. Everyday I can always over hear her saying that too my younger brothers. I always find my self being jealous of them, wishing...
    Jaaye1 Jaaye1 70+ 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    There was one point where she pinned me against

    a wall and choked me over a bad grade that was already fixed. I contacted my principal about it, the police ended up coming to my house at midnight, and I had no clue. She still thinks that I called the police to this day. Since then she's gotten way worse.. and I've almost self...
    TheyCalMeKitty TheyCalMeKitty 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    For my entire life I knew

    that my mother, who passed away in September 2014, would rather have only had my brother, who is 3 years older than me. I have no memories of her ever hugging me, telling me she loved me, or telling me she was proud of me. Over the past 18 years since my father passed away, I...
    Leftoutofwill Leftoutofwill 51-55 1 Response Feb 8

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    A few minutes ago, my mom walked in the door.

    She had just got back from the store. I'm up in my room with the door open and I can hear everything. She openly invites my sister to go to our grandmother's house to get something. She accepts. She then walks up stairs and into her room. My room is a corner room and I can see...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 12

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    I wasn't anything that you could call "normal"

    growing up. I mean, from startign school through 5th grade, I didn't have friends, I kept quiet, I kept my grades up but my mom never really appreciated me. From 6th grade through 8th grade, it was the same thing, this time however with 2 friends. They meant the world to me...
    KelvinLe690 KelvinLe690 13-15, M 4 Responses May 26

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    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    A few days ago, she was screaming at me

    for spending time with friends. She claimed that I treat her like crap, act like my abusive alcoholic dad, and only use her for money and rides. She then told my she hates me. Her exact words were, "I'm supposed to love you, but because of how you treat me, I hate you." I do...
    imveryboring imveryboring 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 9

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    On the outer image, people would always see a

    mom and a daughter clinging to each other as if their life depended on it. However, as the quote says, "Believe only half of what you see and nothing that you hear," my life is totally the opposite. My mom is a nice person and I've always known her bluntness but every single...
    lifeishard0 lifeishard0 13-15, F 1 Response May 29

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    My mom is putting me through torture.

    I have to do things that I don't want to do I have to leave everything I love because my mom forcing me to
    nxmle nxmle 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    My Mom Hates Me..

    For a couple of times now,I have been dealing with many issues concerning my mom. She basically yells at me over the most littlest things, and gets so angry she threatens to kick me out of the house( I.E. Im 18) . She often threatens to hit me with something, sometimes knifes...
    gtegene1 gtegene1 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    It started when I was young I was always being

    blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I would wrap a cord around my neck or not wear a seat belt in the hopes of getting into a wreck and dying. This was all at a young age I'm 15 now...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2014

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    My mom wishes that I was never born

    and today she swore that she won't mention my name or will talk to me for the rest of her life :-)
    ahisayouknow ahisayouknow 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    Apparently she can read my ******* mind now.

    Oh wait, no she can't! She seems to think that she knows how i think things, and she is always wrong, not ONCE has she EVER been correct! I basically have to take her verbal abuse, unless i want to get called ignorant, and get pushed aside, because i proved her wrong. I hope she...
    Futuresdiary Futuresdiary 13-15, M May 9

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    I'm 15 i thought me and my mom were tight,

    got each others back. Now I think my mom doesn't give a darn about my back and me. I used to take piano lessons and taekwondo, I never really practiced both so they took me out, i'm kinda smart and my mom says without my brain i'm nothing. She said as soon as I fail a class i'm...
    TheninjaCj TheninjaCj 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 11

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    It Hurts So Much..

    Where should I begin? *sigh*I was around 6 or 7..my mum just had a huge fight with my dad. It was because I misplaced one of my books, it was like a draft book, she began yelling at me and threatening me she'll hurt me if I don't find it. And I guess that angered him. Anyway, we...
    perfectflaw perfectflaw 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    OK, this'll be maybe long.

    I'm very sad and disappointed. My parents have been together for 19 years, they claim that it was great love at the beginning. Dad still loves mom, but she doesn't love him, I'm pretty sure he gets on her nerves. She said so many times. She also said that 15 of those years were...
    cutepenguin cutepenguin 16-17, F Jun 22

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    i read my moms messages

    and she said how she hates me, im awful, she wants me to move out(im 16) and she wishes she never had me. so im basically a **** up to her hahaha all i did was swear near her....
    ashleydavis0 ashleydavis0 18-21, F Feb 6

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    No you can said that

    because every mothers loves her child
    hudabeela hudabeela 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    It's a really big deal

    for me to write all this down, because my Mum made me feel such guilt for years for ever daring to criticise her, that she made me believe I was the one in the wrong. Clever! For a long time I believed her behaviour was normal. I've tried to excuse it so much, because I wanted...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 3 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I'm constantly trying to figure out

    why my mother hates me. I feel like she wanted the perfect child... not... well... me. My mother and I have never had a good relationship. One moment she's nice and the next she's the female Satan. Little things I do wrong set her off. I was in a car accident in January. I...
    Why1996 Why1996 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I feel like my mom doesn't

    even value my life anymore. It's like, if my 19 (soon to be 20) year old sister walks someplace, she'll tell me to go with her even if I don't want to but if I'm walking someplace, she won't even ask if they want to go with me. She's always telling me that the world is dangerous...
    SommieMusso SommieMusso 16-17, F May 10

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    straight up told me she wishes I'd die

    or kill myself because I am nothing but a disappointment to her .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 1, 2014

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    My mom doesn't trust me with anything.

    I'm her only daughter so you would think she would like me best. But like is far from how she feels towards me. She hates me and I try so hard to not be a brat and I'm a genuinely nice person. I wouldn't hurt the feelings of a fly. I just don't know what to do anymore. My life...
    lollipopluv127 lollipopluv127 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I hate my body because my mom never told me how

    to love it. I'm not fat at all and am perfectly healthy. I like junk food but never eat too much of it. It's like my mom wants me to stop eating and lose weight but if I do, she'll talk about how I need to stop starving myself. Just yesterday, she asked me if I wanted anything...
    SommieMusso SommieMusso 16-17, F Jul 1

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands

    around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe because my father cheated on her. She has so much hatred for me it's unbelievable. She finds flaws in everything I do. I was the 1st in my family to...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 41 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    My mom used to not hate me.

    I let the cat out of the bag and was a whistleblower in the family, and now I'm paying for it. I told my mom for the first time in my life that my dad sexually abused me when I was a kid. I told my siblings too. My mom flipped. She threatened me not to tell my dad. She said it...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    It's more about that my mom doesn't understand

    me, and how I feel. I live in a house that is completely trashed all the time except for my room which I keep spotless. My mom's room is so bad that it smells like cat pee, and you can barely walk in there. My brother's room is so bad you can't close the door or even get to...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2014

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    im 24 always had mom issues i think she thinks

    im stupid im married have two kids a step daughter i dont like to use the word step and my son my first real child i live with my wife's family they needed help with rent her family is chaotic well since my son was born my mom started acting more mean she every time i let her...
    forgoten1990 forgoten1990 22-25, M Jan 31

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    Sometimes I wish to not feel anything.

    The pain, the sadness, the little anger. They made me feel this way. I thought I have persons in my life that I can rely on during the darkness times but I'm wrong. And that's more too painful that your own mother can't even help me but instead hurt me more and blame everything...
    msj02 msj02 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    Anyone else have that mom

    who tries to murder you in your sleep, curses your name, wishes you were never born, and refuses to feed you. . . I do ^_^
    TokioDoll TokioDoll 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    My mum blocks all my phone calls

    and texts for days on end because she 'needs space'...even if the last time we spoke we ended on great terms.
    dauds dauds 22-25, F Jun 25

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    I don't know what I ever did wrong I don't get

    why she yells at me and curses me out, I just want it to stop...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F Mar 11

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    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2014

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    Impossible To Please

    There's nothing a child wants more than to make their parent proud, right? That's all I've ever wanted, is for my mom to be proud, to love me with her whole heart, and to support me no matter what I do. We had the closest relationship a mother and daughter could possibly have. I...
    Sarah196 Sarah196 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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