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I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    i read my moms messages

    and she said how she hates me, im awful, she wants me to move out(im 16) and she wishes she never had me. so im basically a **** up to her hahaha all i did was swear near her....
    ashleydavis0 ashleydavis0 18-21, F Feb 6

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    Ever since I turned 18 my mom has been cold to

    me. She never talks to me now...and when she does, it's more Like screaming at me for no reason....I don't know why she's like this towards me now...I'm a good kid I know I am...I'm president of key club, I have straight A's I have my own college fund, I never do anything to...
    AlexisQ AlexisQ 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    >texted my mom that I would take out the trash

    when she came home >she comes home and yells at me >tells the whole house that she hates me and that she would kill me to prove a point >grounds me for a year
    Jovanite Jovanite 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    A few minutes ago, my mom walked in the door.

    She had just got back from the store. I'm up in my room with the door open and I can hear everything. She openly invites my sister to go to our grandmother's house to get something. She accepts. She then walks up stairs and into her room. My room is a corner room and I can see...
    DreamCloud17 DreamCloud17 18-21, F Apr 12

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    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    I know my mom hates me.

    She told me so when I was 16. It's not that she's a completely hateful person. She loves my dad and adores my brothers. But when it comes to me, nothing is good enough. The messed up part is I'm always the one she goes to for help. And ever time she calls, my dumb *** jumps. I...
    Libby4 Libby4 26-30, F Apr 17

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    For my entire life I knew

    that my mother, who passed away in September 2014, would rather have only had my brother, who is 3 years older than me. I have no memories of her ever hugging me, telling me she loved me, or telling me she was proud of me. Over the past 18 years since my father passed away, I...
    Leftoutofwill Leftoutofwill 51-55 1 Response Feb 8

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands

    around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe because my father cheated on her. She has so much hatred for me it's unbelievable. She finds flaws in everything I do. I was the 1st in my family to...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    I have different experiences with my mom.

    But things have been really really rocky ever since my 4 month old baby sister was born. We've never really had a strong mother and daughter connection. One day my mom loves me the next she's telling me how worthless I am. She's sending so many mixed emotions at me. She doesn't...
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323 13-15, F 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Apparently she can read my ******* mind now.

    Oh wait, no she can't! She seems to think that she knows how i think things, and she is always wrong, not ONCE has she EVER been correct! I basically have to take her verbal abuse, unless i want to get called ignorant, and get pushed aside, because i proved her wrong. I hope she...
    Futuresdiary Futuresdiary 13-15, M May 9

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    I feel like my mom doesn't

    even value my life anymore. It's like, if my 19 (soon to be 20) year old sister walks someplace, she'll tell me to go with her even if I don't want to but if I'm walking someplace, she won't even ask if they want to go with me. She's always telling me that the world is dangerous...
    SommieMusso SommieMusso 16-17, F May 10

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    There was one point where she pinned me against

    a wall and choked me over a bad grade that was already fixed. I contacted my principal about it, the police ended up coming to my house at midnight, and I had no clue. She still thinks that I called the police to this day. Since then she's gotten way worse.. and I've almost self...
    TheyCalMeKitty TheyCalMeKitty 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    I Don't Understand, Yes Or No?

    Well… im 12 and half of my life i had the unconditional love of a mother but, once i turned 7 my mom totally changed she started being very abusive verbally physically and emotionally. I remember one day i was gettin ready for skool i was 7(first grade) And out of no where she...
    AGirlunknown1028 AGirlunknown1028 13-15 4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    I Want To Adopt A Mom

    When I was growing up my mother was never around. She was a full time nursing student and late night bartender. She left me with people who did horrible, unspeakable things to me. She brought home strange men, and had sex with them in front of me (I was probably 5 or 6 yrs old...
    HadEnuff84 HadEnuff84 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    Yesterday i had a little fight with my little

    sister before we went to school. A few minutes later, when i'm on my way to school, i received some texts from my mum saying how much i disappoint her for fighting with my little sister (she doesn't even know why we fought) and she also blamed me for everything that happened to...
    Katearcher Katearcher 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I have just recently moved in with my dad

    and she has been giving me the cold shoulder since I got here...I think she may have disowned me..what should I do?
    ChubbiixBunnii ChubbiixBunnii 13-15, F Feb 9

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    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2014

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    I don't know what I ever did wrong I don't get

    why she yells at me and curses me out, I just want it to stop...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F Mar 11

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    I guess ever since I could remember I've hated

    my mom, always day dreaming about a mom that cared and loved me. I am now 15, and I can't even remember the last time my mother said "I love you" to me. Everyday I can always over hear her saying that too my younger brothers. I always find my self being jealous of them, wishing...
    Jaaye1 Jaaye1 70+ 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    I'm 15 i thought me and my mom were tight,

    got each others back. Now I think my mom doesn't give a darn about my back and me. I used to take piano lessons and taekwondo, I never really practiced both so they took me out, i'm kinda smart and my mom says without my brain i'm nothing. She said as soon as I fail a class i'm...
    TheninjaCj TheninjaCj 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 11

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    My Mom Hates Me..

    For a couple of times now,I have been dealing with many issues concerning my mom. She basically yells at me over the most littlest things, and gets so angry she threatens to kick me out of the house( I.E. Im 18) . She often threatens to hit me with something, sometimes knifes...
    gtegene1 gtegene1 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    She told other people things I told her in

    confidence. I can't trust her anymore.
    gr8love gr8love 31-35, F 4 Responses May 17, 2014

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    I really believe my mom hates me.

    I have a lot of examples. This is one of many: So I was watching the show, Master Chef Junior. They were literally announcing the winner and she comes in and turns it off! And then she says she had yelled 20 times for me to take my shower! (she really didn't though because I...
    batgirl18275 batgirl18275 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    my mom is so ******* mean to me ,

    she is so cold ,I cry and tell her I can't live like this anymore and she either tells me to shut up or yeah right like wtf what kind of mother does that's its crazy ,she's crazy ,every time I ask her for something I need she get so pissed of but she always get my brother...
    hayley101 hayley101 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I love my mom so.much.

    but she does and say things that really hurt me she yells for every little thing shw doesn't know that when she slaps me and say all those harsh words I go to my room and cry and those words stick to me and hurt me forever I just wished we could be close again she always thinks I...
    chinapretty chinapretty 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    It started when I was young I was always being

    blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I would wrap a cord around my neck or not wear a seat belt in the hopes of getting into a wreck and dying. This was all at a young age I'm 15 now...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2014

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    It's a long story, so let me tell you only a

    part of it - my mother (all my family actually) hates me. They really does - I'm a child who doesn't fit in the picture. My mother only cares for me in terms for "money". Yes, she helped me financial to study and all that stuff, but she also always tell me how hard it is to pay...
    Aniko91 Aniko91 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    My mom doesn't trust me with anything.

    I'm her only daughter so you would think she would like me best. But like is far from how she feels towards me. She hates me and I try so hard to not be a brat and I'm a genuinely nice person. I wouldn't hurt the feelings of a fly. I just don't know what to do anymore. My life...
    lollipopluv127 lollipopluv127 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    It Hurts So Much..

    Where should I begin? *sigh*I was around 6 or 7..my mum just had a huge fight with my dad. It was because I misplaced one of my books, it was like a draft book, she began yelling at me and threatening me she'll hurt me if I don't find it. And I guess that angered him. Anyway, we...
    perfectflaw perfectflaw 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    Anyone else have that mom

    who tries to murder you in your sleep, curses your name, wishes you were never born, and refuses to feed you. . . I do ^_^
    TokioDoll TokioDoll 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    She calls me disrespectful,

    and an *******, she makes me feel useless. she tells me I'm bothersome and do nothing to help my family even though j try my best to do what I can around the house and for my family. I work but don't make enough money, I go to school and get great grades but she could care less...
    kitkat1114 kitkat1114 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish to not feel anything.

    The pain, the sadness, the little anger. They made me feel this way. I thought I have persons in my life that I can rely on during the darkness times but I'm wrong. And that's more too painful that your own mother can't even help me but instead hurt me more and blame everything...
    msj02 msj02 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    My mom is constantly yelling at me

    and only ever getting mad at me. It's all for stupid stuff too. She gets onto me for not cleaning my room when hers isn't even clean or my brothers room is the same, if not worse, as mine. I just hate that all she does is tell at me. She'll wake me up in the morning pissed...
    classact45 classact45 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    My mom used to not hate me.

    I let the cat out of the bag and was a whistleblower in the family, and now I'm paying for it. I told my mom for the first time in my life that my dad sexually abused me when I was a kid. I told my siblings too. My mom flipped. She threatened me not to tell my dad. She said it...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Don't have to think. ^-^ Her favorite thing to

    do was telling me she never wanted me and always threatened to give me away. She got better when I told her I was leaving the country. I went back as a surprise and it just went to hell. She used to love from afar, but she doesn't do that anymore. ^^
    AngelaNix AngelaNix 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I honestly think my mom hates me.

    I'm the third of seven kids so we're always together. I'm the only extrovert in my family and where I'm out going and loud, everyone else is quiet and more reserved. My dad died when I was 15 and ever since he died, things with her have honestly escalated. I get along with my...
    XharrynConan XharrynConan 18-21, F Dec 9, 2014

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    JamieMostra JamieMostra 26-30, T Feb 7

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    Why?..

    Is there a reason why I feel so alone? So traumatized, I don't even trust my own family? Yes, my mother. Where should I start?.. Ever since I was born, my mother acted so differently towards me and my younger sister. Of course, I thought she prided me.But I was wrong, I just didn...
    Dottie12 Dottie12 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 41 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    when I was 6 years old,

    my brother was born, where my nightmare began.. before he was born, my mother very love me because I am an only child. I can feel that my mother loved my brother more than me. I always thought that my mother did not give enough affection to me as she give to my little brother...
    rayhanahh rayhanahh 13-15, F Dec 4, 2014

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    It's more about that my mom doesn't understand

    me, and how I feel. I live in a house that is completely trashed all the time except for my room which I keep spotless. My mom's room is so bad that it smells like cat pee, and you can barely walk in there. My brother's room is so bad you can't close the door or even get to...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2014

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