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I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    My mom never wanted me in the first place.

    She made me aware of this when I was young. She wanted a boy. I believe she started to hate me the most though when my father died. I was four years old. Ever since I could remember she was always yelling at me for the smallest of things, calling me names, everything. I have...
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    I'm constantly trying to figure out

    why my mother hates me. I feel like she wanted the perfect child... not... well... me. My mother and I have never had a good relationship. One moment she's nice and the next she's the female Satan. Little things I do wrong set her off. I was in a car accident in January. I...
    Why1996 Why1996 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I Want To Adopt A Mom

    When I was growing up my mother was never around. She was a full time nursing student and late night bartender. She left me with people who did horrible, unspeakable things to me. She brought home strange men, and had sex with them in front of me (I was probably 5 or 6 yrs old...
    HadEnuff84 HadEnuff84 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    Don't have to think. ^-^ Her favorite thing to

    do was telling me she never wanted me and always threatened to give me away. She got better when I told her I was leaving the country. I went back as a surprise and it just went to hell. She used to love from afar, but she doesn't do that anymore. ^^
    AngelaNix AngelaNix 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    It's a really big deal

    for me to write all this down, because my Mum made me feel such guilt for years for ever daring to criticise her, that she made me believe I was the one in the wrong. Clever! For a long time I believed her behaviour was normal. I've tried to excuse it so much, because I wanted...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 3 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    Impossible To Please

    There's nothing a child wants more than to make their parent proud, right? That's all I've ever wanted, is for my mom to be proud, to love me with her whole heart, and to support me no matter what I do. We had the closest relationship a mother and daughter could possibly have. I...
    Sarah196 Sarah196 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands

    around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe because my father cheated on her. She has so much hatred for me it's unbelievable. She finds flaws in everything I do. I was the 1st in my family to...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    My mom used to not hate me.

    I let the cat out of the bag and was a whistleblower in the family, and now I'm paying for it. I told my mom for the first time in my life that my dad sexually abused me when I was a kid. I told my siblings too. My mom flipped. She threatened me not to tell my dad. She said it...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    She's been treating me like I was born to do

    everything and anything SHE wants and never appreciates anything I do for her. Even though I show appreciation towards her, I'm still worthless and never do anything for her. Today she asked me to take her out because she doesn't know how to drive and im the oldest child(2nd...
    ElisaB1 ElisaB1 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2014

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    straight up told me she wishes I'd die

    or kill myself because I am nothing but a disappointment to her .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 1, 2014

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    It started when I was young I was always being

    blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I would wrap a cord around my neck or not wear a seat belt in the hopes of getting into a wreck and dying. This was all at a young age I'm 15 now...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2014

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    For my entire life I knew

    that my mother, who passed away in September 2014, would rather have only had my brother, who is 3 years older than me. I have no memories of her ever hugging me, telling me she loved me, or telling me she was proud of me. Over the past 18 years since my father passed away, I...
    Leftoutofwill Leftoutofwill 51-55 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I have just recently moved in with my dad

    and she has been giving me the cold shoulder since I got here...I think she may have disowned me..what should I do?
    ChubbiixBunnii ChubbiixBunnii 13-15, F Feb 9

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    It Hurts So Much..

    Where should I begin? *sigh*I was around 6 or 7..my mum just had a huge fight with my dad. It was because I misplaced one of my books, it was like a draft book, she began yelling at me and threatening me she'll hurt me if I don't find it. And I guess that angered him. Anyway, we...
    perfectflaw perfectflaw 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Why?..

    Is there a reason why I feel so alone? So traumatized, I don't even trust my own family? Yes, my mother. Where should I start?.. Ever since I was born, my mother acted so differently towards me and my younger sister. Of course, I thought she prided me.But I was wrong, I just didn...
    Dottie12 Dottie12 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 38 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    It's more about that my mom doesn't understand

    me, and how I feel. I live in a house that is completely trashed all the time except for my room which I keep spotless. My mom's room is so bad that it smells like cat pee, and you can barely walk in there. My brother's room is so bad you can't close the door or even get to...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2014

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    Yesterday i had a little fight with my little

    sister before we went to school. A few minutes later, when i'm on my way to school, i received some texts from my mum saying how much i disappoint her for fighting with my little sister (she doesn't even know why we fought) and she also blamed me for everything that happened to...
    Katearcher Katearcher 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    i read my moms messages

    and she said how she hates me, im awful, she wants me to move out(im 16) and she wishes she never had me. so im basically a **** up to her hahaha all i did was swear near her....
    ashleydavis0 ashleydavis0 18-21, F Feb 6

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    Viviannnnn Viviannnnn 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    I honestly think my mom hates me.

    I'm the third of seven kids so we're always together. I'm the only extrovert in my family and where I'm out going and loud, everyone else is quiet and more reserved. My dad died when I was 15 and ever since he died, things with her have honestly escalated. I get along with my...
    XharrynConan XharrynConan 18-21, F Dec 9, 2014

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    She calls me disrespectful,

    and an *******, she makes me feel useless. she tells me I'm bothersome and do nothing to help my family even though j try my best to do what I can around the house and for my family. I work but don't make enough money, I go to school and get great grades but she could care less...
    kitkat1114 kitkat1114 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish to not feel anything.

    The pain, the sadness, the little anger. They made me feel this way. I thought I have persons in my life that I can rely on during the darkness times but I'm wrong. And that's more too painful that your own mother can't even help me but instead hurt me more and blame everything...
    msj02 msj02 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    >texted my mom that I would take out the trash

    when she came home >she comes home and yells at me >tells the whole house that she hates me and that she would kill me to prove a point >grounds me for a year
    Jovanite Jovanite 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    My parents told me when my mom got pregnant my

    dad wanted a girl my mom wanted a boy, once in a store there were screaming little girls and I said I didnt want to have daughters and my mom said "yea its horrible", my mom admits my brother is her favorite. Im the total outcast of my family
    DenSan DenSan 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I don't know why, but

    whenever I try to talk to her or opening a conversation with her, she always like ignoring me. AND I HATE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    RiniAlisaputri RiniAlisaputri 13-15, F Oct 3, 2014

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    I really believe my mom hates me.

    I have a lot of examples. This is one of many: So I was watching the show, Master Chef Junior. They were literally announcing the winner and she comes in and turns it off! And then she says she had yelled 20 times for me to take my shower! (she really didn't though because I...
    batgirl18275 batgirl18275 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    It's a long story, so let me tell you only a

    part of it - my mother (all my family actually) hates me. They really does - I'm a child who doesn't fit in the picture. My mother only cares for me in terms for "money". Yes, she helped me financial to study and all that stuff, but she also always tell me how hard it is to pay...
    Aniko91 Aniko91 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I have different experiences with my mom.

    But things have been really really rocky ever since my 4 month old baby sister was born. We've never really had a strong mother and daughter connection. One day my mom loves me the next she's telling me how worthless I am. She's sending so many mixed emotions at me. She doesn't...
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323 13-15, F 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    My mom doesn't trust me with anything.

    I'm her only daughter so you would think she would like me best. But like is far from how she feels towards me. She hates me and I try so hard to not be a brat and I'm a genuinely nice person. I wouldn't hurt the feelings of a fly. I just don't know what to do anymore. My life...
    lollipopluv127 lollipopluv127 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    My Mom Hates Me..

    For a couple of times now,I have been dealing with many issues concerning my mom. She basically yells at me over the most littlest things, and gets so angry she threatens to kick me out of the house( I.E. Im 18) . She often threatens to hit me with something, sometimes knifes...
    gtegene1 gtegene1 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    when I was 6 years old,

    my brother was born, where my nightmare began.. before he was born, my mother very love me because I am an only child. I can feel that my mother loved my brother more than me. I always thought that my mother did not give enough affection to me as she give to my little brother...
    rayhanahh rayhanahh 13-15, F Dec 4, 2014

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    I guess ever since I could remember I've hated

    my mom, always day dreaming about a mom that cared and loved me. I am now 15, and I can't even remember the last time my mother said "I love you" to me. Everyday I can always over hear her saying that too my younger brothers. I always find my self being jealous of them, wishing...
    Jaaye1 Jaaye1 70+ 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    JamieMostra JamieMostra 26-30, T Feb 7

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    Ok so I was born 2002,

    my sister was born 1998 my mom use to love me and my sister btw I'm a boy. All my mom do is love my sister all my mom do is complain about how broke she is every time I ask her for something but when my sister ask she pulls out tons of money and after the movie they went to a...
    DahmirDennis DahmirDennis 13-15, M Nov 1, 2014

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    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2014

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    I love my mom so.much.

    but she does and say things that really hurt me she yells for every little thing shw doesn't know that when she slaps me and say all those harsh words I go to my room and cry and those words stick to me and hurt me forever I just wished we could be close again she always thinks I...
    chinapretty chinapretty 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    I don't know how should I start this story.

    Am I even able to say that my mom is the main reason of my un happiness and my sadness?   I never knew love , till I met my love Ahmad. He was my first love and my last. I've lived with him things I never dare to dream about it. I've lived my dreams in my real life. I loved...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2014

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    im 24 always had mom issues i think she thinks

    im stupid im married have two kids a step daughter i dont like to use the word step and my son my first real child i live with my wife's family they needed help with rent her family is chaotic well since my son was born my mom started acting more mean she every time i let her...
    forgoten1990 forgoten1990 22-25, M Jan 31

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    I Don't Understand, Yes Or No?

    Well… im 12 and half of my life i had the unconditional love of a mother but, once i turned 7 my mom totally changed she started being very abusive verbally physically and emotionally. I remember one day i was gettin ready for skool i was 7(first grade) And out of no where she...
    AGirlunknown1028 AGirlunknown1028 13-15 4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    What Do I Do?

    I'm 15 but I'm not just dealing with typical arguments with my mom. A lot of people at my school think my life is automatically great because I'm white, and they think white people are rich, but if that's true, why was I not fed as a kid, to the point my grandparents had to come...
    Batgirl626 Batgirl626 16-17, F 1 Response