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I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    Well if you know what's been happing you no

    what my mom has done today I went too see her and I go there the house where I grow up is changed been fence has some ismalic writing on the fence I go in I hear this dog barking she never let us have a dog as I knock on the door she opened it she had on pure black Islamic dress...
    rob2233 rob2233 36-40 1 Response Dec 8, 2015

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    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    I see a lot of ppl here have been hurt by there

    mom's I'm just letting u guys all no that look into this your mom's cud be cheating if she change in attatude and dress very proctivley going out not coming home for hours on end it happen too me look into this
    rob2233 rob2233 36-40 Sep 23, 2015

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    My mom just told me that I'm a huge failure

    and she doesn't know what she did wrong to make a miserable child like me. She doesn't love me at all. She gets mad when I use MY PRIVATE IPod even though I work my *** off doing the chores for her every other day. I know she is going through a hard time in her life but she...
    Preethilu Preethilu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2015

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    well not hate...but she just doesn't seem to

    want to hold conversations with me anymore. she's always on her phone and paying me attention to our pets than having an actual conversation. It hurts a lot, because we used to be so close and now it seems like I'm not even there, sometimes. She pays more attention to my dog and...
    Kairics Kairics 13-15, T 2 Responses Oct 30, 2015

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    My mom used to not hate me.

    I let the cat out of the bag and was a whistleblower in the family, and now I'm paying for it. I told my mom for the first time in my life that my dad sexually abused me when I was a kid. I told my siblings too. My mom flipped. She threatened me not to tell my dad. She said it...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    My mom wishes that I was never born

    and today she swore that she won't mention my name or will talk to me for the rest of her life :-)
    ahisayouknow ahisayouknow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28, 2015

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Well it's be a while

    and my mom is far gone she's official converted too Islam her guy she's with has brain washed her she now 4 moths pregnant with his kid and she's been seen with other men and she's drinking still while pregnant this guy is 7 yrs younger then her she has wiped me and my dad's...
    rob2233 rob2233 36-40 1 Response Dec 7, 2015

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    If you guys have seen some of my stories then u

    no what I've been going through as u guys no that my mom married my dad very young she was 21 he was 38 my mom has always been very tough with me one time she left me in a mall cuz I asked her for something I had too find my way home she wud often beat me with a belt if I over...
    rob2233 rob2233 36-40 1 Response Sep 3, 2015

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    My mum doesn't hate me

    but she doesn't love me either. She says she loves me, my brother and my little sister equally but it's painfully obvious that she's lying. Basically whenever my sister or brother do something wrong that has something to do with me, whether it be beating me up or verbally...
    whydontyouloveme whydontyouloveme 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    Well there isn't much to think about

    when she's told you to your face. I know it was years ago, but she refuses to accept that she said it and wants to play make believe that she didn't. My mom's done a lot of things to hurt me in my life, but if she's just apologize to me, I mean sincerely apologize for the...
    TheOtherEye TheOtherEye 26-30, F Nov 22, 2015

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    she told me that she wouldn't have probably

    thrown me out if i weren't her daughter. she doesn't believe me. he doesn't trust me
    embracetheheat embracetheheat 18-21, F Nov 25, 2015

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    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    My mom always judges me

    and compare me to other children...she judges my appearance and calls me fat. I once wish she would love me as much as she loves my brother and sister...she always have something to say about and I try really hard to change but it's hard. I try hard to diet but I can't. She...
    oOMissSteriousOo oOMissSteriousOo 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

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    I'm 31 my mum has bpd her words

    and actions suggest she hates me it's been this way since I can remember she says we have a love hate relationship mid 20s I told her I wanted to kill myself her response was anger at me she screamed I want to kill myself sometimes but I don't she added I pitty anyone who...
    Confused848 Confused848 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My mom neglected me for 24 years

    and she is OK with it. She said she never had a choice.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton 22-25, F Oct 22, 2015

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    I know people think this is one of those mom

    and teen battle moments but it's not my mom has battled me (for being me) since I can remember. She has always adored my younger sister more than me and my older brother is her child prodigy. This women has called me name like b*tch to asking me to run away. She hates me and I...
    AmandaClarke88 AmandaClarke88 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I'm different and she hates that,

    she wants us to be the perfect family, but I can't be the perfect daughter she wants
    SadLylaxx SadLylaxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I need some advice as I stated

    before my mom and dad got married when my mom was very young she ha me at 21 my dad is 10 years older then my mom and my mom always dressed very Seay as they say my dad is at the hospital for some treatment last night well it's was actually at 1 am I hear the door open I hear my...
    Albert122 Albert122 31-35, M 13 hrs ago

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    I'm sure she blames me

    for her depression. I self harm and self destruct and I suffer from PTSD and I'm convinced she hates me for it because it's hard to deal with and I'm sure she wishes she just has a normal daughter.
    Saphuu Saphuu 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

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    My mom is a narcissist

    and incapable of love
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 30, 2015

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    Sometimes I wonder if my mom is not my real mom,

    because I am nothing like her. She's such a ***** to me and always has a go at me whenever she can. This evening while we were eating dinner, she was telling me stories of how much she cared for me when I was still little, and all of a sudden, out of the blue, she strikes at me...
    Lorengracebelle Lorengracebelle 13-15 2 Responses Jan 19

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    We don't get along because she keeps calling me

    sweetie, girlie , and princess and I'm trans she knows it bothers me because I tell her every time she said I can't do anything with you because I'm always wrong no matter what I do so have you dad do everything for you
    FtmTroy FtmTroy 13-15, T 6 days ago

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I Want To Adopt A Mom

    When I was growing up my mother was never around. She was a full time nursing student and late night bartender. She left me with people who did horrible, unspeakable things to me. She brought home strange men, and had sex with them in front of me (I was probably 5 or 6 yrs old...
    HadEnuff84 HadEnuff84 26-30, F 13 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    My mom complains about any thing I do

    and when I tell her certain things bother me she does them on purpose to get "back at me" my mom has no idea why I we don't get along but I could write a whole list
    FtmTroy FtmTroy 13-15, T Jan 14

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    My mom hate me She keep telling me you are

    not my daughter And the other day I wanted to go out with her she told me you embarrass me ((I don't know why)) she keep telling me stuff like this And yesterday I slept after school because I was so tired and I woke up really late and they were celebrating the new year but...
    Nana177 Nana177 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    This is another thing I just came across a my

    dad is in th hospital he got sick at the plant he worked at he had sign a clause that if he got sick it not there responsibility my mom said we need the money don't be selfish and he did it but now he's sick my he singed a paper that my mom has full power of attorney of his now...
    Albert122 Albert122 31-35, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    A few days ago, she was screaming at me

    for spending time with friends. She claimed that I treat her like crap, act like my abusive alcoholic dad, and only use her for money and rides. She then told my she hates me. Her exact words were, "I'm supposed to love you, but because of how you treat me, I hate you." I do...
    sighselly sighselly 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 9, 2015

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    I love my mom so much

    but at times it so hard living with her . It's like every time she's upset she comes and yells at me for no reason I can be folding the clothes and doing everything right but she still comes and yells at me for no reason . She makes me feel bad sometimes I don't even wanna wake...
    ShaniahB ShaniahB 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2015

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    I went to visit my mom

    and she got mad called me fat, and she got really mad that I said it hurt my feelings and punched me in they eye, so I'm starting to think she really means what she said.
    CreepypastaFan2016 CreepypastaFan2016 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 19, 2015

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    i don't think she hates me,

    but she can say incredibly hurtful things. i've always been sensitive, and she holds this against me. she always holds my thoughts and feelings against me. if i say something that she doesn't agree with, she'll just say that it's "all in your head." and i believed her for so...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    My mom never wanted me in the first place.

    She made me aware of this when I was young. She wanted a boy. I believe she started to hate me the most though when my father died. I was four years old. Ever since I could remember she was always yelling at me for the smallest of things, calling me names, everything. I have...
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 47 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    It's more about that my mom doesn't understand

    me, and how I feel. I live in a house that is completely trashed all the time except for my room which I keep spotless. My mom's room is so bad that it smells like cat pee, and you can barely walk in there. My brother's room is so bad you can't close the door or even get to...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2014

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    rob2233 rob2233 36-40 1 Response Sep 3, 2015

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    I have different experiences with my mom.

    But things have been really really rocky ever since my 4 month old baby sister was born. We've never really had a strong mother and daughter connection. One day my mom loves me the next she's telling me how worthless I am. She's sending so many mixed emotions at me. She doesn't...
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323 16-17, F 3 Responses May 22, 2014

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands

    around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe because my father cheated on her. She has so much hatred for me it's unbelievable. She finds flaws in everything I do. I was the 1st in my family to...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    straight up told me she wishes I'd die

    or kill myself because I am nothing but a disappointment to her .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 1, 2014

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    in August my mom went to Chicago to do some work

    for 3 months(I live in California) and before she left she had promised she'd call/text everyday, but after a week she only would text like once a week and call my father and sometimes my brothers everyday, but then say she didn't have time to talk to me. she got back a few...
    confuzzled182 confuzzled182 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2015

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