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    I think my mom hates me.

    Me and my mom used to have a great relationship. She was like my bestfriend and I could tell her anything, do anything with her, she was just always there for me. 7 years ago she got with her boyfriend who is still her boyfriend now. Her boyfriend treats me and my brother like...
    Chicamarinap Chicamarinap 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Mommy Don't Hate Me, Please

    I love my mom, I think I'll always love her because she is my mother. But at the same time I don't have a good relation with her. she's very mean with me sometimes that I don't know why she even takes care of me when my father could do it too. I think we both need help in our...
    marktwainswife marktwainswife 16-17, F Dec 20, 2012

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    I Have No Life.

    Today I'm 24, and since I was born I never saw a smile on my mother's face. I pay for my University, no one help me. I do not live by my mother since she kicked me out. I didn't insist and pack up my stuffs. The next week, I heard more things about my mother and I couldn't take...
    MiseryIsMyLife MiseryIsMyLife 22-25 2 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    My mom and stepdad hates me .

    They always tell me stuff that makes me in a bad mood . My mom always agrees with my stepdad and not me . I always have to do everything around the house because my mom is always working . My mom calls me ugly , stupid , and she keeps saying why the hell did I even give birth to...
    tag13 tag13 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    I Dont Want To Care If My Mother Loves Me Or Not

    I am 51 yrs old and still very emotional over my mother issues. I spent half my life trying to figure out why she hates me.I know its not me its her with the problem, but it still hurts. She will never know to what extent her words have done to destroy my life.She is very toxic...
    oceananne oceananne 51-55, F 12 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    I'm away from my family

    for studying. I'm always talking with mom telling her what I'm doing or where I'm going. Today she sent me and talked to me with a different way. She kept on telling me things made me angry and she said that she is asking god to not make me happy.thinking that I'm talking with...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    My mom never supports me.

    She accuses me constantly of doing these ridiculous things when really all I want is to be accepted by her. All of my life I've been an outcast to everyone in my family for reasons unknown. My dad left when I was young which made me want my mom's love more than anything, but all...
    Idealizer Idealizer 16-17, F Feb 6

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    I love my mom so.much.

    but she does and say things that really hurt me she yells for every little thing shw doesn't know that when she slaps me and say all those harsh words I go to my room and cry and those words stick to me and hurt me forever I just wished we could be close again she always thinks I...
    chinapretty chinapretty 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    I Don't Understand, Yes Or No?

    Well… im 12 and half of my life i had the unconditional love of a mother but, once i turned 7 my mom totally changed she started being very abusive verbally physically and emotionally. I remember one day i was gettin ready for skool i was 7(first grade) And out of no where she...
    AGirlunknown1028 AGirlunknown1028 13-15 4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    My Best Friend

    hi i'm Anna . i would like to write for my best friend .her name is Claudia and we were best friends since we were 2 years old .now i'm 18 years old .one day i went at her house and i saw that our cousin from Italy had came . he started to stay with us and we had lot of fun . one...
    anna123s anna123s 18-21 2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    She told me to get ready

    for school and I sat in bed for 1 second and she started yelling at me and told me that I don't love her and she told me she wasn't taking me to school today, which is pathetic. She was screaming and yelling at me and then she gave up on me . She always does. I guess I'm just a...
    thegirlwhoshere thegirlwhoshere 13-15, F Jan 24

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Just Wanting My Mom To Love Me.

    Hi there, I'm a 29 year old female, and I have huge mommy issues.  My mom used to be a raging alcoholic, and when I was young she would get drunk and tell me "I wish you were never born" or that she would hate me or something along those lines. The next day when she was sober...
    wantingacceptance wantingacceptance 26-30 Aug 25, 2011

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    When I was 5 my parents started drinking

    and doing drugs. My mom was really into meth and my dad popped pills. My dad would black out and hit me and my older brother and my mom would leave me and my brother places because she thought someone was following her. Anyway a lot of stuff happened in those 3 years but now...
    sunnystez sunnystez 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Maybe hate is a strong word

    but she certainly dislikes me. She favours my sister more than I, and makes no effort to hide the fact. She's verbally, physically, and emotionally abuses me. But she gives my sister everything and anything she wants. It didn't start until she got that stupid boyfriend. She lets...
    Wiltedleaves Wiltedleaves 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Why Won't I Be Good Enough?

    My mother said she should've gotten an abortion... I'm the oldest of four children and I did everything for the younger ones, and I did all of the housework while both my parents worked. I try never to argue with my mother, and I'm an honors/AP student who is graduating high...
    ReyneStorm ReyneStorm 16-17, F 18 Responses May 24, 2011

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    please read. im desperate

    for someone to understand at least a little. I'm almost positive my mother hates me, or at least strongly dislikes me. I know moms supposedly don't have favorites, I have four siblings, I'm the youngest and my siblings have all been treated differently (better) than me. this isn...
    findingbeemo41 findingbeemo41 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 12

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I really believe my mom hates me.

    But I hate her too. We always fight, even about little things, and we always end up telling each other I hate you. She constantly blames me for everything that happens in this house. Someone breaks a dish in the kitchen - she is immediately blaming me. Even if I didn't do it...
    xgone4ever xgone4ever 18-21, F Feb 5

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    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I told her I hate my life

    and all I want to do is and she looked at me and laughed and said that May just be the best thing for you . Death .
    kwonders kwonders 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I Really Do Think My Mom Hates Me

    I am almost 42 years old now and have a wonderful husband and son, but my mom, that's not so great. Ever since I was around 7 years old my mom has talked to me about all of her problems including the ones she had with my dad. This has always been something she has done and...
    tituskatt tituskatt 41-45 3 Responses Nov 23, 2010

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    I always had a feeling

    that she couldnt stand me but its so confusing my parents got divorced when i was 8 and then things changed we then moved away to a different country il admit at first i was mad about them being divorced i got over it as i got older but on top of that i got pregnant when i was...
    AndreiaGirl AndreiaGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    My whole life depends on my family

    because I'm still a student and needs financial support for my education. As far as I know, I followed (though other times I was forced) what my mum told me because as what they say, 'Mother knows best'. I always love her and I thank her for everything she gave. So I just...
    carsoncars carsoncars 22-25, M Dec 30, 2013

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    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    Words From My Mom

    "you are the most stupid girl i have known , the most dirtest also, stupid mannerless, rude and idiotic. you are lucky that I am your mother, if not i will have nothing to do with someone like you. You’re disgusting, your character is disgusting. you think you are something...
    christinaejinaka christinaejinaka 26-30 4 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter 16-17, F 21 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    A Mother Who Does Not Want To Be Loved.

    It has been like this ever since I was found on this earth; misery, pain, and agony. I am 25 years old now. God only know how I lived this life and how I was raised. My parents apparently did the biggest mistake marrying each other. They are not compatible from any aspect, I...
    4 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    Theres no doubt in my mind

    that my mom hates me or im at least her least favorite daughter. Being the middle child of 2 girls is the definition of the least favorite!!! My mom loves my little sister and older sister but hates me!! For hanukkah both my sisters got presents on all 8 nights and i got 1 thing...
    dancer1440 dancer1440 22-25, F Dec 5, 2013

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    Mom...

    ok so i have adhd so what most moms would except that right? not my mom my whole life has been pain when i was like 5 she hated me and she once bunched me in the belly and once taped my mouth shut and my hands be hind my back because i talked too much she says and she would yell...
    Torioreo Torioreo 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    She Really Hates Me...

    Today she told this. Previously, we were enough happy family, but now isn't so. Probably my father has another woman and now we even don't travel together. Parents quarrel all the time and I feel, that I am alone and everyone doesn't care about me. And today it was too mush hard...
    grustnaya grustnaya 13-15 2 Responses Aug 25, 2011

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    fkfh fkfh 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I think my mom me I was with her six years

    and then went to my dad she didn't want to spend money for me to get clothes or food I was a playing on the street with cans with my friends. But now I am the second on the class that's why I would sacrifice any thing for my dad . I can't believe my mom did this to me she even...
    Lonelyvamp2 Lonelyvamp2 13-15, F Apr 4

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    BlueKissedMoon BlueKissedMoon 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    She Just Doesnt Understand

    My mother and i have never got on. I have memories of having to go out with her and her constantly fighting with me. I am only 22 years old and i know that i will never get along with my mother. My mum couldnt stand my gran but phoned her everyday and when she died it broke my...
    ouchithurts ouchithurts 22-25 5 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Mom: I am on to you.

    Dear Mom, I remember the night I that I got a call from the RN at the hospital telling me to drive as quickly as I could to the ER because you had a heart attack and probably were not going to make it. I cried the entire 30 miles to the hospital late that evening. I was not ready...
    onebravegirl onebravegirl 51-55, F Sep 3, 2013

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    Mothers

    I am just 16, and I think my mother really hates me. She was fine when i was small, but when my elder brothers are here, she makes me feel that she prefer them. It is not much, but then it hurts me like hell. She certainly does not care for me, but when there are outsiders she...
    okeeey okeeey 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2013

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    I Don't Know How To Say This.

    I'll try and set the scene. I'm from a 'happy', fairly wealthy family. My mum, my dad, my elder sister, myself and my younger sister all live together, and have done in the same fairly large house since I was born. There's no history of affairs or divorces anywhere in my family...
    aaa2 aaa2 16-17, F 8 Responses May 12, 2010

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    My Mother Shows Partiality

    I am a 21 year girl.My mother takes care of me well. But some where she is showing partiality. I have a brother(26).In front of other people my mother says that my brother loves her very much. When she notices me standing there she says that she too loves, but not as much as my...
    mitravindhag mitravindhag 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2012

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    Lately i've been feeling my mom hates me.

    She's always so. bitchy with me. Like she doesn't even care. I mean yeah I'm sure most kids feel this way about their moms, but. Me and my mom used to be really close. Until I was 13 I would say. Some tragic things happen, that brought us a little closer. But I'm 17 now. And I...
    Silentscreamsx3 Silentscreamsx3 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    Impossible To Please

    There's nothing a child wants more than to make their parent proud, right? That's all I've ever wanted, is for my mom to be proud, to love me with her whole heart, and to support me no matter what I do. We had the closest relationship a mother and daughter could possibly have. I...
    Sarah196 Sarah196 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    She is never happy with me.

    She calls me mean things, She doens't support me in anything I do, she gets mad at anything I do. She is never here for me. She is always yelling at me , she never ask me if im doing ok, she shows more love to my other sisters. When im doing good in school she doesn't care but...
    marlenea12 marlenea12 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I know she does. The majority of my

    insecurities stem from her disdain for me. She hates that I was an introvert as a kid.she hates that my application to school was that of a hard worker. She hates that I never partied , drank, had sex, or anything like that. She uses small things and makes things up to make my...
    noahjoah123 noahjoah123 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Well i dont really no

    when i started to realize my mother doesn't like me. I think i have known she really didn't like me when i was probably 18. i started to hang out with people she didn't like. then i got a boyfriend that she didn't like, and she would basically begged me to leave him, but i...
    vanorasmores vanorasmores 22-25, F Feb 16

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    What Do I Do?

    I'm 15 but I'm not just dealing with typical arguments with my mom. A lot of people at my school think my life is automatically great because I'm white, and they think white people are rich, but if that's true, why was I not fed as a kid, to the point my grandparents had to come...
    Batgirl626 Batgirl626 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 25 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    It Hurts So Much..

    Where should I begin? *sigh*I was around 6 or 7..my mum just had a huge fight with my dad. It was because I misplaced one of my books, it was like a draft book, she began yelling at me and threatening me she'll hurt me if I don't find it. And I guess that angered him. Anyway, we...
    perfectflaw perfectflaw 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    Top 10 Reasons Why I Know My Mom Hates Me!!

    1.  when i was 5 she cut my hair real short because she was mad at my dad 2.  she remarried, and the guy abused me and instead of stopping it, she let it go on for 8 years...sometimes being in the same room 3.  she use to pull my hair as a child, and give me fat...
    beezer66 beezer66 41-45 2 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    I KNOW My Mom Hates Me

    Ever since I was younger, she would play one against the other. I have two younger siblings and she would tell them to hit/kick me and say mean things about me to them even though they were like under six at the time. Now, she blames me on the other children's faults and is...
    nikki071988 nikki071988 18-21 1 Response Dec 1, 2013

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    My mom and I have never gotten along.

    Ever. I my first memories are of Christmas when I was three when my mom took away my doll saying that I was a spoiled brat and didn't appreciate it. When I turned six I helped my mom make my birthday cake. I poured milk into the cake mix too soon and she yelled louder than I...
    coffeeandlipstick coffeeandlipstick 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    I Want To Adopt A Mom

    When I was growing up my mother was never around. She was a full time nursing student and late night bartender. She left me with people who did horrible, unspeakable things to me. She brought home strange men, and had sex with them in front of me (I was probably 5 or 6 yrs old...
    HadEnuff84 HadEnuff84 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    My mom's favorite thing to do is call up my

    sisters & talk about me. I'm not sure what all is said considering I'm up at college. She's constantly reminding me of my screw ups in life. I've tried so hard to make her happy but it's never enough. She thinks buying me things means that shows her love. Her boyfriend comes...
    estrong estrong 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    She Always Yelled At Me

    I remember her yelling at me regularly from when I was in 7th grade to at least when I was in 10th grade. I'm glad she didn't say anything in particular that confirmed that she hated me; she just yelled about things I did. She yelled at me many times (in different incidents) to...
    MDenise MDenise 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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