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I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    She never try's to listen to me,

    my past is like a fake dream to her, I was kicked out at 16 for no real reason at all. Before that I spent so much time alone I began to go crazy. No friends, no family I could count on... No one that cared for me. I expressed myself foolishly in public hoping for smiles. But at...
    kintobeans kintobeans 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    She told other people things I told her in

    confidence. I can't trust her anymore.
    gr8love gr8love 31-35, F 4 Responses May 17

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I don't know why, but

    whenever I try to talk to her or opening a conversation with her, she always like ignoring me. AND I HATE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    RiniAlisaputri RiniAlisaputri 13-15, F Oct 3

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    She has been criticising me ever

    since I gained weight. I never heard any nice words from me, it's like she hates me for being fat and doing something about it. Now that I've been working out, she always sees me and say negative things about me. Like why do I keep on eating when I even told her that it's part...
    Trishhh Trishhh 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I have different experiences with my mom.

    But things have been really really rocky ever since my 4 month old baby sister was born. We've never really had a strong mother and daughter connection. One day my mom loves me the next she's telling me how worthless I am. She's sending so many mixed emotions at me. She doesn't...
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323 13-15, F 2 Responses May 22

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    I Don't Understand, Yes Or No?

    Well… im 12 and half of my life i had the unconditional love of a mother but, once i turned 7 my mom totally changed she started being very abusive verbally physically and emotionally. I remember one day i was gettin ready for skool i was 7(first grade) And out of no where she...
    AGirlunknown1028 AGirlunknown1028 13-15 4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    My Mom Hates Me..

    For a couple of times now,I have been dealing with many issues concerning my mom. She basically yells at me over the most littlest things, and gets so angry she threatens to kick me out of the house( I.E. Im 18) . She often threatens to hit me with something, sometimes knifes...
    gtegene1 gtegene1 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    We got into a fight thats been building

    for years over my grandma and I and now shes completly disowned me and when she does talk to me she treats me like ****. Not more than an hour ago I was walking and tripped and knocked down a pole in the hallway and she screamed at me to knock it off even though it was an...
    EffyXOXO EffyXOXO 16-17, F Jul 3

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    She calls me worthless all the time.

    She calls me a piece of....yeah. I just don't get why she would say that if it wasn't how she truly felt about me. I don't know what I can possibly do to make her happy. I never go to parties, drink, smoke, do drugs. I'm a virgin, I study all the time.... But then today I said...
    chuhulil chuhulil 16-17, F Sep 17

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    I think my mom really hates me like one time I

    fell down she do not really care about me but when my older brother fell down she is very worried and sometime my mom breaks my heart.
    Hongyang1597 Hongyang1597 13-15 2 Responses Sep 19

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    My name is Aariah and I really believe

    that my mom hates me. Like she is really mean to for no reason... I do above and beyond to try and help her and help take care of my sisters, make sure they have whatever they need and it's like nothing is ever good enough for her. She's so UNGRATEFUL. She doesn't appreciate...
    HellaaLoyaal17 HellaaLoyaal17 18-21 1 Response Sep 19

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    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I love my mom so.much.

    but she does and say things that really hurt me she yells for every little thing shw doesn't know that when she slaps me and say all those harsh words I go to my room and cry and those words stick to me and hurt me forever I just wished we could be close again she always thinks I...
    chinapretty chinapretty 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    A Mother Who Does Not Want To Be Loved.

    It has been like this ever since I was found on this earth; misery, pain, and agony. I am 25 years old now. God only know how I lived this life and how I was raised. My parents apparently did the biggest mistake marrying each other. They are not compatible from any aspect, I...
    4 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    Last night I came home from work

    and instantly began getting bitched at. After refusing to tell me why she was yelling my mother told me she wanted to forget me and to leave. So I did. Long story short she called the cops when I wouldn't come back bc she wanted my car ( it's under her name) back.
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21

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    Mi5h Mi5h 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    i am not sure but i have a step sister

    and my mother makes me bade her feed her sleep with her i basically do everything for her till she starts calling me ma and my mother by her name. today she calling me i was very sick got a bad ear infection and spread my body. i feel asleep and she kept calling me i didnt hear...
    cubbycake cubbycake 18-21, F Aug 23

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    My mom; someone who has taught me a lot.

    Someone who showed me things no one else could. However, over the past few months things have changed dramatically. She has become this annoying person in my life who just makes me not want to be around her. Out of all my siblings I live with she treats me the worse. The funny...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 1 Response May 22

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    My mom always yells at me

    for random things i didn't do like stealing my dads money when it was in is pocket the whole time or breaking her glasses when i didnt even know she had them it gets really annoying cause she never yells at my brother and always gives him money and treats and i feel really...
    leilabirdy leilabirdy 16-17, F Sep 6

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    I'm sure she does. She never wants to hang out

    with me and whenever we have something planned together, she ditches me. it's like I don't exist. And anytime she does notice me, she's yelling at me for no reason.
    crystal234 crystal234 13-15, F Jun 18

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    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter 16-17, F 22 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands

    around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe because my father cheated on her. She has so much hatred for me it's unbelievable. She finds flaws in everything I do. I was the 1st in my family to...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I Want To Adopt A Mom

    When I was growing up my mother was never around. She was a full time nursing student and late night bartender. She left me with people who did horrible, unspeakable things to me. She brought home strange men, and had sex with them in front of me (I was probably 5 or 6 yrs old...
    HadEnuff84 HadEnuff84 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    I can't do anything right by my mom.

    .. My Dad left us when I was only 4 and ever since then she's being on a downward spiral. She has been remarried then divorced and now continues to date random guys who I don't approve of. Whenever I try to talk to her it's always comes out with a negative result. For example...
    jessstar50 jessstar50 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    She said, "I'm going to kill the *****.

    " To herself today. I don't care. Last week she told me to shut up because she hated me. I'd rather her kill me then me having to do it for her.
    thoughtfulstars thoughtfulstars 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    Why Won't I Be Good Enough?

    My mother said she should've gotten an abortion... I'm the oldest of four children and I did everything for the younger ones, and I did all of the housework while both my parents worked. I try never to argue with my mother, and I'm an honors/AP student who is graduating high...
    ReyneStorm ReyneStorm 16-17, F 20 Responses May 24, 2011

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 33 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    My mom never wanted me in the first place.

    She made me aware of this when I was young. She wanted a boy. I believe she started to hate me the most though when my father died. I was four years old. Ever since I could remember she was always yelling at me for the smallest of things, calling me names, everything. I have...
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 13

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    Why?..

    Is there a reason why I feel so alone? So traumatized, I don't even trust my own family? Yes, my mother. Where should I start?.. Ever since I was born, my mother acted so differently towards me and my younger sister. Of course, I thought she prided me.But I was wrong, I just didn...
    Dottie12 Dottie12 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    So I have camp coming up

    and I had to go get white no show socks and spanks. Well I understand that I am a teenager and I am expensive so I asked my mom to but the cheapest pair which was $16.00 we'll guess what she did she made me try on the little girls clothing and told me that if it was to small I...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I did it again, made things worse with my mom i

    feel horrible. Ive been lying in bed crying and thinking for the past 3 hours. Mommy im sorry im a ******* failure
    alyssa218 alyssa218 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    straight up told me she wishes I'd die

    or kill myself because I am nothing but a disappointment to her .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 1

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    It's a really big deal

    for me to write all this down, because my Mum made me feel such guilt for years for ever daring to criticise her, that she made me believe I was the one in the wrong. Clever! For a long time I believed her behaviour was normal. I've tried to excuse it so much, because I wanted...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 3 Responses Jun 7

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    My mom slapped me in the face one time

    for touching the ice holder thingies
    toiletwater toiletwater 16-17, M Jun 11

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    Impossible To Please

    There's nothing a child wants more than to make their parent proud, right? That's all I've ever wanted, is for my mom to be proud, to love me with her whole heart, and to support me no matter what I do. We had the closest relationship a mother and daughter could possibly have. I...
    Sarah196 Sarah196 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    My mom is always throwing bad words at me

    and calling me everything but my name. I think she favors my older sister better than me. I'm an honor student, I'm respectful, and I never really bother her unless I need something. She always called me a bastard, says I'm retarded, or calls me an *** and I'm so tired of it. I...
    lonelygypsy lonelygypsy 13-15, F Sep 18

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    My mom is constantly yelling at me

    and only ever getting mad at me. It's all for stupid stuff too. She gets onto me for not cleaning my room when hers isn't even clean or my brothers room is the same, if not worse, as mine. I just hate that all she does is tell at me. She'll wake me up in the morning pissed...
    classact45 classact45 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    She Always Yelled At Me

    I remember her yelling at me regularly from when I was in 7th grade to at least when I was in 10th grade. I'm glad she didn't say anything in particular that confirmed that she hated me; she just yelled about things I did. She yelled at me many times (in different incidents) to...
    MDenise MDenise 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    I guess ever since I could remember I've hated

    my mom, always day dreaming about a mom that cared and loved me. I am now 15, and I can't even remember the last time my mother said "I love you" to me. Everyday I can always over hear her saying that too my younger brothers. I always find my self being jealous of them, wishing...
    Jaaye1 Jaaye1 70+ 1 Response Aug 31

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    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    Two months ago I visited my mom with my son.

    Just got out of talk army and wanted my baby boy to see more of her. My sister gave my son (who is 2), my old stuffed animal that she had kept. Everythingwas pretty peaceful until my husband brought to my attention a social nnetwork post from my mom claiming that I had stolen...
    paytek paytek 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    First driving lesson I had my first driving

    lesson today and it went really well! I tried to tell my mum about it over dinner. I told her how the instructor was so pleased with me that he had me driving at 60kph on main roads, for nearly an hour, in the first lesson. My loving mum's reaction? "That's ridiculous, I'm going...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 Jun 21

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    It Hurts So Much..

    Where should I begin? *sigh*I was around 6 or 7..my mum just had a huge fight with my dad. It was because I misplaced one of my books, it was like a draft book, she began yelling at me and threatening me she'll hurt me if I don't find it. And I guess that angered him. Anyway, we...
    perfectflaw perfectflaw 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    It started when I was young I was always being

    blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I would wrap a cord around my neck or not wear a seat belt in the hopes of getting into a wreck and dying. This was all at a young age I'm 15 now...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My mom used to not hate me.

    I let the cat out of the bag and was a whistleblower in the family, and now I'm paying for it. I told my mom for the first time in my life that my dad sexually abused me when I was a kid. I told my siblings too. My mom flipped. She threatened me not to tell my dad. She said it...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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