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I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    It's a really big deal

    for me to write all this down, because my Mum made me feel such guilt for years for ever daring to criticise her, that she made me believe I was the one in the wrong. Clever! For a long time I believed her behaviour was normal. I've tried to excuse it so much, because I wanted...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 3 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    last Friday I actendly left faheema my sis I

    never even wanna leave faheema but the bus forcedly told me to leave faheema and we left but I ****** have no ****** choice and faheema forgave me and I will never do tha to my sis n my mom kept remindin me bout wha happened but my mom should **** her self cuz I wanna get...
    Jasminekress Jasminekress 16-17 Mar 23

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    I know my mom hates me.

    She told me so when I was 16. It's not that she's a completely hateful person. She loves my dad and adores my brothers. But when it comes to me, nothing is good enough. The messed up part is I'm always the one she goes to for help. And ever time she calls, my dumb *** jumps. I...
    Libby4 Libby4 26-30, F Apr 17

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    I knew she hated me when she put her hands

    around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe because my father cheated on her. She has so much hatred for me it's unbelievable. She finds flaws in everything I do. I was the 1st in my family to...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    I love my mom so.much.

    but she does and say things that really hurt me she yells for every little thing shw doesn't know that when she slaps me and say all those harsh words I go to my room and cry and those words stick to me and hurt me forever I just wished we could be close again she always thinks I...
    chinapretty chinapretty 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    I'm 15 i thought me and my mom were tight,

    got each others back. Now I think my mom doesn't give a darn about my back and me. I used to take piano lessons and taekwondo, I never really practiced both so they took me out, i'm kinda smart and my mom says without my brain i'm nothing. She said as soon as I fail a class i'm...
    TheninjaCj TheninjaCj 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 11

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    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    On the outer image, people would always see a

    mom and a daughter clinging to each other as if their life depended on it. However, as the quote says, "Believe only half of what you see and nothing that you hear," my life is totally the opposite. My mom is a nice person and I've always known her bluntness but every single...
    lifeishard0 lifeishard0 13-15, F 1 Response May 29

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    My mom has this habit.

    She calls me stupid or dumb at least once a day. maybe more. she always feels the need to insult me.. she loves putting me down and when i cry she yells telling me to keep crying. she is now telling me i am a slob and im gross. shes also decided to keep me from my boyfriend. im...
    carmaniteee carmaniteee 18-21, F Mar 5

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    It started when I was young I was always being

    blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I would wrap a cord around my neck or not wear a seat belt in the hopes of getting into a wreck and dying. This was all at a young age I'm 15 now...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2014

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    Long story short, she wants to kick me out of

    the house all because I'm not a virgin anymore. I turn 20 in two months. This would be longer, but as I'm writing this, she is still threatening me and I feel as if I do not have the time to elongate. I need to get away from her.
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    For my entire life I knew

    that my mother, who passed away in September 2014, would rather have only had my brother, who is 3 years older than me. I have no memories of her ever hugging me, telling me she loved me, or telling me she was proud of me. Over the past 18 years since my father passed away, I...
    Leftoutofwill Leftoutofwill 51-55 1 Response Feb 8

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    >texted my mom that I would take out the trash

    when she came home >she comes home and yells at me >tells the whole house that she hates me and that she would kill me to prove a point >grounds me for a year
    Jovanite Jovanite 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    I wasn't anything that you could call "normal"

    growing up. I mean, from startign school through 5th grade, I didn't have friends, I kept quiet, I kept my grades up but my mom never really appreciated me. From 6th grade through 8th grade, it was the same thing, this time however with 2 friends. They meant the world to me...
    KelvinLe690 KelvinLe690 13-15, M 4 Responses May 26

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    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2014

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    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    A few minutes ago, my mom walked in the door.

    She had just got back from the store. I'm up in my room with the door open and I can hear everything. She openly invites my sister to go to our grandmother's house to get something. She accepts. She then walks up stairs and into her room. My room is a corner room and I can see...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 12

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    Ever since I turned 18 my mom has been cold to

    me. She never talks to me now...and when she does, it's more Like screaming at me for no reason....I don't know why she's like this towards me now...I'm a good kid I know I am...I'm president of key club, I have straight A's I have my own college fund, I never do anything to...
    AlexisQ AlexisQ 18-21, F May 24

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    My mom never wanted me in the first place.

    She made me aware of this when I was young. She wanted a boy. I believe she started to hate me the most though when my father died. I was four years old. Ever since I could remember she was always yelling at me for the smallest of things, calling me names, everything. I have...
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    It Hurts So Much..

    Where should I begin? *sigh*I was around 6 or 7..my mum just had a huge fight with my dad. It was because I misplaced one of my books, it was like a draft book, she began yelling at me and threatening me she'll hurt me if I don't find it. And I guess that angered him. Anyway, we...
    perfectflaw perfectflaw 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    There was one point where she pinned me against

    a wall and choked me over a bad grade that was already fixed. I contacted my principal about it, the police ended up coming to my house at midnight, and I had no clue. She still thinks that I called the police to this day. Since then she's gotten way worse.. and I've almost self...
    TheyCalMeKitty TheyCalMeKitty 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    i read my moms messages

    and she said how she hates me, im awful, she wants me to move out(im 16) and she wishes she never had me. so im basically a **** up to her hahaha all i did was swear near her....
    ashleydavis0 ashleydavis0 18-21, F Feb 6

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    My mom is constantly yelling at me

    and only ever getting mad at me. It's all for stupid stuff too. She gets onto me for not cleaning my room when hers isn't even clean or my brothers room is the same, if not worse, as mine. I just hate that all she does is tell at me. She'll wake me up in the morning pissed...
    classact45 classact45 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    Sometimes I wish to not feel anything.

    The pain, the sadness, the little anger. They made me feel this way. I thought I have persons in my life that I can rely on during the darkness times but I'm wrong. And that's more too painful that your own mother can't even help me but instead hurt me more and blame everything...
    msj02 msj02 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    No you can said that

    because every mothers loves her child
    hudabeela hudabeela 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    Impossible To Please

    There's nothing a child wants more than to make their parent proud, right? That's all I've ever wanted, is for my mom to be proud, to love me with her whole heart, and to support me no matter what I do. We had the closest relationship a mother and daughter could possibly have. I...
    Sarah196 Sarah196 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    straight up told me she wishes I'd die

    or kill myself because I am nothing but a disappointment to her .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 1, 2014

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    My mom is putting me through torture.

    I have to do things that I don't want to do I have to leave everything I love because my mom forcing me to
    nxmle nxmle 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Anyone else have that mom

    who tries to murder you in your sleep, curses your name, wishes you were never born, and refuses to feed you. . . I do ^_^
    TokioDoll TokioDoll 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 41 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    My mom wishes that I was never born

    and today she swore that she won't mention my name or will talk to me for the rest of her life :-)
    ahisayouknow ahisayouknow 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    My mom used to not hate me.

    I let the cat out of the bag and was a whistleblower in the family, and now I'm paying for it. I told my mom for the first time in my life that my dad sexually abused me when I was a kid. I told my siblings too. My mom flipped. She threatened me not to tell my dad. She said it...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    A few days ago, she was screaming at me

    for spending time with friends. She claimed that I treat her like crap, act like my abusive alcoholic dad, and only use her for money and rides. She then told my she hates me. Her exact words were, "I'm supposed to love you, but because of how you treat me, I hate you." I do...
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 9

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    Why?..

    Is there a reason why I feel so alone? So traumatized, I don't even trust my own family? Yes, my mother. Where should I start?.. Ever since I was born, my mother acted so differently towards me and my younger sister. Of course, I thought she prided me.But I was wrong, I just didn...
    Dottie12 Dottie12 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    I Don't Understand, Yes Or No?

    Well… im 12 and half of my life i had the unconditional love of a mother but, once i turned 7 my mom totally changed she started being very abusive verbally physically and emotionally. I remember one day i was gettin ready for skool i was 7(first grade) And out of no where she...
    AGirlunknown1028 AGirlunknown1028 13-15 4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    I feel like my mom doesn't

    even value my life anymore. It's like, if my 19 (soon to be 20) year old sister walks someplace, she'll tell me to go with her even if I don't want to but if I'm walking someplace, she won't even ask if they want to go with me. She's always telling me that the world is dangerous...
    SommieMusso SommieMusso 16-17, F May 10

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    Today my mother once again called me the c word

    and said screw you as she left the room. I hate that I'm her least favorite child. Even my best friend who lives with us gets treated better than me even though she literally disappears for hours on end doing drugs. And if my older or younger sisters ask for anything every wish...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Apparently she can read my ******* mind now.

    Oh wait, no she can't! She seems to think that she knows how i think things, and she is always wrong, not ONCE has she EVER been correct! I basically have to take her verbal abuse, unless i want to get called ignorant, and get pushed aside, because i proved her wrong. I hope she...
    Futuresdiary Futuresdiary 13-15, M May 9

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    I have different experiences with my mom.

    But things have been really really rocky ever since my 4 month old baby sister was born. We've never really had a strong mother and daughter connection. One day my mom loves me the next she's telling me how worthless I am. She's sending so many mixed emotions at me. She doesn't...
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323 13-15, F 2 Responses May 22, 2014

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    My mum blocks all my phone calls

    and texts for days on end because she 'needs space'...even if the last time we spoke we ended on great terms.
    dauds dauds 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I don't know what I ever did wrong I don't get

    why she yells at me and curses me out, I just want it to stop...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F Mar 11

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    A Mother Who Does Not Want To Be Loved.

    It has been like this ever since I was found on this earth; misery, pain, and agony. I am 25 years old now. God only know how I lived this life and how I was raised. My parents apparently did the biggest mistake marrying each other. They are not compatible from any aspect, I...
    4 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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