I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    I have different experiences with my mom.

    But things have been really really rocky ever since my 4 month old baby sister was born. We've never really had a strong mother and daughter connection. One day my mom loves me the next she's telling me how worthless I am. She's sending so many mixed emotions at me. She doesn't...
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323
    16-17, F
    3 Responses May 22, 2014

    straight up told me she wishes I'd die

    or kill myself because I am nothing but a disappointment to her .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Aug 1, 2014

    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz
    26-30
    8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

    My mom always tells me I am not good enough.

    She always just looks for a reason to yell at me and she never touches me (hugs, snuggles) unless it is to hit me. She always compares me to other people, no matter how hard I try. She threatens me with kitchen utensils, like knives and wooden rolling pins, and she hits me on...
    lulucatface lulucatface
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 17, 2015

    I know people think this is one of those mom

    and teen battle moments but it's not my mom has battled me (for being me) since I can remember. She has always adored my younger sister more than me and my older brother is her child prodigy. This women has called me name like b*tch to asking me to run away. She hates me and I...
    AmandaClarke88 AmandaClarke88
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 4

    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

    WARNING!! SUPER LONG STORY ABOUT MY MOM I'm

    just trying to get these feelings out before I explode. I'm 18 now and back in the 7th grade my mother met a man who ruined our lives. Hes a very abusive alcoholic sociopath. I still remember how slowly but surely she stopped coming home from work. She stayed at his house...
    Hayoulooklikeaturtle Hayoulooklikeaturtle
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 22

    It's more about that my mom doesn't understand

    me, and how I feel. I live in a house that is completely trashed all the time except for my room which I keep spotless. My mom's room is so bad that it smells like cat pee, and you can barely walk in there. My brother's room is so bad you can't close the door or even get to...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2014

    i don't think she hates me,

    but she can say incredibly hurtful things. i've always been sensitive, and she holds this against me. she always holds my thoughts and feelings against me. if i say something that she doesn't agree with, she'll just say that it's "all in your head." and i believed her for so...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 25

    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

    It Hurts So Much..

    Where should I begin? *sigh*I was around 6 or 7..my mum just had a huge fight with my dad. It was because I misplaced one of my books, it was like a draft book, she began yelling at me and threatening me she'll hurt me if I don't find it. And I guess that angered him. Anyway, we...
    perfectflaw perfectflaw
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Nov 8, 2012

    how do you deal with a stupid mom?

    She lacks common sense and is a lazy mf......i ******* hate her and even though she says she loves me i know deep inside that ***** hates me too
    psc23 psc23
    18-21, M
    Mar 22

    she told me that she wouldn't have probably

    thrown me out if i weren't her daughter. she doesn't believe me. he doesn't trust me
    embracetheheat embracetheheat
    18-21, F
    Nov 25, 2015

    Both my parents favoured

    and still favours my older brother over me- in fact, everyone sees it: my cousins, aunties, uncles and even my brother and parents as well ( I know because they have told me verbally)! Examples of this is when we are fighting. No matter what the situation is, my parents...
    YassIknowHowYouFeel YassIknowHowYouFeel
    26-30
    Apr 2

    Impossible To Please

    There's nothing a child wants more than to make their parent proud, right? That's all I've ever wanted, is for my mom to be proud, to love me with her whole heart, and to support me no matter what I do. We had the closest relationship a mother and daughter could possibly have. I...
    Sarah196 Sarah196
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

    We don't get along because she keeps calling me

    sweetie, girlie , and princess and I'm trans she knows it bothers me because I tell her every time she said I can't do anything with you because I'm always wrong no matter what I do so have you dad do everything for you
    FtmTroy FtmTroy
    13-15, T
    Jan 30

    My mom complains about any thing I do

    and when I tell her certain things bother me she does them on purpose to get "back at me" my mom has no idea why I we don't get along but I could write a whole list
    FtmTroy FtmTroy
    13-15, T
    Jan 14

    This is another thing I just came across a my

    dad is in th hospital he got sick at the plant he worked at he had sign a clause that if he got sick it not there responsibility my mom said we need the money don't be selfish and he did it but now he's sick my he singed a paper that my mom has full power of attorney of his now...
    Albert122 Albert122
    31-35, M
    Feb 5

    My mom wishes that I was never born

    and today she swore that she won't mention my name or will talk to me for the rest of her life :-)
    ahisayouknow ahisayouknow
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    My mom used to not hate me.

    I let the cat out of the bag and was a whistleblower in the family, and now I'm paying for it. I told my mom for the first time in my life that my dad sexually abused me when I was a kid. I told my siblings too. My mom flipped. She threatened me not to tell my dad. She said it...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jun 24, 2014

    My sister and I grew up in the same house,

    raised by the same person in body but in mind set we were raised by two very different people. We are adults now and are living with the consequences of each upbringing. Where I was told and shown I was nothing and never would be anything my sister was put on a pedestal and...
    hdocherty1 hdocherty1
    41-45
    2 Responses Mar 14

    That moment when your mom curses you out

    and treats you like Satan's spawn if you don't do one thing. Oh, but you did everything else and then some before hand, nope she still hates you. Your the perfct child, nope still hates you. For some reason all my mom even seems to know is how to treat me like **** and make me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 3, 2015

    Sometimes I wonder if my mom is not my real mom,

    because I am nothing like her. She's such a ***** to me and always has a go at me whenever she can. This evening while we were eating dinner, she was telling me stories of how much she cared for me when I was still little, and all of a sudden, out of the blue, she strikes at me...
    Lorengracebelle Lorengracebelle
    13-15
    1 Response Jan 19

    My mom hate me She keep telling me you are

    not my daughter And the other day I wanted to go out with her she told me you embarrass me ((I don't know why)) she keep telling me stuff like this And yesterday I slept after school because I was so tired and I woke up really late and they were celebrating the new year but...
    Nana177 Nana177
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 1

    My mom frequently favors my older sister over

    me. I am hi/beaten when she is talked to using nice and civil words. My mother has told me that she thins that she took the wrong child home from the hospital, and that i am not her child. She has also told me that she would not be sad if I died. i have lived my entire life like...
    animalhuggerLOL animalhuggerLOL
    13-15
    Mar 11

    in August my mom went to Chicago to do some work

    for 3 months(I live in California) and before she left she had promised she'd call/text everyday, but after a week she only would text like once a week and call my father and sometimes my brothers everyday, but then say she didn't have time to talk to me. she got back a few...
    confuzzled182 confuzzled182
    13-15, F
    Nov 21, 2015

    My Mom Hates Me..

    For a couple of times now,I have been dealing with many issues concerning my mom. She basically yells at me over the most littlest things, and gets so angry she threatens to kick me out of the house( I.E. Im 18) . She often threatens to hit me with something, sometimes knifes...
    gtegene1 gtegene1
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 21, 2013

    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2013

    Hi this is my first post

    and the reason I'm doing this is to share express my feelings on here so here goes. My mom said **** you to me and that she doesn't want me or my dad to **** up her life she also slammed the door. Just cause I didn't want to stay in PA for a week like wtf *****? I just hate her...
    Ibethmercado439 Ibethmercado439
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Feb 12

    A Mother Who Does Not Want To Be Loved.

    It has been like this ever since I was found on this earth; misery, pain, and agony. I am 25 years old now. God only know how I lived this life and how I was raised. My parents apparently did the biggest mistake marrying each other. They are not compatible from any aspect, I...
    3 Responses Feb 6, 2013

    I Want To Adopt A Mom

    When I was growing up my mother was never around. She was a full time nursing student and late night bartender. She left me with people who did horrible, unspeakable things to me. She brought home strange men, and had sex with them in front of me (I was probably 5 or 6 yrs old...
    HadEnuff84 HadEnuff84
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Jan 9, 2012

    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2014

    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

    I need some advice as I stated

    before my mom and dad got married when my mom was very young she ha me at 21 my dad is 10 years older then my mom and my mom always dressed very Seay as they say my dad is at the hospital for some treatment last night well it's was actually at 1 am I hear the door open I hear my...
    Albert122 Albert122
    31-35, M
    Feb 5

    Hey friends as you guys seen my stories here u

    no what I have been through my mom was a Christian but she admitted on cheating on my dad while they were dating with a Muslim man that lived on there street my mom was 18 whe she met my dad at his work place when she went too apply for the job she always dress very...
    Albert122 Albert122
    31-35, M
    Mar 3

    Why?..

    Is there a reason why I feel so alone? So traumatized, I don't even trust my own family? Yes, my mother. Where should I start?.. Ever since I was born, my mother acted so differently towards me and my younger sister. Of course, I thought she prided me.But I was wrong, I just didn...
    Dottie12 Dottie12
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2013

    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter
    16-17, F
    23 Responses Jun 11, 2010

    My mom says that I am the wrong child

    that she kicked up from the hospital, and that I'm not her child and therefore don't belong to her. She also told me several times that if I died she wouldn't be sad, but she'd be happy. I have an older sister who is never told these kind of thing, but is treated like a normal...
    animalhuggerLOL animalhuggerLOL
    13-15
    1 Response Mar 11

    I Don't Understand, Yes Or No?

    Well… im 12 and half of my life i had the unconditional love of a mother but, once i turned 7 my mom totally changed she started being very abusive verbally physically and emotionally. I remember one day i was gettin ready for skool i was 7(first grade) And out of no where she...
    AGirlunknown1028 AGirlunknown1028
    13-15
    4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

    I'm 31 my mum has bpd her words

    and actions suggest she hates me it's been this way since I can remember she says we have a love hate relationship mid 20s I told her I wanted to kill myself her response was anger at me she screamed I want to kill myself sometimes but I don't she added I pitty anyone who...
    Confused848 Confused848
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 31

    I Dont Want To Care If My Mother Loves Me Or Not

    I am 51 yrs old and still very emotional over my mother issues. I spent half my life trying to figure out why she hates me.I know its not me its her with the problem, but it still hurts. She will never know to what extent her words have done to destroy my life.She is very toxic...
    oceananne oceananne
    51-55, F
    12 Responses Sep 26, 2011

    I'm sure she blames me

    for her depression. I self harm and self destruct and I suffer from PTSD and I'm convinced she hates me for it because it's hard to deal with and I'm sure she wishes she just has a normal daughter.
    Saphuu Saphuu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    I knew she hated me when she put her hands

    around my neck and started choking me when i was in the 7th grade. 5 years later she still hates me. I don't understand why. Maybe because my father cheated on her. She has so much hatred for me it's unbelievable. She finds flaws in everything I do. I was the 1st in my family to...
    perdutounicorn perdutounicorn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

    Well it's be a while

    and my mom is far gone she's official converted too Islam her guy she's with has brain washed her she now 4 moths pregnant with his kid and she's been seen with other men and she's drinking still while pregnant this guy is 7 yrs younger then her she has wiped me and my dad's...
    rob2233 rob2233
    36-40
    Dec 7, 2015

    My mom just told me that I'm a huge failure

    and she doesn't know what she did wrong to make a miserable child like me. She doesn't love me at all. She gets mad when I use MY PRIVATE IPod even though I work my *** off doing the chores for her every other day. I know she is going through a hard time in her life but she...
    Preethilu Preethilu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    OK so today i invited a friend over to do

    something on Sunday, after a while of talking i got mad because she kept talking crap about people and i told her i got grounded and couldn't hang out anymore and she made a big huge deal and told her mom and her mom told my mom and my mom beat the crap outta me in front of my...
    queenclark queenclark
    31-35, F
    Mar 19

    My mom is a narcissist

    and incapable of love
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015

    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

    she is still controlling me

    and im in my 30's. she seems to be very persuasive so im worried itd be hard to get my daughter from her grasp. i hope i can get her away from the woman. i think of her as slimy like a snake.
    DreamWeaverMagicMaker DreamWeaverMagicMaker
    26-30
    Dec 31, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 4

    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1
    13-15
    49 Responses Feb 14, 2012

    My mum doesn't hate me

    but she doesn't love me either. She says she loves me, my brother and my little sister equally but it's painfully obvious that she's lying. Basically whenever my sister or brother do something wrong that has something to do with me, whether it be beating me up or verbally...
    whydontyouloveme whydontyouloveme
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    I love my mom so much

    but at times it so hard living with her . It's like every time she's upset she comes and yells at me for no reason I can be folding the clothes and doing everything right but she still comes and yells at me for no reason . She makes me feel bad sometimes I don't even wanna wake...
    ShaniahB ShaniahB
    18-21, F
    Oct 12, 2015

    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5
    31-35, F
    19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

    Mom: I am on to you.

    Dear Mom, I remember the night I that I got a call from the RN at the hospital telling me to drive as quickly as I could to the ER because you had a heart attack and probably were not going to make it. I cried the entire 30 miles to the hospital late that evening. I was not ready...
    onebravegirl onebravegirl
    51-55, F
    Sep 3, 2013

    well not hate...but she just doesn't seem to

    want to hold conversations with me anymore. she's always on her phone and paying me attention to our pets than having an actual conversation. It hurts a lot, because we used to be so close and now it seems like I'm not even there, sometimes. She pays more attention to my dog and...
    Kairics Kairics
    13-15, T
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2015

    Apparently she can read my ******* mind now.

    Oh wait, no she can't! She seems to think that she knows how i think things, and she is always wrong, not ONCE has she EVER been correct! I basically have to take her verbal abuse, unless i want to get called ignorant, and get pushed aside, because i proved her wrong. I hope she...
    Futuresdiary Futuresdiary
    16-17, M
    May 9, 2015

    Well if you know what's been happing you no

    what my mom has done today I went too see her and I go there the house where I grow up is changed been fence has some ismalic writing on the fence I go in I hear this dog barking she never let us have a dog as I knock on the door she opened it she had on pure black Islamic dress...
    rob2233 rob2233
    36-40
    1 Response Dec 8, 2015

    My mom never wanted me in the first place.

    She made me aware of this when I was young. She wanted a boy. I believe she started to hate me the most though when my father died. I was four years old. Ever since I could remember she was always yelling at me for the smallest of things, calling me names, everything. I have...
    ThisChick37 ThisChick37
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2014

    My mom always judges me

    and compare me to other children...she judges my appearance and calls me fat. I once wish she would love me as much as she loves my brother and sister...she always have something to say about and I try really hard to change but it's hard. I try hard to diet but I can't. She...
    oOMissSteriousOo oOMissSteriousOo
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015
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