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I Think My Mom Hates Me

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    I Don't Know How To Say This.

    I'll try and set the scene. I'm from a 'happy', fairly wealthy family. My mum, my dad, my elder sister, myself and my younger sister all live together, and have done in the same fairly large house since I was born. There's no history of affairs or divorces anywhere in my family...
    aaa2 aaa2 16-17, F 8 Responses May 12, 2010

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    My mom slapped me in the face one time

    for touching the ice holder thingies
    toiletwater toiletwater 16-17, M Jun 11

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    Gotta love it when you spend all weekend

    working to better a project that was given to you on short notice, and your mom belittles you and finds a way to make you feel like a horrible son. Also love that because I didn't come home, I was automatically "partying" and nothing else. Sorry you want me home, but I had ALOT...
    zenderwi zenderwi 18-21, M Apr 28

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    I think my mom me I was with her six years

    and then went to my dad she didn't want to spend money for me to get clothes or food I was a playing on the street with cans with my friends. But now I am the second on the class that's why I would sacrifice any thing for my dad . I can't believe my mom did this to me she even...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F Apr 4

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    My mom has said many times

    that she doesn't like me as a person. She screams at me over the littlest things for days. She has called me fat and lazy and spoiled and a *****. She hits me sometimes and threatens to kill me. I am a very good and passive kid. She thinks there is something wrong with me but...
    bringingbackmyspace bringingbackmyspace 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Impossible To Please

    There's nothing a child wants more than to make their parent proud, right? That's all I've ever wanted, is for my mom to be proud, to love me with her whole heart, and to support me no matter what I do. We had the closest relationship a mother and daughter could possibly have. I...
    Sarah196 Sarah196 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Top 10 Reasons Why I Know My Mom Hates Me!!

    1.  when i was 5 she cut my hair real short because she was mad at my dad 2.  she remarried, and the guy abused me and instead of stopping it, she let it go on for 8 years...sometimes being in the same room 3.  she use to pull my hair as a child, and give me fat...
    beezer66 beezer66 41-45 2 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    It's a really big deal

    for me to write all this down, because my Mum made me feel such guilt for years for ever daring to criticise her, that she made me believe I was the one in the wrong. Clever! For a long time I believed her behaviour was normal. I've tried to excuse it so much, because I wanted...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I can't do anything right in her eyes.

    Nothing. It sucks. All she does is yell at me. Today I looked at her and she started screaming at me. This morning, when I woke up and she saw that I was going to wear sweatpants, she started throwing a fit. Over a pair of sweatpants. She's never had a problem with it before...
    thoughtfulstars thoughtfulstars 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I know she does. The majority of my

    insecurities stem from her disdain for me. She hates that I was an introvert as a kid.she hates that my application to school was that of a hard worker. She hates that I never partied , drank, had sex, or anything like that. She uses small things and makes things up to make my...
    noahjoah123 noahjoah123 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    She Always Yelled At Me

    I remember her yelling at me regularly from when I was in 7th grade to at least when I was in 10th grade. I'm glad she didn't say anything in particular that confirmed that she hated me; she just yelled about things I did. She yelled at me many times (in different incidents) to...
    MDenise MDenise 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

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    I love my mom so.much.

    but she does and say things that really hurt me she yells for every little thing shw doesn't know that when she slaps me and say all those harsh words I go to my room and cry and those words stick to me and hurt me forever I just wished we could be close again she always thinks I...
    chinapretty chinapretty 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    My mother has hurt me in ways I never knew

    possible. There are times she makes me feel less than human. I suffer depression and anxiety and have sought out medical help for it. No matter how many drugs they give me or therapy sessions I attend...the deep pain and longing to be loved and accepted by my mother will never...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    fkfh fkfh 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    My stepdad just moved back in.

    He sexually abused me a few years back & just got off probation on my birthday. I decided to be nice to my mom & let him move back in. I regret this decision. Ever since hes moved back in/ I got a job, she's been a total *****. She will call me on the phone SCREAM "time to eat...
    DestructionAmistOthers DestructionAmistOthers 18-21, F Apr 23

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    My mom's favorite thing to do is call up my

    sisters & talk about me. I'm not sure what all is said considering I'm up at college. She's constantly reminding me of my screw ups in life. I've tried so hard to make her happy but it's never enough. She thinks buying me things means that shows her love. Her boyfriend comes...
    estrong estrong 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong!

    My mom constantly yells at me. She yells at me for stuff that i didn't do, usually stuff that my sister did. She also yells at my sister, although she works. My mom even yells at me when she does something wrong! Just this morning, she knocked over my water bottle and I got in...
    ddepressedd ddepressedd 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    A Mother Who Does Not Want To Be Loved.

    It has been like this ever since I was found on this earth; misery, pain, and agony. I am 25 years old now. God only know how I lived this life and how I was raised. My parents apparently did the biggest mistake marrying each other. They are not compatible from any aspect, I...
    4 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    I Dont Want To Care If My Mother Loves Me Or Not

    I am 51 yrs old and still very emotional over my mother issues. I spent half my life trying to figure out why she hates me.I know its not me its her with the problem, but it still hurts. She will never know to what extent her words have done to destroy my life.She is very toxic...
    oceananne oceananne 51-55, F 12 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    It Hurts So Much..

    Where should I begin? *sigh*I was around 6 or 7..my mum just had a huge fight with my dad. It was because I misplaced one of my books, it was like a draft book, she began yelling at me and threatening me she'll hurt me if I don't find it. And I guess that angered him. Anyway, we...
    perfectflaw perfectflaw 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    I Would Do Anything For You To Say You Love Me

    It began when I was about 10. I would tell my mom I loved her and she would laugh at me and say "yeahh"she tells my sister that she loves her all the time. I dread coming home because I know she will scream at me to leave. She blames my twin siblings dying on me. They were still...
    iamyourdaughter iamyourdaughter 16-17, F 22 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    She Enjoys My Unhappiness.

    My mom was really loving and used to act very motherly towards me up until around 2 years ago. My mom divorced my dad when I was in kindergarten and I haven't seen him since i was 8 (he doesn't have a job, is in debt, and is addicted to the computer, so my mom thought that it was...
    livisaur livisaur 13-15 1 Response Dec 29, 2010

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    I know my Mom did not like me.

    As I am now a Mom myself I have learned through the years that my mother had untreated postpartum depression and possibly bipolar disorder. She never held me, spoke nicely to me, or treated me as well as she did my younger sister. My mother pasted away October 30, 2013, after a...
    lln722jm lln722jm 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Why isn't my mom affectionate toward me?

    She always pushes me away when I try hugging or kissing her and when I do she doesn't hug or kiss me back... I feel the only Time she talks to me is about her cake business or when she needs help, she never wants to ask how I am doing or if I am struggling through things... With...
    theworldisdark theworldisdark 18-21, F 1 Response May 10

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    I Want To Adopt A Mom

    When I was growing up my mother was never around. She was a full time nursing student and late night bartender. She left me with people who did horrible, unspeakable things to me. She brought home strange men, and had sex with them in front of me (I was probably 5 or 6 yrs old...
    HadEnuff84 HadEnuff84 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    Lately i've been feeling my mom hates me.

    She's always so. bitchy with me. Like she doesn't even care. I mean yeah I'm sure most kids feel this way about their moms, but. Me and my mom used to be really close. Until I was 13 I would say. Some tragic things happen, that brought us a little closer. But I'm 17 now. And I...
    Silentscreamsx3 Silentscreamsx3 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    My mom blew up at me

    because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At least we still had the chance to pass it. She said I'm lazy and that I'm useless, and she said she wanted to die so that...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I have different experiences with my mom.

    But things have been really really rocky ever since my 4 month old baby sister was born. We've never really had a strong mother and daughter connection. One day my mom loves me the next she's telling me how worthless I am. She's sending so many mixed emotions at me. She doesn't...
    lovelygirll2323 lovelygirll2323 13-15, F 2 Responses May 22

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    She Never Want's Me to Be Happy....

    My mother has suffered alot of chaos in her life..........  She has made it her mission to:  let all her anger out on me since I was a child...... I will never understand why? I am 33 years old and she still torments me with her way of treating me... She has...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 19 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    She never try's to listen to me,

    my past is like a fake dream to her, I was kicked out at 16 for no real reason at all. Before that I spent so much time alone I began to go crazy. No friends, no family I could count on... No one that cared for me. I expressed myself foolishly in public hoping for smiles. But at...
    kintobeans kintobeans 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 18

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    I'm away from my family

    for studying. I'm always talking with mom telling her what I'm doing or where I'm going. Today she sent me and talked to me with a different way. She kept on telling me things made me angry and she said that she is asking god to not make me happy.thinking that I'm talking with...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I Don't Understand, Yes Or No?

    Well… im 12 and half of my life i had the unconditional love of a mother but, once i turned 7 my mom totally changed she started being very abusive verbally physically and emotionally. I remember one day i was gettin ready for skool i was 7(first grade) And out of no where she...
    AGirlunknown1028 AGirlunknown1028 13-15 4 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    Why Won't I Be Good Enough?

    My mother said she should've gotten an abortion... I'm the oldest of four children and I did everything for the younger ones, and I did all of the housework while both my parents worked. I try never to argue with my mother, and I'm an honors/AP student who is graduating high...
    ReyneStorm ReyneStorm 16-17, F 19 Responses May 24, 2011

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    My mom used to not hate me.

    I let the cat out of the bag and was a whistleblower in the family, and now I'm paying for it. I told my mom for the first time in my life that my dad sexually abused me when I was a kid. I told my siblings too. My mom flipped. She threatened me not to tell my dad. She said it...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Why?..

    Is there a reason why I feel so alone? So traumatized, I don't even trust my own family? Yes, my mother. Where should I start?.. Ever since I was born, my mother acted so differently towards me and my younger sister. Of course, I thought she prided me.But I was wrong, I just didn...
    Dottie12 Dottie12 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2013

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    I Still Care.

    I am a mean, I am sarcastic, I am bitchy, I am brat, I find it hard to trust other people, I close my doors to everyone.. And to all of these, I blame my mom. They say "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    My Mom Likes My Brother More Than Me

    It all started when I was 2. That's when my brother was born. All of a sudden my mom started spending more time with him so my grandma took care of me. I always thought that my mom just had to take care of the baby cause he was little and helpless. But deep inside I felt that my...
    milkshakecb1 milkshakecb1 13-15 29 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    So I have camp coming up

    and I had to go get white no show socks and spanks. Well I understand that I am a teenager and I am expensive so I asked my mom to but the cheapest pair which was $16.00 we'll guess what she did she made me try on the little girls clothing and told me that if it was to small I...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 13-15, F Jul 5

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    My Mom Hates Me..

    For a couple of times now,I have been dealing with many issues concerning my mom. She basically yells at me over the most littlest things, and gets so angry she threatens to kick me out of the house( I.E. Im 18) . She often threatens to hit me with something, sometimes knifes...
    gtegene1 gtegene1 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2013

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    My mom always finds something to pick on me

    about, I'm not good enough... I don't work hard enough... Or I'm just a bad kid. She does anything to upset me & always finds one of my flaws and magnifies it...she's ruining my relationship and tells me how she wants to curse me out or beat me when I tell her how I feel.. I...
    Dejai11 Dejai11 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    She said, "I'm going to kill the *****.

    " To herself today. I don't care. Last week she told me to shut up because she hated me. I'd rather her kill me then me having to do it for her.
    thoughtfulstars thoughtfulstars 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 28

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    First driving lesson I had my first driving

    lesson today and it went really well! I tried to tell my mum about it over dinner. I told her how the instructor was so pleased with me that he had me driving at 60kph on main roads, for nearly an hour, in the first lesson. My loving mum's reaction? "That's ridiculous, I'm going...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 Jun 21

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    I did it again, made things worse with my mom i

    feel horrible. Ive been lying in bed crying and thinking for the past 3 hours. Mommy im sorry im a ******* failure
    alyssa218 alyssa218 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    My mother really makes me want to kill myself.

    I'll never be happy as long as she's still an alcoholic.
    TheWaySheFeels3 TheWaySheFeels3 18-21, F Mar 15

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    We got into a fight thats been building

    for years over my grandma and I and now shes completly disowned me and when she does talk to me she treats me like ****. Not more than an hour ago I was walking and tripped and knocked down a pole in the hallway and she screamed at me to knock it off even though it was an...
    EffyXOXO EffyXOXO 16-17, F Jul 3

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    She told other people things I told her in

    confidence. I can't trust her anymore.
    gr8love gr8love 31-35, F 4 Responses May 17

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    My mom; someone who has taught me a lot.

    Someone who showed me things no one else could. However, over the past few months things have changed dramatically. She has become this annoying person in my life who just makes me not want to be around her. Out of all my siblings I live with she treats me the worse. The funny...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F May 22

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    I Really Do Think My Mom Hates Me

    I am almost 42 years old now and have a wonderful husband and son, but my mom, that's not so great. Ever since I was around 7 years old my mom has talked to me about all of her problems including the ones she had with my dad. This has always been something she has done and...
    tituskatt tituskatt 41-45 3 Responses Nov 23, 2010

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    I'm sure she does. She never wants to hang out

    with me and whenever we have something planned together, she ditches me. it's like I don't exist. And anytime she does notice me, she's yelling at me for no reason.
    crystal234 crystal234 13-15, F Jun 18

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    My mom is constantly yelling at me

    and only ever getting mad at me. It's all for stupid stuff too. She gets onto me for not cleaning my room when hers isn't even clean or my brothers room is the same, if not worse, as mine. I just hate that all she does is tell at me. She'll wake me up in the morning pissed...
    classact45 classact45 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Drepressed An Alone

    Every since my dad died three years ago in a motocycle accident, my mom treats me like crap.  She always needs me to do things for her then treats my like crap when my brothers are around.  And to top it all off in the last year she has gotten a sleazy boyfriend...
    kerraz kerraz 26-30 8 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    It started when I was young I was always being

    blamed and yelled at I remember drawing pictures of me killing myself and my family being happy at the age of 6-7. There were times I would wrap a cord around my neck or not wear a seat belt in the hopes of getting into a wreck and dying. This was all at a young age I'm 15 now...
    lifesucks150 lifesucks150 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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