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I Think My Relationship Is Dying

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    Me and my bf have been going out

    for 9 months now and things feel worse then ever. We have had an on/ of relationship and recently we have gotten back together. The problem is that sometimes it feels like he just forgets about and ignores me. I am a very understanding person and have always asked that if he is...
    aleeta47 aleeta47 16-17, F May 6, 2014

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    It's Not the Same

    MY FIANCE AND I ARE THE CUTEST COUPLE EVER. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR OVER A YEAR NOW, AND WE HAVE HAD OUR UPS AND DOWNS. ABOUT 5 MONTHS AGO HE HAD BEEN SEARCHING OTHER GIRLS ONLINE AND I COMFRONTED HIM ABOUT IT. OF COURSE I WAS UPSET AND ANGRY AT HIM, SO WE TAALKED IT OUT AND HE...
    XxAlisonxX XxAlisonxX 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2008

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    I Jsut Dont Know

      I am in a serious relationship with the man of my dreams; he does everything for me I am sexually, emotionally and physically attracted to him. He treats my daughter like she is his. I have been verbalizing doubt about us spending the rest of our lives together and he...
    ddcoke ddcoke 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    Gladly Taking Advice ...

    I've been with my boyfriend for a couple years now. 3-4 years. I'm in love with him, so deeply ill do anything to fix this problem I have. Since I first experienced sex I have hardly gotten to ***! No matter how good it feels I never do. There's a few times I have but no matter...
    Kah1993 Kah1993 18-21, F Aug 20, 2013

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    A Sad Dream That Accurately Depicts My Dying Relationship

    Last night I dreamed that my "girlfriend or ex-girlfriend" (I'm not sure exactly what to call her because we still live under the same roof after 4 years but don't sleep in the same bed and havent had sex in a year and a half), decided to go on a harbor cruise.While we were...
    dawinla dawinla 51-55, M 6 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    I don't understand how things can change

    so quickly... Not sure about anything right now.
    Remidog5 Remidog5 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Dwindling Away

    I have spent the past few years trying to figure out what I had been going through. I am still in the process of it.  I am in therapy and working towards getting better.  I have lots of work to do on me and for my children.  I left an abusive narcissist.  **** of a guy.  I...
    flodials flodials 41-45, F Nov 12, 2012

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    Sometimes It's Out of Your Hands

    You should just remember you are responsible for your own actions and you can't control what other people do. You can give 150% into a relationship and still things wont work, a relationship takes to people and if both parties aren't prepared to give equally thing will never work...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 1 Response May 8, 2008

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    Tired of Fighting For the Relationship

    I used to think we really could make it work, and I used to believe we could really be good for each other. The other day though, he seemed to take a turn away from me. He has been negative and sarcastic and combative. Not like him at all. And I find that I no longer feel love...
    hollyg hollyg 41-45 4 Responses May 8, 2008

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    If you put the time and effort into the relationship , you can make it work . Online relationships are difficult because you miss the other person constantly and you have to put an...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 5 mins ago

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    I just don't get people or relationships.
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    I never used to think about it, I used to be petrified of the thought of dying and it made me uneasy just to think your heart will just stop one day. Two and a half years ago my...
    Imoveryou Imoveryou 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    "Going Under"EvanescenceNow I will tell you what I've done for you -50 thousand tears I've cried.Screaming, deceiving and bleeding for you -And you still won't hear me (going under...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was in a long distance relationship, as of just a couple of minutes ago...
    BrookeAntina BrookeAntina 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Feeling so alone and isolated. In the midst of a relationship breakdown where he moved out after a vicious fight with my family. And months of us fighting. We couldn't cease...
    Sia88 Sia88 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    I am in a LDR since almost 3 years ,we are over 1000 km apart ,im polish and he is filipino , the thing is that i met him like 3 times till now ,my parents are racist and forbade...
    edytka edytka 16-17, F 28 mins ago

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    Hi, this is my very first post. I just would like to share what i have been going through for the last month or so. First, backstory: I met this girl 4 years ago. She was 15, i...
    roobs108 roobs108 22-25, M Jan 3

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    I am embarrassed to even admit it. I never thought I would find myself here. I never understood why women just wouldn't get up and leave with dignity and courage. Hell, I could use...
    AJ139 AJ139 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I'm not a afraid of dying sometimes. I imagine several situations of something tragic happening in a day.
    JanelBell JanelBell 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, and we've been talking about marriage but now I'm ambivalent. When we first started dating I was over the moon happy, as he...
    ccapron ccapron 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I said that I'd write PART 2 ;) So, there it is. About the breaks... I am virtually relentless in doing whatever I can to make what he wants happen, especially in light of what...
    ImnessAntiess ImnessAntiess 26-30, F Dec 27, 2014

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    I think about it a lot actually. I'm not going to go out and kill myself, but I really wouldn't mind if someone did it for me. All I need is for someone to run a red light and it's...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M Dec 29, 2014

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    I am sitting in my room, thinking about the job I can't wait to quit, the money I have to pay for bills and car installments and credit card installments and all these things I...
    roryta roryta 26-30, F Jan 13

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    Okay so here is my situation since I can post "ask a question" only 120 characters not enough. Anyways, I met this guy on August we txt pretty much everyday and we go to school...
    butterflymari butterflymari 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I have been suffering from depression for about 2 years. Only 3 of my friends even know I am depressed, and only one knows the extent of it. I act happy, bubbly, cheery, excited...
    SadFacedDork SadFacedDork 18-21, F Dec 29, 2014

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    Dying my hair crazy colors is a way of distracting myself from my ugliness, to focus on my awesome hair. Right now it is blue and green
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M Jan 1

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    If classy people are dying off ... Then I WILL SURVIVE !
    KenjaminL KenjaminL 18-21, M Jan 10

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    As humans, why when someone close to us is dying or has died do we think about all of the things we should have done whilst they were well or alive instead of just doing them. I'll...
    wtf70 wtf70 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    She is not in danger of dying soon. She is relatively healthy. And only 46. But I really love her and i hope that when she passes away, i will be much much older. Like, when i have...
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F Jan 12

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    I should clarify. I'm a hypochondriac, but I'm not a coward. I might be afraid of the fictitious diseases in my own brain, but I'm not scared of pushing you out of the way of an...
    bluemountains36 bluemountains36 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    I love you so much it hurts; I ache for you in the most literal sense of the word. I wonder what it would be like if we were left alone. Do you think of me at all? I wake up and...
    jollybeanses jollybeanses 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes when I'm talking to my elderly family members that I'm very close to, I just think to myself that the day that they die, I'm going to be inconsolable. It's so hard to...
    gglz18 gglz18 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    I lived with my mom and her mom from birth till I was about 6. she was 16 raising me. I didn't know any different, it was the way I was raised, how I was influenced, the life I...
    summerwinterfallspring summerwinterfallspring 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Hi. This won't be an easy one. I'm 37 years old, and have been married for over 16 years. My wife and I have three girls, 16, 12 and 10. I have not been a loyal husband, but up...
    Betruetoyourpath Betruetoyourpath 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I don't really think about death itself, I'm just so obsessed with where the **** I'm gonna be after the fact... Notorious BIG's song "suicidal thoughts" and stories I hear of the...
    deletedprofile821 deletedprofile821 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    Every relationship , good and bad always change people for better or worse. Relationships are roads. Every choices u make always lead u to happiness or sadness. We walk around...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I suppose it doesn't matter now that we broke up, but I still feel it gripping on to me. My girlfriend was bi-polar, depression and family trouble. She was my first love, and it...
    Inviticus Inviticus 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have been married for 21 years and don't know how or why I have stay so long...my husband is 15 years older than me (I know that was my first mistake) We have nothing at all in...
    RhonH3501 RhonH3501 46-50, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I never heard the words "I love you" the first 20 years of my life, so when HE came along, it felt too good to be true. My parents hated each other and my dad was cheating on my...
    LolaSparks LolaSparks 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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