I Think My Sister Hates Me

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    I love my sister, I really do.

    I've done so many things for her. I wasn't the best big sister.. We were so young, I've spent so many years desperately trying to make up for by doing whatever she asks. I helped her with both of my nephews so much. I don't know where I'd even begin to tell anyone... She's...
    krissybyul krissybyul
    Sep 18, 2014

    I Believe My Younger Sister Hates Me

    I am the 2nd sister of four and I believe my younger sister has secretely hated me over the years . I come from a dysfunctional home where we all had to be on our own at an early age , I had to go at 16yrs old . The sister that I thinks hates me had to be out with our younger...
    Gettingittogether Gettingittogether
    1 Response Oct 15, 2011

    Everything I Do Is Wrong....

    My little sister and I are about 2 years apart. We do absolutely EVERYTHING together, we dress almost exactly the same( thanks to my mom) both always wear our hair curled(also thanks to mom) and like almost the same things. I guess I would call her my best friend. But this whole...
    KidIcarusfangirl KidIcarusfangirl
    Aug 11, 2013

    My sister- oh boy. She has a long history with

    me, and she has a short fuse if engaged. I like to forgive and forget as much as the next sibling but she will go on about something for days. If I try to let her know what she is doing is greedy or bad, she freaks defensively[screaming and/or raising voice] without hesitation...
    yamitos yamitos
    18-21, M
    Oct 16, 2015

    Mom and I were running errands yesterday

    and had lunch with a couple of her friends. My sister was at school and when she came home she found my leftovers in the fridge. After asking Mom where we went she threw the container on the floor. All while giving us the "I hate you, b¡tch" smile. I'm sick of people giving...
    PearlRose PearlRose
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2015

    My Little Sister Secretly Hates Me.

    Okay, so I was under the impression that my sister and I were really close, but over the past few years she's been really hateful and mean! We've done absolutely everything together since before we could walk and have always had the same friends and been interested in the same...
    raegyn raegyn
    3 Responses Apr 3, 2012

    My younger sister was a sweet,

    loving child, but as she grew older, she just...cut me off. I'm seven years older, and this has been going on since she was around 12. I have no idea what I ever did to her. I should probably mention that my mother has always had something against me, but she worships the ground...
    SheeSheeM SheeSheeM
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 1, 2015

    My sister was cute with me

    until she was 4 years old. Then she turned to be mean. But only with me, other people find her nice and cute, she is also very pretty. But she realised that our parents like her better so she can easily get me into trouble, I think she enjoy that my parents discipline me hard.
    erik2000erik200 erik2000erik200
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Feb 1, 2016

    Bullied By My Twin Sister

    Every time were alone, she will use every opportunity to call me mean things, which is the reason of my bad self esteem. She also tends to stalk me, and if anyone tries to talk to me, she will do her best to make them either talk to her instead, say really embarrassing things...
    FatesNegate FatesNegate
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2013

    All she does is abuse me.

    Both physically and mentally. She is only 4 years older than me, but she acts as a third parent. She makes me feel useless, fat, like a disappoint basically. I do everything for her, but if I slip up one time and forget to do something, I am screwed. She is older, prettier, and...
    nancy723 nancy723
    18-21, F
    Mar 29, 2016

    Okay so my sister is 18

    and I'm 13. I can't recall any memory of her ever showing me any affection, and it never bothered me, but since she's moving out soon I've been thinking about how much I've missed out on having an actual healthy relationship with her. Don't get me wrong, she's beautiful...
    jessielinskie jessielinskie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    She left without a goodbye,

    and never tried to call me at all...
    ShampainxDiamonds ShampainxDiamonds
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2015

    She Probably Does

    My sister and I are separated by a period of around 12 years. She is technically my half-sister, but when you're an only child who happens to be lonely, like myself, you may consider a half-sister to be a full-sister. She hadn't spoken to me in 14 years, ever since I was about 6...
    UnhappinessPersonified UnhappinessPersonified
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 3, 2010

    I know she does.

    Her name is Jessie. I can't even remember the last time we actually spoke. Three months...maybe four, perhaps more. It seems like forever. At first I was just so angry with her I didn't care that she wasn't talking to me. Then after all the anger, I became sad that we weren't...
    pandora102693 pandora102693
    18-21, F
    Jun 3, 2012

    I have an older twin sisters

    that I love so much I really do I try to follow their steps because I think what they are doing is the best. They are 4 years older than me and they have a totally different personalities and characters and I used to be close to both of them then "F"'s personality started to...
    rawdaA rawdaA
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2015

    Hello. This is gonna be long

    so I thank you in advance for taking the time to read it. Since a child I always had issues with one of my older sisters. From verbal confrontations to full blown fist fights. I thought that as the years went on and we matured and grew that maybe we would eventually get past all...
    Liveandlearn88 Liveandlearn88
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    My little sister hates me.

    She told me and my mom. She says I have a evil side that comes out when no one is looking when really I treat her respectfully. I hate fighting. I don't like shouting or arguments or anything like that. All I do is defend myself but I even get in trouble for that. My mom tells...
    CutieCurlGurl CutieCurlGurl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 17, 2016

    My Sister Hates Me

    I am 41 , my sister is 45 , she always hated me since i was a teen but now she show it more , when she was in highschool she had a problem with her  spine called scoliosis , she had to wear a machine around her neck all the way down to waist , she stopped wearing this around 18...
    Vrevion Vrevion
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2011

    I'm the older sister.

    I'm 21 and she's 17. We saw a lot of things we shouldn't have as kids, there was alcoholism, verbal abuse, physical abuse, then when I was 14 and she was 10 our father passed away. She's an honor student, she has a very active social life, she's funny and smart. she'll go to a...
    baaabybee baaabybee
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    I mean seriously here,

    ever since she reached 9 aprox(2 years ago). Shes been acting strange towards me. She shows more afection towards her friends even male friends than me, she always treats me horrible, no one else just me, I never did anything to her, I taught her to walk and use a computer, I've...
    JoseRawlins JoseRawlins
    18-21, M
    May 23, 2014

    Haha my sister thinks I hate her.

    Haha. I love my sister- I just don't care for her sometimes.
    Ricesha Ricesha
    18-21, F
    Oct 17, 2015

    my sister is 38 and I'm 44.

    She hates me. She tells people what a horrible person I am. I've done so much for her. But she only focus on something she couldn't have. She asked me if she could have a baby shower at my home. I explained to her that I was not comfortable with the idea of having people over...
    sparklyivy5 sparklyivy5
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    I feel like my sister loves to hate me.

    We are twins and she has always been the more dominant, out spoken one. She has always been manipulative and I always followed along. She seems to like me more when she can feel superior to me whether it's financially, education, etc. I guess I am trying to figure out how to let...
    Timeforpeace Timeforpeace
    46-50, F
    Mar 4, 2016

    My sister treats me like I'm worthless all the

    time. If I say something she dislikes, sing, whistle, hum, or tap she throws stuff and yells. When I manage to upset her she takes my stuff and either buries it in her armpit or puts it in her mouth (she has gum disease and never wears deodorant, so ewww). She kicks me for...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 5, 2016

    My Sister Would Rather Shake Hands Than Hug

    My sister and I are both in our 30's, I feel as though I have no bond with her. I feel that over the years, I've tried to have a sisterly relationship with her, to be there for her, to listen to her, to offer advice if she asks. I've loaned her money, I've tried to support her...
    nela nela
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2009

    My sister and I have a ten year age gap.

    So reasonably, we have different interests. We're not close at all. Ever since I was little, we've had a strained relationship, but for stupid reasons. Like being the kid I was, I snitched on her and she snitched on me. But now I'm pretty sure that she hates me. She always...
    deleted deleted
    May 7, 2015

    My Sister Hates Me

    My sister and I were close until we reached our thirties. We are now in our late forties. Ever since we were kids, I fought her battles, defending her against family members when she divorced, against her ex-husband when I thought he was being unfair. I began noticing a change in...
    Fedupsister Fedupsister
    1 Response Jan 11, 2013

    my younger sister is 14,

    we have an odd relationship. i love her very very much. but i cant get myself to tell her "i love you". ive never shown any affection towards her. idk why, the thought of it is even weird to me. its so hard for me to compliment her. it makes me feel uncomfortable. i dont hug her...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 17, 2015

    Today is the day I finally accept my sister

    will never like me. I have sought her approval all my life but her resentment has now spread to total hatred. In her words she is "beyond caring" so why do I care? She twists everything I say and do and says it is proof that I am the selfish and horrible person she knows me to...
    woldgatewoods woldgatewoods
    Nov 29, 2015

    I'm 13, she's 19. she just got back from college

    and she is pissed off at me bc she thinks I took her leggings, which I didn't. anyway, she sed she's not going to talk to me for the rest of the time she's here but she's talking to my brother and my other sister, she's just not talking to me. idk what to do...
    lineywhite lineywhite
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

    I know my sister hates me.

    I haven't seen her in almost 30 years. Oh well. It not like we were close anyway. Forget her. I'll see her on judgement day...
    TheLastExile TheLastExile
    41-45, M
    Feb 2, 2016

    I don't think she hates me

    but she gets humiliated when I have to change her.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 2, 2016

    My younger sister is 38

    and I'm 44. She hates me for as long as I can remember. I was hoping that when we get older we would mature and be very close. Things seems to get worst between us about 10 years ago. She started to feel unhappy with her own self image, hates her job, hates her life, and no...
    sparklyivy5 sparklyivy5
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2015

    Younger Sister

    My 4 years younger sister and I didn't grow up together, so we never had a relationship until 6 years ago when I moved closer to her. And even then I just couldn't seem to bond with her. Especially not after she met her boyfriend and now the father of my 2 beautiful...
    composure85 composure85
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2010

    Mom got her an XboxOne we were supposed to

    share. She not only keeps it in her room, but she hid all the games, just one of which is mine, so I won't be able to play it while she's out of town for two weeks. If I had pulled that our mom would be yelling at me to share. She's never had to deal with that, though, I can't...
    PearlRose PearlRose
    Dec 23, 2015

    My Sister Is A Heroine Addict....and She Hates Me.

    I have battled drug addiction... horrible addictiton I aquired from my brain surgery. Pain pills, dillaudid, you name it. I didn't realize it was an issue until doctors wouldn't prescribe it anymore and I needed it. I went through a living hell getting my *** off these drugs...
    CancerMama22 CancerMama22
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 19, 2012

    My Sister Hates Me. I Suppose.

    I'm 20 and my sister is 18. We both still live with my parents. A few months ago, we had a bit of a fight; my boyfriend was over and we wanted to watch a series on DVD that I knew she didn't like. When I heard her come upstairs and go into the bathroom I figured...
    Otharia Otharia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 12, 2010

    My sister, let's call her Haylee,

    is always making me feel like ****, she is going to be 33 this year (I will be 21 so it not theven middle child thing) she tells me how I am a horrible mother all the time and how my husband is a ****. Last year when I told her I was pregnant she told me to get an abortion and...
    Allysmommy13 Allysmommy13
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 13, 2014

    i dont even know where to begin with this one.

    shes five years older then me. we have gone through points in our relationship where we get along and then we dont, at all. we took very different paths in life. i had a family, she chose not to. she didnt go to school, i did. she wont work, i did. shes always been in love with...
    LiveloveJ LiveloveJ
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    She told me that she hates me

    and never considered me as her sister ...she prefer to open her heart to her friends than share it with me. I have no idea why does she hates me that much. Never done to her anything bad and I have never hurt her. Kindness is what she receives from me unlike her. I wish if she...
    unknown159231 unknown159231
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    Twin Sister Hates Me And I Can'T Handle It

    I feel the need to vent because I'm so done with walking around her on eggshells It all started when we started dating two best friends around the same time. For the first time, I was intimate with someone. I felt like if I told her she would feel pressure to do it with her...
    JeVu JeVu
    22-25, F
    Nov 17, 2013

    Sister Despises Me

    My younger sister and me had a rocky childhood. Alcoholic father, abuse, etc. About a year ago I began to explore my past with a therapist (I am 38.) My sister has been in much more therapy than me. You would think we would have bonded over our shared past, but it is not the...
    sadrdw sadrdw
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

    My Sister Wishes Me Dead

    And I know so, because I have been told so, several times, in the middle of her dellirium, and as she shouts in the middle of the night for all the neighbourhood to listen to "what a terrible person I am" I am 33, and she is 28. Things have never been good over the last 10...
    GreatEnchantress GreatEnchantress
    31-35, F
    Jul 21, 2013

    She hates me i have no idea why,

    she makes me feel like **** everyday. I don't know why and i never wanted that to happen. It makes me think that maybe im worth hating.😔
    Nobody112 Nobody112
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 17, 2014

    I'm 24 she's almost 22,

    we have a brother who's 25. Early this morning I came home from a night out with a friend, someone who I really appreciate and admire although she's my sister's 19-year-old friend. My sister hates the fact that I am friends with her friend, she has even given said friend an...
    Chris111991 Chris111991
    26-30, F
    Dec 20, 2015
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