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I Think My Sister Hates Me

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    My sister's always been the hater.

    She started cursing before I did and she tells everyone that she hates me! She says she wants to murder me in my sleep...creepy. And she's two years younger than me. The teacher was afraid to teach her because he never saw so much hate in her eyes! I don't really hate my sister...
    SheHatesMe20 SheHatesMe20 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    Oh Well

    I can tell you right now that she still has a lot of growing up to do. The only time she really hates me is when I tell it to her like it is, which is all the time, lol.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 12, 2011

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    My Sister Is A Heroine Addict....and She Hates Me.

    I have battled drug addiction... horrible addictiton I aquired from my brain surgery. Pain pills, dillaudid, you name it. I didn't realize it was an issue until doctors wouldn't prescribe it anymore and I needed it. I went through a living hell getting my *** off these drugs...
    CancerMama22 CancerMama22 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    Super Normal

    FYI, reposting under a different tag-Let me lay out the background to my negative relationship with my sister - Our parents were alcoholics who never really grew up.  They were neglectful, but not so much to get in trouble with Child Protective Services.  We never wore clean...
    turtleposer turtleposer 41-45, F Mar 30, 2012

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    I'm 16 years old and my sister is 17(19 months

    apart) I always talk to her nicely and she will roll her eyes and won't even respond. She always whisper to her friends when telling stories because she knew that I'll be interested in girls talk and when I asked her what's she was saying, she won't respond and I'll asked twice...
    Rosy97 Rosy97 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    My Sister Hates Me!

    Ever since we were in my teens my sister has always disliked me. Now we live together, not for long, it has been over two years. We decided to live together for financial reasons, it is the biggest mistake I ever made. We've had three or four major fights and during those fights...
    simonbirch simonbirch 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    I mean seriously here,

    ever since she reached 9 aprox(2 years ago). Shes been acting strange towards me. She shows more afection towards her friends even male friends than me, she always treats me horrible, no one else just me, I never did anything to her, I taught her to walk and use a computer, I've...
    JoseRawlins JoseRawlins 13-15, M May 23

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    I have a twin sister

    and we used to get along when we were younger but ever since someone in our family tried to commit suicide things have just gone down hill. We both developed depression and we constantly are at each other throats every other day. I don't know if it is because we are literally...
    morgiepaige morgiepaige 16-17 1 Response Feb 28

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    My Sister Would Rather Shake Hands Than Hug

    My sister and I are both in our 30's, I feel as though I have no bond with her. I feel that over the years, I've tried to have a sisterly relationship with her, to be there for her, to listen to her, to offer advice if she asks. I've loaned her money, I've tried to support her...
    nela nela 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong....

    My little sister and I are about 2 years apart. We do absolutely EVERYTHING together, we dress almost exactly the same( thanks to my mom) both always wear our hair curled(also thanks to mom) and like almost the same things. I guess I would call her my best friend. But this whole...
    KidIcarusfangirl KidIcarusfangirl 13-15 Aug 11, 2013

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    I'm Doing All That I Can

    She's a half sister. When I was born, she didn't want me in the house, because she was 13, and assigned the job of the unpaid babysitter(and my mom was very rarely home). She wanted me dead. My mom would force her to drive me to school(daycare) and, sometimes, take me home if I...
    Hrmg Hrmg 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    My Sister Hates Me

    I am 41 , my sister is 45 , she always hated me since i was a teen but now she show it more , when she was in highschool she had a problem with her  spine called scoliosis , she had to wear a machine around her neck all the way down to waist , she stopped wearing this around 18...
    Vrevion Vrevion 41-45 2 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    My sister, let's call her Haylee,

    is always making me feel like ****, she is going to be 33 this year (I will be 21 so it not theven middle child thing) she tells me how I am a horrible mother all the time and how my husband is a ****. Last year when I told her I was pregnant she told me to get an abortion and...
    Allysmommy13 Allysmommy13 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I Think My Sister And Mother Might Be A Narsisists.

    First post, need to vent and feels like I'm all alone in this. My mother and father divorced when I was 7. At first I did not want to go with my mom and insisted staying with my dad while my mom took my sister with her and moved in with the neighbour's husband who she was having...
    sylph3 sylph3 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    I've Done Nothing

    My sis she's Only16 and I'm only 12. She picks on me every day there's no reason for it my mom and my dad doesn't believe me so every day I just go to my room do homework so she doesn't pick on me I always feel like crying but I don't
    Lovebug122 Lovebug122 13-15 Jan 5, 2013

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    My Sister Hates Me

    My sister and I were close until we reached our thirties. We are now in our late forties. Ever since we were kids, I fought her battles, defending her against family members when she divorced, against her ex-husband when I thought he was being unfair. I began noticing a change in...
    Fedupsister Fedupsister 46-50 1 Response Jan 11, 2013

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    I Have Lived, Yet

    I have not come a long way. I feel like I not accomplished one thing in my life. Oh I have kept jobs and raised kids.........but you know, who hasn't. There are people who say they admire me and I wonder if maybe they haven't confused me with someone else. I can not be someone...
    cheysghost cheysghost 56-60, F Aug 17, 2010

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    My Twin

    my sis is always putting me down she seem to hate when i tell her about my problems. what should i do?
    madhattergirl41 madhattergirl41 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2012

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    I Need To Leave

    First - some background information: My sister and I have always been close. My mother died recently and we became even closer; the only people who we could rely on were each other. But her death had lasting negative effects on both of us that began to draw us apart. She began...
    Needtoleave Needtoleave 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    I'm 26 my sister is 17 she acts like she can't

    stand me and I don't understand why. We haven't really grown up together because of the age gap and also because I lived with my mum and my sister lived with my dad during the majority of our childhoods. Despite this we have always maintained a relatively good relationship...
    marcel888 marcel888 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    It All Started When We Were Young

    My sister is a year younger than I but because of our personalities it has been like she was a few years older than I was. So from a very young age I wanted her approval, her admiration, and happiness with me. She was so critical of me though. If it wasn't my physical appearance...
    taytayheyhey taytayheyhey 16-17, F Aug 6, 2012

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    Sister Despises Me

    My younger sister and me had a rocky childhood. Alcoholic father, abuse, etc. About a year ago I began to explore my past with a therapist (I am 38.) My sister has been in much more therapy than me. You would think we would have bonded over our shared past, but it is not the...
    sadrdw sadrdw 36-40 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    I Have Done Nothing Wrong.

    My sister who is the oldest out of 6 kids hates my guts. Shes the oldest girl and Im the youngest girl and there are 4 boys in between. Im not just saying it because we argue and bicker about littler things but I am saying it because she wishes me dead and totally blocked me from...
    souknawilson souknawilson 26-30, F 4 Responses May 25, 2011

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    My Sister Wishes Me Dead

    And I know so, because I have been told so, several times, in the middle of her dellirium, and as she shouts in the middle of the night for all the neighbourhood to listen to "what a terrible person I am" I am 33, and she is 28. Things have never been good over the last 10...
    GreatEnchantress GreatEnchantress 31-35, F Jul 21, 2013

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    I Hate My Life

    The reason why is cause my sister punches me cusses at me and always lies to me she pulls pranks on me everyday I hate her
    Gemisa Gemisa 18-21, F Apr 7, 2013

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    I Don't know why honestly I love her to death,

    when i was little she would always look out for me and i looked up to her and wanted to be like her. (Im 16 right now and shes 21 almost 22) She would always defend me and be really nice to me when i was sad. But I noticed that shes getting meaner and meaner to me and not to my...
    xxSashaxx xxSashaxx 22-25, F Sep 7

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    I Think My Older Sister Hates Me

    You see she is always yelling at me. Sometimes she is nice but in an instant it changes. She hits me and everything. I even have bruises. She calls me a snitch when I tell my mom and it doesn't bother me but what does is that even when I tell my mom nothing changes. My sister...
    Angelathewriter Angelathewriter 13-15, F Jul 30, 2013

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    I Believe My Younger Sister Hates Me

    I am the 2nd sister of four and I believe my younger sister has secretely hated me over the years . I come from a dysfunctional home where we all had to be on our own at an early age , I had to go at 16yrs old . The sister that I thinks hates me had to be out with our younger...
    Gettingittogether Gettingittogether 41-45 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    Family Hatred

    I understand your sisters problem! She envies you because you are attractive and above all you are much younger than her. My sister despises me and I find I am the centre of her childish games.These people never seem to change and I can see you are a caring person from your...
    tartito65 tartito65 56-60, M Jul 6, 2011

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    I know she does.

    Her name is Jessie. I can't even remember the last time we actually spoke. Three months...maybe four, perhaps more. It seems like forever. At first I was just so angry with her I didn't care that she wasn't talking to me. Then after all the anger, I became sad that we weren't...
    pandora102693 pandora102693 18-21, F Jun 3, 2012

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    Younger Sister

    My 4 years younger sister and I didn't grow up together, so we never had a relationship until 6 years ago when I moved closer to her. And even then I just couldn't seem to bond with her. Especially not after she met her boyfriend and now the father of my 2 beautiful...
    composure85 composure85 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2010

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    My Little Sister Secretly Hates Me.

    Okay, so I was under the impression that my sister and I were really close, but over the past few years she's been really hateful and mean! We've done absolutely everything together since before we could walk and have always had the same friends and been interested in the same...
    raegyn raegyn 18-21 2 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    I love my sister, I really do.

    I've done so many things for her. I wasn't the best big sister.. We were so young, I've spent so many years desperately trying to make up for by doing whatever she asks. I helped her with both of my nephews so much. I don't know where I'd even begin to tell anyone... She's...
    krissybyul krissybyul 18-21 6 hrs ago

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    My Older Sister

    I have lived with my sister for 3 years and when i came to live with her i had a drug problem. I have been expelled twice since then once in ms and once in hs i had a lying problem for the longest time, but i have since got over it. But now my sister is very distant to me, she...
    donoortega donoortega 16-17, M Jul 19, 2013

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    She Probably Does

    My sister and I are separated by a period of around 12 years. She is technically my half-sister, but when you're an only child who happens to be lonely, like myself, you may consider a half-sister to be a full-sister. She hadn't spoken to me in 14 years, ever since I was about 6...
    UnhappinessPersonified UnhappinessPersonified 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 3, 2010

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    My Sister Hates Me Help

    when i find new good music she wont listen to it i wanna commit suicide it is so bad and she is always asking how my day was and it is annoying i want to kill her how can i kill her without my parents knowing please help
    tabc0 tabc0 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    She hates me i have no idea why,

    she makes me feel like **** everyday. I don't know why and i never wanted that to happen. It makes me think that maybe im worth hating.😔
    Nobody112 Nobody112 16-17, F 1 Response May 17

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    My Sister Hates Me. I Suppose.

    I'm 20 and my sister is 18. We both still live with my parents. A few months ago, we had a bit of a fight; my boyfriend was over and we wanted to watch a series on DVD that I knew she didn't like. When I heard her come upstairs and go into the bathroom I figured...
    Otharia Otharia 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2010

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    Twin Sister Hates Me And I Can'T Handle It

    I feel the need to vent because I'm so done with walking around her on eggshells It all started when we started dating two best friends around the same time. For the first time, I was intimate with someone. I felt like if I told her she would feel pressure to do it with her...
    JeVu JeVu 18-21, F Nov 17, 2013

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    Since I Was A Baby She Abused Me

    she used to set me up to get into trouble, make do things I didn't want to doshe put sawdust in my eyes and blinded me a whole afternoonshe has thrown mobiles and phones at me and shoes in my facethrown my bag around shopping centresshe got me lost at the exhibition where I was...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    After we had serious conversation in facebook,

    why she treat me like im not her sister, she first closed her fotos, so that i couldnt see them, and then she closed her profile from me, but kept me in friendzone. Wow! I think she is really weird and need a shrink which will make her hate me less. But she cant stop writing my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Jun 2

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    Big Shot Sister Has It All And Hates Me

    1st composition wuddup lol :P But seriously I came here earlier today because I... well... my sister hates me and I was googling it. Sounds pathetic, even to me, but whatever. It is never a pathetic act to do whatever you feel it takes to better your life right? :) My story goes...
    TheKJinfluence TheKJinfluence 26-30 1 Response Jul 9, 2012

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    I've Done Nothing

    My sis she's Only16 and I'm only 12. She picks on me every day there's no reason for it my mom and my dad doesn't believe me so every day I just go to my room do homework so she doesn't pick on me I always feel like crying but I don't/ another thing is that I'm the youngest in...
    Lovebug122 Lovebug122 13-15 1 Response Jan 5, 2013

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    Bullied By My Twin Sister

    Every time were alone, she will use every opportunity to call me mean things, which is the reason of my bad self esteem. She also tends to stalk me, and if anyone tries to talk to me, she will do her best to make them either talk to her instead, say really embarrassing things...
    FatesNegate FatesNegate 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2013

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    I think my 2 older sisters hate me,

    but sometimes they're nice and sometimes they just hate me, sometimes when I talk one of them tells me " Your voice is so annoying I cant even concentrate on what I'm trying to do" and they both agree, the thing that bothers me the most is that the age difference between us is 4...
    fa1234 fa1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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