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I Think My Sister Hates Me

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    Hello. This is gonna be long

    so I thank you in advance for taking the time to read it. Since a child I always had issues with one of my older sisters. From verbal confrontations to full blown fist fights. I thought that as the years went on and we matured and grew that maybe we would eventually get past all...
    Liveandlearn88 Liveandlearn88 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    I Hate My Life

    The reason why is cause my sister punches me cusses at me and always lies to me she pulls pranks on me everyday I hate her
    Gemisa Gemisa 18-21, F Apr 7, 2013

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    My sister's always been the hater.

    She started cursing before I did and she tells everyone that she hates me! She says she wants to murder me in my sleep...creepy. And she's two years younger than me. The teacher was afraid to teach her because he never saw so much hate in her eyes! I don't really hate my sister...
    SheHatesMe20 SheHatesMe20 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2013

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    I Need To Leave

    First - some background information: My sister and I have always been close. My mother died recently and we became even closer; the only people who we could rely on were each other. But her death had lasting negative effects on both of us that began to draw us apart. She began...
    Needtoleave Needtoleave 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    I Believe My Younger Sister Hates Me

    I am the 2nd sister of four and I believe my younger sister has secretely hated me over the years . I come from a dysfunctional home where we all had to be on our own at an early age , I had to go at 16yrs old . The sister that I thinks hates me had to be out with our younger...
    Gettingittogether Gettingittogether 41-45 1 Response Oct 15, 2011

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    I'm Doing All That I Can

    She's a half sister. When I was born, she didn't want me in the house, because she was 13, and assigned the job of the unpaid babysitter(and my mom was very rarely home). She wanted me dead. My mom would force her to drive me to school(daycare) and, sometimes, take me home if I...
    Hrmg Hrmg 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    My younger sister is 38

    and I'm 44. She hates me for as long as I can remember. I was hoping that when we get older we would mature and be very close. Things seems to get worst between us about 10 years ago. She started to feel unhappy with her own self image, hates her job, hates her life, and no...
    sparklyivy5 sparklyivy5 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I think my 2 older sisters hate me,

    but sometimes they're nice and sometimes they just hate me, sometimes when I talk one of them tells me " Your voice is so annoying I cant even concentrate on what I'm trying to do" and they both agree, the thing that bothers me the most is that the age difference between us is 4...
    fa1234 fa1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    It All Started When We Were Young

    My sister is a year younger than I but because of our personalities it has been like she was a few years older than I was. So from a very young age I wanted her approval, her admiration, and happiness with me. She was so critical of me though. If it wasn't my physical appearance...
    taytayheyhey taytayheyhey 16-17, F Aug 6, 2012

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    Bullied By My Twin Sister

    Every time were alone, she will use every opportunity to call me mean things, which is the reason of my bad self esteem. She also tends to stalk me, and if anyone tries to talk to me, she will do her best to make them either talk to her instead, say really embarrassing things...
    FatesNegate FatesNegate 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2013

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    My Older Sister

    I have lived with my sister for 3 years and when i came to live with her i had a drug problem. I have been expelled twice since then once in ms and once in hs i had a lying problem for the longest time, but i have since got over it. But now my sister is very distant to me, she...
    donoortega donoortega 18-21, M Jul 19, 2013

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    I know she does.

    Her name is Jessie. I can't even remember the last time we actually spoke. Three months...maybe four, perhaps more. It seems like forever. At first I was just so angry with her I didn't care that she wasn't talking to me. Then after all the anger, I became sad that we weren't...
    pandora102693 pandora102693 18-21, F Jun 3, 2012

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    My sister, let's call her Haylee,

    is always making me feel like ****, she is going to be 33 this year (I will be 21 so it not theven middle child thing) she tells me how I am a horrible mother all the time and how my husband is a ****. Last year when I told her I was pregnant she told me to get an abortion and...
    Allysmommy13 Allysmommy13 18-21, F 1 Response May 13, 2014

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    My Sister Would Rather Shake Hands Than Hug

    My sister and I are both in our 30's, I feel as though I have no bond with her. I feel that over the years, I've tried to have a sisterly relationship with her, to be there for her, to listen to her, to offer advice if she asks. I've loaned her money, I've tried to support her...
    nela nela 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    She Probably Does

    My sister and I are separated by a period of around 12 years. She is technically my half-sister, but when you're an only child who happens to be lonely, like myself, you may consider a half-sister to be a full-sister. She hadn't spoken to me in 14 years, ever since I was about 6...
    UnhappinessPersonified UnhappinessPersonified 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 3, 2010

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    Everything I Do Is Wrong....

    My little sister and I are about 2 years apart. We do absolutely EVERYTHING together, we dress almost exactly the same( thanks to my mom) both always wear our hair curled(also thanks to mom) and like almost the same things. I guess I would call her my best friend. But this whole...
    KidIcarusfangirl KidIcarusfangirl 13-15 Aug 11, 2013

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    my sister is 38 and I'm 44.

    She hates me. She tells people what a horrible person I am. I've done so much for her. But she only focus on something she couldn't have. She asked me if she could have a baby shower at my home. I explained to her that I was not comfortable with the idea of having people over...
    sparklyivy5 sparklyivy5 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I Think My Sister And Mother Might Be A Narsisists.

    First post, need to vent and feels like I'm all alone in this. My mother and father divorced when I was 7. At first I did not want to go with my mom and insisted staying with my dad while my mom took my sister with her and moved in with the neighbour's husband who she was having...
    sylph3 sylph3 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    I've Done Nothing

    My sis she's Only16 and I'm only 12. She picks on me every day there's no reason for it my mom and my dad doesn't believe me so every day I just go to my room do homework so she doesn't pick on me I always feel like crying but I don't
    Lovebug122 Lovebug122 13-15 1 Response Jan 5, 2013

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    She hates me i have no idea why,

    she makes me feel like **** everyday. I don't know why and i never wanted that to happen. It makes me think that maybe im worth hating.😔
    Nobody112 Nobody112 16-17, F 1 Response May 17, 2014

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    My Sister Hates Me!

    Ever since we were in my teens my sister has always disliked me. Now we live together, not for long, it has been over two years. We decided to live together for financial reasons, it is the biggest mistake I ever made. We've had three or four major fights and during those fights...
    simonbirch simonbirch 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2013

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    I have a twin sister

    and we used to get along when we were younger but ever since someone in our family tried to commit suicide things have just gone down hill. We both developed depression and we constantly are at each other throats every other day. I don't know if it is because we are literally...
    morgiepaige morgiepaige 16-17 1 Response Feb 28, 2014

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    I Think My Older Sister Hates Me

    You see she is always yelling at me. Sometimes she is nice but in an instant it changes. She hits me and everything. I even have bruises. She calls me a snitch when I tell my mom and it doesn't bother me but what does is that even when I tell my mom nothing changes. My sister...
    Angelathewriter Angelathewriter 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2013

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    i dont even know where to begin with this one.

    shes five years older then me. we have gone through points in our relationship where we get along and then we dont, at all. we took very different paths in life. i had a family, she chose not to. she didnt go to school, i did. she wont work, i did. shes always been in love with...
    LiveloveJ LiveloveJ 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    I mean seriously here,

    ever since she reached 9 aprox(2 years ago). Shes been acting strange towards me. She shows more afection towards her friends even male friends than me, she always treats me horrible, no one else just me, I never did anything to her, I taught her to walk and use a computer, I've...
    JoseRawlins JoseRawlins 13-15, M 1 Response May 23, 2014

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    Oh Well

    I can tell you right now that she still has a lot of growing up to do. The only time she really hates me is when I tell it to her like it is, which is all the time, lol.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 12, 2011

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    My Sister Wishes Me Dead

    And I know so, because I have been told so, several times, in the middle of her dellirium, and as she shouts in the middle of the night for all the neighbourhood to listen to "what a terrible person I am" I am 33, and she is 28. Things have never been good over the last 10...
    GreatEnchantress GreatEnchantress 31-35, F Jul 21, 2013

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    My Sister Hates Me Help

    when i find new good music she wont listen to it i wanna commit suicide it is so bad and she is always asking how my day was and it is annoying i want to kill her how can i kill her without my parents knowing please help
    tabc0 tabc0 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    Since I Was A Baby She Abused Me

    she used to set me up to get into trouble, make do things I didn't want to doshe put sawdust in my eyes and blinded me a whole afternoonshe has thrown mobiles and phones at me and shoes in my facethrown my bag around shopping centresshe got me lost at the exhibition where I was...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    Super Normal

    FYI, reposting under a different tag-Let me lay out the background to my negative relationship with my sister - Our parents were alcoholics who never really grew up.  They were neglectful, but not so much to get in trouble with Child Protective Services.  We never wore clean...
    turtleposer turtleposer 41-45, F Mar 30, 2012

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    My Sister Is A Heroine Addict....and She Hates Me.

    I have battled drug addiction... horrible addictiton I aquired from my brain surgery. Pain pills, dillaudid, you name it. I didn't realize it was an issue until doctors wouldn't prescribe it anymore and I needed it. I went through a living hell getting my *** off these drugs...
    CancerMama22 CancerMama22 26-30, F 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    I love my sister, I really do.

    I've done so many things for her. I wasn't the best big sister.. We were so young, I've spent so many years desperately trying to make up for by doing whatever she asks. I helped her with both of my nephews so much. I don't know where I'd even begin to tell anyone... She's...
    krissybyul krissybyul 18-21 1 Response Sep 18, 2014

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    I'm 26 my sister is 17 she acts like she can't

    stand me and I don't understand why. We haven't really grown up together because of the age gap and also because I lived with my mum and my sister lived with my dad during the majority of our childhoods. Despite this we have always maintained a relatively good relationship...
    marcel888 marcel888 26-30, F Apr 7, 2014

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    I Have Lived, Yet

    I have not come a long way. I feel like I not accomplished one thing in my life. Oh I have kept jobs and raised kids.........but you know, who hasn't. There are people who say they admire me and I wonder if maybe they haven't confused me with someone else. I can not be someone...
    cheysghost cheysghost 56-60, F Aug 17, 2010

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    My Sister Hates Me. I Suppose.

    I'm 20 and my sister is 18. We both still live with my parents. A few months ago, we had a bit of a fight; my boyfriend was over and we wanted to watch a series on DVD that I knew she didn't like. When I heard her come upstairs and go into the bathroom I figured...
    Otharia Otharia 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2010

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    I'm 16 years old and my sister is 17(19 months

    apart) I always talk to her nicely and she will roll her eyes and won't even respond. She always whisper to her friends when telling stories because she knew that I'll be interested in girls talk and when I asked her what's she was saying, she won't respond and I'll asked twice...
    Rosy97 Rosy97 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    I Have Done Nothing Wrong.

    My sister who is the oldest out of 6 kids hates my guts. Shes the oldest girl and Im the youngest girl and there are 4 boys in between. Im not just saying it because we argue and bicker about littler things but I am saying it because she wishes me dead and totally blocked me from...
    souknawilson souknawilson 26-30, F 4 Responses May 25, 2011

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    I'm 13, she's 19. she just got back from college

    and she is pissed off at me bc she thinks I took her leggings, which I didn't. anyway, she sed she's not going to talk to me for the rest of the time she's here but she's talking to my brother and my other sister, she's just not talking to me. idk what to do...
    lineywhite lineywhite 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    My Sister Hates Me

    I am 41 , my sister is 45 , she always hated me since i was a teen but now she show it more , when she was in highschool she had a problem with her  spine called scoliosis , she had to wear a machine around her neck all the way down to waist , she stopped wearing this around 18...
    Vrevion Vrevion 41-45 3 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    I have an older twin sisters

    that I love so much I really do I try to follow their steps because I think what they are doing is the best. They are 4 years older than me and they have a totally different personalities and characters and I used to be close to both of them then "F"'s personality started to...
    rawdaA rawdaA 18-21, F Jan 5

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    Younger Sister

    My 4 years younger sister and I didn't grow up together, so we never had a relationship until 6 years ago when I moved closer to her. And even then I just couldn't seem to bond with her. Especially not after she met her boyfriend and now the father of my 2 beautiful...
    composure85 composure85 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2010

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    I've Done Nothing

    My sis she's Only16 and I'm only 12. She picks on me every day there's no reason for it my mom and my dad doesn't believe me so every day I just go to my room do homework so she doesn't pick on me I always feel like crying but I don't/ another thing is that I'm the youngest in...
    Lovebug122 Lovebug122 13-15 Jan 5, 2013

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    I Don't know why honestly I love her to death,

    when i was little she would always look out for me and i looked up to her and wanted to be like her. (Im 16 right now and shes 21 almost 22) She would always defend me and be really nice to me when i was sad. But I noticed that shes getting meaner and meaner to me and not to my...
    xxSashaxx xxSashaxx 22-25, F Sep 7, 2014

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    Mom and I were running errands yesterday

    and had lunch with a couple of her friends. My sister was at school and when she came home she found my leftovers in the fridge. After asking Mom where we went she threw the container on the floor. All while giving us the "I hate you, b¡tch" smile. I'm sick of people giving...
    PearlRose PearlRose 18-21 2 Responses Jan 17

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    My Little Sister Secretly Hates Me.

    Okay, so I was under the impression that my sister and I were really close, but over the past few years she's been really hateful and mean! We've done absolutely everything together since before we could walk and have always had the same friends and been interested in the same...
    raegyn raegyn 18-21 2 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    Sister Despises Me

    My younger sister and me had a rocky childhood. Alcoholic father, abuse, etc. About a year ago I began to explore my past with a therapist (I am 38.) My sister has been in much more therapy than me. You would think we would have bonded over our shared past, but it is not the...
    sadrdw sadrdw 36-40 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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