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I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me

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    Update May 21

    alot of things have happend since my last update.  things i find hard to accept or understand and well i dont know.   and yes i found out all my suspicions were true my wife was(is?) cheating on me. i spent a lot of time tailing her car and him and though i found out...
    gperez gperez 41-45 6 Responses May 21, 2010

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    If You Think She Is Cheating She Is Cheating!

    My first wife I let stuff I saw slide because I loved her and flirting and goofing off I could deal with, but after are child was born she had an IUD inserted and the fear of getting pregnant wasnt there anymore. Then she got a new job 4 months after having baby and at 21 you...
    1stexhub 1stexhub 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 5, 2012

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    Reason To Believe..

    let me start off by saying we've been married about 5 years, a couple years ago we wasn't getting along well. She confessed later that during that time she had made out with a guy that came to her work, she says thats all that happened. after that we made a deal that we could...
    goodtimes00 goodtimes00 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 21, 2011

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    Found A Secret Email Account Of My Wife's

    I found a secret email account of my wife's expressing her lust for our son's soccer coach named John. I suspected she had a crush on this guy, she lied and said she didn't. I just confronted her with this email. Here are some excerpts from the email... "I've been seeing John...
    edward1961 edward1961 46-50, M 12 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    Cheating Wife

    So a month or so ago, I found out that my wife was cheating on me. She had sex wth the same guy twice. When I confronted her about it she aid she would stop. A month or so went by and I did not see anything, then all of a sudden I saw something on her phone where she was back...
    sexytasha sexytasha 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    Puppet

    My wife (MZ)cheated on me (CZ) and may continue to be lying to me. Really started when we got married years before. She is a teacher and I asked before getting married that she get a job or volunteer each summer so as to keep pressure off our relationship. A bored no children...
    Bachwite Bachwite 46-50, M Aug 30, 2013

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    Another Place To Look

    Try looking in the trunk of her car under the floor where the spare tire is. My wife has a bag full of lingerie there. never seen any of these items before and clearly most of them have been worn and well used. the bag also has perfume, hair brush and a toothbrush.
    mostnormly mostnormly 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    My Wife Is Cheating

    One night I was chatting with my wife when I told her I do not mind if she has an affair with othor men. I shocked when she told me she did. She told me she did it many times. Then she started every time telling me a story of having sex with othor men. I realy get exited when...
    abubadermahzabi abubadermahzabi 46-50 3 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    Watching The Cheater

    this morning I pretended to be asleep as she dressed in tan stockings sheer matching garter and panties lacy push up bra, a short skirt and a new pair of 5 inch strappy pumps.
    mostnormly mostnormly 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Secret E-mails and Phone Calls...

    Married my highschool sweetie 25 years ago seperated 12 months five years ago because of her involvement with a neighbour now suspect something is up due to whispering phonecalls, secret e-mails on blackberry, being mean to me for weeks, so i sleep in the basement. think...
    lonelyintoronto lonelyintoronto 41-45 8 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    She Needs To Be Taught A Lesson

    I have shared my wife many times. We have done it all over the years. MFMF, MFM, MFMM, MMFMM, MMMFMM, MMMFMMM, MMMMFMMM, MMMMFMMMM, MMMMMFMMMM, MMMMMFMMMMM-you get the picture. When I figured out that she was meeting men on the side, I was crazy jealous, and rather turned on t...
    hairydad914 hairydad914 46-50, M Aug 5, 2012

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    Married 3 Months

    First, I'm 27 and my wife is 23 and we have a 2.5 year old son.I've been married for 3 months now and just recently an old friend of hers came back into her life. I was supportive of this because she's never had many friends, but quickly spoiled on it when she wanted to take a...
    sadincbus sadincbus 26-30, M 8 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    Seeing Signs

    I am beginning to see signs of my GF cheating on me.  I have been through this once before with my Ex-Wife and I am beginning to see similar patterns.  For example, over the weekend, it did not matter how romanic I set up dinner or the date, when we got back to the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    I Think My Wife Is Screwing Her Boss

    I have a sneaking suspicion that my wife is/has screwed her boss. She works from home 4 days a week and only goes into the office 1 day a week. Today she said she was gonna leave work around 3pm so we could do something for valentines day, then calls to tell me it will be closer...
    1 Response Feb 14, 2013

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    I Am Sure My Wife Is With Another Guy

    Three years ago my wife, who is in her late forties, had an affair while holidaying with a friend, which I have written about on another board. And now I'm pretty sure she's getting ****** by another guy (or guys). Recently she has been very secretive about things, leaving the...
    slave2u62 slave2u62 46-50, M 10 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    It Isn't The First Time But Her Time Is About Up.

    My wife hit the midlife crisis stage very hard. She went to a motorcycle rally with one of her trampy friends and came back with a tattoo that some guy paid for. Then she went through the stage of going out to low life bars and coming home drunk at 3 or 4:00 a.m. every weekend...
    tomt88101 tomt88101 56-60, M 13 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    Is She Telling the Truth?

    I confronted my wife and asked her if she was cheating on me.  I asked her this because of things that I found.  She said that she is not, but the reason I found these things (more on that later if anyone cares) is because she wanted me to find them.  Why...
    blindsided55 blindsided55 22-25 11 Responses Mar 11, 2009

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    bcsegproducer bcsegproducer 31-35 May 15, 2012

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    Mine's A Cheat And A Liar.

    I'm torn between what groups to join.  To say I know my wife is cheating or to say I think my wife is cheating puts me right on the line. Over the years there have been many signs of her ******* other guys.  She doesn't want to admit to any of them and is a real good liar.  If...
    fmw1978 fmw1978 56-60, M 6 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    Wife Midlife Crisis, Cheating?

    I was looking for a flash drive to download some paperwork from work, so I looked all over the house.  I opened my wife's night stand drawer and moved stuff around.  Almost gave up but when I tried to close the drawer something was stuck under it.  I looked and sure, there was...
    rodman60 rodman60 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    Brotherly Love

    My younger brother was recently divorced by his 4th wife, the same reason as the other 3, his insatiable sexual appetite. Apparently he cannot get enough of sex and can continue for hours. Two weeks ago, he was giving a speech at a conference in another city, his date...
    Hawkeye2703 Hawkeye2703 36-40, M 6 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    Differernt Views

    Most of husbands are very disappointed if they get cheated by wife I guess. But there are husbands that like that they are cheated. For them it is hot. How do you think about this?
    alfons16a alfons16a 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Signs She Is Cheating

    figured out she was cheating several weeks ago. I confronted and she was able to shoot it down easily but eventually I have figured out the truth and rather then confront I am watching closely for now. here are some of the interesting facts i have gathered so far. 1) she showers...
    mostnormly mostnormly 41-45, M 9 Responses Jun 24, 2011

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    Quite A Surprise

    its been almost a week now since i found a couple of pics on my wife's computer of her hugging this young guy that works at a fast food place we go to. she do sent know i found them,and it was by accident that i did. her computer was running slow so she asked me to see if i...
    gperez gperez 41-45 6 Responses Dec 10, 2009

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    My Wife Lives Like A Single Woman

    My wife is 41, blode, big ****, tan, has a couple of tattos, and dresses like a hot wife. Always showing off her big ****, wearing short skirts, high heels, keeping her nails and toes painted. I'm losing track of the number of guys she has fooled around with. There was one...
    JackBull281 JackBull281 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    Well, i know she has

    after recovering some old camera memory cards and her phones. But such a huge turn on to discover her secrets :)
    dirtydavina dirtydavina 36-40, M Dec 9, 2013

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    Stolen Moments

    Those minutes plague him.  As we chat, he keeps circling back to them.  Clearly, it is a matter of great significance to him that she cannot explain her whereabouts or actions during that time.  He's convinced that she's guilty of wrongdoing.  And, honestly, I think he is...
    milkynips milkynips 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    I don't know if it is just me being paranoid

    because of past relationships or what, but here it is. My wife and I haven't been married that long. The weekend we got married was amazing, but the last morning I got up a little bit earlier than normal and she was already up texting someone. I said good morning and she quickly...
    OneThing27 OneThing27 26-30, M Feb 23

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    Tell Tale Signs.

    After more than 25 years of marriage , my wife still gets excited about being with another man. She works from home so she can come and go as she pleases and I know when she has had a visitor when I get back, at lunch time. Some things are out of place when I get home. For...
    FlirtVoyeur FlirtVoyeur 46-50 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    What Happen To Her??? I Need Help*

    I was an illegal immigrant in the united states but I was practically raised there my parents took me there when I was 9 years old. Now I'm 21. I got married last year with my girlfriend that I was going out since high school. We have been together for 4 years, I felt in love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 12, 2011

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    Its Happen In My Life And My Wife Is Still Cheating

    Situation-1: At evening after picking her from womens parlour as usual husband requested for intimacy as its been over a month no contact!! Wife as usual given dubt that in the morning she has too much work load as she has to go Tongi for official tour & she quit!! Situation-2...
    sunjib sunjib 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    Cheated On And Glad

    Went for vacation to her country, where old "friend" of her joyned her (was very deffensive about it, even though I never objected!) He is not on any photos, although it was camera with timeing. After reterning she demanded I shave my bits and insisted on trying different...
    Drzewowit Drzewowit 36-40, M Jun 5, 2012

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    Don't Know What To Do/how To Feel/etc

    On myy firefox browser, my home key is set to hotmail - where my wife left hersself logged on.  lo and behold I see she has lots of mail from 'plentyoffish' some sort of free online dating platform.  So far I haven't said/done anything about it because we're  a...
    notalostcause notalostcause 36-40, M 6 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Is She Cheating?

    Last week, I found a black pubic hair in my blond wife's panties. Ladies, tell the truth. Is there any way she could have gotten it without having sex with someone besides me?
    19rodney 19rodney 56-60, M Feb 13, 2013

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    Is She Going To?

    To start from the beginning. About 6/7 years ago my beautiful wife used to enjoy the camera so i used that to get her to pose on my ebay account. Used to buy stuff just to get her to pose on there. We built up a large fanbase which used to comment and request stuff. After time...
    Dinky63 Dinky63 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    Not Even a Year...

    Hi Group, We were married in September 2007 and I thought things were great. We were having some problems during the engagement but nothing serious. I chalked it up to the stress of planning, some family issues my wife was having and her expressing a lack of fulfillment at work...
    theonegoat theonegoat 26-30 7 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    To My Wife - My Dark Secret

    This is an open letter to my wife of 17 years. I caught her cheating on me 4 years ago with a client she met at work. I discovered the affair within the first month. I thought I was soon enough and I thought she would care enough about me and the marriage to end the affair...
    bobj27 bobj27 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 16, 2013

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    I Want To Have Threesum Can Some One Help Me

    i want have three sum i am male 45 with girlfriend 35 we want to have threesum exp with another women , we live in india , bangalore
    luckysreenu luckysreenu 41-45, M Nov 22, 2012

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    Do I Need More Proof?

    Hi, We have been married 4 years but since last year I have seen some changes in my wife. She works as property manager/real estate agent and often needs to meet clients late at night to show properties/discuss with clients/client meetings dinners. At first she would come home...
    FrankGunn FrankGunn 31-35, M 7 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    My Wife Is Cheating On Me

    Hi All,I recently observed some changes in my wife's behaviour like Coming late from work, one/two line answers over phone, talking about one particular friend who she told me is like her brother.than suddenly stopped mentioning his name.I travel a lot..I have always asked...
    johnpeter78 johnpeter78 31-35, M 13 Responses Jan 11, 2010

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    Serious Suspicions

    I've been married for almost 6 years and have reason to suspect my wife of cheating.  Things have been tough; not so much between us but with our schedules.  I work days, she works nights and have kids to look after without family around.  When we did get out we...
    jarv jarv 36-40, M 10 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    What To Do

    Well, it took me a while to admit this and come to terms with it...I love the fantasy of my wife getting ****** by another man. Whoo...that's a load off. I found out within the first 3 months of dating that she cheated on me with her ex. I was devastated. It took a couple weeks...
    bobdole69 bobdole69 22-25, M Nov 24, 2012

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    My marriage is struggling and for the first time, I am thinking about cheating on my Wife. It's not really as if I have anyone in mind though I do have some options... I just feel...
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    So I have a boyfriend and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not...
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    This is new ... My husband took off of work last night and snuck in the house thinking I had someone here ... Really ??? Talk about paranoid ... just cause he has a guilty concious...
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    I have always been careful when it came to men and dating, but finding out I was HIV made me realize that I didn't have to have a lot of sexual partners to contract the disease. I...
    keyaya keyaya 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm the girlfriend of your husband ,,, See,, you out cheating on your husband with the MM ,,, think about in bed with your husband,,,then you tell everybody ,, you live in a...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    So a couple days ago I went on my first vacation with a man ever, my boyfriend of over 1 year. 1 Year 3 months to be exact. The second day of vacation I received a friend request...
    awkward11 awkward11 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    My husband and I are like oil and vinegar. He is very disrespectful. He accuses me of cheating and not just cheating but cheating with his friends his family women and strangers...
    missunderstood84 missunderstood84 26-30, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F Apr 10

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    I have been married for four years now and I have always been a faithful wife and mom. I have no intention of every cheating on my husband. He takes care of me in every respect...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My boyfriend is very controlling. He doesn't allow me to wear certain thing or hang around with certain people. If I don't do as he say he get mad or just yell. When I ask him why...
    tattoofreak101 tattoofreak101 18-21, F Mar 30

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    Ok. So I'm worried that my fiancé might cheat on me again. We are in the military. He was on duty and I was at home. I started thinking about a lot of things. I always think when...
    Jaazaniah Jaazaniah 26-30, F Apr 8

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    it's been 3 year i am with my fiancer! couple of months ago i got this guy who was one of is good friend write me on fb saying that my fiancer is cheating on me! at work since he...
    alexee10 alexee10 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23