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I Think My Wife Is Lesbian Or Bisexual

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 35 People

    Bev And Her Latest Love

    My wife Bev has had affairs with other women - I know , and she knows I know, but it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I offer her security, protection and a good home. I saved her from her (very) troubled past and is always telling me how lucky she is. However, she does have...
    zak949 zak949
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jul 1, 2013

    Not A Bad Thing

    This is not a negative thing, I actually don't mind the idea. I live in China, and sexuality is a strange thing here sometimes. Woman are often very affectionate with each other, for example it is not uncommon to see woman holding hands or walking arm in arm and I don't think...
    BananaMeltdown BananaMeltdown
    31-35, M
    Nov 18, 2011

    So Confused And Tired Of This Feeling...

    Growing and feeding on my perception of her significant lack of self insight in general ... I have started seeing a therapist... Needed someone to talk to about this. It is too significant to be ignored, too camouflaged to keep confronting her... Who can blame her for...
    Philias Philias
    36-40, M
    Jun 11, 2012


    I was talking to my wife the other night about our fantasies and I don't know whether it was because she was drinking or what but all of a sudden she says she wouldn't mind "being" with a woman once just to see what it is like. Wow I never would of thought she would want that. I...
    uuseher2 uuseher2
    46-50, M
    Nov 4, 2012

    I Love My Wife

    We have been together for almost 15 years, married for 5 years. We have in my opinion a good life and marriage, also the intimate part. Even in the middle of the years with our small children (they're great btw :) ). The thing is, I suddenly got this thing on my mind and now...
    Philias Philias
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Feb 16, 2010

    My Wife's Story 2

    So…after trying out having sex with another guy and my husband, I was overly excited to try OTHER new things for us. My hubby and I had talked about girls before and I was totally against the entire idea and never had thought about being with another girl in my entire life, but...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 4, 2012

    Expensive Taxi

    I was just relaxing in front of the TV drinking a beer when my wife Bev comes in, in a bit of a state, asking me if she could borrow forty pounds. 'What for?' I said. 'Wendy's pissed herself in the taxi and the driver's demanding an excess charge.' Now, as I wrote in a previous...
    zak949 zak949
    51-55, M
    Jul 28, 2013

    Something About Her...

    I have never told anyone close or friend I have these thoughts. Now, a friend of mine, into clairvoyance, and I think she is good on this, told me something.. She tried way back to tell me, but offered little proof... Later I know how she has been right on many other things...
    Philias Philias
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2013

    My Wife Is A Lesbian...or Something...she'll Get Back To Me With The Results I Guess.

    I've searched this place backwards and forwards and nobody has the husband's point of view.  Its almost like we are non existent.  Well I will explain my situation. Last week my wife suddenly wanted a divorce.  Something she's been thinking about for a long...
    thatblack1 thatblack1
    6 Responses Mar 30, 2010

    Figuring It Out Over The Long Term

    We were both in our early 20s when we married. Both of us were kind of introverted, both were raised in strict evangelical households. We met at a Bible school. But we were both a little too capable of learning from observation to stay in that dogma. Over the course of time we...
    7thmaster 7thmaster
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2013

    Is My Wife Bi

    Ok, so I am cleaning the bedroom (we trade off) and I find a bunch of girl on girl ****. They arent mine and its just the 2 of us. I see her looking at women the way I do when she is not around. She spends a lot of her free time with a lesbian couple. She says they were out where...
    hikingj hikingj
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 6, 2013
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