I Think Nice Girls Finish Last

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    Proud Runner Up

    It is like that sometimes ... it seems that the people who are pushy and arguably unpleasant seem to get all the prizes.  But you know what?  I don't care ... I would rather have a clear conscience than change my personality and the way I deal with people in order to...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Sep 12, 2010

    Totally Agree

    Yes I think being nice and good, always abiding to the rules sucks. In the end, those that flout all rules are the ones that win at the end. FIRST.
    Feb 10, 2013

    Men always complain about nice guys losing out

    to a$$holes, well..nice women lose out to b*tches just as much. I think with both sexes we suffer from "superhero complex", where we think we can swoop in and save those that are broken and beyond repair. I think thats where my own broken heart lies and I am apart of the circle...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2014

    I don't think so. They don't always find the

    right guy. I believe most nice guys finish last. :( Around here, nice girls are pretty much impossible to find. It's a shame. There are a lot of nice guys, guys like me who can't find anyone. Living in the city doesn't help much. Country folk are usually much nicer. There are...
    4EverBlissful 4EverBlissful
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 1, 2014

    I Can Play That Game Too.

    That's true, the more demanding women may be hated; yet, they always get what they want when they want it. I'm no longer always nice. I must have my needs met and if I have to be a ***** to get it, so be it. I learned this for the last time from my second to last boss. She was...
    4vrUnique 4vrUnique
    8 Responses May 31, 2010

    Lately i realised i've been too nice to my

    friends. As a result, i'm being treated as a doormat. I always try my best to help my friends out and give them anything they need. Most of the time i even prioritize their needs more than my own.  I used to feel good when i'm capable of givi them anything they needed. I felt...
    Itscookiemonster Itscookiemonster
    18-21, F
    May 24, 2014

    I Know I Do, And Why

    In terms of relationships, it isn't a complaint. I guess for me it's frustration coming from the fact that being nice communicates the wrong things to some guys. I would for instance go to a symposium or meetings and mingle with people. I'd strike up a conversation with some guy...
    melly8 melly8
    1 Response Oct 17, 2011


    I used to think this wholeheartedly until just recently. It is constantly in the back of my mind however; and I wonder if I will always be at the top with him.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2011
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