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I Think Nice Guys Finish Last

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    It's The Same For Girls - Most of the time a guy will go for the girl who entertains them. If a girl is a sweet, genuine person, a lot of times, she will be overlooked. It's the...
    ng2289 ng2289 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    You Do For A Reason. - So I'm sure by now that you know you do. You have a big heart and you give it away only for it be crushed. You have a wonderful idea only to have someone...
    Cheygirl1889 Cheygirl1889 18-21, F May 21, 2012

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    Why is it when I tell some guys no its like they don't hear it? Like really your only prolonging being denied. I say it nicely but when you keep pushing is when we have an issue
    maggielue maggielue 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Best Piece of Advice I Ever Received - I am probably the most forgiving person you'll ever meet.  However...and I do mean however I will share something with you that an...
    TshirtNblujeans TshirtNblujeans 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    An Article, By Anonymous (Replicated Across A Number Of Websites - Source Unknown) - Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 7, 2010

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    This Made Me Laugh So Hard! - I love Asian peeps. Gosh, they're adorable.  Ryan Higa and Kev Jumba are effing cute...   And the ending proves that NICE guys DO NOT finish last...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 22, 2011

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    Sometimes I hate being the nice guy but it has it's perks sometimes.
    Novemberman Novemberman 18-21, M Mar 8

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    Why Nice Guys Finish Last - Advice For Men From A Man - Taken directly from AskMen.Com: ____________________________   This week's Q&A looks at why nice guys finish last...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 10, 2010

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    But Not Always Cos They Are Nice!! - im writing this story with the headling "but not always cos they are nice!!" is cos it can be for many reasons!!! now i know from my own...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 4, 2011

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    But I Also Think Nice Women Finish Last Too - What is it about humanity? Make people doubt your love for them and you destroy their self-esteem. But be too ready with love for...
    EternallyHopeful EternallyHopeful 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    I've Heard It! :p - Okay, there was this one girl back in like, what, 8th grade that I liked. I was in a couple classes with her, and we talked a good deal for just classmates...
    Strikerfreeze Strikerfreeze 18-21, M 6 Responses May 2, 2011

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    Can't Be Bothered... - Trying to bust this myth to all those guys who claim no girl wants you because you're too "nice"...so I'll let these guys do it fo you: http://youtu.be/5rZu...
    blehtolife blehtolife 18-21, F Aug 8, 2013

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    Be Assertive - I gave a nice guy a chance with me once. That was when i realized that that wan't my type at all.there needs to be at least a hint of douchiness or else the whole...
    MyEyesGlitter MyEyesGlitter 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 21, 2012

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    Nice Guys Certainly Do Finish Last - Here's Why -
    OneOfTheBruthas OneOfTheBruthas 26-30, M 8 Responses Aug 14, 2011

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    Prove Me Wrong - I would like to think I'm a nice guy and I always feel like I'm finishing last. Everyone is in a relationship besides me, even when the boyfriends treats the...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    Nice Guys - I don't think nice guys finish last, but i joined this group cause i wanted to share that i heard the song "Nice guys" from nigahiga's youtube page and the song and the...
    stephii31 stephii31 18-21, F Feb 15, 2012

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    Try And Change Me. I Dare You. I Double Dare You. - I read some stories in this group, how some people gave up being nice, how some believe that being a nice guy is a bad thing. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 14, 2012

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    Becoming - There is no reward, no payoff, for trying to lead a good life. Rather, it is a debt to pay, for the privilege of being alive.
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M Oct 11, 2011

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    The Death Of A Nice Guy - When I was growing up I remember many girls/women telling me that "it's what's on the inside that counts"... A fantastic lie, I fell for it for many...
    Guyfire Guyfire 26-30, M 3 Responses May 1, 2011

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    I'm not going to lie, there were times when I've treated the nice guy like crap. 😂 I'm not proud of it, but it has happen. I'd never do it now, though! 😏
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Nice Guys - Just Be Yourself! - Being a nice girl, I was always jumping from relationship to relationship, fast and extreme. The simple thing I searched for was a guy who would...
    Belinda Belinda 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2012

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    I Am A Nice Guy - I am a nice guy and it seems like every girl i meet just wants to be friends.  I do not like how I get put in the friend zone so quickly.  My best friend, now...
    Hank1992 Hank1992 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 1, 2012

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    I'm Definitely Too Nice... - Well, my story is simple.. ever since I hit the dating scene in 2006 I've been way too nice/clingy.  early on the relationships failed miserably...
    classof2007 classof2007 18-21 9 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    I Watched It Happen... - I guess there are two sides of the story. There are the "nice guys" who are so singularly focused on one girl that they expect that putting the same effort...
    melly8 melly8 26-30 Oct 17, 2011

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    Women Want The Right Nice Guy - Has anyone else noticed that most women vehemently disagree with the claim that nice guys finish last? Furthermore, a hefty chunk of men disagree...
    CaliforniaViolet CaliforniaViolet 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    What Do Women Want...? Advice From A Woman - Vid 1 -  
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    It's True! - My boyfriend is one of the nice guys.  I'm the first girl he's had sex with and a serious relationship with.  It's so true about the nice guys finishing last...
    NikilovesMarcel NikilovesMarcel 70+ 1 Response Feb 4, 2008

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    People Aren't Fair To Nice Guys - One person ordered some cards off of me. I let her wait till order come to pay for them. When they came she said I need more cards like a...
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Oct 18, 2013

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    Not a Pushover - Just to start let me just say that I may be nice but by no means am I a pushover. My entire life I have been the nice guy. I have tried to change...
    lookin4sumthing lookin4sumthing 26-30, M 8 Responses Feb 17, 2009

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    Why Nice Guys Finish Last - Advice For Men From A Woman - Taken From Answers.Com: ______________________  Answer We love nice guys! The problem is that many men think they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Sep 10, 2010

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    Still Waiting. . . - It's not all the time, but it happens alot. The players, cheaters, deceivers etc. trick the girls into falling for them. Then they get broken. Most times, they...
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Its true even though I'm a girl I can't stand nice guys they creep me out you never know when there going to flip I think of them as a cereal killer but its one thing being. Nice...
    123unhappyrefrian 123unhappyrefrian 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Taking A Stand - I really don't know if this is the right way to do it but I'm tired of being the way I was, I've come to the conclusion that a lot of nice genuine good guys are...
    surfking67 surfking67 22-25 Mar 31, 2012

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    Why - I do believe that nice guys finish last. Why is it that when your nice to most women they use you. They feel the need to tell you about the other guy or something. It seems...
    Percheron Percheron 41-45, M 30 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    So Sick Of This Myth. - the problem is, most of the guys who claim to be "nice guys" are the ones who are desperate - they latch onto a girl, & then kiss her ***. & most of the...
    blehtolife blehtolife 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Our Society - Our Society these days.. lol
    livingfortoday livingfortoday 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    Nice Guys Finish 1st, It's Just A Really Long Race. - Nice guys finish first. You know how guys have hot girls that they have sex with and cute girls that they marry? It's kind...
    sweetXOheart sweetXOheart 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Real Nice Guys Don't Finish Last; Guys Who Think They Are Nice Do. - You might want to read this site to get some insight on the difference between good guys and nice guys. http...
    mbuch mbuch 46-50 2 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    Nice But Different = Lonely Loser - I am a nice guy -- and I know it. I would never do anything to harm anyone. If given the chance I would treat any woman as the top quality...
    clingcom clingcom 51-55, M 14 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    I think it's my destiny. Always the friend, never the boyfriend. The type of guy my lady friends come to when their significant other has hurt them in some way. Basically, I'm the...
    LReid23 LReid23 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    Its True..... - Is there something about nice guys that push women away? I don't understand women sometimes... I went on a date with a beautiful girl. We had a great time and even...
    jloomis95 jloomis95 18-21, M 6 Responses Jan 21, 2011

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    The term "Nice guys finish last" seems to be true in terms of relationships or trying to start one. I see many girls who say they want a "Nice guy" but in the end, I always see...
    TylerBlake94 TylerBlake94 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Slight rant, This is an incredible long topic that I'll try to sum up in a mater of paraphrases but I may miss a few sub things that **** me off. Firstly, the whole definition...
    ballorromeo1 ballorromeo1 16-17, M Mar 31

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    Keep trying: its never about not being good enough, its about the other person realizing they arent above you. You know? Like okay imagine this, a story about a queen and her...
    princessxk96 princessxk96 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    My friends always advise me to be a jerk to just 'take what i want from girls' and leave. I tried it once and i didn't feel good about myself. So i'll just stay the nice guy even...
    Doove Doove 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    All the guys I dated I always thought were nice and the good kind. I meet men that were into church, good with their families, polite, respectful, and sweet. These men went out...
    brownbluelips26 brownbluelips26 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    It seems like such a hard thing to find... just a nice guy who treats a girl right. The problem is when I do find it they have some of the following problems : A nice guy who is...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I wish I would have kept with this in dating- all nice guys pushed away, and I married someone very rude. We have kids- I instill manners in them but I do regret not choosing the...
    SouthernWifeinCali SouthernWifeinCali 26-30, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    i think smart guys are very sexy. i would rather have a smart man, than a man who is dumb as bricks.
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    I really just wanna be held and told life is not as complicated as I make it out to be. If it is how I think, I won't last.
    inadequateIELLE inadequateIELLE 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    It was a chance encounter. It was only a chance encounter 294 days ago, but I cannot get him out of mind. On a whim, I took a trip up north last summer. At the last minute I wasn...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22
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