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I Think Nice Guys Finish Last

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    OneOfTheBruthas OneOfTheBruthas 26-30, M 8 Responses Aug 14, 2011

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    Its true even though I'm a girl I can't stand

    nice guys they creep me out you never know when there going to flip I think of them as a cereal killer but its one thing being. Nice and then being too nice its like OK enough
    123unhappyrefrian 123unhappyrefrian 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    alicep67904 alicep67904 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    But Do Nice Guys Like Nice Girls ?

    I always used to wonder. I'm a woman who always knew I wanted the good guy, never gave the "bad boys" the time of day---I'm not a masochist---and always said what I meant and meant what I said. But I wasn't a cheerleader, or homecoming queen contender, I was the quiet, cute girl...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 16 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    I Am A Nice Guy

    I am a nice guy and it seems like every girl i meet just wants to be friends.  I do not like how I get put in the friend zone so quickly.  My best friend, now, completely crushed my heart after about a month of leading me on.  She makes horrible dating choices (mostly drug...
    Hank1992 Hank1992 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 1, 2012

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    I know it. I've always tried to be nice

    and people don't appreciate it. There's no reward for being nice; people just patronise you and send you on your way. Well, I'm sick of it and I'm going to try not to care about being nice and just let my inner arsehole do the work.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M Sep 17, 2014

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    First of all, I don't believe that.

    I don't want to be associated with this group. I think there are nice guys but I also think there are guys who don't like themselves and be nice as a way of being validated. A nice guy, nowadays is a guy who believes his personality resides inside his fedora because without it...
    AltF4 AltF4 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Our Society

    Our Society these days.. lol
    livingfortoday livingfortoday 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    Why

    I do believe that nice guys finish last. Why is it that when your nice to most women they use you. They feel the need to tell you about the other guy or something. It seems like all the guys that treat the women like **** find the best women. Maybe I am just not seeing things...
    Percheron Percheron 41-45, M 30 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    Mr Nice guy, Google it,

    talk about it, and the shared story. You will notice that bad light shines upon does who walk the way of the nice guy. But what is a nice guy actually? Term of wikipedia (holy crap, it exists! :o) "gentle, compassionate, sensitive and vulnerable" Pff, who wants to be a nice...
    TheChosenOne32 TheChosenOne32 22-25, M Apr 26

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    Okay there is a song

    for this! And guys and girls it's hilarious!!! It goes like this http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=xfeys7Jfnx8 *Teacher teaches guys how to get girls and sings smoothly* "Nice guys finish last that's why I'll treat you like trash, It's not what I really wanna do, But you only date...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    Women Want The Right Nice Guy

    Has anyone else noticed that most women vehemently disagree with the claim that nice guys finish last? Furthermore, a hefty chunk of men disagree with it as well. It seems to me that the individuals who insist that nice guys really do finish last are quite unwilling to entertain...
    CaliforniaViolet CaliforniaViolet 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    Best Piece of Advice I Ever Received

    I am probably the most forgiving person you'll ever meet.  However...and I do mean however I will share something with you that an old boss of mine once told me: Never mistake MY kindness for weakness!  I have always remembered that when I feel...
    TshirtNblujeans TshirtNblujeans 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    Can we please stop with this nonsense?

    No, nice guys do NOT finish last. There's something called "compatibility." If you're nice, but have nothing in common-specially important things like values, religion (or lack thereof) and children, then you don't belong together. That has nothing to do with "being nice...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2014

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    Well, I really disagree.

    They don't finish last they finish first, as long as they stay in the game and don't get discouraged. They pull ahead when they stop thinking about first and last, or where they are in the pack. It's not even a race for the finish line. Stop, smell the roses that are there, not...
    JohnInKansas JohnInKansas 70+, M 1 Response May 15

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    It's True!

    My boyfriend is one of the nice guys.  I'm the first girl he's had sex with and a serious relationship with.  It's so true about the nice guys finishing last.  My guy is the bestest boyfriend I've ever had and will ever have.  He makes me so happy, and I am so...
    NikilovesMarcel NikilovesMarcel 66-70 1 Response Feb 4, 2008

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    Know why?? I gave one a chance last night.

    Arranged to meet him at a certain place and time. I show up on time. He cancels on me. He had a panic or anxiety attack and just couldn't do it. That's why your nice guys are finishing last. Now I'm gonna have to meet someone with balls big enough to actually show up.
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    So Sick Of This Myth.

    the problem is, most of the guys who claim to be "nice guys" are the ones who are desperate - they latch onto a girl, & then kiss her ***. & most of the time, she sees straight through it: you want to get into her pants. & it's creepy - this guy is constantly there when you turn...
    blehtolife blehtolife 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    You Do For A Reason.

    So I'm sure by now that you know you do. You have a big heart and you give it away only for it be crushed. You have a wonderful idea only to have someone else take credit for it. You get the long end of the stick only to find out that it was the shortest in the history of short...
    Cheygirl1889 Cheygirl1889 18-21, F May 21, 2012

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    If this isn't true than how come all the douce

    bags got hot girls? And how come all of them are in relationships? They rather be single and explore their expectations of getting what they want and you know it.
    AwesomeGuyy22 AwesomeGuyy22 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    Nice guys do finish last that's how its always

    been. Girls love jerks that treat them like crap. Then we always find a nice and and automatically friend zone him. The point is that nice guys can be to nice and very weird when they try and get with you. Jerks always tell you straight up how it is. And that's why nice guys...
    LovingTheNewMe LovingTheNewMe 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    Dinner For Two, Party Of One

    I have fallen in love with a number of amazing girls who ended up rejecting me.  In fact, you could say I'm drowning in female friends that don't want to sleep with me.  Here are some...some field notes, you could call them.  I make no claims about whether they...
    salsadragon salsadragon 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2010

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    I'm a big guy and I don't mind that

    although it gets kinda lonely I have no problem with my size and I find myself rather hilarious. I'm just wondering where all the girls are that are looking for a good guy
    the1ak the1ak 31-35, M Jul 9, 2014

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    Nice guys finish last.

    Too many times this has happened to me. Story of my life.
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M Mar 6

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    nice guys do finish last,

    I try always to be nice, kind,honest and caring to people New or old friends yet I never get what I want :-( I never have the friends that talk to me cos they really care about me they only do when they want something, never get the gorgeous girls as they always pefurr the bad...
    rodwood rodwood 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Yeah - nice guys finish last .

    .. that is why we make the best lovers !
    shaggynz shaggynz 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    TheStillmanator TheStillmanator 13-15, M Aug 7, 2014

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    Nice But Different = Lonely Loser

    I am a nice guy -- and I know it. I would never do anything to harm anyone. If given the chance I would treat any woman as the top quality person she is. The only problem is that because I did not fit the "standard" of guys during my early years I am now 46 and lonely...
    clingcom clingcom 51-55, M 14 Responses Apr 16, 2008

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    Beware of guys who label themselves

    as "Nice Guys" when in turn they are the real *****le. Real nice guys don't need to label themselves as such or say to you "nice guys finish last", they are caring and they are there for people they care about and love. If it feels right anyway it would work out. No extra...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 9, 2014

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    Nice guys do finish last.

    I'm sorry but nice guys are too sensitive. I like cracking jokes and when I do it hurts your feelings. Sometimes I'm sarcastic and ya guys take it to the heart and want to be upset. Seriously loosen up.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Nice Guys

    I don't think nice guys finish last, but i joined this group cause i wanted to share that i heard the song "Nice guys" from nigahiga's youtube page and the song and the video are really good! I couldn't stop watching the video once a day. While I'm writing this, the song is...
    stephii31 stephii31 18-21, F Feb 15, 2012

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    1. Anyone else think of the Green Day song?

    2. Until recently I always got a bunch of crap despite being helpful and fair dealing with people. I'm at a new school with a far better environment now so that helped.
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 16-17, F Apr 29, 2014

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    The type of guy that pull you closer

    when you try to walk away. The guy that comforts you when you cry. That guy who never tells you to leave no matter how man he is. The type of guy who lift up your chin and kisses you gently. Every girl no matter if she will admit it or not want she wants that guy.
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2014

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    Kinda sad to say it,

    but they really do. Doesn't mean I'm a douche, personally speaking.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9, 2014

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    I tend to get stuck in the friend mode alot.

    I like to date but where guys are very aggressive I try and be more respectable I feel I have so much love and just can't share it nice guys finish last
    jasonisfun jasonisfun 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    Real Nice Guys Don't Finish Last; Guys Who Think They Are Nice Do.

    You might want to read this site to get some insight on the difference between good guys and nice guys. http://www.heartless-*******.com
    mbuch mbuch 46-50 2 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    Prove Me Wrong

    I would like to think I'm a nice guy and I always feel like I'm finishing last. Everyone is in a relationship besides me, even when the boyfriends treats the girlfriend like crap she stays with him.
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    If u girls out there keep falling in attractive

    jerks and aholrs , one day when they break your heart not come crying and telling that the world is so unfair and **** and why is this happening to me . U made the choice u pay the price . But I do have to agree that some nice guys are really no nice and don't have any fun or...
    asianahyang96 asianahyang96 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    Nice Guys Finish 1st, It's Just A Really Long Race.

    Nice guys finish first. You know how guys have hot girls that they have sex with and cute girls that they marry? It's kind of like that with us females to guys. Sure, we may date "douchebag" guys, but we always end up marrying a sweetheart. Think about it. Have you ever heard a...
    sweetXOheart sweetXOheart 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    Nice guys do really finish last the only ones

    that get girls are asshloes, players, jerks. I mean I'm a nice guys and nice guys never get girlfriends unless it's a miracle
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    Why is it when I tell some guys no its like

    they don't hear it? Like really your only prolonging being denied. I say it nicely but when you keep pushing is when we have an issue
    maggielue maggielue 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2014

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    I think most of the time there's always

    that one nice guy who's learned how to be nice and stick up for himself but still look like the nice guy. I think it's the aura around bad guys that we girls like, the strong proud and tough aura. That's what we like. I like thinking a guy's going to protect me not let a guy...
    nattielover nattielover 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    We always do. It seems morals values

    or integrity are not accepted in society these days.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 1

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    If you want to win in life,

    don't be afraid to bite, after all what's the worst you could do? Hurt someone's FEELINGS! Meh!
    AudioTravylerRavenwolf AudioTravylerRavenwolf 13-15, F Apr 27

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    I think it's my destiny.

    Always the friend, never the boyfriend. The type of guy my lady friends come to when their significant other has hurt them in some way. Basically, I'm the "shoulder to cry on." Not the boyfriend material. I suppose I don't mind it as much nowadays. I'm "the nice guy." And I'm...
    LReid23 LReid23 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 30, 2014

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