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I Think Nobody Likes Me

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    It's Like I'm Invisible...

    I've always felt like I'm somewhat invisible. The few people who do pay me any heed either do it in a negative way (although this isn't too much of an issue since more people ignore me than act negatively towards me, which is good I guess) or do it because they have to (I'm a...
    Alsark Alsark 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    Why Are You Attacking Me?

    It's been like this since I can remember, its just that nobody likes me! People dont want to be friends with me, dont want to go out with me, they may be nice on the MSN or in facebook, but when I ask them to go out and have drink or something, they just can't, or say yes but...
    jox3h jox3h 31-35, M 15 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    I'm important ? Ha how ?

    If I died the school would go on people would continue to talk **** . Don't lie to me I know what you really think . I've been though this before for years it's always the same thing . They make fun of me the teacher supposedly doesn't see anything I get tired of hearing them...
    wassup305 wassup305 13-15, F May 2

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    No Body Calls Me And Ihave To Make All The Effort. And Get Brushed Of Alot.

    Hi All, ever since i have been littlei have been a social outcast. awkward, a loner, and usually having just 1 person i'm close to. i really want more friends and to meet more people and be able to relax. i'm constantly trying to read self development books and get better but...
    ameeno ameeno 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2013

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    Nobody Likes Me Or Or Is It In My Head?

    I don't have any friends. Never really have done. today we had to do group presentations at uni and nobody wanted to work with me. It really hurt and was so embarrassing! On top of that after forcing myself on a group, i got so nervous before the presentation that i just ran out...
    peach3493 peach3493 22-25, F Oct 28, 2013

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    Noone Likes Me And Here Is Why.

    I am ugly.i believe that I am a boy even though Im trapped in this females body.I got A's in highschool and a high score on Sats but now in college Im not doing well.I allow people to use me.I dont know how to say no.What I want most is a good friend.I want to love and to be...
    feelingmisplaced feelingmisplaced 22-25, T 10 Responses Mar 31, 2011

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    Proof That I Am Unlikeable

    Here are some facts.........I am almost 60, and there are few social situations I have been in where people didn't let me know they dislike me. As a child I was denied attention, gifts, education etc that my twin was given. thrown out on the street as a teenage, raped etc, went...
    sylvati sylvati 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Logically, I Know It's Not True, But...

    ...my entire life has been one big exercise in not doing anything to upset anyone or cause too much controversy so that no one would think negative of me. I hate knowing that someone doesn't like me, even if it's some passing stranger who only interacted with me for like 5...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 19, 2010

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    What's Wrong With Ppl Or What's Wrong With Me?

    Why is that there are some people who doesn't really have to work hard and they have lots of people around them, they are always busy to do something and there are others who just can't do anything right? Like me. I'm 33, single at the moment, have no friends, no family, no dog...
    sommmer sommmer 31-35, F 5 Responses May 20, 2011

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    Nobody Likes You

    If you can't find a friend, I'll be here for you. Then you can say Nobody likes you... NobodySpecial that is.
    NobodySpecial NobodySpecial 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 10, 2010

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    Well, Not Nobody

    but alot...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 25, 2010

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    Hello. New Here.

    I'm glad to have found this website. A group of lost souls coming together in anonymity. It's nice. Anyway. I'm alone. I'm sick of it, but I'm also sick of trying to fit in. Trying to act 'normal'. It's exhausting. I'm a 29 year old woman, which I understand is still fairly...
    nutters5 nutters5 26-30 4 Responses Jul 3, 2010

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    My Story. Please Help.

    I have never been liked that much at all. when i was in elementary school, i was always made fun of because of my weight. even the people that i thought were my friends turned out later not to be. i remember my guidence counselor told me to say thank you when someone insulted me...
    porterha porterha 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    Felt This Feeling Most Of My Life

    its something that people say or do that lead me to believe I am never liked... I couldn't ever say anything right around joyce that she didn't pick me up for something and was abusing my whole personality - she wasn't happy til she broken me down into a basket case...I feel like...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2011

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    Everybody tells me they love me

    but i just feel like there just gonna leave me i just wanna have actual friends
    SpiritualMe SpiritualMe 16-17, M Mar 16

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    Everybody likes my prettier friend,

    I am always the waste of space, the person who needs to get out of the way to get to the pretty one, no boy has ever liked me, I feel I am ugly and unlovable, oh and lonely
    imaloserbaby imaloserbaby 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I wish i knew why i had to go thruh what i was

    going thruh. I think im a joke on this earth, nobody takes me for serious. My mother did the best to make me unhappy. With emotional abuse. After abuse i never had friends who would stay with me. And i did nothing wrong. I did nothing bad to people to deserve a lonely life and...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F May 20

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    Sad About Having No Friends

    Well at 42 I still have no friends, no matter what I do I never seem to be accepted. I work as a nurse and when the other nurses arrange nights out I am never included, even when ive tried to join in and say where we off to then? its always the same excuse "will let you know" or...
    gimeabreak gimeabreak 41-45 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Not A Part

    My story is I am highly misunderstood. People don't think I am worth putting the time into. I feel I come across as stupid. I feel like I am butting into a conversation instead of being invited. Who cares what I think.
    shadowboxjake shadowboxjake 51-55 Sep 26, 2013

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    I Can'f Find Any Friends

    I really think something is wrong with me. I am a senior at a college in United States. I was born and raised in China and dad insisted that I should persue my undergrad in US. I go to a tiny liberal arts college with less than 1000 student bodies. I am a great student, but I...
    lisawang126 lisawang126 18-21 4 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    Dont Know Why Nobody Likes Me

    I have never had many friends. I'm a quiet person but I'm friendly, would go out my way to help anyone, and often do, particularly at work. But I guess my face doesn't fit. We had a Halloween party at our house on Saturday and about 30-40 people from work were invited and NOT...
    stehardy stehardy 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 29, 2013

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    Always Down

    First of all, I have to say I feel better knowing Im not the only one who feels disliked, ignored, and just never "good". Alot of the other stories I read, I feel the same way. I never seemed to fit in or act the right way. I feel like most people are only my friends when they...
    annamarie83 annamarie83 26-30 3 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    I've Never Had A Boyfriend.

    I've never had a boyfriend. No guy has really liked me and the sad part is, I've taught myself to not let myself be attracted to a guy, as in to not like them a lot. I can like someone, be attracted to them but I don't let myself be completely in love with them. I know how to...
    LookWithinMe LookWithinMe 18-21, F 7 Responses May 29, 2012

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    R U Like Me

    I had my first kid at 14.married at 15. Had 4more kids by 21. I completely devoted myself to my kids. Now they are all grown up have lives of there own. IV realize I don't have anyone. I went to counseling & groups. It didn't help. Because I don't have any social skills. I feel...
    tdraher tdraher 41-45, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    No One Knows I Exist.

    I'm in my late twenties and spend most of my time alone. My best friend just moved away, and I really only have one friend left around. I don't like going on Facebook, because everyone else's lives seem a lot more interesting than mine. I haven't gotten anywhere in my life...
    GWinston GWinston 26-30 7 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    Only The Lonely

    Everywhere i go i always feel like im in a bubble, everyone else is enjoyin life and havin fun with friends, and theres me trapped alone.  I dont know what it is that i do to make people not like me. maybe i try to hard.when people are talkin everyone looks interested, then i...
    outsider231 outsider231 22-25 14 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    I have felt the exact same way you are

    and I'm feeling like that right now. I literally have an extremely similar situation to yours except for the moving schools and my parents divorcing. Instead I had to stay in the same school where people disliked me and talked about me behind my back, some even did it right in...
    fatendestinny fatendestinny 18-21, F Feb 1

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    Invisible

    So I go downtown every so often with my friends (after all, there is really not much else to do at night here), and we go to bars to chat and see people. Everyone else I'm with knows people, and even has people coming up to them whom they don't know to chat. If we're in a small...
    chels25 chels25 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    honestly i feel like everyone hates me,

    when all i want is a friend. i just want someone i can talk to. that seems impossible to find.
    kr1sten kr1sten 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Always Left Out...

    Hey all,  I have always felt left out... like no one ever likes me. Every time a group of my so called friends go out they tell me that they did text me to go, that probably the text didn't go through. Rally? all the time? I am sick of asking people to invite me asking to go...
    alwayslonely04 alwayslonely04 18-21, M 12 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    School is just a hell hole

    for me. I wish I enjoyed it. I've tried enjoying it and making friends but not many people like me. Most of them ignore me or laugh. I'm thankful for family but nobody likes me at my school except for one person. One person and she is always busy and doesn't talk to me often.
    depressedandhurt101 depressedandhurt101 13-15, F 2 Responses May 1

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    The Only People Who Are Nice To Me Are My Friends

    Every school, ever since second grade everyone is talking about me. I remember people saying you smell and have you took a shower. No one treated me right. I went to a different school and a bully followed me. They spread rumors about me and kids were forced to be my friends. I...
    BADLIFEFORME BADLIFEFORME 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    I Can't Leave My Alcoholic Boyfriend Because I Have No One

    I have no friends, so I stay in this hopeless relationship ( for 5 years now) just to cling on to some one that sponges off of me. I am afraid to be completely alone again. I can't seem to ever make friends. I have been shy my whole life and meeting new people is like the most...
    SophiaBBG SophiaBBG 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Nobody Ever Seems To Like Me

    All my life, for as long as I could possibly remember, I have always been disliked from my peers.  Not to say everybody, but it's hard for me to make friends and it's hard to find someone who really does like me.  I have very few friends.  Pretty much more enemies...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 34 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    Not Even A Crush...

    I honestly swear there hasn't been one guy who liked me. There has been a lot of lesbians that had asked me out or confessed they have liked me. But I don't roll that way. My crush Sean was complicated, but I understood why we never dated. Then there was Chris, he was just that...
    haley2323 haley2323 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Guilty And Ashamed

    How can I make amends to all the people I have hurt? I have hurt people over and over, time and time again because of my selfishness. I am manipulative and evil to people. I have seen grown *** men cry because of something I did wrong to them. I get some sick satisfaction out of...
    Kikiana1 Kikiana1 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    Okay, the bullying has continued.

    One day in math class, I was getting out my homework. Then, my teacher was on the phone and went outside. I didn't think much of it. Then, she told me that the vice principal wanted to speak to me. Everyone in the class was like "ooooooo" because if you go to the vice principal...
    BADLIFEFORME BADLIFEFORME 13-15, F Mar 24

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    Death

    Sometimes I wonder if anybody would care if i committed suicide right now.
    Broken2412 Broken2412 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Im 16 I Feel Depressed And Alone.

    Im 16, I have very few "friends" who I always smoke weed with, but they always treat me like I'm not wanted and talk down to me and just down right mean to me...Everytime I've made a close friend they just stop talking to me. I always text and call people asking to hang out but...
    XxMrGoldenxX XxMrGoldenxX 18-21, M 11 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    In The End They Lose Interest

    What a blow to my self-esteem. Friends, boyfriends...I have none. Yeah, I do have someone who tells me they love me. But I doubt all the time because that's my nature.  And we haven't even met yet. Alot depends on that whole process. I'm like a plague people want to avoid...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 31, 2010

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    I have a girlfriend and we went through a very

    very low low point in our relationship. I had known her for a year and she had been with someone before me and he moved away and said he would send for her later. 6 months passed and she and I met. A year later after our very low point she started talking with him again and I...
    jbr3000 jbr3000 56-60 Feb 23

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    Leaving My Shell Makes Me Realize How Few People Like Me

    So I've always been quiet. This hasn't really changed, but in the past year or two I made a real effort to make some friends. I've picked up drinking (something I didn't want to do but saw it as a social prerequisite), and got to the point where I had a group of co-workers that I...
    Alsark Alsark 22-25, M Oct 11, 2013

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    Make an effort and it'll happen-is what people

    tell me, and on 4 separate occasions, 4 different people have left me hanging. 1). Me and a person I thought I was friends with were supposed to go to the cinema, but he supposedly became ill that day; 2). Me and another person arranged to hangout, but he never replied to my...
    thinkofonelater thinkofonelater 18-21, M 1 Response May 1

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    It Is Really Worth Continuing?

    I'm 28, I have been jobless for some time, every job i get something happens thats not my fault and i lose it. I have no family members that care about me, my mom barely want's to ever talk to me, my father hates my very existence, all my aunts, uncles, etc. don't talk to me ever...
    darkflow2013 darkflow2013 26-30 1 Response Jun 29, 2013

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    Nobody Emails Me

    I gave two of my friends my email addresses last week, and they still haven't emailed me. It sucks to have to be the sad little tumor nobody emails. I'm nice enough to them in real life! Am I just not worth the 5 measly minutes it takes to write a nice little letter? WHAT IS...
    lilymanatee lilymanatee 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2011

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    that's why i feel alone,

    i don't even know why
    klooey klooey 16-17, F Jun 24

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    Pieces Of Me

    I'm pretty sure there are some people who like me, but I'm afraid they like a "version" of me. I only ever show a few different versions of me to different people. Mostly the happy go-lucky guy, with not a care in the world. People tend to like him. That's not me though. Not by...
    Aerugo Aerugo 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    I Feel Unliked By The World!

    I always felt this way all my life, many people would probably say it's all in my head and I would totally disagree with them. Because I see it and experience it all the time offline in the world and online on social networks....let me explain ok, in the world I feel like I'm...
    Ice26 Ice26 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    I Think Most People I Work With Dislike Me But For Not Good Reasons

    Hi I think I am a likable person but most folks and I mean work folks dont take the time to find out. And I think the biggest issue is word of mouth. Someone who influence people can set the tone for the rest of the folks. Meaning guy at work does not like you he is well liked...
    goodguy1 goodguy1 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    I Try To Impress People And In The End It Pushes Them Away

    I basically seem to talk to women like I am flirting and talk to men like I am no interested. I used to be an alcoholic and now I try so hard to impress people I end up pushing them away. I get called strange, boring, idiot and all sorts. I hate football, drinking but am in to my...
    brainsgonedead brainsgonedead 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 3, 2011

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    People say they like me at college,

    but as soon as the end of the day comes, that seems to be the last time any of them will talk to me till the next day or week.
    thinkofonelater thinkofonelater 18-21, M May 1

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    I Don't Understand What's Wrong With Me

    I am a friendly and nice person whith a sence of humour that makes everybody laugh. I think i am a good looking young girl but never had anyone to love me.i don't really have any friends, i think people use me when they need something and act cool for the moment but after that...
    kristina85 kristina85 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    I Don't Like Myself, Why Should Other People?

    I'm just kinda sad about stuff and...yeah...
    oshititsme oshititsme 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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