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I Think People Are Too Quick To Judge

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    Story of my life. Got adopted by white middle

    class parents. Went from living in the projects to living in rich white neighborhood. I dress like a ghetto kid because that's my style but people assume I'm ignorant, that I'm a different species. These people who are quick to judge disgust me. I can relate to those in the...
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    I've said some really stupid things,

    I've done some really stupid things. People just define who I am by some mistakes. I have mental disorders and I haven't been treated for so of course I'm going to be an idiot at times. People always just make judgments about others. You haven't walked in my shoes, so don't just...
    repeekbmurc repeekbmurc 18-21, F Feb 5, 2014

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    I've been judged alot in my life.

    Maybe cause my has an unique lifestyle and i have been judged for it but I believe it as well.
    southernboy16 southernboy16 16-17, M Apr 11, 2015

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    I understand it can sometimes be necessary.

    I once befriended a violent man from the wrong side of the canal who threatened me with a knife. Three weeks later he violently raped a girl ona Friday night out. It hurt, my judgement failed me. But outwith these extreme situations, it does occur to me that people's feelings...
    thinkdeeper thinkdeeper 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 27, 2014

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    Yesterday in whatsapp group,

    I waved at the people and none replied, but another member came out of blue and said he was sick, 27 people replied..... Its not that i am expecting their attention, but its a common courtesy to do so, I then exit the group
    Casanova777 Casanova777 18-21, M Jun 23, 2015

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    They see me riting like this they strait away

    think im stuppid. Im not. A im dislexic. B if I culd spend a long time riting i culd rite proply, but ppl can undrstnd me like ths so why bothr? Originly I wuld try but now I dont
    pippadwight pippadwight 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2014

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    Especially when it come to kids between the

    ages of 8-16. Adults always say, "You're young." So, because an eight year old goes through strong depression that usually teens go through and you didn't, you have to judge it? Or what about the fact a fourteen year old can date and have a crush? You think it's bad, but these...
    laurmb laurmb 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2015

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    Really hate people sometimes.

    Yes i was married and i cant help it that my wife cheated on me. If that bothers you go screw yourself
    Neikirk Neikirk 22-25, M Sep 22, 2015

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    And Honestly...

    sometimes I am too...I try to catch myself though and think about it in a different way or put myself in that person's shoes etc... But in this society that we grow up in its like we are almost brainwashed in a sick way to be judgemental...not that I am blaming I'm just saying...
    romina0523 romina0523 31-35, F Mar 30, 2012

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    Me Too ...

    In a world where everything moves at such a fast pace, we are forced to make snap judgements about people often based on the most trivial and surface information. We probably don't even realize we are doing to .... but it is what it is. I do it all the time and fully expect...
    TotallyTactile TotallyTactile 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    people need to think about what they are saying

    before they judge. Every action has a reaction. Figure out why someone is how they are before you judge.
    BarbiesMan BarbiesMan 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 23, 2015

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    I really think people should stop judging.

    I mean, judging people is natural. It's a human thing. I can never say I haven't judged anyone. No one can. But acting on your judgement is a different thing. Before we come to a conclusion, we have to make sure all the facts are true. Jumping into conclusions is kind pretty...
    IAmJustMyself IAmJustMyself 16-17, F Jun 29, 2015

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    Relax And Enjoy Life

    You see it everywhere in life. One person thinks another is too __________ (pick an adjective). It happens here just the same. People come here to share experiences, most of the time it is for acceptance, not criticism. People should be able to share their experiences...
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    In my peripheral vision,

    I spot a person who giggles at the way I completely embrace my awkwardness; but in my mind, I am who I am.
    babykiss12 babykiss12 18-21, F Jun 23, 2015

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    Look it at this way. That person you are

    judging could possibly change you life for the better. They could be the person you are looking for in a true friend or someone that would be there until the very end or be a shoulder to cry on. That person could also be going through a hard time or thinking of taking their...
    CrypticIris CrypticIris 18-21, F Nov 26, 2014

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    RedDust RedDust 41-45, F Nov 25, 2012

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    I Think Perhaps We Are

    Human nature is a strange thing and, however much we try not too, I think it's easy to fall into the trap of making judgements about other people which although not meant to be cruel, aren't necessarily fair either. Part of the trouble I think is we each have our own individual...
    Adrian6970Anne Adrian6970Anne 46-50, M Sep 13, 2012

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    There Is No Question That I Make Judgements

    I think it is a necessary part of life. It's our survival mechanism and it's our way of decision making so that we decide what is right for us. Where Quickly judging becomes wrong, is what you do when you make that judgement of others. Do you tell them that they are wrong? Do you...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T Apr 3, 2012

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    It's The Way Society Is...

    We judge someone as soon as we meet them...or even when we just see them. There's always that first impression..whether it's good or bad. I try not to judge anyone..the way they look, their lifestyle, the way they act, etc. Sometimes it's hard not to make snap judgments. Like...
    RubyLane RubyLane 46-50, F Oct 3, 2012

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    JBStoner JBStoner 41-45 Nov 27, 2014

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    tazzs tazzs 46-50, M Jan 27

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    Good hearts with good intentions mean more

    than typin style. the perverts who hit on me all day type 'properly' but they deserve more respect? the dark groups on EP have people who type 'properly' but they deserve more respect? since i type different doesnt mean im less than anyone else or have anythin less important to...
    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2015

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    why do ppl pretend to b something they are not?

    why they can't show and be who they really are? is it that difficult? I mean on one side their profile says "I hate judging others and being judged" and on the other hand they are the one's who knowingly or unknowingly judge others but don't want to b judged..I'm not talking...
    dreamylife dreamylife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2015

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