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I Think People Are Too Quick To Judge

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    It's The Way Society Is...

    We judge someone as soon as we meet them...or even when we just see them. There's always that first impression..whether it's good or bad. I try not to judge anyone..the way they look, their lifestyle, the way they act, etc. Sometimes it's hard not to make snap judgments. Like...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F Oct 3, 2012

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    Me Too ...

    In a world where everything moves at such a fast pace, we are forced to make snap judgements about people often based on the most trivial and surface information. We probably don't even realize we are doing to .... but it is what it is. I do it all the time and fully expect...
    TotallyTactile TotallyTactile 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    RedDust RedDust 41-45, F Nov 25, 2012

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    I've said some really stupid things,

    I've done some really stupid things. People just define who I am by some mistakes. I have mental disorders and I haven't been treated for so of course I'm going to be an idiot at times. People always just make judgments about others. You haven't walked in my shoes, so don't just...
    repeekbmurc repeekbmurc 16-17, F Feb 5

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    There Is No Question That I Make Judgements

    I think it is a necessary part of life. It's our survival mechanism and it's our way of decision making so that we decide what is right for us. Where Quickly judging becomes wrong, is what you do when you make that judgement of others. Do you tell them that they are wrong? Do you...
    MrsJoanieBNH MrsJoanieBNH 56-60, T Apr 3, 2012

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    So I'm going to kind of go out on a limb here,

    this story will be different than my others. Mostly I just talk about myself, but this one is about a very arguable subject- ahh, religion. What sparked this was a recent situation at my school. So, a girl, we'll call her maddie, has gay uncles. I don't think being gay is right...
    Sbubbles2 Sbubbles2 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I Think Perhaps We Are

    Human nature is a strange thing and, however much we try not too, I think it's easy to fall into the trap of making judgements about other people which although not meant to be cruel, aren't necessarily fair either. Part of the trouble I think is we each have our own individual...
    Adrian6970Anne Adrian6970Anne 46-50, M Sep 13, 2012

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    They see me riting like this they strait away

    think im stuppid. Im not. A im dislexic. B if I culd spend a long time riting i culd rite proply, but ppl can undrstnd me like ths so why bothr? Originly I wuld try but now I dont
    pippadwight pippadwight 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    And Honestly...

    sometimes I am too...I try to catch myself though and think about it in a different way or put myself in that person's shoes etc... But in this society that we grow up in its like we are almost brainwashed in a sick way to be judgemental...not that I am blaming I'm just saying...
    romina0523 romina0523 31-35, F Mar 30, 2012

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    Relax And Enjoy Life

    You see it everywhere in life. One person thinks another is too __________ (pick an adjective). It happens here just the same. People come here to share experiences, most of the time it is for acceptance, not criticism. People should be able to share their experiences...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Dont Think People Find Me Interesting
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Don't Like It When People Are Fake
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Yes I do think they are quite funny. But not when you're at a sleepover and your friend is farting in his sleep. I have at least another 7 hours of that. Great.
    backupmojo backupmojo 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    Both parents have an extremely important part to play in our lives, raising us but also shaping us into people. Mothers and fathers can be responsible for our mental state and the...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I think women get judge on how they look, which I don't think it's ok. There is this page on facebook, that all they do is judge girls. Like WTF? Ain't nobody perfect.. What the...
    1kz3l 1kz3l 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    This is when I get hurt, I am a very emotional person with a lot of feelings! I can get attached to someone very quickly! Sometimes I realise but other times i dont until i get...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    If I hear about one more idiot leaving their child in the car. The sad thing about it, is it's my generation, and younger generations. I think the parent should be sent to the...
    Blackstallion76 Blackstallion76 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I feel I trust people too much. I've been used and lied to so much but I never learn. Maybe I have faith in people's humanity? Maybe I'm a dumba$$?
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Well, not like actual brains. Not that I have any judgement on someone who does. But I find them to be a little too squiggly and squishy.
    Liddledame Liddledame 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    So an older friend of both of ours called me after speaking to her. The soon to be ex wife.. She wanted to confirm the details with me of what I did not just hear say... Anyways...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It makes me sad that the majority (I think all if them) of the pervs/creeps are men. Now other guys like myself get judge wrongly just because I'm a guy 😓 so disappointed by all...
    KristianNathan KristianNathan 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm pretty optimistic when it comes to my opinions of people,and I like to see the good in everybody. I tend to expect everyone to be honest, good and keep promises, but...
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    It's weird because I don't trust people, but I'm an open book to them so there has to be trust there..right?...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I under stood this the other day! Where I live there is these two boys who are like half way famous they have fans they have songs on iTunes and all things! We'll one of them looks...
    fashionanxiety fashionanxiety 16-17, F Jul 4

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    I am a teenager, and I don't think I have grown up too fast, rather going through appropriate milestones and learning what I should. But my family knows another family whose kids...
    ICanTotallySurvive ICanTotallySurvive 13-15, F Jul 13

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    Maybe I'm just judgmental or maybe I just live in the south but I feel like I am surrounded by f*cking morons. I hate these people. I don't know if its like this everywhere, I know...
    Blake00048 Blake00048 18-21, M Jul 10

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    My dad is from Barbados, and the culture there is VERY blunt. They will state something really rude in a matter of fact way and be confused when you are offended :) lol. I grew up...
    janicefromkansas janicefromkansas 18-21, F Jul 14

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    I just got out of 7th grade I go back to school in a couple weeks but I had this one teacher in 7th and I kinda have this problem with getting to attached to people.. I think it's...
    LaelaRuiz LaelaRuiz 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I want to love and have sex the way that makes sense to me. Why do I have to follow the "status quo?" Why IS there a status quo? Every relationship is different. It sucks that...
    bisexualman79 bisexualman79 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 8

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