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I Think People Give Up Too Easily On Their Marriages

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 95 People

    Dont Under Stand

    after 13 years my wife tells me she dont love me ,wow then 2 days latter she moved to another state .i didnt know we were even having problems ,all i can say .is im puting every thing in gods hands. we getting the big d word .i got shot two years ago ,so i cant bulid homes any...
    williams36 williams36 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 18, 2012

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    What You Desire Is Closer Than You Know...

    I definitely agree that husbands and wives give up much too quickly in our culture of "'throw-away" relationships.  I've seen that tendency to want to "toss in the towel" in myself...  and I don't like it. As I entered my mid-life crisis a few years...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    Disagree

    I'm in total disagreement.  I think too many people stay in bad marriages.  Want to waste a lifetime?  Stay in a bad marriage.  Divorce can be a fresh, new beginning.  It is foolish to stay in a bad or loveless marriage.
    StephieBbow StephieBbow 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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    Single Again?!?

    My husband is 31 and I swear he is going through a midlife crisis. He bought a new car has lost a lot of weight and now he has decided he wants to be single after 5 yrs of marriage and two deployments. He says he still loves me and IS in love with me. We do everything together...
    Seriously1234 Seriously1234 36-40 1 Response Aug 23, 2012

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    Fireproof

    they have so many reasons for a divorce.. i never understand why they have to do that maybe if i have one in the future, i'll know how it feels   it reminds of the movie "fireproof". a great movie for couples who wants to separate
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F 5 Responses May 12, 2010

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    people really do give up on marriages too

    easily....mine was let go and it could have been put back together if we would have understood each other better...I miss him so much to this day
    kimberly45 kimberly45 41-45, F Jan 2, 2014

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    Husband In Midlife Crisis, Wants Divorce Then Confused Then Wants To Work On It

    I have been married to the same man for almost 25 years.  We have had great times and very hard times.  In November we had a huge argument and he said he wanted a divorce.  I said ok, couple days later he wanted to talk. As we talk he said we should wait to make sure that is...
    newlifeat50 newlifeat50 46-50 5 Responses Jan 27, 2012

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    Why do I keep doing this to myself. I kno this relationship is not healthy for me but I still want it. Love is so stupid I wish all this feeling would go away so I can move on...
    kimberlee1876 kimberlee1876 22-25, F Apr 9

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Apr 23

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    Lol. Lmao. Too often. Lol. Have begged God to lessen it. Did drugs. Tried medications. And my caring grew. Plus rage grew. So many deluded critics...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 10

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    Like, what is the point of people criticizing or commenting? Who the **** made "you" the enforcer of anything?
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    gummball gummball 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    And I'm one of those people but I'm not prepared to be poor .
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    oh they so do. changing this twisting that moving this and that making things harder for me! ha! I suck too in someone elses eyes....
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    Tor96 Tor96 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I do it sometimes but it is like "you an idiot sometimes". But then there are these jerks who make fun of me. They take my stuff which I get back. They make fun of me about needing...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Apr 12

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    insatiable02 insatiable02 18-21, F 16 Responses Apr 12

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    Being taken for granted is the worse feeling in the world. Getting the feeling you have to beg for friendship or attention. I have been down that road many many times, I know the...
    cheekyhannah36 cheekyhannah36 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    You would be shocked how many people think i'm a total ******* and then later turn around and say how much of a grate person i am after speaking with me. It's because inside of...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21, F Apr 25

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    Lilyalexandergia Lilyalexandergia 18-21, F