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I Think People Should Be Nicer To Each Other

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    Being Nice

    It is not easy to be nice when someone has been abusive. t does take strength to keep quiet. But, we end up having a restless night thinking above the incident and planning and plotting to get back at them. Returning a person's abusiveness with kindness, sends them a...
    HardingP119 HardingP119 36-40, M Jan 25, 2013

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    I Have Trouble Says This, I Expect Retrabution

    I expect that if I ask for niceness, I will be mistreated. I feel that I need to stay quiet and hidden, to be safe.
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 31, 2011

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    It's very complicated to explain why I think people come into your life for a reason. I was once in an abusive relationship for over a year, from July 2010 to December 2011. He...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 6

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    It's so hard to find your true soul mate in this world, and those who do are truly lucky. I was in a four year relationship with the most amazing man on earth. He was truly my soul...
    adantist adantist 22-25, F Aug 7

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    So an older friend of both of ours called me after speaking to her. The soon to be ex wife.. She wanted to confirm the details with me of what I did not just hear say... Anyways...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I wish everyone could just get over petty differences and try to get along or at least try to be respectful to each other.
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    Until a few weeks ago, I was always the quiet kid who nobody knew the story behind. I never showed expression in class, never smiled or laughed. As a result my teachers and my...
    mkaufman mkaufman 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    This is an update from one of my posts about my bf and I moving in together and how aggravating and intrusive his mom was. Anyway, its been 4 months now that me and my bf have been...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    I most certainly do. If you block someone because you don't like them, they don't agree with your ideology, you hate them for some idiotic bigoted reason....that's completely...
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 31

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    Let's not even bother with mentioning genders. People who abuse other people suck. It doesn't matter what gender they are.
    blargendee blargendee 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    (WRONG TITLE) TITLE INTENDED: I THINK PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW THAT !!!! That "force begets more force." This is danger on a new suburban level in Ferguson, MS. Calling out the...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 3 days ago

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    I guess I'm "judging" people because I dislike the way they judge others but I don't understand. I mean, you have people that make it obvious and known that they won't accept...
    EmmieBear EmmieBear 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    oh maybe i'm the one who get's it wrong, deep thinking happens mostly when you are taking a shower, in quiet place or when person is in his self conscious moment. some people when...
    roxanz roxanz 22-25, M 46 mins ago

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    You tell people what they don't wanna hear and then your left alone! Haha! My oh my!! I'm guessing I'm a difficult personality to get along with.... I usually get surrounded by...
    Incubusbunny Incubusbunny 22-25, F Aug 14

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    I witnessed this amazing moment the other day... Older lady with a cane and a cart full of groceries arrives at her car. A much younger man walks right past her without even...
    littlechief79 littlechief79 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    Today I arranged to go into the city centre with my new friend Sara-Jade to go shopping. As we left Topshop to go back into the mall, I saw a group of guys walk in our direction...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm sure most of us have been guilty in letting others here dictate our moods or how we feel about ourselves.. I soon learnt when I came here being over sensitive is a danger to...
    primnproper primnproper 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    I do this all the time with my best friend, we just watch those videos(he is straight so yeah) and just well you know...****. I secretly want him so bad, he is kinda buff, smart...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M Jul 28

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    People judge others before they get to know them. I am Muslim and proud. I try to practice as much as I can and not just in Ramadan. I am studying to be a scholar as well as attend...
    zainman zainman 26-30, M Aug 2

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    Besides my fear of always being judging by people I have come to realize I somehow rub people the wrong way, or maybe my social anxiety comes from the fact I rub people the wrong...
    GrimCreeper0150 GrimCreeper0150 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    With the crazy weather and bad economy, people are just acting out of their minds. Many get depressed and can't live their lives...or enjoy the sunrise. Negativity seems to be...
    spacesurfer spacesurfer 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hold your tongue for a bit and think about what you're going to say because what you might say may mean some kind of a commitment for others. They may depend on what you had said...
    friednemo friednemo 22-25, M Aug 2

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    I think one of the most cruel actions is when someone strings another person along and plays with their emotions disregarding the pain and suffering they inflict.
    sassy44 sassy44 66-70, F Aug 9

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    Last night I had some friends over for drinks, and two of my so called male friends made some insulating comments at my X wife's expense behind her back. My X wife is a disabled...
    gordie60 gordie60 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I think that if you're on Gods path people come into your life for a reason.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 22

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    Don't you get tired of constantly doing the same dance even though all you get is ****** results? I mean what did you think would happen? I know a lot of people who keep doing this...
    emptyskyform emptyskyform 18-21, M Jul 27

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    I don't look like a bad kid or anything but I've smoked weed and stolen (not anymore) my friends didn't believe me when i told them ive done those things. I have this friend and he...
    XxKattanaxX XxKattanaxX 16-17, F Aug 2

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    Yes, some people you really like but, aren't good for you. Some people are good for you but, your not about them like that.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Just go do what you want to do and don't doubt yourself until said want has been achieved. Then re-***** your experience and see how it has impacted you mentally and emotionally...
    TheKidDownTheStreet TheKidDownTheStreet 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    All my life people give me credit for things I'm doing when I feel I could've done so much more. Can get rid of this feeling...
    Gottamakeitbig Gottamakeitbig 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    Ok, so i've been watching the Real 50 shades of gray documentary and it got me really interested. I wanted to know if it's normal for people my age to have f.e t.i s.h e.s So i...
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I hate ******* ppl who drive gigantic SUVs. They think they must live in Alaska or something and our roads get cracked easily. Why can't it just be like years ago when they only...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    and the world would be a better place. Don't be a jerk because you're mad that someone has a cooler life than you. Focus on your own things and make your life what you want...
    Cindell Cindell 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Yes please try to follow what is written in the pic as much as you can
    Friendlyman64 Friendlyman64 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Sometimes I..... Finish the sentence to create a wonderfully funny one.
    555o121 555o121 13-15, M Jul 27

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    Okay so my dad had cancer, and we can't do anything about it. My mom tries her best to make him feel better or tries to serve him good food that his stomach can take, which is not...
    suskypls suskypls 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I recently learned that domestic abuse isn't limited to couples , I would never guessed it was also roommates as well. I did a lot of research into this before I figured out that I...
    Lunnaku Lunnaku 26-30 2 Responses Aug 3

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    My dad tells me not be a hero and try to help everyone but I just can't help it I just care way to much for some reason does anyone know why?
    yhitoshi9 yhitoshi9 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I don’t place a high value on material wealth, the quality of someone’s personality is much more important to me
    TimEP TimEP 56-60, M Jul 22

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    They either come in it to make it better or screw it up and than you learn from your mistakes.
    ashizz ashizz 22-25, F Jul 22

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    I wanna know the reason they came only if they're gg to leave in the end. Like wth bro , did I make it that easy for you to just come in and out of my life?
    outtamymindz outtamymindz 18-21, F Jul 22

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    If you'd mind your own business, and not mine, you might get along better in life.
    Blackstallion76 Blackstallion76 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    LaMirage LaMirage 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    OK, so I was driving home today from my school, and as I was trying to merge onto a street, I see a dude making a left turn. He was probably going like 70, so of course he totally...
    therealjeric therealjeric 16-17, M Aug 6

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    They would rather listen to their friend's lies than the truth. They don't care about the person being framed, and want to know why? Their friend is giving them something in return...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M Aug 7

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    It doesn't matter who you love, love is love
    NightWalker6676 NightWalker6676 13-15, F Aug 10

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    You don't know me at all. What you "know" is what I choose to show you, so quit judging me based on what you see - there's more to whatever is the real me.
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 12