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I Think Real Men Dont Hit Women

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    My very dear friend was murdered 2 days ago at

    the bank where she worked. She had an order of protection against him. The night before the incident the police were called because he was at her house screaming threats to kill her. Why he was not arrested then has still not been explained. He called her that morning and told...
    bellaboo68 bellaboo68 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    A REAL man will NEVER touch a woman in a

    harmful way nor raise his voice at her. Treat her like the wonderful lady she is.
    Corvettes4life Corvettes4life 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    Think Before You Act I don't like

    when people touch me without permission . It threatens, agitates, and scares me. If we argue and there's no pre-understanding, Do Not touch me. I can react before I think as well. My father is something like a man and he will not hit a female in her face on purpose because men...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I made that mistake with one of my female

    friends when I was 14. I had no intentions of hitting her whatsoever because she knew that it was completely out of character for me to even think of doing that. It was one of those "heat of the moment" situations where you momentarily go blank. She was trying to get me to calm...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    Real men Shouldn't hit women.

    Doesn't matter if he thinks she cheating. You don't hit a women. I hate when drunk man or guys who think they can slave a women & hit her. It drives me crazy. Want to throw hot *** boiling water on his *** and beat him with a bat!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    When I was growing up,

    my father made sure I treat every woman with courtesy and respect. His philosophy would be that you treat every woman as you would your mother or your sister. In case there are any perverts reading this, allow me to translate: Would you want another man hitting your sister or...
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Cause men know better

    than to hit a girl. This is because of the fact that physically, a boy is always stronger than the girl. We were all made that way. A strength of a man should be used to preotect somebody, not use it against them.
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    Bartending Sometimes Comes With Frustration

    I've seen so many men become complete ******** as they drink throughout the night. Men who treat their women with respect, who love and care for them turn into Mr Hyde once alcohol touches their lips. I myself have been punched, spit on, yelled at...you name it while trying to...
    jackdaniels1967 jackdaniels1967 46-50, M 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    It's true. I've been in some ****** up

    relationships. My ex broke my collar bone by shoving me so hard I saw black and couldn't get up until the paramedics injected me with a bunch of morphine. I stayed with him. Because I was the one who initiated the fight, technically. He was spraying me with a spray bottle and...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 29

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    In 8th grade I thought

    that this guy really liked me.. I went to his house a few times and he kept tryin to get me to do things to him.. I was with him for three years, I'm a junior in high school and my freshman year, was the first time he hit me. He got mad over everything and the middle of freshman...
    ashabash97 ashabash97 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    OMG this is the reality people don't be HTRO.

    ... The Fact that Heterosexuality Exists in Males is proof that Sexual Orientation is not a Choice
    HmidGainer HmidGainer 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    here's what I think:

    if a woman hits a man first, he deserves to hit her back. if she thinks she's strong enough to dish it, then she better be strong enough to take it. but if a man hits a woman first, he deserves to get hit right back. but i also believe if you don't wanna get hit, you shouldn't...
    KaliG15 KaliG15 18-21, T 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Monster2354 Monster2354 18-21, M Dec 15, 2014

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    Growing up, my father would remove my glasses

    before striking me. Can't ruin a good pair of glasses. To this day, I flinch when he's behind me. And I don't care for hands around my face. If I were to ever have kids, they would never, ever be allowed around him, especially alone.
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Nopes they don't, men are gifted with strength

    so that they can protect women.
    simplydbest simplydbest 22-25, M 2 Responses May 19

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    Not on purpose. Wrestle

    and pin but dont hit.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    A real man is someone

    who cares about their girlfriend, wife or companion. The second they lie their finger aggressively ans brutally on them, they are immediately a monster and will burn in hell for all eternity.
    LizzyFeet1985 LizzyFeet1985 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    My ex never hit me, but he would grab my arm

    and not let go even if I struggled. When he was mad he would leave bruises.
    hhannahhbabe hhannahhbabe 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Real men don't hit women.

    Real men walk away then come back to talk peacefully, if the girl scream and yell just look at her. don't scream back, wait till she calm down then speak.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    Real men don't hit women a way the they will

    get hurt but but of course yeah on the bed.
    amedlover11 amedlover11 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 10, 2014

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    GrecoItalianBella83 GrecoItalianBella83 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    You Think That It Makes You .........what????

    Think that hitting a woman makes you powerful?   Think it makes you strong? Yea it takes a big man to hit and wound a woman.  It is so hard to crush them and only men who think that women need it to stay in their place. Yea that's it guy be a MAN!!!!  Show...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 59 Responses Dec 14, 2009

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    Yes this is very true

    but it is a two way street women can't just hit men then play the oh I'm a women card nobody should be hitting anyone unless in self defence
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    It doesn't matter if it's a man hitting a woman

    or a woman hitting a man its wrong. Domestic violence is terrible and causes mental and physical scars on everyone effected.
    Elly2020 Elly2020 13-15, F Sep 28, 2014

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    You don't know fear until a man

    who is way taller and stronger then you is standing above you with his fist raised... It's terrifying. If you're a man with any kind of morals you would pick on someone you own size and strength. Granted this doesn't give women the right to hit men either.
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2014

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    I agree that no man should hit a lady,

    but, we are living in the age where everyone deserves equal rights. so real ladies shouldn't hit men either. there are ladies that will take advantage of a man who won't hit and beat him without mercy. so let's go with DONT HIT.
    ramvan ramvan 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    You're no man if you hit a woman.

    You're piece of crap coward.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    princessNIKITA princessNIKITA 31-35, F Jun 5

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    My Boyfriend

    I have been going with this guy for almost 1 yr. Usually he is really nice and fun to be with. But sometimes if I do something dumb or **** him off he grabs me by the hair and slaps me in the face. I know I say and do dumb things sometimes but he shouldn't hit me.
    Karen18597 Karen18597 18-21, F 25 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    A real man is like a real hero.

    He turns out to be the best son when he makes his parents proud. He is a loyal lover when he makes his beloved feel that love is not merely a physical desire, but soul to soul relationship. He is a perfect husband when he loves and respects his wife unconditionally; when he...
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 9 Responses May 20

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    Be A Real Man

    There is no reason to hit a woman, if a guy wants to hit on someone, there are plenty of men. IT would usually be a low life s.o.b. that would do that. IF you are a woman and got that problem, dump his ***. Find a goodies man .
    HotDrumSticks HotDrumSticks 51-55, M Feb 25, 2012

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    Nobody Should Be Hitting Anyone

    Except in self-defense, and even then, grappling or leaving is the better option if it's someone you supposedly "love'.
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    No Hits

    So no hitting me either okay? I have been fighting my whole life. I didn't have much of a choice, it was either fight or die.  Maybe one day I will try my hand at professional fighting.  I am stronger, and tougher then most men. Over the years I became a pretty good fighter...
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 14 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Any man who hits a lady would hate to feel my

    wrath! I'd take em out Batman style!
    CayTizzle CayTizzle 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    Insecuritied and weakness transformed in

    violence towards someone who loves you...one of the lowest things ever.Really really ugly.
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    Bullies And Cowards: Men Who Hit Women

    I was raised that a man never hits a woman and that it is a man's duty to protect women, children, the elderly, and anyone who can not defend themselves. I have lived my life holding that belief. I have known women who consistently came to work with bruises. They would...
    olddreams olddreams 56-60, M 12 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    Fear.

    It's easy when You weigh 300 pounds, with a 6 feet tall to hurt a young woman of 110 pounds with 5 feet. Try to hurt someone of 350 pounds, 7 feet tall, and karate instructor... Then You'll laugh on the wrong side of Your mouth... Pfff, fearfull and coward :|
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Real men don't hit at all.

    Real women also don't hit. No gender has the right to attack someone, unless it is self defence.
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 18-21, T 2 Responses Mar 25

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