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I Think Real Men Dont Hit Women

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    hippygod1 hippygod1 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    In 8th grade I thought

    that this guy really liked me.. I went to his house a few times and he kept tryin to get me to do things to him.. I was with him for three years, I'm a junior in high school and my freshman year, was the first time he hit me. He got mad over everything and the middle of freshman...
    ashabash97 ashabash97 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Mine Did. . .

    But he is hardly a real man. He is a spineless bully who was the big shot while he was in control. NOW he has none. I have it all, and sometimes it is wonderful how pay back works. I just let him sit and think about what he did to me. Our daughter wants nothing to do with him...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    You Think That It Makes You .........what????

    Think that hitting a woman makes you powerful?   Think it makes you strong? Yea it takes a big man to hit and wound a woman.  It is so hard to crush them and only men who think that women need it to stay in their place. Yea that's it guy be a MAN!!!!  Show...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 60 Responses Dec 14, 2009

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    Men Dont Hit Women?

    Do you feel good that you hit your wife or girlfriend?? Do you feel happy that she has to go the hospital?? Does it make you tough to hit your wife or girlfriend?? NO SH!T OF COURSE IT DOESNT!! You are supposed to protect your wife or girlfriend and cheer them up when they are...
    Peachie66 Peachie66 13-15, F Feb 9, 2011

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    It's Never Justified ...

    No man has ever lifted a hand towards me in anger. It's a scenario which has never been part of my life in any shape or form. I've known women who have been victims of domestic violence and have heard some horrific stories first hand. It amazes me how women can go back to a...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 10 Responses Sep 24, 2010

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    Bartending Sometimes Comes With Frustration

    I've seen so many men become complete ******** as they drink throughout the night. Men who treat their women with respect, who love and care for them turn into Mr Hyde once alcohol touches their lips. I myself have been punched, spit on, yelled at...you name it while trying to...
    jackdaniels1967 jackdaniels1967 46-50, M 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    My Boyfriend

    I have been going with this guy for almost 1 yr. Usually he is really nice and fun to be with. But sometimes if I do something dumb or **** him off he grabs me by the hair and slaps me in the face. I know I say and do dumb things sometimes but he shouldn't hit me.
    Karen18597 Karen18597 18-21, F 31 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    Be A Real Man

    There is no reason to hit a woman, if a guy wants to hit on someone, there are plenty of men. IT would usually be a low life s.o.b. that would do that. IF you are a woman and got that problem, dump his ***. Find a goodies man .
    HotDrumSticks HotDrumSticks 51-55, M Feb 25, 2012

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    Hi Im A Little Nervous About Doing This...I Think Real Men Dont Hit Women

    i was thirteen. my boyfriend raped me and then hit me off and on until i was 19.why demand my story? im just trying to get help. i dont need to qualify for this.
    Feb 7, 2013

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    Any man who hits a lady would hate to feel my

    wrath! I'd take em out Batman style!
    CayTizzle CayTizzle 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    They Are Cowards!

    No man hits a woman under no circumstance I don't care if you are high or drunk violence doesn't solve a thing.Now I might have a short temper but I don't use violence to solve anything!!! And I hate that women with low self esteem stay with the guy because in their mind they are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    I Have Finally Realize

                                        Since I was 10. When I was young I use to have so much Hatred Tours Women and including older than me. One day, I was sitting right next to her while I was cleaning out my desk until she grabbed my @ss, I Aggressively punched...
    Cupcake2 Cupcake2 22-25, M Mar 11, 2011

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    No Hits

    So no hitting me either okay? I have been fighting my whole life. I didn't have much of a choice, it was either fight or die.  Maybe one day I will try my hand at professional fighting.  I am stronger, and tougher then most men. Over the years I became a pretty good fighter...
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 20 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Thisguy28 Thisguy28 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    I Know They Don't...if They Did, They Would Stand Up To Me....

    I agree. I have never hit a woman, but I have hit several men that have. I was raised to respect and treat a woman with kindness. My father was exactly the same, which is why I am the way I am and the way my son is today. I found it appalling the number of men that would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    Ashamed

    Ashamed to admit the fact that when first married I threw our toaster at my wife in front of our 2 young children. Wife had to go to ER. A second time I threw a sacer? at her. And several years after that I came OUT to her as being Bi. It has been 44 years & we are still...
    OregonJoe OregonJoe 70+, M 3 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Whatever Floats Your Boat

    Let me say, first...I am not referring to the men that practice domestic discipline (consensual) with your SO. So, you guys that like that kind of extracurricular activity - more power to you and save your electricity. I'm talking about the men who hit women in the face and give...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Real Men

    Real men,Don't hit women,They treat with respect,The way,Everyone should,Why they don't,I don'no,I'll never understand,Women are for lovin'.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Apr 6, 2012

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    Twenty-five years ago,

    just out of high school she had wed Then five years later she walked away From his hits and things he'd said She gave him all she could And take was all he'd done So she left his side with her beat- up pride A daughter,and a son. She professed herself a fresh start And her kids...
    say81 say81 51-55, M Feb 5

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    Real Men Don't Hit Women

    or anyone else, for that matter. Violence is not a male attribute. It's a psychological problem. 
    onlinegrandpa onlinegrandpa 61-65 10 Responses Nov 22, 2008

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    Really

    If you have to use your superior strength to beat up a woman you are far, far, far from a "real man".
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Just A Joke... Yea Right

    My best friends ex was still my really good friend after he dumped her. One day i went to the park with him, his cousin, and my two friends. We were hanging out and *Jeff is known as a pretty tough guy. As a joke he started hitting my cheek. At first it was just really softly...
    cookielove4 cookielove4 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

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    Almost Once

    i got that angry only one time in my entire life, but i could not bring it to bear.  it just went against all the values i was raised under, and the knowledge that the virtues of a woman are something a man should behold.
    volvo4444 volvo4444 41-45, M Nov 13, 2010

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    Hands To Yourself!

    A real man, or a man in general shouldn't put their hands on any woman. No matter what the situation is. Nor should a woman put her hands or a man. Everyone should keep their hands to they're self's. It don't matter how mad, angry, crazy, or have bad the problem is you shouldn't...
    Cyliste Cyliste 18-21, F Nov 30, 2011

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    Real men don't hit women a way the they will

    get hurt but but of course yeah on the bed.
    amedlover11 amedlover11 18-21, M Jul 10

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    So I'm against using the terms "real men"

    or "real women"... But something really irritated me greatly recently. Of course, most people know by now of the recent tape released of Solange, Beyonces sister, hitting Jay-Z. What I didn't understand was all the hate Jay-Z received. He was labeled as weak, a punk, a coward...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses May 16

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    Real Men

    These men aren't real men, they are coward!Afterwards, I wonder if they feel sorry for what they have done?I actually know a girl who her man had done it to her.  It wasn't long they were married too.  He beat her while in the car.  A driver spotted them and called the cops...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2011

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    To Win Without Danger We Triumph Without Glory.

    To triumph in the fight and to deserve the applauses of the crowd, it is not the supreme art. We do not prove its strength by lifting a duck's feather; who sees the sun and the moon has inevitably no sharp vision, who hears the rumbling of the thunder has necessarily no fine...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2011

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    Bullies And Cowards: Men Who Hit Women

    I was raised that a man never hits a woman and that it is a man's duty to protect women, children, the elderly, and anyone who can not defend themselves. I have lived my life holding that belief. I have known women who consistently came to work with bruises. They would...
    olddreams olddreams 56-60, M 9 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    They Do Why Also Kill All And Any Best Women Always - We A Very Huge Danger To Men's Only Monopoly Worldwide

    THEY ALSO SIGN FAKE CONTRACTS FOR YOU. BUY ALL PEOPLE SITUATIONS AROUND.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Jan 26, 2010

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    You don't know fear until a man

    who is way taller and stronger then you is standing above you with his fist raised... It's terrifying. If you're a man with any kind of morals you would pick on someone you own size and strength. Granted this doesn't give women the right to hit men either.
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15

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    Only

    Real men only hit women if they have been attacked first. Women can't get away with hitting a man just because she is a female
    michaelnutty25 michaelnutty25 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Here's To The Liars And Crazies!

    So this is a post from HOHOFMYHOUSE on May 22nd from a 41-45 year old man. He told me a likes to abuse his wife for one but claims I'm judgemental and he lied about I message claiming I sent him personally to his inbox. So I say to him....from all my posts on here no one really...
    Natalie123ariel Natalie123ariel 22-25, F 1 Response May 25, 2012

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    Nobody Should Be Hitting Anyone

    Except in self-defense, and even then, grappling or leaving is the better option if it's someone you supposedly "love'.
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    And Women Shouldnt Hit Men

    a man that has to hit a woman does not need a women. women were made 2 love and enjoy! my first ex wife use to get high and think she could beat up bruce lee but she never could find him so she would hit on me instead. the first 5 or 10 blows i would take from her was o'k...
    mitch691 mitch691 41-45, M Oct 7, 2011

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    Fear.

    It's easy when You weigh 300 pounds, with a 6 feet tall to hurt a young woman of 110 pounds with 5 feet. Try to hurt someone of 350 pounds, 7 feet tall, and karate instructor... Then You'll laugh on the wrong side of Your mouth... Pfff, fearfull and coward :|
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Little Ears Upstairs

    who would believe if i told my story of screams and beatings so close to me that i couldnt help the feelings of hopelessness as i listened to the one who gave me life be beaten within inches of her life day in and day out why would someone let there child hear there screams and...
    13thstep13 13thstep13 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2011

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    I Won't Do It Again

    I have been with abusers in three of my earlier relationships. I thought they were sorry *****. I hated myself for not being able to realize that I had gotten back into it after getting out of the last one! Why could I not see it coming before I got into the...
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F 7 Responses May 29, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I'm young, yes but even I know the difference between boys and men. Boys claim they are just the **** because they "have girls", your right you have GIRLS not women. A real man...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Simply because our women deserve it, just imagine a world without the ladies, now you have more than one good reason to respect every woman in your life !
    JohnsonDavidson JohnsonDavidson 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Men who hit women do not even deserve to be called men.
    thatguy3500 thatguy3500 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are so many differences....with everything....and if you think about it, men and women aren't exactly equal. In certain ways, yes. But in most, not at all. It seems to me...
    Kawiicatnipotaku Kawiicatnipotaku 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Guys who hit women are big sissies!!
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 2

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    correction: I hate guys that hit women who haven't done anything or are doing it for control over the woman.
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I also am attracted to both men and women. I am a feminine woman married to a man. Both sexes turn me on, but I LOVE lesbian ****!!!
    Gdsgirl Gdsgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    sometimes people that you think they love you , they are actually trying to make you a little stupid so it's better if we just try to get along as friends.
    starglaze124 starglaze124 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I don't think the title of this group is specific enough. Nobody should hit anybody, but if a woman started attacking me for no good reason, I would definitely hit back. Should I...
    annoyedagnostic annoyedagnostic 18-21, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really hate that type of men who beat women. They should be sent to mental asylum or they should be just killed.
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    I can't even explain how much I agree with this . Men who hit young lady's or women are called girl bashes. Fullstop!
    Makaleetah Makaleetah 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a guy & I've NEVER hit a girl. & I never will. The man who hits a girl is a coward & should be shot. I don't care if he's had a rough upbringing. That's no excuse to hit one...
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    As long as we judge each other harshly without taking time to understand each other's point of view...it will always be Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus!!!  I...
    Shewolfiie69 Shewolfiie69 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 28