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I Think Real Men Dont Hit Women

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    My Boyfriend

    I have been going with this guy for almost 1 yr. Usually he is really nice and fun to be with. But sometimes if I do something dumb or **** him off he grabs me by the hair and slaps me in the face. I know I say and do dumb things sometimes but he shouldn't hit me.
    Karen18597 Karen18597 18-21, F 25 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    You don't know fear until a man

    who is way taller and stronger then you is standing above you with his fist raised... It's terrifying. If you're a man with any kind of morals you would pick on someone you own size and strength. Granted this doesn't give women the right to hit men either.
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    Cause men know better

    than to hit a girl. This is because of the fact that physically, a boy is always stronger than the girl. We were all made that way. A strength of a man should be used to preotect somebody, not use it against them.
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Real men don't hit women a way the they will

    get hurt but but of course yeah on the bed.
    amedlover11 amedlover11 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Almost Once

    i got that angry only one time in my entire life, but i could not bring it to bear.  it just went against all the values i was raised under, and the knowledge that the virtues of a woman are something a man should behold.
    volvo4444 volvo4444 41-45, M Nov 13, 2010

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    I made that mistake with one of my female

    friends when I was 14. I had no intentions of hitting her whatsoever because she knew that it was completely out of character for me to even think of doing that. It was one of those "heat of the moment" situations where you momentarily go blank. She was trying to get me to calm...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Be A Real Man

    There is no reason to hit a woman, if a guy wants to hit on someone, there are plenty of men. IT would usually be a low life s.o.b. that would do that. IF you are a woman and got that problem, dump his ***. Find a goodies man .
    HotDrumSticks HotDrumSticks 51-55, M Feb 25, 2012

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    Fear.

    It's easy when You weigh 300 pounds, with a 6 feet tall to hurt a young woman of 110 pounds with 5 feet. Try to hurt someone of 350 pounds, 7 feet tall, and karate instructor... Then You'll laugh on the wrong side of Your mouth... Pfff, fearfull and coward :|
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I don't think a real man dates a woman

    who would entice him to hit her. If a man and a woman have an issue they should be able to talk it out without violence. Generally using your strength against someone weaker is abusive and oppressive and only causes problems and those who do it should be shunned or outcasted...
    crowe15 crowe15 22-25, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Real men Shouldn't hit women.

    Doesn't matter if he thinks she cheating. You don't hit a women. I hate when drunk man or guys who think they can slave a women & hit her. It drives me crazy. Want to throw hot *** boiling water on his *** and beat him with a bat!!!!!!!!
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    Think Before You Act I don't like

    when people touch me without permission . It threatens, agitates, and scares me. If we argue and there's no pre-understanding, Do Not touch me. I can react before I think as well. My father is something like a man and he will not hit a female in her face on purpose because men...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    Whatever Floats Your Boat

    Let me say, first...I am not referring to the men that practice domestic discipline (consensual) with your SO. So, you guys that like that kind of extracurricular activity - more power to you and save your electricity. I'm talking about the men who hit women in the face and give...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Jul 5, 2013

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    I Know They Don't...if They Did, They Would Stand Up To Me....

    I agree. I have never hit a woman, but I have hit several men that have. I was raised to respect and treat a woman with kindness. My father was exactly the same, which is why I am the way I am and the way my son is today. I found it appalling the number of men that would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    It's Never Justified ...

    No man has ever lifted a hand towards me in anger. It's a scenario which has never been part of my life in any shape or form. I've known women who have been victims of domestic violence and have heard some horrific stories first hand. It amazes me how women can go back to a...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 10 Responses Sep 24, 2010

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    Thisguy28 Thisguy28 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Goes without saying. No one should ever be

    abused, in any way. There's simply NO excuse. Ever. No "I didn't mean it", no "it won't happen again". If you mean what you're saying, go turn yourself in to the police to prove you're honest.
    Zabecki Zabecki 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 8

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    They Are Cowards!

    No man hits a woman under no circumstance I don't care if you are high or drunk violence doesn't solve a thing.Now I might have a short temper but I don't use violence to solve anything!!! And I hate that women with low self esteem stay with the guy because in their mind they are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    Here's To The Liars And Crazies!

    So this is a post from HOHOFMYHOUSE on May 22nd from a 41-45 year old man. He told me a likes to abuse his wife for one but claims I'm judgemental and he lied about I message claiming I sent him personally to his inbox. So I say to him....from all my posts on here no one really...
    Natalie123ariel Natalie123ariel 22-25, F 1 Response May 25, 2012

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    Only

    Real men only hit women if they have been attacked first. Women can't get away with hitting a man just because she is a female
    michaelnutty25 michaelnutty25 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Nobody Should Be Hitting Anyone

    Except in self-defense, and even then, grappling or leaving is the better option if it's someone you supposedly "love'.
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    Bartending Sometimes Comes With Frustration

    I've seen so many men become complete ******** as they drink throughout the night. Men who treat their women with respect, who love and care for them turn into Mr Hyde once alcohol touches their lips. I myself have been punched, spit on, yelled at...you name it while trying to...
    jackdaniels1967 jackdaniels1967 46-50, M 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    Yes this is very true

    but it is a two way street women can't just hit men then play the oh I'm a women card nobody should be hitting anyone unless in self defence
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    It doesn't matter if it's a man hitting a woman

    or a woman hitting a man its wrong. Domestic violence is terrible and causes mental and physical scars on everyone effected.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F Sep 28

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    Real Men Don't Hit Women

    or anyone else, for that matter. Violence is not a male attribute. It's a psychological problem. 
    onlinegrandpa onlinegrandpa 61-65 10 Responses Nov 22, 2008

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    Forders2 Forders2 18-21, F Sep 27

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    No Hits

    So no hitting me either okay? I have been fighting my whole life. I didn't have much of a choice, it was either fight or die.  Maybe one day I will try my hand at professional fighting.  I am stronger, and tougher then most men. Over the years I became a pretty good fighter...
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 20 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    hippygod1 hippygod1 22-25, M Dec 10, 2013

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Insecuritied and weakness transformed in

    violence towards someone who loves you...one of the lowest things ever.Really really ugly.
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Real Men

    Real men,Don't hit women,They treat with respect,The way,Everyone should,Why they don't,I don'no,I'll never understand,Women are for lovin'.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Apr 6, 2012

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    Really

    If you have to use your superior strength to beat up a woman you are far, far, far from a "real man".
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Monster2354 Monster2354 18-21, M a week ago

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    In 8th grade I thought

    that this guy really liked me.. I went to his house a few times and he kept tryin to get me to do things to him.. I was with him for three years, I'm a junior in high school and my freshman year, was the first time he hit me. He got mad over everything and the middle of freshman...
    ashabash97 ashabash97 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    You Think That It Makes You .........what????

    Think that hitting a woman makes you powerful?   Think it makes you strong? Yea it takes a big man to hit and wound a woman.  It is so hard to crush them and only men who think that women need it to stay in their place. Yea that's it guy be a MAN!!!!  Show...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 60 Responses Dec 14, 2009

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    Any man who hits a lady would hate to feel my

    wrath! I'd take em out Batman style!
    CayTizzle CayTizzle 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    Bullies And Cowards: Men Who Hit Women

    I was raised that a man never hits a woman and that it is a man's duty to protect women, children, the elderly, and anyone who can not defend themselves. I have lived my life holding that belief. I have known women who consistently came to work with bruises. They would...
    olddreams olddreams 56-60, M 10 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    Twenty-five years ago,

    just out of high school she had wed Then five years later she walked away From his hits and things he'd said She gave him all she could And take was all he'd done So she left his side with her beat- up pride A daughter,and a son. She professed herself a fresh start And her kids...
    say81 say81 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 5

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