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I Think Real Men Dont Hit Women

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    Bartending Sometimes Comes With Frustration

    I've seen so many men become complete ******** as they drink throughout the night. Men who treat their women with respect, who love and care for them turn into Mr Hyde once alcohol touches their lips. I myself have been punched, spit on, yelled at...you name it while trying to...
    jackdaniels1967 jackdaniels1967 46-50, M 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    It's true. I've been in some ****** up

    relationships. My ex broke my collar bone by shoving me so hard I saw black and couldn't get up until the paramedics injected me with a bunch of morphine. I stayed with him. Because I was the one who initiated the fight, technically. He was spraying me with a spray bottle and...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 29, 2015

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    GrecoItalianBella83 GrecoItalianBella83 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 11, 2015

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    When I was growing up,

    my father made sure I treat every woman with courtesy and respect. His philosophy would be that you treat every woman as you would your mother or your sister. In case there are any perverts reading this, allow me to translate: Would you want another man hitting your sister or...
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 20, 2015

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    A real man is someone

    who cares about their girlfriend, wife or companion. The second they lie their finger aggressively ans brutally on them, they are immediately a monster and will burn in hell for all eternity.
    LizzyFeet1985 LizzyFeet1985 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 17, 2015

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    A little slap will not kill a man,

    but if a guy repeatedly punched a woman it can lead to death. I feel like the "No one should be hitting anyone" or the "she shouldn't have hit him first" argument is invalid many people forget that men are physically stronger than women. I know it sounds like an excuse, but...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    OMG this is the reality people don't be HTRO.

    ... The Fact that Heterosexuality Exists in Males is proof that Sexual Orientation is not a Choice
    HmidGainer HmidGainer 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 29, 2015

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    I agree that no man should hit a lady,

    but, we are living in the age where everyone deserves equal rights. so real ladies shouldn't hit men either. there are ladies that will take advantage of a man who won't hit and beat him without mercy. so let's go with DONT HIT.
    ramvan ramvan 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 25, 2015

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    Fear.

    It's easy when You weigh 300 pounds, with a 6 feet tall to hurt a young woman of 110 pounds with 5 feet. Try to hurt someone of 350 pounds, 7 feet tall, and karate instructor... Then You'll laugh on the wrong side of Your mouth... Pfff, fearfull and coward :|
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    My Boyfriend

    I have been going with this guy for almost 1 yr. Usually he is really nice and fun to be with. But sometimes if I do something dumb or **** him off he grabs me by the hair and slaps me in the face. I know I say and do dumb things sometimes but he shouldn't hit me.
    Karen18597 Karen18597 18-21, F 25 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    Growing up, my father would remove my glasses

    before striking me. Can't ruin a good pair of glasses. To this day, I flinch when he's behind me. And I don't care for hands around my face. If I were to ever have kids, they would never, ever be allowed around him, especially alone.
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2015

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    My very dear friend was murdered 2 days ago at

    the bank where she worked. She had an order of protection against him. The night before the incident the police were called because he was at her house screaming threats to kill her. Why he was not arrested then has still not been explained. He called her that morning and told...
    bellaboo68 bellaboo68 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2015

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    here's what I think:

    if a woman hits a man first, he deserves to hit her back. if she thinks she's strong enough to dish it, then she better be strong enough to take it. but if a man hits a woman first, he deserves to get hit right back. but i also believe if you don't wanna get hit, you shouldn't...
    KaliG15 KaliG15 18-21, T 2 Responses Mar 25, 2015

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    Bullies And Cowards: Men Who Hit Women

    I was raised that a man never hits a woman and that it is a man's duty to protect women, children, the elderly, and anyone who can not defend themselves. I have lived my life holding that belief. I have known women who consistently came to work with bruises. They would...
    olddreams olddreams 56-60, M 12 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    You don't know fear until a man

    who is way taller and stronger then you is standing above you with his fist raised... It's terrifying. If you're a man with any kind of morals you would pick on someone you own size and strength. Granted this doesn't give women the right to hit men either.
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2014

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    My ex boyfriend beat me all the time

    and still does and hi favorite thing to do though if he's not beating me is slap me in the face so hard that I fall over
    Keyana136 Keyana136 13-15 21 Responses Nov 8, 2015

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    Real men don't hit women.

    Real men walk away then come back to talk peacefully, if the girl scream and yell just look at her. don't scream back, wait till she calm down then speak.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2015

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    When a woman hits me,

    I just walk away. If they slap me, I just walk away. If they push me down, I just walk away. If they kick me, I just walk away. But if they continue, I swear I will hit em back once. This is the same thing that I do when men do it to me but if they do it too much, i'll will...
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000 13-15, M 3 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    Who waits until the loaf is gone to eat the end

    pieces of the bread? My mom does. I remember she corrected me one morning in front of my stepfather. I was going to make a sandwich and grabbed the end pieces. He then corrected her, telling her that doesn't matter. I stood there, age six, happy that he was on my side. I...
    chapter7 chapter7 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 3, 2015

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    I ve been betrayed with a man

    who hits her .. I prefer to hurt myself but she choose the man who hits her .. I don't like the man who hits ladies but why ladies like to be hurt
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 10, 2015

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    Yes this is very true

    but it is a two way street women can't just hit men then play the oh I'm a women card nobody should be hitting anyone unless in self defence
    Sproketsocet Sproketsocet 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 28, 2014

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    Insecuritied and weakness transformed in

    violence towards someone who loves you...one of the lowest things ever.Really really ugly.
    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    Nopes they don't, men are gifted with strength

    so that they can protect women.
    simplydbest simplydbest 22-25, M 2 Responses May 19, 2015

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    A real man is like a real hero.

    He turns out to be the best son when he makes his parents proud. He is a loyal lover when he makes his beloved feel that love is not merely a physical desire, but soul to soul relationship. He is a perfect husband when he loves and respects his wife unconditionally; when he...
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 9 Responses May 20, 2015

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    You are supposed to be the one

    who protects them. Some people might be like "What if they are hitting you?". Walk away then. If she jumps onto you, push her off. But if she gets you down, punches you repeatedly, and you might be in actual danger......punch her lights out. Only time when it is justified in...
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair 18-21, M Oct 18, 2015

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    In general, I don't support any statement

    that's starts with "Real women..." Or "Real me...", but I came here to say: The cycle of violence can be stopped. You have just as much power as any other man who's been exposed to this behavior to say, "This dies with you," to whomever brought this despicable behavior into...
    MostlyBehaved MostlyBehaved 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2015

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    Even if a woman shoves on a man a

    dude should not shove or hit back because a woman could be carrying a child or getting over a illness or surgery the need respect an kindness.
    marblemuck marblemuck 66-70, M 2 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    Real men don't hit at all.

    Real women also don't hit. No gender has the right to attack someone, unless it is self defence.
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 18-21, T 2 Responses Mar 25, 2015

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    You Think That It Makes You .........what????

    Think that hitting a woman makes you powerful?   Think it makes you strong? Yea it takes a big man to hit and wound a woman.  It is so hard to crush them and only men who think that women need it to stay in their place. Yea that's it guy be a MAN!!!!  Show...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 59 Responses Dec 14, 2009

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    You're no man if you hit a woman.

    You're piece of crap coward.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 7, 2015

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    princessNIKITA princessNIKITA 31-35, F Jun 5, 2015

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    My ex never hit me, but he would grab my arm

    and not let go even if I struggled. When he was mad he would leave bruises.
    hhannahhbabe hhannahhbabe 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2015

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    Got thrown into a table the other day .

    Broke up with this kid for the third time . Eventhough he was abusive at times he's always on my mind . I love him. He's mysterious and kind , but can snap and be dangerous . I needed to get out, but I want to be in .
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

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    My guy has never hit me (he wouldn't dare.

    He'd rather hurt himself) or screamed at me in these 5 yrs (and counting) we've been together. I tend to yell and throw frequent bursts because of my personality but hes still the same with me by never leaving my side and being supportive. He just hugs and kisses me instead of...
    XXLovelyPoisonXX XXLovelyPoisonXX 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2015

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    I was eleven at the time,

    and my sister was nineteen. She was dating a twenty five year old man, and they argued constantly. One day my sister was showering and he wanted to use the bathroom, she turned off the water, and said "give me a minute" real nicely. He pounded on the door, shouting a multitude...
    ExperienceCrusaderSea ExperienceCrusaderSea 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 14, 2015

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    In 8th grade I thought

    that this guy really liked me.. I went to his house a few times and he kept tryin to get me to do things to him.. I was with him for three years, I'm a junior in high school and my freshman year, was the first time he hit me. He got mad over everything and the middle of freshman...
    ashabash97 ashabash97 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6, 2014

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    Real men don't hit women.

    Period. A real men knows how to handle such a situation. That is what maturity is.
    Gallantio Gallantio 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 30

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    In my opinion, men who hit women are cowards

    just like those who assault the handicap, children, animals or any other kind of bully. They think it is a sign of so-called manhood to terrorize those who are weaker than them. If you want to show how much of a man you are how about doing something to make this world a better...
    Solitaireman Solitaireman 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 16, 2015

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