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I Think Real Men Dont Hit Women

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    Mine Did. . . - But he is hardly a real man. He is a spineless bully who was the big shot while he was in control. NOW he has none. I have it all, and sometimes it is wonderful...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    Any man who hits a lady would hate to feel my wrath! I'd take em out Batman style!
    CayTizzle CayTizzle 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I sometimes hate people a lot
    Thisguy28 Thisguy28 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Only - Real men only hit women if they have been attacked first. Women can't get away with hitting a man just because she is a female
    michaelnutty25 michaelnutty25 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Real Men Don't Hit Women - or anyone else, for that matter. Violence is not a male attribute. It's a psychological problem. 
    onlinegrandpa onlinegrandpa 61-65 10 Responses Nov 22, 2008

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    Little Ears Upstairs - who would believe if i told my story of screams and beatings so close to me that i couldnt help the feelings of hopelessness as i listened to the one who...
    13thstep13 13thstep13 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2011

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    No Hits - So no hitting me either okay? I have been fighting my whole life. I didn't have much of a choice, it was either fight or die.  Maybe one day I will try my hand at...
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 20 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Nobody Should Be Hitting Anyone - Except in self-defense, and even then, grappling or leaving is the better option if it's someone you supposedly "love'.
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    Just A Joke... Yea Right - My best friends ex was still my really good friend after he dumped her. One day i went to the park with him, his cousin, and my two friends. We were...
    cookielove4 cookielove4 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2011

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    They Are Cowards! - No man hits a woman under no circumstance I don't care if you are high or drunk violence doesn't solve a thing.Now I might have a short temper but I don't use...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2012

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    My Boyfriend - I have been going with this guy for almost 1 yr. Usually he is really nice and fun to be with. But sometimes if I do something dumb or **** him off he grabs me by...
    Karen18597 Karen18597 18-21, F 32 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    Bullies And Cowards: Men Who Hit Women - I was raised that a man never hits a woman and that it is a man's duty to protect women, children, the elderly, and anyone who can not...
    olddreams olddreams 56-60, M 8 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    Twenty-five years ago, just out of high school she had wed Then five years later she walked away From his hits and things he'd said She gave him all she could And take was all he'd...
    say81 say81 51-55, M Feb 5

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    Ashamed - Ashamed to admit the fact that when first married I threw our toaster at my wife in front of our 2 young children. Wife had to go to ER. A second time I threw a sacer? at...
    OregonJoe OregonJoe 70+, M 3 Responses Nov 21, 2008

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    Here's To The Liars And Crazies! - So this is a post from HOHOFMYHOUSE on May 22nd from a 41-45 year old man. He told me a likes to abuse his wife for one but claims I'm...
    Natalie123ariel Natalie123ariel 22-25, F 1 Response May 25, 2012

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    Really - If you have to use your superior strength to beat up a woman you are far, far, far from a "real man".
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Real Men - These men aren't real men, they are coward!Afterwards, I wonder if they feel sorry for what they have done?I actually know a girl who her man had done it to her.  It...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2011

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    Bartending Sometimes Comes With Frustration - I've seen so many men become complete ******** as they drink throughout the night. Men who treat their women with respect, who love...
    jackdaniels1967 jackdaniels1967 46-50, M 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    Fear. - It's easy when You weigh 300 pounds, with a 6 feet tall to hurt a young woman of 110 pounds with 5 feet. Try to hurt someone of 350 pounds, 7 feet tall, and karate...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Real Men - Real men,Don't hit women,They treat with respect,The way,Everyone should,Why they don't,I don'no,I'll never understand,Women are for lovin'.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Apr 6, 2012

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    Almost Once - i got that angry only one time in my entire life, but i could not bring it to bear.  it just went against all the values i was raised under, and the knowledge...
    volvo4444 volvo4444 41-45, M Nov 13, 2010

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    Whatever Floats Your Boat - Let me say, first...I am not referring to the men that practice domestic discipline (consensual) with your SO. So, you guys that like that kind of...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Jul 5, 2013

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    They Do Why Also Kill All And Any Best Women Always - We A Very Huge Danger To Men's Only Monopoly Worldwide - THEY ALSO SIGN FAKE CONTRACTS FOR YOU. BUY ALL PEOPLE SITUATIONS...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Jan 26, 2010

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    Cowards - So. Manly, beating up on someone weaker and probably a lot smaller than yourself! There is no excuse! Even if she cheated on you, just walk away! Guy that repeatedly...
    Galahad727 Galahad727 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    Be A Real Man - There is no reason to hit a woman, if a guy wants to hit on someone, there are plenty of men. IT would usually be a low life s.o.b. that would do that. IF you are...
    HotDrumSticks HotDrumSticks 51-55, M Feb 25, 2012

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    To Win Without Danger We Triumph Without Glory. - To triumph in the fight and to deserve the applauses of the crowd, it is not the supreme art. We do not prove its strength by...
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2011

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    Hi Im A Little Nervous About Doing This...I Think Real Men Dont Hit Women - i was thirteen. my boyfriend raped me and then hit me off and on until i was 19.why demand my story...
    Feb 7, 2013

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    I'm a shield for women not a sword to strike them down. Quoting myself.
    hippygod1 hippygod1 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    In 8th grade I thought that this guy really liked me.. I went to his house a few times and he kept tryin to get me to do things to him.. I was with him for three years, I'm a...
    ashabash97 ashabash97 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I Know They Don't...if They Did, They Would Stand Up To Me.... - I agree. I have never hit a woman, but I have hit several men that have. I was raised to respect and treat a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    I Won't Do It Again - I have been with abusers in three of my earlier relationships. I thought they were sorry *****. I hated myself for not being able to realize that I...
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F 7 Responses May 29, 2009

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    As a Christian, I'm don't really "hate" anybody, so I guess I lied. But my point is more in that I don't believe in hitting women and girls. I would be willing to thug it out...
    DarksBane DarksBane 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I will never have respect for a man who hits and disrespects his significant other. You're a poor excuse for a man. Men who hit women should undergo castration.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 26

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    Seriously I can't stand those kind of men who will hit women. My ex always threaten me, he said if you don't do this ill kill your family and friends. When ever I go to his...
    broadwaybabe99 broadwaybabe99 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    Let's say a guy named Fred is attracted to a woman named Martha. He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights later he asks her out to dinner...
    oldermanlookingforwomen oldermanlookingforwomen 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Let's say a guy named Fred is attracted to a woman named Martha. He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights later he asks her out to dinner...
    ViperRemu ViperRemu 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I find it absolutely disgusting when I see these much older men hitting on young girls especially underage girls. I mean we call ourselves superior species and boast of being...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I fought guys who who hit women, even my dad to be honest
    NathanNathanial NathanNathanial 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    The ONLY way men and women can just be friends is if they are not at all attracted to each other. Instinct always wins.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 21

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    It's wrong both ways nobody should hit anyone.
    BeautifulGirls4eva BeautifulGirls4eva 13-15, F 6 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Can any men out there explain this to me? I don't understand how your sex thinks. This guy and I had been talking for a few months. We had planned to meet up eventually but...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Few years ago I went 2 a house party. Everyone was on about this lad hitting his lass in front of 10 people not 1 person doing anything about it. Later that night he hit her and...
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 6 Responses Mar 17

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    Lol, I love the title of this experience. First, guys don't beat me up without taking a second to ponder my thoughts but we are definitely the weaker of the species. We are...
    WanabeBuxom WanabeBuxom 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    I hate it! - I was never noticed before and I said to my mum "Why do guys never notice me" She said "They do you just never notice them." And since then, the same night I had 2...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Aside from verbal, emotional and psychological abuse my dad hit my mom. I always ask why would a husband hurt someone they vowed to love for the rest of their lives, someone who's...
    FoxxySilverCrow FoxxySilverCrow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    You want to feel powerful? You hit your girl to gain that feeling? Why not take on someone who will fight back? Why abuse the fact that she loves you? Are too afraid to take on...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I saw my best friends boyfriend hit her, and beat the **** out of him. Ended up with a black eye, but he has never raised a finger to her again
    cyraalana2000 cyraalana2000 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    The only way man and women can be just friends is when both are gays ahah true story
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It's like....why do it? :o I mean, I don't like it when anyone gets hit, but when I hear stories of husbands beating on their wives, it just.....Grrrrr! It makes my blood boil...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 24