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I Think Relationships Are So Over Rated

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    Only One Gf

    I've had one, and it never really went anywhere. Never really experienced love or anything like that. Seemed more like a concrete friend that I always had something to do with.
    SkyRookie SkyRookie 36-40, M Apr 4, 2012

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    Or made complicated. Lets face it,

    they will have complications. They tend to be lopsided....one more in love than the other person. One a dreamer, one a thinker. In love at different times. waxes and wanes Stuff a negligee only fixes for the moment, and even that feels weird. Ones soul being pulled by soulful...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    Yes and No

    Depends on the day. And the relationship.I hate bein restricted and will do everything to sabotage the relationship once a man puts restrictions on me.I dont think I actually realise I am doin it until the damage is done.If I could just find a man who would let me be me, and not...
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F Jun 27, 2007

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    At Least Some That I've Tried to Be a Part of

    Well, to be honest, I was part of the problem.  Hell, if you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem so yeah, it was maybe more than 50% my fault the realtionship sputtered and died.  I love people, in the abstract sense.  It's just in the real...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 3 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    Yes and No

    Depends on the day. And the relationship.I hate bein restricted and will do everything to sabotage the relationship once a man puts restrictions on me.I dont think I actually realise I am doin it until the damage is done.If I could just find a man who would let me be me, and not...
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F Jun 27, 2007

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    Just Because I Cant Have Who I Want

    Thats the only reason ...   and it changes  constantly depending on my mood at the time ... one day ill talk about how great love is .. other days i think its a  hunk of romantic bullshit ...  maybe one day ill be able to have what i want .
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2007

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    Who Cares?

    i always have my friends tell me that i should be in a relationship. but why should i? im far too young and whats the point in getting a relationship that will last a month? i find it hilarious when one friend tells me that i should find myself a woman. i enjoy being by myself...
    Babycakes17 Babycakes17 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Love Is A Drug Addiction I No Longer Take Interest In.

    I had two major relationships in my life. One started when I was 15, and lasted three years. The next started when I was 19 and lasted two years. And after that one, everything went to hell. Something never quite was right after the last one. I don't want to go into extreme...
    Liftingmisery Liftingmisery 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    Overrated

    so many ppl get into lifeless comfy boring relationships for the sake of not being alone, stir up drama and cause each other unnecessary harm because they feel the need to be in a relationship. i find relationships way overrated and can't figure out for the life of me why ppl...
    daisuki daisuki 21-25, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2007

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    Thatredheadchick Thatredheadchick 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Chelebub Chelebub 51-55, F Mar 29

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    MiserableandAbused MiserableandAbused 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 22

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    slver slver 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Fyrefox Fyrefox 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    jsk007 jsk007 46-50, M Apr 4

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    genegeek16 genegeek16 13-15, F Apr 12

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    I think it's disgusting how the role of the father seems insignificant to many people. Scorned women often bring their kids up to resent their fathers which is wrong. Not all...
    thisisanick thisisanick 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Yes I do, even as a gay male I find them to be very interesting. I've never had a problem making friends with some of them, straight or gay. I think they find me non threatening...
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I only NOW think that furries are cool. I first I was judging the negative propaganda that the haters were saying.. which meant the whole "unhealthy ...... with animals" thing. I...
    Ruru88 Ruru88 18-21, F Mar 21

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    BRAT Are you a brat or has someone called you a brat? This generally means that you only care about yourself and your attitude is the same. IF you are a woman, I know people tend...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M Mar 23

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    I think above all manners are really important. I feel that there is a difference between being literate and being educated. The fine line between the two is that an educated...
    MINIONPOP MINIONPOP 16-17 1 Response Mar 23

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    Yes, both parents are important. I think that both have to be good parents and they both play an important and separate role in the raising of kids.
    Readytorun567 Readytorun567 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Period. I think it's been this way since the beginning of time. But I've come to learn recently not all men want a Barbie doll woman. Curves are in baby! I'm not blonde, I don't...
    Alexicutie Alexicutie 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    If you If you are kind to someone you are his king if you are in need of him you are beneath him and if you question him you are his equal~
    wwonderer wwonderer 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Why are some people so freaking weird? They expect us not to judge and be open minded but some of y'all are just complete freaks. Do y'all even read what y'all post? Like omg. They...
    valeryxo valeryxo 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    People are strange when you're a stranger Faces look ugly when you're alone Women seem wicked when you're unwanted Streets are uneven when you're down When you're strange Faces...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    Don't get me wrong. The majority of the community here is friendly, supportive and respectful. Even protective if they think that someone is harassing you online. It's the people...
    writercookies writercookies 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Many forget it .especially when they are online.Your behavior online shows what you really are,
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    And I try to avoid them whenever possible. Possibly sometimes it's cultural; many cultures discount females as weak and insignificant without dreams save that which the community...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm a straight girl, but i find women's bodies are way more interesting than men's..
    Loyalty91 Loyalty91 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Nobody can take criticism these days. Nobody can look at themselves objectively without getting hurt. From angsty teenagers to old coots who think they know it all. I may fall...
    mydays1994 mydays1994 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Having a father is having a parent, but it's a whole new person to explore. So many people have so many experiences with their fathers that are beautiful. My parents were very...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I think all to often men feel it's hard to be involved with their kids after the family falls apart. I just put my three to bed and my baby is sleeping next to me now as I type...
    Readytorun567 Readytorun567 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I've noticed majority of criminals came from a single parent household . The kids at my school lots of them have no father they act up at school. They come from single parent...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Gauges are so ******* cute Lolz makes me drool I have gauges myself that's how much I luvz dem!!!!💚 XD
    Skittlesluvsrainbows Skittlesluvsrainbows 13-15, F Mar 30

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    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Be careful what you expect of someone. The pressure to perform can kill any desire and result in someone feeling bad about themselves. In which case they are now closed off to you...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    What age are women at their best
    Darkmoon65 Darkmoon65 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 7

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    I know it's very immature of me, but I think it's hilarious when someone lets a 'silent but deadly' one off. Don't know why.
    EponymousAnonymous EponymousAnonymous 13-15 3 Responses Apr 7

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