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I Think Saying Goodbye Is the Hardest Thing to Do

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    Im honna log off of here

    and deleate this in a few weeks srry if u enjoyed my time * tears *
    YouAreAllPesants YouAreAllPesants 16-17, F Apr 2

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    Goodbye?

    Yes, saying goodbye is the hardest thing to do just not in this situation, my situation. Ever been hurt repeatedly and the one person you trust changes? Yeah my situation. I trusted him more than anything, anyone. But one day everything completely changed and i knew deep down...
    EmotionalSkye EmotionalSkye 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    Saying Goodbye

    Don't say goodbye Cause I don't wanna hear those words tonight Cause maybe it's not the end for you and I And although we knew This time would come for me and you Don't say anything tonight If you're gonna say goodbye I wish we could be laughing Instead I'm standing here asking...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F May 24, 2010

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    It Hurts A Lot.....

    Saying goodbye is one of the hardest thing to do 'cause it does hurt a lot..and am not yet ready or that strong to face/feel the ache it will bring.
    whydoiloveyou whydoiloveyou 36-40, F May 23, 2010

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    Departed

    “Please,” he said. “Please don’t ever leave me.”I look away.So this is what pain feels like.blink. blink blink. Swallow. Exhale. Inhale. Sniff.The sobs begin again.The sting of departure.I glance at him.His eyes glossy.His heart pleading.Searching for clarity.I glance...
    Kimba2992 Kimba2992 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Heal The Soul - Poem

    Heal The Soul Sometimes in the stark revealing daylight Waiting for the nightfall I wonder what I am to do Not really lost, but not really found These things I search for These things I live for These things I die for Yet not really sure what they are Muddled with real...
    OkayBut OkayBut 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 18, 2010

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    Sayig Goodbye to My Soulmate

    My husband was my best friend and soulmate.  We did everything together and had a wonderful life.  We had just built a new house with our savings to retire in.  It was such an adventure planning and working together to make it just what we wanted.  Finally, we...
    BeccaB BeccaB 61-65, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2009

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    What I Miss Right Now

    I'm having a bad day. That's what I've been calling them. Those days that I miss you so much. It's hard to let go of almost 7 years with you. I feel lost right now. I scrolled though some of the stories on here about saying goodbye. At least you are alive. I'm not struggling with...
    Smyers Smyers 31-35, F Apr 23, 2012

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    So I Try Not To

    If I remember, and the problem is I don't always remember, but I try and say see ya later, instead of saying goodbye. It sounds less final.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 15, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I don't like saying goodbye but goodbye to the people I've met today......well until tomorrow because now I'm going to sleep.....so bye
    pattyricia pattyricia 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I hate saying goodbye to people I love. I feel like I could've done something to make it hurt a little less like more hugs or hang outs or talking idk but it's never that. Just...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F Jun 28

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    Its horrible. You've just had lots of fun and now you have to go to boring old home. But saying goodbye at the airport is the worst, it makes me cry for hours.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F Jul 9

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    I hate saying goodbye to him ;( I never know when I'll see him again, it's always surprise visits!
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'll be off for awhile, goodbye. I won't be on as much anymore either, bit busy with somethings aswell, I'll be on my other account or k---eeek 9they filter this lol). Plus, going...
    jakey942 jakey942 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Goodbye seems like you will never see each other again. I prefer cya later.
    PanicAtTheBlink PanicAtTheBlink 13-15, M Jun 29

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    Goodbye is a simple lil word but somehow it seems final like coming to an endBut i know this is only the beginning of something wonderful with you my dear friend.So this word wont...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    No sence sticking around if I just get ignored.. I thought I had friends in here guess not!!!
    mckddy mckddy 36-40, M Jun 24

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    Truth is there's so much to lose.
    fios fios 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I do hate it... I don't even like to hang up... But sometimes you have to say good-bye so you can say hi for new and better stuff... Changes are good... Or that's what people say...
    dalexand16 dalexand16 22-25, F Jul 13

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    Not gonna be useing this anymore 👌 bye
    alonzokim alonzokim 13-15, M 4 hrs ago

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    other than the death of someone you love, is seeing that one person, who you would never give up on, shutting the door and walking away and there is just nothing you can do to...
    mimosasgl mimosasgl 22-25, F Jul 8

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    Life sucks weed keeps me sane i guess it works well as a antidepressant. i have no social life and i probably wont have one anytime soon
    Tywashere Tywashere 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I could honestly say you've been on my mind Since I woke up today I look at your photograph all the time These memories come back to life And I don't mind I remember when we...
    jeannetjayy jeannetjayy 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need to say goodbye to the most important part of my life and I don't even know how to begin. It is said that one is nothing but a sum of their experiences, but what happens when...
    Tanira Tanira 22-25 Jul 3

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    So I may be slow to answer or may not answer at all. Also - I chat with more than 1 person at a time and may be very involved w someone. I will reply to u when I have a chance...
    Sparkle20 Sparkle20 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Life Is Better with out Friends. They Can Not Hurt Me, When They Are Not There as I Need When I Hurt When I Bleed. They Can Not Hurt Me By Being Disappointed With... My Letting...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 1 day ago

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    Good friends are fate. You almost don't even have a choice. It takes time and experience to build friendship. And sometimes it's unexpected. I've known my best friends since the...
    FatmeBazzii FatmeBazzii 16-17, F Jul 10

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    Thinkaholic!I wonder how far we could go if we didn't stop and think? Who do you think get further in life? People who overthink or people who don't give a thought?A lot of...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Why is now in days that we (people in general), always have to find a way to prove our undying love for one another? What happen to " I LOVE YOU", or "YOU MEAN SO MUCH TO ME? I...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know what your probably thinking.. There is no way a teacher can like me more then a student.. But I think he does. First things first he stares at me 24/7! I see him everyday of...
    xsecretsx xsecretsx 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    I often end up daydreaming & similar things. I often end up dreaming & thinking about things that I'd love to do, but most likely can't. It's a nice thing to think about those said...
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    When it gets dark and my world seems to stand still my mind races. I think of all the things I have tried not to think of during the day and there's no more distractions to get rid...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I am the most open person, and thats a thing i like about myself. I think its a good thing to be, but perhaps not to my extent. I will literally have met someone five minutes ago...
    Electropterodactyl Electropterodactyl 18-21 Jul 6

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    Idk what to do anymore I honestly just give up **** it. I know posting this will probably bite me in the *** but I honestly don't care no more. Think I just messed things up with...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Can we get beyond this already! I hate to go the cliché route, but women (and men) come in ALL shapes and sizes, and their weight doesn't make them more or less attractive. HEALTH...
    BabyBurd BabyBurd 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I think it's happening. That familiar rise. I'm sleeping less and less. Starting new projects. Saying yes to everything. Thinking I should start my own business. Drawing...
    UpsideOut UpsideOut 26-30, F 1 Response 46 mins ago

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    goodbye old house that i moved into when i was 6 where you shared my smiles and tears goodbye to the dining room, where dinners full of delciousness and discussions of life and...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I said goodbye to you today. Breaks my heart but I know when it needs to be done. Can you see the tears in my texts? How about the screams from my heart? I'm so sorry you have to...
    Souless33 Souless33 26-30, F Jul 10

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    I started an anti-seizure medication (Topamax) for mood stabilising and migraine control, but had a severe reaction to it that I can only describe as a seizure. I started feeling...
    SuperInferior SuperInferior 22-25 Jul 12

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    I had a weird experience about 10ish years ago and I woke up thinking about it this morning, so I decided to write it up and post it. My sister and I were laughing and talking as...
    SkatingMomma SkatingMomma 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    It is the hardest part, especially when you don't have something to wait for. Or maybe you are unsure of what you are waiting. What is it then? They said that if it really is for...
    Rareforever0524 Rareforever0524 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Sometimes it just really sucks not having someone by your side and to support you. Not saying its has to be a boyfriend it could even be a friend or family member whatever. But...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jul 14

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    Dear Marvin, I apologize for not keeping in touch with my daily logs. I've been a little out of it and busy. But to catch you up of things, ex boyfriend and I are sort of seeing...
    Dandelions9 Dandelions9 22-25, F Jun 25

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    I know this sinking feeling anywhere. It's happening again. I've been depressed most of my teenage years. I have plenty of ups, but there are always downs that follow close behind...
    LettersToTheSky LettersToTheSky 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Goodbyes are not forever, Goodbyes are not the end, they simply mean I'll miss you, Until we meet again.
    allencam05 allencam05 22-25, M Jul 4

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    A 5 year old girl had a panic attack. he passed away, she left and never looked back. She loved her daddy so much. That little girl was me. lost little soul wondering why her daddy...
    kjonesr kjonesr 18-21, F Jul 8

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    Hmmm. What a tough decision. I love my experiences on here but whether or not I can go back and read them, they're mine. Experiences carry a story with them mentally, and it's just...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9