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I Think Sex Is Better When You're In Love

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    I've had sex with a handful of people, some I tried to love and some there wasn't even a chance It's so much better when you can make love with someone. You'll feel so connected  physically and mentally that it's always amazing. To be able to show someone your flaws and...
    MissSunfire MissSunfire
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2010

    I So Agree

    For me random sex with ladies I have no feelings for is not very satisfying. That is probably the main reason in the last few years I no longer meet local ladies online. I have not had sex in around 2 yrs and am tired of ************ for satisfaction, but I want to be with...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 7, 2013

    Everything is better

    when you are in love. The most mundane and boring of tasks (at home) seem infinitely more interesting and almost enjoyable to perform.... but back to sex. When you are in love every touch, stroke, and taste comes with the headiness of that gut wrenching sensation that makes...
    bluebaby072 bluebaby072
    41-45, F
    Jan 6, 2016

    Absolutely Better

    I've ALWAYS had better sex with people I'm in love with, no exceptions. The passion is so much more prominent, and I usually feel more comfortable so I'm a lot more uninhibited...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Nov 30, 2010

    Been There And Done That And I Absolutely Agree.

    You can read my story about being a shared wife when I was with my ex husband. The sex was meaningless and shallow, with no feelings, and I found the enjoyment to be the same. Sometimes it was actually awful. Many times I actually enjoyed my vibrator much more. Eventually I ended...
    bluelady1021 bluelady1021
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2011

    I Really Don't Know

    I imagine that sex might be better when you are in love but I don't really know because I have never been in love. But it is sort of my dream to fall madly in love with a man and that would be the end of my days as a little blonde ****. I would become his little blonde wife, and...
    LittleBlondeSlut LittleBlondeSlut
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2010

    Not Just Sex (love)

    I think sex is better when you're in love because it is very fulfilling. Being in love means you're willing to do whatever it takes to please the one you love. Sex without love is okay if you don't want any strings attached. I've had that most of my life and I feel used after...
    celestialangel celestialangel
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Sep 30, 2008

    Let's Make Love

    Love making is the deepest form of sharing between two people, there is an emotional bond that takes place when a couple is making love together.  Love making is not taking off your clothes and having sexual intimacy for the purposes of personal pleasure...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    17 Responses Feb 8, 2009

    It Really Is

    Sex is so much better. You understand each other better, understand each other's bodies and well... the rhythm is just there....
    georshar georshar
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 9, 2009

    Yes, It's Better

    Sex is better when you're in love. . . by all means.
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2011

    Big Bang, Baby!

    I know it's explosive. Two stars joining, then exploding and being reborn, over and over, across oceans and time portals. I never ever want to fall out of his favour....
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Nov 7, 2008

    Theres No Passion Without Love

    I see a huge diverence when im with someone and not in love with them. I would have to say that the sex is almost terrible if your not in love. The connection with 2 people in love is so remarkable and beautiful that the feelings just burst! they intensify! the best feeling in...
    cheygirl33 cheygirl33
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2010

    Before and After,

    before i fell in love sex just seemed dirty to me, i needed it but didn't know why, i'ld find a Girl, see her home and often the invite was for a " Night-cap." I couldn't refuse, i had nothing better to do, then the words " Let Me slip into something more...
    thebaldeagle thebaldeagle
    41-45, M
    Nov 28, 2008

    No Such Thing

    there is no such thing as bad sex sure most will agree he he
    gamblinman gamblinman
    36-40, M
    Aug 24, 2010

    The "signal"

    I couldn't even make out with someone I am not inlove with. This usually serve as my "signal" whenever I'm in a relationship. My inability to have sex with a person is a clear sign that I don't have feelings for him/her (although I've only had sex with males, I assume it would be...
    wildice wildice
    18-21, F
    Jun 18, 2010

    What's Sex?!

    Did someone just say S E X?! *head perks up , eyes take on a longing ~ lustful expression, K licks lips * Something somewhere twitches... Where do I  get some?
    Lunadelobos Lunadelobos
    9 Responses May 3, 2010

    A Whole Different Beast.

    It's been my experience that sex without love is simply "going through the motions" to arrive at a climax and that other than achieving an ****** all I find myself left with is a feeling of emptiness and not much satisfaction. When I'm in love, sex...
    zillaron zillaron
    51-55, M
    16 Responses May 21, 2009

    Sex Is Better When You're In Love

    We have found that some more extreme sexual experiences take time to build, it takes time to trust deeply and to be ******* your wife really hard while giving her a beautiful tender kiss is such an erotic high. We've been together for over 3 years and sex gets better day by day...
    robandjayneg robandjayneg
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 28, 2010


    I believe it is better for the following reasons: !. You know what they want and you could provide it, removes doing things you don't like. 2. There is more eye contact. 3. Your lover is unique, not just another person. 4.You feel more comfortable exploring new things. 5. When it...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 4, 2011

    RE: the Logo...

    I agree with the title of the story...I have never had sex with someone I love, but I know the sex I did have was utter crap. Now I am in love I do wonder how much better it will be... Am I the only person here who finds that logo somewhat arousing? LOL
    AnimaliaAustralis AnimaliaAustralis
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 20, 2009


    I can't agree more. Sex is far better when two people love and care for each other equally. Otherwise it's meaningless. Unfortunately I haven't experienced much of the "in love" type of sex. Before becoming a Christian, I hooked up with some guys that used me, or had "flings...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 13, 2010

    Only Had Sex With People I Love!!

    Confession: I only had sex with three men in my life and I was married to all of them still married to the third. I can't see myself being with someone I'm not in love with, sharing my body with some I don't love is unthinkable, with love comes passion, affection and intimacy...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 8, 2010


    I've had sex once with a guy when I wasn't in love and many times with my fiance when I have been in love. It's SO much better with my fiance - we care about each other and there's real passion there. The sex I had with the first guy left me feeling dirty and totally...
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl
    26-30, F
    Nov 13, 2009

    Love V Sex

    Making love and having sex are two sides of the same coin linked by mechanics.
    wigeon wigeon
    41-45, M
    Jun 21, 2012

    Not Just Better

    Sex is not only better when you're in love, it's what gives it meaning, a sense of connectedness, feeling as one with your partner, sharing your joys, sorrows, spirits, bodies, minds.I've tried casual, no strings sex and it ultimately left me wanting. I felt empty and unsatisfied...
    bitabyss bitabyss
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jul 25, 2013

    Yes, But... is still pretty amazing even when you're not in love!
    Dragon56 Dragon56
    61-65, M
    4 Responses Nov 14, 2010

    Let It Go

    Pleasantly anxious with anticipation, I want to jump into you. The mystery of who you are and   Crossing my fingers   LET It Go   The first time I learned to make love it was her. The way she gave and taught and soothed. There was...
    ichooselife ichooselife
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Oct 30, 2009

    My Goal Is To Live In Australia Permanently. Indian And Asian Girls, I Would Like To Marry And Impregnate Them.

    I am a Canadian living in the "Pacific Northwest" part of North America (but not in BC or Canada). I live in Puget Sound (Olympia / Seattle / Tacoma / Everett). I have a University degree from a US University. I am...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 14, 2011

    Even When It's Crazy...

    even crazy dirty sex is better when you're in love. it's so much more intense. and i love it. 
    outerblonde outerblonde
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 3, 2010

    Not Sure....

    ....but I know I can never forget how amazingly hot and intense it was with the only woman I really loved.
    Alexxx32 Alexxx32
    31-35, M
    Dec 1, 2010


    It sounds goofy, but the whole "making love" thing is very real. I have been with men I didn't love, and had good sex with them. I wasn't complaining then, and I'm not complaining now. However...having sex with a man you deeply love, that loves you back with the same...
    autimom autimom
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Dec 27, 2008

    Can't Settle For Less...

    Even if I try. I've discovered I'm just not interested in casual sex, it just doesn't seem to be the way I'm wired. Maybe it has something to do with getting older, I'm approaching 30 next month. But I don't really think so, emotionally I think I'm pretty immature, and...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 10, 2009

    No To Casual Sex

    I can never have sex with someone I don't really love. Currently, my husband was my first and last. If it isn't a tragedy, perhaps it's fate.
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Apr 1, 2011


    I beleave this to be true however I don't think my wife does because she has had sex with someone else and she told me she prefers sex with him and wants sex with him all she can get me on the other hand all I want is my wife because I love her with all I am and will do anything...
    DubbleDragon DubbleDragon
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2011

    Always Better

    When you have sex with someone your in love with, you are sharing a union of two souls.  Just doesn't get any better.
    bifarmboy bifarmboy
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2009

    So Do I

    And that is all I have to say about that. My kiss and tell panties on the other hand, might have something to say... LMAO at that....STILL.....:)
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    Its Even Better When You Are Married

    Sex is always better and more passionate when you’re in love. Sounds sappy for a guy to say that but its true with me. Having sex with someone for years and years leads to a comfort zone unlike any other. That closeness and comfort are what make intimacy. Intimacy, of course...
    husbandsperspective husbandsperspective
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 28, 2013


    Because he looks you in the eye and you know he's thinking and feeling the same thing and you don't have to say anything because everything that happens, feels as it should and there is nothing else that compares to it
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2008

    My Thoughts...

    I can't imagine this not being true.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Oct 30, 2008

    My Love Story

    I'm truly in love and the passion for my love grows day by day. I still remember the first time I made love to her. She was so overwhelmed, she was a rainy night and we both were far from home and we had to share a room with 2 more couples. We made love right there as...
    raj4fun raj4fun
    26-30, M
    Jan 21, 2010

    Truth Hurts

    Gee I confess, I've had sex with a few women and I dream of making love. Many times I tried and failed horribly, finally at the ripe old 52 I found the woman I was made for and we made love beautiful wonderful love. Love making should have a warning label if you ever experience...
    jadecrow jadecrow
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2009

    I Think

    i thik sex is better when you're in love .
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 14, 2009


    Sex is good regardless but it's always so much better when you're not only connected to the other person physically, but emotionally as well. Maybe I'm just a stereotypical woman but t0o me it's just so much nicer that when a guy is sheathed fully inside me that I love to hold...
    TerraLee TerraLee
    18-21, F
    Sep 23, 2010

    Life Is Better

    Sex is better when you are in love, but everything is better when you are in love.  Scrubbing the toilet is even less mundane when one is in love. You scrub away happily, with a smile, lost in thoughts of your beloved. Being audited by the IRS? Yeah, it is a pain in...
    autimom autimom
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2009

    Quite Simply...

    Though I've never had it any other way ... I believe quite simply that I can (and do) deeply lust the one I love and love the one I lust! So to me, having sex while in love is having it "all" :)
    TopazSkye TopazSkye
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2009

    The Sweet Spot

    I believe that you can have sex with just about anyone. And frankly, it can be enjoyable. But at the end of the night, it's just not the same. Then there is the joy of exploring and pleasuring that special person. It can be a beautiful experience learning how to satisfy the one...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl
    41-45, F
    24 Responses Jan 24, 2009

    Love and Lust

    When I have sex with the person I love, it really is love-making.  I am giving myself to that person with no boundaries, no limits.  Also, because they love me too, they are mine equally.  That combination of two people who are giving themselves completely is...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Jun 20, 2009

    Sex Is Better When You're In Love

    The climaxing is spectacular it is like you are the closest to heaven I remember it well !
    Bella70 Bella70
    41-45, F
    Apr 1, 2010
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