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I Think Sex Is Overrated

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 48 People

    Everyday I'm less and less interested in having

    sex. I feel like I was in a rush to have sex and now I've had it and its like, now what? I'm not rushing to have sex with anybody! Sex will always be there. It's not gonna grow legs and run away. It's not gonna hide. It'll be there whenever I feel like doing it again so I shall...
    Honorthycurves Honorthycurves
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2014

    And Before You Assume I've Never Had Good Sex.....

    you're wrong.   Great sex!  Frankly, my husband is the best lover I've known so even in the present I continue to be sexually satisfied.  I just acknowledge that if for some reason sex were no longer possible between us, we'd still be strong.   In my experience, sex is not...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 27, 2012

    It has been destroyed,

    it has become a part of what people strive to have...and easily get. Seriously - why is sex so important? I realise the physio-psychological impact it has on someone, but why can it be the end-all-be-all for so many? Sure, everybody experiences being turned-on and it is an...
    ShinimiM1ka ShinimiM1ka
    26-30, F
    Dec 4, 2013

    Falling In Lust

     Sex is great fun. Good sex is like a good meal but I tend to agree that we overrate it in our present society. That is why there is so much infidelity and broken marriages. People tend to marry for lust mistaking it for love and then a few years down the line wonder why...
    montarlot montarlot
    61-65, F
    Nov 26, 2009


    i have tried to share this with people and i felt that they just weren't listening and refused to understand. i like sex and i like it when it is great/good. but most of the sexual encounters i've had aren't. people are wierd about sex. a lot of people are twisted and it shows up...
    pheinix pheinix
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2009

    No Interest

    too many people think about sex, they think its the most important thing in a relationship r at list right up there on the list.but i have not had sex in over 8 yrs, i honestly dont miss it.i had many surgeries before a complete hystercotomy at 28 yrs old.ever since i have like...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2010

    Never Had An ****** (From A Human)

    Every time I think about how overrated it is I think about Ludacris' comeback to people who say this, "they're just not doing it right!" Well I tried just about every position out there and I have yet to experience that which makes everyone, specifically women excited about sex...
    LSD8 LSD8
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2013

    Whats the Big Deal

       you may find me sub human but I hate sex, its messy and it complicates relationships, why can't we show we love each other in other ways with true intimacy, i know sex is nessesary but why does it have to be i could go the rest of my life and never have sex again...
    sweetstacey sweetstacey
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Aug 9, 2008

    Sex Is Overrated

    I'm not saying I hate sex.  I really enjoy it, but right now I have no sex drive, but when I do I LOVE it.  But, it is overrated.  So many people are absolutely obsessed with it.  I just don't get it.  Sure, it feels good...
    haydenrules haydenrules
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2009

    Weird Stuff...

    I struggle to find it satisfying... Even though I crave for physical intimacy, even though I enjoy sensuous expression, I think it is quite a beautiful thing. BUT...I am yet to find the kind of physical connection that would make this thing worthwhile. I've been to both extremes...
    Louandreas Louandreas
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 22, 2012
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