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I Think Smart Is Sexy

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    Read, read, read, read,

    read! ;). I love women that I can have a relaxed, respectful, humorous, intelligent conversation with.
    Princey88 Princey88 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I get to see it everyday.

    I'm lucky enough to share my life with one of the smartest people I know. :-) Thus making her the sexiest person I know too ;-)
    UndisputedTruth UndisputedTruth 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    I finally found a woman

    who seems to have the whole package. She's extremely sexy, very passionate, giving, loving, sweet, caring, nerdy(HUGE plus)...but she lacks smarts. Pretty significantly. And I can't get over it. So much of what she says actually pains me. I'm just bummed about it is all. After...
    Eleye Eleye 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Heart09 Heart09 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    I create games for smart people.

    .. www.stonemagegames.com
    VikingPoker VikingPoker 41-45, M Jul 22

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    I think the word for

    that is sapiosexual... Not sure I like the word, I'm not even sure it describes me best. All I know is that I'm different than most people. And that it makes meeting someone incredibly difficult. I've never been interested much in guys for their looks... I care much more about...
    laleee laleee 31-35, F 11 Responses May 27

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    Yes I think it is, there is nothing more sexy

    than having smart talks, and long interesting talks, I love knowledge, and it's really hard to find people that does actually know about a lot of topics.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Does anyone have a wiener

    that they could force down my throat? I want a bruise on the inside of my thorax!
    scarletlocks scarletlocks 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 29

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    What Is Sexy?

    Sexy is a skin that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is...
    yiskah yiskah 18-21, M 11 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    I find smart men very sexy.

    I am attracted to intelligence more than looks.But it should be combined with humbleness because nobody likes an arrogant know-it-all. A combination of smart and sophisticated would be really irresistible.I don't know if that makes me a sapiosexual.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    liveatreading liveatreading 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    Good looks last only a short time,

    but intelligence lasts forever......, a pretty but empty face will be entertaining for a short while a smart head will always remain sexy
    gildedlily21 gildedlily21 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    Nothing is more unattractive

    than a stupid guy. Especially my age guys want to **** the hottest chick or party all the time. I want a guy who smart and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who picks up book or likes to talk about what's going on in the world;besides who throwing the next banger. Nothing...
    cherryBloosom95 cherryBloosom95 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Hell Yes.

    Talk nerdy to me. I wanna hear all your theories. All the complicated thoughts you have strung together up in the messed up little mind of yours. I want to read your spelling and grammar and not cringe while doing so. I want to admire your wit and struggle to compete with your...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    perthcity perthcity 18-21, M Apr 29

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    This is just my opinion: You can be the most

    beautiful person on earth, but if I can't have a deep conversation with you, I just don't think you are "sexy". On the other hand, if we can talk about everything, the meaningful stuff in life, our hopes and dreams, then looks don't matter that much. So yeah, smart is sexy and...
    INFJRyan INFJRyan 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I Am Sapiosexual

    Yes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.  I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.  I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life...
    Misseddie Misseddie 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    You have to please my mind first

    before you can please me..
    saucyspicyandsweet saucyspicyandsweet 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 4

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    Intelligence

    I am very very attracted to people who are open-minded and intelligent. People who can carry a conversation, and are able to hold their own, even in the deepest discussions. The mind is sexy, in my opinion, and if your thoughts intrigue me, I am very likely to fall for you!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    hamood215 hamood215 16-17, M 2 Responses May 9

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    A person who has got the looks

    but hasn't got the brains, is just not worth it. Personally, I'd think twice about dating such a man. I love good conversations. I want a man who can reply with utter sincerity and originality. One who can give you replies that could also stimulate you to think, not one whose...
    abcdefghisabelmnopqrst abcdefghisabelmnopqrst 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    courtneyyyx331 courtneyyyx331 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    Show me your intellectual side.

    . I love deep conversations & long meaningful Talks 😘 Such a turn on.
    bprice0600 bprice0600 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 26

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    godson08 godson08 36-40 Jun 10

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    I met my husband in high school.

    He was so intelligent! We could talk about so many topics. We would spend hours discussing politics, world affairs, music, religion and any thing that popped into our heads. I started out lusting after his body but I ended up falling in love with his mind. He has taught me so...
    80buttercup 80buttercup 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    Sexaul attraction is not always physical to me.

    I find it more to be a mental thing, if someone is good in the mind as they are in the bedroom(or wherever you choose to have sex) Then that's good enough for me. Sex is physical yes, sometimes there a boundaries we don't cross, that's just personal preference. Although, one...
    Traveller96 Traveller96 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24

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    What Is Sexy? Sexy is a skin

    that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is sexy natural is...
    Goldenfairy Goldenfairy 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    An Attractive Trait

    this has always been one of my top turn ons. and not just for guys, but for girls too. no, im not bi lol but ive always viewed someones intellect as an attractive trait. not to brag ;) but i like to think of myself as rather smart lol and sometimes i come off as being a smart...
    liyah21 liyah21 26-30, F 27 Responses May 27, 2013

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    I think ...Somebody's mind can be far more

    attractive then their looks
    targets targets 26-30, M 4 Responses May 21, 2014

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    There's something about an intelligent person

    that is sooo hot. Just the way smart people speak and act is so much more attractive. Even if someone is "hot" but ugly I won't be attracted to them
    will1982 will1982 13-15, M Jul 23

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    Kindness is obviously the sexiest thing there

    is, at least in my opinion. A kind, generous heart is sexier than anything else. Intelligence is a close second though. It's not a deal breaker, but it's so nice when you can have an open conversation with someone. And although I hate reading, whenever I read a book for my...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    If you kiss her mind ,

    her body will follow
    Asemeto Asemeto 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    Sure it's fun to fck a dumbass

    once in awhile if his body is hard and hot, and they tend to be good lays too cos that's all they do. But it's kinda awkward afterwards cos you have nothing to talk about. But a intelligent bookish guy.. Now that's interesting. Sometimes they're amazing lays (I love for them...
    Lucy185 Lucy185 31-35, F 10 Responses May 3, 2014

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    Dumb, hot girls are the worst.

    It's like when you get a birthday card but there's no money inside.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 8

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    There is nothing more erotic

    than a good conversation...
    Goliath2014 Goliath2014 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    Very much so, smart women are my preference.

    Any other benefits ie: kindness, wealth, looks are a bonus, but a high IQ and common sense is far more appealing to me.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Jul 12

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    To be honest, relationships shouldn't have to

    deal with sex. I've came across a few girls my age that I thought were interesting and at some point or another it seemed as if they just wanted to be sexual and I wasn't going to let that happen, so I walked away. I just want to be around a person who won't hold me back and...
    insiignify insiignify 16-17, M 4 Responses May 19

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    You may be very attractive,

    in which case I will most likely check you out. Once I have if I discover that you are as dumb as a box of rocks then I will want to get away from you as quickly as possible. If you are smart and intelligent, you will have my attention. I have a hunger for knowledge and...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 6 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    Nothing is more sexy then a girl with a good

    head on her shoulders. Ugh i love it! :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 4

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    If you can talk to me in whole words with

    accurate spelling and grammer, I will automatically find you attractive. Furthermore, if you can then engage in intelligent conversation with me... 👏🙌👍
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 8 Responses May 21, 2014

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    Love the way to be cool

    and superb.. Nice to have a evening with multiple partner
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 22

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    The Girl With The Big, Gently Bouncing Frontal Lobes

    A woman I met on this site suggested I write a bit more. I am a writer, after all. And yet, for the most part, I haven't written more than one or two stories on EP. Why? Call me cynical, but the caliber of intellect on EP (admittedly, as evidenced by the questions section) has...
    literaryrogue literaryrogue 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    Hey, any super smart hot girls wanna come over

    to my house? I got a super hard math problem D:
    YouCantEscapeMyDemons YouCantEscapeMyDemons 13-15, M 7 Responses May 13

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    BronzeTeapot BronzeTeapot 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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    Women with long hair

    and huge brains under all that hair makes me weak
    Youcanthandlemyusername Youcanthandlemyusername 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 2

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    I personally love intelligent men.

    Smart is most definitely sexy to me. I think a man who has a strong vocabulary and can keep a conversation going is definitely attractive.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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