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I Think Smart Is Sexy

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    Attractiveness is a wonderful quality,

    but I'll be honest: if I can't have an interesting conversation with you with my eyes closed, there's little chance we'll last for any meaningful period of time.
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Mmmmmm I do believe smart is sexy.

    Nothing like a man who's confident about what he's talking about. I get so turned on listening to him talk about his research 😉
    AlixSmiles AlixSmiles 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Every Woman Should Read This

    I have posted that I love to look at women. But the truth of the matter is an average woman can be sexier if they are blessed with intellect. I adore women that can challenge me with a stimulating conversation or a valid argument. The ability to converse with clear, concise and...
    kunar12 kunar12 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    One of the first things I look

    for is whether a guy is smart enough to keep up a conversation with me. I think it'd be close to my definition of sexy along with everything else. If he had some similar hobbies among other things with me then I would think he's really cute and all butI'd be too shy to say...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Take it from someone who's beginning to get a

    little "long" in the tooth; Bodies fade. Gravity wins...Every time! Face, boobs, butts and skin; you'll never win. Oh , and here's a fun one: Your EARS continue to keep growing for life. Really! Sex is obviously an integral part in any healthy relationship, but answer me this...
    Beaver318 Beaver318 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 22

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    Is any one real horny right now

    because I sure am I want to eat some juicy p
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    Nothing is more unattractive

    than a stupid guy. Especially my age guys want to **** the hottest chick or party all the time. I want a guy who smart and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who picks up book or likes to talk about what's going on in the world;besides who throwing the next banger. Nothing...
    cherryBloosom95 cherryBloosom95 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Hell Yes.

    Talk nerdy to me. I wanna hear all your theories. All the complicated thoughts you have strung together up in the messed up little mind of yours. I want to read your spelling and grammar and not cringe while doing so. I want to admire your wit and struggle to compete with your...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Of course smart is sexy!

    Is ignorance attractive? Bad grammar hot? Not in this girls eyes. On another note- looking smart is sexy too. Glasses are always hot lol
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I just hate when people go

    for the dumb jock or the badboy who's been in jail. I like smart... Not nerdy but a smart guy who wants something for himself.
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I think ...Somebody's mind can be far more

    attractive then their looks
    targets targets 26-30, M 6 Responses May 21

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    What Is Sexy?

    Sexy is a skin that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is...
    yiskah yiskah 18-21 8 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Smart Is Cool

    But for a long time, I didn't think so. In grade school and middle school I was an underachiever. Outshined by all of the doctors and lawyers children with more money than my family. Kind of the black sheep, but subtlely. I dumbed myself down during highschool too, hanging out...
    BrightlyWound BrightlyWound 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 5

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    Intelligence

    I am very very attracted to people who are open-minded and intelligent. People who can carry a conversation, and are able to hold their own, even in the deepest discussions. The mind is sexy, in my opinion, and if your thoughts intrigue me, I am very likely to fall for you!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I Am Sapiosexual

    Yes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.  I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.  I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life...
    Misseddie Misseddie 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Don't no guy want a dumb girl

    or someone who has nothing going for themselves
    dre07 dre07 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    i think smart guys are very sexy.

    i would rather have a smart man, than a man who is dumb as bricks.
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    You may be very attractive,

    in which case I will most likely check you out. Once I have if I discover that you are as dumb as a box of rocks then I will want to get away from you as quickly as possible. If you are smart and intelligent, you will have my attention. I have a hunger for knowledge and...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 7 Responses Feb 7

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    Hi, I'm a really nice guy with a kinky side.

    I really enjoy meeting new people and having fun :) Any girl feel free to add me, I don't mind if you only want to chat or if you want to play. I don't mind about age and looks, I just want to meet interesting people with things in common and similar likes User rayorcas
    rayorcas rayorcas 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    sunny3875 sunny3875 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone I'm a drk I blame it on my ex

    girlfriend that I left today because I had a curfew today and I took off work to hang but what made me really break up is that I haven't had sex in in 6 months I am so h right now I went to an after hour party and came to my brothers house like a horn dog
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    sixfiveguy sixfiveguy 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 22

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    i LOVE smart men. of course females also.

    nothing is more attractive than an intelligent and witty guy. keep getting your knowledge on! 😎
    lne12 lne12 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Three cheers for sapiosexuals!

    As a spiritual and intelligent person myself, there is absolutely nothing sexier than a guy who I can think deeper with. Someone who can talk politics, while being wise enough to see beyond this f***** up system we are governed. That's so attractive. However, the same someone...
    italiababe italiababe 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    Smart guys are just sexy!

    😍😍
    beccabiggs2702 beccabiggs2702 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    lovelifexox lovelifexox 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    cmia7 cmia7 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I am very happy with my circle of friends.

    Everyone is different and I enjoy them. Everyone makes me feel special. There is a different connection with everyone . Thank you for sharing a piece of your inner world with me. I am a better person every day because of you. And yes ll of you are smart and sexy in their own...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 26

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    There is simply no sexy without smart.

    I don't care how good you look.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    A lean muscular body with abs attached to a cute

    or good looking face may catch my eyes but... If you open your mouth and all i hear is crap it'll take a second for them to stray
    storylover6 storylover6 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    i find intelligent men very sexy,

    i think its a very attractive feature. i love men that love to learn new things and gain more knowledge. its very captivating to me and makes me want to be smarter myself. smart & sophisticated is very sexy in my opinion.
    WistfulSigh WistfulSigh 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    Sure it's fun to fck a dumbass

    once in awhile if his body is hard and hot, and they tend to be good lays too cos that's all they do. But it's kinda awkward afterwards cos you have nothing to talk about. But a intelligent bookish guy.. Now that's interesting. Sometimes they're amazing lays (I love for them...
    Lucy185 Lucy185 26-30, F 12 Responses May 3

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    I personally love intelligent men.

    Smart is most definitely sexy to me. I think a man who has a strong vocabulary and can keep a conversation going is definitely attractive.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    I entirely agree - unless we're talking about

    Steven Hawking, then not so much.
    NoVADad703 NoVADad703 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    I love men in suits! Dont get me wrong I like a

    bad boy with tattoos and snapbacks. Any tight suit bulges for me guys? 😉
    LaurenLewinsky LaurenLewinsky 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Smart people turn me on.

    No matter the gender lol
    Andrea1994 Andrea1994 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    An Attractive Trait

    this has always been one of my top turn ons. and not just for guys, but for girls too. no, im not bi lol but ive always viewed someones intellect as an attractive trait. not to brag ;) but i like to think of myself as rather smart lol and sometimes i come off as being a smart...
    liyah21 liyah21 26-30, F 28 Responses May 27, 2013

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    The Girl With The Big, Gently Bouncing Frontal Lobes

    A woman I met on this site suggested I write a bit more. I am a writer, after all. And yet, for the most part, I haven't written more than one or two stories on EP. Why? Call me cynical, but the caliber of intellect on EP (admittedly, as evidenced by the questions section) has...
    literaryrogue literaryrogue 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    paradox14 paradox14 31-35, M Jul 6

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    After someone's physical attractiveness

    and yours match enough to get acquainted, then the quality of the conversation is what can make or break a budding relationship. A couple can be opposites and have little in common, but if both are intelligent and good listeners, the differences can be exciting instead of deal...
    DrConan DrConan 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I started chatting to s guy on ep on my

    now deleted account. Were would chat for hours about silly things to serious things. Even though there were pics on our profiles we never took notice of them. We started getting very attracted to each other but we could both sense it. After more than 6 months of chatting daily...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I find smart men very sexy.

    I am attracted to intelligence more than looks.But it should be combined with humbleness because nobody likes an arrogant know-it-all. A combination of smart and sophisticated would be really irresistible.I don't know if that makes me a sapiosexual.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Intelligent women are definitely a huge turn

    on..currently me an my girl are looking for one in north jersey to experiment with, anyone from north nj?
    meherplusyou meherplusyou 26-30, M 1 Response May 27

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    I think it's more of a "must be willing to keep

    learning" thing I find sexy.. People who act like they know everything there is to know, it's so unattractive. You should always be open to learning and trying new things, makes life interesting- makes you interesting!!
    littlecatjoe littlecatjoe 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm a self confessed nerd

    and proud of it. If a person doesn't stimulate me intellectually it doesn't go far.
    CandleDancer39 CandleDancer39 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    "There may be some things better

    than sex, and there may be some things worse. But there's nothing exactly like it." W.C. Fields (1879-1946)
    lovelifexox lovelifexox 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    hebr0 hebr0 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    well smart people turn me on it dont matter

    weather they are guy or girl they just turn me on :)
    sam941234 sam941234 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    If you can talk to me in whole words with

    accurate spelling and grammer, I will automatically find you attractive. Furthermore, if you can then engage in intelligent conversation with me... 👏🙌👍
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 12 Responses May 21

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    brutus2003 brutus2003 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    sofiasdoodles sofiasdoodles 16-17, F 1 Response