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    Nothing is more sexy then a girl with a good

    head on her shoulders. Ugh i love it! :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 4, 2015

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    batmansgrandmother batmansgrandmother 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    I've always been attracted to smart women.

    When I watch scientific documentaries and a female scientist comes on I am instantly in love. A 5 with brains is instantly a 10 in my book. Things that really turn me on. A woman in glasses. A woman in glasses reading a book. A librarian in glasses. [bites lip]. A woman...
    G0dzilla G0dzilla 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    I shudder at how erotic intelligence is

    so non existent among so many of us. There is nothing more disappointing for a woman to give subtle naughty, sexy hints to someone who is already into her, only to get a flat response. Example (via SMS)... Woman: When I go out, I like to dress casually in short skirts or...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 16 Responses Jan 14

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    I Am Sapiosexual

    Yes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.ย  I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.ย  I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life...
    Misseddie Misseddie 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    expomasseur expomasseur 31-35, M Jan 5

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    Never argue with someone

    that types faster than you
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2015

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    A man with a fine tuned mind,

    quick wit, a vocabulary of words that can get my heart racing without putting a hand on me. That's sexy. That man would have me eating out of his palm. And begging for more.
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 23

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    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 3

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    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Nothing more attractive then a man

    that knows his stuff and has passion. Especially if he's knowledgeable on law and politics. EDIT: And history :p
    Alleyandra Alleyandra 18-21, F 18 Responses Dec 1, 2015

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    Intelligence in a woman s

    as important to me as good looks.
    InfernoGoodtime InfernoGoodtime 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    Dumb, hot girls are the worst.

    It's like when you get a birthday card but there's no money inside.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 8, 2015

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    zigjig zigjig 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 16, 2015

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    Intelligent conversations include the right

    words, right smile at the right time, movement of hands in the air, right moments of silence and thought, right questions, not argument but discussion about things. The best part is when I forget about the subject, and start watching him making smart jests while trying to...
    Soossie Soossie 51-55, F 12 Responses Jan 23

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    Hell Yes.

    Talk nerdy to me. I wanna hear all your theories. All the complicated thoughts you have strung together up in the messed up little mind of yours. I want to read your spelling and grammar and not cringe while doing so. I want to admire your wit and struggle to compete with your...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    An Attractive Trait

    this has always been one of my top turn ons. and not just for guys, but for girls too. no, im not bi lol but ive always viewed someones intellect as an attractive trait. not to brag ;) but i like to think of myself as rather smart lol and sometimes i come off as being a smart...
    liyah21 liyah21 26-30, F 26 Responses May 27, 2013

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    Of course, sexual attraction can come from

    physical attraction, but nothing beats the feeling I get when I am talking to someone who knows their ****. Haha. Politics, sociology, psychology, the news, books, anything!! Especially when they get all passionate about it.. Holy **** it sends chills... well.. everywhere. Haha
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10, 2015

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    I think ...Somebody's mind can be far more

    attractive then their looks
    targets targets 26-30, M 4 Responses May 21, 2014

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    My day job requires me to manipulate hydrogen

    in a super conducting magnetic field with the aide of RF pulses at specific frequencies. My damn phone probably has more computing capacity than the Gemini rockets that carried brave souls to the moon. I have come to loathe technology. I was reading through some of my...
    HomelessWind HomelessWind 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 15, 2015

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    I love young guys that are really smart it's

    just so much better than cool and disinterested!
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Oct 9, 2015

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    Why do medications never have any good side

    effects? Just once I'd like to read a medicine bottle that says, "May cause extreme sexiness"
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 5

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    If you can talk to me in whole words with

    accurate spelling and grammer, I will automatically find you attractive. Furthermore, if you can then engage in intelligent conversation with me... ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ‘
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 8 Responses May 21, 2014

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    bhella04 bhella04 22-25, F 16 Responses Aug 15, 2015

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    Heart09 Heart09 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    Im looking for someone to **** me hard I'm 19

    years old girl with big boobs and ***, and live in London my no is 07597569860
    Priya12322 Priya12322 22-25 2 Responses Jan 12

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    He is so much more smarter

    than me, but he's humble enough not to point it out. Part of my maintaining a 4.0. in college is due to him. Every night I bounce aspects that I am learning off of him and he can expand on all subjects thus far. He comes from a much different environment than me. His...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 25, 2015

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    Heavenly15 Heavenly15 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    Being smart is definitely sexy.

    Intellect can drive me crazy used the right way!
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 29

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    As I lay here looking up at the stars,

    it suddenly dawned on me someone has stolen my roof.
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M Dec 27, 2015

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    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    I also think being dumb is a turn off.

    I'm not really one to let things slide so if you say or do something I know is incorrect I will correct you with no shame. Yes I'm single... Why do you ask?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 24, 2015

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    Life springs from the dirt of the earth.

    ย  Clear water often harbors no fish.
    zigjig zigjig 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2015

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    Sexaul attraction is not always physical to me.

    I find it more to be a mental thing, if someone is good in the mind as they are in the bedroom(or wherever you choose to have sex) Then that's good enough for me. Sex is physical yes, sometimes there a boundaries we don't cross, that's just personal preference. Although, one...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 24, 2015

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    Nothing turns me on more

    than a man's brain. A man that can talk about politics, current events, the world, history, and science is very sexy to me.
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 24, 2015

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    As a kid, I actually had a crush on Egon from

    The Ghostbusters cartoon. I was/am so weird.
    PassiveActivist PassiveActivist 70+, F Jan 23

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    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Nothing is more unattractive

    than a stupid guy. Especially my age guys want to **** the hottest chick or party all the time. I want a guy who smart and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who picks up book or likes to talk about what's going on in the world;besides who throwing the next banger. Nothing...
    cherryBloosom95 cherryBloosom95 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Intelligence

    I am very very attracted to people who are open-minded and intelligent. People who can carry a conversation, and are able to hold their own, even in the deepest discussions. The mind is sexy, in my opinion, and if your thoughts intrigue me, I am very likely to fall for you!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2015

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    Why do we have balloons

    for birthdays? Happy birthday here's a plastic sack of my breath..
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M Dec 26, 2015

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    If you kiss her mind ,

    her body will follow
    Asemeto Asemeto 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    They say don't snack at night.

    Why do I have a light in my fridge then
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M Dec 27, 2015

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    There is nothing better

    than an intelligent person. I'll take smart and average over dumb and gorgeous any day. It must be an Aquarius thing to look for someone smart and able to hold a conversation.
    AaronKGibbs AaronKGibbs 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    BigNJ76 BigNJ76 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2015

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