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I Think Smart Is Sexy

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    Hell Yes.

    Talk nerdy to me. I wanna hear all your theories. All the complicated thoughts you have strung together up in the messed up little mind of yours. I want to read your spelling and grammar and not cringe while doing so. I want to admire your wit and struggle to compete with your...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    hamood215 hamood215 16-17, M 2 Responses May 9

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    13 Male Message me please Be my mommy I'll do

    anything Female only My kjk is jello_is_boss Pictures and videos included
    wannatradewithme194 wannatradewithme194 18-21, M Aug 12

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    bhella04 bhella04 22-25, F 18 Responses Aug 15

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    I love guys that can hold an actually

    conversation it's so cute to me ☺️☺️
    candybooqueen55 candybooqueen55 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Read, read, read, read,

    read! ;). I love women that I can have a relaxed, respectful, humorous, intelligent conversation with.
    Princey88 Princey88 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Hey, any super smart hot girls wanna come over

    to my house? I got a super hard math problem D:
    YouCantEscapeMyDemons YouCantEscapeMyDemons 13-15, M 7 Responses May 13

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    Yes I think it is, there is nothing more sexy

    than having smart talks, and long interesting talks, I love knowledge, and it's really hard to find people that does actually know about a lot of topics.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I've always been attracted to smart women.

    When I watch scientific documentaries and a female scientist comes on I am instantly in love. A 5 with brains is instantly a 10 in my book. Things that really turn me on. A woman in glasses. A woman in glasses reading a book. A librarian in glasses. [bites lip]. A woman...
    bigmac2xk bigmac2xk 46-50, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Intelligence and depth wrapped up in a good

    dose of confidence is so sexy. Does that exist anymore? :(
    HeartOfPoetry HeartOfPoetry 36-40, F 22 Responses 3 days ago

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    Very much so, smart women are my preference.

    Any other benefits ie: kindness, wealth, looks are a bonus, but a high IQ and common sense is far more appealing to me.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Jul 12

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    I Am Sapiosexual

    Yes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.  I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.  I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life...
    Misseddie Misseddie 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Of course, sexual attraction can come from

    physical attraction, but nothing beats the feeling I get when I am talking to someone who knows their ****. Haha. Politics, sociology, psychology, the news, books, anything!! Especially when they get all passionate about it.. Holy **** it sends chills... well.. everywhere. Haha
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 10

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    I create games for smart people.

    .. www.stonemagegames.com
    VikingPoker VikingPoker 41-45, M Jul 22

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    Biggest turn on for me is meeting a really

    smart guy! Guess that makes me a sapiosexual!
    Islndgirl Islndgirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Dumb, hot girls are the worst.

    It's like when you get a birthday card but there's no money inside.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 8

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    If you can talk to me in whole words with

    accurate spelling and grammer, I will automatically find you attractive. Furthermore, if you can then engage in intelligent conversation with me... 👏🙌👍
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 8 Responses May 21, 2014

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    Sexaul attraction is not always physical to me.

    I find it more to be a mental thing, if someone is good in the mind as they are in the bedroom(or wherever you choose to have sex) Then that's good enough for me. Sex is physical yes, sometimes there a boundaries we don't cross, that's just personal preference. Although, one...
    Traveller96 Traveller96 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24

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    You have to please my mind first

    before you can please me..
    saucyspicyandsweet saucyspicyandsweet 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    An Attractive Trait

    this has always been one of my top turn ons. and not just for guys, but for girls too. no, im not bi lol but ive always viewed someones intellect as an attractive trait. not to brag ;) but i like to think of myself as rather smart lol and sometimes i come off as being a smart...
    liyah21 liyah21 26-30, F 27 Responses May 27, 2013

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    Nothing turns me on more

    than a man's brain. A man that can talk about politics, current events, the world, history, and science is very sexy to me.
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 24

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    Kindness is obviously the sexiest thing there

    is, at least in my opinion. A kind, generous heart is sexier than anything else. Intelligence is a close second though. It's not a deal breaker, but it's so nice when you can have an open conversation with someone. And although I hate reading, whenever I read a book for my...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    A person who has got the looks

    but hasn't got the brains, is just not worth it. Personally, I'd think twice about dating such a man. I love good conversations. I want a man who can reply with utter sincerity and originality. One who can give you replies that could also stimulate you to think, not one whose...
    abcdefghisabelmnopqrst abcdefghisabelmnopqrst 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    Sexy is definitely smart.

    It's good to be able to have deep intelligent conversation
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I get to see it everyday.

    I'm lucky enough to share my life with one of the smartest people I know. :-) Thus making her the sexiest person I know too ;-)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 9

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    Intelligence

    I am very very attracted to people who are open-minded and intelligent. People who can carry a conversation, and are able to hold their own, even in the deepest discussions. The mind is sexy, in my opinion, and if your thoughts intrigue me, I am very likely to fall for you!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    What Is Sexy?

    Sexy is a skin that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is...
    yiskah yiskah 18-21, M 11 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Heart09 Heart09 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    I find smart men very sexy.

    I am attracted to intelligence more than looks.But it should be combined with humbleness because nobody likes an arrogant know-it-all. A combination of smart and sophisticated would be really irresistible.I don't know if that makes me a sapiosexual.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    There's something about an intelligent person

    that is sooo hot. Just the way smart people speak and act is so much more attractive. Even if someone is "hot" but ugly I won't be attracted to them
    will1982 will1982 13-15, M Jul 23

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    godson08 godson08 36-40 Jun 10

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    courtneyyyx331 courtneyyyx331 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    My day job requires me to manipulate hydrogen

    in a super conducting magnetic field with the aide of RF pulses at specific frequencies. My damn phone probably has more computing capacity than the Gemini rockets that carried brave souls to the moon. I have come to loathe technology. I was reading through some of my...
    timeout4me timeout4me 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    BronzeTeapot BronzeTeapot 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    it's nothing like a man with a voice.

    ..he's a friend of mind!
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    Sure is. Love me a woman

    who can carry an intelligent conversation. If she can back up those brains with a sense of humor...well, I'm going to be even more intrigued and turned on. Smart and funny is a totally sexy combination!
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I think ...Somebody's mind can be far more

    attractive then their looks
    targets targets 26-30, M 4 Responses May 21, 2014

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    perthcity perthcity 18-21, M Apr 29

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    Nothing is more unattractive

    than a stupid guy. Especially my age guys want to **** the hottest chick or party all the time. I want a guy who smart and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who picks up book or likes to talk about what's going on in the world;besides who throwing the next banger. Nothing...
    cherryBloosom95 cherryBloosom95 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Sure it's fun to fck a dumbass

    once in awhile if his body is hard and hot, and they tend to be good lays too cos that's all they do. But it's kinda awkward afterwards cos you have nothing to talk about. But a intelligent bookish guy.. Now that's interesting. Sometimes they're amazing lays (I love for them...
    Lucy185 Lucy185 31-35, F 10 Responses May 3, 2014

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    I personally love intelligent men.

    Smart is most definitely sexy to me. I think a man who has a strong vocabulary and can keep a conversation going is definitely attractive.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    If you kiss her mind ,

    her body will follow
    Asemeto Asemeto 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    This is just my opinion: You can be the most

    beautiful person on earth, but if I can't have a deep conversation with you, I just don't think you are "sexy". On the other hand, if we can talk about everything, the meaningful stuff in life, our hopes and dreams, then looks don't matter that much. So yeah, smart is sexy and...
    INFJRyan INFJRyan 16-17, M Jun 29

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    Love the way to be cool

    and superb.. Nice to have a evening with multiple partner
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 22

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    I think the word for

    that is sapiosexual... Not sure I like the word, I'm not even sure it describes me best. All I know is that I'm different than most people. And that it makes meeting someone incredibly difficult. I've never been interested much in guys for their looks... I care much more about...
    laleee laleee 31-35, F 11 Responses May 27

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