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I Think Smart Is Sexy

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    I personally love intelligent men.

    Smart is most definitely sexy to me. I think a man who has a strong vocabulary and can keep a conversation going is definitely attractive.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    i think smart guys are very sexy.

    i would rather have a smart man, than a man who is dumb as bricks.
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    yassir23 yassir23 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    Who doesn't? Finding someone you can have a

    decent conversation with is huge! Looks are nice... but smart is a must for sexy.
    Petunia2015 Petunia2015 31-35, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    There is simply no sexy without smart.

    I don't care how good you look.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    Rosssssi Rosssssi 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    jacqueline212 jacqueline212 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    What Is Sexy?

    Sexy is a skin that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is...
    yiskah yiskah 18-21, M 11 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    If you can talk to me in whole words with

    accurate spelling and grammer, I will automatically find you attractive. Furthermore, if you can then engage in intelligent conversation with me... 👏🙌👍
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 12 Responses May 21, 2014

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    Ashley2K14 Ashley2K14 22-25, F Nov 23, 2014

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    jerzee78 jerzee78 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2014

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    What Is Sexy? Sexy is a skin

    that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is sexy natural is...
    Goldenfairy Goldenfairy 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I find intelligence extremely erotic.

    Intelligent women always capture my attention.
    RC4blue RC4blue 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    coldswan coldswan 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    Run2Me Run2Me 46-50, M Oct 14, 2014

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    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2014

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    very very sexy. anyone

    who can talk to me about those things will lure me faster than inviting me to the beach to touch those AH-BS. :3 though, I can't lie and say abs aren't nice, hehehe
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2014

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    You may be very attractive,

    in which case I will most likely check you out. Once I have if I discover that you are as dumb as a box of rocks then I will want to get away from you as quickly as possible. If you are smart and intelligent, you will have my attention. I have a hunger for knowledge and...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 7 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    beccabiggs2702 beccabiggs2702 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 2, 2014

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    So my opinion use to be smart is sexy

    and still somewhat holds true but if this is how I want my self to view or consider to be attractive em I selling my self short? Sure there's benifits to being with someone with bit of knowledge. But I have to ask. Who the **** really knows what the **** there talking about...
    Janisoneluv Janisoneluv 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    Ambition = Sexy. Having a drive,

    dedication, and determination is attractive
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2014

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    liveatreading liveatreading 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    I think ...Somebody's mind can be far more

    attractive then their looks
    targets targets 26-30, M 4 Responses May 21, 2014

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    I'm a self confessed nerd

    and proud of it. If a person doesn't stimulate me intellectually it doesn't go far.
    CandleDancer39 CandleDancer39 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 19, 2014

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    Mmmmmm I do believe smart is sexy.

    Nothing like a man who's confident about what he's talking about. I get so turned on listening to him talk about his research 😉
    AlixSmiles AlixSmiles 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    FattyAndLovingMyself FattyAndLovingMyself 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    The Girl With The Big, Gently Bouncing Frontal Lobes

    A woman I met on this site suggested I write a bit more. I am a writer, after all. And yet, for the most part, I haven't written more than one or two stories on EP. Why? Call me cynical, but the caliber of intellect on EP (admittedly, as evidenced by the questions section) has...
    literaryrogue literaryrogue 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    It certainly can be! Falling in love with how

    somebody thinks as well as all the usual attraction stuff!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 9

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    I think smart is sexy,

    because stupid most definitely is not. Working with people means that I have to deal with the intellectually challenged on a daily basis. I have come to accept their existence and show them boundless patience. But could I ever be attracted to a dim wit? No. They simply hold no...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2014

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    Intelligence

    I am very very attracted to people who are open-minded and intelligent. People who can carry a conversation, and are able to hold their own, even in the deepest discussions. The mind is sexy, in my opinion, and if your thoughts intrigue me, I am very likely to fall for you!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    An Attractive Trait

    this has always been one of my top turn ons. and not just for guys, but for girls too. no, im not bi lol but ive always viewed someones intellect as an attractive trait. not to brag ;) but i like to think of myself as rather smart lol and sometimes i come off as being a smart...
    liyah21 liyah21 26-30, F 28 Responses May 27, 2013

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    hello i am very sexy boy

    so need to talk with sexy girl or women..
    luckysharp luckysharp 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 16, 2014

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    Hell Yes.

    Talk nerdy to me. I wanna hear all your theories. All the complicated thoughts you have strung together up in the messed up little mind of yours. I want to read your spelling and grammar and not cringe while doing so. I want to admire your wit and struggle to compete with your...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Attractiveness is a wonderful quality,

    but I'll be honest: if I can't have an interesting conversation with you with my eyes closed, there's little chance we'll last for any meaningful period of time.
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F Sep 24, 2014

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    BronzeTeapot BronzeTeapot 13-15, F Dec 17, 2014

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    There is nothing more erotic

    than a good conversation...
    Goliath2014 Goliath2014 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    Sure it's fun to fck a dumbass

    once in awhile if his body is hard and hot, and they tend to be good lays too cos that's all they do. But it's kinda awkward afterwards cos you have nothing to talk about. But a intelligent bookish guy.. Now that's interesting. Sometimes they're amazing lays (I love for them...
    Lucy185 Lucy185 26-30, F 10 Responses May 3, 2014

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    I am smart ! I mean I know a lot of things

    but I don't think it's sexy I am good looking but being smart isn't sexy .. What u think ? The smartness of brain not looks
    reznikkal reznikkal 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I Am Sapiosexual

    Yes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.  I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.  I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life...
    Misseddie Misseddie 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    i LOVE smart men. of course females also.

    nothing is more attractive than an intelligent and witty guy. keep getting your knowledge on! 😎
    lne12 lne12 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Lovlic Lovlic 31-35, M Sep 21, 2014

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    intelligence isn't the only thing,

    but it's definitely a requirement. Dumb ******* irritate me, and they're easy as hell to manipulate. Why mess around with the kind of woman who isn't challenging, or enjoyable to be around?
    leptar leptar 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2014

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    Of course smart is sexy!

    Is ignorance attractive? Bad grammar hot? Not in this girls eyes. On another note- looking smart is sexy too. Glasses are always hot lol
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    courtneyyyx331 courtneyyyx331 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2014

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    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    If you kiss her mind ,

    her body will follow
    Asemeto Asemeto 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11 26-30, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Three cheers for sapiosexuals!

    As a spiritual and intelligent person myself, there is absolutely nothing sexier than a guy who I can think deeper with. Someone who can talk politics, while being wise enough to see beyond this f***** up system we are governed. That's so attractive. However, the same someone...
    italiababe italiababe 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2014

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    I find smart men very sexy.

    I am attracted to intelligence more than looks.But it should be combined with humbleness because nobody likes an arrogant know-it-all. A combination of smart and sophisticated would be really irresistible.I don't know if that makes me a sapiosexual.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    A person who has got the looks

    but hasn't got the brains, is just not worth it. Personally, I'd think twice about dating such a man. I love good conversations. I want a man who can reply with utter sincerity and originality. One who can give you replies that could also stimulate you to think, not one whose...
    2Paz 2Paz 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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