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I Think Smart Is Sexy

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    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Run2Me Run2Me 46-50, M a week ago

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    Intelligence

    I am very very attracted to people who are open-minded and intelligent. People who can carry a conversation, and are able to hold their own, even in the deepest discussions. The mind is sexy, in my opinion, and if your thoughts intrigue me, I am very likely to fall for you!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I find smart men very sexy.

    I am attracted to intelligence more than looks.But it should be combined with humbleness because nobody likes an arrogant know-it-all. A combination of smart and sophisticated would be really irresistible.I don't know if that makes me a sapiosexual.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    itsmenhiceee itsmenhiceee 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    coldswan coldswan 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    A fun, smart lady looking

    for interesting ppl to chat with. Good conversationalists only please. Check out my profile & let me know if I seem interesting to you. Message me please. :-)
    Elayla Elayla 31-35, F 20 hrs ago

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    jerzee78 jerzee78 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    Nothing is more unattractive

    than a stupid guy. Especially my age guys want to **** the hottest chick or party all the time. I want a guy who smart and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who picks up book or likes to talk about what's going on in the world;besides who throwing the next banger. Nothing...
    cherryBloosom95 cherryBloosom95 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I am an accountant by trade

    but i love breaking the stereotype and when I tell someone I am an accountant they can never believe that I am so pretty and blonde yet also smart. It is invigorating!!
    Kathryn2093 Kathryn2093 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    So my opinion use to be smart is sexy

    and still somewhat holds true but if this is how I want my self to view or consider to be attractive em I selling my self short? Sure there's benifits to being with someone with bit of knowledge. But I have to ask. Who the **** really knows what the **** there talking about...
    Janisoneluv Janisoneluv 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    i think smart guys are very sexy.

    i would rather have a smart man, than a man who is dumb as bricks.
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    Three cheers for sapiosexuals!

    As a spiritual and intelligent person myself, there is absolutely nothing sexier than a guy who I can think deeper with. Someone who can talk politics, while being wise enough to see beyond this f***** up system we are governed. That's so attractive. However, the same someone...
    italiababe italiababe 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Of course smart is sexy!

    Is ignorance attractive? Bad grammar hot? Not in this girls eyes. On another note- looking smart is sexy too. Glasses are always hot lol
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I am very happy with my circle of friends.

    Everyone is different and I enjoy them. Everyone makes me feel special. There is a different connection with everyone . Thank you for sharing a piece of your inner world with me. I am a better person every day because of you. And yes ll of you are smart and sexy in their own...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M Feb 26

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    well smart people turn me on it dont matter

    weather they are guy or girl they just turn me on :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 8

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    FattyAndLovingMyself FattyAndLovingMyself 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    An Attractive Trait

    this has always been one of my top turn ons. and not just for guys, but for girls too. no, im not bi lol but ive always viewed someones intellect as an attractive trait. not to brag ;) but i like to think of myself as rather smart lol and sometimes i come off as being a smart...
    liyah21 liyah21 26-30, F 30 Responses May 27, 2013

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    My life completely changed

    for the better (I think, but I don't know) the day she took residence in my mind... She redecorated my grey matter, Infused a few new ideas into my white matter Switched around my cerebrum and cerebellum... Short circuited my brain stem Got confused between my thalamus and...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 11

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    Heart09 Heart09 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 9

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    hello i am very sexy boy

    so need to talk with sexy girl or women..
    luckysharp luckysharp 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    i LOVE smart men. of course females also.

    nothing is more attractive than an intelligent and witty guy. keep getting your knowledge on! 😎
    lne12 lne12 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F Sep 24

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    There is nothing more erotic

    than a good conversation...
    Goliath2014 Goliath2014 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    Lovlic Lovlic 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 26

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    The Girl With The Big, Gently Bouncing Frontal Lobes

    A woman I met on this site suggested I write a bit more. I am a writer, after all. And yet, for the most part, I haven't written more than one or two stories on EP. Why? Call me cynical, but the caliber of intellect on EP (admittedly, as evidenced by the questions section) has...
    literaryrogue literaryrogue 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    If you can talk to me in whole words with

    accurate spelling and grammer, I will automatically find you attractive. Furthermore, if you can then engage in intelligent conversation with me... 👏🙌👍
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 12 Responses May 21

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    Hell Yes.

    Talk nerdy to me. I wanna hear all your theories. All the complicated thoughts you have strung together up in the messed up little mind of yours. I want to read your spelling and grammar and not cringe while doing so. I want to admire your wit and struggle to compete with your...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    What Is Sexy?

    Sexy is a skin that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is...
    yiskah yiskah 18-21 9 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    hotiscull hotiscull 31-35, M Sep 9

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    I Am Sapiosexual

    Yes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.  I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.  I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life...
    Misseddie Misseddie 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I think ...Somebody's mind can be far more

    attractive then their looks
    targets targets 26-30, M 6 Responses May 21

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    courtneyyyx331 courtneyyyx331 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 28

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    Sure it's fun to fck a dumbass

    once in awhile if his body is hard and hot, and they tend to be good lays too cos that's all they do. But it's kinda awkward afterwards cos you have nothing to talk about. But a intelligent bookish guy.. Now that's interesting. Sometimes they're amazing lays (I love for them...
    Lucy185 Lucy185 26-30, F 11 Responses May 3

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    i find intelligent men very sexy,

    i think its a very attractive feature. i love men that love to learn new things and gain more knowledge. its very captivating to me and makes me want to be smarter myself. smart & sophisticated is very sexy in my opinion.
    AThousandThoughts AThousandThoughts 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I think smart is sexy,

    because stupid most definitely is not. Working with people means that I have to deal with the intellectually challenged on a daily basis. I have come to accept their existence and show them boundless patience. But could I ever be attracted to a dim wit? No. They simply hold no...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 18

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    beccabiggs2702 beccabiggs2702 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 2

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    I'm a self confessed nerd

    and proud of it. If a person doesn't stimulate me intellectually it doesn't go far.
    CandleDancer39 CandleDancer39 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    There is simply no sexy without smart.

    I don't care how good you look.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    What Pics/Selfies Are Appropriate For Teens?

    This is something I've been thinking about. I'm not one for provocative, sexy or lingerie flashing teen selfies because any one can see them and you never know how it can affect your future plus sometimes I feel its shameful/self degrading. (Not just teens) Just the other day...
    storylover6 storylover6 13-15, F Aug 30

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    After someone's physical attractiveness

    and yours match enough to get acquainted, then the quality of the conversation is what can make or break a budding relationship. A couple can be opposites and have little in common, but if both are intelligent and good listeners, the differences can be exciting instead of deal...
    DrConan DrConan 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    It really is.. it's enticing,

    seductive, down right appealing in all aspects. If you can hold an intellectually gratifying conversation, I will talk to you very, very often.
    BIackyChan BIackyChan 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    Haha you better believe it.

    Everyone dresses so dirty and nasty today from boobs showing to boxers showing. I have some words from our elders to share with you. PULL UP YOUR DAMN PANTS!
    rjcampbell23 rjcampbell23 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    brutus2003 brutus2003 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I m horny guy looking

    for horny girl for skypesex.. any girl
    svincy svincy 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    afoolishheart afoolishheart 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    Lovlic Lovlic 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Biggest turn on tbh. When guys are cool

    and funny and then you find out they're intellegent TOO, just wow.
    leonelarocks leonelarocks 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Attractiveness is a wonderful quality,

    but I'll be honest: if I can't have an interesting conversation with you with my eyes closed, there's little chance we'll last for any meaningful period of time.
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Mmmmmm I do believe smart is sexy.

    Nothing like a man who's confident about what he's talking about. I get so turned on listening to him talk about his research 😉
    AlixSmiles AlixSmiles 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    I personally love intelligent men.

    Smart is most definitely sexy to me. I think a man who has a strong vocabulary and can keep a conversation going is definitely attractive.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    If you can fu.ck my mind with your words

    than I promise you...you will not be able to leave that bed without being sore and grinning ear to ear....
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 11

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    You may be very attractive,

    in which case I will most likely check you out. Once I have if I discover that you are as dumb as a box of rocks then I will want to get away from you as quickly as possible. If you are smart and intelligent, you will have my attention. I have a hunger for knowledge and...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 7 Responses Feb 7