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I Think Smart Is Sexy

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    Hell Yes.

    Talk nerdy to me. I wanna hear all your theories. All the complicated thoughts you have strung together up in the messed up little mind of yours. I want to read your spelling and grammar and not cringe while doing so. I want to admire your wit and struggle to compete with your...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    I just recently discovered how true this is

    for me. There's a girl in one of my classes who is always late (most of my classmates are). I kind of find this annoying, but I understand the whole college-commuter thing so I cut her some slack. One day I glanced over and noticed that she was taking a lot of notes, more than...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Being smart is so attractive

    and sexy, I hate when people act dumb to be cute
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 20

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    Fwizzy Fwizzy 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    MissAlways23 MissAlways23 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    It sucks talking to a cute guy,

    only to realize that he isn't intellectually stimulating. Especially if the majority of what he says are a series of "fillers"... Uhh.. Umm.. You know... Like... Lemme see... Just... Hmm... Like.. Yeah.. See... (And you know he's not stammering from being smitten with you...
    bijou08 bijou08 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Mmmmmm I do believe smart is sexy.

    Nothing like a man who's confident about what he's talking about. I get so turned on listening to him talk about his research πŸ˜‰
    AlixSmiles AlixSmiles 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    Attractiveness is a wonderful quality,

    but I'll be honest: if I can't have an interesting conversation with you with my eyes closed, there's little chance we'll last for any meaningful period of time.
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Smart Is Cool

    But for a long time, I didn't think so. In grade school and middle school I was an underachiever. Outshined by all of the doctors and lawyers children with more money than my family. Kind of the black sheep, but subtlely. I dumbed myself down during highschool too, hanging out...
    BrightlyWound BrightlyWound 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    An Attractive Trait

    this has always been one of my top turn ons. and not just for guys, but for girls too. no, im not bi lol but ive always viewed someones intellect as an attractive trait. not to brag ;) but i like to think of myself as rather smart lol and sometimes i come off as being a smart...
    liyah21 liyah21 26-30, F 25 Responses May 27, 2013

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    Intelligence

    I am very very attracted to people who are open-minded and intelligent. People who can carry a conversation, and are able to hold their own, even in the deepest discussions. The mind is sexy, in my opinion, and if your thoughts intrigue me, I am very likely to fall for you!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    Every Woman Should Read This

    I have posted that I love to look at women. But the truth of the matter is an average woman can be sexier if they are blessed with intellect. I adore women that can challenge me with a stimulating conversation or a valid argument. The ability to converse with clear, concise and...
    kunar12 kunar12 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    iDntCurr iDntCurr 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    I Am Sapiosexual

    Yes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.Β  I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.Β  I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life...
    Misseddie Misseddie 41-45, F 11 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I have to admit, there's a woman I know at work.

    Wow! Does she ever dress sharp and professionally! She carries herself with dignity and poise. But most appealing of all...she's brilliant. I can carry on a conversation with her and never once feel the need to explain myself or define terms. In addition to that, she has her own...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    You may be very attractive,

    in which case I will most likely check you out. Once I have if I discover that you are as dumb as a box of rocks then I will want to get away from you as quickly as possible. If you are smart and intelligent, you will have my attention. I have a hunger for knowledge and...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 7 Responses Feb 7

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    Of course smart is sexy!

    Is ignorance attractive? Bad grammar hot? Not in this girls eyes. On another note- looking smart is sexy too. Glasses are always hot lol
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I'm a self confessed nerd

    and proud of it. If a person doesn't stimulate me intellectually it doesn't go far.
    CandleDancer39 CandleDancer39 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    Smart is the only sexy!

    Figure isn't.
    philophil philophil 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Feb 28

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    During my freshman year in college,

    I had the most beautiful and enchanting english professor. I didn't realize at the time, how my amusement for her was more than student/teacher admiration. Back then I didn't even knew I was attracted to women, but my crush for her was inevitable and now that I look back it...
    lizabg lizabg 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    Hey fella's treat your lady with respect

    and she will love you and look out for you. make her feel like she is so special and she will do "almost" anything for you!! true story.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 22

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    The Girl With The Big, Gently Bouncing Frontal Lobes

    A woman I met on this site suggested I write a bit more. I am a writer, after all. And yet, for the most part, I haven't written more than one or two stories on EP. Why? Call me cynical, but the caliber of intellect on EP (admittedly, as evidenced by the questions section) has...
    literaryrogue literaryrogue 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    Fwizzy Fwizzy 13-15, M Mar 10

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    Smart is sexy. But it's only sexy

    when they are humble too. If they are brilliant but totally full of themselves because of it, that is an instant turn off.
    GypsySun GypsySun 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    There's nothing sexier

    than a really smart guy. Someone open minded , thoughtful , deep & just educated. Is that to much to ask for?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 25

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    I am very happy with my circle of friends.

    Everyone is different and I enjoy them. Everyone makes me feel special. There is a different connection with everyone . Thank you for sharing a piece of your inner world with me. I am a better person every day because of you. And yes ll of you are smart and sexy in their own...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 26

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    Sexy girls are offenly smart an sharp I has

    serious bold conversation wid smart girls ...πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜„πŸ˜„
    usman1engnieer usman1engnieer 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Yep :) I agree!! Can't stand people

    who act and sound like idiots.
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    smart girls are sexy,

    I love the intelligent conversations we have, smart can be sassy! I like it, I like it a lot.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 13

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    I love inner beauty. The wrapping paper is

    beautiful and she spent time picking it out. She looked for an hour to find the perfect ribbon and another hour to find a bow that would accentuate the gift. I must admire her attention to detail. It's flawless. But, most often the gift is what's beyond the ornate material that...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    i LOVE smart men. of course females also.

    nothing is more attractive than an intelligent and witty guy. keep getting your knowledge on! 😎
    lne12 lne12 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Three cheers for sapiosexuals!

    As a spiritual and intelligent person myself, there is absolutely nothing sexier than a guy who I can think deeper with. Someone who can talk politics, while being wise enough to see beyond this f***** up system we are governed. That's so attractive. However, the same someone...
    italiababe italiababe 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 2

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    I personally love intelligent men.

    Smart is most definitely sexy to me. I think a man who has a strong vocabulary and can keep a conversation going is definitely attractive.
    sdx3 sdx3 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    There is simply no sexy without smart.

    I don't care how good you look.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I Do Enjoy Conversation

    Lets start with this... I completely blame it on this new generation. It? It is the dreadful thing called texting. I'm really glad they have came up with ways to communicate with friends and loved ones. Texting though, all in itself has ruined the word which is called...
    browncoal browncoal 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    Nothing is more unattractive

    than a stupid guy. Especially my age guys want to **** the hottest chick or party all the time. I want a guy who smart and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who picks up book or likes to talk about what's going on in the world;besides who throwing the next banger. Nothing...
    cherryBloosom95 cherryBloosom95 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Correlation Observation: Most of the posts

    when scrolled down are made by women. Interesting.
    HisOpulence HisOpulence 18-21, M Feb 20

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    Hmmm, well I have a M.

    A. In Chinese a History and a Ph.D in Modern British History. Not sure that makes me smart but it sure pays the bills. ;)
    JusBec JusBec 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    i think smart guys are very sexy.

    i would rather have a smart man, than a man who is dumb as bricks.
    lexik123 lexik123 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    Ivonna Ivonna 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    Mmmm brains turn me on more

    than anything. And if you pair that with a sweet tushy well my my just wait till I get you alone. xx
    soulsurges soulsurges 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    The Scientist

    I never cared for blondes or shorter men really but a couple years ago I was matched up on OkCupid with a short, blonde guy. The beginning was a blur because of chemistry and giddy foolishness but he was this brilliant man with this amazing mind. I always feel I just can't grasp...
    therunawaygirl therunawaygirl 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    I am attracted to people

    who are smart
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    What Is Sexy?

    Sexy is a skin that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is...
    yiskah yiskah 18-21, M 9 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Another one of my ex's tell me what you

    think😘❀️ I still really like this girl πŸ˜” it's complicated I've dated many girls but they've ended bad because of my stupid decisions :(
    Fwizzy Fwizzy 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    nani571 nani571 26-30, M Apr 12

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    Your beautiful mind entraps me.

    Twisted, tangled... your wisdom holds me captive. To fight it is futile. I am powerless under its spell.
    redhotridinghood redhotridinghood 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 17

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    I will share to you the smexy French adventures

    I have with Hector XD Hector: Plz don't drag me into this SquirrellyChan >__< Hector: o_O...~_~ Brain: O_O *I could not prouder as a neglectful father like figure or something like that ^_^ Maybe verbally abusive o_O But I don't really care ~_~* Me: Anyway I just wanted to...
    SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 18-21 Mar 9

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    I'm very hot and smart

    so yea I'm perfect in everyday!
    Hotblondey Hotblondey 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Smart people turn me on.

    No matter the gender lol
    Andrea1994 Andrea1994 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Please don't bore me!

    Think, ask, learn .. It's very sexy :)
    AlphaChick AlphaChick 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Those of you who read my stories on a regular basis know that I do not shy away from sensitive topics. So here I go with another one. The statement "I am a sexy man" will come...
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    I believe that being intelligent and not just a smartass is sexy*β€’* I adore smart people! <3
    Annablake Annablake 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 15