I Think Smart Is Sexy

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    I shudder at how erotic intelligence is

    so non existent among so many of us. There is nothing more disappointing for a woman to give subtle naughty, sexy hints to someone who is already into her, only to get a flat response. Example (via SMS)... Woman: When I go out, I like to dress casually in short skirts or...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Jan 14

    A man with a fine tuned mind,

    quick wit, a vocabulary of words that can get my heart racing without putting a hand on me. That's sexy. That man would have me eating out of his palm. And begging for more.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jan 23

    Hi, girls. I am hot guy,

    add me pls, skype - mengak
    mengak mengak
    26-30, M
    Apr 10

    I always love smart girls.

    Cause they are fun to be with. They know what you are talking about, they are productive. They don't usually just answer questions, they are curious, ask you questions too.. having such a conversation is sexy.
    Gallantio Gallantio
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 24
    bhella04 bhella04
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    Nothing is more sexy then a girl with a good

    head on her shoulders. Ugh i love it! :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 4, 2015
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Jan 3

    Nothing more attractive then a man

    that knows his stuff and has passion. Especially if he's knowledgeable on law and politics. EDIT: And history :p
    Alleyandra Alleyandra
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    I Am Sapiosexual

    Yes. I think the biggest turn on for me is an interesting free thinking analytical mind.ย  I love the thought of reducing a man whom is normally controlled in his professional and social life to a slave of his sexual urges.ย  I feel a deeper connection with someone who has life...
    Misseddie Misseddie
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Feb 10, 2013

    Anyone wanna have an intelligent conversation ?

    Just a bored young woman looking to talk
    LostInADream96 LostInADream96
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 9
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 27, 2015
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 6

    Why do we have balloons

    for birthdays? Happy birthday here's a plastic sack of my breath..
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    Dec 26, 2015
    expomasseur expomasseur
    31-35, M
    Jan 5
    Heavenly15 Heavenly15
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    Dumb, hot girls are the worst.

    It's like when you get a birthday card but there's no money inside.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 8, 2015

    Why do medications never have any good side

    effects? Just once I'd like to read a medicine bottle that says, "May cause extreme sexiness"
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 5

    There is nothing better

    than an intelligent person. I'll take smart and average over dumb and gorgeous any day. It must be an Aquarius thing to look for someone smart and able to hold a conversation.
    AaronKGibbs AaronKGibbs
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 6

    Nothing turns me on more

    than a man's brain. A man that can talk about politics, current events, the world, history, and science is very sexy to me.
    jencpa jencpa
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    An Attractive Trait

    this has always been one of my top turn ons. and not just for guys, but for girls too. no, im not bi lol but ive always viewed someones intellect as an attractive trait. not to brag ;) but i like to think of myself as rather smart lol and sometimes i come off as being a smart...
    liyah21 liyah21
    26-30, F
    23 Responses May 27, 2013

    As a kid, I actually had a crush on Egon from

    The Ghostbusters cartoon. I was/am so weird.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 23

    Nothing is more unattractive

    than a stupid guy. Especially my age guys want to **** the hottest chick or party all the time. I want a guy who smart and knows what he wants out of life. Someone who picks up book or likes to talk about what's going on in the world;besides who throwing the next banger. Nothing...
    cherryBloosom95 cherryBloosom95
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Dec 1, 2013

    I think the word for

    that is sapiosexual... Not sure I like the word, I'm not even sure it describes me best. All I know is that I'm different than most people. And that it makes meeting someone incredibly difficult. I've never been interested much in guys for their looks... I care much more about...
    laleee laleee
    31-35, F
    7 Responses May 27, 2015

    Have you ever come across a story someone has

    written on ep that was so intelligent and well written, that it was a turn on? Even their replies to people are so well thought out, and literally blow your mind. They are so smart, you aren't even sure what it is they said. It flows over your head.
    Sarahkay612 Sarahkay612
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Feb 23

    My day job requires me to manipulate hydrogen

    in a super conducting magnetic field with the aide of RF pulses at specific frequencies. My damn phone probably has more computing capacity than the Gemini rockets that carried brave souls to the moon. I have come to loathe technology. I was reading through some of my...
    HomelessWind HomelessWind
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    I love smart guys, being intelligent instantly

    makes you more attractive in my opinion.
    Yonniew Yonniew
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 24
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 5

    Never argue with someone

    that types faster than you
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 26, 2015

    I think ...Somebody's mind can be far more

    attractive then their looks
    targets targets
    26-30, M
    4 Responses May 21, 2014
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    If you can talk to me in whole words with

    accurate spelling and grammer, I will automatically find you attractive. Furthermore, if you can then engage in intelligent conversation with me... ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ‘
    Mannz Mannz
    18-21, F
    7 Responses May 21, 2014

    I've always had a thing

    for women who can play the piano, not only does it show intelligence, but it shows how soft and sweet they can be and how tough they are. By the ways the keys are hit and the foot work, the sound that leaves those strings is an aphrodisiac. That right melody is all it takes and...
    Bryan29 Bryan29
    31-35, M
    Jan 21

    Intelligent conversations include the right

    words, right smile at the right time, movement of hands in the air, right moments of silence and thought, right questions, not argument but discussion about things. The best part is when I forget about the subject, and start watching him making smart jests while trying to...
    Soossie Soossie
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Jan 23
    batmansgrandmother batmansgrandmother
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 22, 2015

    Of course, sexual attraction can come from

    physical attraction, but nothing beats the feeling I get when I am talking to someone who knows their ****. Haha. Politics, sociology, psychology, the news, books, anything!! Especially when they get all passionate about it.. Holy **** it sends chills... well.. everywhere. Haha
    TeraLocura TeraLocura
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    You cant open up the story of my life

    and just go to page 554 and think you know me.
    somebodythatuusedtoknow somebodythatuusedtoknow
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 24

    Im looking for someone to **** me hard I'm 19

    years old girl with big boobs and ***, and live in London my no is 07597569860
    Priya12322 Priya12322
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 12
    Heart09 Heart09
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2014

    Sexaul attraction is not always physical to me.

    I find it more to be a mental thing, if someone is good in the mind as they are in the bedroom(or wherever you choose to have sex) Then that's good enough for me. Sex is physical yes, sometimes there a boundaries we don't cross, that's just personal preference. Although, one...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 24, 2015
    bluebaby072 bluebaby072
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Mar 26, 2014

    If you kiss her mind ,

    her body will follow
    Asemeto Asemeto
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Dec 21, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    22 Responses Mar 19

    You have to please my mind first

    before you can please me..
    saucyspicyandsweet saucyspicyandsweet
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2015

    That awkward moment when you are about to hug

    someone sexy as hell and then you hit the mirror ;) ;)
    ItsOkey ItsOkey
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 18

    As I lay here looking up at the stars,

    it suddenly dawned on me someone has stolen my roof.
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    Dec 27, 2015

    I have a crush on that boy,

    he is so intelligent. Nobody can stop him when he is speaking about something he love, I could listen to him during hours. It is great to have someone intelligent to speak with
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 23

    What Is Sexy?

    Sexy is a skin that is soft not ashy kindness is sexy laughter is sexy realness is is sexy smart is sexy humor is sexy bold is sexy truth is sexy confidence is sexy passion is sexy quirky(not strange) is sexy individualism is sexy mystery is sexy compassion is sexy fairness is...
    yiskah yiskah
    22-25, M
    16 Responses Jul 16, 2013

    They say don't snack at night.

    Why do I have a light in my fridge then
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    Dec 27, 2015
    BigNJ76 BigNJ76
    36-40, M
    Jan 6

    I love young guys that are really smart it's

    just so much better than cool and disinterested!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Oct 9, 2015

    I had thought that was my original saying,

    I see it is not. I found the site when I googled I'm the loneliest person. That's not true completely but it is at this moment. I was a beautiful woman all my life, children friends work life was a very good life was very good, a divorced or up my world got tore up like a...
    jezze5000 jezze5000
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Dec 26, 2015
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