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I Think Some People Shouldn't Have Kids

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    Chinrussian Chinrussian 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 7, 2014

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    Children are a committed investment.

    They shape and enrich your life. These people who do not allow them this and instead let them run riot and fend for themselves, are disgraceful! Children need good leadership, be set clear boundaries and be loved unconditionally!
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I wonder why I

    even had em. lol Just kidding, I love them like crazy. ...the little sh.its
    Prettyboy82 Prettyboy82 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    Yup. I think if you can't support them you

    shouldn't have kids. And if you do drugs then no you shouldn't have kids. If you can't be a responsible parent then no. I know people who live like crap because of their parents instability. None of them are going anywhere and it starts out from their mom and lack of parenting...
    AzureTiger AzureTiger 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2014

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    Unless they would be the most caring

    and wonderful human beings in the world. They don't have to be perfect but abuse and neglect is a big no no
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    Sesshomaru031 Sesshomaru031 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    4biandu 4biandu 31-35, F Oct 4, 2014

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    My aunt has 3 (I think,

    maybe more) kids, yet she can't support herself. She doesn't have a full-time job nor does she have adequate living arrangements. She's going to court for possession of and intent to sell drugs. Her boyfriend is going against her in court as well. I'd love to say that despite...
    QuietSiren QuietSiren 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Drug abusers and alcoholics

    and psychopaths .. But everyone have children
    nonorawi nonorawi 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    One of the Two Biggest Mistakes of My Life

    Some people were never meant to be parents.  I'm one of those people.  It's years too late for an abortion.  Unfortunately, I now have to live with this for the rest of my life. I you are one of those people who think you might not be suited to parenting, listen...
    ag123 ag123 41-45 11 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    I made an Irish drinking song,

    because I'm Irish and I drink. Hey, screaming lady in the grocery isle! You shouldn't have kids! Hey, you in the minivan leaving your child! You shouldn't have kids! Hey, pregnant drug addict prostitute! You shouldn't have kids! Hey, little kid looking destitute Yo mamma...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    I have a 9 year old son already

    but he's with my ex. Turns out I wasnt ready for motherhood and too immature. I don't plan on having anymore kids but I try to see my son once a month but my ex is a jerk
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 24

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    Donny1965 Donny1965 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    Seen a woman today who slapped her son

    so hard it made me cringe and then she lifted him off the floor by his arm and it looked like it was about to break,someone definitely called the cops,but i was stunned at how someone could do that to a baby or child like wtf
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

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    I can name quite a few people in my area

    who should be made sterile! I think there should be a law that requires want-to-be parents to have some sort of test to make sure they are fit to be parents. This should include their lifestyle, how the plan to financially care for their child, their living space and their...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    hey there, i had as a child more

    than only one bad experience. My memories reach from abuse to really badly hurt. My Mother with a lot of time for men but only hate for her children was always else were and if she was home she was in a bad mood. when i did something that she didn't like she would hit me again...
    sundina sundina 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    If you can't take care of yourself how are you

    suppose to take care of a newborn? Or a toddler? If you can't sustain yourself then how could you feed your hungry children? I'm not saying people can't change there lives but until they do they do no good by bringing a child into their sad, messed up world.
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    A friend of mine had to take care of his

    neighbor's kids for a few days because their dad was away and their mom had to go to the hospital after a car accident. He had absolutely no idea about how to take care of them. (Not letting an eight-year-old play battlefield is common sense, isn't it?) Called me about thirty...
    blubbyourmom blubbyourmom 22-25, M 2 Responses May 14

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    If all you ever do is yell

    and hit you're child. Then why would you even have kids?
    maddieboo16 maddieboo16 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    Even though the human body is made to continue

    the existence of our species, it doesn't mean some people should contribute their genes for the next generation. I live in an upper middle class city. Picture the most stereotypical rich suburb you can. Bimbo trophy wives made into plastic surgery perfection, and rich dads who...
    TheIvoryOwl TheIvoryOwl 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Sometimes I see people in public and,

    as much as I try not to judge people, I worry that they'll have kids. Haha!
    CaliginousHeart CaliginousHeart 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2014

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    Some People Need To Close Their Legs And Open A Book

    What annoys me about some parents: 1. They're too young and still a baby themselves. They don't know what's best for a child, they can hardly even afford one and relying on a bunch of help from their family. If you're under 18 for the health of humanity you should probably try to...
    babyblueeyes0417 babyblueeyes0417 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    It's evening at he wants to play with someone.

    The 4 year old tugs at his dad who's on the couch watching a a movie. "Go play Conner...okay?" Conner picks up two small toy trucks out from his jumbled assortment of toys. With trucks in his hands he walk up to his uncle who's visiting and is on the phone."Kenny...play okay...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    totaloblivion totaloblivion 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    You Can't Take Care of It

    I joined this group because I think some people can't take care of children, there are so many abused and neglected children in the world. I say if you can't take care of it, don't bring it in the world. I am tired of hearing how Beethoven and so many other geniuses ...
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 28 Responses Mar 8, 2009

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    i refuse to have a kid

    before i am economically ready. i feel i am there with everything else though
    alex33009 alex33009 26-30, M 1 Response May 10

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    I have seen some pretty f*cked up stuff being

    done by people calling themselves 'parents' almost to the point its a push calling them 'people' Guys who knock a girl up but can't be bothered to take care of either the woman or the kid. Women who drink and smoke heavily whilst drunk. 'Parents' who do nothing but argue and...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response May 10

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    Chinrussian Chinrussian 18-21, M Oct 22, 2014

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    My sister should've never had children.

    She just locks herself in her bedroom with her new boyfriend of the week, she pays no attention to them, she doesn't deserve to be called a mother. My heart breaks daily for my 4 nieces and nephews.
    JerseyRoyaltyx0 JerseyRoyaltyx0 18-21, F Feb 24, 2014

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    I know no one is perfect

    but not everyone should have kids. Doctors and laws should get into parents' IQ, whether they have common sense or not, habits, and salary. Gosh! If one person lives like a pig and raises two kids with the same nasty habits, it's not fair for others to tolerate. Not to mention...
    destinii3 destinii3 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2014

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    I am so ******* sick of seeing child abuse

    every time I turn on the news! Who the hell can harm their child, or kill their child. It also sickens me all these poor underage women being sold to men half their age by their parents all over the world! What the hell is wrong with these parents!? In India and China, parents...
    nursingstudentxo nursingstudentxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    If you can't take care of kids,

    be involved in their lives, and be willing to make sacrifices for them, use birth control.
    PinkChocolate00 PinkChocolate00 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I think most people shouldn't have kids.

    Just about all of the people I know have kids now and not a single one of them are what I would call a good parent. Some of the worst people I know are the ones with four or five kids. I think maybe people should be screened early in life and the ones there's no hope for should...
    justarandom justarandom 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    I Think Some People Aren't *ready* to Have Children.

    Call me a bleeding heart humanist, but I still hold dear the notion that the vast masses of human mess out have the chance at healing and finding their way. There are some people who most certainly shouldn't ever have children for the child's welfare - paedophiles, sociopaths and...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 28, 2007

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    I always think of what Keanu Reed's character

    said in that movie Parenthood. "...you need a license to buy a dog, or drive a car. Hell, you need a license to catch a fish! But they'll let any butt-reaming ******* be a father." Parenting is not hit everyone.
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    If you have a bunch of children,

    you don't have any clue on how to raise them, then all you are accomplishing is creating future psychology patients. Anyone can have sex and create a child, but it takes a real good person to raise that child.
    lifelifeishard lifelifeishard 46-50, M Sep 21, 2014

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    benz814 benz814 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I have no respect for women

    who put their selfish needs before their kids. It's even worse when they put their "man" first...
    kmm95 kmm95 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2014

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    It breaks my heart to see some scum

    who have kids and couldn't care less about them when there are some amazing people who physically can't have kids but would be amazing parents.
    thefurthestthing thefurthestthing 18-21, F Oct 23, 2014

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    I just think it's ridiculous how some horrible

    people are blessed enough to have kids but mistreat them when there are amazing people who would make amazing parents but can't have kids! I understand, some people simply don't love their kids, but at least give them up fir adoption or something. Give them a chance! A chance at...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    I use to be against abortions,

    BUT after seeing and hearing what some children go through, I'm all for it! I rather for a woman to have an abortion, then to let her child get abused in ANY type of way, weather it's by her, or someone else. Some people SHOULD NOT have kids!
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    I don't think I'll make a good mother.

    I think this is my first time admitting such.
    LwrenSD LwrenSD 26-30, F 6 Responses May 10

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    Many, many years ago my dad said to me,

    "They take some of the worst people in the world and turn them into parents." His point was to be sympathetic and understanding, not judgmental. I've tried to always remember that.
    AzabethTV AzabethTV 51-55, T Dec 9, 2014

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    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I believe strongly that people with unresolved

    anger issues or past abuse should strongly consider counseling before becoming parents. It would be nice if you needed a license before you could have children that ensure you possessed the basic knowledge and skills to raise a healthy and happy child. Too much abuse, pain and...
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 46-50 5 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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