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I Think Sometimes, You Just Have To Go For It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 175 People

    If I Can't Do This, I Can't Do Anything

    If I can't do this, I can't do anything.  Thats what I told myself when I made myself call someone who used to be my friend.  We had a really bad falling out two years ago.  It tore me apart because she was my oldest friend, and the closest thing I ever had for a...
    SerenaDragonfly SerenaDragonfly 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    All Ya Gotta Do...

    There's some times when all you can do is make that huge leap of faith and trust that somehow everything will come out all right. Sometimes all ya gotta do is do it!
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Sep 28, 2011

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    I Don't Like The Negative Approach I Here Others Giving Young People

    I think sometimes you have to "go after something hard" like say education or a job or take a gamble in approaching someone you are attracted to... I hear a lot of people today discouraging the youth about education and jobs, and romance... romance is not dead and its not just...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Jul 25, 2011

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    I Most Definatly Do

    I believe in taking that 'leap of faith' into the unknown, in going for it and taking a risk. Life is too short, I would rather live and fail, then to not live at all.
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 3, 2012

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    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    Very True

    I'm all in favour of taking time to think about it ... being cautious ... looking at things from all angles before making a decision. That's all just fine ... but sometimes you just know that if you don't grab the bull by the horns and go for it, the opportunity will pass you by...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    Ke$ha

    I have really been into the music of artist Ke$ha lately. I decided to look her up & check out her website. I got this story off her site today & LOVE it. This is a classic example of just going for it!     "If there’s one thing Ke$ha knows how to...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2010

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    Do It!

    I just came out of a crippling year-long depression that left me unable to even leave my apartment unless absolutely necessary. With the help of a little spiritual wake-up call, some herbal anti-depressants, and Ep, I am finally over it, and would like to start living life...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I'm trying hard to let go of a man I'm obsessed with. I wanted him after we first met, we had a short so-called relationship which wasn't satisfying because he never opened his...
    dragonkin9 dragonkin9 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Your Dominant Intelligence is Interpersonal Intelligence:-- You shine in your ability to relate to and understand others. Good at seeing others' points of view, you get how people...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I'm still in recovery and I relapsed a few times already about a week ago I think. Sometimes I want to be fully recovered and other times I never want to end my ednos. School is...
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    It's very complicated to explain why I think people come into your life for a reason. I was once in an abusive relationship for over a year, from July 2010 to December 2011. He...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 6

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    Yes. Leaves you vulnerable. At least if you haven't opened up, the real full version of you cannot be judged / rejected etc. but then I guess the full true version of yourself can...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    At times; people you have never met before, with whom you have no relation walk in your life unexpectedly for a short period, spend some quality time with you and then when its...
    hiddentears hiddentears 22-25, F 10 Responses Jul 24

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    I think that if you're on Gods path people come into your life for a reason.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 22

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    Honestly I think it's cool to have a therapist because it means you have a story to tell to people in the present and the future. It's also pretty cool because it kind of makes you...
    Zalbaar Zalbaar 13-15, M Jul 28

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    Is It You?? I can't shake this feeling of you. I know you feel the chemistry between, you and I. With you is where I wanna be. Oh I feel it coming on, the way I feel it can't be...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I definitely believe people come into your life for a reason and my guy, I'll call him D, always said the same thing. He broke up with me a week ago with zero explanation and...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Your Dominant Intelligence is Spatial Intelligence Okay, so what does that mean? You've got a good sense of space and how the world around you looks. You can close your eyes and...
    ClaudNine ClaudNine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    you have gotten, been in a bar fight, and had your heart broke n all n one night...
    Devilonyashoulda Devilonyashoulda 46-50, M Aug 9

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    Actually I think everything come into your life for reason.if I wake up and saw a bird in front of my window I will know there is reason for seeing this bird today.Good people or...
    denez denez 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Situated in a very semi rural place, this conclude terraced cottage continues to be prolonged for the rear by The present entrepreneurs to deliver roomy accommodationSearch phrases...
    Tyree1187pq Tyree1187pq 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i have been married to the same man for almost 14 years. i really love him but his sex drive is almost more than i can handle so when he keeps persisting i make him pay not always...
    warden2000 warden2000 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    My whole family attended the 70th bday party of our neighbor and its full of old people in our community ballroom dancing . You know like dance partners are already ready and if...
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    When I was 24 I had an online relationship that was horrible. He snorted coke and sold it and lived 20 hours away. I went through it for a year and a half. Never meeting him. We...
    WhereIsTheLogic WhereIsTheLogic 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    I must be a boring person really or led a sheltered life! I didn't think l was, but I've noticed some folks on here have literally hundreds of experiences, some have thousands and...
    MistyMoon1 MistyMoon1 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Sometimes you'll never get why, but your life is better because you met someone. Something gets a perspective. A conversation gets a different meaning because of their inclusion...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    There are alotta moody people on here. It is best not to engage with these people. Silence can be golden sometimes. If I read something I believe to be totally outrageous, I...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I've known all of my friends for at least 4 years and I feel so socially awkward sometimes. I feel like I don't know how to meet new people and make new friends.
    whassupoldlady whassupoldlady 16-17, F Jul 28

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    I believe people people come into our lives for a reason. Sometimes to make us feel better and lift our fallen and battered spirits. To bring and laughter. To make us realize that...
    brokenscarred brokenscarred 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I most certainly do. If you block someone because you don't like them, they don't agree with your ideology, you hate them for some idiotic bigoted reason....that's completely...
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 31

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    I don't know if I'm ok with it. I've just always been alone so when I imagine my life in 10 years I see myself alone. I think even if I had a relationship it wouldn't last, I'm so...
    emmacla emmacla 22-25, F Jul 27

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    I think I am a friend who always ends up hurting my frnds even though I try not to hurt them.. I love them a lot.. cnt live widout them... but I end up hurting them some how.. :(
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F Jul 27

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    I do not want to be contacted by those who are underage. Never mind categories. I don't think underage people should be on any type of social sites period. If they must, categories...
    OceanicXs OceanicXs 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I don't think it ever was I used to have a therapist and now social work is the career I want to pursue
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Jul 29

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    I am super young and you prob think I don't know anything about life but I have come to terms with my heart that I will never ever find love. Ppl will try to cheer me up by saying...
    foreveralone25 foreveralone25 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Even if they leave you. You get to have many experiences with people and you learn more about people. Not everyone is going to stay with you in your life. You'll lose and gain...
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I can't help myself. It's the what if, could have been, and over thinking that gets me into trouble.
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    In 2006, I conceived my first child with my then boyfriend. We were so young I was 16 and he was 15. I was so nervous about being a teen mom, but got used to the idea as my...
    breeze90 breeze90 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I thought the same until my only friend betrayed me for a pack of weed. My life is awesome.
    BlindFate BlindFate 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 20

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    They either come in it to make it better or screw it up and than you learn from your mistakes.
    ashizz ashizz 22-25, F Jul 22

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    I wanna know the reason they came only if they're gg to leave in the end. Like wth bro , did I make it that easy for you to just come in and out of my life?
    outtamymindz outtamymindz 18-21, F Jul 22

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    I have a friend that all the time acts like a *****. She gossips about everyone telling how ugly or fat is everybody and when she talks about herself she only says how wonderfull...
    sawana13 sawana13 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    It makes me cringe to know that there are 13-15 year olds reading some of the stories on here. I wish there was a way to block certain stories/experiences so that the youngsters...
    ultimatebeanstalk ultimatebeanstalk 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Until a few weeks ago, I was always the quiet kid who nobody knew the story behind. I never showed expression in class, never smiled or laughed. As a result my teachers and my...
    mkaufman mkaufman 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    Yes, some people you really like but, aren't good for you. Some people are good for you but, your not about them like that.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I am in love with someone that doesn't deserve my love. This guy and I were together for 3 years. We've known each other since middle school and in our senior year of high school...
    briley57 briley57 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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