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I Think That Caring About Other People Is My Biggest Weakness

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    Care For Those Who Care For You First

    With every aspect of our being there will be a positive and negative. You have to find a balance in between. You have to care about those who care about you. And give respect to those who you don't know yet. When someone shows you they don't care then maybe step back and question...
    natnickeep natnickeep 26-30, F Sep 20, 2010

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    Caring For Others Besides My Wife Is Deadly!!!!!!!!

    I had 2 couples as friends and each couple stayed with me at different times  since they had housing problems. Damn it was annoying as hell. Being generous can cause heartache and stress at times.
    Snookybear Snookybear 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    A Strength and a Weakness?

    I'm not sure about this one. I think caring is both my biggest strength and my biggest weakness at the same time. I've cared so intensely that it actually someone else's pain became my pain and then it got to the point where caring became painful. Then there's caring about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    A Strength and a Weakness?

    I'm not sure about this one. I think caring is both my biggest strength and my biggest weakness at the same time. I've cared so intensely that it actually someone else's pain became my pain and then it got to the point where caring became painful. Then there's caring about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    The Caretaker Needs To Take Some Care Of Herself Too...

    it has always been this way for me.other people before me.their needs,their wishes and my own would almost always take a backseat.the worth part-i never even felt that i was doing something selfless,i mean...it is just second nature...AND I ALWAYS FELT I AM NOT DOING ENOUGH...
    whosthatgal whosthatgal 18-21, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    I get attached to people

    so easily.. I guess that's my biggest weakness.. I care about all my friends and it sucks when I realize that I'm left all alone at times..
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2015

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    My dad tells me not be a hero

    and try to help everyone but I just can't help it I just care way to much for some reason does anyone know why?
    yhitoshi9 yhitoshi9 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    There will never be enough words in the world for me to explain how deeply I love him. There is no amount of time that would be enough for me to explain how much I love him. There...
    Thelostsoulslasthope Thelostsoulslasthope 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    Right... I'm not sure how to word this without becoming the person who is just complaining.. Ok... The best way to begin is from the beginning.. I am a person who for what ever...
    summer1960 summer1960 51-55, F 10 hrs ago

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    "Wow look at the weight difference" was the most common thing people used to compare. I had many eating disorders because of those comments.
    FreeXNow FreeXNow 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Its so natural :-) i dont know why people make it such a big deal
    irresistiblemeg irresistiblemeg 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well people come and go and life must go on.I just think that everyone has this huge role or maybe just small role in your life.Its like a movie of your life and everyone you've...
    felicia123angel felicia123angel 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    i do this with my loved ones, my husband, and God. i think i know what others are feeling. truth is i don't. sometimes i get the wrong idea. but i just want to be selfless and...
    coffeeonice coffeeonice 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Yes, I am comfortable with seeing other people naked, I always have been. There are only two types of people Women & Men. Nudity is something that my sister & I grew up around all...
    theswordinthestone theswordinthestone 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    This is the song on my mind the last few days. I am in love with someone who means so much to me and this song makes me thing of her.When I think of you (single version) by Girls...
    BlackRaven2015 BlackRaven2015 31-35, M a week ago

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    I am basically a happy person and I will not allow anyone to influence me in a negative way. No matter how much people may try to bring my spirits down I won't allow them to...
    samantha468 samantha468 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm not addressing all the times in my early life when we went to public swimming pools, gymnasiums, lakes, and summer camp. We all grew up back then, in the 50s and 60s, with...
    21finish 21finish 66-70, M 3 Responses Feb 2

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    I get anxiety the second I walk into school because I feel like everyone's eyes are on me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I would like to know if anyone feels the same way Right now and for a while it has felt like I'm the only one who struggles so much with this Like to the point where it effects...
    Jordbaerbonnie Jordbaerbonnie 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    might as well call me Blurryface because I care what you think
    GayUkes GayUkes 13-15, T 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Sense of humor can go a long way. I love to hear something that makes me laugh and also i love when i make people laugh because many times people dont expect it.
    xseventyXsevenx xseventyXsevenx 18-21, M Jan 30

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    I think it's similar to karma. Helping other people, bring them happiness, make them smile etc. In a moment, you'll get the happiness back which you helped create for other people...
    ihatejasonn ihatejasonn 18-21, M Jan 29

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    I used to car what people thot of me, but after being exposed as a complete sissy girl to the public, I have got to the place that this is the way I'm going to have to live and so...
    bobbylee111 bobbylee111 41-45, T 1 Response Jan 29

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    I have seen loads of people naked becz i do alot of martial arts gymnastics dance and stuff so iv seen loads of people getting changed and showering and stuff. I think everyone i...
    DemiFrsr DemiFrsr 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 29

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    You learn more about someone at the end of a relationship than at the beginning of it.
    Vejay Vejay 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29

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    OPEN HEAVENS FELLOWSHIP DAILY DEVOTION JOY IS ACTIVATED IN GOD'S PRESENCE Psalms 16:11 (NET ) You lead me in the path of life; I experience absolute joy in your presence...
    ganyoji ganyoji 22-25, F Jan 27

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    Indeed Failed Relations , Change a Person. .. We get to know our selves more , A person can change for Good or bad We learn something about ourselves, We Grow as a Person...
    Amnik Amnik 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I try tho..im just not like everybody.. im naturally awkward around new people and tend to observe the vibe before i start to join the group.
    4rmSin 4rmSin 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    I care more about other people's happiness than my own. I'm 14 and I have plenty of freinds. I'm nice to everyone. But there is a select few that have all my love and I would...
    funnyfreak01 funnyfreak01 18-21 Jan 24

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    I feel sort of like that when face to face to people it is more of the fact that I am scared that if people get to know me they won't actually like me find me boring and annoying...
    deadbyaprilpromiseme deadbyaprilpromiseme 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    There was a time I believed we do. But now I think we just meet people randomly. Some touch us more than others, some make us feel deeply, some cause us pain, some bring us joy...
    Diablessse Diablessse 46-50, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    There's no good left on Earth. The only people I can relate to in my life are the same people that I'm unable to see everyday. They understand me like nobody else. But besides them...
    FromAntoinette FromAntoinette 22-25 Jan 23

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    I think I just don't fit it.. I don't fit in in this world and with these people even less. Well, I'm sure about it. I should accept it, so I will feel much better, but that's so...
    Bircos Bircos 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    I still don't know why I met my husband or he me.He is an extrovert while I prefer to keep to myself .Mostly I do.I share my thoughts with very few people.I think we must be good...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Part 10 ( Finale ) : My Dearest J Not a day passes by without me thinking of you.After all that is said and done,I still think very fondly of you.I will never forget the sweet...
    SingapuraGirl SingapuraGirl 36-40, F Jan 23

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    Part 8 : Although the hurt is still there,life still goes on indefinitely. Yasmin Mogahed wrote in her book entitled "Reclaim Your Heart" that family, friends and all other things...
    SingapuraGirl SingapuraGirl 36-40, F Jan 23

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    Part 7 : So I told J exactly what I heard from that you tube video and that I will withdraw from this endless debate. He replied by saying that this was not going to work out as...
    SingapuraGirl SingapuraGirl 36-40, F Jan 23

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    Part 6 : Our debates with regards to our religious differences started to get more and more heated as time passed.It was almost as if the person I used to know was not there...
    SingapuraGirl SingapuraGirl 36-40, F Jan 23

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    Part 5 : I went to the church when I was in New York and did discuss some bible chapters with him even when I was back home in Singapore.All relationships have their ups and downs...
    SingapuraGirl SingapuraGirl 36-40, F Jan 22

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    Part 4 : We always kept in touch despite our 12 hours time difference. Singapore is ahead of New York by 12 hours.The time difference didn't matter for two people who were in...
    SingapuraGirl SingapuraGirl 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 22