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I Think That Caring About Other People Is My Biggest Weakness

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    Care For Those Who Care For You First

    With every aspect of our being there will be a positive and negative. You have to find a balance in between. You have to care about those who care about you. And give respect to those who you don't know yet. When someone shows you they don't care then maybe step back and question...
    natnickeep natnickeep 26-30, F Sep 20, 2010

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    Caring For Others Besides My Wife Is Deadly!!!!!!!!

    I had 2 couples as friends and each couple stayed with me at different times  since they had housing problems. Damn it was annoying as hell. Being generous can cause heartache and stress at times.
    Snookybear Snookybear 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    The Caretaker Needs To Take Some Care Of Herself Too...

    it has always been this way for me.other people before me.their needs,their wishes and my own would almost always take a backseat.the worth part-i never even felt that i was doing something selfless,i mean...it is just second nature...AND I ALWAYS FELT I AM NOT DOING ENOUGH...
    whosthatgal whosthatgal 18-21, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    I get attached to people

    so easily.. I guess that's my biggest weakness.. I care about all my friends and it sucks when I realize that I'm left all alone at times..
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    A Strength and a Weakness?

    I'm not sure about this one. I think caring is both my biggest strength and my biggest weakness at the same time. I've cared so intensely that it actually someone else's pain became my pain and then it got to the point where caring became painful. Then there's caring about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    My dad tells me not be a hero

    and try to help everyone but I just can't help it I just care way to much for some reason does anyone know why?
    yhitoshi9 yhitoshi9 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    A Strength and a Weakness?

    I'm not sure about this one. I think caring is both my biggest strength and my biggest weakness at the same time. I've cared so intensely that it actually someone else's pain became my pain and then it got to the point where caring became painful. Then there's caring about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    Why should worry or care about other people opinion. Not caring I know that I can't get hurt
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    I know we do. We go through life constantly meeting people as co-workers, religious services, shopping, and so many other places including online. But then you'll meet someone...
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    We meet some people just so they can test are spirit, strengths, and weakness. To make us stronger to help shape, and mold us to who we are to be.
    space4rent space4rent 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Even when you're going through your toughest times. Even when you baled on me when I needed you most, I still care. There are only a few people I really care about, and I need you...
    blindangel92 blindangel92 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I actually find it kind of distasteful. No offense to anyone who does it. But, I'd hate it if I found out man was sending his friends pictures of me, or swapping pictures of me...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 4

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    I am annoyed at vain people. I am the first person you'd find smirking at someone who always have a mirror/camera on hand so that they can take a good look at their "perfect" self...
    nve09 nve09 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 25

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    Most teens my age disrespectful rude and rebellious they listen to horrible music.that is teaching them to hate one another to kill one another how to make babies only over at the...
    Whyicry Whyicry 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    A few years ago I made a friend at work and soon after another friend, who I may or may not have had a crush on...okay I totally did and the first friend knew it. Unbenounced to me...
    ChristinaWrites ChristinaWrites 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I mean, I'd imagine that people see me with their own two eyes, but I do wonder what they think of me.
    Blue707 Blue707 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I know I met him for a reason, I dreamt about a conversation we would have BEFORE we reencountered each other. I woke up one night with his name on my lips, "Mike...where did that...
    crownandginger crownandginger 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    About me, about, what I do or don't do, and even about the guy I THINK I'd like to date...
    Naockey Naockey 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    It's not a fault of mine if I have passion in my vein. I am a warm person, and I need to touch, smell, kiss and love... I have so much to give but yet so much to take. Some call it...
    TristanIseut TristanIseut 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I swap my own pictures and only my own pictures . I will not abuse my friends trust by swapping their pictures . As far as I am concerned pictures I receive are for my eyes only...
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    I totally blame my manager for the terrible shape my office is in. She is going to end up losing me and the only other competent person in our office and then maybe she'll realize...
    denverleh denverleh 46-50, F Apr 5

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    To me i'm a strange person who listens and has a great sense of humor and annoying hiccups that i get way to regularly. To be honest i don't see myself as such a great person and...
    Rainbowberrycat Rainbowberrycat 16-17, F Apr 5

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    Some people I believe we are truly meant to meet. Others life throws at us to test our patience. I have little left so I'm pulling out the scissors, and soon I'm cutting the string...
    Isis27 Isis27 36-40 1 Response 6 days ago

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    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    HLeeT HLeeT 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    In my head and heart, I tend to distance myself from former and current friends and acquaintances; in reality, then, I spend my effort trying to feel fulfilled doing things alone...
    amarian amarian 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I just got messaged by the moderator in a generic form email that I could not post my message because it contained " "inappropriate language and suggestive language of harassing...
    elephantwalk elephantwalk 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I really would like too. I keep getting notifications and ignoring them. I feel sooo selfish! I'm pretty sure I only get on here when I need help, then I dissapear for a while. I...
    rayneboez rayneboez 13-15, F Mar 26

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    Who out there. would love to sit down &get to know new friends. I m making Homemade. Meatballs , sauce and HOMEMADE. PASTA. I think we all should sit down and hold hands and...
    chef59 chef59 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I just met this really nice young man on here & for some unknown reason he blocked me with out any explanation that really boggles my mind! I don't know what to even think about...
    bevS62 bevS62 61-65, F 8 Responses Mar 29

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    Pennycaca Pennycaca 36-40, F Mar 30

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    I know we do. Meeting people is like assembling a puzzle. In order to connect, the pieces need to fit. We meet people because there are times in out lives when we need...
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    11 months ago I met this amazing woman through and anonymous app and she has made me see my true worth in life. I am now currently separating from my wife and moving on with my...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I often catch myself wondering from time to time what people see when they look at me. What the first impression was that they got upon seeing me, and if that ever changed at any...
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    People have these perceptions of others as if just by looking you can tell who someone is. How do you know what someone is like if you never get to know them? How can you say...
    Kaleiita Kaleiita 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    People that comment on summit just 2 pick faults with spelling.. grammar..
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    As I am walking down the road there's this guy who walks towards me, we look at each other. And when we walk past each other I caught him looking back. *smiles*
    mindstruggle mindstruggle 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Rarely, if you are lucky a special person will come into your life that you feel an instant connection to. One that will unwittingly inspire you to be a better person, a better...
    kayakgirl08 kayakgirl08 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I don't have kids but when I do I shall drag them up as best I can. I know already how sickening it will be to see other impeccably behaved children around.
    splashUK2014 splashUK2014 41-45, M Apr 7

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    In life, you will realize there is a role for everyone you meet. Some will test you. Some will use you. Some will love you and some will teach you. But the ones who are truly...
    tweetysweety1 tweetysweety1 22-25, F Apr 8

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    In life, you will realize there is a role for everyone you meet. Some will test you. Some will use you. Some will love you and some will teach you. But the ones who are truly...
    tweetysweety1 tweetysweety1 22-25, F Apr 8