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I Think That Caring About Other People Is My Biggest Weakness

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    Care For Those Who Care For You First

    With every aspect of our being there will be a positive and negative. You have to find a balance in between. You have to care about those who care about you. And give respect to those who you don't know yet. When someone shows you they don't care then maybe step back and question...
    natnickeep natnickeep 26-30, F Sep 20, 2010

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    A Strength and a Weakness?

    I'm not sure about this one. I think caring is both my biggest strength and my biggest weakness at the same time. I've cared so intensely that it actually someone else's pain became my pain and then it got to the point where caring became painful. Then there's caring about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    A Strength and a Weakness?

    I'm not sure about this one. I think caring is both my biggest strength and my biggest weakness at the same time. I've cared so intensely that it actually someone else's pain became my pain and then it got to the point where caring became painful. Then there's caring about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    Caring For Others Besides My Wife Is Deadly!!!!!!!!

    I had 2 couples as friends and each couple stayed with me at different times  since they had housing problems. Damn it was annoying as hell. Being generous can cause heartache and stress at times.
    Snookybear Snookybear 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    The Caretaker Needs To Take Some Care Of Herself Too...

    it has always been this way for me.other people before me.their needs,their wishes and my own would almost always take a backseat.the worth part-i never even felt that i was doing something selfless,i mean...it is just second nature...AND I ALWAYS FELT I AM NOT DOING ENOUGH...
    whosthatgal whosthatgal 18-21, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    My dad tells me not be a hero

    and try to help everyone but I just can't help it I just care way to much for some reason does anyone know why?
    yhitoshi9 yhitoshi9 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2014

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    Trust me if I want your attention I'll ask. I don't not know why people tell me I'm seeking attention even I was minding my own business and blame me for their problems.
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I no longer care what others think about me. This is who I am, I am who I am and I will NOT change for anyone. I know I am different than other people. I am in my own world. I...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Jan 15

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    I spent most of my life changing the way I am to suit others. I get labelled as emo. I will always care too much about what other people think of me. people in my class throw rocks...
    KillingCake KillingCake 13-15, F Dec 29, 2014

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    (to be honest) i care way too much about those people i am going to meet again. how do they think about me if i did something stupidly awkward i will rather die than see there...
    brooke2001 brooke2001 13-15, F Jan 21

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    i consider myself agnostic but i am very curious about how other people worship in there separate religions. i know the very basics of several religions but i would really like to...
    jermdbt80612 jermdbt80612 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I am too ashamed to say what's on my mind right now. Feeling ashamed And I want to be totally honest I am afraid of what other ladies or other people might say.
    TimothyButler TimothyButler 41-45, M Jan 11

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    Just because I'm pregnant my mom compares me to other people my age and saying that they're not pregnant. God mom I'm not the only pregnant teenager in the world ugh
    addielove addielove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    oh if I could see myself in other people's shoes I would
    ashleeyj5 ashleeyj5 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    This is another special story. This ones for you Steven. I'm gonna put out there every last wrong thing I know it that you ever did to Lyndie so that you wake the **** up, stop...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916 26-30, M 4 hrs ago

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    Okay, so I was recently in a relationship with a girl,"Mickey" (nickname). We go to the same high school and she's two years older than me . We stayed together for about two weeks...
    CurvyFrance CurvyFrance 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    though I usually don't get any proof that people are thinking about me but I always assume it.its not the people or the world but its my subconscious mind who is always giving a...
    perfectcancerian perfectcancerian 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    That's how it happens. Some version of that story is true for almost every homeless person out there. It happens because of not being loved. Because of not having supportive...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M Jan 10

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    Why do we care so much about what others think about us? We are all imperfect creatures who are all beautiful. Why not just be original? The world is filled with so much wannabes...
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    My name is Angel Orion Nevarious, and I am a hybrid; as in half angel, vampire. I can walk in the day as well as the night by day by night. I have not met any others like myself, I...
    AngelOrionNevarious AngelOrionNevarious 22-25, M Jan 2

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    Enlighten your days with these 7 cultural concepts we don't have in the US--by Starre Varten on the Mother Nature Network. "If you want to add a new and different perspective to...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 6

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    i when i do something stupidly silly i will freak out the next day and be like omg how did i do this I will ask myself lot of questions ? how will people will think about me now...
    brooke2001 brooke2001 13-15, F Jan 20

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    Have you ever just watched someone from a distant? Not in a creepy or stalker way just see them and think she's pretty, or she has a cute butt, I like the way she smiles, or even...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    Back when I was younger, I used to like to be around people and big crowds. Now these days I do not. I like to be left alone, and away from others. It would be nice if it was meant...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Jan 15

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    I do this all the time and it bugs me EVERYTIME I walk in a store or somn I think hmm what are these people thinking bout this dude who just walked in
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M Jan 19

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    I can feel others emotions and pain..if someone has guts to share their thoughts and pains but no melodrama please ..sick of the perverts who just do that for the sake of attention...
    deephuman deephuman 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I try to be as nice, understanding & non-judgmental as I can. Problem is, I worry about saying the wrong thing and making things worse, which would make me feel depressed as well...
    nightpatroller78 nightpatroller78 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    When I was younger. Used to make it my task for the day. Making someone smile was a great way of feeling better about whatever mess was occurring in my life!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Dec 31, 2014

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    until i keep thinking to myself idgaf
    edyo23 edyo23 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    A guy has written me multiple times, hoping I'm his girlfriend from years ago, named [my first name][my last name] from KY [my state]. He dated her for 2 months, while she was...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 15

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    Whenever I am bored I always wonder how people see me. Do I seem like a friendly and open individual? Reserved? Do I look pleasant to the eyes? I am not a self-conscious girl, oh...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    Every relationship , good and bad always change people for better or worse. Relationships are roads. Every choices u make always lead u to happiness or sadness. We walk around...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    you know when you walk into a room full of people and everyone just stares at you to the point that they make you feel exposed and naked LOL?
    Bayzar Bayzar 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I'd love to learn about religious and spiritual beliefs of others. I don't care whether it's Muslim, Christian, Atheist, Buddhist, Satanic, ect...
    veexx veexx 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    making people smile makes me happy. i know how hard it can be to smile without it being a fake one so when i see a real smile on someone's face it just makes me happy to see that...
    xxpawprintsxx xxpawprintsxx 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Sometimes there are things in our life that aren’t meant to stay. Sometimes change may not be what we want. Sometimes change is what we really need. And sometimes saying goodbye...
    persayous persayous 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Failed relationships change me. Especially the one that ended really bad. I'll never be the same girl I was before, they say don't become who hurt you and I will not. I won't be a...
    Aliyaa2 Aliyaa2 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    There are so many times I would like to grab the putrid flesh being by the head and smash it into the ground. But people are too sensitive nowadays and deem that as unacceptable.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I want to get to know more about people who share the same feelings and problems that I have, regardless of age, sex and race... But 3 days in EP, I've got blocked by member, I...
    52hell 52hell 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I love to make people happy go subscribe to my comedy channel on YouTube! It's called VivaLaVid! I just uploaded a new Indian taste testing video where I taste tested Indian snacks...
    lostdream4 lostdream4 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    The first thing that ***** up any type of relationship for me is the unrequited love. I always feel as if I care about my significant other/friend so much more than they care about...
    Mojopins Mojopins 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I respect your right to your opinion, but I hate stereotypes. I know some of them are true, but you should always err on the side of caution. If I have offended you, if I have...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    i hate when people treat me like a child and expect me to act like an adult
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Which is extremely ironic and silly because I can get along with just damn near anyone except for when people are just rude or phrase things in a rude way. Im also easily bored by...
    TheCasualChick TheCasualChick 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 11

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    Sometimes I wish I was someone different so my life could be easier. Sometimes I wish most of the things I have been through never happened. But those things make me who I am right...
    laurenanhyi112 laurenanhyi112 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    my whole mind revolves around it. I cant get over it it feels like it eats me away.
    youngkinyteenmom youngkinyteenmom 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 13