I Think That Even Small Gestures Are Significant

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    You Never Know How You Can Effect Someone

    I remember in Middle School. I was going to a bad time in my life. The most important person in my life past away. I was taking it real hard. I stop dressing up, dancing, hardly spoke, and anti social. I was turning soon to be 13 and those are your awkward years cause of all the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 20, 2011

    Maybe it sounds very silly what I have to tell

    now but yesterday somebody made just a very small gesture to me what nevertheless I never will forget. Yesterday I was so busy at work that I didn´t have time for anything: No break and even no drink - but almosst 40 degree Fahrenheit! My whole body was already like dried out...
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    Aug 12, 2015

    like that one time he did the dishes!

    ! that was so romantic.
    WittyTwit WittyTwit
    26-30, F
    Feb 4

    Upward Mobility

      Well, every month it’s something it seems, awareness-wise anyway. I guess after a while it is easy to ignore Autism and Breast Cancer and even Black History. I try to donate when I can and to be “aware” as it were, but often I find myself thinking, oh, what is it now...
    Quintesse Quintesse
    51-55, F
    8 Responses May 4, 2012

    Social Lubrication

    Sometimes it's not the grand, sweeping gestures which matter. A small, insignificant gesture can be the most surprising and the most valuable even if it's not obvious at the time.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2011

    I Can See It.

    I am very keen on peoples behaviour, I read every small insignificant gesture, in milliseconds, telling me the lie behind the fake smile, I feel body language intuitively and react on it without will. I think sometimes its better beiing blind to peoples behaviour
    Gaspar1111 Gaspar1111
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2010

    Chaka Khan "i Feel For You!!"

    Chaka Khan, let me rock you Let me rock you, Chaka Khan Let me rock you, that's all I wanna do Chaka Khan, let me rock you Let me rock you, Chaka Khan Let me rock you, let me feel for you Chaka Khan let me tell you what I wanna do Do you feel for me, the way I feel for you Chaka...
    madmaximus madmaximus
    36-40, M
    Jun 2, 2011

    Small reminders about important matters are

    greatly appreciated by me.
    Zafrony Zafrony
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    I am realizing that I'm not the only one

    that feels this way. I have a friend in my ASL class who loves to do oragami. He gave me a bunch of paper ninja stars over the course of a week. We even sat one day and he taught me to make them. We were talking the other day and he was playing with one he had just made, so I...
    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446
    13-15, T
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    I'm a simple person and it doesn't take much to

    make me happy. Last winter I was always complaining about my coffee getting cold to quickly. My husband took note and of all the gifts he gave me for Christmas my Yeti cup is my most favorite! My coffee is still hot 4 hours later! It's not cute rather boring looking but I'm...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 12

    Someone buying me a cup of coffee.

    .. after I joked about how I felt invisible sitting at my desk sometimes. Getting a personal thank you email from your department head, after closing out a long overdue item. Having a friend buy me a gift for no reason, just because it reminded her of me. Sometimes these...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    When It's Gone It's Gone So Don't Miss It.

    Sometimes the small gestures are the most important but they are easily missed. People put who they are into the small things, the things they do, say write or in their look. If we don't see them then we miss the persons heart. You never know what you have till its too late. It...
    Jordangirly Jordangirly
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 2, 2011

    50

    50th group joined, this is my 50th post =) Not a surprise you see me here because I suppoet the Free Hugs Campaign. Google it =) it's a lovely lovely compaign
    FreeHugs330 FreeHugs330
    16-17, M
    1 Response Mar 1, 2011

    A Rose Left...

    Years ago I was working as a barista for a local coffee place when I lived in Colorado, and I was having the worst day.  My heart was low from a fight with a boyfriend, and my job was getting to me.  I was closing up for the day and I needed to clean my machines so I...
    Amastacia Amastacia
    26-30, F
    9 Responses May 3, 2010

    When your fingers laced with mine,

    I could barely breathe. I had not been this nervous since my first kiss. I wasn't sure what was even being said by anyone at that point. I had not been drinking and I avoided the special treats on the table. You and I were alone in a room filled with many. You pushed my hair...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    That Little Something

    I find it is the small things which people do, the hug when you are down, the compliments when you do not feel good about yourself. The smile when noone else has all day. These are lovely so lets all keep doing so.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 31, 2012

    As I'm walking back home some random guy drives

    slowly next to me and sings "Yellow" by Coldplay...I didn't know whether to sing along with him because I really like that song or avoid him and just keep walking faster because it's dark outside and I didn't want to get myself abducted :x Anyways, that made my night xD
    CherBliss CherBliss
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    Smiling At Someone New

    On a bad day its often difficult to smile at someone or even say hello, remember that its not just you who has bad days. Just that quick smile or a short hello to a stranger in the street can lift your spirits especially when they respond. One day you may meet someone who is...
    jussie jussie
    41-45
    Feb 24, 2012
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616
    18-21
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    if you make a small effort every day.

    if you keep me in mind. if you say a prayer. if you give a little love. if you remember to be kind. if you remember to say thank you :-)
    kpl2014 kpl2014
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 12

    I was at my lowest in 2007,

    a woman stroked my cheek with the back of her hand, I just fell apart. That little act of kindness just broke me. It was like the final straw. It was a long road but I'm better now, thanks to it. I often wonder if she is okay, never got her name, God knows what she thought!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 15, 2015

    Still And Peaceful

    Being observant enough to notice them is just as significant....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2011

    Thank You, Gentleman

    Today I was out on my lunch break, and I went to throw some trash in the bin on the street, and as I threw it the wind blew and my rubbish missed the bin even though I was right next to it.  A younger gentleman that looked haggard and toted a backpack walked past and...
    Amastacia Amastacia
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2010

    They Are Significant Because

    To you it may seem a small gesture, but to me it means the world.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    11 Responses Dec 7, 2010

    Even Just A Simple Smile.

    I believe a thank you can make you feel better. I have done some things for people who have never thanked me. I get annoyed but like I have said I believe in Karma. However some have done some things for me and I always thank them even if it's just a smile. A small gesture can...
    Tara277 Tara277
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 20, 2012

    It's Especially The Small Ones....

    They're significant to me because they're the ones that go the most unnoticed but to me they are the most noticeable. If you can do something that makes me happy in such a subtle & discreet way, your an awesome person to me.
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2010

    My ex won me over with the smallest gesture.

    I liked him anyway but never thought of ever going out with him. I was really sad one day over something and he sat next to me he just held my hand. He never tried to take advantage of me and we talked for hours and he made me smile and I fell for him. We went out with each...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 16, 2015

    Perfect Water By Blue Oyster Cult

    Perfect water - the dark wind braids the waves. The crazed birds raid the trees. is this our destiny? To join our hands at sea - and slowly sink, and slowly think: This is perfect water, passing over me. Do you know jacques cousteau when they said on the radio That he hears...
    madmaximus madmaximus
    36-40, M
    Jun 2, 2011

    i love small efforts.

    it shows you care and it's on your mind to improve, be more careful etc. i think God works with our small efforts.
    kpl2014 kpl2014
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 4

    Never underestimate the power of taking someone

    a cup of tea. Washing up for them. Doing their ironing. Sitting with their young ones so they can have a cuppa in peace. Chatting to an elderly neighbour for a few minutes. Calling an old friend you haven't seen in years. Walking your neighbours dog That kinda stuff.
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    May 11, 2014

    More So

    than the big grand gestures .... Small gestures are MORE revealing, more significant and carry 'more weight' as far as I'm concerned :)
    liguidgold liguidgold
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Dec 23, 2011

    The Butterfly Effect

    We learnt about the butterfly effect in class a little while back and how that one tiny flap of a butterfly's wings can cause an earthquake on the other side of the world... who would have thought that something so tiny (and apparently insignificant) could make such an impact...
    LibranGirl LibranGirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 14, 2010

    Without A Doubt

    It really is the small gestures, and acknowledgements that mean the most. A smile, a wave, even a glance can make a huge difference. I wonder how many people truly understand this. Or do they just view it as pettiness? I've questioned this lately, and well...I honestly think that...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering
    70+, F
    7 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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