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I Think That Good Can Come From Bad

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    I've recently read that a lot of people have difficulty understanding why people in an abusive family/relationship just don't leave the abuser. I understand why they think so...
    imprintedme imprintedme 22-25, F Mar 24

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    Belle: There's something sweet And almost kind But he was mean and he was coarse and unrefined But now he's dear, and so unsure I wonder why I didn't see it there before Mme...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Everything must change Nothing stays the same Everyone will change No one, no one stays the same The young become the old And mysteries do unfold For that's the way of time No one...
    meekose meekose 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    PATIENCE PAYS A PRICE! Just wait another day! Another day won't hurt will it? You don't know what's going to happen tomorrow… you might get a miracle! Don't predict the future...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    And I also think good profile names are prime. So to all the "spankyou23's out there uhmmm, I need to get to know you before knowing what you prefer in the sack. But thanks.
    Littlelionwoman81 Littlelionwoman81 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Your dreams and wishes can come true.
    Ashishishe Ashishishe 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    Said all I want from you is to see you tomorrow And every tomorrow, maybe you’ll let me borrow your heart And is it too much to ask for every Sunday And while we're at it, throw...
    seasalticecream seasalticecream 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    It's really hard to come by for me, friends. Not saying I don't make friends easily because I do. I'm an outgoing personality who's bubbly, kind, & loyal. But I can never find...
    beaudsaste beaudsaste 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Good girls like bad boys Bad boys like good girls Good guys like bad girls Bad boys like good girls
    azanun azanun 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I was raised in a"christian" abusive home, I won't get into major details, but it was really bad, I married young had two children of my own, never once even considered abusing I...
    4myfuturehappiness 4myfuturehappiness 46-50, F Apr 2

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    Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of ’99 If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by...
    ifilayhere ifilayhere 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've had so many friends come and go over the years, they pick sides after relationship break ups, or become under the thumb so you never see them or they're not 'allowed' to go...
    squishyarmadillo squishyarmadillo 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    i am blessed with that..to me its great that i can read eyes of some one...it give u information about following person that what is transferring from his/her heart comes out from...
    poisonlady poisonlady 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    A friend whom I have none for more than 25 years stop talking to me because she said I can't talk infront of my girlfriend I can talk infront of any one bt I work 8 to 9 hours aday...
    Boolove135 Boolove135 36-40, F Apr 8

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    I spent my time, watching The spaces that have grown between us. And I cut my mind on second best, Oh the scars that come with the greenness. And I gave my eyes to the boredom...
    ifilayhere ifilayhere 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I had many friends who I labelled them as "good". **** I was wrong. I lost many of them. One even betrayed me by breaking my love of 3 years who suffers from bone cancer. She...
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    Come As you are As you were As I want you to be As a friend As a friend As an old enemy Take your time Hurry up The choice is your Don't be late Take a rest As a friend...
    LunaOanaAris LunaOanaAris 16-17, F Mar 22

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    My mom was/is horrible. She openly favored my older sister and has even admitted that I was never meant to be born. She called me every name in the book growing up...fat, ugly...
    blisster blisster 26-30, F Mar 28

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    The Kills "The Last Goodbye"It's the last goodbye I swearI can't rely on a dime a day love that don't go anywhereI learn to cry for someone elseI can't get by on an odds and ends...
    KatzeB KatzeB 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I love the lyrics! It makes me stronger as a person... http://youtu.be/o8pQLtHTPaI The Story -by Brandi Carlile All of these lines across my face Tell you the story of who I am...
    Optimistic34 Optimistic34 31-35, F Mar 26

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    Yes. Definitely. I can agree to this.
    huskiesandmalamutes huskiesandmalamutes 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I don't have a lot of friends,my group of friends are few,I am a mother and grandmother and don't have time to have the kind of friends who are immature and play games,I have a few...
    dimples62 dimples62 51-55 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Hey hey, my my Rock and roll can never die There's more to the picture Than meets the eye. Hey hey, my my. Out of the blue and into the black You pay for this, but they give you...
    seasalticecream seasalticecream 16-17, M Apr 10

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    CAS decided that my mom wasn't able to take care of the children (6 and 3) on her own so they have the abuser and his mother temporary custody of the kids. The came for a visit...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Children's Aid Society had torn my life apart twice now. The first time I was too young to realize what they did. 18 years old now and watching them repeat what they did 11 years...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F Apr 11

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    Morality is beyond religion. It is formed by our surroundings and experiences. There is no set of rules because each individual's surroundings and experiences are different, and so...
    LaurenJFisher LaurenJFisher 22-25 Apr 12

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    To be born-again spiritual and not physically is what salvation is. Salvation is set apart from every other religion because it can only be attained trough Jesus Christ. Your sin...
    BioFem17 BioFem17 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I cashed in all my chips tonight and combed my hair till it was just right. Cause I've been thinking about you and me girl, and we got something going on. You told me you can't...
    catchphrasejones catchphrasejones 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Now here you go againYou say you want your freedomWell who am I to keep you downIt's only right that you shouldPlay the way you feel itBut listen carefully to the soundOf your...
    RockingTheCarhartts RockingTheCarhartts 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Is anyone on this forum that when your parents divorced they were able to maintain an amicable relationship? I am considering separating from my Husband and have two children. I...
    tresses tresses 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I know that helping is supposed to be an unquestionable good. But not all help is well recieved, necessary, or even well meant. Asking for help is so hard when you dont know if...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    Really. I have a group of four guys in school (since I find it hard to hang out with girls anyway) so once one of them discovered that I was into girls he's been telling that to...
    yuhkie yuhkie 16-17, F Mar 22

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    Hello dawn. It's good to be. I had a love, but little luck. I don't bleed any more 'cause my heart's been crushed. And now I'm free - lucky me.
    Dove9 Dove9 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    If someone messages me and it is obvious that they are accidentally making grammatical mistakes its a major turn off, if i can't even understand what a person is saying im not...
    anovasiangel anovasiangel 13-15, F Mar 26

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    "Chasing Pirates" - Norah JonesIn your message you saidYou were goin' to bedBut I'm not done with the nightSo I stayed up to readBut your words in my headGot me mixed up so I...
    KLMKitten KLMKitten 31-35, F Mar 28

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    I have been in a relationship where I felt that I wasn't appreciated and unloved. I stood by it and let myself drain out of all my self worth in the process. It is my fault I know...
    makemebelieve11 makemebelieve11 22-25 1 day ago

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    If you work for it, I believe dreams really do come true
    nerdybabe nerdybabe 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Um, yeah.... "Somebody That I Used To Know" Now and then I think of when we were together Like when you said you felt so happy you could die Told myself that you were right for...
    SpiritQuest2014 SpiritQuest2014 46-50, F Apr 1

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    Look at me You may think you see Who I really am But you'll never know me Every day It's as if I play a part Now I see If I wear a mask I can fool the world But I cannot...
    Sophiesmiles Sophiesmiles 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    I believe reason is innate-- we are all born with it. Some of us reason scientifically, some of us reason spiritually, some of us reason philosophically. . . but we all reason...
    joshcastanza joshcastanza 31-35, M Apr 2

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    The Rose -- Bette Midler ...  Some say love, it is a riverThat drowns the tender reed.Some say love, it is a razorThat leaves your soul to bleed.Some say love, it is a hunger...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 7 Responses Apr 3

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    Sometimes, it's the corny ones that are best at expressing certain feelings. Sometimes dreams are the only reality we can have. Some dreams can never be, but perhaps those are the...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I can't get this song out of my head. ❤️ http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=c7NLq5Soq_E "Everybody Knows" It gets harder everyday, but I can't seem to shake the pain. I'm trying to...
    golden8003 golden8003 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I'm friends with the monster that's under my bed Get along with the voices inside of my head You're trying to save me, stop holding your breathMy OCD's conking me in the head Keep...
    squirt254 squirt254 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Oh, what if the whole world finds you waiting Oh, as it can so long now have Oh, I thought you knew that I'd be coming The way you move, a foreign groove, at night I could never...
    ILuvMusic229 ILuvMusic229 13-15, F Mar 21

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    Lyrics in my appinion can say anything better then words.
    Ghrite Ghrite 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    You feel like you're falling backwards Like you're slippin' through the cracks Like no one would even notice If you left this town and never came back You walk outside and all...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I am more than ready, willing and able to enjoy sex with my husband but he seems to prefer ridiculous amounts internet ****... Now I'm not saying he shouldn't or can't do that...
    Treenz Treenz 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    They can help me read body language. But that's rare. I hardly ever make eye contact and even if I do it's brief. People who look into my eyes typically expect me to them something...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F Apr 12

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    "Don't Let Me Be Lonely" I need a saving grace A hiding place I don't have forever or time to waste So don't let me be lonely I wanna shake this winter coat off my sleeve Dust...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 4 days ago

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