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I Think That Personality Is More Important Than Good Looks

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    My name is Brian. I am new at this.

     I am 44.  I am looking for males & females friends with similar interests
    brianle7171 brianle7171 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2015

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    I myself do not look all

    that great. I'm well over 200 pounds and weight is a big thing for a lot of people. But, there are a lot of people who can't get past my looks and prefer to pay more attention to it. I feel like I'm not lacking in the personality department. I'll make you laugh, smile, happy, I...
    DamnDeathEaters DamnDeathEaters 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11, 2015

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    Polish a turd and its still a turd.

    Same with people. They can look beautiful and stunning, but be ugly on the inside.
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2015

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    it hurts me to know that im a good person

    but yet not being able to step up as a young adult man. the way that i look now doesnt fit for a business like society. ive heard people tell me that i should have my own business. Every time it comes up, im unsure about the suggestion as if im more into my feelings than my...
    Mardrio24 Mardrio24 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 18, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    for me, all that matters is the personality of

    a person, if that person is kind and funny and stuff like that. But I know not everybody thinks like that and it makes me kind of insecure about how I look, because I just want people to like me, especially the people I like, I know I shouldn't care about what they think of me...
    ilovemusic098 ilovemusic098 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    I agree. I think some people here are looking

    for "models" to converse with? I might be talking to someone and they ask for a picture and when I send, they stop talking to me. (It's kind of funny when I re-read the last statement.) I have always struggled with self-esteem issues so them doing that doesn't help. Though, in...
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    james00012 james00012 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 3, 2015

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    Personality vs Looks.

    Majority of us believe that personality is all what we look for; perhaps to sound more sensible, impressive, reasonable, logical among our social acquaintances. But its lot easier said than done. All I understand is we naturally fall in love with the personal traits, once we...
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 1, 2015

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    Honestly... I would marry the ugliest man on

    Earth if he had a heart of gold and treated me right
    EnchantedHopes EnchantedHopes 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 9, 2015

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    It infuriates me that

    after spending my precious time getting to know someone they go and delete themselves . I don't mind people reinventing them selves I find it quite amusing and sometimes very stimulating .. My dear friends please don't use the delete button on here .
    SexyLexiMX81 SexyLexiMX81 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    And if you're true and genuine, I think that's beautiful.
    ireallylikebacon ireallylikebacon 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    What's even the point of being in a

    relationship, if the person you are dating doesn't even have a personality than interests you? Looks can play a part no doubt, but personality is what makes a relationship. Like they say, don't judge a book by it's cover. It's what is in the inside that really counts. I find it...
    RainbowBlaze RainbowBlaze 13-15 2 Responses Dec 15, 2015

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    Most definitely agree with

    that statement. An interesting personality is far more attractive than a good looking FHM model who has nothing to say. Someone who can make me laugh and has a witty personality will keep my attention faaaaar longer!
    Kandassie Kandassie 26-30, F Oct 4, 2015

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    Does anyone else intentionally dress down

    and plain because they want to see who takes an interest in them as is?
    jmaschino12411 jmaschino12411 26-30, F 7 Responses May 17, 2015

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    Friendship/relationship wise,

    you don't need to be smart or respectable to be good with what's in between your legs 😋. As long as you're hot. But seriously though, the worst quality about a person ever, is that they're boring. That's actually the worst insult, and it's just the worst thing you can be. To...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 1, 2015

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    See sisters Or pals.

    Big. They escort a kid. From the library. And a twin fantasy forms. But my inner brat says loudly. What if they bark. But my inner lover laughs And says they care for the kid. So they are probably worthy.
    JustBipolarMe JustBipolarMe 46-50, M Jul 27, 2015

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    Would you date me if I looked like this

    for real or would you turn and run?!
    OhItsYou OhItsYou 22-25, F 20 Responses Apr 17, 2015

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    I dont care about how attractive you think you

    look, if you have an ugly heart and a bad attitude... you're ugly. Plain & Simple
    BleuReign BleuReign 16-17, F 6 Responses May 18, 2015

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    A personality is the most gorgeous thing a

    person can have :). I admire people who look beyond what is on the outside and can see what is on the inside. :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    Chill out enjoy life to it's fullest.

    Have a good sense of humor be open minded to learning and growing as a decent human being.Let drama live in soap operas let a smile exist upon your face.Personality is the true key, to a healthy satisfying relationship.Looks come and go,personality lives on forever.
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M Aug 15, 2015

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    The most beautiful person becomes ugly to me

    if they have an ugly personality and someone who I may not initially find attractive becomes so when I get to know them and their inner beauty shines through :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    I feel like I am beautiful.

    I believe that there is something beautiful about everyone. A beautiful face with a horrible personality is like major credit card debt to me. I don't want anything to do with it.
    xclusivelydanie xclusivelydanie 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2015

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    Heck Yes...this Coming From a Person Lacking Good Looks :)

    You look at a "gorgeous" (depending on your idea of gorgeous of course) person, and say to yourself, "Yum, yum I want that person" because they're merely good looking and that attracts you initially. But then, let's say you see someone not amazingly stunning...
    Yellowrhapsody Yellowrhapsody 16-17, F 12 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    You could look like a supermodel,

    but if you're a *****, give it a few years and I guarantee you, you will be alone. Sure you can get married, but when your good looks fade and you start to resemble a dried up leather handbag with a bitchy personality you're going to be divorced living in a house full of cats...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    peter261 peter261 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2015

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    i will just say there are many beautiful

    girls this is the truth so i dont care what you are personality thats something rare
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2015

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    We are attracted by appearance

    but we can only live with the character.
    ladybug96 ladybug96 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Personality is who they are

    and what they look like. No matter how bad or good they look on the outside it matters about the inside. There is a boy who always got bullied by everyone. He was really tall and had lots of acne and he was a smart nerd. I didn't see anything wrong with him. The inside was...
    queenbitch333 queenbitch333 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2015

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    My personality has made me meet the people

    that I'm friends with till this day, I have friends that I can talk to about anything and help them out whenever I can.
    ShyKidz ShyKidz 16-17, M Oct 14, 2015

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    Your looks fade eventually.

    But, a beautiful heart is forever, isn't it? Tell me about the nice things you did today, the way you defend your friends, strangers, the way you treat everyone with as much patience and kindness that you do--not because they're beautiful, but because it's right. Take me around...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 61-65, M Oct 2, 2015

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    I may not be the most beautiful woman in the

    world. But I'm capable of loving with all my heart. It really doesn't matter to you. *sigh*.
    PinkyJess1 PinkyJess1 26-30, F Aug 20, 2015

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    Yes it is very important

    but at the same time I would never ever get with a guy who I wasn't also physically attracted to, no matter if their personality shown through like I have to also be chemically sexually attracted. It's the way it works.
    Echoesofsiilence Echoesofsiilence 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2015

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    It is easy to fall in love by beauty face,

    but in the end, u have to deal with character, not the beauty.. The good book cannot be judged by its cover
    reuzukiamariah reuzukiamariah 22-25, F 1 Response May 7, 2014

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    Personality makes or breaks.

    An okay looking man can have a great personality, that would make him so much more attractive to me. Same with a good looking man, crappy personality=ugly to me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 23, 2015

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    One of the reason I think this way is probably

    my look.. (^_^) I'm not so good looking :P :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 3, 2015

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    Personality is everything.

    You may get together with someone for their looks but do you really see them in 6 months time? You see the personality more than the looks. If you want a long term partner that you will want to be with in 5, 10, 15, 20 years time, go for the personality. If you want someone you...
    KSPerson KSPerson 46-50, M Nov 22, 2015

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    why do people worry about looks

    when we all are the same, just some might be bigger, skinnier, black,white,asian and many other differences but lots of people dont like to see the best part about people with amazing personality but the funny part is we all get old and when your old and wrinkly the only thing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 5, 2015

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    I have a great personality,

    who wants to chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    I'm convinced only about 30% of the people on

    earth are "real people", and the rest are fillers. Anyone can look attractive, but only the people with personality make an impact.
    JLeDoux69 JLeDoux69 18-21, M 3 Responses May 19, 2014

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    Looks fade. We grow old,

    lose our hair and our teeth. Grow wrinkles and dewlaps. Get double chins and fat *****. The body that was once so hot becomes barely luke warm. But a good character and a nice personality just seems to grow better through the years. Yes, I'll take personality over looks any...
    Serenitree1 Serenitree1 70+, F 4 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    Meeting and loving someone

    who can accept, understand and think like me is way more important and enjoyable than someone who looks amazing but can't do any of those. Finding someone who is both would be the dream.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M Jul 3, 2015

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    Oddly enough I was talking with a friend about

    this today. We were talking about what's attractive she was telling me how her best friend finds muscular, toned men who show themselves off to be so sexy and how that's all she'll ever go for. She said she likes men with a mix of nice looks and nice body. After a while of...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

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    I may not be the most beautiful woman in the

    world. But I'm capable of loving with all my heart. It really doesn't matter to you?? *sigh*.
    PinkyJess1 PinkyJess1 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

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    Because all the fu¢k people care about it looks

    and a good body on a woman. I know it, I feel it, and I even see it on my posts with photos of me. But if you only KNEW what's going on in my life right know if you ONLY knew how difficult it is to deal with this because I gave wrong people the right pieces of me and I'm on the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 21, 2015

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