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I Think That Personality Is More Important Than Good Looks

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    A person who at first glance may be

    good-looking can easily look ugly at second glance after you've seen their personality, and vice versa.
    Letmebee Letmebee 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Yes it is very important

    but at the same time I would never ever get with a guy who I wasn't also physically attracted to, no matter if their personality shown through like I have to also be chemically sexually attracted. It's the way it works.
    Echoesofsiilence Echoesofsiilence 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    whom do you prefer : shy

    or talkative person.
    lav1234 lav1234 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    Personality is the only reason I would like

    someone. I need to get to know them as an individual, not an object or thing
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 10

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    I agree. I think some people here are looking

    for "models" to converse with? I might be talking to someone and they ask for a picture and when I send, they stop talking to me. (It's kind of funny when I re-read the last statement.) I have always struggled with self-esteem issues so them doing that doesn't help. Though, in...
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    Looks fade-dumb is forever.

    The looks of person is merely a shell that carries their body. Over the years I have met ppl who are beautiful on the inside. But their insecurity and immaturity made them ugly. Don't judge a book by its cover. Judge it by the content.
    fitchef fitchef 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Absolutely. Also because I think my personality

    is ranked higher on the scale than my physical appearance lol.
    StrikeFour StrikeFour 18-21 Feb 11, 2014

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    totally. if your hot

    and an ******* you need to bounce. if you are kind and caring you van stay
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F Jun 9

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    I dont care about how attractive you think you

    look, if you have an ugly heart and a bad attitude... you're ugly. Plain & Simple
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 6 Responses May 18

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    Does anyone else intentionally dress down

    and plain because they want to see who takes an interest in them as is?
    jmaschino12411 jmaschino12411 26-30, F 9 Responses May 17

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    Heck Yes...this Coming From a Person Lacking Good Looks :)

    You look at a "gorgeous" (depending on your idea of gorgeous of course) person, and say to yourself, "Yum, yum I want that person" because they're merely good looking and that attracts you initially. But then, let's say you see someone not amazingly stunning...
    Yellowrhapsody Yellowrhapsody 16-17, F 12 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    I hate it when I'm texting someone

    and were in a fight and their just like your a b*tch but a beautiful one I'm just like so what about my looks what if I got in a car accident and my face got seriously damaged then it looked total different
    LillyO3 LillyO3 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 2

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    We are attracted by appearance

    but we can only live with the character.
    ladybug96 ladybug96 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    The good looks not everything actually

    sometimes we find the good looks but the personality is really bad or it's just not there. I've met that pretty girl before she was really beautiful until I went to her and told her you are beautiful although she may get the wrong idea but I didn't care, when she started...
    Beyondtheseaa Beyondtheseaa 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    And if you're true and genuine, I think that's beautiful.
    ireallylikebacon ireallylikebacon 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    A personality is the most gorgeous thing a

    person can have :). I admire people who look beyond what is on the outside and can see what is on the inside. :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    See sisters Or pals.

    Big. They escort a kid. From the library. And a twin fantasy forms. But my inner brat says loudly. What if they bark. But my inner lover laughs And says they care for the kid. So they are probably worthy.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    This is my favourite quote of all time.

    I will try not to go based off her looks.. Even though I will. It is my human nature I think to want to date a beautiful girl. Still this is my favourite line ever, based off how many times it's said.
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 1 Response May 15

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    I have realized that a person can look very

    beautiful and sexy on the outside, but the minute you see that person's attitude that beautifullnes can turn ugly real quick.
    peppit peppit 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 8

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    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F Mar 15

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    Personality vs Looks.

    Majority of us believe that personality is all what we look for; perhaps to sound more sensible, impressive, reasonable, logical among our social acquaintances. But its lot easier said than done. All I understand is we naturally fall in love with the personal traits, once we...
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 1

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    Well I'm not gonna be one of those people

    that say looks don't matter, because honestly they do. You can not completely be with someone unless you're attracted to their physical appearance somehow. Because if you are not attracted to them physically then you will not want to be physical or sexual with them. So looks do...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 18-21, F Nov 29, 2014

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    Looks subject to heart.

    Science under art. Panache where to start.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    if you can make me laugh,

    smile and giggle, your good....
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 9

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    Personality makes or breaks.

    An okay looking man can have a great personality, that would make him so much more attractive to me. Same with a good looking man, crappy personality=ugly to me.
    nunezquinnad nunezquinnad 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    Her beauty caught my eye,

    her personality caught my heart.
    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer 16-17, M 2 Responses May 15

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    It is easy to fall in love by beauty face,

    but in the end, u have to deal with character, not the beauty.. The good book cannot be judged by its cover
    reuzukiamariah reuzukiamariah 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2014

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    The most beautiful person becomes ugly to me

    if they have an ugly personality and someone who I may not initially find attractive becomes so when I get to know them and their inner beauty shines through :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    i literally can't STAND people

    who think looks are what's important and then they act surprise when that 'good looking' person, turns out to have the personality of a sponge, and the i.q of a rock -.- personality is what matters, as that is forever, looks will fade with time
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M May 25

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    We always say that the personality is more

    important than good looks. But The Ugly Truth is At the end of the day, all we care about is looks! No one falls in love with your personality at first sight.
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 23

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    for me, all that matters is the personality of

    a person, if that person is kind and funny and stuff like that. But I know not everybody thinks like that and it makes me kind of insecure about how I look, because I just want people to like me, especially the people I like, I know I shouldn't care about what they think of me...
    ilovemusic098 ilovemusic098 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    You could look like a supermodel,

    but if you're a *****, give it a few years and I guarantee you, you will be alone. Sure you can get married, but when your good looks fade and you start to resemble a dried up leather handbag with a bitchy personality you're going to be divorced living in a house full of cats...
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

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    Don't be fooled by appearance.

    .. Why would you want something that looks good but ugly in the inside? Looks doesn't last long anyway! Personality does it lasts forever! Which is why you should spend time with someone getting to know them really well before deciding or taking it any further! Personality...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    Good Looks

    Lets be honest with each other . Every day we are getting older and with age our looks begin to fade . I believe that our looks along with our personality , define who we are . As we age out looks begin to slowly fade . I know there are mane who still look young reguardless of...
    nomar251 nomar251 51-55 2 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    A beautiful appearance will only last a while

    but a beautiful personality will last a lifetime! “As if you were on fire from within.The moon lives in the lining of your skin.” “At the end of the day, you will not remember the person with the beautiful face, but you will remember the person with the most beautiful...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F Feb 8

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    I'm convinced only about 30% of the people on

    earth are "real people", and the rest are fillers. Anyone can look attractive, but only the people with personality make an impact.
    JLeDoux69 JLeDoux69 18-21, M 4 Responses May 19, 2014

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    Meeting and loving someone

    who can accept, understand and think like me is way more important and enjoyable than someone who looks amazing but can't do any of those. Finding someone who is both would be the dream.
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus 22-25, M Jul 3

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    Personality changes with time,

    unfortunately. Is that right?
    Mkhali1983 Mkhali1983 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Love listening to my music

    when I clean the house ,dancing with my moccasins on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 11

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    So True!

    This has always been for me..when I was in high school and all my girlfriends were like "Man...hes is fine!"..I was like yeah he is..but not what I am looking for..I have always been attracted to a persons personality..not their looks..now if the looks came along with the great...
    theheartofmemphis theheartofmemphis 41-45, F 3 Responses May 17, 2012

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    Because all the fu¢k people care about it looks

    and a good body on a woman. I know it, I feel it, and I even see it on my posts with photos of me. But if you only KNEW what's going on in my life right know if you ONLY knew how difficult it is to deal with this because I gave wrong people the right pieces of me and I'm on the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses a week ago

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    Would you date me if I looked like this

    for real or would you turn and run?!
    OhItsYou OhItsYou 22-25, F 22 Responses Apr 17

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    I like personality more

    than looks. :)
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 26-30, F 4 Responses May 6

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    100percent agreed I have none

    who look at my personality..MYSELF. How many people do you have who look at yourself before apperance?? I need one.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 21

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    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    It'S All In The Mind

    It would be great to be blessed with an aesthetically symmetrical face, attached to an equally well portioned body. However, such endowments only offer a small advantage at finding and maintaining long lasting, happy relationships. They are useful in turning heads and getting...
    lightswillguideyouhome lightswillguideyouhome 46-50, M 8 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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