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I Think the Waiting Is the Hardest Part

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    Im Tired of It

     Waiting is really the hardest part... i'm tired of it. I am not only investing my feelings for him but also my time. I am not getting any younger anymore .... i deserved a family of my own. He don't deserved  me...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    It's When You Don't Know

    When you're in the wait, you're in the unknown. That's the time that you don't know. You don't know what's going on, most of the time. All you can do is wait, and while you're waiting you might as well hope, I mean what else do you have? Nothing else. When you're in the wait...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Waiting make me feel stupid 😤 I'm waiting

    for him but now he will been inlove with someone else ! I thought we have been a mutual understanding but looks what he did to me make me feel inlove and hanging me in this feeling !! I don't deserve this treatment you given!!! You playing with my feeling! Somebody advice me...
    bleszy bleszy 18-21, F Jun 27

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    Waiting

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    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    Yes But If You Find Somethi...

    Yes but if you find something good to do, waiting's nothing :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 18, 2009

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    It is the hardest part,

    especially when you don't have something to wait for. Or maybe you are unsure of what you are waiting. What is it then? They said that if it really is for you, it'll come. Whatever happens. 😒
    Livelovelaugh92 Livelovelaugh92 22-25, F Jul 10

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    Losing My Sanity

    I don't even know where to begin. Our story technically started just a few days ago but in reality, it started two years ago. We were attracted to each other and neither of us had a clue. Then he moved away and we only emailed a couple of times. Then a few days ago, a...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    Impatient

    I live alone with my dog. I have friends but they all have their own lives. I am lonely but not desperate. I know that if God wants to put a man in my life it will happen. I keep thinking that the man will have to fall from the sky because I don't really get into the social scene...
    yellowrose1959 yellowrose1959 51-55, F Jun 1, 2013

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    My Long Distance Marriage

    My long distance marriage started when I was joining a dating site, I met a very nice man from abroad and since that day we always talk twice a day , for every single day for the last 2 years. Maybe it was silly for others but we both were deeply in love. Really talk about...
    vg1403 vg1403 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    RHSK143 RHSK143 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2010

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    Still Too Young To Feel Like This...

    im still too young. im only 22. I should feel so happy right now, I should party alot, I should go out with friends and enjoy myself, but I don't feel like going to parties or I don't enjoy myself when I hang out with friends. I laugh... I laugh a lot that everyone think I am so...
    sannam sannam 22-25 Jan 7, 2012

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    The Waiting Game

    I really don't think it's a game. I hate waiting!  I'm not impatient - I swear!I have spent years of my life waiting.  It makes me wonder if there is a life lesson in this.  I don't know if I can express in words all the waiting I did for my husband to get to wherever he was...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2013

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    Prone to Betrayal

    Being in long distance relationship ... i can say it is prone to Betrayal coz you have no idea if your partner still faithful and loyal in your relationship especially when you're committed to each other. Waiting is really the hardest part  ... it kills me ! Its really hard...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    :( i never thought i would get too worried.

    Im clueless and im waiting. Where are you?
    Livelovelaugh92 Livelovelaugh92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Waiting To Be Back With Her.

    Waiting is the hardest part. I didn't realize this until about a year and half ago when my life fell apart. I was arrested for my relationship with my partner. She was over the age of consent, but not yet adult. I believe the charge is a cover your *** charge, but I could be...
    BittenDog BittenDog 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 17, 2010

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    The Large Story Of The Undiscovered

    Some things are found - like coins, socks and keys. Others are stumbled upon - like hideouts and adventures. Some things are created - like art, soup and style. And other times they are discovered - like bands, peace of mind and love. I'll wait undiscovered.
    erfb erfb 18-21, F Sep 23, 2012

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     yes I Do. ...

     yes i do. waiting is so hard, speically when everything seems to be in limbo, waiting for a particular moment. liek if your waiting for someone to die. its a sad example i know, but tis those limbo moments that are the hardest. those moments when your jsut waiting wishing...
    Casper92 Casper92 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2009

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    Long Distance Pain

    One of the most difficult things to endure is to be too far away from your lover to just get in your car and drive to see them. It really does test the strength of your bonds to each other. Modern technology helps, but texts and emails and phone calls pale in comparison to a...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 30 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    Waiting On His Return......

    Four more months till hes back in my arms, Four more months I can lay next to him, Four more months till i can look into his eyes and say i love you........ Waiting is the hardest part of all of this. I wait day and night for his emails, i wait constanly by the phone for the...
    browneyegirl89 browneyegirl89 18-21, F Mar 25, 2009

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    All I do is wait wait wait

    for him to make his move ...... He must know I'm waiting ....
    Sextingpartnerwanted69 Sextingpartnerwanted69 46-50, F Apr 5

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    My Thoughts

    Do you already have someone who cares for you? Or do you have feelings for me? I already have such strong feelings for you that I can say that you're my soulmate. I feel a very deep connection between us. Do you feel it, too? When you are near me, I feel very comfortable. You...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 Nov 14, 2012

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    3 Years

    In fact, it's three years next week. Three years since that night I fell into him and started the mess that has become something quite pretty and on it's way to something quite beautiful. At the moment Im saying it was worth it, and I hope I will always say that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 16, 2009

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    Knowing

    There are days when I think about it more than I typically would. The whole being alone thing. I am tired of hearing the same old shitt, "oh you're young, or oh, it's because you have zero confidence, blah, blah." I see younger people date all the time. I've seen people with no...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 29 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Waiting for something to happen.

    Good or Bad. It seem like all my friends have guys that are happy with. I have a guy but in secret. That what being the other women is about...... Secrets and dreams. Wish me luck.
    bluebug565 bluebug565 26-30, F Feb 10

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    When Will The Time Come?

    I don't know how long I will be waiting, I am just holding on to the promise that he made, "I will be there as soon as possible". It is just hard, I want to be with him but I can't because of the distance. I am willing to wait no matter how hard it is. I have waited almost 2...
    iHatshepsut iHatshepsut 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2013

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    butterfly110 butterfly110 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Waiting For A Message....

    i met a family over sea and have got very close to them...we have wrote every week and share our stories together...we became brother and sister...we share holidays and pictures etc...she told me her family have to move to a different places....it,s been over a week and have not...
    davidpinecity davidpinecity 56-60, M Aug 26, 2011

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    Waiting.... Waiting is hell.

    I don't mean waiting in line or anything like that. Waiting in a hospital waiting room? That's hell. That's what I did from 7:00 until 20:00 on Thursday, December 5th. Why? My grandmother, one of my closest friends and one of the only people I really talk to, went in for open...
    KittyKatKitKat KittyKatKitKat 18-21, F Dec 10, 2013

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    Impaient...

    I have a very impatient soul, always have.  Waiting & hoping is most difficult for me and I simply hate it! Waiting for someone to arrive, waiting for that phone call that may or may not come,  waiting for commitments to become real, it all taxes what little...
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 13 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Just this weekend I was out with colleagues at a very busy pub and as usual found it very difficult to follow the conversation. I have always struggled when in noisy environments...
    ProfessorDrew ProfessorDrew 51-55, M 12 hrs ago

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    Read my profile and then message or comment what do you think of me (: #waiting
    Flowerydedo Flowerydedo 16-17, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I could never EVER bring myself to cheat on a partner, the pain and experience itself brought on by cheating is one of the worst pains to go through whether your male or female and...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I think maybe I learned how to be afraid when I was really little. Afraid of my dad coming home. Afraid of the big kids on the playground. Afraid that I wouldn't ever have a lot of...
    cyclone80 cyclone80 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Please help. I'm currently experiencing dark thoughts, dark thoughts about just running away. I love all my Children but they have no respect for anything I have ever done for...
    RockingLikeAFetus RockingLikeAFetus 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    What do I gotta to do make someone want me. What do I gotta do to make them care. What do I do when lighting strikes me. Sorry seems to be the hardest word.
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 22-25, M Nov 28

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    The Greatest Christmas Gift. Isiaih 9 For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 10

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    "Waiting For Superman"Chris DaughtryShe’s watching the taxi driver, he pulls awayShe’s been locked up inside her apartment a hundred daysShe says, “Yeah, he&rsquo...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 9

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    I really have to pee right now. Any one wants to be my partner??
    CarolineRH CarolineRH 16-17, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    i am okay with waiting, in fact, i'd rather wait for someone than have someone wait for me, even for a minute i am not practically patient but, i have no trouble waiting. but there...
    iamnoor iamnoor 13-15, F Nov 29

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    I'm an Endomorph, so even as the ideal weight for my type, society sent me into anorexia. I was almost bone skinny, yet since I was still large, I was made to see myself as very...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Dec 5

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    So we don't live anywhere close together but I really wish we did I'm glad I met him...now I have been going out of my way trying my hardest trying to make him happy and nothing I...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I never wanted to be married or have children. Before I had my son I prayed to God crying asking me to send someone for me to love and for them to love me back. I was thinking...
    InfiniteLightBeing InfiniteLightBeing 26-30, F Nov 24

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    I was suddenly able to realize , it's definitely got to be a part of the training module... Come close, move away and observe the reaction. I'm not reacting I'm just waiting...
    Hellokittybbgrl Hellokittybbgrl 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I know I post this a lot, but I honestly believe that no matter what anyone says. I can't take it anymore, girls always look at me with total disgust when I'm outside, they always...
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 6 Responses Nov 27

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    This is my favorite song ever. Enchanted There I was again tonight Forcing laughter, faking smiles Same old tired lonely place Walls of insincerity, Shifting eyes and...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Nov 28

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    Everyone is always waiting. Waiting for someone to come, waiting for something to happen, waiting for the holidays, waiting for the sun to rise. Waiting for things to end...
    Indistinct Indistinct 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 2

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    The more the death of my grandma sinks in, the more I don't want to think about it. Saying good bye to her was the hardest thing I've ever done. She was my best friend. She was...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    my boyfriend came over yesterday because my cat was spayed on wednesday and i was scared to leave her alone. he was supposed to spend the night and my old friend nick calls him and...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    There's nothing in the world that's worse knowing you're perfect for each other.... Just staying together is the hardest thing, when we seem to just end apart. I'm guessing it's...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 26