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I Think the Waiting Is the Hardest Part

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    Still Too Young To Feel Like This...

    im still too young. im only 22. I should feel so happy right now, I should party alot, I should go out with friends and enjoy myself, but I don't feel like going to parties or I don't enjoy myself when I hang out with friends. I laugh... I laugh a lot that everyone think I am so...
    sannam sannam 22-25 Jan 7, 2012

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    Knowing

    There are days when I think about it more than I typically would. The whole being alone thing. I am tired of hearing the same old shitt, "oh you're young, or oh, it's because you have zero confidence, blah, blah." I see younger people date all the time. I've seen people with no...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 29 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Im Tired of It

     Waiting is really the hardest part... i'm tired of it. I am not only investing my feelings for him but also my time. I am not getting any younger anymore .... i deserved a family of my own. He don't deserved  me...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    butterfly110 butterfly110 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Waiting

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    flourlady111 flourlady111 46-50, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    All I do is wait wait wait

    for him to make his move ...... He must know I'm waiting ....
    Sextingpartnerwanted69 Sextingpartnerwanted69 46-50, F Apr 5

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    Losing My Sanity

    I don't even know where to begin. Our story technically started just a few days ago but in reality, it started two years ago. We were attracted to each other and neither of us had a clue. Then he moved away and we only emailed a couple of times. Then a few days ago, a...
    CountrySlicker CountrySlicker 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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     yes I Do. ...

     yes i do. waiting is so hard, speically when everything seems to be in limbo, waiting for a particular moment. liek if your waiting for someone to die. its a sad example i know, but tis those limbo moments that are the hardest. those moments when your jsut waiting wishing...
    Casper92 Casper92 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2009

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    Long Distance Pain

    One of the most difficult things to endure is to be too far away from your lover to just get in your car and drive to see them. It really does test the strength of your bonds to each other. Modern technology helps, but texts and emails and phone calls pale in comparison to a...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 30 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    Waiting To Be Back With Her.

    Waiting is the hardest part. I didn't realize this until about a year and half ago when my life fell apart. I was arrested for my relationship with my partner. She was over the age of consent, but not yet adult. I believe the charge is a cover your *** charge, but I could be...
    BittenDog BittenDog 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 17, 2010

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    My Long Distance Marriage

    My long distance marriage started when I was joining a dating site, I met a very nice man from abroad and since that day we always talk twice a day , for every single day for the last 2 years. Maybe it was silly for others but we both were deeply in love. Really talk about...
    vg1403 vg1403 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    Yes But If You Find Somethi...

    Yes but if you find something good to do, waiting's nothing :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 18, 2009

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    Waiting for something to happen.

    Good or Bad. It seem like all my friends have guys that are happy with. I have a guy but in secret. That what being the other women is about...... Secrets and dreams. Wish me luck.
    bluebug565 bluebug565 26-30, F Feb 10

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    Impatient

    I live alone with my dog. I have friends but they all have their own lives. I am lonely but not desperate. I know that if God wants to put a man in my life it will happen. I keep thinking that the man will have to fall from the sky because I don't really get into the social scene...
    yellowrose1959 yellowrose1959 51-55, F Jun 1, 2013

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    Waiting On His Return......

    Four more months till hes back in my arms, Four more months I can lay next to him, Four more months till i can look into his eyes and say i love you........ Waiting is the hardest part of all of this. I wait day and night for his emails, i wait constanly by the phone for the...
    browneyegirl89 browneyegirl89 18-21, F Mar 25, 2009

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    My Thoughts

    Do you already have someone who cares for you? Or do you have feelings for me? I already have such strong feelings for you that I can say that you're my soulmate. I feel a very deep connection between us. Do you feel it, too? When you are near me, I feel very comfortable. You...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 Nov 14, 2012

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    Waiting.... Waiting is hell.

    I don't mean waiting in line or anything like that. Waiting in a hospital waiting room? That's hell. That's what I did from 7:00 until 20:00 on Thursday, December 5th. Why? My grandmother, one of my closest friends and one of the only people I really talk to, went in for open...
    KittyKatKitKat KittyKatKitKat 16-17, F Dec 10, 2013

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    It's When You Don't Know

    When you're in the wait, you're in the unknown. That's the time that you don't know. You don't know what's going on, most of the time. All you can do is wait, and while you're waiting you might as well hope, I mean what else do you have? Nothing else. When you're in the wait...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    It is the hardest part,

    especially when you don't have something to wait for. Or maybe you are unsure of what you are waiting. What is it then? They said that if it really is for you, it'll come. Whatever happens. 😒
    Rareforever0524 Rareforever0524 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Impaient...

    I have a very impatient soul, always have.  Waiting & hoping is most difficult for me and I simply hate it! Waiting for someone to arrive, waiting for that phone call that may or may not come,  waiting for commitments to become real, it all taxes what little...
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 13 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    3 Years

    In fact, it's three years next week. Three years since that night I fell into him and started the mess that has become something quite pretty and on it's way to something quite beautiful. At the moment Im saying it was worth it, and I hope I will always say that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 16, 2009

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    Waiting For A Message....

    i met a family over sea and have got very close to them...we have wrote every week and share our stories together...we became brother and sister...we share holidays and pictures etc...she told me her family have to move to a different places....it,s been over a week and have not...
    davidpinecity davidpinecity 56-60, M Aug 26, 2011

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    When Will The Time Come?

    I don't know how long I will be waiting, I am just holding on to the promise that he made, "I will be there as soon as possible". It is just hard, I want to be with him but I can't because of the distance. I am willing to wait no matter how hard it is. I have waited almost 2...
    iHatshepsut iHatshepsut 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2013

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    The Large Story Of The Undiscovered

    Some things are found - like coins, socks and keys. Others are stumbled upon - like hideouts and adventures. Some things are created - like art, soup and style. And other times they are discovered - like bands, peace of mind and love. I'll wait undiscovered.
    erfb erfb 18-21, F Sep 23, 2012

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    Waiting make me feel stupid 😤 I'm waiting

    for him but now he will been inlove with someone else ! I thought we have been a mutual understanding but looks what he did to me make me feel inlove and hanging me in this feeling !! I don't deserve this treatment you given!!! You playing with my feeling! Somebody advice me...
    bleszy bleszy 18-21, F Jun 27

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    RHSK143 RHSK143 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2010

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    The Waiting Game

    I really don't think it's a game. I hate waiting!  I'm not impatient - I swear!I have spent years of my life waiting.  It makes me wonder if there is a life lesson in this.  I don't know if I can express in words all the waiting I did for my husband to get to wherever he was...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2013

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    Prone to Betrayal

    Being in long distance relationship ... i can say it is prone to Betrayal coz you have no idea if your partner still faithful and loyal in your relationship especially when you're committed to each other. Waiting is really the hardest part  ... it kills me ! Its really hard...
    Longing4Luv Longing4Luv 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    Being honest about how you feel and the help you need. When your always met with criticism and judgement it's not easy. That's probably why I'm still stuck in this rut
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    other than the death of someone you love, is seeing that one person, who you would never give up on, shutting the door and walking away and there is just nothing you can do to...
    mimosasgl mimosasgl 22-25, F Jul 8

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    G O P = Greatly Overindulged Perverts
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 23

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    God this is the weirdest thing ever! Well if you didn't know cats, dogs, wolves, etc. can have a period of time where they are very sexually aroused or something called "heat...
    Ap3tur3B0y115 Ap3tur3B0y115 13-15, M Jun 27

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    The Republican Liberty Caucus is the only inner GOP caucus that knows what the GOP needs to do in order to survive. But the traditionalists and neoconservatives want to shut them...
    benjamin111991 benjamin111991 22-25, M Jul 3

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    As every good story starts; there's this girl. I met here when moved to my current city about 7 months ago. I got to school and made friends by the end of first period. Lunchtime...
    timboslice42 timboslice42 13-15, M 3 hrs ago

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    I am from Michigan and we are one of the fattest states in the nation. I am proud of that. No matter where you go you will encounter chubby/fat people whether its at the grocery...
    ilovefatforsomereason ilovefatforsomereason 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    [Read the first two parts before this to make sense! :)] He never talked to me for two weeks. No eye contact, no conversation, not even seeing him. Nothing. It's like his whole...
    EllaAfter EllaAfter 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Double back stab, never been hurt so much like this I know that I'm not married yet (and now I doubt I will for some time) but I'm currently engaged to a guy. I am 28 and he's 27...
    Necrogirl27 Necrogirl27 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I will alway think deeply about things!!!! I just have to its a part of me. Cause if I don't who knows what kind of trouble could be waiting for me. I have to think deeply for my...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Or don't like.....Hello boys and girls. About a year ago, I wrote one of my biggest stories ever. It just got over a thousand views and apparently its still to this very day is...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 10 Responses Jun 24

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    I know this sinking feeling anywhere. It's happening again. I've been depressed most of my teenage years. I have plenty of ups, but there are always downs that follow close behind...
    LettersToTheSky LettersToTheSky 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    For me it's not really about finding "the one". I just wonder when he is going to appear and how I'm going to know. Two different times I've fallen into the illusion of thinking I...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Sadly no. Haha people think I'm the straight A student that tries her hardest and respects everyone. Which I am don't get me wrong. I also love to sneak out, I lie a lot, and I...
    weyheyitstori weyheyitstori 13-15, F Jul 3

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    Every day, he used to text me at 9:30pm until two words, "I'm done" popped up. It's been three months and he suddenly showed up out of no where yesterday. Asked me about summer...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Jul 9

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    When it gets dark and my world seems to stand still my mind races. I think of all the things I have tried not to think of during the day and there's no more distractions to get rid...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    why I am always supposed to wait when I hate it.....I really can't wait for anyone at any cost. this make my breathing so fast and I feel lose of comfort in breathing. if the one...
    brokenangelia brokenangelia 26-30, F Jun 30

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    I'm a stupid hopeless romantic, I do want romance like the fairytales like the movies Prince Charming! As I'm getting older I realize that Prince Charming is not coming anytime...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I have (ever since I was 7 years old) thought about the possible existence of God, even back then I could not make myself believe that God as portrayed in the bible existed. There...
    Oldman61 Oldman61 61-65, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Today my father wanted me to help him move a car. Since I am more comfortable with automatic rather than manual I told him I will try. I tried my best and managed to move the car...
    cherryaleks cherryaleks 18-21 14 mins ago

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    I've decided to wait a while ago and as a man it's real hard but I know it'll pay of in the end Its time for me to grow up I'm not trying to be another bum that's just scared of...
    tgn123 tgn123 18-21, M Jun 24

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