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I Think Theres A Time To Be Cruel To Be Kind

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    I find that I am sometimes too kind and sensitive to people's feelings. I put myself in other people's shoes a lot and I do all I can to make everyone happy and it doesn't matter...
    Innocentgirl333 Innocentgirl333 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    Has anyone ever done something just because someone told you they wouldn't let you or you couldn't do it?
    RJS3411 RJS3411 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    I'm drunk, making poor decisions......I just don't give a ****....,
    RJS3411 RJS3411 31-35, M Dec 6

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    Change for the better. Tired of not seeing anyone step up to the corruption and living life with a generation who have **** poor morals. Life is meant to be more then this...
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M Dec 16

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    It eludes me this thing I truly desire, I hear it could be around the next corner, down the street or at a grocery store walking down the isles. Yet I'm beginning to highly...
    rainyraven rainyraven 31-35, T Dec 13

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    I don't want to forget about the happier moments in the past, but I don't want to think about them either. Sometimes, the memories bring me some peace or a little happiness. Other...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 26-30 Dec 8

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    I wish I were more humble. When I was eight years old, my mother was told, "Put him in a really good school, or he'll rot. He won't be able to handle public schools." You know the...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    I think people should be kinder. And the whole movement of "pay it forward" is really great. Now...here's my issue... If you're going to buy someone's breakfast or pay for someone...
    sunnygrlamy sunnygrlamy 36-40, F Dec 12

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    I sometimes stare into the stars & think about time & space. I think about what is beyond the universe & if time will ever come to an end, considering there was a beginning point...
    darkrai24 darkrai24 18-21, M 9 Responses Dec 9

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    Well... I really am sad today. It's not that big of a surprise. I really think I screwed life up pretty astoundingly. I wish I was dumber, but instead I'm kinda bright, but have...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I never used to think about it, I used to be petrified of the thought of dying and it made me uneasy just to think your heart will just stop one day. Two and a half years ago my...
    Imoveryou Imoveryou 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    Yeah! People even rape, abuse animals, cheated others, for no reason! They truly want to be cruel an nuts to do things that are wrong! People certainly have no honour!
    FriendlyDragon FriendlyDragon 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I remember one time when I saw two guys throwing rocks at a poor dog. I yelled and they stopped, but I still cried for the poor animal. STOP ANIMAL ABUSE! They have feelings too.
    Dari97 Dari97 16-17, F 6 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Have you ever wondered if everything and everyone you knew were real? And I'm not talking about some matrix simulation kind of thing, I mean for example your friends. Do you ever...
    DeathIsPartDinosaur DeathIsPartDinosaur 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    32nd post. I'm in really bad shape tonight. It's almost 1am here and I had a rough day. I gambled yesterday and afterwards it took all my energy not to do something stupid. I lost...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 4

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    We all didnt like rude people. Atleast me. But i think that people are secretly attracted to rude people and abusers. That doesnt speak for me, but for others. Ive been nice and...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 5 Responses Nov 27

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    No matter where you go or where you wish to go, there will ALWAYS be someone "cruel." Someone is always trying to put you down and make you feel as "little" as they are. But NEVER...
    Doman5222 Doman5222 16-17, M Nov 27

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    1. Cuddles 2. My family 3. Listening to music 4. Going to concerts 5. Hardback books 6. Meeting old friends/acquaintances I haven't seen in years 7. My favourite podcasts 8. Tea...
    sleeperstream sleeperstream 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I know that a lot of people didnt understand me and think that i made it all up, but i met all of my life abusers and bullies. From my childhood i was bullied. At school teachers...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 3 Responses Dec 8

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    56th post..This will be my last post on the Sydney siege. 2 innocent lives were lost early this morning, as a selfish individual stormed a coffee shop and decided to play God for a...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    I think you have ruined this site/app for me sir. How can someone just be so cruel. FriggenGenius31 you sir are cruel! I shake my head in your direction.
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I believe one has reached the ultimate stage of demise when one utilizes the kindness, emotions, and genuine concern of one, in an attempt to gain another............. Such utter...
    extant1 extant1 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    43rd post. Haven't written for a few days, and unfortunately I'm back to being in a slump. Not sleeping more than about 3 hours a night, and my mind is on fast forward with a...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    I thought everything was okay. If you've read my other experience you'd know I had a conflict with my mom. Well, it was resolved and I had decided to return to her home. My...
    curiousitykills57 curiousitykills57 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I don't really know why. The only reason I can think of is that we were together for a several years so we shared a big chunk of our lives and therefore it's inevitable that I will...
    whatsername whatsername 22-25, F Nov 26

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    I'm an Endomorph, so even as the ideal weight for my type, society sent me into anorexia. I was almost bone skinny, yet since I was still large, I was made to see myself as very...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Dec 5

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    This is the reason why it is important to make people aware about the issues of animal welfare. Talking to a child how "innocent cruelty" is wrong, for example, squishing a...
    Alyeskaa Alyeskaa 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    38th post. Want to die tonight. I have had the most severe heartburn for days, can't get rid of it. Low point once again, and I'm wishing I can go to sleep and not wake up. Wouldn...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    We all strive to love and be loved. It is simply amazing how this emotions tends to control everything that we do, even the way we think. It doesn't matter who you are, what you do...
    la2emeh la2emeh 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 16

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    I just turned off my Facebook because all I can see there are every type of negative and bad news coming from around the world. People there are fighting in comments with each...
    DAKtheligislator DAKtheligislator 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I read many questions and responses here and I am still surprised and saddened when I see a child posting that they want to end their life, or the cut themselves and the responses...
    QuiriousMe QuiriousMe 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 15

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    i ofter walk into my closet, and look at the rail. theres almost nothing on it, just a few sweat-shirts and a book bag; there's definitely enough space for me. i have hanged on it...
    crazyhyperkid crazyhyperkid 18-21, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    so theres this girl who sits next to me in psychology. my god she is so annoying shes a senior and so goddam cute, oh im a sophmore, i hate that im thinking about her, i mean other...
    Idioticnerd Idioticnerd 13-15, M Dec 1

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    This is my first post and I'll do my best to keep it from being messy and difficult to read (keep in mind that english is not my native tongue). I'm 18 years old, and I'm in my...
    VoidMonkey VoidMonkey 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    A bit about me ❤ 1. Name? - no fun, if I tell:) 2. Male or female? Female 3. Were you named after anyone? Not that I know of. 4. Does your name mean anything? Not that I...
    SecretEscape SecretEscape 36-40, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm no longer depressed or thinking about death. I am just going to make new friends enjoy my life and forget the bad! I may think of death sometimes but I know it gets better. I...
    Hellokittybbgrl Hellokittybbgrl 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 28

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    Yesterday I posted a question related to homosexuality, I put in the description how a friend (now ex-friend) said it's perfectly fine if her son turned out gay, but not her...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Nothing saddens me more than seeing animals being mistreated. Whether it's performance animals being beaten, or animals in meat farms being placed for long stressful hours in...
    sleeperstream sleeperstream 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I have something very important to say, especially to you girls. Girls, you come on EP because often times, you suffer from anxiety, depression, bullying, low-self esteem, Family...
    GleamingEyes GleamingEyes 18-21 6 Responses Dec 8

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    Injoy 1767: This post is dedicated to you, sweet Light Ambassador. Thank you!!! :)) "Kindness--the most valuable gift you will ever give someone." The Peace and Love Train "A...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 11 Responses Dec 9

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    63rd post. Now I'm going to start delving into the issues that have caused me the most anxiety over the years, and which I believe have led to who I am today. Firstly I will talk...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    Many times, the decisions we make affect and hurt your closest friends and family the most. I have a lot of regrets in that regard. But God has forgiven me, which I am very...
    rajbj rajbj 18-21, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Over the summer I was raped several times by the same person. The first couple times I would fight back and try to stop him but he would hit me harder and overpower me. I haven't...
    PamAll PamAll 41-45, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I posted a suggestion in the questions page that it would be cool to write an experience about an EP friend or more. :) So let me take this time to tell you all how much you mean...
    EmmaXP EmmaXP 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 26

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    I’m thinking of doing something stupid and incredibly time wasting. It probably won’t make a huge difference…but you never know right? In fact, I’ll probably get kicked...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 29

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