I Think Theres Too Much Pressure On Women to Look Good

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    The key question is: Why thereĀ“s pressure on

    women to look good but not on men?
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    Nov 28, 2015

    women ought to look good,

    but not for the men or other women ;) just do or wear whatever makes you feel honest and empowered, my love to you all, and to the boys (out) [t]here supporting you~
    EgyptianTundra EgyptianTundra
    26-30, M
    Sep 21, 2015
    InAllTheWorldIDreamInPaper InAllTheWorldIDreamInPaper
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2015

    I'm a mature man so I find personality the main

    thing. All women are pretty God made sure if that.
    sirnatural sirnatural
    41-45, M
    Jun 30, 2015


    It seems there's not enough pressure on people to use apostrophes...
    Discard92 Discard92
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 16, 2012

    T-shirt, Cargo Pants, And Uncombed Hair

    ...are sexy. No makeup, no accessories, nada. Glasses instead of contacts, and don't make me a sandwichh. Instead, go get the second controller, have a seat, and join me for some video games. Anybody like Minecraft?
    mononoaware mononoaware
    26-30, M
    Oct 10, 2012

    Any Magical Marvellous Magnificent Megababes In Here?

    ANY MAGICAL MARVELLOUS MAGNIFICENT MEGABABES IN HERE? Can't hear ya ... I said ... ANY MAGICAL MARVELLOUS MAGNIFICENT MEGABABES IN HERE? Lemme hear ya ... S=S=S=C=R=E=E=A=A=M=M=M=M !!!!!! Ever http://www.VisitLiverpool.com ?? Ever http://www.VisitBlackpool.com ?? Ever...
    ShyButCreativeSexyGuy ShyButCreativeSexyGuy
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 4, 2012

    Appearance Do Matters..... I Hate To Admit

    When I was in freshmen, I wasn't attractive nothing at all. Everyone almost thought I'm dude even through I wore the pretty clothes. I got a few bullies that they called me ugly girl or whatever it is. Last year, I was so determined to change everything basic on my appearance. I...
    hocogirl hocogirl
    18-21, F
    Oct 10, 2011

    The Media Has A Lot To Answer For....

    Far too much emphasis is placed on how a woman looks. What about a womans brain? The things she can achieve? Looks fade and it's sad that there is so much pressure on women to look a certain way. I always think true beauty is seen in the way a person carries themselves and...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 17, 2011

    "fairness Cremes"

    I've never quite understood the growing level of vanity in the society we're living in. May be consumerism is to be blamed for this along with worthless people who unfortunately end up as icons and role models for those with a weak self esteem. It's sad indeed that  we're...
    confusedfish confusedfish
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2010

    If Only They Knew

    As I've noticed, I've seen lots of women getting stressed out to look good just to make guys notice them.  I mean it's ok to look good for a special occation but nothing to exagerate. What matters is what that women is on the inside, how much she cares for that guy she...
    Luzbel Luzbel
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 31, 2010

    There Is

    There is WAY too much pressure on women to look great all the time and fit a certain stereotype, but to be honest, I think recent times have imposed the same sort of pressure on men as well. Here's what I say: WHO CARES? I wasn't put on earth to please shallow people.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 28, 2010

    Youre Too Fat/ Youre Too Thin!

    God society bugs me! I first have to add i am a Uk size 10 athletic build and take great care in myself. I adore food, do not starve myself, and take the right amount of exersise to substain my figure. However...i am getting increasingly irratated at the flippant remarks folk...
    Blondevixon Blondevixon
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Dec 3, 2009

    Insane Joke That's Not Funny,

     Our society keeps pushing this insane, ridiculous and extremely unhealthy idea of beauty on all of us and it's not what I want or how I feel I need to be. The more outside influence I have had the more confusing health becomes. I do not want to look like everyone else and...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 1, 2009

    Have You Ever Noticed How...

    Back in the day, talent was talent and a person became a personality because of that talent. Talent was the precursor for fame and if the person wasn't particularly attractive, then that wasn't too much of a big deal. Consider Karen Carpenter or Dust Springfield... both iconic...
    buttercupdonkey buttercupdonkey
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2009

    It Annoys Me

    I remember reading something in one of the "Post Secret" books that this one guy confessed he thought women who didn't put on make up were lazy.  That just kind of got to me.  I never wear make up.  I think the last time that I actually put...
    SerenaDragonfly SerenaDragonfly
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2008


    Gah, i hate how they can just roll out of bed and still look good, where as if a girl does that she is consdered lazy and a slob. most of us have to spend hours "fixing" ourselves in order to even get looked at by a guy. :/
    asdfok asdfok
    18-21, F
    22 Responses Aug 20, 2008

    Let Me Be a Slob Sometimes

    Ive recently given birth to my third daughter, having had two previous children who were huge babies 9lb and 10lb i managed to lose all my baby weight and return to my pre pregnancy size 10 figure, on the third occasion the minute i came out of the hospital home, my partner...
    Blondevixon Blondevixon
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Aug 20, 2008
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