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I Think Valentines Day Is the Sadist Holiday If Your Alone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 52 People

    Why I Hate Valentines Day

    I'm single so it shouldn't be a surprise that I get bitter on valentines day and the weeks that lead up to it. I just don't understand it. I'm nice, friendly, look good. not hot but still good and you know what I not only am unable to get a girlfriend but seem to be the last guy...
    James1Harper James1Harper 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 12, 2013

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    I Dont Understand Why This Day Makes Me Sad...

    Its nothing more than a marketing scam, so why do I feel this lonleiness every February?? I feel empty. I see people with their so called "lover" and it sickens me. It depresses me. Call me bitter all you want, I dont care, atleast im not being scammed... Society makes a holiday...
    Krie Krie 22-25 9 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    "Happy Valentine's day to all those

    who are taken, almost taken, taken for granted, waiting to be taken, assumed to be taken, and those who aren't taken seriously."
    YouBeTheAnchor YouBeTheAnchor 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    Being single sucks on Valentine's Day.

    I cry almost every year when I realize, yet another year gone by, and I'm still single. I'm sure I will this year too. :'-(
    Maelui Maelui 26-30, F Feb 14

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    The Sadist Day Of The Year!

    I have to join this group cos i am in love with the idea of Valentine's Day as a holiday for lone Sadists! This is awesome idea and one we should all support. Never forget your friendly neighbourhood solo Sadist. Every Valentine's Day, make visit and let him or her give you a...
    yulico yulico 70+, F 2 Responses May 30, 2013

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    Lonely Soul

    This time of the year, I dont knw why but I dread, I hate not having a soulmate because I beleive that is all love is about but come this day I've always been alone and this year is going to be no different....I wish......lol
    crazybimbo crazybimbo 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    What A Crock!

    Just like all the other holidays we need to remind us to do the right thing. If you are in love, then every day of your lives should be Valentines day. That holiday is another example of lost values and commercialization. Rub it in the faces of the lonely, good job!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2010

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    This Is How I Feel

    http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=51727948
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    :)

    I think it is the saddest too if you are alone.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    Every Year...

    If you're alone.. you feel it, the loneliness.. the emptiness.. not having that "person" in your life.. knowing that another year went by and you didn't find him/her.. It's very sad.. even depressing. You see all the couples, the gigantic gifts, cards, balloons, flowers, roses...
    sasukesnumber1fan sasukesnumber1fan 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    Intentional Misspelling?

    I think it is more of a masochist holiday if you're alone.
    Honir Honir 26-30, M 6 Responses Feb 13, 2009

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    Sad All Around

    Lol, I thought this was an interesting group when i first saw it, until i realized the typo of the word sadist. Saddest holiday? Maybe. But i joined any way because i think it is a sadist holiday, when the object of your affection has just turned away from you. And has...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    For valentine's day I always say, "it's fine, we don't have to do anything". Then I wait for a surprise, just something little...like a card with a funny joke. At the end of the...
    SatuSunshine SatuSunshine 26-30, F Feb 14

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    You wanna hear a joke? Valentine’s Day.What do single people call Valentine's Day? Happy Independence Day."Whale you be my Valentine?" "Dolphinately"To all the single people...
    devinesoul94 devinesoul94 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    how can u tell if its your heart thats cold n dead?
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    Yes for the ones who do not have anyone to share it with.I think we have more important things to do than celebrate Valentine's Day.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    Happy singles awareness day everyone! I'm sure aware...
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    dislike Valentine's day this is my 4th Valentine's without anyone : (
    hungboy210 hungboy210 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 14

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    Valentine's Day isn't even necessary... . _.
    Jairbear Jairbear 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    I hate valentine's day, i ate chinese food, i took a hot bath, the cry till i fell a sleep last night 😢
    inzp inzp 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I never have anyone to share it with 😭
    AngelOfTheRoses AngelOfTheRoses 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    Being single does not bother much anymore but what is frustrating is other people who aren't pretending to not notice this on valentines day . Just leave me alone . So every V day...
    zen001 zen001 22-25, M Feb 3

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    I think valentines day is really cute :)
    OmgItsAGayBoy OmgItsAGayBoy 13-15, M Feb 13

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    I don't even acknowledge it as a holiday anymore. I don't give the day the satisfaction of even having an Anti Valentines Day. It's worthless to me. The entire holiday is a cash...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    The title says it all! I'm actually going to do something, with another person I have feelings for, on Valentines day. If I talked to myself 2 years ago today I'd have called my...
    flibsley flibsley 31-35, M Feb 5

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    To you, my beloved: Love....what is love? Love is being at peace with the world. Love is the greatest drug of all. Love is the best of all emotions. Love is a rebirth. Love is a...
    Bound2You Bound2You 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    I feel so lonely right now. Yet again my husband reminds me that he's depressed every holiday because he misses his Mom. Yes, I married a Mama's boy. I love him so much but he...
    iflsoh iflsoh 36-40, F Feb 14

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    I really hate this "holiday".. It's a reminder of just how lonely your life is. I don't remember ever having a good valentines day!! I'm trying to be gentle with myself and with my...
    nikkionelove nikkionelove 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 11

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    Probably because I am single and not interested in having a relationship at present. On this day for love sick people I am doing my first college assignment for sociology. Not very...
    ElJuan35 ElJuan35 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I just want to wish everyone a Happy Valentines Day!!! Even tho I'm single and generally think this holiday is stupid Spend time with your significant other .... And if you don't...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M Feb 14

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    WORTH READING i know alot!! more then i let on VALENTINES DAY IS THE MOST POINTLESS DUMBEST HOLIDAY EVER why?!?! cuz i was at work and i had the radio blasted out and a random...
    sora1987 sora1987 26-30 Feb 14

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    It's Valentines Weekend, *******! Treat your lady well and YES get her flowers. She loves chocolate- but if you get it she will still be under pressure to look good for you and...
    MFeisty MFeisty 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 13

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    i know some people hate Valentines day.............i dont blame you guys. but its a holiday, so lets celebrate. So Happy Early Valentines Day to everybody on Ep
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 8 Responses Feb 13

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    Just like every year, I am alone. Just like every year, people are rubbing it in my face that they have Valentines while I am alone. Just like every year, no one gives a sh*t...
    BrokenGlassDoll BrokenGlassDoll 16-17, F Feb 14

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    The title of this experience makes me sound massively less okay with being single than I am :) So far in my life, I've never "celebrated" Valentines day. I've never been in a...
    YuEvans YuEvans 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Happy Valentines Day everyone! This holiday will probably be a breath of fresh air for me. Not really sure why it receives so much hate... But I'm going to focus on the good and be...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F Feb 14

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    Never really cared for valentines day before especially when I was in high school. But this is going to be the first year where I won't be alone. Can't wait to spend my valentines...
    christarose96 christarose96 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I was counting down the days.. A few years ago. My only wish was to not be alone on Valentines Day. Unfortunately I was declined that wish after I blew the candles out on my 22nd...
    XnOXnO XnOXnO 22-25, M Feb 12

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    For the insecure, introvert Valentines Day is awful. Though I'm only fourteen and know that I shouldn't complain about it, many of my friends have had numerous boyfriends and...
    MaladaptiveDayDreamer MaladaptiveDayDreamer 13-15, F Feb 13

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    It's Valentines Day...I wanted to wish "Her" Happy Valentines Day...But I don't think I can...what am I gonna do? Seriously driving my mind crazy!!!?? HAPPY VALENTINES DAY To...
    MyLifeIsWithYou93 MyLifeIsWithYou93 18-21, F Feb 13

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    The Man/woman who said here; " People meet for a reason". If that was not GOD's will.. I would not ever come to live in your twon. I would not meet Samuel Adams, the POT BELLY...
    savemefromHer savemefromHer 41-45, T Feb 14

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    I have always been single on Valentines Day. Relationships have never lasted long enough to make it too VD DAY. I always wear black on VD Day. Always alone, so I'm mourning my lack...
    Roulette1767 Roulette1767 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Being 5ever alone on valentines day isn't fun. (5ever because that's longer than forever)
    Hiiamawhovian Hiiamawhovian 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I'm single, I'm 25 and I love Valentines day. I love the heart shape boxes, and the balloons, I love how the Grocery Store decorates with roses. Then there's the fact that I can...
    curly2 curly2 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    There are a lot of Fish out In the Sea The sea is big, the sea is huge The sea is dark and deep and blue The sea is cold with lots of pressure The sea is old and full of danger...
    tastyfrzz tastyfrzz 46-50 Feb 13

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    If you require me to celebrate Valentines Day by buying you an expensive gift to show that I still love you or care for you, you are not the kind of person I want to be with. I do...
    NeoBatou NeoBatou 26-30, M Feb 13

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    Valentines day is absolute bullshit. People put so much effort in showing their love for someone on that day. I'd rather have someone who will show me that they love me on the...
    MagicEyes95 MagicEyes95 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10