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I Think Valentines Day Is the Sadist Holiday If Your Alone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 54 People

    Why I Hate Valentines Day

    I'm single so it shouldn't be a surprise that I get bitter on valentines day and the weeks that lead up to it. I just don't understand it. I'm nice, friendly, look good. not hot but still good and you know what I not only am unable to get a girlfriend but seem to be the last guy...
    James1Harper James1Harper 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 12, 2013

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    The Sadist Day Of The Year!

    I have to join this group cos i am in love with the idea of Valentine's Day as a holiday for lone Sadists! This is awesome idea and one we should all support. Never forget your friendly neighbourhood solo Sadist. Every Valentine's Day, make visit and let him or her give you a...
    yulico yulico 70+, F 2 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I Dont Understand Why This Day Makes Me Sad...

    Its nothing more than a marketing scam, so why do I feel this lonleiness every February?? I feel empty. I see people with their so called "lover" and it sickens me. It depresses me. Call me bitter all you want, I dont care, atleast im not being scammed... Society makes a holiday...
    Krie Krie 22-25 9 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    This Is How I Feel

    http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=51727948
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

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    Sad All Around

    Lol, I thought this was an interesting group when i first saw it, until i realized the typo of the word sadist. Saddest holiday? Maybe. But i joined any way because i think it is a sadist holiday, when the object of your affection has just turned away from you. And has...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 11, 2009

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    Every Year...

    If you're alone.. you feel it, the loneliness.. the emptiness.. not having that "person" in your life.. knowing that another year went by and you didn't find him/her.. It's very sad.. even depressing. You see all the couples, the gigantic gifts, cards, balloons, flowers, roses...
    sasukesnumber1fan sasukesnumber1fan 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    Being single sucks on Valentine's Day.

    I cry almost every year when I realize, yet another year gone by, and I'm still single. I'm sure I will this year too. :'-(
    Maelui Maelui 26-30, F Feb 14

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    "Happy Valentine's day to all those

    who are taken, almost taken, taken for granted, waiting to be taken, assumed to be taken, and those who aren't taken seriously."
    YouBeTheAnchor YouBeTheAnchor 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

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    Lonely Soul

    This time of the year, I dont knw why but I dread, I hate not having a soulmate because I beleive that is all love is about but come this day I've always been alone and this year is going to be no different....I wish......lol
    crazybimbo crazybimbo 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    What A Crock!

    Just like all the other holidays we need to remind us to do the right thing. If you are in love, then every day of your lives should be Valentines day. That holiday is another example of lost values and commercialization. Rub it in the faces of the lonely, good job!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 18, 2010

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    :)

    I think it is the saddest too if you are alone.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    Intentional Misspelling?

    I think it is more of a masochist holiday if you're alone.
    Honir Honir 26-30, M 6 Responses Feb 13, 2009

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