I Think Valentines Day Is the Sadist Holiday If Your Alone

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    Being single sucks on Valentine's Day.

    I cry almost every year when I realize, yet another year gone by, and I'm still single. I'm sure I will this year too. :'-(
    Maelui Maelui
    26-30, F
    Feb 14, 2015

    :)

    I think it is the saddest too if you are alone.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2010

    This Is How I Feel

    http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=51727948
    shadow1013 shadow1013
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2009

    Lonely Soul

    This time of the year, I dont knw why but I dread, I hate not having a soulmate because I beleive that is all love is about but come this day I've always been alone and this year is going to be no different....I wish......lol
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 25, 2012

    Sad All Around

    Lol, I thought this was an interesting group when i first saw it, until i realized the typo of the word sadist. Saddest holiday? Maybe. But i joined any way because i think it is a sadist holiday, when the object of your affection has just turned away from you. And has...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Feb 11, 2009

    What A Crock!

    Just like all the other holidays we need to remind us to do the right thing. If you are in love, then every day of your lives should be Valentines day. That holiday is another example of lost values and commercialization. Rub it in the faces of the lonely, good job!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 18, 2010

    The Sadist Day Of The Year!

    I have to join this group cos i am in love with the idea of Valentine's Day as a holiday for lone Sadists! This is awesome idea and one we should all support. Never forget your friendly neighbourhood solo Sadist. Every Valentine's Day, make visit and let him or her give you a...
    yulico yulico
    70+, F
    2 Responses May 30, 2013

    "Happy Valentine's day to all those

    who are taken, almost taken, taken for granted, waiting to be taken, assumed to be taken, and those who aren't taken seriously."
    YouBeTheAnchor YouBeTheAnchor
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

    Intentional Misspelling?

    I think it is more of a masochist holiday if you're alone.
    Honir Honir
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Feb 13, 2009

    I Dont Understand Why This Day Makes Me Sad...

    Its nothing more than a marketing scam, so why do I feel this lonleiness every February?? I feel empty. I see people with their so called "lover" and it sickens me. It depresses me. Call me bitter all you want, I dont care, atleast im not being scammed... Society makes a holiday...
    Krie Krie
    22-25
    9 Responses Feb 6, 2010

    Why I Hate Valentines Day

    I'm single so it shouldn't be a surprise that I get bitter on valentines day and the weeks that lead up to it. I just don't understand it. I'm nice, friendly, look good. not hot but still good and you know what I not only am unable to get a girlfriend but seem to be the last guy...
    James1Harper James1Harper
    18-21, M
    Feb 12, 2013

    Every Year...

    If you're alone.. you feel it, the loneliness.. the emptiness.. not having that "person" in your life.. knowing that another year went by and you didn't find him/her.. It's very sad.. even depressing. You see all the couples, the gigantic gifts, cards, balloons, flowers, roses...
    sasukesnumber1fan sasukesnumber1fan
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2010

    & I got a message to all sadistic people.

    . If you're only happy when I ain't.. Life will get harder and eternity (since I am saved) will be worse for you. :-p
    poiemajeremiah poiemajeremiah
    36-40, M
    Aug 4, 2015

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