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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

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    I'm not a heterosexual,

    homosexual, bisexual, asexual, pansexual, nor any other sexuals for that matter. I am Janelle. I love and **** whoever I want. I am just Janelle.
    IamJanelle IamJanelle 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Sexuality is one of the most wonderful parts of

    being human. Why would anyone try to stifle it? Why would anyone twist something inherently beautiful into something dirty? It is not wrong or amoral to enjoy sex – to revel in lust and passion and desire. Wanting and being wanted are gifts. Acceptance, opening your body...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    I think it would have been

    so cool to have been a caveman.Life was short and life was hard. When you wanted to enjoy a woman, you just did it, when ever and how much you wanted too.No rules or any expectations, just good old fashion doing it,for the sake of, just doing it.
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    poisedjaber poisedjaber 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 7

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    We should be able to have sex with animals!

    Wait... Can we? Because I already do it with my dog!
    BIaziken BIaziken 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I hate the perception of "*****" in society.

    Sleeping your way to the top- slutty. Sleeping with someone else's lover? -slutty. Sleeping around cause of bad self esteem -sad. Sleeping around because you love to have sex & want to experiment and try new things? -not slutty. As long as you're being safe, and not home...
    RMDk RMDk 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    People who engage in polygamy,

    people who enjoy being spanked while restrained, people who enjoy feet, people who enjoy being in body suits, people who enjoy sex only in public, people who enjoy roleplaying, people who enjoy costumes, people who enjoy being dominated, people who enjoy "vanilla" sex, people...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 20, 2014

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    Why do we let ourselves live by other peoples

    ideals on how we should live our sexual lives..?
    amypure amypure 31-35, F 24 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    Does anyone else find it strange

    that when a man is spotted in an adult store he is often (not always) labeled a sick perv. But when a woman is shopping in an adult store it is often (not always) hot or sexy... But it is said that men think of sex more than women so shouldn't it be acceptable to find a man...
    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 21 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I agree I think people are people we all enjoy

    different things at different times in our lives. We don't need rules to define that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I say if everyone involved is consenting

    and no one is harmed, go ahead.
    ducksoftheuniverse ducksoftheuniverse 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    No rule no hold backs.

    .. That is me, however I don't get what I need. I AM NOT ASKING FOR CHATS! Just expressing. I am married my husband is reserved, I ask, I communicate I give directions.... Sweet Jesus man!
    OrchidsNuBlu OrchidsNuBlu 36-40, F 45 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    ...like what is considered "mature"

    or not when something could truly be very bonding...
    wuiop wuiop 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I firmly believe what happens between two

    consenting adults in the privacy of their own bedroom is no one else's business.
    Devinamaria Devinamaria 26-30, F 14 Responses Jan 15, 2014

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    I think it's unrealistic to get married

    and then expect that one person to meet all your needs, for decades and decades. I think we need to reconsider monogamy. I would be willing to share a man with his legal wife. If she wants the ring and the piece of paper, fine. They probably also have a mortgage and kids and...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 23 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    there is far too much hate in this world

    towards those that don't follow a straight life style and what's worse is that ppl think we can be "fixed" with treatment or religion finding god won't fix me, cus I'm not broken!
    leahaha leahaha 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Mastermind12345 Mastermind12345 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    To me it is all about fun,

    and enjoying it. I try to keep an open mind, even if I dont always understand different fetisches. But who am I to say what is right and wrong? :p
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 13 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I was raised in a nudist

    and sexuality positive home, meaning that while growing up I could ask my parents any questions I had without ever being ashamed of who I am. Growing up in that lifestyle, I feel no different than any other person I know.
    OscarMC OscarMC 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 6

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    It seems like most men I know,

    work with or run into have to go out of their way to act manly, and talk how men should talk and do the things men should do and very proudly put down anything that isn't allowed in the man bubble. Like yoga, gardening,vegetarianism,genuinely caring about women, taking care of...
    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Everyone of all ages

    and colours should love each other! In my dream society there are no rules, no marriages and absolutely no clothes!
    libertinette libertinette 22-25, F 80 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    Sometimes I think that women are born with a

    ticking clock around their necks....reminding the world about what's the best time for them to get pregnant and how they must fulfill their destiny by reproducing at the ideal time. Please mind that the emphasis is not even on raising a child, but on biologically producing it...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I really don't get. If you love someone

    and that person loves you back there shouldn't be a law preventing it from happening. We are all people no matter what race, culture, sexuality, or religion we are , so why does it matter so much? Some people really need to see what the world truly is instead of thinking what it...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 14 Responses Feb 19, 2014

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    being sexy is not a crime.

    ..its good to open yourself and share it makes you mentally free
    nawtyzaky12 nawtyzaky12 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    One of my friends wants to play

    and doesn't have EP. Message me for how to reach her.
    endlesslycurious endlesslycurious 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 22

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    I'm in a mmf bisexual open relationship.

    meaning I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.
    experienceisknowledge experienceisknowledge 26-30, M Feb 23

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    Why do so many people judge others based on

    their sexual habits??? It's sad. I blame civilizations history of man manipulating religion for his own gain as the main contributor to this state. What really is right or wrong when it comes to personal choice? If it's consensual can it actually be bad? I can consent to give my...
    Roxy1114 Roxy1114 31-35, F 12 Responses Jun 18, 2014

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    I wrote out a really long

    and intelligent rant on how messed up society is, but nevermind guys.
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I wish society would be more open about self

    sucking guys. personally I have the ability and im obsessed with it. people always tell me to perform for them whether in their house or public im known around as an advocate to embrace your talents whether its weird , gross etc to societies standards. people dont even realize...
    nronic1 nronic1 18-21, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Story of my life! Like

    why do we have to label and categorize everything about ourselves? Just to fit into tiny little boxes that society hands out to us as out normal shield? No thank you. I am going to love whomever I choose for the reasons I see fit and no one can tell me otherwise.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    Keeping It Classy

    I think there are too many rules about how women should act, think, feel, look, in regards to their sexuality. I think women start to believe that they should constantly worry about the impression and the image they give others....don't want to be too easy, don't want to look...
    ItsJustMe888 ItsJustMe888 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    I feel that if both parties are happy with the

    arrangement and having their needs and wants met then it's all good. If no one outside of the unit is affected negatively then go, do, lick, slap, twiddle.... To your heart's content.
    Myjuju Myjuju 36-40, F 13 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    Why are people so stuck with x,

    y, z gender and how it should behave? Look at the rainbow man! they are NOT just different colors, it's a spectrum- each color merges into the other and emerges as something else. There are no boundaries. It's ok to be "diffused" like that. I ******* loose my mind when people...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    theDPking theDPking 31-35, M 22 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Can anyone suggest any good books

    and or suggestions on overcoming sexual repression? I feel very misguided, and overly uncomfortable. Thanks
    Aj03 Aj03 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 25

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    I hate the way that I am made to feel like I'm

    trouble just because I like to stay single and sleep with who ever I like... get stuffed people!
    LolaGracesSecret LolaGracesSecret 31-35, F 17 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Gender rules are stupid.

    If a guy wants to do ballet or likes boy bands, it's fine, and if a girl likes karate and scream music then it's fine too!
    laurabaillie16 laurabaillie16 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Too many rules means too many people are

    so inhibited and suppressed which also causes a lack of communication and missed enjoyments.
    LTEP69 LTEP69 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Im getting the tramp stamp ives always wanted!

    Im should be doing it around Wednesday or Tuesday and will change my pic. It involves a girl giving oral.
    jiltedgirl jiltedgirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 19

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    mrx : hey me: hi Mrx: blah blah blah me:

    blah blah blah mrx :are you virgin ? me : nope mrx : where are you from ? me: India mrx: what ???,you are from India and you are not a virgin ? it's a shame to India me : shut up (blinking) :O :O :O :- :- now what ? I haven't committed a biggest sin stop being such an...
    insatiable02 insatiable02 18-21, F 15 Responses 6 days ago

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    And all the wrong people get to make the rules.

    [insert profanity of your choice here]
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 13 Responses Feb 12, 2014

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    Is the expression of desire,

    want, lust from a woman that isn't overtly flaunting herself surprising? A woman having set standards, high intelligence, and knowing what she desires but selective about how and when she expresses it is really that extraordinary? When she does express it, why is it...
    JustNyx JustNyx 36-40, F 18 Responses Jan 11

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    Yes sexuality: the sexual habits

    and desires of a person. If it's consensual between adults then leave it alone. Why do people feel they have to judge others based on a choice made by someone else. If consensual adults want to be together, leave them alone. If one or both is married then that is their...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 41-45, F 14 Responses May 15, 2014

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    Sexuality should be as open

    as possible - ties in with the right to freedom of expression - express those naughty desires!
    Miriam4Fun Miriam4Fun 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 15

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    I think animals are better off

    than us because sex for them is a simple physical act to reproduce and expand. But for us, it is complicated as hell. This makes me think whether our evolved intellectual brain is a boon or curse in disguise! We all know we are born from an act of sex, it has introduced us to...
    Erevos Erevos 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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