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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

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    ...like what is considered "mature"

    or not when something could truly be very bonding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I think in todays world,

    With its constant revolving and with it comes more change by the days as they go by. I think with that, people will change with it but some do not. Change is something I view as a big black hole, something that I can't truly see through or see where the 'end' to it is. I view...
    Traveller96 Traveller96 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not a heterosexual,

    homosexual, bisexual, asexual, pansexual, nor any other sexuals for that matter. I am Janelle. I love and **** whoever I want. I am just Janelle.
    IamJanelle IamJanelle 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Too many rules means too many people are

    so inhibited and suppressed which also causes a lack of communication and missed enjoyments.
    LTEP69 LTEP69 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    And all the wrong people get to make the rules.

    [insert profanity of your choice here]
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 13 Responses Feb 12, 2014

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    I agree I think people are people we all enjoy

    different things at different times in our lives. We don't need rules to define that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I think it's unrealistic to get married

    and then expect that one person to meet all your needs, for decades and decades. I think we need to reconsider monogamy. I would be willing to share a man with his legal wife. If she wants the ring and the piece of paper, fine. They probably also have a mortgage and kids and...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 24 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    I hate the way that I am made to feel like I'm

    trouble just because I like to stay single and sleep with who ever I like... get stuffed people!
    LolaGracesSecret LolaGracesSecret 31-35, F 17 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Yes sexuality: the sexual habits

    and desires of a person. If it's consensual between adults then leave it alone. Why do people feel they have to judge others based on a choice made by someone else. If consensual adults want to be together, leave them alone. If one or both is married then that is their...
    Rainbowsandrain Rainbowsandrain 41-45, F 14 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I think animals are better off

    than us because sex for them is a simple physical act to reproduce and expand. But for us, it is complicated as hell. This makes me think whether our evolved intellectual brain is a boon or curse in disguise! We all know we are born from an act of sex, it has introduced us to...
    Erevos Erevos 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Far far to many rules!

    Just have fun in love and s%&
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Sexuality is one of the most wonderful parts of

    being human. Why would anyone try to stifle it? Why would anyone twist something inherently beautiful into something dirty? It is not wrong or amoral to enjoy sex – to revel in lust and passion and desire. Wanting and being wanted are gifts. Acceptance, opening your body...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    I was raised in a nudist

    and sexuality positive home, meaning that while growing up I could ask my parents any questions I had without ever being ashamed of who I am. Growing up in that lifestyle, I feel no different than any other person I know.
    OscarMC OscarMC 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 6

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    poisedjaber poisedjaber 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 7

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    To me it is all about fun,

    and enjoying it. I try to keep an open mind, even if I dont always understand different fetisches. But who am I to say what is right and wrong? :p
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 13 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    People who engage in polygamy,

    people who enjoy being spanked while restrained, people who enjoy feet, people who enjoy being in body suits, people who enjoy sex only in public, people who enjoy roleplaying, people who enjoy costumes, people who enjoy being dominated, people who enjoy "vanilla" sex, people...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 20, 2014

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    i have alot of trouble getting in the mood

    after having my children. my husband gets turned on like a light bulb but he only has to touch my leg and i flinch. almost like if he kept going it would be unwanted and rapelike i guess. before the kids all he had to do was look at me and off we went. now he will set the mood...
    leahftp leahftp 22-25, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    We should be able to have sex with animals!

    Wait... Can we? Because I already do it with my dog!
    BIaziken BIaziken 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    Story of my life! Like

    why do we have to label and categorize everything about ourselves? Just to fit into tiny little boxes that society hands out to us as out normal shield? No thank you. I am going to love whomever I choose for the reasons I see fit and no one can tell me otherwise.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I wish society would be more open about self

    sucking guys. personally I have the ability and im obsessed with it. people always tell me to perform for them whether in their house or public im known around as an advocate to embrace your talents whether its weird , gross etc to societies standards. people dont even realize...
    nronic1 nronic1 18-21, M 8 Responses Apr 12

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    being sexy is not a crime.

    ..its good to open yourself and share it makes you mentally free
    nawtyzaky12 nawtyzaky12 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 12

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    Is the expression of desire,

    want, lust from a woman that isn't overtly flaunting herself surprising? A woman having set standards, high intelligence, and knowing what she desires but selective about how and when she expresses it is really that extraordinary? When she does express it, why is it...
    JustNyx JustNyx 36-40, F 17 Responses Jan 11

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    I feel that if both parties are happy with the

    arrangement and having their needs and wants met then it's all good. If no one outside of the unit is affected negatively then go, do, lick, slap, twiddle.... To your heart's content.
    Myjuju Myjuju 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    As long as proper consent is in place,

    I think there should be no rules about sex and sexuality. By creating all these rules we exclude and isolate those who have different preferences sexually.
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    No rule no hold backs.

    .. That is me, however I don't get what I need. I AM NOT ASKING FOR CHATS! Just expressing. I am married my husband is reserved, I ask, I communicate I give directions.... Sweet Jesus man!
    deleted deleted 26-30 44 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    mrx : hey me: hi Mrx: blah blah blah me:

    blah blah blah mrx :are you virgin ? me : nope mrx : where are you from ? me: India mrx: what ???,you are from India and you are not a virgin ? it's a shame to India me : shut up (blinking) :O :O :O :- :- now what ? I haven't committed a biggest sin stop being such an...
    insatiable02 insatiable02 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 12

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    Why do we let ourselves live by other peoples

    ideals on how we should live our sexual lives..?
    amypure amypure 31-35, F 25 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I'm constantly hearing crap from friends

    and family for my sexual preferences. I'm guessing the old saying "you don't know if you like it til you try it" was never popular around here. No one even seems remotely interested in educating themselves in something new.
    MyCircus MyCircus 26-30, F 31 Responses May 6

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    I had full on period sex/menstrual sex/red tide

    sex- should I be embarrassed? I think I stained his sheets- we had a good laugh about it. It seemed pretty passionate but there was a lot of drugs involved so who even knows. Hope I see him again- our sex is always so good.
    piratewoman666 piratewoman666 22-25, T 4 Responses May 10

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    if your single and it feels right go with it

    that's my opinion.if no one is getting hurt then do it.
    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 6

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    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    Everyone of all ages

    and colours should love each other! In my dream society there are no rules, no marriages and absolutely no clothes!
    libertinette libertinette 22-25, F 79 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 22

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    Gender rules are stupid.

    If a guy wants to do ballet or likes boy bands, it's fine, and if a girl likes karate and scream music then it's fine too!
    laurabaillie16 laurabaillie16 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Indeed we create way too many rules around

    sexuality. As long as people stay safe that's the main thing and that it's equally pleasurable :)
    tangledweb94 tangledweb94 18-21, M Jan 28

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    I dont mind those rules cuz its fun to break

    them :) But sure noone needs more than 1 rule which is: anything goes... as long as its fun for both!
    sexxie99aussie sexxie99aussie 18-21, F 29 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    It seems like most men I know,

    work with or run into have to go out of their way to act manly, and talk how men should talk and do the things men should do and very proudly put down anything that isn't allowed in the man bubble. Like yoga, gardening,vegetarianism,genuinely caring about women, taking care of...
    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I firmly believe what happens between two

    consenting adults in the privacy of their own bedroom is no one else's business.
    Devinamaria Devinamaria 26-30, F 14 Responses Jan 15, 2014

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    I'm in a mmf bisexual open relationship.

    meaning I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.
    experienceisknowledge experienceisknowledge 26-30, M Feb 23

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    Sometimes I think that women are born with a

    ticking clock around their necks....reminding the world about what's the best time for them to get pregnant and how they must fulfill their destiny by reproducing at the ideal time. Please mind that the emphasis is not even on raising a child, but on biologically producing it...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F Mar 23

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    Okay.... I see why we have the rules.

    .... but omg, seriously, I don't quite understand why different places have different legal ages, why not just have 1 set age for everywhere ? I mean don't get me wrong, I don't think there is to many because lets face it, It's nice to have the protection and having sex is...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M 3 Responses May 16

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    I think a marriage license should be like a

    driver's license - renewable every 5 years. Till death do us part sounds like a prison sentence!
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 51-55, F 32 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    I hate the perception of "*****" in society.

    Sleeping your way to the top- slutty. Sleeping with someone else's lover? -slutty. Sleeping around cause of bad self esteem -sad. Sleeping around because you love to have sex & want to experiment and try new things? -not slutty. As long as you're being safe, and not home...
    RMDk RMDk 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    I think we are rather open about sexuality here

    in Sweden. But still, I think a lot of people judge others who are not the same as them. We all have different needs. :p
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    hi everyone im married

    and i have 2 children. im 24 and struggling with my sexuality. my husband is adventurous and likes to try most things and my 1st reaction is no to most things because i care what other people think even tho i dont tell anyone. ive just realised that most things he wants to do i...
    leahftp leahftp 22-25, F 13 Responses 3 days ago

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    septemberh septemberh 13-15, F 3 Responses May 20

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