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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

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    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses May 28

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    Does anyone else find it strange

    that when a man is spotted in an adult store he is often (not always) labeled a sick perv. But when a woman is shopping in an adult store it is often (not always) hot or sexy... But it is said that men think of sex more than women so shouldn't it be acceptable to find a man...
    SexyandUknowit SexyandUknowit 26-30, F 18 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I agree I think people are people we all enjoy

    different things at different times in our lives. We don't need rules to define that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Why do we let ourselves live by other peoples

    ideals on how we should live our sexual lives..?
    amypure amypure 31-35, F 22 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    That is one reason why I love sex.

    I ignore the rules. I fantasize about many things that are considered taboo. I used to fantasize about having sex with male relatives. Giving a blow jog to a stranger on the subway is another one I like to fantasize about. But before you get too excited, I don't care to act out...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses May 22, 2014

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    I think it's unrealistic to get married

    and then expect that one person to meet all your needs, for decades and decades. I think we need to reconsider monogamy. I would be willing to share a man with his legal wife. If she wants the ring and the piece of paper, fine. They probably also have a mortgage and kids and...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 24 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    I agree! I find woman beautiful

    if I want to have sex with a woman I do I also find men sexy and if I want to have sex with a man I do who cares who is having sex with who?!? just be safe and have fun!!!
    LovelyPoison13 LovelyPoison13 26-30, F 16 Responses Aug 11

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    Wondering the best way to pull a shy guy into

    his sexual self...... He said he's willing to try anything out of curiosity & I like flavor. Brought him out a little but keep in mind it only took 6wks to free him from sitting on the edge of my couch folded into himself barely making eye contact. Anyone remember being intro'd...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 27

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    Im very open but I don't know

    why people are so uptight about it. So im bi prefer woman and I love wearing silk satin and lace. Sorry its such an issue. Im gonna be me.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I want to sleep with men again.

    I have not had sex in 6 years. I wanted to be celibate and cleanse myself of my previous partners that mistreated me (black males). I am not attracted (not even sexually) to black males. I had the best sexual experiences with white men mostly. I prefer white men. I am not...
    BrownBeeCa BrownBeeCa 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Is there really a list of rules

    or guidelines about your own sexuality? If there is, you are just confining yourselves. Religion as a guidebook you say? I recall religion teaching every kid 'to love everyone and everything' as the ultimate lesson to mankind. So why does sexuality have to do against religion...
    Ryel004F Ryel004F 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 3

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    Sexuality is one of the most wonderful parts of

    being human. Why would anyone try to stifle it? Why would anyone twist something inherently beautiful into something dirty? It is not wrong or amoral to enjoy sex – to revel in lust and passion and desire. Wanting and being wanted are gifts. Acceptance, opening your body...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    ladies do you get wet from just sucking a guys

    ****? without him touching you or anything?
    Bruinoguy Bruinoguy 26-30, M 7 Responses Aug 11

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    I have been thinking about the

    rather "hushed" area of society- **********. Our society has come a long way - people have started acknowledging the fact that one may not always have a choice in gender/sexual preferences. We don't really know what determine our sexual orientation but most of us are fortunate...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 19 Responses Aug 10

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    Its supposed to be about pleasure,

    why cant we just enjoy? I do agree that underage limits need to be set. I've got a pretty big thing against child abuse of any kind.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Can't do this and can't do that

    and your weird if you like this well hey guess what everyone's different
    BrooklynTheHarlot BrooklynTheHarlot 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    I am often horny, but i like to keep my sexual

    intercourse with people i have feelings for, some advice on how to control it when am mot in a single? recently got out of a long periode relationship.
    Annazfu Annazfu 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 25

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    A long time ago when my girlfriend wanted us to

    have a relationship and not see other people, I told her that I wanted a partnership based on 'unconditional' love where we both keep our personal freedom and there is nothing that either of us can't do and nothing that either of us has to do. I told her that she couldn't cheat...
    whitebirch999 whitebirch999 66-70, M 3 Responses Aug 8

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    Hello everybody, your God Shrek will take care

    of this problem. In the meantime do whatever you want! F*** a guy, F*** a girl or even go f*** yourself. Literally.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 10

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    I hate the way that I am made to feel like I'm

    trouble just because I like to stay single and sleep with who ever I like... get stuffed people!
    LolaGracesSecret LolaGracesSecret 31-35, F 13 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I'm constantly hearing crap from friends

    and family for my sexual preferences. I'm guessing the old saying "you don't know if you like it til you try it" was never popular around here. No one even seems remotely interested in educating themselves in something new.
    deleted deleted 26-30 30 Responses May 6

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    I'm not a heterosexual,

    homosexual, bisexual, asexual, pansexual, nor any other sexuals for that matter. I am Janelle. I love and **** whoever I want. I am just Janelle.
    IamJanelle IamJanelle 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    At my 40yr mark this year I rediscovered my

    sexuality. The only difference from my 20's? I finally had an idea of what I liked.... soft bondage & domination. Exceptionally hard, in a small LDS town, to find a compatible partner w similar likes/dislikes. It's very taboo here. *Side note, I liked it PRIOR to 50 Shades of...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 17 Responses Jun 24

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    We should adhere to God's laws,

    but man's laws are nothing but garbage if they're not from God's laws. I think even less of traditions and social expectations.
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M 17 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sex isn't a video game,

    you don't get experience points just for having completed the task..... Beating the boss doesn't level you up. Just because you've been playing for 10 years doesn't mean you have mad skill. You have to grind for it (gamers know what I mean).
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 10

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    Everyone of all ages

    and colours should love each other! In my dream society there are no rules, no marriages and absolutely no clothes!
    libertinette libertinette 22-25, F 78 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    i have no idea why it needs

    so many rules and morals and bullshit. theres only one rule that really counts: dont hurt anyone! no violence, no force – just have fun, as much as possible. thats how i was raised and thats how i live.
    milena2000 milena2000 13-15, F 14 Responses Jun 16

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    As long as proper consent is in place,

    I think there should be no rules about sex and sexuality. By creating all these rules we exclude and isolate those who have different preferences sexually.
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    We should be able to have sex with animals!

    Wait... Can we? Because I already do it with my dog!
    BIaziken BIaziken 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    IamnotCharlieSheen IamnotCharlieSheen 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I think 'Rules' in this matter are no wrong.

    Being in limits is always healthy.
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    JustBreathe4J JustBreathe4J 18-21, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I would say I am bi, I did experiment with men

    but I still prefer women. I have a GF and she knows all about my past and she is really comfortable with that. I love wearing good looking boxer briefs and being attractive for both women and men. That is me, yeah.
    GorgeousZebra GorgeousZebra 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Story of my life! Like

    why do we have to label and categorize everything about ourselves? Just to fit into tiny little boxes that society hands out to us as out normal shield? No thank you. I am going to love whomever I choose for the reasons I see fit and no one can tell me otherwise.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    Traditionally, it's said

    that men are more visually stimulated and women are more emotionally stimulated. i've found that women are very reluctant to admit to being turned on visually. I think that's a shame.I am extremely visually stimulated woman. I love watching **** and seeing nakedness on any...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    I definitely think there needs to be a female

    equivalent of Viagra. It would probably save a lot of marriages.
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 38 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm so tired of people asking me

    if I'm straight, lesbian, or bi. I absolutely hate labels. I'm not attracted to women, generally, but if I ever felt something for a woman, I wouldn't automatically say I was a lesbian or even bi. I would just acknowledge the fact that I had fallen for a woman. Even though, so...
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 14 Responses Aug 8

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    As a woman who is a submissive

    for her master, I completely agree with this. People hear about our relationship and are disgusted. Despite the fact I love doing this and we love each other and are consenting. How sexual we get shouldn't matter
    JessTheSub JessTheSub 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    Abolish gender. Not everyone is BOUND to get

    married. Not every marriage means having sex with the same person for the rest of your life. Talk about sex, consent. We are more than our bodies. Genitals are just another organ. Look at your naked self in the mirror and remember- no matter what you think, you are just like...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 10

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    I used a vibrator to get off

    for most of my relationship with my boyfriend of five years. It was always harder and took longer for me to get off, so it felt easier. I feel like in some ways it's cheating? I feel like it made my man feel inadequate in some ways that I had to use a vibrator... Ladies, is this...
    Honeybear18 Honeybear18 31-35, F 29 Responses Aug 17

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    Imho; consenting adults can do whatever they

    want as long as they don't hurt someone else (without that person's permission).
    greenroots greenroots 36-40, M Jul 27

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    No force. No kids. No pets.

    There. All the needed rules.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    mrx : hey me: hi Mrx: blah blah blah me:

    blah blah blah mrx :are you virgin ? me : nope mrx : where are you from ? me: India mrx: what ???,you are from India and you are not a virgin ? it's a shame to India me : shut up (blinking) :O :O :O :- :- now what ? I haven't committed a biggest sin stop being such an...
    insatiable02 insatiable02 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 12

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    Was listening to lewis black.

    To laugh at society not caring. Him said bible came from jews Trying to stop animals wed. But now we are led by worse. The wealthy are less humane than animals. And let religious bash others. Because wealthy profit from it. Via pills and prisons and hospitals...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Aug 3

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    I dont mind those rules cuz its fun to break

    them :) But sure noone needs more than 1 rule which is: anything goes... as long as its fun for both!
    sexxie99aussie sexxie99aussie 18-21, F 29 Responses