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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

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    blah blah blah mrx :are you virgin ? me : nope mrx : where are you from ? me: India mrx: what ???,you are from India and you are not a virgin ? it's a shame to India me : shut up (blinking) :O :O :O :- :- now what ? I haven't committed a biggest sin stop being such an...
    insatiable02 insatiable02 18-21, F 21 Responses Apr 12, 2015

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    I agree I think people are people we all enjoy

    different things at different times in our lives. We don't need rules to define that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 23 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I am counting the hours

    and minutes to Friday night. Sean, the only man who has ever made me smile all the time is coming back to the city for the weekend and my GF lover who is my trainer at the gym are all joining me for a weekend of play. She is very dom and I am looking forward to what she will...
    Marcette88 Marcette88 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 24, 2015

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    Our society in general,

    especially the older generations, are too hypocritical. What is publicly condemned as 'sinful' or 'immoral' is what 99% of them are secretly enjoying, but of course, the public image requires them to be pure as water. I think it's evident how wrong it is to suppress the kids...
    SnowWhiteBea SnowWhiteBea 31-35, F 23 Responses Oct 28, 2015

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    Ok....how many dates

    until you have sex? Tell me your number and your reason why!
    Indigololly Indigololly 31-35, F 45 Responses Jan 3

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    Why do we let ourselves live by other peoples

    ideals on how we should live our sexual lives..?
    amypure amypure 31-35, F 22 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    Two people meet and all of a sudden societal

    Rules dictates what happens. They have to be certain age, certain sex, race. If we just saw people as people with sexual needs that we could satisfy we'd all be so much happier.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    Don't even get me started.

    My loathing of sexual rules put on humanity by humanity (and that's the only ones who do it, higher power my ***, more on that in a minute) sickens me. I have gone on and on about it, always met with resistance in most cases.The main reason it's met with resistance is because...
    SoulofLove SoulofLove 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 26, 2015

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    Watching the new BBC adaptation of War

    and Peace, it made me appreciate how dishonest modern society is about sexuality. Sex is a fundamental aspect of sex, but the reverse is not necessarily true.
    coffeeguy80 coffeeguy80 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    TheQuirkyOne TheQuirkyOne 18-21, F 30 Responses Jan 6

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    I hate it how my desires

    as a human being are judged. Who are you to tell me what I prefer because of a social standard?
    littleMissLiz21 littleMissLiz21 18-21, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    yousentmeflying yousentmeflying 22-25, F 13 Responses Jan 3

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    We really do, and it SUCKS.

    It's something natural and beautiful and a great way to connect with people. These double standards and stereotypes bother me, your sexuality is important it's a way to explore and know more about yourself, if you save yourself up until marriage and you find out sex isn't what...
    tanyavalensi tanyavalensi 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    The most interesting sexual activity I'm

    familiar with is the "decanter." This is best done at a dinner party. A man is taken out of sight of the guests, catheterized, his bladder thoroughly cleansed, then filled with wine. No need for '47 Cheval Blanc or anything fancy; a bottle of Two Buck Chuck from Trader Joe's...
    HazelMotes HazelMotes 51-55, M 7 Responses Jan 26

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    Damn it. So I'm newly married.

    My husband doesn't have the sex drive I do & he's extremely passive to say the least. So I talked to him tonight because sex, when it does happen, feels like a routine. It's boring to be completely honest. So I bring up spicing things up (not sure where to start w him - he has...
    whatalifetolive whatalifetolive 36-40, F 58 Responses Jan 26

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    People judge others too much

    because they like different things! People need to realise there is nothing wrong with being adventuring and trying taboo's! Personally, I have no limits and am open for anything! Others think im f***ed up because i like animals and water sports! Seriously, its 21st century...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jun 16, 2015

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    No rule no hold backs.

    .. That is me, however I don't get what I need. I AM NOT ASKING FOR CHATS! Just expressing. I am married my husband is reserved, I ask, I communicate I give directions.... Sweet Jesus man!
    deleted deleted 26-30 41 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I have no idea why it needs

    so many rules and morals and bullshit. Theres only one rule that really counts: dont hurt anyone! No violence, no force – just have fun, as much as possible. Thats how i was raised and thats how i live. And believe me its fun!
    poiuztrkjhgf poiuztrkjhgf 18-21, F 31 Responses Dec 2, 2015

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    I'm tired of people having to say "It's not

    like he/she 'chose' to be gay," as an argument to justify why someone likes someone else of the same gender. Why should it fuckking matter?! So she likes a woman. He likes a man. She likes a man dressed as a woman and the possibilities go on.. Whether it is a choice or something...
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 20 Responses Sep 8, 2015

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    Does anyone else find it strange

    that when a man is spotted in an adult store he is often (not always) labeled a sick perv. But when a woman is shopping in an adult store it is often (not always) hot or sexy... But it is said that men think of sex more than women so shouldn't it be acceptable to find a man...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    So what I like to date younger men.

    I enjoy their excitement it keeps me young.
    Ediblediane Ediblediane 36-40, F 17 Responses 4 days ago

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    Men get so defensive with their sexuality,

    as do women. Sometimes it's so ridiculous though. If two guys hug each other it's followed soon after by a "no homo". With girls we can say going to hang out with my girlfriends and it's not a big deal but most women shy away when they feel threatened (sexually) by someone who...
    lunaisfree lunaisfree 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 10, 2015

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    There's nothing wrong with being a woman

    who enjoys being thoroughly enjoyed, there's nothing wrong with loving c*ocks, and dirty stories and enjoying our basic impulses.
    MmmLoveMeHarderBaby MmmLoveMeHarderBaby 26-30, F 25 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Why do you have to wait

    until 18 to have sex? It's weird. If you are ready then don't torture your body and let it have some pleasure. Everybody deserves it.
    natalypetrvicki natalypetrvicki 18-21, F 23 Responses 4 days ago

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    DESIREDATINGAGENCY101 DESIREDATINGAGENCY101 51-55, M Jan 25

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    I definitely think there needs to be a female

    equivalent of Viagra. It would probably save a lot of marriages.
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 34 Responses Jul 11, 2015

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    This is about the women's right to terminate

    their pregnancy safely. Plz don't click if you find the topic offensive/ irrelevant to the group. There are a malicious people in every era. There are people who start war, sacrifice innocents for their personal agendas, steal from the poor, destroy the environment, kill...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    What's the big deal about sex.

    Two people share an intimate part of their life together. If it's consensual, let it happen. Even married people want to explore after years with the same partner. If the two connect, let them explore. It doesn't mean the marriage is bad. It doesn't have to end. It's JUST sex.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 6

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    Why rules, It destroys all the fun,

    or was it breaking the rules that was fun. I don't care, sex is supposed to be fun, healthy and very nice
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    You know I'm f*cking pissed

    so I'm an escort so everyone automatically assumes I have s*x with all the guys I go on dates with I went on about 30 dates and I only slept with 5 of the guys most of the guys just want a hot young girl to talk to about there problems or show me off to there friends so no I'm...
    heyitsmaddie heyitsmaddie 18-21, F 39 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok I'm bi. The thing I hate most about being bi

    is those ******* stereotypes people assume about me. Because I'm bi I must be a hoe. Because I'm bi I must be attracted to everyone. Yeah right so guys and girls y'all beware if I'm being nice to you cuz I'm sooo totally into fking your brains out. I means WTF??? Like seriously...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 27, 2015

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    Well the group title speaks

    for its self as some ignorant people believe that guys cant be bi but are actually gay lol no logic at all :) you should be able to do who/what you want without attaching a label to your sexuality
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 7

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    At my 40yr mark this year I rediscovered my

    sexuality. The only difference from my 20's? I finally had an idea of what I liked.... soft bondage & domination. Exceptionally hard, in a small LDS town, to find a compatible partner w similar likes/dislikes. It's very taboo here. *Side note, I liked it PRIOR to 50 Shades of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jun 24, 2015

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    mengak mengak 26-30, M Feb 3

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    I think people need to respect each other in

    order to have a healthy sexual relationship, but I don't believe love is always a factor. I often have sexual partners who agree with my view that sex can be something people do purely for the fun and enjoyment that go along with it without having to fall in love. Sometimes sex...
    AthiestLovesYou AthiestLovesYou 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I notice a lot on this site that

    if a women talks about s*x or is open about her s*x life that she's automatically labeled a man or a s*ut like damn a women can't like sex or talk about it..
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 17

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    Sitting here watching 50 shades of gray

    thinking of the amazingly attractive guy I started talking to bout a month ago.. He is my Mr Gray... His eyes his smile his personality his sexual needs n wants are him to a T!! If only me n him could have a red play room!
    chevyangel chevyangel 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2015

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    Let's be naughty!I want to be naughty with you.

    Are you naughty?I love being naughty...I'm a naughty person!I'm so naughty!I get a little naughty sometimes...We've all thought, heard, or have used those lines or something similar before to describe our interest in flirtation or sex. And I've been giving some thought to this...
    GoneGirl78 GoneGirl78 36-40, F 26 Responses Oct 31, 2015

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    If parents would teach their kids about sex,

    they wouldn't be going out to strangers looking to be taught and trying to find love. Again, society puts rules on us and we fail our children.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    If a guy has sex with a lot of girls all the

    time he's a stud.. But if a girl has a sex with a lot of guys all the time she's a S_L-U_T...? Why?
    jessijessi1234 jessijessi1234 18-21, F 50 Responses Jan 6

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    Just relax, do what you want to do.

    ..stop putting others down for something you might not understand or don't agree with. Stop applying your own personal rules and opinions on to everyone else. Live your own life and let everyone else live theirs.
    TheGreatKate TheGreatKate 22-25, F 26 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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    I dont mind those rules cuz its fun to break

    them :) But sure noone needs more than 1 rule which is: anything goes... as long as its fun for both!
    sexxie99aussie sexxie99aussie 18-21, F 28 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    I'm constantly hearing crap from friends

    and family for my sexual preferences. I'm guessing the old saying "you don't know if you like it til you try it" was never popular around here. No one even seems remotely interested in educating themselves in something new.
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses May 6, 2015

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    I think everyone should have born

    as a bisexual or choose to be bisexual. In this way you ensure gender equality too.
    Maaren Maaren 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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