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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

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    There's nothing wrong with being a woman

    who enjoys being thoroughly enjoyed, there's nothing wrong with loving c*ocks, and dirty stories and enjoying our basic impulses.
    MmmLoveMeHarderBaby MmmLoveMeHarderBaby 26-30, F 26 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm constantly hearing crap from friends

    and family for my sexual preferences. I'm guessing the old saying "you don't know if you like it til you try it" was never popular around here. No one even seems remotely interested in educating themselves in something new.
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses May 6, 2015

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    I think everyone should have born

    as a bisexual or choose to be bisexual. In this way you ensure gender equality too.
    Maaren Maaren 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    So what I like to date younger men.

    I enjoy their excitement it keeps me young.
    Ediblediane Ediblediane 36-40, F 17 Responses 5 days ago

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    Can u add a friends with benefit on Facebook

    or is that clingy? We're in college, and I'm super new at this. We only had sex one time, and I've already added him on snapchat plus I have his number. Honestly we didn't define the relationship yet, but I'm sure it's safe to say we're friends with benefits because he wanted to...
    BasicGirlSally BasicGirlSally 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 3

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    debbieccaa debbieccaa 26-30, F Jan 13

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    Our society in general,

    especially the older generations, are too hypocritical. What is publicly condemned as 'sinful' or 'immoral' is what 99% of them are secretly enjoying, but of course, the public image requires them to be pure as water. I think it's evident how wrong it is to suppress the kids...
    SnowWhiteBea SnowWhiteBea 31-35, F 23 Responses Oct 28, 2015

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    Ok....how many dates

    until you have sex? Tell me your number and your reason why!
    Indigololly Indigololly 31-35, F 45 Responses Jan 3

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    mengak mengak 26-30, M Feb 3

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    I'm tired of people having to say "It's not

    like he/she 'chose' to be gay," as an argument to justify why someone likes someone else of the same gender. Why should it fuckking matter?! So she likes a woman. He likes a man. She likes a man dressed as a woman and the possibilities go on.. Whether it is a choice or something...
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 20 Responses Sep 8, 2015

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    If a guy has sex with a lot of girls all the

    time he's a stud.. But if a girl has a sex with a lot of guys all the time she's a S_L-U_T...? Why?
    jessijessi1234 jessijessi1234 18-21, F 50 Responses Jan 6

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    Why rules, It destroys all the fun,

    or was it breaking the rules that was fun. I don't care, sex is supposed to be fun, healthy and very nice
    niceskip niceskip 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    The most interesting sexual activity I'm

    familiar with is the "decanter." This is best done at a dinner party. A man is taken out of sight of the guests, catheterized, his bladder thoroughly cleansed, then filled with wine. No need for '47 Cheval Blanc or anything fancy; a bottle of Two Buck Chuck from Trader Joe's...
    HazelMotes HazelMotes 51-55, M 7 Responses Jan 26

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    I have no idea why it needs

    so many rules and morals and bullshit. Theres only one rule that really counts: dont hurt anyone! No violence, no force – just have fun, as much as possible. Thats how i was raised and thats how i live. And believe me its fun!
    poiuztrkjhgf poiuztrkjhgf 18-21, F 31 Responses Dec 2, 2015

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    Female Sexuality

    I believe that we create too many rules around sexuality. Sexuality is something to be enjoyed and explored, but for many of us it is killed before we even get a proper chance to understand it. Especially in the case of female sexuality. Sex sells, we all know it. So woman has...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 22 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Ok I'm bi. The thing I hate most about being bi

    is those ******* stereotypes people assume about me. Because I'm bi I must be a hoe. Because I'm bi I must be attracted to everyone. Yeah right so guys and girls y'all beware if I'm being nice to you cuz I'm sooo totally into fking your brains out. I means WTF??? Like seriously...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 27, 2015

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    What's the big deal about sex.

    Two people share an intimate part of their life together. If it's consensual, let it happen. Even married people want to explore after years with the same partner. If the two connect, let them explore. It doesn't mean the marriage is bad. It doesn't have to end. It's JUST sex.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I dont mind those rules cuz its fun to break

    them :) But sure noone needs more than 1 rule which is: anything goes... as long as its fun for both!
    sexxie99aussie sexxie99aussie 18-21, F 28 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    Damn it. So I'm newly married.

    My husband doesn't have the sex drive I do & he's extremely passive to say the least. So I talked to him tonight because sex, when it does happen, feels like a routine. It's boring to be completely honest. So I bring up spicing things up (not sure where to start w him - he has...
    whatalifetolive whatalifetolive 36-40, F 58 Responses Jan 26

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    I agree I think people are people we all enjoy

    different things at different times in our lives. We don't need rules to define that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 23 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    blah blah blah mrx :are you virgin ? me : nope mrx : where are you from ? me: India mrx: what ???,you are from India and you are not a virgin ? it's a shame to India me : shut up (blinking) :O :O :O :- :- now what ? I haven't committed a biggest sin stop being such an...
    insatiable02 insatiable02 18-21, F 21 Responses Apr 12, 2015

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    I am counting the hours

    and minutes to Friday night. Sean, the only man who has ever made me smile all the time is coming back to the city for the weekend and my GF lover who is my trainer at the gym are all joining me for a weekend of play. She is very dom and I am looking forward to what she will...
    Marcette88 Marcette88 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 24, 2015

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    I notice a lot on this site that

    if a women talks about s*x or is open about her s*x life that she's automatically labeled a man or a s*ut like damn a women can't like sex or talk about it..
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 24 Responses Jan 17

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    Men get so defensive with their sexuality,

    as do women. Sometimes it's so ridiculous though. If two guys hug each other it's followed soon after by a "no homo". With girls we can say going to hang out with my girlfriends and it's not a big deal but most women shy away when they feel threatened (sexually) by someone who...
    lunaisfree lunaisfree 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 10, 2015

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    They say people who have multiple sex partners

    before getting tied down are more likely to be dissatisfied with their marriage. I'd like to take this with a grain of salt. After reading this article did I want to make a run for another four year commitment to celibacy? Of course, there's nothing more I want than to be...
    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL 26-30, F 23 Responses Oct 3, 2015

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    At my 40yr mark this year I rediscovered my

    sexuality. The only difference from my 20's? I finally had an idea of what I liked.... soft bondage & domination. Exceptionally hard, in a small LDS town, to find a compatible partner w similar likes/dislikes. It's very taboo here. *Side note, I liked it PRIOR to 50 Shades of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jun 24, 2015

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    armyman1001 armyman1001 36-40, M Jan 6

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    Why do we let ourselves live by other peoples

    ideals on how we should live our sexual lives..?
    amypure amypure 31-35, F 22 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    DDLG/BDSM/sexuality shaming So,

    for the past year or so, I've had a private instagram account (well, I say private, but it wasn't private. I just had no one I knew following me) and I uploaded anything and everything that represented a part of me. (bdsm photos, ddlg quotes, petplay collars and leashes and...
    harleyquinn16 harleyquinn16 22-25, F 26 Responses Dec 4, 2015

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    DESIREDATINGAGENCY101 DESIREDATINGAGENCY101 51-55, M Jan 25

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    Let's be naughty!I want to be naughty with you.

    Are you naughty?I love being naughty...I'm a naughty person!I'm so naughty!I get a little naughty sometimes...We've all thought, heard, or have used those lines or something similar before to describe our interest in flirtation or sex. And I've been giving some thought to this...
    GoneGirl78 GoneGirl78 36-40, F 26 Responses Oct 31, 2015

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    You know I'm f*cking pissed

    so I'm an escort so everyone automatically assumes I have s*x with all the guys I go on dates with I went on about 30 dates and I only slept with 5 of the guys most of the guys just want a hot young girl to talk to about there problems or show me off to there friends so no I'm...
    heyitsmaddie heyitsmaddie 18-21, F 39 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate it how my desires

    as a human being are judged. Who are you to tell me what I prefer because of a social standard?
    littleMissLiz21 littleMissLiz21 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 4

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    Watching the new BBC adaptation of War

    and Peace, it made me appreciate how dishonest modern society is about sexuality. Sex is a fundamental aspect of sex, but the reverse is not necessarily true.
    coffeeguy80 coffeeguy80 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    I am not good with rules.

    My sexuality belongs to me and I do as I please. Why should it be wrong to be with any person you want? If you want to give of yourself no one should have anything to say about it.
    JoyMason JoyMason 36-40, F 36 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    I think people need to respect each other in

    order to have a healthy sexual relationship, but I don't believe love is always a factor. I often have sexual partners who agree with my view that sex can be something people do purely for the fun and enjoyment that go along with it without having to fall in love. Sometimes sex...
    AthiestLovesYou AthiestLovesYou 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 17

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    People judge others too much

    because they like different things! People need to realise there is nothing wrong with being adventuring and trying taboo's! Personally, I have no limits and am open for anything! Others think im f***ed up because i like animals and water sports! Seriously, its 21st century...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jun 16, 2015

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    If parents would teach their kids about sex,

    they wouldn't be going out to strangers looking to be taught and trying to find love. Again, society puts rules on us and we fail our children.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    We really do, and it SUCKS.

    It's something natural and beautiful and a great way to connect with people. These double standards and stereotypes bother me, your sexuality is important it's a way to explore and know more about yourself, if you save yourself up until marriage and you find out sex isn't what...
    tanyavalensi tanyavalensi 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    yousentmeflying yousentmeflying 22-25, F 13 Responses Jan 3

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    Just relax, do what you want to do.

    ..stop putting others down for something you might not understand or don't agree with. Stop applying your own personal rules and opinions on to everyone else. Live your own life and let everyone else live theirs.
    TheGreatKate TheGreatKate 22-25, F 26 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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    purplebatgirl purplebatgirl 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 11, 2015

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    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    Why do you have to wait

    until 18 to have sex? It's weird. If you are ready then don't torture your body and let it have some pleasure. Everybody deserves it.
    natalypetrvicki natalypetrvicki 18-21, F 23 Responses 5 days ago

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