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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

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    Does anyone else find it strange

    that when a man is spotted in an adult store he is often (not always) labeled a sick perv. But when a woman is shopping in an adult store it is often (not always) hot or sexy... But it is said that men think of sex more than women so shouldn't it be acceptable to find a man...
    SexyandUknowit SexyandUknowit 26-30, F 18 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    Do men & women get less/ more/ exactly same

    pleasure through mas_turbating, blow_jobs/licking, hand_jobs/finger_ing, imagination etc as compared to real intercourse, intercourse using toys ?
    pleasureseeker2015 pleasureseeker2015 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Keeping It Classy

    I think there are too many rules about how women should act, think, feel, look, in regards to their sexuality. I think women start to believe that they should constantly worry about the impression and the image they give others....don't want to be too easy, don't want to look...
    ItsJustMe888 ItsJustMe888 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    Traditionally, it's said

    that men are more visually stimulated and women are more emotionally stimulated. i've found that women are very reluctant to admit to being turned on visually. I think that's a shame.I am extremely visually stimulated woman. I love watching **** and seeing nakedness on any...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    People judge others too much

    because they like different things! People need to realise there is nothing wrong with being adventuring and trying taboo's! Personally, I have no limits and am open for anything! Others think im f***ed up because i like animals and water sports! Seriously, its 21st century...
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jun 16

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    I want to sleep with men again.

    I have not had sex in 6 years. I wanted to be celibate and cleanse myself of my previous partners that mistreated me (black males). I am not attracted (not even sexually) to black males. I had the best sexual experiences with white men mostly. I prefer white men. I am not...
    BrownBeeCa BrownBeeCa 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I definitely think there needs to be a female

    equivalent of Viagra. It would probably save a lot of marriages.
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 38 Responses Jul 11

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    As long as proper consent is in place,

    I think there should be no rules about sex and sexuality. By creating all these rules we exclude and isolate those who have different preferences sexually.
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I would say I am bi, I did experiment with men

    but I still prefer women. I have a GF and she knows all about my past and she is really comfortable with that. I love wearing good looking boxer briefs and being attractive for both women and men. That is me, yeah.
    GorgeousZebra GorgeousZebra 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I think it's unrealistic to get married

    and then expect that one person to meet all your needs, for decades and decades. I think we need to reconsider monogamy. I would be willing to share a man with his legal wife. If she wants the ring and the piece of paper, fine. They probably also have a mortgage and kids and...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 24 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    I agree I think people are people we all enjoy

    different things at different times in our lives. We don't need rules to define that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Sex isn't a video game,

    you don't get experience points just for having completed the task..... Beating the boss doesn't level you up. Just because you've been playing for 10 years doesn't mean you have mad skill. You have to grind for it (gamers know what I mean).
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 10

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    I think 'Rules' in this matter are no wrong.

    Being in limits is always healthy.
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    I'm constantly hearing crap from friends

    and family for my sexual preferences. I'm guessing the old saying "you don't know if you like it til you try it" was never popular around here. No one even seems remotely interested in educating themselves in something new.
    deleted deleted 26-30 30 Responses May 6

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    We should adhere to God's laws,

    but man's laws are nothing but garbage if they're not from God's laws. I think even less of traditions and social expectations.
    anon8369 anon8369 31-35, M 17 Responses 5 days ago

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    As a woman who is a submissive

    for her master, I completely agree with this. People hear about our relationship and are disgusted. Despite the fact I love doing this and we love each other and are consenting. How sexual we get shouldn't matter
    JessTheSub JessTheSub 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    i have no idea why it needs

    so many rules and morals and bullshit. theres only one rule that really counts: dont hurt anyone! no violence, no force – just have fun, as much as possible. thats how i was raised and thats how i live.
    milena2000 milena2000 13-15, F 14 Responses Jun 16

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    Is there really a list of rules

    or guidelines about your own sexuality? If there is, you are just confining yourselves. Religion as a guidebook you say? I recall religion teaching every kid 'to love everyone and everything' as the ultimate lesson to mankind. So why does sexuality have to do against religion...
    Ryel004F Ryel004F 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 3

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    Was listening to lewis black.

    To laugh at society not caring. Him said bible came from jews Trying to stop animals wed. But now we are led by worse. The wealthy are less humane than animals. And let religious bash others. Because wealthy profit from it. Via pills and prisons and hospitals...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Aug 3

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    I am often horny, but i like to keep my sexual

    intercourse with people i have feelings for, some advice on how to control it when am mot in a single? recently got out of a long periode relationship.
    Annazfu Annazfu 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 25

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    I used a vibrator to get off

    for most of my relationship with my boyfriend of five years. It was always harder and took longer for me to get off, so it felt easier. I feel like in some ways it's cheating? I feel like it made my man feel inadequate in some ways that I had to use a vibrator... Ladies, is this...
    Honeybear18 Honeybear18 31-35, F 29 Responses Aug 17

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    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses May 28

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    purplebatgirl purplebatgirl 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 11

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    The Chronicles Of Dave: The Introduction These

    are the Chronicles Of Dave. A series of stories of Dave and his sexual life spanning decades. Some of the stories you’ll read are based on real life experiences and some will be based on pure fantasy. It is up to you the reader to decide which is real life and which isn’t...
    imalright71 imalright71 41-45, M 3 days ago

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    Sexuality is one of the most wonderful parts of

    being human. Why would anyone try to stifle it? Why would anyone twist something inherently beautiful into something dirty? It is not wrong or amoral to enjoy sex – to revel in lust and passion and desire. Wanting and being wanted are gifts. Acceptance, opening your body...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    FrankGrayFox FrankGrayFox 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    Female Sexuality

    I believe that we create too many rules around sexuality. Sexuality is something to be enjoyed and explored, but for many of us it is killed before we even get a proper chance to understand it. Especially in the case of female sexuality. Sex sells, we all know it. So woman has...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 19 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I hate the way that I am made to feel like I'm

    trouble just because I like to stay single and sleep with who ever I like... get stuffed people!
    LolaGracesSecret LolaGracesSecret 31-35, F 13 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I dont mind those rules cuz its fun to break

    them :) But sure noone needs more than 1 rule which is: anything goes... as long as its fun for both!
    sexxie99aussie sexxie99aussie 18-21, F 29 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    Its supposed to be about pleasure,

    why cant we just enjoy? I do agree that underage limits need to be set. I've got a pretty big thing against child abuse of any kind.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Imho; consenting adults can do whatever they

    want as long as they don't hurt someone else (without that person's permission).
    greenroots greenroots 36-40, M Jul 27

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    So many girls act disgusted

    when guys bring up sex. Yea some guys probably talk about it at the "wrong time", but they're just saying what everyone else is thinking. It's not perverted. We're animals. Our bodies are designed to reproduce. Stop acting like that's not the truth. The reason we're here is...
    tallmale1011 tallmale1011 22-25, M 15 Responses Aug 26

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    A long time ago when my girlfriend wanted us to

    have a relationship and not see other people, I told her that I wanted a partnership based on 'unconditional' love where we both keep our personal freedom and there is nothing that either of us can't do and nothing that either of us has to do. I told her that she couldn't cheat...
    whitebirch999 whitebirch999 66-70, M 3 Responses Aug 8

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    Can't do this and can't do that

    and your weird if you like this well hey guess what everyone's different
    BrooklynTheHarlot BrooklynTheHarlot 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Story of my life! Like

    why do we have to label and categorize everything about ourselves? Just to fit into tiny little boxes that society hands out to us as out normal shield? No thank you. I am going to love whomever I choose for the reasons I see fit and no one can tell me otherwise.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    Wondering the best way to pull a shy guy into

    his sexual self...... He said he's willing to try anything out of curiosity & I like flavor. Brought him out a little but keep in mind it only took 6wks to free him from sitting on the edge of my couch folded into himself barely making eye contact. Anyone remember being intro'd...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 27

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    At my 40yr mark this year I rediscovered my

    sexuality. The only difference from my 20's? I finally had an idea of what I liked.... soft bondage & domination. Exceptionally hard, in a small LDS town, to find a compatible partner w similar likes/dislikes. It's very taboo here. *Side note, I liked it PRIOR to 50 Shades of...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 16 Responses Jun 24

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    No rule no hold backs.

    .. That is me, however I don't get what I need. I AM NOT ASKING FOR CHATS! Just expressing. I am married my husband is reserved, I ask, I communicate I give directions.... Sweet Jesus man!
    deleted deleted 26-30 43 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I think a marriage license should be like a

    driver's license - renewable every 5 years. Till death do us part sounds like a prison sentence!
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 51-55, F 31 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    IamnotCharlieSheen IamnotCharlieSheen 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Abolish gender. Not everyone is BOUND to get

    married. Not every marriage means having sex with the same person for the rest of your life. Talk about sex, consent. We are more than our bodies. Genitals are just another organ. Look at your naked self in the mirror and remember- no matter what you think, you are just like...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 10

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    I have been thinking about the

    rather "hushed" area of society- **********. Our society has come a long way - people have started acknowledging the fact that one may not always have a choice in gender/sexual preferences. We don't really know what determine our sexual orientation but most of us are fortunate...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 19 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm so tired of people asking me

    if I'm straight, lesbian, or bi. I absolutely hate labels. I'm not attracted to women, generally, but if I ever felt something for a woman, I wouldn't automatically say I was a lesbian or even bi. I would just acknowledge the fact that I had fallen for a woman. Even though, so...
    TeraLocura TeraLocura 22-25, F 14 Responses Aug 8

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    No force. No kids. No pets.

    There. All the needed rules.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 4 Responses