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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

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    Wondering the best way to pull a shy guy into

    his sexual self...... He said he's willing to try anything out of curiosity & I like flavor. Brought him out a little but keep in mind it only took 6wks to free him from sitting on the edge of my couch folded into himself barely making eye contact. Anyone remember being intro'd...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 13 Responses 3 days ago

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    To me it is all about fun,

    and enjoying it. I try to keep an open mind, even if I dont always understand different fetisches. But who am I to say what is right and wrong? :p
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 13 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    As a woman who is a submissive

    for her master, I completely agree with this. People hear about our relationship and are disgusted. Despite the fact I love doing this and we love each other and are consenting. How sexual we get shouldn't matter
    JessTheSub JessTheSub 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Morals, Values and Sexuality.

    ............ Sexuality is viewed much differently now than it was when I was raised and I'm interested in getting some feedback from people in various age groups as to how they view this situation. Most people, at some point in time, use their sexuality for personal gain or...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 14 Responses Jul 12

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    I dont mind those rules cuz its fun to break

    them :) But sure noone needs more than 1 rule which is: anything goes... as long as its fun for both!
    sexxie99aussie sexxie99aussie 18-21, F 29 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    I'm not a heterosexual,

    homosexual, bisexual, asexual, pansexual, nor any other sexuals for that matter. I am Janelle. I love and **** whoever I want. I am just Janelle.
    IamJanelle IamJanelle 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    mrx : hey me: hi Mrx: blah blah blah me:

    blah blah blah mrx :are you virgin ? me : nope mrx : where are you from ? me: India mrx: what ???,you are from India and you are not a virgin ? it's a shame to India me : shut up (blinking) :O :O :O :- :- now what ? I haven't committed a biggest sin stop being such an...
    insatiable02 insatiable02 18-21, F 19 Responses Apr 12

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    People judge others too much

    because they like different things! People need to realise there is nothing wrong with being adventuring and trying taboo's! Personally, I have no limits and am open for anything! Others think im f***ed up because i like animals and water sports! Seriously, its 21st century...
    deleted deleted 26-30 24 Responses Jun 16

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    Even the human body is considered wrong

    and sinful, how can you say that natural selection has created something explicit. We don't see other animals as sinful because they don't where clothes.
    Killerlemon Killerlemon 22-25, M 8 Responses Jun 25

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    We should be able to have sex with animals!

    Wait... Can we? Because I already do it with my dog!
    BIaziken BIaziken 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I'm constantly hearing crap from friends

    and family for my sexual preferences. I'm guessing the old saying "you don't know if you like it til you try it" was never popular around here. No one even seems remotely interested in educating themselves in something new.
    deleted deleted 26-30 30 Responses May 6

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    At my 40yr mark this year I rediscovered my

    sexuality. The only difference from my 20's? I finally had an idea of what I liked.... soft bondage & domination. Exceptionally hard, in a small LDS town, to find a compatible partner w similar likes/dislikes. It's very taboo here. *Side note, I liked it PRIOR to 50 Shades of...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 22 Responses Jun 24

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    GETTING MY MIND F*** ON!

    TY FRANK! God I've missed you! God you're good! Feeling… exhilarated, excited and OH MY GOD!
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    OK, not my rules… So those you

    who read my posts (or maybe chat via message) know my ups and downs with my sex life with my wife. This past weekend had the makings of a great opportunity and it started well before crashing down. We have 4 kids and the two oldest and youngest were out of town for the weekend...
    alteregoeleven alteregoeleven 46-50, M 5 Responses Jun 29

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    the media, television,

    magazines, internet will show all the forms of sex you want, but don't let someone pronounce the word p e n i s or v a g i n a out loud or they'll get chastised...
    sexyogalover sexyogalover 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 19

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    anneloves anneloves 22-25, F 11 Responses May 28

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    Tend to agree. Suspect monogomy may be more of

    a cultural constraint imposed by society. Even the Old Testament saints were freer in their sexual expression than what is considered a default value today.
    Wm4eroticfunwf Wm4eroticfunwf 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Female Sexuality

    I believe that we create too many rules around sexuality. Sexuality is something to be enjoyed and explored, but for many of us it is killed before we even get a proper chance to understand it. Especially in the case of female sexuality. Sex sells, we all know it. So woman has...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 16 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Keeping It Classy

    I think there are too many rules about how women should act, think, feel, look, in regards to their sexuality. I think women start to believe that they should constantly worry about the impression and the image they give others....don't want to be too easy, don't want to look...
    ItsJustMe888 ItsJustMe888 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    Do you believe in God?

    The devil? In destiny or in fate? Do you believe, that naughty girls are made to take you as close to heaven as you can possibly get? Do you dream of resisting pleasures of the flesh? Or do you fantasize of giving in and letting your skin burn from my touch? When we met was that...
    loveCT loveCT 31-35, F 15 Responses Jun 30

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    alejandraberlin alejandraberlin 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I agree I think people are people we all enjoy

    different things at different times in our lives. We don't need rules to define that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    One extreme pet peeve of mine is

    when people automatically associate the female body with sexuality and sin. It's really harmful for everyone involved, especially young girls who are taught that their bodies are inherently sinful and dirty as soon as they begin to show any signs of puberty :/
    ForestNymphet ForestNymphet 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    for a girl) skype - mengak
    mengak mengak 26-30, M Jul 12

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    is it wrong that I like sex?

    because society says it is wrong, even though everyone has sex because it is a wonderful and beautiful thing, we still get condemned for it, how stupid
    Dman989 Dman989 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I hate the way that I am made to feel like I'm

    trouble just because I like to stay single and sleep with who ever I like... get stuffed people!
    LolaGracesSecret LolaGracesSecret 31-35, F 15 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    As long as proper consent is in place,

    I think there should be no rules about sex and sexuality. By creating all these rules we exclude and isolate those who have different preferences sexually.
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    Sexuality is one of the most wonderful parts of

    being human. Why would anyone try to stifle it? Why would anyone twist something inherently beautiful into something dirty? It is not wrong or amoral to enjoy sex – to revel in lust and passion and desire. Wanting and being wanted are gifts. Acceptance, opening your body...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    Yes too many rules around sexuality.

    . As well as socially... So if we have to make a new world what all rules we can discard from the world ?
    Ravidesai Ravidesai 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I have gotten the impression

    that North America has a very negative attitude towards sexuality. I was surprised by the lack of sex education in schools (I grew up in Europe) and also how this creates immature attitudes towards sex. Pleasure is a beautiful thing, regardless of what type of pleasure is sought...
    lilysworld lilysworld 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 15

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    Traditionally, it's said

    that men are more visually stimulated and women are more emotionally stimulated. i've found that women are very reluctant to admit to being turned on visually. I think that's a shame.I am extremely visually stimulated woman. I love watching **** and seeing nakedness on any...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    Story of my life! Like

    why do we have to label and categorize everything about ourselves? Just to fit into tiny little boxes that society hands out to us as out normal shield? No thank you. I am going to love whomever I choose for the reasons I see fit and no one can tell me otherwise.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I think it's unrealistic to get married

    and then expect that one person to meet all your needs, for decades and decades. I think we need to reconsider monogamy. I would be willing to share a man with his legal wife. If she wants the ring and the piece of paper, fine. They probably also have a mortgage and kids and...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 24 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    ninjacypher ninjacypher 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    No rule no hold backs.

    .. That is me, however I don't get what I need. I AM NOT ASKING FOR CHATS! Just expressing. I am married my husband is reserved, I ask, I communicate I give directions.... Sweet Jesus man!
    deleted deleted 26-30 43 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    So I apologize for my last post,

    I read it back after it posted and realized all the grammatical errors I created. Damn EP doesn't allow editing. I didn't sound very intelligent..... Just because I explore sexually doesn't mean I'm horny and want to see your ****. You're going to have to start off w a better...
    jules021775 jules021775 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 21

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    Why do there have to be

    so many restrictions on sex? As long as they're consenting adults we should just be able to have fun and enjoy sex.
    blueriver082 blueriver082 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 14

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    As I've gotten a little older I'm really

    starting to appreciate that everyone needs an outlet, and often it's sexual. Everyone deserves a good **** every now and then, no matter what they look like. And every time each of us gets this gratification, we're helping someone else do the same at the same time. I think that...
    davidparker9 davidparker9 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    deepakenjoying deepakenjoying 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Can't do this and can't do that

    and your weird if you like this well hey guess what everyone's different
    BrooklynTheHarlot BrooklynTheHarlot 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I support core rules like decency

    and care for one another, but beyond that, I'll keep my personal rules and you can keep yours. I won't try to put a fence around you and you don't try to put a fence around me. I'm not objectively hurt by the choices you make sexually, nor are you likely to be objectively hurt...
    DaveCthulhu DaveCthulhu 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    purplebatgirl purplebatgirl 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 11

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    People who engage in polygamy,

    people who enjoy being spanked while restrained, people who enjoy feet, people who enjoy being in body suits, people who enjoy sex only in public, people who enjoy roleplaying, people who enjoy costumes, people who enjoy being dominated, people who enjoy "vanilla" sex, people...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 20, 2014

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    That is one reason why I love sex.

    I ignore the rules. I fantasize about many things that are considered taboo. I used to fantasize about having sex with male relatives. Giving a blow jog to a stranger on the subway is another one I like to fantasize about. But before you get too excited, I don't care to act out...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses May 22, 2014

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    the thing is after 9/11,

    everyone started becoming paranoid about everything, and as a result we've become the ultimate nanny state and have been feeding into relentlessly to the point where politicians have taken advantage of our emotional state to influence our focus away from what's more important...
    Gamegenie87 Gamegenie87 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I definitely think there needs to be a female

    equivalent of Viagra. It would probably save a lot of marriages.
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed 22-25, F 39 Responses Jul 11

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