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I Think We Create Too Many Rules Around Sexuality

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    Gender rules are stupid.

    If a guy wants to do ballet or likes boy bands, it's fine, and if a girl likes karate and scream music then it's fine too!
    laurabaillie16 laurabaillie16 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Everyone of all ages

    and colours should love each other! In my dream society there are no rules, no marriages and absolutely no clothes!
    libertinette libertinette 22-25, F 79 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    I feel that if both parties are happy with the

    arrangement and having their needs and wants met then it's all good. If no one outside of the unit is affected negatively then go, do, lick, slap, twiddle.... To your heart's content.
    Myjuju Myjuju 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    Sometimes I think that women are born with a

    ticking clock around their necks....reminding the world about what's the best time for them to get pregnant and how they must fulfill their destiny by reproducing at the ideal time. Please mind that the emphasis is not even on raising a child, but on biologically producing it...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F Mar 23

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    Female Sexuality

    I believe that we create too many rules around sexuality. Sexuality is something to be enjoyed and explored, but for many of us it is killed before we even get a proper chance to understand it. Especially in the case of female sexuality. Sex sells, we all know it. So woman has...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 14 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Can anyone suggest any good books

    and or suggestions on overcoming sexual repression? I feel very misguided, and overly uncomfortable. Thanks
    Aj03 Aj03 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 25

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    I think a marriage license should be like a

    driver's license - renewable every 5 years. Till death do us part sounds like a prison sentence!
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 51-55, F 32 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    I think in todays world,

    With its constant revolving and with it comes more change by the days as they go by. I think with that, people will change with it but some do not. Change is something I view as a big black hole, something that I can't truly see through or see where the 'end' to it is. I view...
    Traveller96 Traveller96 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Sexuality is one of the most wonderful parts of

    being human. Why would anyone try to stifle it? Why would anyone twist something inherently beautiful into something dirty? It is not wrong or amoral to enjoy sex – to revel in lust and passion and desire. Wanting and being wanted are gifts. Acceptance, opening your body...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    I'm not a heterosexual,

    homosexual, bisexual, asexual, pansexual, nor any other sexuals for that matter. I am Janelle. I love and **** whoever I want. I am just Janelle.
    IamJanelle IamJanelle 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    Indeed we create way too many rules around

    sexuality. As long as people stay safe that's the main thing and that it's equally pleasurable :)
    tangledweb94 tangledweb94 18-21, M Jan 28

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    Im getting the tramp stamp ives always wanted!

    Im should be doing it around Wednesday or Tuesday and will change my pic. It involves a girl giving oral.
    jiltedgirl jiltedgirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 19

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    I think it would have been

    so cool to have been a caveman.Life was short and life was hard. When you wanted to enjoy a woman, you just did it, when ever and how much you wanted too.No rules or any expectations, just good old fashion doing it,for the sake of, just doing it.
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    ...like what is considered "mature"

    or not when something could truly be very bonding...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I think animals are better off

    than us because sex for them is a simple physical act to reproduce and expand. But for us, it is complicated as hell. This makes me think whether our evolved intellectual brain is a boon or curse in disguise! We all know we are born from an act of sex, it has introduced us to...
    Erevos Erevos 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Traditionally, it's said

    that men are more visually stimulated and women are more emotionally stimulated. i've found that women are very reluctant to admit to being turned on visually. I think that's a shame.I am extremely visually stimulated woman. I love watching **** and seeing nakedness on any...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    I'm constantly hearing crap from friends

    and family for my sexual preferences. I'm guessing the old saying "you don't know if you like it til you try it" was never popular around here. No one even seems remotely interested in educating themselves in something new.
    MyCircus MyCircus 26-30, F 32 Responses May 6

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    Keeping It Classy

    I think there are too many rules about how women should act, think, feel, look, in regards to their sexuality. I think women start to believe that they should constantly worry about the impression and the image they give others....don't want to be too easy, don't want to look...
    ItsJustMe888 ItsJustMe888 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    Story of my life! Like

    why do we have to label and categorize everything about ourselves? Just to fit into tiny little boxes that society hands out to us as out normal shield? No thank you. I am going to love whomever I choose for the reasons I see fit and no one can tell me otherwise.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    I was raised in a nudist

    and sexuality positive home, meaning that while growing up I could ask my parents any questions I had without ever being ashamed of who I am. Growing up in that lifestyle, I feel no different than any other person I know.
    OscarMC OscarMC 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 6

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    That is one reason why I love sex.

    I ignore the rules. I fantasize about many things that are considered taboo. I used to fantasize about having sex with male relatives. Giving a blow jog to a stranger on the subway is another one I like to fantasize about. But before you get too excited, I don't care to act out...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses May 22, 2014

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    http://youtu.be/n32YYJW9y64

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    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 22

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    if your single and it feels right go with it

    that's my opinion.if no one is getting hurt then do it.
    broken8888 broken8888 26-30, M 5 Responses May 6

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    No rule no hold backs.

    .. That is me, however I don't get what I need. I AM NOT ASKING FOR CHATS! Just expressing. I am married my husband is reserved, I ask, I communicate I give directions.... Sweet Jesus man!
    deleted deleted 26-30 44 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    We should be able to have sex with animals!

    Wait... Can we? Because I already do it with my dog!
    BIaziken BIaziken 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    It seems like most men I know,

    work with or run into have to go out of their way to act manly, and talk how men should talk and do the things men should do and very proudly put down anything that isn't allowed in the man bubble. Like yoga, gardening,vegetarianism,genuinely caring about women, taking care of...
    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    poisedjaber poisedjaber 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 7

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    Does anyone else find it strange

    that when a man is spotted in an adult store he is often (not always) labeled a sick perv. But when a woman is shopping in an adult store it is often (not always) hot or sexy... But it is said that men think of sex more than women so shouldn't it be acceptable to find a man...
    Notadickjusthonest Notadickjusthonest 26-30, F 19 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    One of my friends wants to play

    and doesn't have EP. Message me for how to reach her.
    endlesslycurious endlesslycurious 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I wish society would be more open about self

    sucking guys. personally I have the ability and im obsessed with it. people always tell me to perform for them whether in their house or public im known around as an advocate to embrace your talents whether its weird , gross etc to societies standards. people dont even realize...
    nronic1 nronic1 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 12

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    I agree I think people are people we all enjoy

    different things at different times in our lives. We don't need rules to define that!
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    To me it is all about fun,

    and enjoying it. I try to keep an open mind, even if I dont always understand different fetisches. But who am I to say what is right and wrong? :p
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 13 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I think the problem here is the word 'rules',

    that implies so many negative and controlling connotations. It seems that at the age that sexual urges begin to present in children is around the time when children have "set out" on thinking more on their own, a good time for rebellious attitudes to emerge and the attitude of...
    squeezenbiteme squeezenbiteme 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    there is far too much hate in this world

    towards those that don't follow a straight life style and what's worse is that ppl think we can be "fixed" with treatment or religion finding god won't fix me, cus I'm not broken!
    leahaha leahaha 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Mastermind12345 Mastermind12345 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    I hate the perception of "*****" in society.

    Sleeping your way to the top- slutty. Sleeping with someone else's lover? -slutty. Sleeping around cause of bad self esteem -sad. Sleeping around because you love to have sex & want to experiment and try new things? -not slutty. As long as you're being safe, and not home...
    RMDk RMDk 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    What age do you think a person should be

    allowed to have legal sex with whomever they want or "of age"? I'm in the US and I don't think 18 is cutting it. To me 13 14 sounds better. what do you think?
    BrutalNoodle BrutalNoodle 16-17, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    being sexy is not a crime.

    ..its good to open yourself and share it makes you mentally free
    nawtyzaky12 nawtyzaky12 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 12

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    I think we are rather open about sexuality here

    in Sweden. But still, I think a lot of people judge others who are not the same as them. We all have different needs. :p
    StockholmblondiE StockholmblondiE 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    septemberh septemberh 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    And all the wrong people get to make the rules.

    [insert profanity of your choice here]
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 13 Responses Feb 12, 2014

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    Okay.... I see why we have the rules.

    .... but omg, seriously, I don't quite understand why different places have different legal ages, why not just have 1 set age for everywhere ? I mean don't get me wrong, I don't think there is to many because lets face it, It's nice to have the protection and having sex is...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I firmly believe what happens between two

    consenting adults in the privacy of their own bedroom is no one else's business.
    Devinamaria Devinamaria 26-30, F 14 Responses Jan 15, 2014

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    I'm in a mmf bisexual open relationship.

    meaning I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.
    experienceisknowledge experienceisknowledge 26-30, M Feb 23

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    Is the expression of desire,

    want, lust from a woman that isn't overtly flaunting herself surprising? A woman having set standards, high intelligence, and knowing what she desires but selective about how and when she expresses it is really that extraordinary? When she does express it, why is it...
    JustNyx JustNyx 36-40, F 17 Responses Jan 11

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    pambam42 pambam42 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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