I Think Women Are Judged On Looks to Much

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    Assumptions

    If you wear revealing clothing,you are a *****. If you wear too much,you are too conservative. If you are a blonde,your stupid. If you are overweight,you eat all of the time. Seriously? About how if you are a good person,it shouldnt matter. Im not gonna be a hypocrite and say Ive...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 20, 2013
    Darkmoon65 Darkmoon65
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Apr 7, 2014

    I can't escape from beautiful women.

    they are everywhere and they are suffocating me. everywhere I go- billboards, magazines, the store, my coworkers, my favorite TV shows and books- everything splays stunningly gorgeous women who I will never live up to. it's come to the point where I want to break all the mirrors...
    msingenuous msingenuous
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 23

    i have a nice outside

    now that ive lost 170 pounds but i wish more people would take the time to know my inner beauty
    DeAnnsharon DeAnnsharon
    41-45, F
    Jul 12, 2015

    We are women. We are unique in our own way.

    I know I don't look like a runway model on a fashion show but I know I am real. I say is does not matter about looks.
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    Nov 9, 2014

    Yes, we do lots to look good.

    It's relative to shadows, shapes and sentiment, but it is true there are more to us than just looks. Women have been able to move about more creatively, exploring their creativity more these last few decades, and their roles are now less diminished in the collective viewing...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 8, 2014

    At 9:45am i attend work

    and deal with teasing. They would talk bad about my facial features to friends. Many would blatantly look at me and laugh for a good minute with their friends, then have a conversation about me while still laughing and staring at me. At 5:45pm i come home to family members that...
    DeadlyArsenic DeadlyArsenic
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 29

    I think society is too obsessed with

    superficial elements such as looks, weight, clothes. Everyday women all over the world are made to feel less than they are, they are taught to pay attention to the things that really do not matter and will not make a difference in life. I am not saying do not wear nice clothes...
    blackboldandbeautiful blackboldandbeautiful
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    I always get judged on the way i look

    because i look different. People even go so far just to avoid me.
    PuffPop PuffPop
    18-21, F
    Oct 14, 2015

    I truly think and believe

    that women are judged to much on looks. If a woman is not a blonde, lovely looking, has no boobs, curves, or long legs then guys do not want them. That is so shallow of a man when looking for women to date and be friends with. Yes, I was certainly blessed as a woman with all...
    funchickfromcanada funchickfromcanada
    36-40, F
    5 Responses May 18, 2014

    It's Undoubtedly The Case, But Why? Here's my answer.

    Let us take a look back at some of the radical shifts in men's perception of how women should look.   One glaring bookmark that we all know about is The Mona Lisa.  The Mona Lisa is considered to be the most beautiful woman of all time.  We can get into philosophical debates...
    Discard92 Discard92
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2012

    I Think We All Are

    Not just women, but all of us. I was lucky to be born with what I have, but it is not who I am. People rarely try to get a chance to know me before making a comment about me, how i look, asking me out on a date, whatever. Tell me you want to sit down, talk to me, and get to...
    Aether71 Aether71
    36-40, M
    11 Responses Aug 12, 2010

    I think women get judge on how they look,

    which I don't think it's ok. There is this page on facebook, that all they do is judge girls. Like WTF? Ain't nobody perfect.. What the hell is going on..
    1kz3l 1kz3l
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2014
    YourNewObstacle YourNewObstacle
    18-21, F
    Jul 31, 2015

    I recently just cut all my hair off

    because it was bugging me. People have been assuming things and think I've gone lesbian... I mean I have nothing against lesbians or gays or anything (gay pride all day errday) but I am completely straight lol. It's just funny to see that people look at me different now.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 7, 2014

    In This Day And Age

    I can't believe people judge women on their looks soo much. Maybe I was just born in the wrong time. Society ruins so many women self esteem just by saying you need to look like this, wear that, etc.…
    DesertZombie DesertZombie
    41-45, M
    1 Response Nov 27, 2013

    Most Black Women Need Therapy A.s.a.p..

    Since I have moved to Georgia I am finding it very difficult to get along with my fellow black people. Black women especially seem to be pissed off at me the minute they see me and will always give me a dirty look and start following me around attempting to intimidate me. Black...
    Beautyisnatural Beautyisnatural
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2010

    Oh, Yeats Just Like You!

    To be born woman is to know - although they do not speak of it at school - women must labor to be beautiful. --William Butler Yeats Some things just never change, I guess. Promulgated by books and magazines back then and now so ubiquitous in our society that some women go to...
    Indie42 Indie42
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jun 13, 2012
    SammyPoo91 SammyPoo91
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    Appearance.

    I know several women who are not really 'standard' models of beauty. By cons, their Soul exceeds in size and price all the 'Miss this' or 'Miss that' to be found on fashion markets! Look inside, and not the envelope ! I know... it's more difficult !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Apr 1, 2012

    OKCupid study shows women say 80% of all men

    are "below average" looking. If men were judged by their looks as much as women are men would never get anywhere in life. Women just have stupidly high expectations
    Blankeythief Blankeythief
    51-55, M
    Mar 9, 2014

    "Gorgeous" women are everywhere.

    Always flawless makeup. Always flawless hair. Always flawless clothing. I look at the magazines, the billboards, the posters, the women around me, and I feel left out, and it makes me feel ugly. I don't wear makeup because I think I look better without it. I reaffirm constantly...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 23

    Looks Fade

    I dont understand this issue /fasination people have with womens looks. I beleive that who a woman is on the inside it what matters the most.Lets face itLook fade over time if you are so hung up on looks then your partner will begin to get rather un atractive 40-50 from now if...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 11, 2013

    I am only 12 but I can tell you one thing.

    (or more like a few things) I am ugly. My best friend and I are the mot unpopular people in our grade and I am positive no one has a crush on me. But I am a first honor student. If guys looked at that kind of stuff then I bet a lot of people would have a crush on me.
    Kapliadantis Kapliadantis
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jan 14, 2014

    I am 5'5'' 135 pounds

    and I can't eat in front of my mom without her telling me I am fat. I was sad at first but now I'm just numb. Being a girl is not easy when you are judged by what you lack - it doesn't matter I am graduating college - it doesn't matter I have an internship - it doesn't...
    Zolfy Zolfy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 6

    Women Being Judged.

    Hello All,I don't think that the issue here is men judging women. Men do not care if you are too fat, short, skinny, etc. Men want women to be themselves. Yet there are some men out there (Not too many) that want a woman to look like a Barbie Doll. But most men don't care.The...
    midnightstarr midnightstarr
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2011

    A Point Well Made

    There's a film you can watch on youtube called 'Miss. Representation' which discusses the way the media perpetuates artificial and stereotypical standards of beauty and how this psychologically affects female development. Check it out when you can ;-)
    UniversalOracle UniversalOracle
    26-30, F
    Sep 29, 2013

    It's Only Natural

    It's the nature of the beast. Let's say a man is interested in meeting a woman who could potentially be his wife. The man is somewhat young, fit, and moderately successful. In other words, average. Is he going to go for the sweet, cute girl or the raunchy hoochie or the obese...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2008

    Really...?

    I hate when I (as a woman) am judged by others when it comes to my looks. I've learned that women are vicious. I have to admit I can be vicious myself, however I hate when women with smaller breasts think I'm seeking attention because I have cleavage showing. First off, if you...
    brittany3535 brittany3535
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Jan 2, 2012

    What can it be what we see.

    .. Where can it go if we believe.. Incarcerated by doubt and fear.. Troubled by all that is far and near.. Try to be like Goldy Locks See what it's like outside the box
    akawewilly akawewilly
    46-50, M
    Apr 9, 2015

    While a woman's physical beauty is nearly

    impossible to deny, it is not the only form of beauty in which she can exude. Her smile, intentions, heart, confidence, the things she says, her compassion toward others, how she makes people around her feel, etc. are the qualities which have the biggest impact on the world and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 11, 2015
    shekilledit shekilledit
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2014

    Period. I think it's been this way

    since the beginning of time. But I've come to learn recently not all men want a Barbie doll woman. Curves are in baby! I'm not blonde, I don't have fake boobs and I've got hips for days lol. I could stand to tone, but I am not fat. I'm just well not perfect :) But I'm happy.
    Alexicutie Alexicutie
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 31, 2014

    If you just want to judge me based on looks,

    then I don't really want you in my life.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    think before you judged I think people always

    judged girls from their apperance..its seems so easy make some of girls feel insecure about themself..we are not born to be sexy model on magazine,movies artist etc whatever is that.we are just girls who are love to give respect and get respect back..I am just tired with society...
    myselfhere myselfhere
    22-25, F
    Nov 24, 2015

    Show Me Love

    If you cover yourself up, you must be a prude. If you show shoulders, stomach, thighs, cleavage, arms, collar bones, hair, makeup, etc., you must be easy. If you are a blonde, you can't be intelligent. If you are a redhead, you must have a vicious temper. If you dye your hair...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2013

    Everybody

    Not just us girls are judged too much by looks. I think we're judged by looks MORE than guys, but they're judged by looks just as well. An unclassy girl is the same as a douchebag guy. They both think looks are more important than anything. Now, EVERYBODY cares what they look...
    emilyjaynemarie emilyjaynemarie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 25, 2012

    #1, What Do You Look Like?

    Is always the first question when meeting someone online or on the phone.. A date! "Is she cute? Is she hot?" Never does anyone ask.. Is she smart? Is she articulate? What does she like? Media does play a big part in it, You are only a comedian if you are bigger than average...
    poeticheart poeticheart
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Mar 5, 2011

    am I attractive at all?

    this is not an attention seeking thing. I really do want to know.
    emgal emgal
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    Movies And Television Portray Women As Some Type Of Goddess

    The world take the average women and molds them into some type of barbie doll.Society sees all these thin,made up,tan women on tv and thinks wow I should look like that.They don't ever show real women on tv even on most reality shows it's these model looking girls that dominate...
    zar13 zar13
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    Beauty Tips

    This was immortalized by Audrey Hepburn Something to think on in this world of superficial beauty. "For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child...
    Indie42 Indie42
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 15, 2012

    Everyone is judged on their looks

    but we in seem to be held to a higher standard. A discussion I had one time someone made the point that women have more of an advantage being able to wear foundation garments, makeup and clothes to hide "flaws". The ideal we are constantly given from advertising is so unreal, a...
    nuwalker nuwalker
    66-70, M
    Apr 16

    What True Beauty Is to Me

     I definitely think people in general (not just women) are judged too much on their looks. I don’t understand it.     I have never really been considered pretty by anyone’s standards and I have been passed over by plenty of guys and dealt with this...
    whatsername23 whatsername23
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Jul 21, 2008

    About The Looks

    its true in this day and age women (and men) ar judged solely on looks and looks alone. I beleive that looks are nice of course but they do not tell you anything about the person inside. i have met quite a few absoutly beautiful women in my time who are nothing more than empty...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses May 25, 2012

    Truth

    I wear makeup because I feel ugly without. A girl that wears 5 pounds of makeup is probably the girl who thinks she's so ugly because she's been judge so many times. Guys are mean when it comes to girls they will tell you if you're ugly or not. But some are sweet and try to make...
    Thatgirl8654 Thatgirl8654
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2013

    The Media Is to Blame

    What really makes me incredibly angry is when a magazine or a tabloid talk show starts talking about celebrities who don't weigh 97 pounds, saying how they're fat and that they should lose weight.  For example, last year when Brittany Spears performed on the MTV Music Awards...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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