I Think You Have To Have Bad Times To Best Appreciate The Good

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    Deferred Gratification

    Joined this group as it feels true.  I hear the truth of it; it is wonderful to have a good time, out of the blue, when I’ve been miserable for months.  I too, have had the thought that it’s all the more righteous because I’ve suffered.  I’ve even persuaded myself that...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan
    46-50
    Jun 5, 2012

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