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I Think You Have To Have Bad Times To Best Appreciate The Good

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    Joined this group as it feels true.  I hear the truth of it; it is wonderful to have a good time, out of the blue, when I’ve been miserable for months.  I too, have had the thought that it’s all the more righteous because I’ve suffered.  I’ve even persuaded myself that...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 Jun 5, 2012

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    yes i believe bad girls have all the fun and good girls are just left with morals.
    myradear myradear 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    Having a person who loves you like you are the best, the most beautiful, the smartest and the most amazing girl in the world is something that can be bought. Yes, it is wonderful...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Directed at you Steve.. (: I'm the luckiest person in the world to have a caring bro like you Steve.. You have been an awesome friend, support and helped me in all my worst...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    I have had couple of times frustrated could not figure way out, most of the time it happens when I can't find my way out. During that time spent thinking, I have hunch of 'doubt...
    Puckerlipjunkie Puckerlipjunkie 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm not sure if this is the right place since I am not the girl but rather have a story about one. Sophomore year of 2008 I made a dear friend. She would flow with joy and we'd...
    icingh icingh 22-25, M Nov 25

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    When you act bad to someone you care or like, you have to stop being arrogant for a sec and just apologize. I really dont get the stubbornness of the people when it's obvious that...
    ketosabe ketosabe 16-17, F Dec 4

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    There will be people better looking than you, richer than you, smarter than you and sometimes none of these last. So you have to find in yourself that will.
    malvika691 malvika691 22-25, F Dec 5

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    If at least two of them have a Yes as your answer, you're a great friend to bond with :) 1. Do you enjoy messing yourself? 2. Do you enjoy messing stuff up? 3. Do you plan your...
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F Nov 21

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    Fight against other players in battles and take part in daily conquest wars. Help capture new territories for your people and defend them against attackers! Only the victorious...
    rsgpfastgold rsgpfastgold 22-25, M Nov 29

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    Yo. I think I have BPD. All the things people talk about experiencing and the symptoms of borderline are things I experience. Eating disorder, self harm, self-hatred, etc. Any...
    Emilyyyyy Emilyyyyy 18-21 Dec 6

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    i dont think your old enough to hear them all. might scare you all away
    HanzSomme HanzSomme 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I asked myself once. If someone who should be better half is in another part of this world, should I work hard for him? And the answer since then, yes. I believe distance won't...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I asked myself once. If someone who should be better half is in another part of this world, should I work hard for him? And the answer since then, yes. I believe distance won...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Welcome to the family- The people that you (& I are really close to & trust can be considered family. I never believed that you have to be blood related to be family. I have always...
    theswordinthestone theswordinthestone 41-45, M Nov 23

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    Ha! I am sure you have noticed.
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    This is my first post and I'll do my best to keep it from being messy and difficult to read (keep in mind that english is not my native tongue). I'm 18 years old, and I'm in my...
    VoidMonkey VoidMonkey 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    I am about to open my heart completely in here. Today I am living one of the worst days of my life and yes. It's depression, this ghost that has been haunting my life for a long...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Just getting in early ... this could take some practice !I want to wish all my dearest friends here a very Merry Christmas , and hope that you all get what you wish for this year...
    happinesswinsxx happinesswinsxx 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    I'm worried because I've had some terrible symptoms of what I think could be brain cancer, or something else seriously wrong. I don't know what to do. My doctor is an a** and my...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    The best advice i ever heard was from a song. "People gonna talk whether you are doing bad or good"... By Rihanna.
    bettybloops bettybloops 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    When I was younger I never ate. Not because I was scared to gain, but because when I was hungry I never felt like actually eating. The thought of it even made me nauseous at times...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F Dec 6

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    Beauty comes from within where people would appreciate you and when you grow older they love you even more.There is something deeper than that layer of skin. And you might say hey...
    ladybug96 ladybug96 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't even know how you would describe his & I relationship.... seriously one second end are hugging each other flirting then the next we are cussing each other out. Exactly the...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Nov 21

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    good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere.
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 22 Responses Dec 12

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    I've got 5 male Doberman Pinschers. 4red, 1black, all from the same litter. they were born here in my guest bathroom. their parents are gone now. I raised their parents from...
    jayciedubb jayciedubb 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    It's not rocket science! Hi, how are you? What is your name? Where are you from? How old are you? Can I see your photo please? You're so kind, thank you? It's a question of...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Where are my bad girls at ;)
    FuckMeHard66 FuckMeHard66 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    he is the best race driver ever born...... just look at his stats... and the skills ..... i think he is one of the best ever
    adrai19966 adrai19966 18-21, M Nov 26

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    I think I might have borderline personality disorder. I am bulimic and am also diagnosed with general anxiety disorder and major depressive disorder. I am taking medication to help...
    yonnie97 yonnie97 16-17, F Nov 26

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    I am still so angry. I don't know how to process these feelings and they are eroding my adult life, holding me back from being a successful person. Mental illness runs in my...
    momshelle momshelle 26-30, F Dec 9

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    what the holy **** if I am waiting for my Mom's call but my phone-signal is SOS. youre sell a lie , t*lkomsel ****! you said that you ar the best and the only provider who has a...
    iwant2knowyou iwant2knowyou 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    WHY ARE SO MANY MEN MISLED BY BEAUTY? I BET YOUR BOTTOM DOLLAR "HATE" GOES A LONG WAY... WHAT IF UFOs HAD DATE RAPE DRUGS? OH BOY, THE ENDLESS POSSIBILITIES... I FEAR IT TOO...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I get really sad sometimes because I feel like I'm giving so much and I'm trying so hard but nothing is coming back to me. At least nothing good. I'm trying to keep going and I'm...
    ZaquoyaTinsley ZaquoyaTinsley 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    Is it bad if a decent girl slept with 3 different men at different times in a day? Basically, those F- - - activities could be considered as her breakfast, lunch and diner. Oh o...
    SwanLake78 SwanLake78 36-40, F 12 Responses Nov 25

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    I think I may have borderline personality disorder. It's a little hard to deal with. I know something is wrong with me and I don't want to live my life thinking that and not doing...
    yonnie97 yonnie97 16-17, F Nov 26

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    But things seem to always work themselves out. I'm staying hopeful and trying very hard to stay positive through these rough times.. I'm looking forward to getting the therapy I...
    alliemamabear alliemamabear 18-21, F Dec 2

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    Congratulations you've taken a hold of my mind. You've slowly, but surely inched your way into every corner. It's cute, really, because I know that I scare the living **** out of...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I want to go tell all if my closest friends that I think about killing myself constantly. That I plan on doing it relatively soon. I just want to hug them and say goodbye. And beat...
    persononinternet persononinternet 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I think (know, really) that I must have BPD. But I still wish someone would validate me by telling me that I do... Any takers? This is desperate, I know...-I fly into a rage at my...
    phoenixsfire phoenixsfire 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    And yes ... it happened in Paris. (Oh..yes.. same period as that 3 in a day) Ah bon, before I went there last time, I had a chance to read a book of course written by a French...
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    I joined this website because after getting in my second car accident in the the last two weeks (one resulting in my car being unfixable and the other which just happened an hour...
    kiiiten kiiiten 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    My best friend is a guy. He has red hair, 6'4, blue eyes and perhaps even dorkier than I am. The day we met our first conversation was about science fiction movies and shows we...
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe 26-30, F Nov 30

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    I think the best advice I got was never to expect anything from anyone.Then you hurt less .Anyway,no one is going to act as per your expectations.But I still expect and I wish I...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 14 Responses Dec 4

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    So I am a captain at my volunteer fire department and one night we got a call for a reported structure fire. So We get there and sure enough the entire upstairs was on fire. I go...
    eagleeye825 eagleeye825 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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