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I Think Your Ego Makes You Very Unattractive

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    I rejected a man recently,

    he told me that he was a real nice guy and could not understand why he found it hard to get a woman. It didn't take me long to figure it out. He never listened he was too busy thinking about what he was going to say when it was his turn. He offered unsolicited, unhelpful...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 6 Responses Jan 26

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    But

    I will give you this.... You are dayum sexy.... and I guess it is really only conceit IF it isn't true and you are mighty hot. mmmm
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    Small Man Syndrome

    I went to see one of my favorite country artists in concert over the weekend. I've been talking about it for weeks and last minute ended up getting tickets to go. I'm on the tip of my toes as he walks out and the crowd goes wild, completely unable to believe I was about to see...
    danii92 danii92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2013

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    Don't Even Bother Talking To Me...

    I HATE it when the dudes with super huge egos try and talk to me and throw their game at me but guys like that are NOT my type. Just because you're cute or you got nice clothes don't mean you can win me over. It's a lot of dudes who are cute and got nice clothes! What can you...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2011

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    This Guy At Work Today...

    He just kind of gave me this smirk like I was a big joke to him...  Now I know it's possible to paranoidly read stuff into things, but sometimes you just "know what you're looking at". Here's my take: If you look at every time I have ever hurt someone else, in the vast...
    lesshissMORECAT lesshissMORECAT 31-35 May 6, 2010

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    Why ask a question if you aren't going to put

    your ego and pride aside to understand other points of view? If you want a group of people to like your thoughts and just fall in line with your way of seeing things why not run off to Facebook?
    heavenlywarrior369 heavenlywarrior369 31-35, M Dec 12, 2013

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    Shut Up Already

    I hate when people boast about themselves. There is no need to speak about your talents when it's evident you have them. In Spanish there is saying that states "lo que se ve no se pregunta" which vaguely translates to "what you see has no need to be spoken."
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 16 Responses Jun 19, 2010

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    Columbus Had An Ego

    This story breaks my heart, that the intrepid explorer we all know as simply Columbus couldn't see the paradise that he was destroying for his prejudice.  It is the story of how ego rules the world through power, and always seeks to destroy that which it cannot agree with for it...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 6, 2011

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    Jason

    When I met him almost 8 years ago I thought he was attractive, although a bit young for me.    He was the bosses son, so it wasn't really thinkable to have a relationship with him (plus I wasn't really looking anyway)Then he was put into a position of power where I work and I...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Hey Honey, Guess What?

    You're gorgeous... but you have the personality of  a mosquito and an ego that would put Jersey Shore guidos to shame. You're not funny, not clever, and your little remarks about how great you are at virtually everything are not as subtle as you think they are. If you want to be...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Ego kills everything.

    from love to care .... nothing survives in her way
    Nitish288 Nitish288 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 7

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    Totally Not Sexy!

    Come down to Earth, then we'll talk, kay?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 14, 2011

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    Collision Of Egos----We cannot be successful in either the external world or the internal world while we are tossed about by a powerful ego. What is required is a strong will...
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    My weak spot is my chest. A light downward trail of your fingertips down the front of my torso will drop me. Then I'm helplessly yours.
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    I crave a bit of this in my everyday life. I usually achieve it but it's so much more of a luxurious feeling when it's shared. Luxurious laughter.. odd concept but a real thing, I...
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    I had my heart broke by someone here on EP. It took a couple of weeks to figure out that he was so not worth the pain I was feeling. I allowed him to get under my skin and get...
    Rackshack Rackshack 41-45, F 9 Responses Dec 14

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    I'd rather be surrounded by strangers than live with someone who doesn't love you
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    "Yeah, that's right, I like my girls bbw, the kind that wanna suck you dry and eat some lunch with you..."
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    Just by being myself, I hope I can say something to either make you laugh or smile. :)
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    How would you train my girls
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    Every challenging experience I have teaches me to handle challenging experiences and strengthens my character. I am thankful for life's challenges.
    NWBiggirl420 NWBiggirl420 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    I am a mistake, he made me a woman, but I was meant to be a man... I know that if I were a man, I'd be happier, not covering up my flaws with makeup and such, I'd be happier...I'd...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Dec 16

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    I have VERY TENDER sensitive feelings; and I DON'T find it "humorous" When Someone STEPS on them. I am kind, gentle AND loving; SO LONG as Another DOESN'T Hurt me. (Hurt me "by...
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    Let's just be honest here. We've all done this at some point. Yes?
    Runningcracker Runningcracker 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 2

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    I wondered why I woke up feeling so good this morning! This title just seemed so.....strange, had to look in on it. Apparently, there are ALOT of people who have blundered onto...
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    I'm happy to help out my friends with their problems, but only if they do the same in return.
    Profweird Profweird 18-21, M Dec 15

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    Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your belived. You are warmed by his/her...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    Precious, is what this place is, this place that captures any mans attention and if treated right could be his Amazing, is what this place can be, whenever I am there seems like it...
    Courteous69 Courteous69 22-25, M Dec 9

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    My ego, it's so evil, threatened by so many different kinds of people. It feels that if you're going through something and life is feeling uncomfortable, the immediate place you go...
    jac426 jac426 18-21, F Nov 25

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    Anyone can find out that the cannabinoids of marijuana can cause cancer. Aside from that, I want to blame it for the strange emotional behavior from someone that is in contact with...
    WarmGoldenHeart WarmGoldenHeart 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    Some of my friends on EP know that I am lost. I have been struggling to process big, big hurt. Mostly stuck in darkness, and intermittently me comes back with bits of hope and...
    willbefreeiwill willbefreeiwill 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Fashion sense is a reflection of lifestyle, not essence. This is why I prefer not to judge a book by its cover. I care more about essence than lifestyle, because it should be the...
    TheAnonymousINFx TheAnonymousINFx 18-21, F Dec 8

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    They Say Ignorance is Bliss So I must Be Damn Gifted to be Silly enough to think Im Worth A Moment of your Time Loving you must be a crime cuz theirs not contact My head spins...
    DanielisLost DanielisLost 18-21, M Nov 28

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    I miss you Abuela Martina! 😇 You're in heaven since 2007!! Makes me sad I didn't have the chance to see you or say goodbye to you because I was living in USA at the time! I am...
    Katie419 Katie419 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    1. Communication She calls you often, wants to know what you’re doing, and shares her day’s activities. When you ask about her plans for the evening, or the weekend, or...
    FrostyBlu FrostyBlu 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 9

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    TODAY WAS THE DAY! As some of you may know, today was the day my teacher crush texted me to meet him in his classroom after school. Alone. He also told me not to make him wait any...
    Hfms99 Hfms99 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    THIS IS A MUST READ OMG TODAY WAS THE DAY! As some of you may know, today was the day my teacher crush texted me to meet him in his classroom after school. Alone. He also told me...
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    Just a common Marlboro red. The first time you deal with me, you're apprehensive, I probably look weird, maybe you heard about the problems for your health I can potentially cause...
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