I Think Your Ego Makes You Very Unattractive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 251 People

    I rejected a man recently,

    he told me that he was a real nice guy and could not understand why he found it hard to get a woman. It didn't take me long to figure it out. He never listened he was too busy thinking about what he was going to say when it was his turn. He offered unsolicited, unhelpful...
    venusdi venusdi
    70+, F
    5 Responses Jan 26, 2014

    What you think about yourself .

    .. how you look at life ... is not you. Your thoughts, opinions, filters and drama do not equal who you are. They are perverse enjoyments that the ego makes up to make you feel better than and/or separates you from others. It takes a person with courage to decide what they...
    easypeasey easypeasey
    22-25, F
    Sep 12, 2015

    Don't Even Bother Talking To Me...

    I HATE it when the dudes with super huge egos try and talk to me and throw their game at me but guys like that are NOT my type. Just because you're cute or you got nice clothes don't mean you can win me over. It's a lot of dudes who are cute and got nice clothes! What can you...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2011

    Columbus Had An Ego

    This story breaks my heart, that the intrepid explorer we all know as simply Columbus couldn't see the paradise that he was destroying for his prejudice.  It is the story of how ego rules the world through power, and always seeks to destroy that which it cannot agree with for it...
    NeonBlueMidnight NeonBlueMidnight
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2011

    But

    I will give you this.... You are dayum sexy.... and I guess it is really only conceit IF it isn't true and you are mighty hot. mmmm
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2010

    The bigger the ego the easier it is to deflate.

    Honestly I don't have the energy for that nonsense. They are easy targets.. Too easy lol Full of hot air and nothing more.
    CovertInk CovertInk
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 19, 2015

    Small Man Syndrome

    I went to see one of my favorite country artists in concert over the weekend. I've been talking about it for weeks and last minute ended up getting tickets to go. I'm on the tip of my toes as he walks out and the crowd goes wild, completely unable to believe I was about to see...
    danii92 danii92
    22-25, F
    Aug 5, 2013

    Jason

    When I met him almost 8 years ago I thought he was attractive, although a bit young for me.    He was the bosses son, so it wasn't really thinkable to have a relationship with him (plus I wasn't really looking anyway)Then he was put into a position of power where I work and I...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

    Why ask a question if you aren't going to put

    your ego and pride aside to understand other points of view? If you want a group of people to like your thoughts and just fall in line with your way of seeing things why not run off to Facebook?
    heavenlywarrior369 heavenlywarrior369
    31-35, M
    Dec 12, 2013

    Shut Up Already

    I hate when people boast about themselves. There is no need to speak about your talents when it's evident you have them. In Spanish there is saying that states "lo que se ve no se pregunta" which vaguely translates to "what you see has no need to be spoken."
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    16 Responses Jun 19, 2010

    Ego kills everything.

    from love to care .... nothing survives in her way
    Nitish288 Nitish288
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 7, 2014

    Hey Honey, Guess What?

    You're gorgeous... but you have the personality of  a mosquito and an ego that would put Jersey Shore guidos to shame. You're not funny, not clever, and your little remarks about how great you are at virtually everything are not as subtle as you think they are. If you want to be...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2011

    I can't stand when a guy send me a pic of his

    **** or with his shirt off showing his muscles like it's supposed to just make me faint...lol...get real I care more about your personality and morals (if you have any).
    Deeplyflawed89 Deeplyflawed89
    26-30, F
    Jun 3, 2015

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