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I Throw Things When I Get Really Mad

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    My Bad Temper

    I hate to admit this but it's true.  When I get really mad at my boyfriend, I throw thing - usually the telephone - maybe throw a picture on the ground.....whatever is closest when he says something that just eats away at me.  I have always been this way.  For me...
    PDTexas PDTexas 41-45 Sep 6, 2008

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    Unintentionally, Sometimes.

    I'm not one to throw things across a room or break things on purpose, but when I'm angry I get much rougher handling things and have been know to sort of throw or shove things about rather than calmly move them when I'm terribly upset.
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 26, 2009

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    Why Do I Throw Things?

    threw a stapler on the ground, not at anyone, when a coworker was rude and infuriated me a few months ago. threw my glasses at the wall the other day because of frustration at work. when i was a little girl i used to throw and break my hair brushes. my dad used to make me furious...
    howardsa howardsa 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    However...

    I have to say that I've been a very good girl and have really only thrown one thing in the past like, 9 years.  Before that, however, when I lived with my parents, I was a regular repeat offender.  I was throwing things more like every couple of months. But, for the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 3, 2008

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    It's Rare to Get Me This Mad Though..

    When I get furious.. seeing red, cussing up a storm furious... my first reaction? Grab something and hurl it at something else. Preferably something alive. I remember one time where I was seriously pissed off, I took a pen and threw it at my stepbrother. Well, he just laughed...
    kittenoftheblade kittenoftheblade 18-21, F Oct 3, 2008

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    A Bid to Be Left Alone

      I have written before about my stages of anger and there is just a time when I feel driven into a corner, challenged and without an escape. This is a very infrequent situation for me but it does happen, especially as my trailer-mate is one of those who will pick at me...
    Dormantdrakon Dormantdrakon 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2009

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    I'm a Thrower!

     Hi, I'm a 28 year old female.  I throw things. At the moment it's really picked up.  I'm trying to deal with my gambling schizophrenic fiancee and I've started throwing things in the general direction of him.  He gets so emotionless like he doesn't care...
    bully1981 bully1981 26-30 5 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Yuck, I Really Do Hate That I Do This

    It alwasy gets me in trouble in the end somehow. Im not sure where I learned it from but it is something I need to stop . 
    Evey11 Evey11 18-21, F Jul 17, 2009

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    The Things I've Thrown.

    I threw a TV remote at my little brother once, he ducked, it went through the window. Wasn't my fault the window smashed, he shouldn't have ducked. I also threw a plate at a wall and a glass at my dad. The downside - My pity full wages are getting sucked up for replacements...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 3, 2008

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    It Lets Out The Frustration

    i have thrown things in anger n i have heard that hitting a mat against a wall is a good way to let out anger that no one will even notice
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Feb 23, 2011

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    I'm Getting Better, I Think

    I used to destroy my entire room when I was a kid. It was the only way I knew how to get the anger out. WHen I got older I did the same thing. Nowadays I don't do it as much anymore. I think in the past 9 months I have gotten mad and thrown something twice. SO maybe I'm getting a...
    nicoleal20 nicoleal20 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    I Threw Something. and Then Regretted It

    I can have anger issues.  I will curse a person out and be so overwhelming that whoever crossed me will leave the room/house and not come back until they think I've cooled off...this is something I really, really need to work on.  It's only when I'm very angry that I...
    yoyy yoyy 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2008

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    Only When I'm Really Angry

    I don't get really angry very often but when I do I sometimes throw and break things. It's better to break objects than hurt myself or other people.
    vivalagloria vivalagloria 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2008

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    I Held My Parents Responsible

    When I was a teenager I have this temper and would throw things when I get angry. I always feel awful afterwards. Feeling sorry for myself. I hated myself for this. I don't want anybody getting hurt and at same time I want people to know I can't help myself. It feels like I want...
    zephyr2005 zephyr2005 41-45, F Sep 4, 2011

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    Have to Be Very Very Mad Though

    It takes a lot but when very mad or frustrated, I do tend to throw things against the nearest wall, usually the book that I am working out of at that moment, particularly if hard back or a mug, tend to show just enough constraint not to throw small children or animals.  
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 2, 2008

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    Really, Don't Get Me Angry!

    I seriously act insane when I'm angry... It seems as though I switch personalities... I think I have BPD, which kinda sucks when you think about it. My dad has it, though, so I suppose it could be genetic...
    xxbloodyfretboardxx xxbloodyfretboardxx 18-21, F May 23, 2009

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    PB & J

    once, when my daughter was being especially disobedient, and i was in an especially bad mood, i threw the peanut butter and jelly sandwich i was eating at the wall.  i know there are more such incidents, but i can't think of any right off. 
    trixi trixi 41-45, F Sep 6, 2008

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    My Name Is Psyko and I'm a Thrower...

    when i see red i go completely ballistic.  anything within range is fair game but it usually ends up being sadly funny because of my excellent choice in ineffectual weapons.  it's probably for the best else i'd be living in a house full of broken stuff with...
    psyko psyko 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Can I Throw Your Things?

    The last thing I threw is the computer's mouse. The connection has been really slow these last couple of days. Grrrhhh. Back in the days, I have thrown rocks,  books and everyone's favorite, pillows. I've got a terrible temper, quite a short fuse. But it was when I...
    june1999 june1999 31-35, F 12 Responses Feb 8, 2009

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    Latest Victim - Leather Ottoman

    I'm usually well tempered,  and don't often throw things.  However, I have to work pretty hard at it.  I use to be awful as a kid - starting out by self harming and moving on  to  destroying my room in frustration.  Time, work, and patience have allowed me to work on this...
    Jenny82 Jenny82 21-25, F Aug 28, 2011

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    mango juice

    i don't do it in public though. the only other person who's ever seen me do it is my mom. when i'm really, really angry all this energy just explodes inside me and i have to get it out. i'll go to my room and throw things against the wall. it scares me. once it starts it...
    chelswildflower chelswildflower 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    And It Takes a Lot to Get Me This Mad....

    but yea, i think its more frustration than anger that makes me do this.  Extreme frustration (no, not of the sexual kind you pervs).  The last thing i threw was a bag of sugar into the corner where the door is for the basement stairs.  Made one hell of a mess...
    thatweirdromanguy thatweirdromanguy 46-50, M 13 Responses Oct 2, 2008

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    I Want To Know How To Control It

    I throw stuff out of frustration. Not anger, I can be angry it it never happen... it only occurs when i'm dealing with my Fiance, we don't argue often though. She never sees things from my perspective, doesn't believe in compromise. it can be something so simple... Like one day...
    rudolphe rudolphe 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Need to Buy Plastic Crockery...

    It bouncessssss.... I don't get into a rage much, though.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    Even little things make me soso angry i end up punching walls or trying to harm myself... I must have smashed my phone about 5 times and my ipad once and last week I was really mad...
    Il0veandre Il0veandre 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    i am really mad right now i have a san disk micro sd memorie card that wont work on my computer but it will work on 3 of my other devices so i went on a live chat with san disk and...
    jamesb21 jamesb21 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Back in college I used to have plenty friends. When I got drunk, I made even more friends, I joked, laughed and was generally in a good mood. Now, in my early 30s, I live in a...
    myprivatehell myprivatehell 31-35, M Aug 21

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    •I tried to balance the light switch in between on and off. •My mom told me the refrigerator light wasn't always on so I looked while I shut it waiting to see someone turning...
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    The first night i met this guy he was drunk & all over me but me knowing he had a girl friend i pushed him away. Just a few days after them breaking up me & him hungout again for...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Guess who got drunk at the neighborhood block party and made a fool of herself with a 19 year old neighbor??? This idiot, that's who!
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    So true that's how I do when I'm mad
    FlyingAwayAndFallingApart FlyingAwayAndFallingApart 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    When I'm so tired & try to stay awake, I see things that aren't there. I've seen deer, police & people. This happens when I'm riding in the car trying to stay awake to make sure...
    1970Something 1970Something 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    A lot of us do it, and so do I. I internalize, and bottle up all my anger, frustration, hate, and resentment. I just keep it inside, all to myself untill finally I can't take it...
    shaaka shaaka 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I fooled around with this guy when we were drunk & i ended up liking him A LOT... But just a few days later he got back with his girlfriend... What should i do? Or do i have a...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I cook when I am logged in here.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    When i am drunk, i usually call a girl i try to flirt. then i call my best friends to ask them if i am a *******. It usually happens and I dont know why i do.
    qaan qaan 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Only a couple of times have I been so drunk that stupid happened. There's one that happened when I was 22ish, it mighta been new years... It's worth telling but takes a bit of...
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Like drink more. Was so wasted last night. Hangover headaches now
    casualtyofwar casualtyofwar 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Yeah, Many times!. Hahahaha!! :D
    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Shalalalalala I'm bat **** drunk and I skipped my classes Shalalalalala I don't give a goddamned **** Shalalalalala I'm gonna regret this soon:)
    RozzebellConta RozzebellConta 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I'm bored anybody wanna talk to meh ps if I don't answer u then I'm sleeping.
    ThaQueen1 ThaQueen1 18-21, F Aug 26

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    Put my bracelets through the wSh do I'm blow drying then so the metal doesn't rust 😂😊👌 (Morgan Logic)
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    i do..i act like im drunk or 4 years old ill put my hand on ur face and push, ill make werid noices and yah..
    TheColorfulDino TheColorfulDino 13-15, F a week ago

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    I threw a chair at a kangaroo
    mangomick mangomick 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm about to do something stupid that's what's up. How dare her! Even though she's older than my deceased mother it doesn't give her the right to call her a "kid" does she...
    Xcinderella Xcinderella 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    When I say the above, I don't mean it lightly. I'm not a little whiny teenage kid saying it because my mum didn't buy me skinny jeans. I mean really I am at my wits end...
    moonscapemonoxide moonscapemonoxide 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    1. I liked the movie "Steel Magnolias" there, I said it. 2. My eyes seem to change colors between varying shades of blue and green. 3. I love music. But, when I listen, I get so...
    ludix ludix 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    This perhaps going to be the most confused post from me till date in any real or virtual world.......why because i really dont know what !!!!..........it is about me who keeps...
    Sankhya Sankhya 31-35, M Aug 31

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    When I was younger. In about 5th grade i told myself that smoking and drinking was icky because of a program in school called D.A.R.E and it really made me want to stay clean. But...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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