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I To Get Over Being Insecure Due to Past Experiences

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    Can someone help me? I once had a dream and meet someone there (a stranger and unfortunately not a human). I recognized who he is. We both talked and, what surprised me was, he...
    alessandrajazmyn alessandrajazmyn 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    I am a pastor's kid, and more accurately, I'm a person whose father and older brother happen to be pastors. Truly knowing this somewhat helps take the blame off of myself for not...
    Borg2063 Borg2063 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    My Wife And I Were Married In 2005 After Being Together For 4 Years. We Were Married Almost 6 Years When I Found Out She Was Cheating On Me. She Had Used Her Cell Phone Along With...
    jeepman2381 jeepman2381 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was in Perth Western Australia and I was walking down a street (I can't remember which street it was) what I saw was someone catching someone else presumably on the run for some...
    bunnoboi85 bunnoboi85 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I could write all day, every day -never leaving the house again, so as to minimize my exposure to even More experiences- and still never be able to share the full scope of...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Relationships are overrated. Being single, you have a lot of advantages, especially when it comes to money, but I won't get into that. You also get to make your own life decisions...
    JK7448 JK7448 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I do not like being told to just get over my past, and to just get over the abuse that I have gone through. I don't believe anyone can just get over it. You have to deal with it...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Due to my past experiences, I never do someone's work for them or look at my stuff without asking. Last year I thought I met a real girl I can trust. I got to excited when she ask...
    Lizandavan Lizandavan 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Don't go to university, find an alternative path that will give you the same rewards and the same experiences. I guess I don't regret the experiences and times I had at university...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    Luckily, I will be able to, to some extent... Memories, a lot of online stuff, my age and my family won't be restarted (even though I really want a lot of memories gone) but mostly...
    IceMareen IceMareen 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Sometimes sharing experiences is the best thing a person can do. because it is at times a way that one can not only share his or hers experiences, but may be the only way that...
    babyglp babyglp 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    last sunday my OH told me hed decided to spend a few nights back at his folks, as he wasnt sleeping properly, i was completely fine with this as he does need his sleep and for some...
    Ffirebrand Ffirebrand 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    This is going to be very long winded and I'm posting this because I need to vent and need to know who else is going through something similar and how they're handling it. Here goes...
    Kristy37 Kristy37 36-40, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would do anything to be confident and careless in front others. I would do anything to be the way I used to be before, to not feel so afraid of being judged and scrutinized in...
    chanelroe chanelroe 18-21, F a week ago

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    It's not just about certain parts of my body because I know that I am a pretty girl but for some reason I feel so much more prettier when I have makeup on but everyone tells me I'm...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F a week ago

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    IDK why he has to lie to me about things I'm not dumb he has lied in the past and still continues to lie even now. I have been lied to so many times in my life by a few ex...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    From my college, I applied for a semester abroad program at a good university, and I recently found out I got it. I have been doing an internship for the past month which ends the...
    ShruthiK ShruthiK 18-21, F Jun 28

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    I hate it, I hate that i can't leave the house without makeup. My face is actually clear, what I mean is that I don't have acne although I have the odd spot every now and then...
    ItsJustRebecca ItsJustRebecca 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I remember in grade school hearing about how everyone over the internet are dangerous. Of course, that's not true at all, but I eventually became too carefree and that really...
    SomethingPink SomethingPink 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I've got a good resume on the outside - high school class president, Cornell BA, Columbia MBA, director at major company. But inside, I'm completely insecure and scared. I keep...
    scaredpoopless scaredpoopless 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Last Goodbye- Jeff Buckley I'm not sure what made me think of this song.. I just feel it.. Like relate to it somehow, probably from my past experiences and crushes..
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M Jun 27

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    Recently I've been told I was insecure. And in the most insecure way I deflected those statements and tried to hide behind it with jokes that aren't funny, sexual statements that...
    EatLiftRepeat EatLiftRepeat 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    I have my list of insecurities, and things that I hate about myself. I hate the fact that I have little to no talent. Anything that I can do, the average person can do it better. I...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    I'll always be insecure. But I'm trying to accept myself and all my imperfections. I'll never look as amazing as other girls, but I'm ok with that. I'm finally ok with who I am...
    Ellythegymnast Ellythegymnast 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    So basically last night I was sleeping all nice and sound and then I woke randomly. I opened my eyes and I suddenly hear d a steady tapping on my closet door... It was really loud...
    confusedandslightlyscared confusedandslightlyscared 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    THE WHITE LADY One of the creepiest, and earliest - experiences that I can remember is the ghost of an elderly woman who would visit me at night when I was a little girl. The...
    littlelostfox littlelostfox 18-21, F Jun 26

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    For some reason I have been hit hard tonight by the censors. I was unable to write hammered in this topic. What on earth is going on. My home page was covered by two or three...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M Jun 26

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    i love being told how much of a remarkably fat, heavy lardass ive become. how i've fattened myself up, so incredibly morbidly obese that none of my clothes fit over my big bloated...
    MilkMassacre MilkMassacre 16-17, T 1 Response Jun 25

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    I cannot forget what others have done to me in the past. I don't necessarily keep beating them over the head with it like others do, but I also sure that the decision to keep me...
    theotherversionofme theotherversionofme 51-55, M Jun 25

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    I know its un common in men but I'm kinda insecure especially when woman tell me I'm attractive I think there lying also sexually when they brag about my sexual performance or my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 25

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    I'm overweight and I hate feeling like this. I have no willpower so dieting is hard. It's also really hard to get up in the morning so I never exercise so I guess I'll always just...
    dac01 dac01 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Everytime i'm out,I feel so insecure about my hair. I have curly hair and it can get a little messy at times, half the times i try to stay away from the camera if my hair looks...
    xoabelxo xoabelxo 18-21, F Jun 24

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    Since I was probably 6 years old I've been obsessed with fat. When I was probably 10 years old my father told me that I was getting fat and that I needed to loose weight, which was...
    Bellylover1999 Bellylover1999 13-15, M Jun 23

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    It's obvious but we need reminding of it sometimes. The past is just that, history, over, never coming back however much we want it to. There is no point living in the past, even...
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    Misguided Quest Who would've thought I could change the world? What about the parrot? Yes, I admit it-the world we now live in is my fault...though the parrot isn't without blame...
    zydeko zydeko 18-21 Jun 22

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    I have put "him" into a box...mementos. I want to hold onto it as proof...I feel that once he realizes that I am never gonna be in his arms again - that is when **** will hit the...
    isolatednlonely isolatednlonely 36-40, F Jun 21

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    You don't get "over it." You deal with it,day by day,minute by minute. The trick is to deal with it in an effective and productive manner for YOU and you only. There are those...
    lonelybutok lonelybutok 46-50, F Jun 21

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    I don't know if this is the right place to search for answers, but I'm at a loss of where to turn. About a year ago I was working in a remote camp environment where you're living...
    dpower1131 dpower1131 26-30, F Jun 20

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    I'm afraid it's going to hurt my new relationship...The thing is that over the years I've learned to be a lot more confident in my self, in my looks, in who I am. There was always...
    LadyOfLorien LadyOfLorien 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I'm not insecure about the future. I know for certain how good a father I am. A protector and provider as well as a kind loving man. There's a desire deep in my heart to find a...
    Dominantvelvet Dominantvelvet 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I have been with this guy for 4 months and he's been having a lot of drama with his son's mother, who has been keeping his son from him and played with his emotions months when he...
    MzTy MzTy 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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