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I To Get Over Being Insecure Due to Past Experiences

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    So this is now week 6 and 4 days tomorrow that we've had no contact with one another. 4 months since we've seen each other. I feel like I could just die. I miss him soooo much...
    ArizonaCheater ArizonaCheater 46-50 5 Responses Apr 9

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    In high school I had no friends and had trouble getting along with people. I would have trouble talking to people, not because I'm socially awkward but because I would get...
    MichaelSean MichaelSean 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    When I picked my mood for this, I thought lonely would be the obvious choice. I spend a lot of time at work, it's very stressful. When I leave work I come home and even though I...
    brian275 brian275 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    A while back I posted a story about the difficulty I was experiencing in getting over a ex boyfriend, who at the time I was very in love with. A few years later, it feels great to...
    roseofthedevilsgarden roseofthedevilsgarden 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I never understand how this isn't the case with everyone. I was under the impression that this site is about sharing experiences that you may or may not feel comfortable sharing in...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    The Existence of Negative Entities Growing up as a child, my grandmother lived far away from where we used to live. She would visit each one of her children, one year at a time...
    PastPilot PastPilot 51-55, M Apr 23

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    Just A Rambling Thought In all the past lives I can remember, I was just a cog in the works. I was never a major player, famous, mentioned in lore, or written about in history. I...
    PastPilot PastPilot 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really struggle with feeling insecure and ashamed of myself for several reasons. I had an awful high school, college, and somewhat hard grad school experience. In high school, I...
    fabgirl824 fabgirl824 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hey, I know we have not talked in a while and honestly I do not really care to. I am not here to complain about how you ruined my life or shattered my world. At first, I really...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F Apr 5

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    This experience I'm writing about I'm sure has happened to many other guys and gals. During my early part of my career in the military we lived in a co-ed dorm (early 1980s). Many...
    badcom55 badcom55 56-60, M Apr 22

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    I am so done! If you read most of my other experiences you will see I have a lot of issues with my mother, the choices she makes and what she is doing to me. There are a lot of...
    SecretAbby SecretAbby 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Dear heart.. why did just a bad experience make you so straight and gaunt. Inside there, why do you feel so insecure? it's just a beginning. you may have to face lot more tough...
    pontybroken pontybroken 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 20

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    I've been a stepmom now for about 2 years to a now 4 year old. When I first met my now husband, things were great between me and the child. However as he and I got more involved...
    tcap422 tcap422 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 19

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    fictional story written from my dreamsEvery time we talked on the phone she lay in bed playing with her puffy points. She's a chubby petite,cute girl in her middle twenties.Tired...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response 33 mins ago

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    I hate being skinny. Everyday I get at least 3 comments or strange looks. by strangers, but also by my friends and MY OWN FAMILY. First they call me 'lucky' and the next day ugly...
    zoeverheulen96 zoeverheulen96 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Nothing stays perfect forever. I have learnt that the hard way. Whether it be a family member, a friend, a situation...nothing stays good forever. People change and time moves on...
    cupcakes1995 cupcakes1995 18-21, F Apr 10

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    i used to not care too much about my appearance but now i avoid mirrors and pictures everyday. i feel ugly everyday at school and i just stay home all day and night because i dont...
    avalily avalily 18-21, F Apr 13

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    I am in an abusive relationship but I am scared to get out. He has put me in a place where I am so insecure about everything I do or think I don't even remember how to make a...
    CryingMermaids CryingMermaids 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I never take selfies, it just seems so wrong. I only take self-portraits. :DAnd yes, the hair is terrible, the skin is oily and the beard is distracting... Just shu...[Message...
    KimKarlsson KimKarlsson 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    I used to candy coat my words, agree with the majority, and not express how I really feel or think... I was insecure. Now I am able to be ME, able to voice my opinion, agree to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 17

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    Lately I've been feeling really insecure about my body. I've never really been a pretty girl but I haven't felt this bad when I look in the mirror in a while. I've been gaining...
    mclovin31321 mclovin31321 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Im so insecure. Im insecure about everything. My social anxiety, my body, my style, even my face. It's so hard for me to feel comfortable and confident with anything. I can't stop...
    JustineMusey JustineMusey 13-15, F Apr 10

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    What one thing your insecure about ? I'm insecure about my teeth
    SleepIsLife321 SleepIsLife321 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I thought I'd make another post about being a member at a methadone clinic... Well, I have been a patient since October of 2012, so quite a while now. Anyway, this is really my...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I had a best friend that hurt me so much. I was emotionally hurt, I was emotionally affected. I never thought getting into high school was like a life risk. I felt like a failed...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I had a terrible nightmare last night, and I can't get over it. I was raped, and I didn't know by whom and I was suddenly like four months pregnant. Everyone at school was laughing...
    zydeko zydeko 18-21 Apr 11

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    Life is full of ups and downs. Victories and challenges. I haven't always made the best decisions in life however it's all of what I've been through that makes me who I am today...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 11

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    You can be done with the past, but the past chooses when to be done with you.
    anonymousdrummer anonymousdrummer 13-15, M Apr 22

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    A couple days ago I had sex. For those who have read my other experiences you'll know I was raped in the past. I thought I would have never have been able to be close with someone...
    Secrets27 Secrets27 13-15, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I don't care what people think of me it's what I think of myself that makes me insecure.
    iRot iRot 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I am pretty insecure about them. But I don't dwell too much on how I look... Of course I don't think I'm the most stunning person ever... But I place more emphasis on my person. It...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 11

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    I'd never want to fully forget my past. Because those bad experiences shaped me into who I am today. Showed me a strength that I wouldn't have otherwise known existed in me. Yes...
    ShesSimplyKenny ShesSimplyKenny 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I just found out JESUS predestined my friend for HEAVEN and me for hell. What really cuts me is that she thinks JUST LIKE ME I know cause if i put myself in the same life as her...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    I have to at least have some mascara on, to not look like a completely dead person.. ;DThough my skin still makes me feel insecure and as if everyone is staring.. :/ So I have only...
    GRda GRda 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    I'm the opposite, I do like to be told to get over it. I wish people would say that more often. That's why I couldn't go to counseling - one session and I knew I'd never go back...
    CrazyKid4 CrazyKid4 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    sometimes it great. the money is good, I meet new people and I feel beautiful. why wouldn't I. people are paying me just to be with me. sure its a quick lay but they choose me. out...
    KitCatBar14 KitCatBar14 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    It's an amazing feeling when you reconnect with someone from your past that used to play a huge role in your life. For me, after I graduated high school, I only kept in contact...
    Haywee123 Haywee123 22-25, F a week ago

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    That moment you realize you're most likely to die alone and unhappy. Never being able to fulfill the dream of getting married and being happy with someone you want to share your...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    I love being on my own. There was a period during my past when the majority of my time alone was spent moping in depressive thoughts or indulging in terrible habits. However...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    it is real fun to watch a duel. When two guys fight over me, I ask them to fight each other and the one that wins, gets his prize. I sit and watch them both fight and enjoy it.
    cutexa cutexa 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    What kind of experiences? I've lived a lot of moments and have lots to choose from. Being new to this app is an experience. Feels odd.
    chatwizme chatwizme 61-65, F Apr 7

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