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I Told My Wife About My Crossdressing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 300 People

    My Wife's Maid

    My wife knew I enjoyed cross dressing but didn't approve in the least. She knew I'd had a second phone line installed for a TV make up and lingerie' service I ran part time. She may have guessed about my dressing in a French maid uniform to do the cleaning after she had left...
    amandatrane amandatrane
    Mar 26, 2012

    On Again, Off Again-the Plague Of The Double Standard

    She thinks that I should grow out of it, but likes it when I help her put together a nice outfit. She would like my cross dressing to go away, but doesn't want "me" to leave. She buys me pretty clothes, but doesn't want to see me in 'em. She wants me to accept and enjoy her...
    joseygurl23 joseygurl23
    9 Responses Sep 26, 2013

    Sort of

    I told her long ago, but she does not know how much I still dress up.  She does not approve of it at all.  At one point we had an agreement that I could wear whatever I wanted when she wasn't around, but that didn't last long.  Oh well.
    SomeguyinUT SomeguyinUT
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2009

    Role Reversal

    I went in to the bed room and got out all my lingerie i have a nice little collection, I set out the white out fit, a beautiful little teddy, garter belt, stockings, fantastic baby doll toe 5 in heels, I have a latex chest of 40DDD, that i love to see it on me, a full latex...
    deleted deleted
    May 17, 2012

    My Wife And The Other Woman....!

    Soon after our marriage by the end of our first year we had a son...Immediately after a year we had a daughter. During her pregnancy my wife went to my in laws house for delivery. I was alone. The woman in me woke up. But by that time my secret stock during that one year...
    madhuraa madhuraa
    31-35, T
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2012

    Well since I have came out about my Cd'ing I

    have been taking it easy. She is being cool with it. She has notice me wearing hose, and last night saw where I had my hose hanging to dry. Hopefully sooner than later I will feel comfortable enough to let her see me in a skirt and heels. We will see only time will tell.
    hoseguy616 hoseguy616
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 12, 2014

    We Caremy Crossdressing

    It wa 20 year ago when one night I couldn't help myself but I had to slip into some of my wife's lingerie. It was wounderful as usual and I didn't want to take them off. Just before she came home I put a pair of pants over the panties and strrockings I was wearing and shirt...
    cdgail58 cdgail58
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Dec 12, 2011

    Told My Wife Early In Our Relationship

    I told my wife after one or two "dates" with her. I wanted to be honest and upfront with her. After searching the internet and realizing MOST women do not accept crossdressing men, I wanted her to know who I truly was with no surprises down the road. Even though she does not...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Oct 4, 2011

    So over the weekend, I talked more with my wife

    about my dressing. She is being more open, but at the same time I have not told her everything. It has started with I wear pantyhose still, i have other clothes besides just pantyhose and I would like a place to put said items in a place in the house so I am not hiding them any...
    hoseguy616 hoseguy616
    36-40, M
    9 Responses Feb 3, 2014

    I Did It!

    So as my id says i'm new to crossdressing. It has been part of me since I was young. However in the last 9 months I have chosen to explore cd again. Increasingly it felt better and better and I now realise it's part of who i am. The other night (admittedly i had a few drinks) I...
    CDNew CDNew
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Sep 3, 2010

    She Seemed Supportive

    I told my wife , and she seemed supportive, I told her that i want to keep this between just us and she liked that  idea, I asked her if we could buy matching Lingerie, and she liked that also, and that i wanted to be taken by her as a woman would be, she kinda thought that...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 12, 2009

    Planning On Asking Wife For Makeup Help.

    This past weekend something moved so fast for me. I went from dreaming about wearing a dress to telling my wife about the dream. That was on Saturday. On Saturday I said I'd like my own dress and she agreed to help me pick one out. The next day we went and found two. I put...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 26, 2013

    My Wife Found Out

    My wife found photos of me on the computer and thought I was having an affair. I taled to her and she was very upset and wanted me to stop. I did. I saw a shrink for nearly a year. It was satisfying but did not cure me of the urge to be femme. I used to be really active. I was in...
    kathielynne kathielynne
    41-45, T
    7 Responses Sep 18, 2009

    My Wife Made Me Live As A Woman For A Solid Week - Part 1

    Last week my wife Christina and one of her lovers, my former boss Randy, arranged for me to spend the entire week living and working as a woman. I had to go to a week-long training for my company, held at the headquarters in the Midwest. To my surprise, my wife Christina wanted...
    Dannicuck Dannicuck
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2012

    I Told My Wife About My Crossdressing

    like most crossdressers it started when i was youngi told no one but i think some of my family know yhey worked it out but they say nothing to mewell i have been with my wife for 19 years when i just had to tell herso one sunday i just said i amĀ  a crossdresser and all she said...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    My wife knowing and being accepting is great.

    Last night and today I have been wearing my hose and no pants and wify is being cool about it. I even got to spend some time cuddling with her last night while wearing my hose. I love my wife she rocks!!!!!!
    hoseguy616 hoseguy616
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Feb 16, 2014

    Wife Likes Seeing Me Dressed

    I have been crossdressing since a young age. I got married, I told her before we were married and she loved the idea of seeing me in panties and lingerie. She recently bought me a tight skirt and I walked around the house and bent over in front of the mirror to see the tight...
    pantiescouple pantiescouple
    Jul 19, 2010

    Before we got married I told my wife about my

    transvestism. She accepted it she said but never wanted to see me dressed or talk about it. Being the person that she is it took all of six months to a year before she was breaking into my locked cases to read my meager fantasy writings, letters and such with other transvestites...
    amandatrane1 amandatrane1
    51-55, T
    Dec 12, 2015

    The First Time I Told Her

    It was a couple years after I had ventured out to buy my own lingerie, and I was starting to feel guilty. The hiding, stretching out the things I had bought her (never mind that she never wanted to wear them), and the frustration of her not really wanting to wear lingerie, or...
    joseygurl23 joseygurl23
    7 Responses Sep 20, 2013

    Out With My Wife

    I confessed to my wife in 2001 that I was a cross dresser and loved to wear women's clothes. I had no intention of doing it, but after her suspicions of me being up to something and my suspicious Internet activity, I had no choice (that's a whole different story in itself for...
    Lisagurlll Lisagurlll
    36-40, T
    1 Response Nov 21, 2012

    Wife Bought Me Two Dresses

    Several weeks ago I'd made a off-hand, joking remark to my wife about a dress we were looking at. I said, that I'd like a dress like one we saw in a department store to my wife. "Really, let's go in and get one for you." "No not now, some day maybe." Then this past Saturday...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 25, 2013

    Just A Roller Coaster Day By Day...

    I haven't been the greatest of husband's, the emotional support probably never what it should have been, and this went on for 10+ years, our sex lives, non-existent, just both she and I going thru the motions for our daughter. My wife was overcome with about 3/4 of all wives in...
    garterbeltgirl19 garterbeltgirl19
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Jun 16, 2012
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