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I Trained My Husband Thru Orgasm Denial

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 150 People

    For Women Who Want A Better Sex Life

    I recently talked to a girlfriend about her sex life or her lack of a sex life with her husband. She complained to me that they rarely had sex and when they did it was never long enough or satisfying to her. I listened as she went on and on about how he really didn't seem to want...
    arizonapalerider arizonapalerider 31-35, F 12 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    I *** On Schedule - A New Twist

    My wife lets me *** only after I have eaten her to ****** at least ten times. I finally reached my goal last night, but my wife said she was too tired to jack me off. I am forbidden to **********, so I begged her for relief. She said, if you want to *** so badly, get on the...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Well Behaved Husband

    My wife has trained me, both through ****** denial and spanking. My wife believes men don't listen well when they have *******. She also says I am too messy and it makes her smell when I *** in her. So basically, I don't get many ******* at all. I have a teenie weenie and can...
    teenieweenie2 teenieweenie2 51-55, M 5 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Denied

    I felt my wife pull aside the covers as she slipped into bed beside me. After years of conditioning, I instantly became hard. Caressing my nipples with one hand, the other slipped down my stomach and began to trace the outlines of my **** pressing against my underwear. She...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    You Can ***

    My wife called from the bathroom, telling me ***** and present myself to her. I complied immediately and upon entering the bathroom, found her holding a well lubed butt plug. Ordering me to stand by the doorframe, she handed me the plug and told me to hold it behind my back...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    Sixty Second Hand Job

    I have always been a premature ejaculator throughout my marriage. This has not been a problem for my wife since she has been able to have other men. She has also trained me to be very adept at using toys, and my tongue to pleasure her. At this point in our marriage, we have...
    MikeLikes MikeLikes 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    I *** On Schedule

    My wife knows that I am more attentive if she keeps me horny. She strokes and teases my **** every night, but doesn't let me ***. Only after I have licked her to 10 ******* will she jack me off. Sometimes this takes more than two weeks. When she finally decides to let me...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Tied And Denied

    I would love to have wifey stare into my eyes, kiss me deeply and passionately , twist and tug on my nipples and dig her long nails into me while I have my hands tied behind my back during her earth shattering org*sm from her lover! There is something so very special about the...
    billycuck billycuck 41-45, M Jul 13, 2011

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    Creative Way To Control Locked Up Sub-hub!

    Hey FEMALE QUEENS AND GODDESSES,I came across a very kinky way to control YOUR sub-hub and make him want YOU even more!!  You should make him buy one of those artificial dolls or half dolls with a plastic *****, and award him with 10 seconds for each ******** he eats(his own or...
    JOSbitch JOSbitch 31-35 36 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Starting to hate him more and more everyday just found out from my son that he has been bashing me to him which is horrible.then when we have fights he will call me a stupid c**t...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    As the weather has been so hot I've worn my bikini most of the time I'm in. The thing is I'm finding my husband can't keep his hands off me. When he comes in and the girls aren't...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    It’s been 12 years since I married my Muslim husband and the road has truly been long and winding, but happy. At the time we got married I was Catholic and had no intention of...
    nuruldeen nuruldeen 36-40, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm fighting major depression. .I spent 21.5 yrs in the Marines and had 2 tour's in Vietnam. I'm having some very serious problems with the VA and with a family that doesn't care...
    boysann boysann 66-70, M Jul 21

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    Thank you all for sharing your experiences and insight into this sad, sad, stupid horrific thing we call addiction. Reading all of your stories has been eye opening and I hope...
    hightoolong hightoolong 36-40, F 16 hrs ago

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    I refuse to use the term PTSD; it's not a disorder, my husband did not have any kind of disorder. He suffered Post-Traumatic Stress and could not shake it off. He killed himself in...
    CarolineIn91709 CarolineIn91709 31-35, F 2 Responses 24 mins ago

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    The world would be a much better place if women ruled it. Although i believe it going into that direction, there is still a way to go. Our life as a couple and parents has become...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm 29 years old and I lacked experienced in all things people take for granted. I lied to pretend to be normal. I believe denial is the only thing that keeps me going
    arqjcm arqjcm 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    My wife accuses me of treating her like a sex doll whenever I push the issue of us not having sex. She says she is always too tired, except those rare occasions when she isn't and...
    themyth1981 themyth1981 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I don't even know where to begin. First of all me and my husband have 21 grandchildren and he is only partial to a few of them...the rest he is indifferent but to this one...
    LavondaCausey LavondaCausey 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have been married to my husband for over 18 years (together for 20). We have a 22yr old son (his by birth, mine by adoption) and a younger teen daughter. Our son was initially...
    Alex1sJam4s Alex1sJam4s 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I like being pleasured to the point I ******, I like moaning and letting my juices flow
    chloelou chloelou 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My husband is such a jerk .I I hate his sisters husband and so does everyone that I know this jerk is very disrepectful to me disrepectful twords my family , this thing is the...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My mother-in-law recently became incapacitated. She is elderly and was just hospitalized. I spent three days with my husband and other family members at the hospital. I get along...
    kt65 kt65 46-50 1 Response Jul 7

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    Well I flew to California to visit my parents. My mom threw me a baby shower. It was lovely . We didnt talk much about my husband...I didn't blame her. She wanted to keep the mood...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I can't stand being apart from him, mostly when we are away from home. Him being at work doesn't bother me if I'm in the comfort of my own home. I don't particularly like going to...
    brittanys13 brittanys13 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I have to get this off my chest or I will explode. My husband and I have been married several years. I had a child from a previous relationship, and we had two together. I always...
    nwhermit nwhermit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    My name is Ryan, i love in a sexless marrage. If you havent guessed I'm gay and been arried for ruffly 5 months now and I have had sex just a gathering of 5 times since Feb 28th...
    RY0RY RY0RY 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    My husbands affair last year has been the worst thing ever to happen to me. Even the loss of my dear lovely mum couldn't compare to his affair. You see he was the perfect husband...
    Mylifesover Mylifesover 46-50 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I just really need to get this off of my chest. My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that...
    mills1126 mills1126 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    Tonight is another example of how my husband is showing me that he does not want to be married and/or have a family. He was supposed to come home for dinner. Then he calls me to...
    wendymrtns wendymrtns 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Hi all. I'm just having a really hard time today- I normally just read and read on this site and it helps me alot. I decided to speak up today. I miss my husband so much I want...
    Racquel34 Racquel34 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Husbands sponsor just dropped him. We are super sad over this :( He dropped him because he told my husband they couldn't do step 5 until August! And he wanted to do it now, so he...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    My husband and I have been in a relationship for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each...
    ramonap1990 ramonap1990 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful husband the other night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful husband the other night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My husband and i are in the military. We got married september 30 2013. And a couple weeks after that we got notice of an investigation. A person he had slept with months prior was...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F Jun 30

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    Last night my husband told me he was going to the gym for a couple of hours. This was at about 9 pm. Come 11:55pm I text him to find out if he was done so he could stop for milk...
    txhouswife42 txhouswife42 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I have finally accepted that i have lost what i had for my husband a long time ago, maybe i have held on for so long because i have been scared to be on my own. I know my mental...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jul 3

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    I married when i was really young. I was too young and when I look back now, I married for all the wrong reasons. I married my husband to get away from all the abuse I was getting...
    ayamoiyah ayamoiyah 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I have been married 38 years. I love my husband. He had a horrible childhood. There have been two incidents of my husband getting into a phone/internet relationship with another...
    fearandloathing333 fearandloathing333 56-60, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    For about three years my husband and I have been working with a neighbor (44 year old male) who is a drug addict and alcoholic to try and get him some help. Last night the neighbor...
    CherSr CherSr 61-65, F 13 Responses Jul 12

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    Even thought it was almost 10 years ago, I vividly remember seeing him from across the bar. Don't roll your eyes; this isn't what you think it is. He was handsome and brawny, and I...
    MiscMela MiscMela 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Am finally getting the the point in my life where I can do something to get away from my husband. After 30 years and two terrific kids, it's time to get away from my poisonous...
    Momo2GS Momo2GS 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 13