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I Trained My Husband Thru Orgasm Denial

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    Creative Way To Control Locked Up Sub-hub!

    Hey FEMALE QUEENS AND GODDESSES,I came across a very kinky way to control YOUR sub-hub and make him want YOU even more!!  You should make him buy one of those artificial dolls or half dolls with a plastic *****, and award him with 10 seconds for each ******** he eats(his own or...
    JOSbitch JOSbitch 31-35 36 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Sixty Second Hand Job

    I have always been a premature ejaculator throughout my marriage. This has not been a problem for my wife since she has been able to have other men. She has also trained me to be very adept at using toys, and my tongue to pleasure her. At this point in our marriage, we have...
    MikeLikes MikeLikes 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 7, 2013

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    Denied

    I felt my wife pull aside the covers as she slipped into bed beside me. After years of conditioning, I instantly became hard. Caressing my nipples with one hand, the other slipped down my stomach and began to trace the outlines of my **** pressing against my underwear. She...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    I *** On Schedule - A New Twist

    My wife lets me *** only after I have eaten her to ****** at least ten times. I finally reached my goal last night, but my wife said she was too tired to jack me off. I am forbidden to **********, so I begged her for relief. She said, if you want to *** so badly, get on the...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    I *** On Schedule

    My wife knows that I am more attentive if she keeps me horny. She strokes and teases my **** every night, but doesn't let me ***. Only after I have licked her to 10 ******* will she jack me off. Sometimes this takes more than two weeks. When she finally decides to let me...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Tied And Denied

    I would love to have wifey stare into my eyes, kiss me deeply and passionately , twist and tug on my nipples and dig her long nails into me while I have my hands tied behind my back during her earth shattering org*sm from her lover! There is something so very special about the...
    billycuck billycuck 41-45, M Jul 13, 2011

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    For Women Who Want A Better Sex Life

    I recently talked to a girlfriend about her sex life or her lack of a sex life with her husband. She complained to me that they rarely had sex and when they did it was never long enough or satisfying to her. I listened as she went on and on about how he really didn't seem to want...
    arizonapalerider arizonapalerider 31-35, F 12 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    You Can ***

    My wife called from the bathroom, telling me ***** and present myself to her. I complied immediately and upon entering the bathroom, found her holding a well lubed butt plug. Ordering me to stand by the doorframe, she handed me the plug and told me to hold it behind my back...
    Mrpowell Mrpowell 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    Well Behaved Husband

    My wife has trained me, both through ****** denial and spanking. My wife believes men don't listen well when they have *******. She also says I am too messy and it makes her smell when I *** in her. So basically, I don't get many ******* at all. I have a teenie weenie and can...
    teenieweenie2 teenieweenie2 51-55, M 5 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I have been with my husband since 9th grade. Friends often ask me what's or secret for a long happy relationship. All I can tell them is that my husband is my best friend, we have...
    Blondeblueyegirl Blondeblueyegirl 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    It’s been 12 years since I married my Muslim husband and the road has truly been long and winding, but happy. At the time we got married I was Catholic and had no intention of...
    nuruldeen nuruldeen 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Thank you all for sharing your experiences and insight into this sad, sad, stupid horrific thing we call addiction. Reading all of your stories has been eye opening and I hope...
    hightoolong hightoolong 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    My husband is a functioning alcoholic. He drinks every single day. When he isn't working he starts drinking as soon as he wakes up, usually around 7am and doesn't stop until the...
    gardenlilly1976 gardenlilly1976 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I'm honestly not the type of person who wants to be alone all the time but I've become somewhat of a hermit lately. My husband is an alcoholic and it seems to keep getting worse...
    nikkib3809 nikkib3809 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    The world would be a much better place if women ruled it. Although i believe it going into that direction, there is still a way to go. Our life as a couple and parents has become...
    Humblesissy Humblesissy 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    going thru a separation divorce in near future, had started or tried to start a new relationship but fell thru due to insecurity & long distance . he is out of country. then was...
    aloneagainnaturally2014 aloneagainnaturally2014 46-50, F Aug 12

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    I like being pleasured to the point I ******, I like moaning and letting my juices flow
    chloelou chloelou 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I want to give myself a mind blowing ******!
    epicjoi epicjoi 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 5 days ago

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    December 2012, both my husband and I were questioned for child abuse after we took our child in for a check up and petechiae and bruises were found, but the Department of Family...
    minilule minilule 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    She introduced us when she started working at my workplace. later she told people that she only did that so that she made friends. then she told me that people told her i was...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 11

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    Hello, My name is Amanda .G. and I have one daughter who is 2yrs old with my husband that I've been married to for 4yrs and together for 11yrs. It took us 7yrs to get married and...
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Dear Future Husband, This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been...
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    We had been discussing the possibility of separating for about 4 months. Things were becoming strained between us. We were growing distant and I kept trying so hard to bridge the...
    Navylove19 Navylove19 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful husband the other night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    Had an evening in with my wonderful husband the other night. The girls were away visiting their grandparents so we had the evening all to ourselves. The weather is really warm so I...
    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    My husband's ex has caused us years of hassle - when we met they were still meeting up at her house. Every time he tried to end it with her, she harmed herself and even attempted...
    bebyvee bebyvee 26-30, F Jul 29

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    So, unfortunately as it is with so many of these stories, things are not going much better than when I found this page and started writing my experiences. Not much has changed...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    My husband, Mike, died on May 9, 2001. I was only 24 years old. He was only 26. There's never a day where I don't think about how much I miss him. I met my husband in high school...
    aladynamedkatie aladynamedkatie 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's been almost one week since my husband of 10 years fractured my nose, cheekbone, and black my eye and face. He chocked me out a little bit and I have various bruises on my arm...
    mrsmegnva mrsmegnva 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    My husband of 23 years is a very complex man. He has been this way since I started working after being married for five years. When I entered the work force, it brought out a total...
    3Lia 3Lia 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 26

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    My husband definitely leads, but he doesn't "demand" things from me, so I follow him, not "obey" him. Let me just add that we have a give and take relationship, I want my husband...
    tonyandjendaluz tonyandjendaluz 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 28

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    When I say I submit to my husband, it's usually assumed that I do this because of religious reasons, but that's not the case at all. I believe men and women have different roles...
    tonyandjendaluz tonyandjendaluz 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I really despise my husband. We have been married for over 5 years and I have started to have such angry feelings toward him I could scream. He is an abusive man, he digs into his...
    Anon0526 Anon0526 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 28

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    I'm 44 years old. I have been with my husband for 20 years, 14 married. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. My husband is a raging narcissist. Nothing is his fault...
    ughmarriage ughmarriage 41-45 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Hello Everyone, I have been a widow now,since November, 2013,and I still miss my husband as much as I did,the day he died. I can't listen to live songs,watch love scenes on TV or...
    missyr1970 missyr1970 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I recently caught my husband chatting on FB inappropriately with a woman. Today I found texts about meeting up with ANOTHER woman. These are both women he knows in real life. I...
    justapalebluedot justapalebluedot 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I would feel a lot more secure if I had a child with my husband. In a basic relationship, even the tiniest things can shake the whole foundation. While in a marriage, it would be...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I hate my husband of 20 yrs. I often wish he would just leave or even die, and then feel like a horrible person for wishing for him to die. Not because I would miss him, but...
    shazzy41498 shazzy41498 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    My husband is the best. He was made for me. We met in high school but unfortunately did not get together until 25 years later. We married in 2007 in a Celtic ceremony. Each year I...
    robalsean robalsean 41-45, F Aug 8

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years and married for 5. He has known since the beginning that I wanted children. I have a 17 y/o from a previous relationship and...
    gd78 gd78 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I just found out today that my niece in the Philippines almost got killed by her own dad. She has a very abusive father. My niece run away from their house but so worried because...
    sunshininginme sunshininginme 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    This is a story 10 years in the making. 10 years ago, I met the son of my mother's friend. He had a g/f (wife now - and she was there that night) and I had a b/f (husband now...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I have struggled with my husband's disease for at least 25 years of the 36 we've been married. I never realized that I married into this disease, as I was always the kind of...
    Stndingrl Stndingrl 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 14