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I Tried Online Dating

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    Online Dating...what??? Disaster In The Making!!!!

    i used online dating sites from 2009 to 2012 and i must say that all of them are a joke.the women on there are liers and damaged goods,thats why they are on there.i NEVER met one that was serious.ALL  of them seem to get a kick out of being on there,getting tons of messages and...
    irongrenadier irongrenadier 26-30, M 7 Responses Feb 7, 2012

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    Well, I have been doing it

    since October. Off and on ... I think I just exhausted myself and now I am burnt out. 25 dates( or more I think it's more I lose count) and they all have been .... well let's revise shall we? 1) The disappearing acts... those guys that after insisting so much to go out with you...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 37 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    I hate it. The only thing it accomplished was

    making me feel worthless. You know how many girls say they want "cute" or "hot" guys to message them? Or how many girls complain about "fat" and "ugly" guys messaging them? Well excuse me for not being Prince Charming.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 17

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    I still do online dating!

    Pretty sure it's the only way for me to get into relationships.
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    Not Much Luck So Far!

    First I tried Plentyoffish. After all, it's free, so what have I got to lose... right? Here are a few of the men I met and talked to. 1. Meet Markus (name changed). Markus has social anxiety, so taking a train to come and meet me was a big thing. A very big thing. He was shaking...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 10 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    I am very disappointed.

    Maybe it is my age group. Maybe I am missing out on some important information. Maybe I slept through that lecture. But I didn't get the memo. Here is why : 1- a lot of scammers. Fake profiles. Similar story. Widow, one kid living in another country, works on a high end job...
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 10 Responses May 23

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    Time Is Over!

    Game is over. You got zero score! It could seem weird that I have never had a boyfriend in my life, before last year I met a man online who I had the internet relationship with for the 8 months. Like many of long distance relationships we had no opportunity to meet up and talk...
    SuriPokemon SuriPokemon 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    Once I felt lonely for several years

    and I didn’t manage to find a boyfriend. I tried almost everything including asking strange girls out. But any of my efforts succeeded. So a friend of mine suggested me to register on one of the online dating services. It didn’t matter on what exactly so I randomly picked...
    EfeFarren EfeFarren 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    This sucks and I'm tired.

    .. all the good men are taken at my age....I swear I'm gonna kick the next guy who insinuated sex on the first date...
    SelfishShellfish SelfishShellfish 36-40, F 3 Responses May 20

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    Online Dating Is Reality On Acid

    I tried online on three different sites: match, harmony and pof. Match and pof are hook up sites and harmony is for more serious people. It's not that it was awful or left me scars...although i did meet this one guy with a scar.......moving on..online dating is accelerated...
    Theasianexperience Theasianexperience 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2013

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    Just saying....UGH!!!

    No more!! Lol
    SunnyGrlA SunnyGrlA 36-40, F 1 Response May 25

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    I am currently chatting with three guys on an

    online dating site and I just discovered that guys don't read profile descriptions of girls. Apparently, they just look at your photo and maybe your age and if they think you look okay, they will contact you. They don't care about the educational background, work, beliefs, likes...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahccaa sarahccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    I've tried it once or twice.

    .. It's fun at first But then I start seeing couples out on the street and think: hmm wish I could go do that Or I simply get bored just talking with the person, because I'm more physical. I like kissing and cuddling and watching a movie or going out to eat That's just my two...
    thatcurlyredhead77 thatcurlyredhead77 22-25, F 2 Responses May 26

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    Well,there's not much about dating,

    so i noticed this sector to be busy... I want to ask tip or your take on dating women and if everything just falls on the female selection who will she decide to date,mate,marry down the line and i believe this concern and frustration goes with everybody. This is what i could...
    Peteswords Peteswords 31-35 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I absolutely hate when guys takes their shirts

    off for a picture. Or when they put the middle finger up because they are so "badass". It's not cute. It's immature and it shows that you can't take a decent picture. Same for the ladies. Dressing half naked for a picture attracts the wrong type of man.
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    After being ditched because a guy couldn't wait

    fifteen minutes for me on a date I am starting to ponder how you can spot a nice guy. The truth is, I don't know if you truly can because most people lie. Sad that I know this after only doing this for five months but there you go. But here are some things that truly flabbergast...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 24 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Roll The Dice

    online dating is convenient for a homebody like myself that doesnt get out much. so i'm open to online dating and have learned to accept the risks that come with it. such as:exchanging numbers with a nice looking guy only to call him and discover that he has a major speech...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    The Dating Chronicles

    It’s like a little party, the online experience. I like to think of it as a congenial get-together, but of course way too many have crashed it—it’s not the intimate affair I was hoping to attend, but the reality is there are a lot of us, so it is what it is.   I quickly...
    Quintesse Quintesse 51-55, F 9 Responses May 1, 2012

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    i'd love to, but finding guy whos in my age

    kinda hard, i kept meet the olders.. and it annoys me
    shalleo shalleo 16-17, F 1 Response May 4

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    in my experience online dating doesnt really

    work I used to try and online date when I was about fourteen. only I think to get away from my dad and my experience with him.because I felt that I was horrid and no one could ever love me except my father and sure it made me happy to talk to that person when I could onthe phone...
    aliciastra aliciastra 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    Online Dating...Not The Cure For Loneliness.

    Let's see. What type of story would you like to hear? I have no successful online dating stories. If I did, I most likely wouldn't be on here writing anything at all. I'd be content, with that digital significant other made flesh, in the real tangible world. But that's not the...
    TheDarkTower TheDarkTower 31-35, M 9 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    so I have been talking to a few guys on sites.

    at first, conversation is good. as time goes on, I'm struggling to find conversation. is this normal?
    TearsWW TearsWW 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I've been on many online dating sites

    for almost 3 years now, and still single after then. you'd think for a bi guy I'd atleast find someone out there
    lokistark lokistark 18-21, M May 4

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    I really hate online dating.

    I learned a lot of the "unwritten rules" of online dating the hard way. For men looking for relationship or "friendship" with women, the men are expected to always initiate the conversation. I can't speak for the same experience as my female counterparts, but guys have to...
    JoePianist JoePianist 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 9, 2014

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    What A Waste Of Time And Energy And Money

    i had a friend that was a bachelor his whole life and once in a while he would get down and say how much he wanted someone for a mate. i always had a mate. but i told him he should try internet dating. i thought it sounded like a good idea, kind of mysterious and exciting...
    luckylassie luckylassie 51-55, F 10 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    blindangel92 blindangel92 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    Online dating makes me feel like **** sometimes.

    If I message someone who I find cute, or not necessarily extremely attractive but not horrible, they'll message me for a little while and respond to me with short sentences I can't do anything with. Then they'll just stop, and I feel rejected and it hurts. I've been on two dates...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    My Dating Disasters

    I always mess up on dates so now I really can't be arsed with it all. Nobody screws up more than me. Listen to this My problem was I listened to the "experts" 1) pay her compliments I'm not really a shy person in fact its a job to shut me up so no awkard licences with ME. I met...
    chattychap087 chattychap087 46-50, M 6 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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    The Truth Behind Women Online

    i am  going to share with you some of the things I saw and went through with dating from 2009-2012(i quit as of jan 2012:women are just too hard to deal with)and before you start the jokes,i am not gay and will never date guys.i dont like gays actually.now this is my assesment...
    irongrenadier irongrenadier 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    At first he was the best friend you could ever

    have. 2 years into our friendship online things started to get serious and asked me to be his girlfriend. However, it lasted 10 months and we are just friends now. I never knew how much of a jerk he would end up as. I never knew how people could change. The only reason I haven't...
    internationalkoala internationalkoala 18-21, F 2 Responses May 4

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    it sucked really bad .

    I was expecting to meet pple at my age but nooooo it just had to be 50+ guys . seriously how do they even workout
    Amacey Amacey 16-17, F 1 Response May 4

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    There is something I need to get of my chest

    and I suppose that's what this is all about. I "met" this guy through a very popular online site recently.. Wow. He seemed perfect. Good looking, seemed smart, was athletic, sweet in the beginning. Then, slowly, he started saying things on text that were either highly...
    wingofthebutterfly wingofthebutterfly 46-50, F 11 Responses Apr 5

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    Emergence (The Psychological Trauma Has Set In Redux)

    It’s time. That seems to be the phrase of the week for me. I have been listening to my inner voice and it has been screaming at me. It’s time already. Go. I mean, there is nursing a broken heart, which we have all done at one time or another, and then there is engaging in an...
    Quintesse Quintesse 51-55, F 19 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    I found my soulmate there.

    We are madly, deeply in love with each other.
    Seneya Seneya 22-25, F 3 Responses May 18

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    I met my boyfriend on tinder.

    Wow. I cannot believe I just wrote that. It's kind of surreal still--he's my boyfriend and I'm his girlfriend. It blows my mind sometimes. He recently got back from his hometown and bought me a shirt as a souvenir. I can't express how this small gesture made my heart swell. It...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph 22-25, F 3 Responses May 18

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    Top 10 Rejection Lines Given By Women And Men (And What They Actually Mean...)

    WOMEN I think of you as a brother. (You remind me of that inbred banjo-playing geek in "Deliverance") There's a slight difference in our ages. (You are one Jurassic geezer.) I'm not attracted to you in 'that' way (You are the ugliest dork I've ever laid eyes upon) My life...
    moxill moxill 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 14, 2013

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    I am trying to get to know people I was in a

    long relationship that ended badly and now it has been over for a couple years now and now im trying to move on and date but i havent dated or tried talking to women in so long i dont really know how to talk to them in a message, for example i messaged a girl basically saying...
    rgagich rgagich 22-25, M Jun 27

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    OK... so yesterday night I installed another

    dating app just to give it another try. I'm deceived.... I may look like I'm picky but I can say that 99% of the guys I've seen are totally not my type. First of all, they all seem to be way too cocky, I like simple guys. then 90% of them show pictures of their muscles and that...
    Blackberries Blackberries 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 14

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    Don't think I can get serious relationships

    from a dating app anymore. I'll just check out guys. And I don't like telling people how we met especially the family where I had to lie to my family about that but told some close friends.
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F 6 Responses May 31

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    well its been rough as hell,

    alot of liars and manipulative men out there been taken for a fool twice now. I am looking for a real alpha dominant male but I only get liars. not going to give up though.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 17

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    I met a guy online, only several hours chatting

    online he told me he really liked me, and wanna spend the night with me, and I know all he wants is sex, but I kinda refuse that coz I wanna take my time. And he keeps saying he feels things for me, well, he has no idea where I come from, how old I am, what food do I like, he...
    sallyzhang sallyzhang 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    A met a guy online who was super sweet

    and charming. We talked, text, and video chatted every day for about a week before meeting in person. We didn't click because I thought he was too quiet and shy so I told him he wasn't the right fit for me. He asked for a second chance and I refused. Days later I had a change of...
    Mo2013 Mo2013 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    The Psychological Trauma Has Set In

    This is for Autimom, who has been begging me to write this for months. "The material is just too good she insists. You owe it to me to put this in writing." She's right. She has been a good friend. So, here goes nothing. Well, the first thing you have to do is create the profile...
    Quintesse Quintesse 51-55, F 67 Responses Jan 20, 2011

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    I Tried Online Dating And............

    First off I was in the state of loneliness. I had just got out of the US Army and came home to my wife and beautiful daughters. I was not circulating well back into society. I was drinking heavily and found myself in divorce court before I had put the bottle of booze down. So in...
    3rdbct187thRakkasan 3rdbct187thRakkasan 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    The Only One To Protect You Is You!

    Online Dating - Oh my! LET'S EXPOSE THESE FOOLS! Okay, so I had to explore this form of social media for myself recently...though I've been on the internet for over 20 years...eek! I won't send out my bragging rights, but, let's just say PLEASE LISTEN TO MY ADVISE! You think...
    WaSrD WaSrD 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2012

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