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I Trust and Care Until Given a Reason Not to

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    Once Bitten, Twice Shy.

    Yup, I have had my share of people in my life that I have opened up to, only to be let down and disappointed by them.Once a confidence is broken I never forget.Trust does not happen over night.It is like an Oak tree. It takes much time to grow and flourish.Yet, it only takes a...
    Bronte36 Bronte36 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2012

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    No Matter What

    If i give you my all and care about you even if I dont know you. Trust me it takes alot of guts to trust everyone. I am starting not to trsut alot of people due to I cared for them and they took advantage. I wish people wouldn't take others for granted.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2008

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    I Give Up

    Well to make it short and sweet and to the point I am just giving up on women. I am tired of all the games I feel bad enough about myself as it is I dont need help from another person to make me feel worse it just seems like I am not black enough or white enough or rich enough...
    bushi132001 bushi132001 26-30, M Oct 3, 2011

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    Once

    Trust is a binding pact....once defiled..it can never resurrect..... I can only love you once Though I can give you a second chance My heart can never accepts ignorance I might have innocent mind Naive but hard to find I could never be deaf nor blind Fool me, once, twice or any...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 4, 2011

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    To Trust Or Not to Trust

    I trust until given a reason not to. It's taken me a lifetime to get here. I used to belong to the "No One Is Trusted Until They've Proven Themselves" Group. When someone hurts us we often close down in a hopeless attempt to prevent future pain. I did, until I realized...
    warmsmyheart warmsmyheart 51-55, F 7 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    She Trusted Me

    Fear is self indulgent and destructive... She trusted me... She was open... I held back... She shared... I closed off... Now she is gone... She said, she doesn't trust me...  You never know what you have until it is gone... "Where there is fear there is no...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 10 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    And Sometimes Even After I Do Have A Reason Not To.

    I guess i am just one of those people... the ones that have a hard time letting go? Even after all I've been through with my ex. The pain, the control, the offenses, the abuse... all of it. Even his unforgivable sin of betrayal against me..... I still care. I haven't trusted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 28, 2012

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    Caring and Forgiving

    I'm a pretty caring person. I have empathy for others. And I trust what people tell me about themselves and their situations. I take people at face value, and am not usually suspicious unless their story sounds way too far-fetched. And even when I find out that something told to...
    CagedRaven CagedRaven 46-50, F Jun 29, 2009

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    I'll Trust and Care, But Don't You Dare...

    ...Break My Heart. My very simple rule in friendship and love has been ignored many times....and I won't stand for it anymore.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    There has to be a reason right? For it all... There has to be a reason why I was given x, y, and z and another person was given a, b, or c... Preordained? Fate? Destiny? Luck...
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    I am comfortable here on EP and texting, I just don't want to get any closer. The last guy I met here couldn't understand that, I should have never given him my phone number just...
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    I got married at 19 in 1974. It was a tough adjustment. I admit that I was pampered at home. Last child and only boy, my mom doted on me. So did my dad until something happened...
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    It's so scary to think about how much I care. How much I've let my walls down around you. All I want is to love you, be there for you, and make you happy. I've had to put a lot of...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    trust is something to be earn, for some it takes an instant for others, weeks and some months.... I sadly am in the first category, I tend to trust to easily. I fell in the trap...
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    people except me to tell my life story so easily like things didnt happen that changed me. many people have gone through what i have and are perfectly fine and are happy people. i...
    internationalinspire internationalinspire 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I care, I care. when I love, I love. I'm honest, trustworthy and faithful. Im a one man woman. Why can't everyone have morals?
    missANONYMOUS13 missANONYMOUS13 18-21, F Jul 5

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    My life has been full of crazy coincidences...a lot of them to personal to put here in EP...but there are some and they really get my mind spinning for a while...until i shrug it...
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F Jul 13

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    The people I trust always let me down. I'm tired of hurting, I can't do it anymore. I feel like one more push and I'm over the edge and falling. I'm hurting and no one knows...
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    You asked, "When did you find yourself?" And I simply said, "When somebody loved me." Until now, I didn't realize how true that was. Thinking back, I wasn't afraid of loving him...
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    Today I finally came to the conclusion that I am too quick to give someone my trust. And even though he once made me wonder if completely giving it up was the right choice, I...
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    I trust no one because the one person you trust might turn on you and sometimes you got to watch your back with the people you hang out with and **** but be careful who you help in...
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M Jul 13

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    Im posting this for the ones who hate god, who think god hates certain people, who think those of us who follow Jesus and gods word (bible) are fools. If you take the time to read...
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    I learned the hard way in losing trust in my parents. Last week during an argument, my dad claimed:" I could care less about you, my mom died already, there's no worse feeling. I...
    confusedsoul88 confusedsoul88 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I stopped caring a long time ago but I've never given up on anything until now, it just happens that the one thing I'm giving up on is life
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