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I Trust and Care Until Given a Reason Not to

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    To Trust Or Not to Trust

    I trust until given a reason not to. It's taken me a lifetime to get here. I used to belong to the "No One Is Trusted Until They've Proven Themselves" Group. When someone hurts us we often close down in a hopeless attempt to prevent future pain. I did, until I realized...
    warmsmyheart warmsmyheart 51-55, F 7 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Caring and Forgiving

    I'm a pretty caring person. I have empathy for others. And I trust what people tell me about themselves and their situations. I take people at face value, and am not usually suspicious unless their story sounds way too far-fetched. And even when I find out that something told to...
    CagedRaven CagedRaven 46-50, F Jun 29, 2009

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    No Matter What

    If i give you my all and care about you even if I dont know you. Trust me it takes alot of guts to trust everyone. I am starting not to trsut alot of people due to I cared for them and they took advantage. I wish people wouldn't take others for granted.
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2008

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    Once

    Trust is a binding pact....once defiled..it can never resurrect..... I can only love you once Though I can give you a second chance My heart can never accepts ignorance I might have innocent mind Naive but hard to find I could never be deaf nor blind Fool me, once, twice or any...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 4, 2011

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    And Sometimes Even After I Do Have A Reason Not To.

    I guess i am just one of those people... the ones that have a hard time letting go? Even after all I've been through with my ex. The pain, the control, the offenses, the abuse... all of it. Even his unforgivable sin of betrayal against me..... I still care. I haven't trusted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 28, 2012

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    I Give Up

    Well to make it short and sweet and to the point I am just giving up on women. I am tired of all the games I feel bad enough about myself as it is I dont need help from another person to make me feel worse it just seems like I am not black enough or white enough or rich enough...
    bushi132001 bushi132001 26-30, M Oct 3, 2011

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    She Trusted Me

    Fear is self indulgent and destructive... She trusted me... She was open... I held back... She shared... I closed off... Now she is gone... She said, she doesn't trust me...  You never know what you have until it is gone... "Where there is fear there is no...
    luvmc11 luvmc11 46-50, F 10 Responses Jul 12, 2009

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    I'll Trust and Care, But Don't You Dare...

    ...Break My Heart. My very simple rule in friendship and love has been ignored many times....and I won't stand for it anymore.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Once Bitten, Twice Shy.

    Yup, I have had my share of people in my life that I have opened up to, only to be let down and disappointed by them.Once a confidence is broken I never forget.Trust does not happen over night.It is like an Oak tree. It takes much time to grow and flourish.Yet, it only takes a...
    Bronte36 Bronte36 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2012

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    Too many ******* people take advantage of the trust they're given.
    BrutallyHonest316 BrutallyHonest316 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I have been in my relationship for almost 3 years, with an amzing man, that has never given me any reason to not trust him. we have two kids. we rushed in to things quickly, but we...
    ooomooo ooomooo 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 4

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    I got out of a relationship a while back where there wasn't any trust or respect. I am the type of guy that gets invested in a relationship and will give or do anything to please...
    menke2nathan menke2nathan 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    No job. No income. I do not know what I am ******* to do... Just ready to study BA.. **** life... Trust me,God knows how to screw your life..And let you fix it again..
    Farmerwork Farmerwork 22-25, F 20 hrs ago

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    It seems to be true, in my case (which is as follows): 6 days ago I just stopped posting, updating, what ever you want to call it, just so I could have time to yourself, which is...
    PoeticMute PoeticMute 31-35, M 1 Response 24 mins ago

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    Trust? I don't think I trust anyone
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    When Im In God's great Presence I bow before Him and allow All burdens To be lifted off of my shoulders ! He's deserves ALL the Praise ! Trust him no matter what it looks like
    briannabrib briannabrib 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm just laying on my bed right now thinking about all of the people who I thought cared about me, but when the truth came out, they didn't care one but. That happened a lot this...
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    You ever hear the phrase "I trust people as far as I can throw them"? Well, for me, I don't even bother picking them up. In fact, I just stare at them until they go away. In fact...
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    My trust is earned, not given.
    justsuzy justsuzy 56-60, F 3 days ago

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    I trusted a guy who said he loved me and would be there forever. He knew without a doubt I was the one. He met my family and close friends and i introduced him to my children...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    ⚠️SOS HELP!!!!!⚠️ I had opened my heart to an adult I thought I could really trust. Obviously it didn't work out. What happened was she gave me some advice that I acted on...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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