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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    I really see no point in judging someone else

    without knowing their story. When I see someone who stands out from the crowd or catches my eye, I find them unique actually. How will it benefit you in anyway by pointing out something different about another individual? That's why when people judge me or try to pick out my...
    Sydneysymonem Sydneysymonem 13-15, F Sep 15

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    A very good friend of mine is struggling in her

    relationship and it kills me the things her partner has/is putting her through but she keeps going back. Finally I asked her one day to tell me something positive, something about her partner that made her happy because I have heard all the negative thoughts about this person...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F Jun 1

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    NataliaHeart21 NataliaHeart21 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    Nobody is perfect, and no I really don't judge others because I have a past I could write a very long book about, I know what it's like to be judged, ridiculed and essentially...
    rememberthesunshyne rememberthesunshyne 51-55, F Dec 11

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    "Look in the mirror before you judge others." The following experience is so funny, applies to all of us... So I had to share ;) Have you ever been guilty of looking at others...
    Aryg Aryg 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 30

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    Where you the same person you were five years ago? Neither was I. I like to think of what a person will will be in five years. It helps me judge them less. I hope they will do...
    JeffG1967 JeffG1967 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 20

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    One of my closest friends is gay. And him being gay does not change who he is. Honestly, sexual it doesn't change a person's personality. So please, don't judge someone based by...
    BeYou321 BeYou321 13-15, F Nov 20

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    Who am I to ever judge someone based on who they love? I'm not perfect neither is the person I'm going to fall in love with. Love is blind :)
    jebony jebony 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    That moment when people talk about their relationship, and how it's working so well ect. I really try to be happy for those people, but in truth I just feel like someone is waving...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M Dec 6

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    I love sx here for your pleasure text my ill go to you nyc no strings attach
    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M Nov 27

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    This guy BLOCKED ME!!! I didn't even say something or anything that might hurt him!! I just say "LOL ****, I'M NOT GAINING WEIGHT!" Which means that I'm not gaining weight cause I...
    xxBoyishGirlxx xxBoyishGirlxx 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    Looks are not important to me. I'd much rather be with someone who has a beautiful personality than one with a beautiful face and terrible personality.
    foreversmiling14 foreversmiling14 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    I used to be really shy when I was younger & would never have done this. As I have gotten older, gotten divorced, etc., I sometimes find myself talking to guys in a flirty way...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 7

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    Walk A Mile In Someone Else's Shoes. I once heard a story about a teacher who told all of the children to remove their shoes and place them in a pile then take someone else's...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M Dec 4

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    My third anniversary on EP was in August 2014. I am a bit behind. You know how life keeps you busy. So it is time for me to share what I have learned in this past year. I hope you...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 21 Responses Nov 27

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    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M Nov 26

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    You shouldn't judge someone if you don't know their story or haven't been in their shoes.
    losingNemo losingNemo 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 3

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    Trust me!!!! I don't appreciate being judged!!! I am in no room to judge!!! If every one would swap shoes for a week or so... I bet we'd all be a little less quick to judge...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    I am not here to be judged or to judge others. Every situation has its unique perspective, and until we put ourselves in someone else's shoes, you have no right.
    ughargh4 ughargh4 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 11

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    A girlfriend gave a challenge to her boyfriend to live a day without her. No communication at all and she said if he passed it, she'll love him forever. The boyfriend agreed. He...
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    I am not perfect and I don't claim to be and I don't have all the answers. But this whole thing going on with race and color and it's like what century are we living in 2014 or...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 11

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    I told someone they wrote a great story and I meant it. Their story was great. It was touching and it made me cry. I felt where she was coming from and I was glad that she shared...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 2 Responses Dec 4

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    People should not judge me for they don't know the full story people who have no idea who i am its disgusting tbh
    babytia20 babytia20 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    At first he happen to be caught in her glance, she had not noticed him her eyes were only focused on a friend as they whispered. Then slowly his existence started to grow, her eyes...
    Moonlight94 Moonlight94 18-21, F Nov 27

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    I have been judged more than what is necessary for my lifestyle and drug use choices. Who am I to judge anybody else?
    SlaveToMeth SlaveToMeth 41-45, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    UNKNOWN FAULT Having just returned home from another time zone and totally oblivious to my problems, my Lord and Master was in bed, churning out zeds for all he was worth, smack...
    damselfly damselfly 46-50, F 56 mins ago

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    So I have this nice blue budgie that has recently been widowed (his green husband died). I believe the cause of death was curmudgeonly budgie syndrome. Truth is he was always a...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 46-50, F Dec 9

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    Really?! What the hell is people's PROBLEM?! Get to know the REAL me then judge me! Ugh
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F Dec 5

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    Every Person is Their Own Story!!! I never judge a book by its cover or a person by their looks. The book I must read to know and understand, thankfully people tell their own...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Just a short story that I'm working on it a work in progress LOL Once upon a time in the wild wild West there was a cowboy nobody knew his name they just called him ace when it...
    computerfreak computerfreak 46-50, M Nov 25

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    Even though I haven't started my career as a psychiatrist yet, that doesn't mean I've always been waiting to help others. I've been doing it since I was a little girl. I've always...
    SincerelyLorissa SincerelyLorissa 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    Thats the most pragmatic approach as everyone sure has a reason to do things they do it s just not possible for people to act in some different ways without reasons that too...
    romell romell 41-45, M Dec 4

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    Those judgmental bastards!!! who think they have a right to judge cause they are better. 1: Homophobic bastards 2: Guys who judge people cause you have a wife who is younger than...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    This is one trait I am proud of. Growing up I dated guys for their attributes in humor, integrity, and friendship. My first boyfriend was over weight and didn't play in sports. I...
    sweets383 sweets383 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the world, stimulating progress and giving birth to evolution of the mind. If all...
    realsweetbaby realsweetbaby 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Clue as to what it does and how it is useful. You take more harm than others and have a good laugh while they die. How does this happen? Why is placing factors into durability...
    zhuanghan zhuanghan 22-25, F Nov 23

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    You can't really judge no one cause God said don't judge unless you will be judge some people have it harder then others but everyone have something thats not right in there and if...
    marvel901jones marvel901jones 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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