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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    Knows someone who's SO judgmental

    but don't want to be judged. 😡 seriously. Try to talk to them first maybe they're not so bad after all.
    bubblewarp bubblewarp 22-25, F Mar 19

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    I want to know why people judge others based on their username. Instead of judging them by their username you should ask them what's the meaning behind their username or how they...
    SuicideSmile SuicideSmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I try not to. I am very open-minded and accepting of differences, tolerating and very forgiving. I need more practicing in not judging Taylor Swift since she hurt a friend of mine...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate people who judge because let me tell u this I am in grade 7 and I have learning disabilities so if u judge children like me who have a learning disability this story will...
    Twylitte Twylitte 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I used to judge people.. Until I got to know myself. It is so important to try and see things through other peoples eyes before you judge... At least that is what I learnt
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I love my kids. live is hard with but without them is unimaginable.
    athena1991 athena1991 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I hate it when they judge me just cause I'm in a wheelchair people can be so mean but I just gotta keep my head held high
    Hollybird17 Hollybird17 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    hey when you pointing a finger @ someone Remember your other fingers are pointing back @ you....who am I to judge
    ojeezy ojeezy 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Obviously that's not quite true. I you're into kids I'm going to get pretty judgemental. But as long as it's sane and consensual, whatever floats your boat is fine.
    DepressingDude DepressingDude 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    Your 6 may be someone else's 10 so don't be rude about who people find attractive and about who people love because you don't see what they do. Everyone is someone else's "10...
    cmr426 cmr426 13-15, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Just met my dream girl amazing kisser
    taliaharpaz taliaharpaz 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I hate it when women believe that just because you are a male, you are a horny animal looking to get in someone's pants. Most men aren't like that. We have feelings too!
    richie1601 richie1601 13-15, M Apr 21

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    why do ppl pretend to b something they are not? why they can't show and be who they really are? is it that difficult? I mean on one side their profile says "I hate judging others...
    dreamylife dreamylife 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    People are so driven by looks, body structure...the pretty face.... One doesn't know what is going on that face, whether she is super pretty, looking at her...she takes a lot of...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    Hi, I find it inspirational that so many people can come on here and express their feelings and not be judged for who they truly are. I'm a junior in High School and am looking for...
    Nadine7998 Nadine7998 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I am happy with me and have no need to do or say anything negative to others to feel good about me. my choices are mine alone and I respect others to make their own choices for...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F Apr 27

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    This is to everyone who judges ever one my friend died yesterday because of people judge others people he was my best friend so please just please stop judging others people Intel...
    jeteggleston14 jeteggleston14 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I care what others think if their opinion is of significance to me. Meaning if I care about them. Whether it be friendship, family, or more, if it's a stranger that is being rude...
    Sniper3kitty Sniper3kitty 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    A student saw a homeless man and sympathized him and gave him some money. The next day he saw the man listening to the radio that the man had bought with the money. The student was...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M 2 Responses 44 mins ago

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    **Note: due to character limitations, the full version of this story can only be viewed on the EP website.** Anyone who has read my stories here on EP, knows that I speak...
    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 20

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    Yesterday I read a status on a friends fb complaining about the homeless knocking on his window while he's in traffic, because he has a "nice" car (It's not even that nice). It...
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 6 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    15He looked at the pictures for one last time.His eyes filled up with tears.Delete. Delete. Delete. All of  'em.He picked up his diary and opened a new page. He took his pen...
    ThePeoplesBabyChampion ThePeoplesBabyChampion 22-25 9 hrs ago

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    I'm coming up with this as I go so please don't judge too much or attack me for making errors, thank you. if you are about to go to sleep or are scared easily, even though it is...
    Emenem123 Emenem123 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    This seems to be a bit of an issue on here. People are eager to draw their own conclusions and judge one another based on an undetailed anecdote that was 9/10 written while not...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 Apr 28

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    But when you know the book, and never seen it's cover... It's an odd thing. Update: My friend that wants to marry me settled down. He understands now that he could not just drop...
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    I am a life time nudist .I am also a very broadminded guy and very easy going .I love meeting people from all walks of life and have many varied interests .I wish people would talk...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M Apr 6

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    It wasn't voluntary by any means. I was hanging out with a "friend" in 7th grade; for the purposes of this story, let's call her Jane. She was the only person who would talk to me...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    So, I have taken classes and done independent studies. I struggle with being brought up as your typical Christian. For my kids and society I keep up the image. I can't shake the...
    anonymous1536 anonymous1536 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    eally don't know how to express this but I've actually feel comfortable enough to even post this! My life right now is not as pleasant as it should or could be! I'm a 28 yr old...
    TewTewLove TewTewLove 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 25

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    I really do not get why people treat me the way they do. My kids tell me to **** off when I say I love you, and attack me and call me pervert when I try to give them a hug. My wife...
    EpilepticOne EpilepticOne 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Any criticism you make will eventually be made against you. If you want to criticize others, be prepared to ffor them to scrutinuze you. Jugement has a negative effect. The more...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Dear Switzerland, dear Swiss folksFirst of all, I love you. I grew up here. Even if I wasn’t born here, I can’t help but love you. Despite your occasional quirkiness...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F Apr 9

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    I just want to talk about my life so far. I hope my story is worth reading. I fell in love early on in my life to a married teacher at a Christian school I attended. In this...
    somewearntme somewearntme 46-50, M Apr 17

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    I just read and watched the most adorable story and video on Yahoo News where a woman newly engaged kept trying to be oblivious while trying to show her mom she was engaged. It is...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 7 hrs ago

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