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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    Everyone has their reasons

    for the things they do and we are all shaped by out experiences. It would be too easy to assume I know why people are the way they are and criticise their choices, but it's something I try to avoid. I try to remember that I can't make my mind up about a person until I understand...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    I Agree.

    Problem is from my experiences there is SO MUCH that goes into human beings, they are literally complicated life forms. Its narrow mindedness on MY part to solely judge a human being from what I see without ever knowing the person.Its like you can judge based off of what you see...
    christfukk christfukk 26-30, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    A very good friend of mine is struggling in her

    relationship and it kills me the things her partner has/is putting her through but she keeps going back. Finally I asked her one day to tell me something positive, something about her partner that made her happy because I have heard all the negative thoughts about this person...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Just the other day , I had someone hit me up , pretend to be interested in chatting , even send a pic , and as soon as I gave them a compliment they ran and blocked me. People...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M Jul 17

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    When you go up to someone and call them different, take a step back for a moment and understand this. No one is the same everyone has different fingerprints, taste in music, taste...
    HeatherNightmare HeatherNightmare 16-17, F Jul 7

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    No one truly has the right to judge anyone else because we are all on our own path in life and we do not know what someone else may be dealing with.
    Christy922 Christy922 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    I don't judge people I am No where near perfect I believe that everybody is Beautiful.... but what I don't like is people judging me, looking all into my life like it's for them...
    michaelaelise12 michaelaelise12 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Wow I can't belive this **** peep this I was on the train sitting down a older female sat down the female kept grilling me so I ask miss is there a problem ma she saied yeah people...
    Halfbreed88 Halfbreed88 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I don’t place a high value on material wealth, the quality of someone’s personality is much more important to me
    TimEP TimEP 56-60, M 3 days ago

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    If you want me to give you the real thing no text I'm handsome and you will love it hit me up if your in NYC if your horny I will satisfied you
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M Jul 4

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    I am looking for some one to kick it with someone that is a frk excuse the spelling you know what they mean certain words won't allow. I just broke up with my girl after 7 years...
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    I can't, I'm bi, so it would just be hippicritical.
    DickieG DickieG 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    i never done that and never will
    Thepainlover Thepainlover 22-25, M Jul 14

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    Why do you let them? If you know what your go out and get what your worth and don't let me or the next guy try to stop you. Ima tell you something you already know. The world ain't...
    abbyseaney abbyseaney 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    Or rather I start off not realising, then once I do realise, I continue. For example, tonight I had a gig/jam session and these two guys came and sat at my table (which I was at...
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I seem to always get blocked by people even if they have a reason. Like i know I can be creepy and weird but i'd rather be told a person doesn't want to talk to me then being...
    Jade128 Jade128 18-21, T Jul 11

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    It's a bad habit tbh. I hate when that happens :/
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    We judge others instantly by their clothes, their cars, their appearance, their race, their education, their social status. The list is endless. What gets me is that most people...
    bitchybeck bitchybeck 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I hate how people judge u without knowing who u really are they think u have to be perfect in every aspect to be accepted in society
    sharmake sharmake 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    These days almost everyone says try don't judge and I say that too. But if you think about it, you judge everyone all the time even without knowing it! A lot of people are still...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M Jul 9

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    I don't judge others. I really try not to. I feel like i understand what people go through when they are discriminated against for something. For reasons such as what they believe...
    IndoSavior IndoSavior 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    The Restless Heart of Ones Soul: Trinity Has it been that long since I have set foot upon these great halls of life's chapters? I come not bringing Hope and Faith but thoughts...
    GateKeepersLight9 GateKeepersLight9 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    Sorry but this group is ridiculous. We are all judgemental to an extent, even if we don't want to be. I can honestly say I try not to judge others, but sometimes I do. It's...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I literally never judge :) I like to keep an open mind about everything and try to discover the other persons point of view and wonder how I would react to the situation to help...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I meet many people either in person or online and the one thing I like to do is get to know them. The most amazing thing about meeting people is the process of getting to know them...
    1petitegreeneyes 1petitegreeneyes 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    Really irritates me when people say I haven't lived because of my age and I don't know what it's like to feel depressed. How can anyone judge how much someone feels just by knowing...
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Yesterday I posted a question which many people where asking which was I am wondering if I'm attractive and I thought it was nice so I asked myself I took a picture on the spot and...
    Jasmin1017079 Jasmin1017079 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    i can share my feelings to the fullest,can put my thoughts into words but i have found many people can't...they just confuse others while revealing their thoughts...so far i haven...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    A Blue StoryPassing through a bluish ocean which has a blue sky as its background, seems so beautiful. What a sea…There lies a rough terrain so wide beyond the bank. Also...
    Lwin82 Lwin82 31-35, M Jul 16

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    A Supportive partner is all what you need when you are back from a tiring day at work .Below are my learnings for leading a happy life !Being a supportive partner is one of the...
    Sandy84b Sandy84b 26-30, M 18 hrs ago

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    A million words would not bring things back as they were, I know because I've tried. Neither would a million tears, I know because I've cried. But now I can see the flower upon...
    bitchybeck bitchybeck 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    I struggle telling people about my problems. So, I guess just writing my whole story would be better. Haha, I know it'll be pretty long. I'll just go ahead and say it: my mother...
    BookWonderer BookWonderer 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    All my life I have been judged by people. First let me explain why I was judged. My mother is the victim of Rape. I am a product of Rape. The religion she is in thought that the...
    Lilique Lilique 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I was 14 or 15 ,,I am not really sure but I believe 15 ,,,I had broke up with my girl friend (a short time later became my wife) and I was staying at Mom and Dads ,( my girlfriend...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    I just got blocked by someone who is courage enough to judge me behind a screen even though she doesn't know me and smart enough to know that I'm a liar! Ms Brunette4U your...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    So I need to vent. I am a child of an alcholic. I am fro a dysfunctional background. I really struggle with it as an adult, I struggle with relationships, I struggle with...
    ithappenedtome2 ithappenedtome2 36-40 1 Response Jun 28

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    I grew up in a family without faith. So throughout life I have come up with my own idea of an after life. It is mostly spiritual and has to do with our energy. I have been fine...
    Daisylove612 Daisylove612 26-30, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    There is just something delicious about the knowledge the that my lover and I are foregoing protection and taking that big risky step... the possibilities that we'll end up...
    nascent45 nascent45 46-50, M 7 hrs ago

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    When people said "i wont judge you",i thought they are open minded & never judge people by the profile or by the cover. I hv told them if you want me to stop chat, then i will stop...
    dankko dankko 36-40, M 13 hrs ago

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    And as you walk down the street, depending in which community you are in. You mold yourself into a replica, to be accepted or to be respectful. Theres certainly different code of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 17

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