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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    I Agree.

    Problem is from my experiences there is SO MUCH that goes into human beings, they are literally complicated life forms. Its narrow mindedness on MY part to solely judge a human being from what I see without ever knowing the person.Its like you can judge based off of what you see...
    christfukk christfukk 26-30, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Everyone has their reasons

    for the things they do and we are all shaped by out experiences. It would be too easy to assume I know why people are the way they are and criticise their choices, but it's something I try to avoid. I try to remember that I can't make my mind up about a person until I understand...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    A very good friend of mine is struggling in her

    relationship and it kills me the things her partner has/is putting her through but she keeps going back. Finally I asked her one day to tell me something positive, something about her partner that made her happy because I have heard all the negative thoughts about this person...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    AmarieSkyFlower AmarieSkyFlower 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    But don't most people do it anyway? Admit it
    haileytwerk haileytwerk 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    dont think i do! cause i accept u as u are!
    NeonNicole NeonNicole 16-17, F 4 days ago

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