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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    Knows someone who's SO judgmental

    but don't want to be judged. 😡 seriously. Try to talk to them first maybe they're not so bad after all.
    bubblewarp bubblewarp 22-25, F Mar 19

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    I really see no point in judging someone else

    without knowing their story. When I see someone who stands out from the crowd or catches my eye, I find them unique actually. How will it benefit you in anyway by pointing out something different about another individual? That's why when people judge me or try to pick out my...
    Sydneysymonem Sydneysymonem 16-17, F Sep 15, 2014

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    it is impossible to judge others because I don't know what that person is going through or went through.
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    Doesn't everyone? ... People go around and judge people by what they have done or still do ... You have not one clue of what that persons life is like. That girl that always has...
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    I tend to gravitate towards older men and unintentionally flirt with them. Older men are so sexy to me. I try not to flirt with them.. Or flirt period but it's just too natural to...
    stoplustfuldesires stoplustfuldesires 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    Bored as hell Ladies message me ;)
    frie936 frie936 22-25, M Mar 16

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    Most of the time.I only noticed it when my classmate pull away that pretty girl I was talking to and started lecturing me on 'how to not flirt every single bloody time or else I...
    MrRuth MrRuth 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    dan13732 dan13732 46-50, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just like to complement people. Like, "HEY YOU! YOU HAVE A NICE BUTT!" And so on. I didn't realize complimenting people was actually flirting >.>
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 16-17, T 2 days ago

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    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I do believe that smiling at others can change their negative attitude to a positive one. I have been depressed and others have smiled and spoken a nice word to me and it made all...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 8 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I Used to have a lot of friends.Now? Now everyone is "Too busy" Sometimes a friend outgrows a friend. This can be a horrible lesson to face in life and sadly, some people are not...
    10August1995 10August1995 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 6

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    BrownBeeCa BrownBeeCa 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I think I am a fairly easy going guy who doesnt judge others and gets on with other people .
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't get peoples need to judge others on looks alone . why can't you just talk the person and get to know them before judging , judging gets you know where in life . society...
    girldevil123 girldevil123 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    tornsin tornsin 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I came across this pic and looked at it for a while. I thought of how it sat by itself no other rocks around and I thought of this: The story of Love The quaint...
    FightingPhoenix FightingPhoenix 41-45, M 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is given the same opportunity in life. Some was given plastic spoons some was given wooden spoons & others it was sliver spoons. We all have to stir the pots of our...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    PortiasChampion PortiasChampion 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be...
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    9I wanna write something but I don't know where to begin. And I don't know where to end.And hence the silence.Alright. Since I don't know where to begin today I'll begin the 'story...
    PortiasChampion PortiasChampion 22-25 a week ago

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    I have always been open minded, and non judgemental, people are unique and complex there are so many sides to a person and we don't always see every side , at best they show us...
    holgado holgado 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 17

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