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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    I really see no point in judging someone else

    without knowing their story. When I see someone who stands out from the crowd or catches my eye, I find them unique actually. How will it benefit you in anyway by pointing out something different about another individual? That's why when people judge me or try to pick out my...
    Sydneysymonem Sydneysymonem 13-15, F Sep 15, 2014

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    A very good friend of mine is struggling in her

    relationship and it kills me the things her partner has/is putting her through but she keeps going back. Finally I asked her one day to tell me something positive, something about her partner that made her happy because I have heard all the negative thoughts about this person...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F Jun 1, 2014

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    People who don't even know you and decide to comment on your post then call you a ***** just because you stating a fact. Whatever I guess, if you think I'm a ***** then I guess I'm...
    soon2016 soon2016 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I always hate when people judge others without knowing them. It just ****** me tf off, now I'm not religious but I feel that this is expressed with a quote from the bible: "He who...
    briiiiidgeeeeeet briiiiidgeeeeeet 13-15, F Jan 19

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    I try my best not to become judgemental on others, no matter religious or atheist, nor is my intention to condemn. I do however try to show what I understand through my experiences...
    stephenrko stephenrko 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    I think its wrong to judge those who even you yourself know you are no better than. Everyone makes mistakes that could never be changed and some which could but those chose not to...
    wildberryswirl wildberryswirl 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Really. Tell me what you get from judging others. I'd love to know. I've been judged all my life called a druggie and junkie because I have Tourettes Syndrome (a neuropsychological...
    wolfboy1993 wolfboy1993 18-21 Jan 19

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    All you people who avoid people because you think they are weird or something I hate you guess what we all are weird in a way we al mess up we all have emotions we are not perfect...
    natsufairy12 natsufairy12 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    True enough. Judging somebody by your own standard is never clever. After all. You've no idea what has happened to them in their life experiences that lead them to this point!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I just got blocked by another member. Now I'm wondering: why? I messaged him a few days ago and he responded with "Hey". I saw that message just a few minutes ago and wanted to...
    BiNiceBoy BiNiceBoy 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't think anyone has a right. We live in an imperfect world.
    camillee camillee 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I say If you're not GOD why are you judging
    jovorrism jovorrism 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I try not to judge people but over the Internet I find it easier to judge especilly when people are rude and ignorant. In the real world I don't judge but I find that people judge...
    Rebelscorpio Rebelscorpio 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I feel sad when people not able to hold their emotions and bursting out in tears to their loved ones or their trusted companions when they have that need But at the same time I am...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Honestly , What rights do anyone have to judge another human being. None of us in this world have a similar life.But yet , each one of us judge another. I can understand contempt...
    hira0126 hira0126 18-21, F Jan 5

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    If it bothers you to be judged, it means you can't ignore that inner voice. You're judging yourself. Typically, someone only judges you when they feel threatened. Would you say...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 day ago

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    Its been a year since I last cut... It seemed like a year ago, my life was upside down and *** backwards. I thought a friend here on ep was genuine and sincere...but what he was...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    You know, it is so eazy when some one is spouting out out judgemet about some one or a certain topic for you to return it to them with out thinking. A compulsory urge to give them...
    Jessica7777 Jessica7777 41-45, T 1 Response Jan 19

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    People are stupid. They often jump to conclusions about you without knowing anything about you! Over time, I've learnt that a friendly smile but tight lips tend to serve me best;)
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 19

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    Color of the sky. M: What color beautiful color the sky is showing today! F: can't see I'm blind. Haha M: all these years, I do keep forgetting, it's blue, grey, cloudy, let me...
    BlueSkysAreCold BlueSkysAreCold 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Hello, I am new here. I had something happen to me that I have never seen before and just wanted to talk about. I was beginning to heal from it because of reading other people's...
    Fresh1414 Fresh1414 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am not here to judge. nobody is perfect to judge others. I prefer giving you advice before criticizing or judging anyone
    jenniebaez1992 jenniebaez1992 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I am writing this incase anyone else finds themselves in a similar situation . . . Please do not worry about me, I have been free of this relationship for 7 years now. I am a lot...
    elimarie7 elimarie7 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I work in a weld shop with about 50 people that's including office employees . anyway on with my story . Most of the men I work with are very quick to run others down . This could...
    LTBS64 LTBS64 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I hate being judged and have people make their assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Discarded - Its hard to tell when you have been discarded by the Narcissist because they are physically still present, especially if you are married. The Narcissist goes thru...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 14 Responses 4 days ago

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    My parents, mostly my Dad, ask these stupid, embarrassing, rhetorical, and downright dumb questions. When my Dad asks questions, they seem more like comments on how I should live...
    JamesM93 JamesM93 18-21, M Jan 19

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    Why? Because I know that the most reliable person for me is me. If I let myself down because I didn't achieve a goal, deadline, or a task then it's me that I need to contend with...
    Nyx1978 Nyx1978 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I see some people come here very nice and responds well initially.. But despite having all the good intentions, they become judgmental too fast reaching to conclusions without...
    mimodsp mimodsp 31-35, M Jan 9

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    'What is your problem?' 'Why are you like this?' 'what do you need?' 'dont be like this then no one will like you' many would have come across the above questions right...
    psycruler psycruler 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    If you want to read a story about a 16 year olds life, the ups and downs so far in the few years of experience he has had, then please, feel free to read. The main focus on this...
    Fsfl Fsfl 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    I really wish that i knew how to be who I am without being so misunderstood!!! Why are we perceived by others one way, and within ourselves another. I try to be a good person in...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    My friend Seth in England calls this 'pigeon holing'. Judging someone without really knowing them. It is a hateful and impolite aspect of modern life. If you want to be well...
    Corzomec Corzomec 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just realized that those poor people who sell themselves to whoever demons of everynight. . . Who sells love and their pride and dignity to others for money. And in exchange some...
    CursedRaven CursedRaven 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Reflection: Teach us to listen to all those who gather on EP at any given timeā€¦ This place, Where we can explore our feelings and thoughts, Sometimes our...
    McCannT12 McCannT12 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I guess I've done some major exploring. And I'm a big mix up of contradictions. I'm a Christian. Do I attend church? I haven't in well over a year. I was a pastor's daughter (he...
    Gab1331 Gab1331 16-17 4 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I wish people could look at their selves and point out their own mistakes and not others. They can't just look at someone and say, "I hate that ************."
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F Jan 9

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    Where is the compassion for others? I've spent a while on and off reading various stories on here. The sadness and depression as a result of what others have endured or are...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 20