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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    Knows someone who's SO judgmental

    but don't want to be judged. 😡 seriously. Try to talk to them first maybe they're not so bad after all.
    wildflower1992 wildflower1992 22-25, F Mar 19, 2015

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 13-15, T 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    The same goes for extreme atheists. They're almost more annoying than religious nuts because they don't have a doctrine to adhere to, meaning they're jackasses on their own...
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    there once was a place called EP Where people could share their story Thought I was homeward bound but all that I found Was a place where no one could agree
    EndlessBummerz EndlessBummerz 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I don't expect others to blindly accept me and not have some of their own personal standards. I like to surround myself with people who realize and enjoy the fact that life is...
    ProcessOfBecoming ProcessOfBecoming 18-21, T 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel I am the most Unjudgemental person I know. I don't care if you stink, are rude, have sex with hundreds of people. To me you are just a human and there is a reason for...
    ampedroza ampedroza 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    We all know, or have known someone who will go about their life without the thought of others, and if it is for someone else than usually it is only for the purpose of getting...
    Bluetoxicity Bluetoxicity 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I am in my mid thirties. I have two daughters who live with me. I just finished going through my second divorce, and my heart is pretty broken. Just two weeks prior to her walking...
    JoeGlas JoeGlas 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I just hate seeing someone sad and upset. It breaks my heart each and every time. Usually if I see someone sad and upset I do what ever I can to cheer them up. I know I can't help...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    Everyone is equal and has equal value. Anything about us that can't be sensed through seeing, touching, tasting, smelling, or hearing is imaginary, a story, and not real. Qualities...
    joahola98wj joahola98wj 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The Switch Was Displayed in Public Sometime, when I reached my early teens, my parents decided to add the willow switch to their arsenal of implements. They felt that whatever the...
    phillysteve phillysteve 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I find that some people will add me to their circle without any prior contact and without any subsequent contact either. I find this to be a bit annoying, as I use my circle and...
    rebekahanastasia rebekahanastasia 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 5

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    I am easy to talk to and never judge. I also like knowing that I can talk to people about anything too, it makes for good conversation and friendships.
    naughty1me naughty1me 56-60, M Feb 4

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    That **** spins both ways....no one has any right to judge anyone for being broke just as well as the rich dude getting **** on for having money! It depends on how he earned it or...
    Spitbak Spitbak 46-50, M Feb 3

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    i feel like people with anxiety/depression are left without a rope in terms of working society. It debilitates me in a way that i never knew the full scope of until now. Every job...
    Outoforbits Outoforbits 22-25, M Feb 2

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    Yes I do.. and it gets me in trouble :/ I don't even realize it ...
    lovelee83 lovelee83 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I don't believe ANYONE has the "right" to judge anyone else! And I don't. I may not feel another person's kinks or life style acts are things I'D ever do, but it is their right...
    craverandscarlett craverandscarlett 66-70, M 8 Responses Feb 1

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    There are people who may judge me without even having spoken to me once and there are people who are/were my closest "friends" who judge me too. But in the end, they're not the...
    10786y 10786y 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Okay so today was along day on this site, I have met many people that were on edge quite frankly I don't know what they're going through in their lives that somehow make them...
    FierceFox FierceFox 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    People really like to judge even before they know that person for their true colors. They don't take the time to get to know that person and they just make assumptions about that...
    kimmerzwth kimmerzwth 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    It has gotten me into trouble many a time lol
    polylove0210 polylove0210 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    I find it hard to belive that people are going to just tell you their taboos without knowing you or knowing you share the same thoughts. People would perfer to protect themselves...
    hidden0ne hidden0ne 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 30

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    But even i do judge.. i accept this.. however, in my defence i do take the time and trouble to listen and to consider.. SO i dont just judge without hearing the relevant facts...
    Adaydreambeliever Adaydreambeliever 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 30

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    During psychology class at college we were having a debate on how we perceive people. Baring in mind my college class ranges from people aged 19-40, ALL of the older people said...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I love meeting new people and learning about their backgrounds and values. I'm not a religious person, I wasn't brought up that way. But i'm a good person who cares about others...
    chloe217 chloe217 26-30, F Jan 29

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    The Cold Within by James Kinney Six humans trapped by happenstance In bleak and bitter cold. Each one possessed a stick of wood Or so the story?s told. Their dying fire in need...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    No offense to older people I know they aren't all like this but the people on this website who judge me the most are older like 60+. If I'm not rude to you there is no reason for...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Okay well I won't judge u probably! Lol I try not to be a judge mental person by any means but sometimes I can't help it. When people are purposely and knowingly hurting others...
    KaClovesU KaClovesU 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    How can you see into my eyes Like open doors? Leading you down into my core Where I've become so numb Without a soul My spirit's sleeping somewhere cold Until you find it there...
    IEATDICKS IEATDICKS 70+, T 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I found this silly personality test on Rutterman's profile and thought it was kind of interesting...and just fun to do, since I found myself answering the questions for myself...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    Before you judge others make sure that you are perfect. But since you judge others, even though you can not know everything about their lives, you can not be perfect.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind 31-35 1 Response Jan 26

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