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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    I Agree.

    Problem is from my experiences there is SO MUCH that goes into human beings, they are literally complicated life forms. Its narrow mindedness on MY part to solely judge a human being from what I see without ever knowing the person.Its like you can judge based off of what you see...
    christfukk christfukk 26-30, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    I really see no point in judging someone else

    without knowing their story. When I see someone who stands out from the crowd or catches my eye, I find them unique actually. How will it benefit you in anyway by pointing out something different about another individual? That's why when people judge me or try to pick out my...
    Sydneysymonem Sydneysymonem 13-15, F Sep 15

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    A very good friend of mine is struggling in her

    relationship and it kills me the things her partner has/is putting her through but she keeps going back. Finally I asked her one day to tell me something positive, something about her partner that made her happy because I have heard all the negative thoughts about this person...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F Jun 1

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    Where you the same person you were five years ago? Neither was I. I like to think of what a person will will be in five years. It helps me judge them less. I hope they will do...
    JeffG1967 JeffG1967 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm not really flirting with people. I'm just being myself and being nice and to most guys that means A) I like them B) I want them C) I find them attractive D) I want their...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    One of my closest friends is gay. And him being gay does not change who he is. Honestly, sexual it doesn't change a person's personality. So please, don't judge someone based by...
    BeYou321 BeYou321 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    Who am I to ever judge someone based on who they love? I'm not perfect neither is the person I'm going to fall in love with. Love is blind :)
    jebony jebony 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I guess I am guilty of flirting without realizing it because every time I go out guys always ask me for my phone number
    Taumilynn Taumilynn 36-40 1 Response Nov 3

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    I'm a total flirt but I don't mean it 🙊🙈
    LisaMannion LisaMannion 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    i have a history of making history ?
    shubmm shubmm 18-21 Oct 31

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    They think I'm flirting when I'm being kind or trying not to be rude to someone.
    CM04 CM04 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 31

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    Kindness is so rare now that it is mistaken as flirting
    mikeman1414 mikeman1414 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    Sometimes just smiling & politeness gets you into trouble! I once had an older friend of my boyfriends family get really freak mad at me because he approached at a gathering & I...
    AsteriasAura AsteriasAura 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 31

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    There was this one time where I was talking to a old friend of mine and I had caught him blushing A WHOLE LOT and when I was done my friends went up toe and I said what was all...
    ghostbeautiy ghostbeautiy 13-15, F Nov 2

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    I honestly don't care about it. You love who you love.
    ALostSiren ALostSiren 13-15, F Nov 2

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    What good will it do ? Bashing them won't make your life suck any less.
    Fallenprinceofthedarkside Fallenprinceofthedarkside 18-21, M Nov 17

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    You will never find the true me if you judge me without knowing me.
    MrIndeed MrIndeed 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 28

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    Maybe hate is too strong; how about intense dislike. I try hard to not judge others. I make it a point to state what I think without labeling or calling names. I expect the same...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 7 hrs ago

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    I used to be constantly judged. I still am but not at the same magnitude. I do not hate those who judge me or even blame them. We all judge people. Even if we subconsciously go to...
    chaoshead chaoshead 13-15, M 8 Responses Oct 28

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    One thing that sets me off is someone who throws judgments and insults at me without knowing a factual thing about me.
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    So why is it that there are people in the world that think they have somehow earnt the right to judge others? Im assuming they think they are right as in correct about all the...
    dazedandconfused14 dazedandconfused14 46-50, M Nov 17

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    Trust me!!!! I don't appreciate being judged!!! I am in no room to judge!!! If every one would swap shoes for a week or so... I bet we'd all be a little less quick to judge...
    Coffeetyme Coffeetyme 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    A girlfriend gave a challenge to her boyfriend to live a day without her. No communication at all and she said if he passed it, she'll love him forever. The boyfriend agreed. He...
    LoveHadassah LoveHadassah 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Seeing someone cry make some want to know their story. I want to rob all the banks in the world to help them. I want to invent the cure for cancer or find world peace. But it's...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    Why ? ..................... because it would simply show the reasons for joining that group and their own experience. Okay, I have a few experiences/groups that I have personally...
    manslip manslip 56-60, M 5 Responses Nov 4

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    Everyone morning I get up, take the bus, take the train, take the undeground to go to university. Everyone morning I realize that people barely look at each other and that no one...
    SmallGirlOne SmallGirlOne 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    My high is helping others dig up their own potential.
    InfinitelyCurious InfinitelyCurious 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I'm sorry I'm no silicon barbie doll. But I've got all the right junk in all the right places. 😂🙌 I know I'll be judged based on my look But inside I am an open book So don...
    kittyAloha kittyAloha 18-21, F 5 Responses 22 mins ago

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    I do believe in helping others. Here's what is happening after 4 years of caring, listening and helping a friend. I believe i am being lied to. In a big crazy story. The friend is...
    pennekerosa pennekerosa 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yes I said it. Growing up I was always afraid of judging people but realized that I was really good at understanding the motives of others. Whenever I exposed others on their...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Nov 11

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    “I call this an amazing life we’re all living.”Possessed By Paul JamesIt’s sweet and bitter, constantly felt and occasionally understood. The foundation of...
    GoodSignMan GoodSignMan 26-30, M Oct 28

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    MY STORY: Oh, gee, where to start. I have had a good, godly life soon to be surpassing 15 years. God is the creator of the universe, and every single thing in it; God is eternal...
    adventurernumber1 adventurernumber1 13-15, M Nov 1

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    Why society often judge you on your appearance. Even your own friends and family. I hate it when people use sarcastism to make they feel better. Even if they are pretty smart tall...
    zeeqah zeeqah 18-21, F Nov 9

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    I know this girl who always judges other girls without even meeting or knowing them. I know everyone judges, we can't help it, but our opinions change, hers, however doesn't seem...
    RandomPersona247 RandomPersona247 13-15, F Nov 16

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    Empty Bowls...The day after Thanksgiving is my favorite day of the holiday season. It is the annual event of "Empty Bowls" to benefit the Idaho Food Bank. Throughout the year the...
    Kathieredart Kathieredart 56-60, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Thats right. I never judge people cos we are all human and we are all people. We all also do mistakes in life too. I don't care about race, religion, sex, belief, age or anything...
    OKPunk OKPunk 18-21, M Nov 3

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    I've given advice and given many pep talks to my friends when they're in a tough situation. They all have many different stories and their families are very different. I always...
    charcoaldove charcoaldove 13-15, F Oct 29

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    Everyone can't cope with issues in their lives properly. I dislike it when someone judges someone by something they did that was led by emotions. We are all different. We get angry...
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 2

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