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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    Knows someone who's SO judgmental

    but don't want to be judged. 😡 seriously. Try to talk to them first maybe they're not so bad after all.
    bubblewarp bubblewarp 22-25, F Mar 19

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    not sexually. this is what i mean. written by james dobson: "Real intimacy makes us feel alive like we've been found, as if someone finally took the time to peer into the depths...
    cosmosdrift cosmosdrift 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Watching Inside edition this evening after the Bears game, I was deeply moved about two things. 1. Napa Valley Wine Train Tours kicked off 11 women of African descent due to...
    UniquelyMade1 UniquelyMade1 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    Before you judge me in a negative way you probably ought to take some time to get to know me first. Why is it that so many people look at a person and judge them negatively without...
    olivia81401 olivia81401 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Shocking headlines from Italy. The world was horrified. What will those crazy Italians do next. A social worker was found to be involved with a 13 year old and the judge dismissed...
    evenelfe11 evenelfe11 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Don't know whether it is a good or bad thing, like i'll be on a night out and one of the girls will say "you're so flirty, you're really confident" And i'm here like, "Really? Me...
    MikeBrin MikeBrin 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    There is no point in hating on others, so why should I judge people? I obviously wouldn't want anyone judging me...
    Moepoki Moepoki 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    i have sex appeal but i dont try,men are just weird
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    Midnight...driving through the empty streets of my neighborhood...the sky pitch black...clouds cloaking the stars, making them invisible...I turn on the radio...and I am suddenly...
    badassgirrrl badassgirrrl 41-45, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I kinda hate seeing people happy with others. As selfish or inconsiderate as it may sound it kinda makes sense and happens to most of us, Seeing others happy and kinda makes some...
    Setheras Setheras 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    Or sympathized, I realize what has happened in my life, I know who I am and I'm proud of how far I've come, even knowing how far I've got left to go! (: No matter what people say...
    ToopeBy ToopeBy 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    At time's I can't be myself because everyone takes it the wrong way. Why can't I love myself, smile, be happy, touch my leg, face, look in the mirror without you thinking that all...
    Kstapleton1010 Kstapleton1010 31-35 5 days ago

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    It's not my fault. And when I intentionally flirt I stutter actually STUTTER. *facepalms*
    HiIAmHana HiIAmHana 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Oh gosh yes !!! And man do they stank!!! ..... Oh flirt Lol ok :)-
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    it just sort of...... . . . happens...
    froofykittenxoxo froofykittenxoxo 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    not on purpose, it jus comes out that way.....ooops, my bad kmsl
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 5 days ago

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    I am incredibly sad and lonely. We moved across the country so that we could be near my husband's children and grandchildren. Instead, I've been shunned. I don't know if it's...
    jennifr1966 jennifr1966 46-50, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    To any individual who is quick to judge oneself, are the people who feed off of actions, making their own look like pure gold. It only takes one person to look down upon and it's...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    To any individual who is quick to judge oneself, are the people who feed off of actions, making their own look like pure gold. It only takes one person to look down upon and it's...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I have no idea why I come off as a flirt literally all the time well. ..only to guys but I don't do anything kinky or raunchy and to make matters worse he's my boss.But I've only...
    Darkprincess24 Darkprincess24 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    and i found a brother.... this story is for somebody who matters so very much to me! when i joined my work place i had contact or anything with this guy who was always silent...
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F a week ago

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    That's what I thought. If someone is interested in becoming my friend, I immediately judge whether they are able to hold my attention with at least mildly intelligent conversation...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    Providing you have a healthy sexual preferences and nothing along the lines of ****** or underage fetishes then your sexuality is your business. I am a straight male and I support...
    GenuineGentlman86 GenuineGentlman86 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I'll try to make this short and simple for those of who do not like to read long paragraphs. I'm writing my story because it has been locked up inside of me for so long. I want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 23

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    They're are many different types of people in the world. Who am I to judge? I wouldn't want people always commenting on me, so I try not to do it to them. I can't promise I won't...
    butterfly4558 butterfly4558 13-15, F Aug 22

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M Aug 22

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    This bugs me, take the time to form a friendship, share some awesome moments together and without a word, they are gone just like that, no good byes no explanation. You check your...
    AwakenEdge AwakenEdge 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Well maybe that's not quite the reason I dont judge others, though I am definitely not perfect. I don't judge because rarely do we ever know what it is like to walk in another's...
    Friendlygirl84 Friendlygirl84 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Born into an abusive family. My father was physically and verbally abusive and it never let up until one day he was arrested. My mother, of course, stayed with him because she didn...
    Liftofferik Liftofferik 26-30, M Aug 22

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    I can't believe what I used to do to feel. But at the same time it was to take away to feelings. Does that make any sense? I used to smoke weed to feel happy and get giggles...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 18-21, F Aug 21

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    Im so angry. That people who are ABLE to help others in need just dont want to. Whether theyre selfish or whatever the reason it ****** ME OFF. I wish I had my own place/means of...
    purplegirl3111 purplegirl3111 22-25, F Aug 20

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    I'm an almost aggressively opinionated person. As a staunch atheist, far left feminist, and a very outspoken out homosexual I think rights of the minorities is the equality most...
    SolarusXD SolarusXD 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 20

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    That's a lie, I will judge you. based off of your attitude, personality, actions and your words I'll judge you. No I want condemn you or hurt you but I WILL judge you - anybody who...
    MummifiedCatLady MummifiedCatLady 22-25, F 41 Responses Aug 19

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