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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    A very good friend of mine is struggling in her

    relationship and it kills me the things her partner has/is putting her through but she keeps going back. Finally I asked her one day to tell me something positive, something about her partner that made her happy because I have heard all the negative thoughts about this person...
    GreenEyedFox GreenEyedFox 22-25, F Jun 1

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    I Agree.

    Problem is from my experiences there is SO MUCH that goes into human beings, they are literally complicated life forms. Its narrow mindedness on MY part to solely judge a human being from what I see without ever knowing the person.Its like you can judge based off of what you see...
    christfukk christfukk 26-30, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Everyone has their reasons

    for the things they do and we are all shaped by out experiences. It would be too easy to assume I know why people are the way they are and criticise their choices, but it's something I try to avoid. I try to remember that I can't make my mind up about a person until I understand...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    I really see no point in judging someone else

    without knowing their story. When I see someone who stands out from the crowd or catches my eye, I find them unique actually. How will it benefit you in anyway by pointing out something different about another individual? That's why when people judge me or try to pick out my...
    Sydneysymonem Sydneysymonem 13-15, F Sep 15

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    Related Experiences

    Just the other day when I logged into this 'service' for the first time ever, I was judged by a person (within an hour of My 1st post) to already be a pervert, and was told I...
    BernieBB BernieBB 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 7

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    The only reason people judge others is because they are too caught up in ur insecurities that their insecurities take over them. So all these " popular" are just bullies who bully...
    breannabmk1023 breannabmk1023 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I don't mean to do it! It just comes naturally to me. It's not just men that think I'm flirting with them it is also women. You would be surprised at the number of problems I have...
    lorem0313 lorem0313 26-30, F Oct 1

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    Being nice and friendly means I'm a big flirt and tease. Easier to be a ***** most times I think lol
    reeessa reeessa 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Honestly im just being nice to people and i guess it comes across as flirtasious... Oh well.
    Pingu113 Pingu113 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 1

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    I keep getting blocked and I don't know why. I haven't done anything wrong.
    Keespanker Keespanker 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    So I'm new to the great state of Arizona and I've noticed some interesting things about this state. I would like to talk with anyone currently living in the state or recently...
    KennD KennD 41-45, M Oct 9

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    My friends always tell me that I'm a flirt, but I never notice. Like, I don't twirl my hair or anything like that. But I guess I unintentionally flirt xD
    LexyMarie LexyMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    Any one up for a flirt or just said pics
    luke1555555 luke1555555 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    I adore him he's my silent cutie but I ain't in competition for his **** with trash.......my cousins howl with laughter every.week Be my guest. ...haaaahaaaa
    optimustufftoday44 optimustufftoday44 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    I probably haven't crossed his mind since I moved, no that I did before I moved
    itsjustme11119 itsjustme11119 16-17, F Oct 15

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    But truth is, I don't know the person. I don't think any of my classmates know what his real name is. Everyone, even the teachers, calls him Shadow. It fits him well, though. He's...
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    One of the aspects i love the most about EP is the ability to search through stories, and find those who are brave and humble enough to admit they feel hopeless, depressed and...
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 7 Responses Oct 15

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    I am not one who judges others, if anyone needs advice on any matter just ask and I will see how I can help
    ziroks ziroks 22-25, M Oct 9

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    Ones that are strong and alone and not needy towards others I can never fathom the idea of being alone I'd rather die than be abandoned, hate or ignored. True strength comes...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F Oct 10

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    I'm like a baby, I want attention a lot of attention and is very insecure. I don't know who I am, I want you to tell me. I'm shallow and wanted to be with someone I find hot and...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    There are some things you'd want to know obviously. But everything? No. It would just ruin your sense of imagination and creativity. There'd no longer be those questions in your...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Like myself and others we all have stories to share. Take the time and talk to the eldery and others. Listen learn and love others as we all share space here and have trodden...
    uncorkyoursoul uncorkyoursoul 56-60, M 5 hrs ago

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    Ya I make mistakes...I am human...we all do...maybe not to same level or anything but we still make them...but what really gets me is that people that don't even know me or take...
    CanadianFunk CanadianFunk 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Can't live life without helping to create one!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 4 hrs ago

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    Some of the people are underaged who have knowingly done so to acces adult chats with people ,,but young kids dont realise it will only harm them and most adults will come to know...
    romell romell 36-40, M 9 hrs ago

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    Trust me. You are better off NOT knowing! What are you supposed to do with the information anyway??? Lose sleep? Create enemies? Have people irrationally hate you?? Believe me...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 4 hrs ago

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    Hi friends... Been long since I wrote an article here. Its been so much joy sharing with you, reading your beautiful pieces of writing that have left me challenged, wanting to be...
    traya15 traya15 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I read a post this morning and it jogged my memory and I felt like sharing this story in hopes that it may inspire someone to go against the "grain" of social status and stick up...
    cici0307 cici0307 18-21, F 11 Responses Oct 14

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    The young liar She lied ever since she could remember, the very first word is a lie. Because she knew from the very moment she is born that she carries all the hopes and dreams of...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F Oct 16

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    I was born in a man's house and about a year later, I was sent to the village to my maternal grandmother. This is a story I grew up to hear. My grandmother was living in a very...
    stanlis stanlis 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I do not judge and dont like being judged as well. I am what I am. So if you want to talk freely without being judged you are welcome and I would expect the same from you.
    darkdesires33 darkdesires33 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Okay so there was once this girl. Lets say her name was....Sunny. and sunny was very small and quiet so she got ignored a lot. No one in her family really paid any attention to her...
    bored25123 bored25123 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    You Got Honged (repost)... I originally posted this under I love Hongruilin last Dec. I am reposting here because we miss her for the same reasons we love her EP Link When I...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 14

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    Dear Readers, On this page I will attempt to grab the attention of as many readers as possible. My goal is to entertain with my writings. I am not exactly sure where my mind will...
    mejc mejc 51-55, M 2 hrs ago

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    When I was visiting Israel with my dad and 15 year old daughter last April to visit friends and sight-see for 10 days, I never imagined I would be returning again so soon. But...
    edr567 edr567 26-30, M Oct 8

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    Everyone is guilty of comparison to others. After a little lesson I learned in youth group and a good fasting I realized three things 1) I compared myself more than I thought in...
    directorskittish directorskittish 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    We all judge people I understand that. What I hate when I say judge.. I mean.. being misunderstood. Being misjudged because of someone's assumptions & prejudice. After a long...
    Noobzz Noobzz 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    It gets on my nerves. There was once a time when none of us knew anything and that's why you have to learn. Sometimes people learn things later than others and those who know...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Sep 26

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    I hate how some people smoke or drink or do drugs eat extremely unhealthy. I know a lot of it is either their choice or something they can't control I won't judge some one by it I...
    singledaddy101 singledaddy101 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    You know. This is suppose to be 'Experience Project'. And all I've ever seen was people judging others of what they say or what they've been through. I'm that person who won't...
    SarahLouise98 SarahLouise98 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 5

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