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I Try Not To Judge Others Without Knowing Their Story

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    I Used To Do This All The Time

    When I was in high school, I judged other people all the time. Now that I have more life experience, I realize how wrong I was. People always judge me without bothering to find out what I've been through. "You shouldn't have quit your job at Wendy's." It was giving me panic...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Sep 25, 2013

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    Cindy

    There is a girl in my class always getting picked on because she doesn't shower enough.. And at one time i was one of those people that picked on her and bullied her.. She was a little over weight so i called her fat.. and i called her stupid.. But that was only in front of my...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Feb 5, 2013

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    Knows someone who's SO judgmental

    but don't want to be judged. 😡 seriously. Try to talk to them first maybe they're not so bad after all.
    bubblewarp bubblewarp 22-25, F Mar 19

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    2 People Are Spying On Me?

    I just got this message saying that 2 people are spying on me. They are being traced now. Who wants to follow me really? Of all the people on EP, it is funny. I do wish to talk a bit of the nasty pervs here on the EP and why I block them. It just never interests me what they do...
    musicinme musicinme 56-60, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Heart (But Not The Singer)

    Tell me whatever story u wish, (just don't expect me not to react, I might get angry with whoever hurt u, sad about whoever u lost, etc...) but I WILL Listen with ALL my heart. I am the Greatest Friend u will ever Find in this or ANY lifetime, regardless of what 2 certain...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    We Don'T Know Anything

    There are lots of things about people we cant see. Their culture and upbringing has a lot to do with the decisions people make, and thats rarely something we get to see. I dont know what people have been through, so I try to not judge and if I need to know more, I ask. I always...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    I Do Not Judge.....

    I do not judge people regardless...but what helps me out is when i see them act in a paticular behavior, and then learning what kind of past they come from....helps me understand them better, and then i can gage them better...but judge anyone no...who am i to judge anyone, or...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 15, 2013

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    It'S A Difficult Thing To Do.

    I am not sure people judge me and I don't know how my story has shaped me, but I do have one. I don't use it as an excuse. In fact it's remarkable.
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Just Because Its Funny.

    A few years ago I lost my grandmother, that same week my boyfriend of a few months dumped me. Obviously I was more effected by the death of my loved one. As I walked into class some girl I absolutely loathed said something snide about me being a depressed ***** because Id been...
    Canadianwithirish Canadianwithirish 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I try not to. I am very open-minded and accepting of differences, tolerating and very forgiving. I need more practicing in not judging Taylor Swift since she hurt a friend of mine...
    neverendingfairytale2 neverendingfairytale2 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I hate people who judge because let me tell u this I am in grade 7 and I have learning disabilities so if u judge children like me who have a learning disability this story will...
    Twylitte Twylitte 13-15, F 2 Responses May 4

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    Why do we judge people based on their appearances? So what if that person's nose is big? They can't help the way they were born. Or if their teeth are crooked. Some people have to...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12

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    This is referring to my I am a teenage lesbian.... People are going around assuming things and so on and so on.... I'm being diverse with my writing. Most of my writing is dark...
    LeahLoveeU LeahLoveeU 13-15, F 1 Response May 12

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    He zipped up the back of my dress... At this band competition, I had to change in the school bus along with other students. Girls wore their dresses over their clothes and they...
    Garcinia Garcinia 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    hey when you pointing a finger @ someone Remember your other fingers are pointing back @ you....who am I to judge
    ojeezy ojeezy 22-25, M 1 Response May 2

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    Your 6 may be someone else's 10 so don't be rude about who people find attractive and about who people love because you don't see what they do. Everyone is someone else's "10...
    cmr426 cmr426 13-15, F 1 Response May 5

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    Some dude was checking me out while I was loading my laundry into the washing machine. This happened at a Laundromat obviously. At first I thought he was a punk looking for...
    teenotes teenotes 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Enslaved Part One: Creation For any story there is will always be two sides, Good and evil. Be it history, child’s story, legend or myth, there will always be the two sides. I...
    crazykid100 crazykid100 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    People are so driven by looks, body structure...the pretty face.... One doesn't know what is going on that face, whether she is super pretty, looking at her...she takes a lot of...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 23

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    It's so true...Why do people feel the need to judge others? Is their own life not enough for them to manage, where they feel the need to try and critique someone else's ... just...
    TyrannosaurusRexx TyrannosaurusRexx 16-17, F May 11

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    Hi, I find it inspirational that so many people can come on here and express their feelings and not be judged for who they truly are. I'm a junior in High School and am looking for...
    Nadine7998 Nadine7998 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    with a smile on my face , i ll be helping you . you wont be a burden , you wont be a waste . i ll go with you wherever you seek , till you rach your point , till you reach the land...
    sam1992really1 sam1992really1 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I am happy with me and have no need to do or say anything negative to others to feel good about me. my choices are mine alone and I respect others to make their own choices for...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F Apr 27

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    Growing up as a boy i grew up in a home of neglect and constant arguments. At school I had very intense physical and verbal abuse without knowing the true meaning of a friend...
    jking21 jking21 18-21, M 1 Response May 9

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    Your age doesn't define how mature you are, your grades don't define how intelligent you are, and judging someone doesn't define anyone but yourself. Be an encourager, because...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    This is to everyone who judges ever one my friend died yesterday because of people judge others people he was my best friend so please just please stop judging others people Intel...
    jeteggleston14 jeteggleston14 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 29

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    And I'm usually curious to find out more about that other side... A story can't be made sense out of without knowing every little detail, right?
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There is a news story I am reading on Yahoo, very controversial. A woman is suing her ex-employer's company for firing her for removing a tracking device they install on the...
    neverendingfairytale2 neverendingfairytale2 36-40, F May 13

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    I've seen some pretty snobby, inconsiderate, and rude *** comments on some peoples stuff. But let me just say... IF YOU ARE ON EP YOU DONT REALLY HAVE A PLACE TO JUDGE OTHERS...
    Gabbysam Gabbysam 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    I care what others think if their opinion is of significance to me. Meaning if I care about them. Whether it be friendship, family, or more, if it's a stranger that is being rude...
    Sniper3kitty Sniper3kitty 18-21, F 1 Response May 2

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    If I have adopted a Chinese child I would tell them they are Chinese show them books and say 'good luck reading' I would not insist on them knowing their culture. But dont look...
    Sullan Sullan 36-40, M May 12

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    How can someone go from saying you are their everything to treating you like absolutely garbage. The constant mood swings in this relationship are unbearable right now. I don't...
    allthatglitters101 allthatglitters101 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Why people have to: _look down _And Judge someone. If they are really good people,They will not spend their time to judge someone or talk behind someone back. I think people like...
    Frozzen Frozzen 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I HATE GOD! What has God ever done for me? I’ve never killed anyone. I’ve never raped anyone. I’ve never robbed a bank or stolen a car. Yeah – I’ve hurt a few...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This seems to be a bit of an issue on here. People are eager to draw their own conclusions and judge one another based on an undetailed anecdote that was 9/10 written while not...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 Apr 28

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    That's all I ask. If you want to judge me after getting to know me, go ahead. But don't just start right off the bat without even knowing me. I'll always take the time to get to...
    DanDeCaro DanDeCaro 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I would like to consider myself nice and friendly. I don't judge and I like to give people a chance. I'm not perfect either I'm weird,Crazy,not the prettiest rose in the pot,I cry...
    ItsJustRebecca ItsJustRebecca 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    Do not judge me, my friends. It has been a long week and my underwear, it chafes.
    sensualromantics sensualromantics 36-40 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    we are told to live in unconditional love at least in my world of healing and spiritual practices unconditional meaning i give without judgement and expectations and I give myself...
    livingtruthfully livingtruthfully 36-40, F 3 Responses May 7

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    eally don't know how to express this but I've actually feel comfortable enough to even post this! My life right now is not as pleasant as it should or could be! I'm a 28 yr old...
    TewTewLove TewTewLove 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 25

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    I really do not get why people treat me the way they do. My kids tell me to **** off when I say I love you, and attack me and call me pervert when I try to give them a hug. My wife...
    EpilepticOne EpilepticOne 31-35, M 1 Response May 2

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    Any criticism you make will eventually be made against you. If you want to criticize others, be prepared to ffor them to scrutinuze you. Jugement has a negative effect. The more...