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I Try to Be Kind to Everyone

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    Kadona Kadona 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 4

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    I am so very tired of being hurt by people I

    care about. I want to know how to detach from people and shut off my feelings. There must be a way. Any advise?
    NotSoPerfect777 NotSoPerfect777 41-45, F 22 Responses May 17

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    Vumsy Vumsy 22-25, M 6 Responses Apr 16

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    The other day my mom

    and I were walking out of MOA and this old lady was having trouble with the doors. My mom walked right by her and gave her a dirty look. I stopped and held the door for her and asked if she needed further help. She said she couldn't find her car. It was cold and dark out so I...
    Justanothergirl2000 Justanothergirl2000 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    I would just like to take a moment

    and thank all of the nice and considerate people on here who make people's lives better. People who take time out of their lives to be supportive and caring for someone else. I just feel like those people are not thanked enough, so thank you!
    chris1225 chris1225 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    tiya78 tiya78 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    Sometimes I look back into the darkness

    and I see others. They're just as lost as I was, trying to find a way out and wondering if one even exists. I try to help them but, for those trapped the darkness, the light seems like a lofty dream. No matter how much I assure them that there really is a way out, it's almost...
    dynosophical dynosophical 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 14

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    I'm sick of being the girl

    that gets made fun of, set up, played, cheated on, and just plain out embarrassed & humiliated by people. I'll sit there and laugh it off or just smile and walk on at school and when I get home I'll cry. They constantly bully me about my weight and it's getting old. I'm so tired...
    purplepumpkin17 purplepumpkin17 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    I can't be rude to anyone,

    even if they harm me, I feel that I am amazing for being so kind to everyone, but then, people call me a coward for being nice, I don't want to worry myself over their thinking, still, at one point of time, I start questioning myself that whether I am really a person with kind...
    Zxee Zxee 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    Too often we underestimate the power of a touch,

    a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream 22-25, F 34 Responses Feb 14

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    Also don't get why bullying is

    even a thing why can't people just be nice to everyone it really ain't hard
    buddiesj buddiesj 16-17, F 8 Responses Jun 30

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    "everyone you meet is fighting a battle you

    know nothing about. be kind. Always"
    buddiesj buddiesj 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    livedwords livedwords 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    You know when you're doing group work in class?

    Every single time there was an assignment for it, I'd always ask the other people first what they wanted/wanted to do. They got first dibs. When they chose something I had wanted, I let them take it. My sisters sometimes don't respond to me; answer me when I talk to them. I ask...
    iRadioactive iRadioactive 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Why are there so many rude people in the world

    today? People are so judgmental. Put on a smile and ask people how they are doing? Put on a smile and open the door or just help someone out. You could really make someone's day.
    fishin4eyes fishin4eyes 31-35, M 6 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I try. Wonder if it actually makes much of a

    difference. I'd like to think it does... And even if it doesn't, I won't stop. I can't stop.
    xcrownlessx xcrownlessx 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Honestly, I think being kind to others is one

    of the most productive things a person can do. I can't say I've ever seen anyone get anywhere being rude, petty, or just right out hateful. I think the reason I can still be civilized to people who I feel have done me wrong is because at a young age, I learned that in trying to...
    SplitGivanni SplitGivanni 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    so many people here on EP.

    .so many claiming to be kind too...but haven't find anybody who can help me
    jackvik jackvik 22-25, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Because every Criminal Minds episode starts by

    someone's awful past making them continue a cycle of violence. So maybe it depends upon each of us to try not to create or **** off any potentially-violent psychopaths. Never know when you might find one, so just be nice.
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom 22-25, F 3 Responses May 14

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    I believe in Karma and what comes around goes

    around. You should always treat people how you want to be treated. Bc one day you could be and someone else position and you'd hope that someone would show you kindness as you once did for them. Who know you might just need their help and you would hope that they would be kind...
    Alex288837359 Alex288837359 16-17, F Jul 23

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    jellyjello jellyjello 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    "Everyone has problems.

    Some people are just better at hiding them than others.” - Be nice, everyone is fighting a battle But if someone try to be a ***** to you, you better have a good comeback. I just think that if you don't want to be bullied you should stand for yourself and ***** slap them...
    ImAlivingParadox ImAlivingParadox 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    But you will ultimately fail at some point.

    Just by the very act of trying to be kind to everyone you sometimes can be "bad". In a breakup for example, you might just not want to say anything.
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Sometimes I put my friends first

    before me and it's like why do I do that I'm far too kind and always forget about myself
    nayimaalie nayimaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Kadona Kadona 22-25, F Aug 4

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    ownfrnchseplaya ownfrnchseplaya 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 1

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    Tonight I cooked a meal

    for my parents because they returned late from work but I shared a part of it with my next door neighbour as well because they also returned late from work. What I got in return? Appreciation, smiles and satisfaction!
    swan87 swan87 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    "It will take just 60 seconds to read this

    and change your thinking:Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time...
    LUKEIT LUKEIT 41-45, M 11 Responses May 21, 2014

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    be the reason for someone to smile.

    ..you little kindness can act as sunshine in rainy day....
    daphee daphee 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    The more I try to be affectionate,

    kind, loving and caring to my girlfriend the more she seems to push me away.. Everything I do I always keep her in mind. I don't feel appreciated
    livedwords livedwords 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 30

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    I believe kindness is important.

    There is enough hate, dissension, rudeness and carelessness in the world to make anyone sick, why add to it? Now I try to be kind to everyone because I know how a little act of kindness can make a big difference to somebody's life, especially when there is so little of it. I...
    Firechidist Firechidist 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    Me too but how can I do this

    when the person I meet don't appreciate who ️iam.
    verlaidamendoza28 verlaidamendoza28 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Though it can be really hard

    when people insult you/your beliefs out of ignorance.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19

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    GlitterFawn18 GlitterFawn18 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    You can't treat people like sh*t

    and then expect them to love you.
    MglMndt MglMndt 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    TheAmazinglyAwkwardSpiderJoe1 TheAmazinglyAwkwardSpiderJoe1 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 27

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    It is just who I am, can't help

    but to be nice 😛
    asiangirll asiangirll 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 28

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    I really do but there are

    so many things that will start me off into an angry rant. My biggest pet peeves.... Whites with a superiority complex. Half of my family is white, I'm not being racist. But when they're using stereotypes of races to try and prove that they're better than any other race, that's...
    YouKnowWho15 YouKnowWho15 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I try to be kind to everybody

    because you never know what somebody's going through and such.
    Savannahmayk Savannahmayk 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I am really touched by guys

    who are kind to people. :-D it makes me feel the world is warmer. everyone has their own past which may not have been easy for them, so we can't be as nice as we could be, as we have been hurt before. But feeling warmth truly warms the heart n you can think back fondly to it...
    Kletsgo Kletsgo 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 12

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    be nice to strangers.

    .. maybe you are the only highlight of their day.
    SoccerGirl2000 SoccerGirl2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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