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I Try to Be Kind to Everyone

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    Never push a loyal person to the point

    where he no longer gives a damn. It pays to be kind always.
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Yes i do,well any thought,

    feeling, & action on our part,and as much as we can,needs to be fill & accompany with kindness.otherwise we're exposing ourselves & inviting cruelty into our lives.well sometimes we believe that just by listening,understanding is enough,because we're not doing any harm.and so we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 2

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    928fan 928fan 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Yet I always seem to be the person

    who hurts those who care about me, or lets others down. I'm guessing there are quite a lot of people who feel the same? I'd be interested to hear what different people have to say about this, and their experience of it if that's the case.
    Kaywinnet Kaywinnet 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 21

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    So let's hang out here sometimes.

    .. It wouldn't hurt anyone, right? :)
    yalalast yalalast 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    I'm a really nice person,

    sometimes I'm too nice. It's hard for me to be cruel to someone. I can get along with anyone as long as they're not a ****.
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 3

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    The trouble is that sometimes in trying to be

    kind I just hurt them more in the long run. And worst thing is I know that that is what is going to happen I just can't bring myself to do the right thing first time and eventually they end up more hurt in the long run... Like this guy asked me out. But he was a really good...
    Emzi001 Emzi001 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    It's so easy to laughIt's

    so easy to hateIt takes guts to be gentle and kind
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 3

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    When I was younger, I admired intelligent minds.

    Now that I am older, I prefer kind hearts. If you can be anything, BE KIND.
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Im nice to everyone and then i get called bad

    names for no reason! Like what the hell did i ever do to you?!?
    bballcutie14 bballcutie14 16-17, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    A tongue has no bones

    but it's really strong enough to break a heart. It only takes a few seconds to hurt someone but sometimes it takes years to repair the damage.
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 29

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    But people misjudged you and/or talk behind

    your back and/or take advantage of you. :,(
    FattyAndLovingMyself FattyAndLovingMyself 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 21

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    I don't realy can say

    why I am this way. I was always nice, polite and kind to everyone I met. So was I raised I guess and so is my character. Plus seeing so many rude and agressive people I realy think there should be more kind people around so I stay as that what I am
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Help!

    Okay, so I know I have been "M.I.A = Missing in action" and I haven't been updating you all on how I am but I really need your help right now! So, I have this friend who is (in my opinion) an awesome artist when it comes to music. See, he never gets people sharing his music...
    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F May 17, 2013

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    A Gift From My Heart

    As a very young child, I was brought up by two very loving parents. As many very young children do, I had a stuffed animal that was a very special friend to me. It was a little monkey and I would sleep with this little monkey every night and hold him tight in my arms as I would...
    Navigator4U Navigator4U 51-55, M 6 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    I really try but some people are like kids,

    they want to see how far they can push you until you blow up. Seems like staying to myself with a book and a pair of headphones are just how things have to be.
    suxsco suxsco 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've been having some conversations with some

    pretty depressed people lately. One asked for people to explain what point there was in living. I thought I'd share my response with you guys, since it's all preachey.. :) - - - I can think of three off the top of my head. 1. Propagation of the species. As a species, we need...
    Dannage Dannage 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    its hard to love the person

    who love u so..u want to bring back all the love what he is giving to u...
    lorieblint lorieblint 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been bullied,

    and still recovering.
    Abbstract Abbstract 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    "How would your life be different.

    .. You stopped making nagative judgmental assumption about people you encounter? Let today be the day ... You look for the good in everyone you met and respect their journey." -Steve Maraboli, life , the Truth, and Being Free
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    "Of course not. I can't hate you ever.

    .. You can go for a haircut.. I just want you to look pretty and stay." I smiled while reading Raj's messages at Viber. It was yesterday afternoon when I decided to have my hairdresser cut my long black straight hair. Today, I had my hair in shoulder length and sent Raj the...
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    "It will take just 60 seconds to read this

    and change your thinking:Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time...
    LUKEIT LUKEIT 41-45, M 6 Responses May 21

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    Everyone Except One-I will be 22 in two months

    and there is only ONE person in my life I have EVER been unkind and downright rageful to. My mother's former lover aka my biological ***** donor when I was 19. It was the 1st and LAST contact between us, initiated by him on Facebook and quickly ended by me with harsh words...
    AlphahatesOmega AlphahatesOmega 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    No Trouble

    The elderly lady with the bleeding nose got on the bus at the same stop as I did, but she wasn’t waiting there when it arrived. She came tottering unsteadily across the carpark, one arm raised, just as we were taking off. “I am sorry to have kept you waiting...
    amberdextrous amberdextrous 51-55, M 10 Responses Mar 7, 2010

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    Trying to be kind to people I a daily basis

    just don't BS me or come my way with that flakey **** otherwise your cut off. Treat others the way you want to be treated, point blank.
    suxsco suxsco 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 19

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    I try to be kind to everyone,

    when people hate or bully others it encourages me to be more accepting and compassionate towards others. No one wants to be treated this way, we all aim towards acceptance and love. Just because people around you suck, doesn't mean you have to act the same way, be the kind...
    TheTrueStory TheTrueStory 70+ 1 Response Sep 12

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    When I'm kind, I place my faith in line

    Knowing I'm part of a design With a mind assigned to remind the blind, ¨In time, the sun will shine.¨
    OdeSlinger OdeSlinger 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Jnicole19 Jnicole19 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    You never know what someone's going through,

    so I try to make sure I treat every single person as I would like to be. No matter how little the impact you have on someone's day, if it's positive, it counts for something :)
    justEexisting justEexisting 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    Soozkat Soozkat 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 30

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    I try....That means sometimes I don't succeed.

    I can't be kind to everyone. I try to be but then some people don't deserve kindness. I put on a fake smile and fake being kind but in my head I am judging and hating them until they leave and I never see them again.
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    My friend Moni and I are writing a book

    for charity that is a collection of touching stories about strangers helping strangers. We'd love to hear your stories about kindness! Please visit my profile and submit your story to the email provided in my profile description.
    saramoni saramoni 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I tried, but I think not everyone deserves my

    kindness. Some people misinterpret kindness as being indefinite and that leaves us being abuse and hurt. It's okay to be kind but to an extent.
    gwenllian gwenllian 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    Sometimes it's difficult!

    Sometimes everyone isn't a nice guy! Sometimes your patience is tried, despite humility.
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I meet many different people at the club.

    Oh, yes there are regular clients, but a lot of them are businessmen or stags. Generally speaking they behave well, and we are kind in our performances for them. A pole dance is the first kind of performance we can do. Often as a result of this the clients might ask for an...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    "Treat others as you want them to treat you

    because what goes around comes around."
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I wish everyone could be happy.

    .. I wish I could take everyone's pain away. And I wish there was someone out there who wished that for me..
    oliviatee oliviatee 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Someone Is Having A Birthday Soon .......

    MY BEST TO YOU .......... Written by Gene Willadsen and Isham Jones in 1942 Here's to you, may your dreams come true. May old Father Time never be unkind. And through the years, save your smiles and your tears. They're just .............souvenirs. They'll make music in your...
    Kathieredart Kathieredart 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    Giving people the benefit of doubt,

    I am always kind until given a reason not to be
    cindymariee cindymariee 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 13

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    I try and I think everybody should too.

    Maybe the reason people are always so angry and mean is because nobody is nice to them.
    munchkinallie munchkinallie 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 24

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    Why I Try..

    If you have ever seen someone get called out in front of a crowd, yelled at or made fun of and embarrassed.. if you've seen the look on their face when you can tell they feel like they just took a bullet to the chest and just want to disappear and cry. if you've ever thought...
    uhyta uhyta 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 9, 2011

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    destinny destinny 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    My religion is kindness.

    Some people believe that to be moral you have to be religious and that is the farthest thing from true. I don't claim to be any religion, I just strive to be a good person. Love and kindness is so essential, but it's what the world lacks the most. I may not grow up to do much...
    laurennhem laurennhem 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    So there's this girl I was talking to

    and I thought I could at least be friends with her but every time I message her it's like she has no interest in talking to me. Like damn, if you don't wanna talk just ******* tell me lol. -_-
    johnbradleystrozier johnbradleystrozier 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 19

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    Due to the nature of my job i need to be kind

    to random people every day. I like being kind. Makes me feel better if i can help someone. But there are few exceptions. I am not kind with my parents and with zombies.
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I try to treat people

    as I think I would like to be treated. It does not always work but I always try to be nice and polite.
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 2 Responses Sep 20

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    Until they give a reason not to,

    After that I will love you from afar.
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I don't see a reason to be mean to people.

    If someone is rude or mean to me I just don't have anything to do with them.
    countrysas countrysas 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 19

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