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I Try to Be Nice As Much As I Can

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    Try Is The Key Word

    I have no reason to be mean to people i don't know. Unless they give me a reason. If people are mean to me I initially try to turn the situation around. If they continue to be a ****, I just say "whatever" and walk away. But that depends, of course, on how they pissed me off. If...
    orderedchaos orderedchaos 22-25, M Aug 15, 2013

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    Try & Tried

    I try being as nice as possible even to the one's who weren't or aren't.If I haven't been nice to you, tell me why and what makes you say this?
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 12, 2011

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    I Try to Be Nice. ...

    I try to be nice. Its better than causing fights, and sometimes people even like you because of it.
    turtlemusic28 turtlemusic28 26-30, F Apr 25, 2008

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    Southern Girl

    Well being from the South where good old Southern Hospitality is preached to you from birth it becomes second nature to be nice to others.  I don't like when others are rude or when people mistake my niceness for weakness.  I believe in the "do unto others as you...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    Even When I Am Completely E...

    Even when i am completely enraged with someone the phrase kill them with kindness comes into play. If you are nice or at least as nice as you can be you bring back little to no bad karma.
    wallflower20 wallflower20 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25, 2008

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    It's Easy

    And, I am too, it comes easy and it's also fun, a lot more fun than being a grump, but, I love the grump bugs too..hehe...love the EP'ers here...(waves;)
    Artsydesigns Artsydesigns 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 25, 2010

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    I Honestly Try;but!!!!!!!!!!!

    PEOPLE ARE SO MEAN AND THEY TAKE GOOD PEOPLE FOR GRANTED;I TRY TO BE NICE AND THE MORE I BE NICE THE MORE PEOPLE PUSH UNTIL I BREAK AND I FEEL BAD WHEN I BREAK,BUT PEOPLE IN GENERAL LIKES TO PUSH BUTTONS
    xxhoney xxhoney 26-30 6 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    I Try To Be Nice

    If you treat me right I would be good to you and sweet but if you are rude and stuff ... nope I dont roll like that lol Im sweet but if youre mean bye bye....
    jennbabeloving1 jennbabeloving1 18-21, F Oct 29, 2012

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    Nothing Wrong In Being Too Nice

    I've been told that I'm too nice for my own good that people take me for granted. I don't agree. You can be nice without being taken advantage of. Besides, it can make all the difference to someone when you're nice to them.
    neo123 neo123 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 28, 2008

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    Always, I'm Very Friend...

    Always, I'm very friendly so people feel it easy to approach me
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F Apr 25, 2008

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    Not For My Own Good

    I believe I'm to nice for my own good.  From the little things right through to the biggest.  For instance when it comes to sharing money, i have no end to it....at that moment i see no value in it.  I cant stand saying no to anyone, i honestly feel terrible if i...
    only4me only4me 26-30, F Apr 25, 2008

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    I Can Be a Real ***** a Lot...

    I can be a real ***** a lot of the times, and I try really hard to be nice.
    keyna keyna 36-40, F Apr 25, 2008

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    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    Minnesota Nice

    I can't help it--I'm from Minnesota. I'm nice (to a fault sometimes) to everyone.
    Ticia Ticia 26-30, F Mar 16, 2009

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    Be A Reflection..

    Sometimes is very hard being nice to people, but you have to take the bad with the good. If someone is willing to help; have enough decency to say, "Thank YOU." I remember I was helping an elderly person with something.. I felt so good inside. I really felt better when they told...
    PrivateLegit PrivateLegit 41-45, F Jul 13, 2012

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    I Try to Controll My Self

    I try so much to be nice but sometimes i cant do it because you cant be so nice all day all the nice well you can but its very hard for many people to be so nice. I aways try to be nice but sometimes boys make it worst or even if you have a older brother hey teach you mean things...
    Melody77654 Melody77654 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2008

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    Which Is Hard For Me

    Because i dont like to candycoat anything ... ill be the first to point out when i think something is wrong ... dont get me wrong  i dont walk around pointing out peoples flaws but i do give my opinion and alot of people dont know how to take that ...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Dec 28, 2007

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    Too Much, Really

    As a kid, I was really loud, demanding, with a nerve. I didn't really think about it, and anyways I had a few close friends. We were at the bottom of the social ladder, but I didn't really mind. I even got a popular boyfriend (for a few weeks). However, when I started 8th...
    mininirime mininirime 19-21, F Nov 5, 2007

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    I Try To Be Nice

    I try to be nice,Whenever I can,Don't like being,Any other way,No fun in that,Not like ,Being nice.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Feb 13, 2012

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    Im Nice, I Dont Exactly Try To Be Nice, I Just Am!!!

    im just a nice guy, and i like to treat others as i would like to be treated, and as long as others treat me the way i treat them, then there is no problem!!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2010

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    This Really Should Be a Goal...

    In my early twenties I began to recognize that I wasn't very nice. I had(have) a harsh wit, that was just part of growing up in my family. Of course I didn't think I was being mean, just funny. It took time for me to see the distance this behavior put between me and ...
    Lionroot Lionroot 41-45, M 1 Response May 4, 2008

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    Sometimes Too Much

    I really try hard to be nice to people.  I try to be that intuitive friend that is always there but I don't feel as if I have anyone (with the exception of one friend) that tries to be the same for me.  I often feel neglected, unappreciated.  I think my quirky...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 3 Responses May 21, 2009

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    Slight rant, This is an incredible long topic that I'll try to sum up in a mater of paraphrases but I may miss a few sub things that **** me off. Firstly, the whole definition...
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    My walls are always up but sometimes people manage to break them down with their nice words and sweetness. They see i have a nice heart and play with my kindness. They treat my...
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    The term "Nice guys finish last" seems to be true in terms of relationships or trying to start one. I see many girls who say they want a "Nice guy" but in the end, I always see...
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    Mrs Franks... My teacher. Last Friday I came to her class. She said "I put you way in the back away from everyone" I thought... Well that's nice. But I dont really like you.. At...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 31

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    I guess to understand the full depth of my story, it's best to start at the very beginning It all started when I turned 7. Up until that age, I has a great family. My mom and dad...
    heartsofgold22 heartsofgold22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    It seems like such a hard thing to find... just a nice guy who treats a girl right. The problem is when I do find it they have some of the following problems : A nice guy who is...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    okay I'm just gonna rant about this right here because I need to like get this off my chest or something and I feel like my friends don't want to hear it so I haven't really said...
    gabbyds gabbyds 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Well not that I don't have any, i do have a number of friends I'm close to. It's just that it's really hard for me to get close to someone. I try to be sincerely nice all the time...
    littlederps littlederps 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I want to be the best I can be. Of course I do. As usual, "we all do." This statement, however, needs a disclaimer. It needs to say that being the best you can be does not mean...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Meanwhile my boyfriend is in NYC for a college course schmoozing with publishers and, after one day, got a job working for a cooking website from the publisher he is staying with...
    dendroica dendroica 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    ok. So basicly i datedd this guy a while back. He showed so much interest in me always cheering me up telling me he likes me and only me etc. We spoke for months before i actually...
    pinkglitteress pinkglitteress 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of ’99 If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by...
    ifilayhere ifilayhere 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yeah maybe not lol . More like steel wool ; abrasive . Can be highly moody . I am capable of love but it takes hell & high water for me to admit it to somebody . I have never been...
    LavenderTeal23 LavenderTeal23 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Strangerhood Strangerhood 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Ohayyo ^_^ Bonjour, Salut They are all Good Morning Lovlies ^_~ Except Salut means 'Hi' Hai ^_~ And 'Hai' means 'Yes' as in 'Yes I am the best and quite sexy ^_^'' Hector: No you...
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    Flirting is done in multiple ways. It can be displayed in a number of instance, by admiration, or by blunt verbal statements. I think my thing is when I try to be nice to women...
    babyboy1245 babyboy1245 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    There are a lot of reasons I (as a survivor too) think so: They do suffer the same feelings as we (women) do and a lot of other issues they have to deal with: There is a lot of...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    So I moved in with my boyfriend into a very small apartment about two years ago. A year ago we moved into a small house (much more space). The house was occupied by his brother and...
    UpsideTown UpsideTown 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I am in such a sad situatioin, i have a new boyfriend after a long time being single.He is a nice guy,full of potential but he drinks so much.He says football,beer and friends go...
    TINALI TINALI 31-35 1 Response Apr 8

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    I always feel so awkward when I think how long it's been. 4 years since Xfactor and now I am here. I never thought I'd get 3 positives from the judges. It's so surreal. And when I...
    HarryEStyles HarryEStyles 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    It really is a fantastic feeling slipping in to a nice skirt or dress and complimenting it with other nice items :) I love wearing dresses and the feeling of how free everything...
    LucyTG LucyTG 26-30, T 4 Responses Mar 20

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    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best...
    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    WasteYouthWithMe WasteYouthWithMe 18-21, F Mar 28

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    People seem to feel the need to tell me just how nice my voice is, not just the way i speak but also the tone it's amazing how many people i have spoken to go on about maybe i...
    vierge vierge 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I don't think i have a good voice and i crack up a lot, but a few people i know say i have a nice voice. From singing nice and soft music to having that nice soothing voice that...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I'm really nice to others and even help others with their problems. I spend my time on EP to to help others make them feel special and some I become their big brother or little...
    GuardianWarrior245 GuardianWarrior245 18-21, M Apr 7

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    My Story . . . The one I've been needing, so bad, to tell. Now is my chance. My dad died October 16th, 2012 at 12:10am. He was diagnosed with Lymphoma (cancer in the lymph nodes...
    iLucky iLucky 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    It was a chance encounter. It was only a chance encounter 294 days ago, but I cannot get him out of mind. On a whim, I took a trip up north last summer. At the last minute I wasn...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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