I Try to Be Nice As Much As I Can

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    I try to be as nice as I can

    but I can't handle when people r mean with my beat friends after all my best friends mean a lot to me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 24

    broke up with my boyfriend today,

    after being on and off for 6 years i finally realized hes just not gunna change. so looks like its on to the next.
    seductivesub69 seductivesub69
    22-25, F
    May 12, 2015

    But it's so hard when people can be

    so damn arrogant and stupid.
    IfYoure555Im666 IfYoure555Im666
    22-25, M
    May 12, 2015

    Because you never know what kind of stuff other

    people are going through! It can really make a difference!
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2015

    My daughter and I have been having a tough time

    this week. Sometimes children can be so disrespectful, thinking they know everything one minute. When you discipline them, then they tell how everyone in school has been hitting them and against them too. It's manipulation. Her father comes down hard on me for arguments between...
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    I don't fake the state of being nice.

    I usually let my heart reflect my actions then people just see it. I always think of purity and good intentions in every person I talk and help. It works.
    22depth 22depth
    22-25, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    Southern Girl

    Well being from the South where good old Southern Hospitality is preached to you from birth it becomes second nature to be nice to others.  I don't like when others are rude or when people mistake my niceness for weakness.  I believe in the "do unto others as you...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Mar 16, 2009

    I try so hard and when its not good enough im

    not a nice girl and I always feel like I should stop beinh nice, but then I stop and remember that I live for other people im here to save as many people as I can and I cant quit being nice its not fair on those who need me. :)
    Remi4ever Remi4ever
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2015

    Over the weekend I told most of the people I

    was messaging I was busy. Well my neighbor who is like 80 something who always came over and let us try her cooking was moving and she needed help with all her heavy furniture. So I volunteered to help along with her son to move everything over to the new house and set up...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 29, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 16, 2015

    I'm not a nice person though.

    I say what I like, do what I like, and act how I like. I'll politely tell you to go **** yourself if you do not like it. :)
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX
    18-21, M
    Feb 16, 2015

    I always tend to be friendly to everyone I know

    and meet even when I'm in a bad mood. But I won't hide me morbid anger if they **** me off. I tend to let people know my emotions that way I do t hinder their methods of communicating with me.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits
    22-25, M
    Jan 25

    I'm not a nice person.

    I'm honest, blunt. Somewhat hurtful. I wish I was that peppy nice girl that everyone loves... But I'm not. I'm honest and you know you can always count on me to tell you how you really look if you ask, and if what you said was actually funny or if people were just laughing to be...
    Sophia117 Sophia117
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    i feel like i do try to be nice ,

    but mycfriends say otherwise all the time x3
    kyanitestone186 kyanitestone186
    18-21, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    I believe to be nice to everyone.

    and always smile. don't ruin someone else's day with a frown. and if some does something bad they must have a reason, so don't be harsh, always be happy and be nice :)
    Justine75 Justine75
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    Woudn't it make a better world?

    I mean there're lots of suffering and pain because of people being stupidily rude to each other After being a victim of bullyng for years I think that being nice , humble and supportive makes you a better person and makes your environment a better place to stay
    ChubbyFox ChubbyFox
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 13, 2015

    Yes, I truly do. Until someone crosses the line

    and tried to be disrespectful to me or something to that sort. Then I block them.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 6, 2015

    I try to be nice to everyone

    but some people are just plain out unacceptable!
    dfe213 dfe213
    18-21, F
    May 13, 2015

    I'm really nice to everyone

    whether girls or boys but some guys take it too personally and try to flirt with me. They seem to fall for me too easily.
    Seneya Seneya
    22-25, F
    Aug 6, 2015

    I try my hardest to be nice to people,

    even if they come off as a bit rude. I feel like my kindness gets me hurt a lot, and I often feel like a doormat when I'm nice to people. I have trouble saying no to people or telling them that I can't help them because I feel like a jerk if I can't help them. Being nice is...
    CannibalisticUnicorn CannibalisticUnicorn
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 24

    Life is something we all share,

    Just like oxygen, in the air. The way we live it, is up to us, With a negative or with a plus. Life is something, we should cherish, We never know, when we'll perish. Live each and every single day, Smell the flowers, stop and play. Life is something, we've been blessed...
    nivanvc nivanvc
    36-40, M
    Jan 25
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 31, 2015

    I try very hard, common courtesy is often hard

    to come by. I hold open doors for everyone, I say please, thank you, you're welcome, excuse me. Just that little bit of courtesy can make someone's day. I know it has for me.
    Handyman25 Handyman25
    26-30, M
    Oct 1, 2015

    I really do, but some people talk too damn much

    and needs to shut the f*** up. Like they'll just keep going on and on and on... And they don't notice that people are clearly getting annoyed or don't want to be bother or they do and just keep talking like wtf?? My coworker does this, he's a cashier and will keep cracking lame...
    Pinkk3u Pinkk3u
    18-21, F
    Mar 15
    Dottyz Dottyz
    22-25, F
    May 12, 2015

    You can only push a person

    so far. Just because someone's always seems nice, doesn't mean they don't have a breaking point. I try to be as nice as I can to people, even those who doesn't deserve it. But I can, and have, hit my limit with people who just kept pushing me and pushing me. Never underestimate...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2015

    I work in a coffee shop

    and each and every day I see so many different people come into my job. There's one woman who sticks out in particular that I see each and every day. She walks all the way to the shop to get her XL black coffee every single day. I always get her order ready for her when I see...
    lizzie9787 lizzie9787
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 24

    you can kick me a dozen times.

    ... I don't mind...
    LiarOne LiarOne
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 31, 2015

    i know everyone has probkems

    and not to be the canter of attention but i live a bad lufe and i just try so hard to be happy butnits hard when your family and enymies drag you down low
    Angel861 Angel861
    13-15
    May 12, 2015

    even when people step all over mr I still try

    and help and be nice. I don't know why, maybe it's because I don't want other people to go through the bad like I've gone through
    Kayshove Kayshove
    13-15, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2015

    You know, it's funny how much I express my

    hatred for humanity and people in general but at the same time... I always want to help people. I always want to help out the community and be nice and caring to people. I have the idea to start several charity/donations for children's hospitals and local animal shelters but I...
    CannibalisticUnicorn CannibalisticUnicorn
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2015
    blinkingstarblinking blinkingstarblinking
    31-35, M
    Aug 26, 2015

    I forgot about this but

    when I was in school I always saw those certain awkward boys that just never got out much. They were just too nerdy or something to fit in and It always bothered me how depressed they look. At some point I decided I'd make a difference in their lives by going up and giving them...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 31, 2015
    sisi19 sisi19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2014

    I try to be nice and respect others opinions

    and experiences best I can but sometimes i can't control my actions especially when my friends are being insulted or hurt
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe
    16-17, F
    Jan 3, 2015
    SSxREAPERx1998 SSxREAPERx1998
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 17, 2014

    I try to be the nicest person I can to everyone

    and try to avoid conflict at all cost. The only problem is sometimes people take advantage of your kindness and walk all over you.
    slashy11 slashy11
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 17, 2014

    I'm very nice, and I want to be nice,

    and make people happy. But, my anger issues and my hardcore sassy attitude ruins it. I try my best to stop it, but it literally happens when I don't even know. Then people think i'm not nice, and it bugs me because I AM nice, just have a sassy attitude, that i'm trying to...
    HellaNella HellaNella
    18-21, F
    Nov 29, 2014

    Because I don't want to be rejected.

    And sometimes, it even works.
    AlaRubra AlaRubra
    16-17, T
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2015

    I try always to write,

    or respond in a nice way and not to appear pompous, or condescending. I treat people the same way. I like to discuss openly so that i can understand others point of view. If one is not nice the conversation turns to an argument or ends. We loose the opportunity to even agree to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 25

    Nothing Wrong In Being Too Nice

    I've been told that I'm too nice for my own good that people take me for granted. I don't agree. You can be nice without being taken advantage of. Besides, it can make all the difference to someone when you're nice to them.
    neo123 neo123
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2008

    I'm a nice person but

    when people make me angry I turn to the rudest guy ever . but seriously . some people really annoying . you can't be nice with them
    Hisham98 Hisham98
    18-21, M
    Jan 25
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 13, 2015
    DarknessDepth DarknessDepth
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 7
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