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I Try to Be Nice

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    Because I'm Really Nice Deep Down...

    but then I get hurt or I see ppl for who they really are and I walk away.  I don't need trouble makers in my life, I already have enough of them here...and I will defend myself if attacked (though I won't intentionally attack good ppl...), as a woman, as a mom, as a person doing...
    ElvenLady ElvenLady 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

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    I really do try but then someone stupid says

    something stupid and I just can't.
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I Believe I'M A Nice Guy.

    I like to think that I'm a nice a person. I like meeting and talking to people and sharing stories of our past experience. I don't have a mean bone in my body and I always look out for not just my family and friends, but for others who may need a hand to get by. I never try to...
    awolnationfan awolnationfan 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    I Got Tired Of Trying

    Do good and good will come back to you, karma , what goes around comes around. These are the biggest lies I've possibly heard. Good wil never come if you do good, people will just walk over you like they do on everyone else.  "Do good and you will be abused until tired"
    lsgraulau lsgraulau 18-21 3 Responses May 24, 2010

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    Nice

    I try to be nice but I get judge how I look.. Today I went the store a liltle girl wanted a barbie doll.. The mom said no cuz she cant afford it.. I told her mom I get it for her for christmas. The girl was happy once again.
    tigerandbears tigerandbears 46-50, F Nov 29, 2012

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    Minutes

    I've only been on here a little while and have already seen more dumb ***' than I care to!!!
    spoda spoda 41-45, M Aug 9, 2013

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    A Feel-good Day

    To begin, I'd like to point out that I always give effort into being a nice person to others even when it isn't preferable to me (this is not to say I always succeed however...). I saw an opportunity about a week ago to help out my school's library. I take out books...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    I TRY TO BE NICE BUT THERE ARE SO MANY *******

    PEOPLE THAT MAKE ME SO ******* ANGRY
    SunshineH13 SunshineH13 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    Always

    I always try to be nice to everyone even when they aren't nice to me.  I have found that being nice to evil people p*sses them off worse than sparring with them.  Like my grandmother always said, "kill them with kindness."
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 29, 2008

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    I Try But Fail...

    I'm nice most of the time, and inside I feel as though I'm truly as nice person. But sometimes I get so annoyed and angry which causes me to have a bad attitude. I hate being this way.
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2013

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    I Will Keep Trying

    Every day and with every person. Even people that don't deserve it, I am nice to. Just in case, ya know?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    I Try To Be Nice

    I try to be nice. To be honest, I am mean to people. Whenever someone bothers me, I lash out with rage because it reminds me of my horrible childhood of being bullied. I no longer have the concept of kindness in my life. I pull horrible pranks and insult people. I want to be...
    dave0903 dave0903 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 18, 2010

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    Just Today...

    I spend at least a couple days a week at a day program for folks with mental illnesses.  There's a wide spectrum of ability and functioning. So today, I was doing my task, which mainly consisted of babying the *cough* temperamental copier.  Another member wandered in and...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F May 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    It takes very little effort to be nice. Why waste one's time on the negative?
    Olivia1962 Olivia1962 51-55, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Someone shared this story with me on facebook. I liked it and i thought would be better if i shared with you. " Heading home on the Q train yesterday when this young black guy...
    mkdpk mkdpk 41-45, M 3 hrs ago

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    Tell me what you think. It's getting thicker and I'm letting grow. Don't care if kids call me Santa. It's sort of cute.
    equusrider equusrider 56-60, M 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    One of my friend 1girl who don't like to cut hair and didn't cut her hair from 5yrs..but now she cutted her hair butt length hair to midback because of the words I said to her..she...
    karthik143honey karthik143honey 18-21, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Nice big boobs mean everything to me. They make me so hot I am practically out of control when they hang down from a naked partner.
    Tommypee80466 Tommypee80466 66-70, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I thin it's a shame that nice girls never seem to be interested in the nice guys. Even here some of the jerks ruin it because some of the girls won't talk to other guys who may...
    jlogan5000 jlogan5000 16-17, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. It makes a difference! :)
    CaffeineJunky CaffeineJunky 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    saw this quote on the www. "Here's the deal. I'm a nice person. So if you think I'm a b*tch, you may want to ask yourself why." :-)
    iusedtolovemyself iusedtolovemyself 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    All my life I’ve stuck up for her, well she is my mother after all. There must be something decent about her otherwise why did she have me? My sister has always treated her with...
    moyesp moyesp 51-55 6 days ago

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    The nicest thing anyone has ever said to me was that they loved me followed with, “I truly mean it!” and I saw in their eyes that they were telling the truth! I’ll never...
    JadeKnight JadeKnight 26-30, T 5 Responses Jun 24

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    Yes, that's about it. I think people shouldn't put on a facade of fake kindness, niceness and carefulness when they don't actually care. I think people shouldn't smile nor interact...
    oneiric13 oneiric13 26-30, M Jun 23

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    I am a nice guy but that doesn't mean I don't have urges and turn to EP to try and satisfy them. It's ok to just tell me to bug off...I'll understand. Don't be afraid to message me...
    bgood79 bgood79 36-40, M Jun 22

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    I'm 13 6'2 gamer and a athlete nice and caring look for a nice girl
    Chris12347 Chris12347 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    So this is what happened. I'm on my way home with my friend and she asked me if I could wait for her because she's gonna withdraw from the ATM machine and I was like 'yeah sure...
    xmessofadreamerx xmessofadreamerx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I am very nice persone (on the low to be honest )😊😭 it just comes out wrong ig 😂
    StraightKillaaaa StraightKillaaaa 18-21, F Jun 21

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    As difficult as it may be, I always do my best to be nice to others even if they are not nice to me in return. The way I look at it the only person's behavior that I can control is...
    beatendownbylife47 beatendownbylife47 13-15, F Jun 20

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    I'm very sweet and kind to everyone and I hate being mean to others, even if they did bad to me. My dad said I need to quit being so nice all the time and I need to be more...
    missnicegirl missnicegirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    Sometimes..... I can get irritated easily depending on my mood and I have a way of words that can really get to you weather online or in person So yeah haha don't irritate me and...
    NZginger NZginger 18-21, M Jun 19

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    I have been on EP for a while now and just wanted to say while I have met some very interesting people here it is nice to finally meet a real genuine person who is sweet and simply...
    Micky7288 Micky7288 56-60, M Jun 18

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    I am positive person. I know myself. I have a big heart. Though I have been badly hurt in past. I saved myself from become negative. Now, I remain little caution before opening my...
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M Jun 16

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    It bothers me to no end when people say others can be/are "too nice." There is no such thing. Just because you don't feel like you deserve the attention or affection doesn't mean...
    19MangoTango95 19MangoTango95 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    You will ever meet. I'm really nice, kind good-hearted. Incredibly brilliant, super humble. Just all around amazing. Sometimes I wonder if the birds sing only because I walk...
    ecofox ecofox 22-25, M Jun 13

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    I personally hate the sound of my voice, but yesterday my friend's sister told me I have a nice singing voice.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 12

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    Balloons, look very nice and.. Well.. Ballooony, but when they get to big and filled with air or helium, they pop
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 10

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    I may be nice but I am not stupid? This is a good topic. I am generously kind to everyone. I respond in a helpful matter. Mainly because I was raised that way. I also do not like...
    Susiedisney Susiedisney 56-60, F Jun 10

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    Especially if he has nice clean naturally white teeth 💞
    Bssanglergrl1 Bssanglergrl1 36-40 1 Response Jun 10

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    Yep my circle has some real nice ones... Some are just a little naughty, but respectful and damn good natured men! :D
    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I actually have a list for this one, jaren, kentrell, darion, darius, devontrey, dylan, michael, byreisha, shay shay, and lenard are close to getting slapped into naruto, past...
    13yroldgaykk 13yroldgaykk 13-15, M Jun 7

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    Treat me too with respect, dignity and integrity and I will be a genuine friend to you. But belittle this and I don't want to know you.
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M Jun 6

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    I still am nice and want to be, it's just tiresome being nice to others when they seem to only use me. Whenever they need something from me, they expect me to always help and...
    CeruleanWolf CeruleanWolf 18-21, F Jun 5