I Try to Be Perfect

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    Always Have

    since i found out i was adopted ... and my sister just disappeared and i thought they sent her away ( which in some sense they did ) i always thought well if im not the perfect daughter they would have no problem  dismissing me too ... so i spent yrs trying to be perfect...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    Aug 23, 2007

    I Am Perfect

      I found this poem today and thought it was perfect for this group.   I'm practically perfect in every respect. I haven't a flaw you could ever detect. As soon as you know me I'm sure you'll agree There’s no one around who's as perfect as me...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2009

    What Constitutes Perfect?

    Can someone tell me?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Sep 16, 2009

    But Will Never Succeed...

    Try as I do one would think I would be at least much closer to perfect. However no matter what I do I don't think, well I know that, I will never reach perfection.  No one will.  SO why do I try so hard?  Because I am just programmed to try to be perfect.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Oct 27, 2008

    Too Hard Yet I Try

    There is only one person that has ever lived that is perfect and in my mind that Jesus, yet everyday Io wake up and i try to be perfect I try to treat others the way I want to be treated I try to give what I can and I try to be the worlds view of what a perfect woman looks like...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82
    31-35, F
    Apr 15, 2011

    I Try.. But Im Not

    im the farthest thing from perfect. my families far from perfect, my parents are divorced, i talk to much, i laugh too loud, i never say the right things, things always go wrong with boys, i always mess up.. but still everyday i put on a smile & march down the halls & act...
    youdontknowme54321 youdontknowme54321
    16-17, F
    Sep 1, 2007

    I Try So Hard To Be Perfect, I Sometimes Dont Know What Im Supposed To Be

     Its a very stressful life. I'm at constant fault with myself, now i want to come across as intelligent and now i just feel like i'm a self riteous, arrogant, vain, egotistic ****. I claim to know more about life than anyone else and what the hell, ive been through way too...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2009

    Not Perfect...

    I am not anywhere near perfect---i have always known that. perfection is impossible but it doesn't stop me from trying to achieve it. for me, i don't know how to stop trying so hard. ever since i was little i have been going to the same school. they expect you to be perfect...
    em4040 em4040
    16-17, F
    Feb 6, 2008

    And I Hate It.

    When I was growing up, my older brother was a perfect child. He was smart as hell; he started reading at four years old. He was meek. He didn't throw rocks at people. My parents, especially my mother, always treated him slightly more favorably. Not significantly so, but enough to...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax
    18-21, F
    Oct 27, 2008

    Perfect... Who Me???

    I am definitely NOT perfect. I've always tried to be perfect, but I don't suceed at it. Well I am not so much perfect. Yeah, I have a good personality and I try really hard to be a good person and be nice to other people, but the most perfect thing about me is how I look. I go...
    unfucktheworld unfucktheworld
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 1, 2007

    Did I Over Extend, Did I Leave Anything Out?

    If there was going to be a perfect person, what would they have to be like? Here's my starting point. Can you add to this? Should anything be removed?   A perfect person… …carries their own weight, pays their own fare, does their part as best they can...
    JRSK007 JRSK007
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2008

    A Litlle Ocd Maybe

    i have a small case of perfectionism. small enough that i don't notice it so much, but big enough that those around me do. school work is where i try the hardest to be perfect. i feel like i must. i'm naturally a good student, so if i don't try to be perfect then i tend to slack...
    scooper scooper
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2008

    I Try My Best

    I try my best,To be perfect,Never works,that's life,No one's perfect.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    Dec 2, 2011

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