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I Try to Find the Good In People

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    Yes Its True

    No matter how hard it really is to know everyone has some good intention I know that if I just trust myself and others i'll know that alot of people are just like me. they have the same problemms. anyways,.... i know for a fact everyone has good in them. i know lot of people(:
    TheOneThatWantsToShare TheOneThatWantsToShare 16-17, F Oct 30, 2011

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    I Don't Understand Her...or Me

    My sister is an addict and she has been caught one to many times. This time she got 10 yrs. She makes me so mad. She has two perfectly healthy children that she mentally hurts over and over. I know that it's an illness but I can't help how I feel. She used to be my best...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 5 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    Every

    Every person that crosses my path I can always see the good in them.   I may not like every person that crosses my path, but I never fixate on the bad in people.  I can always see their strengths, and I try to cater to those.   This is a huge reason why I wasn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 9, 2010

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    Am I Too Nice?

    I hate this part of me. I always try to find it but when they let me down. I'm hurt. I'm beaten up. So sometimes. I don't know should i expect or should i think the worst and just be surprised when their good comes out?
    NotBackingDown NotBackingDown 13-15, F Sep 9, 2012

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    I don't know. I kinda liked Akakios1.

    .. Wasn't all that bad.
    ChainMailed ChainMailed 13-15, F Jul 1

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    Not So Safe In This World..

    i have an urge to splurge...that i always try to find the 'good' in people. firstly because its so much easier than to pick at faults. less conflict. less uncertainty. in an ideal world there would be no dangers for us. but it seems that being trusting is almost sort of stupid...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2009

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    Some Say It's My Down Fall

    I try to find the good in everyone.  Even here on EP.  I have given some people chances most never would.  And sometimes, like recently, it has turned around and bit me in the butt. But for some reason, I just can't stop.  This is what I do.  *sigh* ...
    ShatteredOne ShatteredOne 31-35 1 Response Jul 24, 2010

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    I Have Always Given People The Benefit Of The Doubt.

    I believe most people are kind and good. I have stuck with this principal for years. The only times it has got me into trouble was when I was dating. Almost all the men I met were still basically kind and good but they had mostly one other motivation in mind and it took me many...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 13, 2010

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    Even After Hearing Negative Things

    Though, the negative things i hear could be true, or they could just be rumors.  He says they are rumors and can't believe some of the things i've heard.  He says most people just have positive things to say about him.  i must not have talked with those people...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 25, 2010

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    Bitterness With Age

    yea......... but with time it seems harder and harder.
    thsone thsone 22-25, F Jul 31, 2010

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    I Believe That There Is Goo...

    I believe that there is good in everyone. I think that it's just hiding or being hidden.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 20, 2009

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    We Are All

    Every one of us is a bit of the Divine.  I try to remember that, and seek out the Divine in those around me. Sometimes it's hard, but I keep looking. 
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Oct 30, 2011

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    Yeah myself lmao. But I find most people strange with their lack of logic. I'm always trying to understand people (love psychology) but most of the time they don't even understand...
    strawberryletter22 strawberryletter22 18-21, F Sep 25

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    There are some good people out there. Just wondering why there are so many idiots out there...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M Sep 24

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    I want to chat to someone about everything on whataspp. Someone who likes to talk and help people, and enjoy getting to know someone. Who knows, maybe we become good friends.
    roryta roryta 26-30, F 13 hrs ago

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    Ok so today i had a message on EP Which read, hi im terminally ill would you like to say goodbye. I asked what the illness was and the reply was "non communication" Well karmas a...
    Dotty73 Dotty73 41-45, F Sep 24

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    These people are good because the bad times make them stronger. My Nana went through 3 types of cancer and has still survived. She's the best person I know and teaches me that life...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F Oct 1

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    Doesn't matter your background, as long as you are good.
    3Dogmatic 3Dogmatic 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 27

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    Oh yeah! Some you meet and think.....how is it you're still alive?
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Sep 25

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    I try not to judge others but there are those times when someone walks by and I'm like holy crap...
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I really want my inbox to blow up , then again uhhhh
    sean4you sean4you 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    Hey! That's why I'm here!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 30

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    In real life, I know 4 that would watch, but 3 are women. I'd like 5 men.
    LittleStain LittleStain 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 10

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    never a start sentence with the word no offense..
    jendomingo jendomingo 18-21 Oct 13

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    Always been there for anyone who needed me and whenever I feel sad/alone everyone disappeared! Wow! Thankyou God!!
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Oct 1

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    WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!;((
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Seeing the good in people is easier. I am not a fault finder but for me, though I don't mean to, the bad in people just surfaces more. When I meet new people, I see these things...
    palouvega10 palouvega10 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    This would be so helpful to me. I've been in experiences where I just ended up getting hurt. I believed they could be good people, I was wrong. If this could only be a thing, I...
    nothingbutmissingyou nothingbutmissingyou 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

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    Hello dear all, I'm Shahbaz. I am posting this because I am fed up of this experience which I am having on EP. I am very friendly person and I like good company, time passes very...
    mrshahbaz mrshahbaz 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    In my heart I know there are maybe a dozen people I've met who have seriously helped me out at various points in my life. If I ever get wealthy I'd devote time,energy and money...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 8

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    Why is it so so hard to find faithful people to have as friends? These days it's so hard to come across loyal people.. As a child it seemed so easy to have friends and trust them...
    marilynnrox marilynnrox 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I am unusual and intellectual and I like finding others like me. I like to find 'gifted' people or those with a specialty, a talent. I would love to hear yours.
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    Sugary soft drinks may be linked to accelerated DNA ageing – study Research finds that people who reported drinking 350ml of fizzy drink per day had DNA changes typical of cells...
    sogdianrock sogdianrock 51-55, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I love and enjoy watching people in all kinds of situations and see what they will do. I love studying people and watching them too. I should write a book on my findings about...
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    Well, it has been a long time since i've been on here, so need to find new people to chat too... so drop me a line.. the kinkier the better
    joeybuck joeybuck 31-35, M Oct 3

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    i wish i can find new people to talk.
    berealistic811 berealistic811 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just find most people don't hold my interest
    Legionicula Legionicula 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    I have been on EP for a while. I have met some really nice people. Today I was taken advantage of by an EP member and I am furious. Someone sent my spyware. Fortunately I realized...
    moboobs moboobs 56-60, F 6 Responses Oct 14

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    I should name and shame em, if I wanted the filthy journey that would be. They either really believe they are such nice friendly people or they carry the act to the end. They don't...
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    I am not religious. But i do think about it some times. If there ever was a god I honestly don't blame him for leaving us behind xD, this world has gone off track. The least he...
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    October 24. Opening Ourselves to Love. Open ourselves to the love that is available to us. We do not have to limit our sources of love. God and the Universe have an unlimited...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    October 24. Opening Ourselves to Love. Open ourselves to the love that is available to us. We do not have to limit our sources of love. God and the Universe have an unlimited...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    "The original story here had the key words "but more importantly I wanted attention". Anyone serious about suicide will do it in a definite way, not take a bottle of Tylenol which...
    occularpatdown occularpatdown 18-21 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'm not posting this one for attention, none of them are it's just simply how I am but has shown up several times why I'm thankful I don't get close. People up and leave whenever...
    13Selene13 13Selene13 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I wish I was good enough to keep you busy. I wish I was good enough to be able to capture your attention and have you not worry about anything else. The reality that I've come to...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    Growing up with verbally abusive parents will make you question who you are, and if you're really good enough for everyone. Which is an impossible feat, but I still try to please...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Quite often people ring me up to discuss their troubles. I listen a lot but hesitate to give out too much advice because people need to make decisions for them selves and I do not...
    Wulfstan Wulfstan 70+, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Kudos to people who can handle a good conversation online and offline.
    Provinceana Provinceana 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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